Hmmmm....I am sooo pissed at Narrative number one..like WTF!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
LE BOO LOVES ME BUT......
Hi Stella
I just want you to please publish my story because I need the advice of you and bv.
I met a guy Feb 2013 although we've been chatting since 2010. When he came back from his Trip in 2013 we finally began dating. I noticed he started cheating in august he apologised. Before he started cheating I got pregnant twice and aborted both times. He travelled out in august and came back December 2013, I realised he was still cheating with this person he apologised again and we forgot it.
I got pregnant in January 2014 and lost the baby, after which he travelled out till July. In April 2014 he flew this same babe out to meet him there because I was in school and couldn't make it he apologised I forgave him. His sisters wedding came I wasn't invited but he invited the other girl. We finally broke up in august after this. I moved on and started dating somebody much older he found out and he's not taking it likely with me. I still love him and I know he loves me too but still seeing the other girl. Please advice me
Regards,
Bisola
You need a hot slap to reset your mindset!!! WTF!
How many abortions?OMG.
I will opt to sit by the side and read comments because if i leave myself i will cuss you out and land you a hot SLAP
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN LOVE ISNT FAIR.....
Stella I feel i have this ill luck with men. I am almost 26 and have dated, when i say i have dated, i mean i have dated.
And in all my relationships, i have been unlucky. I am not a demanding kinda girl. I hate to ask from a man, but i always expect him to use his head, he ain't daft, he should know a girl has got needs and all. But all d men i have dated have dat in common, tight fisted. But then if that's d only problem, i won't be complaining because these past time i have learnt to struggle for myself and not depend on any man. I have a job, though with a very meager pay, but i manage so i don't really ask.
Now i have realised that for no reason, they always walk away, even when i do everything right.
And in all my relationships, i have been unlucky. I am not a demanding kinda girl. I hate to ask from a man, but i always expect him to use his head, he ain't daft, he should know a girl has got needs and all. But all d men i have dated have dat in common, tight fisted. But then if that's d only problem, i won't be complaining because these past time i have learnt to struggle for myself and not depend on any man. I have a job, though with a very meager pay, but i manage so i don't really ask.
Now i have realised that for no reason, they always walk away, even when i do everything right.
I am not what anyone would call ugly, i am beautiful, i have been told, i am damn hot intellectually, i am told my brain is my best features, i am homely. I cook, wash do all the domestic duties expected of a wife when i'm dating. Until recently i came across a post on advice to women not to play wife until they are made one. So my recent resolve is to stop doing all dat. But this guy from nowhere thinks it is wrong of me to visit him sit and watch him cook or do d domestic chores, he says i am too proud and need to act like a woman... #confused face#
What am i not doing right? I have sex with them, they walk away, i decide to close my legs, they still walk away. I know i have problems with my temper, when i am irritated, i get so rude and curt. But i have never exhibited that to a man i am dating.
These men wrong me and when i become human and get all peeved, they say i have no right to be and the next thing they go AWOL, extricate themselves from me, stop communication and after i wait a while for them to come around and they don't, i cry and continue living.
What is wrong with me? I wanna get married, mom and everyone in the house are already waiting coz it's just me, i have no sibling.
What is wrong with me? I wanna get married, mom and everyone in the house are already waiting coz it's just me, i have no sibling.
Is there something i am not doing right? Please i need to know.
And P.S, i no longer have a life, my job has turned me to a robot. I get home 9pm everyday, when i say everyday, Sunday inclusive. So i have no idea where and how i am supposed to meet a man.
Honey let me read comments.your situation sounds like you are emotionally traumatised. God bless you and fix this.
Chronicles.....
ReplyDelete*shivers*
Jesus fix it every where,tout u guys were against dat phrase,now u can't write without including it,human beings!
DeleteLMAO @ first post.
DeleteHad a good laugh when saw the 'slap'.
Why do I feel that story is fake?
A bored somborry trying to get us all worked up with a stupid story.
I mean, no one is that daft yeah?
Abeg oh, I no get strength to talk.
Poster 2,
#Hugs
Poster 2, ask someone close to you that would tell you the truth, or check within yourself if you have any of these: 1. Mouth odour 2. Pussy odour 3. Body odour. These things turn men off easily but they hardly tell their gfs, they just walk away without knowing how to say it.
DeletePoster 1, so you've been a side chick and aborter of pregnancies.... Why won't your past catch up with you? They say "fool me once.....", I'm sure you can finishe the rest. I just hope other young ladies learn from you daftness and pray you find a solution.
DeletePoster 2, you are 25 and already this desperate for marriage? Maybe they've been going AWOL because they could smell your desperation. It's actually not an attractive feature for guys, they usually just 'hit and run' when they notice that in you. Calm down and live your life, stop being desperate and look out for the right guy, not any available one just because you're in haste to marry. It isn't advisable to do wifely duties outside of marriage but you can also help out when he's cooking for you while you visit (not take over, just help out) and stay away from psychopaths. I'm 34 and just about to get married. It's not the end of the world at your age dear. It is better they run away now than for you to be stuck in a miserable marriage..... Best of luck
@ n1, seems you love skin to skin abi them no dey sell condoms around where you and your bf resides? See as you just dey take in as if say na water. Na waa ooo
DeletePoster 1, e-slaps!!!!!! What da heck is wrong with you? That's not a rship now, you shud learn to be strong and walk away from what or who doesn't make you better.
DeletePoster 2, oh dear...it will end in praise. Yes, stop doing wifely duties for dem, don't drop P* if u can. Remember to be a bit firm and always be yourself! When in his house, u can assist a bit, don't make it compulsory. Don't over-do it. Hope u don't wash der clothes..hian! A guy shud make efforts to try to please you...or are you d one doing d whole 'pleasing' in d rship? Also check that the guy u re dating loves you as well. If you need somethn, don't be afraid to ask! Please be asking oooo. Reprimand him when necessary, in a subtle way.
Read motivational/inspirational books. You may need to attend women seminars and programs to understand how men reason/act and hear others' rship experiences so u can learn more. Keep working on urself. Bad temper na serious ish ooo, drop it like it's hot. Be polite all d time. Remain confident. Pray for God's favour to locate you.
You work on Sundays too, so how do you find time to visit bobo to be cooking and washing???
Anon 19:29
DeleteSooo true.
Lol @ all the odour mentioned.
DeleteI agree with u anonymous 19:29
DeleteJust negodu!
ReplyDeleteIt's well!
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Poster 2, you need to start looking for a job that will give you time for yourself. I believe you have been meeting wrong guys or better said beds of a feather. Why not just stop dating for now, focus on getting a new job and get a social life. Party, watch movies, go for holidays, make dates with your girlfriends and be generally happy. Somehow you will find the one in your natural state of happiness. Poster 1 continue to love him, and do more D and Cs it's normal after all you are in love. You get mind.
Delete...
ReplyDeletePlease poster 1, that guy is not in love with you at all. You are not even his girlfriend, his a manipulative psychopath.
DeleteYou are a side chick. ..
Nne can't you see it. ...
He is using you to satisfy his sexual desires whenever his main chick is not around.
You sound soo naive, you love this guy but he doesn't love you I repeat he doesn't love you. You sound like a child .. leave this guy ASAP
Drop him like his hot. .. osiso
Big *sigh*
DeletePoster 1 I couldn't even read Poster 2 I had to come and comment...u are an oloshi, a stupid ode, senseless animashaun...I feel like giving u slaps as in reflex slaps...Oya enough insults! Get ur ass up and cut every form of communication from that Bastard. He doesn't give a fuck about you, he doesnt like u and doesn't like to see u progress that's y he is back, cut him off, I know those kinda bastards, u are his puppet, he knows what to say to make u come back to him and believe him, he is a liar and will deny anything to ur face...if u know u still have some sense of self worth in u...tell ur self this everyday, Enough of bullshit, "I deserve better, I refuse to be used as a piece of shit, I will be better than my past mistakes"
DeleteLol @anonymous 20:49 poster 1 sounds like someone I used to know. Smh
DeletePoster 2. There nothing wrong with u dear.. well, not unless u have something on ur body that's chasing them. If it's just by the characteristics u explained here, then it means you've not met ur match, or the ones uv met are too demanding.
Please o, ladies should not put to practice every advice they read online, because not everyone can pull through some things. If u are dating and u feel the need to cook for ur man, wash his clothes or whatever else, please by all means do it. I'm not asking u to impress any man by doing this, do it because it is what u want to do, and perhaps is the right thing to do whenever the opportunity presents itself.
Cos this latest trend of... "do not do wife duties if u are just a GF" should be guided by ur discretion. No man should dump a woman who refused to do his chores, and in the same breath, a man who's homely may decide to leave u if ur ability to do is chores is one of his prerequisite to finding a wife. It's an added value and NOT the main reason any man will consider to marry u or not. Just as a lady has a standard her man must meet, so also do men have their standards. Note this.
Some people will soon lose their relationships because they misguidedly followed some advice that doesn't apply to their own relationship. Every man is different biko, deal with urs accordingly.
OK bye
narrator number 1
ReplyDeletejesus will fix you cos you are loosing it.just like sdk said,you need hot slaps to reset u back to factory settings
Poster1.like seriously,are you ok?
ReplyDeletePls move on fast
If not you will do another abortion for him
Poster2.Relax,the right man will locate you
Thank God you have a good job
P1 major side chick with low brain
ReplyDeleteP2 I dunno what made those man not stay, but that rubbish U learnt onhere u r practicing. I really pity ur life! U come, sit, watct tv n do nothin... Continue o!
I can bet EmJay sent that narrative
ReplyDeleteKeep on dreaming lost soul.
DeleteKikikikiikikikikikkiikikikikikiki!
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Haba anonymous stop this.
DeleteIt's enough please.
Na wah oh poster 1,
ReplyDeleteHow can you still love someone that has been cheating constantly on you...making you go through that painful D & C countless times....
You be Mumu ohh...
Am sure he does not give you money..,
Osho free!!...
Abeg move on with your life...imagine the nonsense love...
Love mgbo!!...
Poster 2,
You are not meeting the right people...
Since you are so hooked with your job,why don't you marry your job then...
Well I have seen your type of cases in my church...your type has a spiritual partner that is chasing those men away...
You need a deliverance...
Everything is spiritual husband. TB Joshua has really brain washed you.
DeleteJudge Judy
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteI need to know the native doctor wey cut jazz for this your guy oh. Na Stella I wan use this jazz for.
Poster 2
Everybody seems to be beautiful and intelligent these days. Maybe bcos say you get yansh small oh, u go characterise as beauty. Black man and half chance. Then bcos say u manage graduate with 2.1., u go say u dey intelligent. Believe me, u damn liar, a truly beautiful and intelligent lady is like a goddess in this society, bcos they are rare. What happens most of the time is girls wey fine small, but with empty heads go claim "intellligent". And those wey know book but wey no try physically, go claim "beauty". Monkeys!
Una too dey lie.
I am just tired of Nigerians.
Lol... Me I don tire since... Evryday, we keep hearing "I'm beautiful, I'm intelligent in a reputable sch, even Ama kip kip fans too wld tag themselves gorgeous.... Iv given up.
DeleteHahaha @@ money makes you .... and white prints, you get better crase oo. Lol. Everyone wan turn miss Nigeria by force. Lmao
DeleteBeauty is skin deep...If u Blv u are a swan, den dts Wat u are...lol...please leave our girls alone...They r beautiful and intelligent... Ladies beauty nd intelligence can't mk a man wife u tho...only money and bomb pussy cat will mk dem want to marry u...dez days d men r worse gold diggers Dan d women. ..lol....wen I hear my frnds talk abt d kinda girls dey wanna marry ehhhh, I jus laff nd shake my head...beauty nd intelligence witout a fat acct balance or rich daddy won't gt dem hooked to u...so y'all can like to dream on...
DeleteBeautiful and intelligent women are not that rare and I know this cos I'm one and I say this with all modesty. You just have to find them cos we typically won't be at the clubs n bars which I guess u hang out most times that's why u have not seen them. U will find us in places where serious stuff go down like business seminars, church (yes I said it), premium hotels (cos after all that brain storming u need a place to lay your head), and some fun stops but not all the time, airports etc. We are not boring just very busy which might make us look boring to flaky guys who want someone to sext them, send nude pics, cook for them n still pay the bills mtcheww. No time for that as we are busy preparing to rule the world. The downside are those lonely days cos your intelligent brain does not hug you or provide that shoulder to lean on but don't shortchange yourself. There is a man for you who will be the air beneath your wings, love you and let you fly. Those are the kind of men we want. Powerful men (in every sense of the word) not boys who just want to fuck, eat free jollof rice and your money n still dump you in the name of love.
DeleteChei poster 1 how many abortions? eeeeewww ,ake God forgive us all as we all be sinner but be careful now at ur age how many pikin u don kill
ReplyDeletelike i said God go forgive
p2 check urself i dont know why all you babes always expect man to give you money and stuffs while dating i taya for nigerian babes i swear most are just beggers .
cus me and die young....
Men issues again? I'll pass
ReplyDeleteWhat would women talk about if not about men? Its men that validates women, that's why no matter how you see them insult and demonize men, once stella posts single and mingle post, they would all be posting their bbm pins , phone numbers and their fathers name joined including their villages and every every. If women don't talk about men, what else would they talk about??? Men are evil, men are wicked, men are cheats but when its time single and mingle, all of them go dey find the men. That's why most of them meet the evil ones bcuz they spend all their lives condemning men and calling them evil.
DeleteLmao @ anonymous
DeletePoster 1: you be mumu. Are you out of your damn hinges? By the time you settle down will you have anything left to offer to your husband? Infact, you deserve this situationship. I can't believe your story is real. Wake the fuck up!!! Tomorrow, you will be frequenting churches praying for the fruit of the womb because you were busy using abortion as birth control. May God pity your soul.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: my dear nothing is wrong with you. You need to pray and let God handle it. Exam how you approach these men. Hopefully, you are not showing desperation when you meet them. Just pray and let God take it from here. You will get all your heart desires IJN, amen.
Poster 1: mtttsssss.....abeg abeg abeg.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1
ReplyDeletePlease brake up with Your current guy and go back to that Your cheating ex that has no regards for you. And Please when you go back to him, be sure He's still dating the other girl, if He's not dating her again, Please don't go back to him. So Please Please and Please go back to him. Hehehe Good girl *shines teeth* That's my advice for u.
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Afi brake,cluth nko?
DeleteI was gonna type something meaningful but this reply just erased everything from my head.. clutch gba ni ooo hahahahaha
DeleteStella let me join my and with yours to make the slap hotter so this girl @ postter one will receive sense well well..
ReplyDeletePoster no 1, I dnt insult or use abusive words on pple bt I am forced to....R U MAD? can u see dt u r a fucking tool? Dt guy is goin to marry dt babe Infact dt girl is his main gf,delete his number nd tell ursef 2 wise up nd get a beta person
ReplyDeletePoster1,why does it sound like you are talkn about AYO/SEUN williams.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, asides for a little difference in the story, I would have sworn that I sent in that narrative. The reason why they "LEAVE" without any quarrels or issues still leaves me in confusion till date. I hope I get answers from people's comments.
ReplyDeletePoster 1:i have a very nice pair of slippers that will slap u bk into reality.WTF? I need to shout,WOMAN OGINI? ABORTIONS everyday yet nigga already knows who his wife is, n I'm glad u know her too.That geh who has control of her brain n isn't laying eggs like a chicken.Ngwanu be thinking of him that is not taking it likely cos u r dating someone else.Hes fooling u n wants u to remain d chic he plays arnd with while he sends u invitation card.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: ur chronicle reminds me of the gist of the '' I'm looking for a man who I will wash his clothes, brush his teeth, make his bed, germinate kiss on his head'' n I remember ppl telling her she will soon send in her chronicles, I almost tot it's happening already.
Nyways, who told u that bcos uv crossed d 25 mark that God has moulded a husband n kept inside cooling room for u? U musnt get married cos ur fam feels it's time.Wait on God,ud see d signs that u r ready.Marriage ain't beans,those who want to b sincere will tell u.Nw hurry along n enjoy being single ur divine time is approaching.
Stella d way u post comments dis days kill my morale,damn too slowww! Poster1, aka baby factory,u need a resounding slap,to reset ur brain,did u say u were preggy thrice? He cheated,flew her to meet him? Invited her to his sister's wedding instead of u? You re d side chick mehhhhh,then u met somebody,and he is angry? Tout u broke up wit him,just read ur chronicle again,and u will find d sense in u need in jesus name,Amenn!
DeletePoster2,u close frm work 9pm? U need to start searching for another job,also try to go for deliverance.
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Poster 1 i cant waste my time advising you.. please move go one side...
DeletePoster 2 jare let me talk to you. . Ur situation sounds a lot like a friend of mine.. hmmm i may be wrong but i think wat u are not doing right is your choice of men.. my friend is beautiful, got an amazing body intelligent and very humble though from a rich home, she still gets dumped by men.. u know why? She always go for the worst guys because they're hot and very attractive, she says looks matter to her alot..she believes in d picture perfect couple tn. Hence she tries so hard to turn these hot hooligans to husbands or serious bfs. It can never work neither has it ever worked. Hence im assuming this may be ur case too. If it is, u need to re-evaluate and watch things work out for u.
Poster 1 is very very xtremely dumb. Poster 2 sounds desperate. Both shld gt a life
DeleteEm Jay, abegi shut up your toto there.
DeleteBlogging no be moi moi.
Stella dey try her best. U dey even talk sef, what of Linda wey take almost 10 hours to post comments sometimes?
If only every humanbeings head were to be transparent to see the brain, you'd see sum clouded in cobwebs and mushrooms cus they don't access that space, lemme blv poster 1 is a joke, but really thr re ppl this stupid
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha @clouded with cobwebs and mushroom.
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At poster 2, I feel for u and truly as Stella said u sound traumatised. Love will fine you, ok. You will have what is yours. Just be yourself in any relationship you find yourself in. Don't go with what is written by someone else that's their own experience and thinking. Do you and be you. Come on, smile. It will be ok, alright. Pray to God n ask for guidance.
DeleteClouded with cobwebs n mushroom got me laughing but seriously are their girls who are still this stupid
DeletePoster 1 u need a brain reset abi brain robot
I could not hold it bck,
DeleteHahahahahhaahhaahahahahahha
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Lmfao! You nailed it ! Some people are really that stupid !
DeletePoster I, I think ure high on cheap drugs. Poster 2 God will fix u
ReplyDeletethat first poster,do u hate urself that much?
ReplyDeleteposter 2,u mean u work on Sundays too??? when do u spend time with God,as in worship hours,wat kind of a job is that? u nid to be close to God,so you can find answers to ur problems, when do u hv time to visit d men u hv dated? meanwhile don't play wife role,sex inclusive, u nid to locate solution to ur problems, it may be spiritual.
Probably she is a doctor
DeletePoster 1: you are STUPID
ReplyDeletePoster 2: work harder in your own career, a man is not an atm machine
She is not only stupid . Curse det follow her head. Poster 1, are u this daft or you are just pretending to be. Bcos nobody should be this mumu o. You need Jesus to fix your head.
DeleteRukky
Poster 1: pls I want to know who raised you ...a woman or a man ...or relatives ? There's something fundamentally wrong with ur psychic make up.
DeleteThis is why , you don't sound upset ,cheated or pained that the fool wasted 4years of ur life ....neither do u feel betrayed seeing him with his MAIN CHIC after all the abortions and empty promises . So pls who raised you?!
What could have gingered you to send in a chronicle ? You are ur own problem, uve laid ur bed ..now gently lie ur extremely weak low self esteem body and sleep .
And for your info ..a man knows who he can wife after 3/4 months of dating ...u will never be his wife ,think about it ..why should he promote you when he can have u as a fuck
Buddy forever..and if he can, some other man can ...so I repeat ,why should he wife you?
Poster 1 you need a slap to reset your brain like stella said. Jesus fix it for poster 2
ReplyDeleteposter 1: stupid girls like you are the reason men behave like dogs....leave the negroe alone, he doesn't love you....but if you are too brainwashed by love to leave him alone, I only pray and ask jesus to fix you and reset your brain....
ReplyDeleteposter 2: men are mostly self centered, nothing wrong with you.....as a 44 year old who has been married 10 years and have seen a fair share of life, continue to tie your legs together and pretend to be a mermaid.. nothing wrong in helping a guy out if you are his friend but if he acts like its your job cos you are a woman and he is fucking you then he isn't worth it and it shows how he rates women....I never cooked for my husband 1 day before he proposed but now I give him a feast of finger licking food at every meal...a wife is not a girlfriend so till they put a ring on it, don't slave for any man...when your prince come you wont sweat it....relax, be happy and enjoy life. marriage is not the ultimate in life
Thank you ma'am.
DeleteYou saved me from typing....
Thank you anon 15:18.. you brought the words right out of my mouth.. same thing that happens to me.. just decided to focus on other things.. the right man will stay with you poster 2.. 1john2:19
DeleteYeah. I support not performing wifely duties as a girlfriend but if you visit and you feel like helping out, not taking over housechores by all means do. A good man would definitely appreciate that. But don't feel pressured to impress. What workworked for one person may not work for you.
DeleteNarrative 1- You are too foolish to be a Blog visitor.. Gerrarahia.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2- I am so sorry hun.Kinda confused about what to say but I really think you need to find happiness with yourself, be yourself, be happy and not feel pressured. At low moments like this is when the miracle come up. E-hugs.
that first poster,do u hate urself that much?
ReplyDeleteposter 2,u mean u work on Sundays too??? when do u spend time with God,as in worship hours,wat kind of a job is that? u nid to be close to God,so you can find answers to ur problems, when do u hv time to visit d men u hv dated? meanwhile don't play wife role,sex inclusive, u nid to locate solution to ur problems, it may be spiritual.
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteyou are very stupid (no apologies)
Poster 2
Big hug dear
There is nothing wrong with u
we just have more of the irresponsible than the responsible men out there.
I hate reading chronicles. .
Too many sad tales!
POSTER 2: WHAT YOU ARE NOT DOING RIGHT IS "OPENING OF LEGS". a MAN WILL ALWAYS WALK AWAY WHEN HE HAD HAD ENOUGH (SEX)OF YOU.THOSE TIMES YOU WERE NOT HAVING SEX, DO NOT THINK THINGS WILL GET RIGHT; YOU HAVE INCURRED ENOUGH CURSES ON YOURSELF FROM EXPOSING YOUR SPIRIT VIA SEX. SEEK JESUS.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 1: YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT LOVE IS!
1. Don't you love yourself? You've been aborting for someone who takes another person more seriously than you and can't wife you yet you still want to go back to him after God has delivered you from a future disaster? Abi na until you abort all the kids God has destined for you before you'll receive sense? Babe move on I beg of you before you destroy your life.
ReplyDelete2. Stop having sex with them, stop the wifely roles you've been playing, pray and let God settle you.
Poster 1,ur only concern now should be having healthy kids in future. U're so naive!!! Please how old are you? 3abortions! a dead baby! And you're still not thinking? What on earth is wrong with you? Babe, u need to let go of men in general for now and work on yourself. While at it, stop forgiving this your master, its obvious that the guy is using you since you don't know how to close your legs
ReplyDeletePoster 2, work on yourself, make money, more money and plenty money, love will find you.
Poster 1 dat guy does not love you get that straight.
ReplyDeleteposter 1. you're one of earth's greatest fools. harsh right? yes u deserve it, so you're too blind to read hand writing on the wall, you dey find advice up and down, read your narrative again and maybe you'll find out where the stupidity lies. i'm sure this is advice enough, you should get it
ReplyDeleteposter1.continue forgiving u hear and be kiling urself too,may God forgive you for all the abortions.smh
ReplyDeleteposter2.i pray the lord helps you find the right one
NO1 u r wasting ur time,dat guy dosnot love u ok,biko gather sense u hear,u we're just d side chick,u still want a guy u ve aborted hw many times 4?huh sm girls sha how una take dae reason sef??this is really annoying u need serious knock to reset ur brain...
ReplyDeleteNO2 nothing is wrong with u,the right man ll com someday ok..
Poster 1 are u insain u do one do two now u want leave the guy waka just like dat . Wht if u never have kids again .u better take a back seat and rethink ur life cos u have a lot of issues to work on I must say . Poster 2 nothing is wrong with just stop sleeping with them and be patient when ur man comes u won't believe it plus u are still young stop being too hard on ur self
ReplyDelete*insane
Deleteposter 2 fast and pray, it might not be you. maybe them mofos are just too blind to see they have a good woman, next time you date don;t put in your all, make it 50-50 so you don't get hurt when they walk away.
ReplyDeletePoster1 u r the most stupid senseless being in the whole universe, u no dey shame side chic, poster2 I pray u find true love soon.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 u nEed serious kunck 4 ur head 2 reset dat dull brain of urs,biko gather brain small u hear...poster 2 nothing is wrong with u,the right man ll com soon...
ReplyDeletePoster one: Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew Triple......... go back naà , shey he loves u and u love him too, go and keep d fire burning, oshisco..........
ReplyDelete2:The truth is there is no manual to keep a man/woman, common sense is d key besides what works for A might not work for B, just apply common sense and be urself , don't live another person's life. Do what u enjoy doing but know when to draw d line a beg cos of see finish syndrome, don't become a slave/ play wild cos u wanna keep a man, use ur head . U may think ur job/ busy schedule can prevent u from getting a man but u don't know if he is watching from a distance or d time may not be now. Babes focus on ur job and allow nature take its course in due season.
Poster 1 receive sense in Jesus name, pls move on the hand writing on the wall is well written that it doesn't need interpretation again, that's how u would be there and he marries the said girl, there is nothing to advise here, stop being a fool for any man to ride on
ReplyDeletePoster 2 ur case is some how, anyway be patient ur right man wud come.
Poster number one, something is definitely wrong.
ReplyDeleteYou mean, you've been having an ago for a guy that has a girlfriend and you're comfortable being the sidechick,or do you need anyone to tell you that?
Nwanne,saa anya,nke a bu akuko onye egbuwara isi.
I'm sure you've got claims to beauty, but none to self esteem.
He loves you fah?
Please, if this is how love is,i never want to be in love.
From your narrative, you'll probably go back to be mentally,psychologically and emotionally abused again, so wetin we wan talk?
Or is it because he's well to do?
Infact,make I read comments.
Poster two,hmmm.
Your narrative is dicey.
I don't know what you're doing wrong, but all I know it that you're on the right track, by refusing to play wife has a guy that's not put a ring on it.
Don't give up though.
Love will certainly find you.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Poster 1 Move on with your life
ReplyDeleteHe wants to eat her cake and have your own join (if you let him STUPIDITY is your first name)
Poster 2 Leave men alone for now!
Get your act together enjoy your life as a single woman, change your wardrobe (turn your clothes over all the ones buried inside bring them out add a few pices)
Have fun making yourself over (change your style if you are know for fixing bob change to center part abi what do you call it)
Poster 1:you don't know what you want,if you don't know whr ure goin Anywhr will look like it.a guy cheatin with the same person and you stil wnt to go and put ur head,im sorry for you....
ReplyDeletePoster2:i think you need prayers,you might be under the influence of a spirit husband,som pple don't blive this,but it doesn't have to be posted on ur forehead for one to know,if you notice the trend of happenings in ur relationship you will know it's not ordinary.i advice you go for deliverance.
Chai
ReplyDeleteI have being on reading mode for some days now
Poster one forced me out
Poster one you are a fool
You abort numerous times for a guy who you claim is cheating on you with a particular girl
Ode he is cheating on her with you and to him you are a useless piece of garbage that's why he doesn't care if you have a hysterectomy in the process of your numerous abortions.
PS,,,,is this poster one for real or its pure fiction?
Are people still this foolish?
Poster two
I have nothing too tell you
I guess others will
Poster 1 seems lyk a nigerian movie script
ReplyDeletePoster 2, plz keep calm, d right person who wil love u in more ways Dan 1 will come, we women are diff, some marry early, some in dier mid/twenties. Dnt b in a hurry. It is well
@poster 1...walk away and don't let your greed consume you. @poster 2...I understand your plight. Just get closer to God n prolly go for deliverance. Some things are more than ordinary. Read your Psalm 85 daily n trust in God. All will be well
ReplyDeletePoster 1 how can you be my namesake and be this foolish? Ahhhhh, you are foolish!. Let me go and read 2nd narrative
ReplyDelete#1 - Love keh! The next thing you'll see is definitely his IV if you go back to him. You're not a kid pls use your head.
ReplyDeleteP1: U need Jesus really. That's d only advice u need. Find Him and d rest is history. Even with several abortions, God still loves u.
ReplyDeleteP2: Don't do things in desperation. U end up making mistakes, I assure u. Sex is ONLY in marriage. Pls keep ur dignity and tie ur legs till u are married. A man who insists on sex from u before he marries u doesn't respect u and I doubt he loves u. Ur body is d highest gift to give to any man. Why not give ur body back to d Lord and wait for ur husband patiently. God keeps covenants.
Work on ur temper. We all have our shortcomings, but God is very able to help us overcome. Respect ur body. Don't yield it to every tom, dick and harry that struts along.
Even with ur busy schedule u can still make out time to mingle, can't you? Create time! I am not in a hurry to say Jesus fix it because He only will when u ask Him to...have u? Have u invited Him to take over the reigns of ur life?
My blog can also be helpful. U can check it out. I have stuffs on relationship eg dos and don't if u want to settle down. I assure u it is helpful. It's
www.mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com.
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteJust check urself into a cele church so that they can flog sense into you. From day 1 he has been cheating and u werent invited 2 a family function and d other girl was and you are there talking thrash. Well u know he doesnt take u serious and u r just his fucking machine. Maybe he enjoys the unprotected sex and thats where it ends.
Poster2..
Truth is there nothing wrong with u if all u say is true. Alot of men wont want to marry a woman they arnt sure can take care of the home doing things like cook, clean, etc. I say do the rest but dont sleep with them. Learn to choose the advise that suits u. Am sure if those advise u read here worked, u would hv started dating, so be careful advise u follow.
Please does anyone know a strong man of God in Enugu? Please it's urgent
DeleteBisola.....Sorry to burst ur bubble n wake u up from your euphoric slumber/assumption but lets call a spade a spade. U need to get yourself out of the hole you've created and trapped urself in, believing he loves you...by assuming he still wants you, you are orchestrating your own depression. He has kept you since 2010.....Time/duration doesn't define emotions. Men use this strategy to keep a girl as their constant fuckmate while they end up selecting a wife, getting married and still acting possessive towards you after they've settled with someone else. I am a man and would advice you to never put your life on hold because of any man.....God has made life such that a day we waste can never come back to us. This is your youth honey, infact every lady should be cautious on how she spends her life between the ages of 20 - 30. It defines a lot and can shapen or dampen her future...psychologically and in other ways. Donot trap yourself by yourself.
ReplyDeleteFinal Advice....Avoid this dude like a plague and while at it, get stronger, develop yourself. Come out strong and do it for you not like you are doing it to show him that you can live without him. Thats the greatest pay back.....be independent and take that bold step....WALK honey and donot look back, he doesn't deserve you.
Li-yon Vls.
I just fell in love with u, hey dude don't get me wrong it's Agape love, u just nailed it, u must be a matured guy for this comment, don't know when girls will ever learn, plz get an ID.
DeleteWell said
DeletePoster one, u are just a sex object to the so called guy. And in ur mind u think u are Dating. Sorry is ur name
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Don't go back to your vomit
ReplyDeleteNma's Blog
You need a hot slap to reset your mindset!!! WTF!
ReplyDeleteHow many abortions?OMG.
I will opt to sit by the side and read comments because if i leave myself i will cuss you out and land you a hot SLAP
hahahaha...Stella, you don talk am finish. I am slapping the mumu girl already
POSTER 1,the only reason why I won't cuss u out is because I am fasting. But believe me when I say u need help.
ReplyDelete@poster1 na yeye dey worry you. Keep waiting for us to tell you what to do.
ReplyDelete@poster2 it might be spiritual. Take your time and talk to God or go to any MFM church close to you and register for deliverance. Thank me later.
Poster 1.
ReplyDeleteNne idigodu ezigbote stupid. Dika stupidology is what you've been studying your whole life.
"I still love him and I know he loves me too but still seeing the other girl". Ibu nnoo ezigbote ode. I am so pissed. And tomorrow you'll say he never exhibited those character while we dated.
Isn't it obvious to you that you're the dodo side chick, you're so pliable. He can twist you anyhow yagayaga and you'll keep falling. You need help because n'Ãsà adiro gi nma.
mchwwwwwwwww
Poster 2
Babe please get off your mind from men and work on yourself.
Do ladies even give their self time to heal and reevaluate again after a failed relationship? At 26 you have dated and you mean you have dated, mbanu.
Back them when mothers were girls, we used to go 6months or a minimum of 3 months after a situationship so we can heal, learn and properly move on.
Anger in a woman is a terrible thing. Even if you don't exhibit your madness, it always leaks from your expression and words when you have issues with your man.
Work on your emotions and please pause everyone that's trying to put pressure on you like Arti paused Gyatri, you're not that old yet.
U wont kil me with ur ibo typing lols
DeleteHahahhahahahahaahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
DeleteAri oooooo
LMAO @ idigodi ezigbote nzuzu.
ROTFL @ Dika Stupidiology is wot u have bn studying ur whole life LMAO
That Póster bu nno Eke nwe Ofia!
Monkey Ebiliekwe.
Poster 1.... Am forced 2 say dat ure dumb and dnt knw wat u wnt 4 urself. Am vexed wit u big time., I suppose use cane flog ur bom bom well. Rubbish.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, what u should be asking is " am i the main Chick or side chick? Poster 2, wait for the nxt S and M, or add my pin *winks*
DeletePoster one receive sense as u don't have any at all. Keep on aborting for the guy o.if he manages to marry u and u now find it hard to conceive he won't remember the abortions.he will go out and get another woman pregnant.oponu ode oshi.
ReplyDeletePoster two I don't think there is anything wrong with u.the right guy will most definitely come along when it's time,but in the meantime sweetheart work on ur temper and ur mouth.its possible these guys saw u tongue lashing somebody and got scared.but I believe they are not meant for u.
The SLAP given to poster no 1 is too soft, i prefer a more severe SLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP for that poster! Poster 2; Evaluate yourself again you will see where you got it all wrong because you were not meant for only the workaways!
ReplyDeleteposter2,ur case is kinda spiritual.now listen up.can u leave ur environment? i mean go start life where nobody knows u or can locate u and try to have a spiritual father...good luck #sipsholywater #
ReplyDeletethe 1st narrative the girl should be SLAPPED. do they still have such stupid people on this earth in 2015 na wa ooooh. the 2nd narrative the girl should calm down. there is no rush in dating. in fact she should not date anybody for one year. in that year she should love her self;enjoy her own company. she will see the difference.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Please the evil man is not into you and worse he has made you think it is okay to kill your own flesh and blood. My dear, read what you wrote and see with your own eyes that you are the side chic.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Just leave men alone for now. Live a little and have fun, it should not be all about men. You should have all your fun now (within reason though). Enjoy yourself now because when marriage comes you will not be able to do all the things you want to. Give yourself some space and please, please, please always be yourself. God bless
Poster 1, 3 abortions??? I really don't believe the last was a miscarriage. He loves you you say? You deserve a hot slap truly. You should be happy he finally left you because I can see you couldn't have left that relationship yourself no matter how bad he treats you. Close your eyes and let us pray*clears throat* Dear Lord, please give poster 1 some sense IJN I pray. Amen!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I don't think you have any problem. You just haven't met your own man. Pray, pray and keep praying. Your man will locate you even if you close work by 12am. God has a way of doing His things. Your job will not stop Him from letting your own man locate you. Just trust him and be a good person.
God works in mysterious ways.
Poster 1, you need a hard reset..
ReplyDeletePoster 2, Spiritual husband things. Visit the nearest MFM branch closest to you
Hahahaha Stella pls don't slap anyone o leave dem abeg we need some dumb people 2 make people like me laugh abeg poster 1 you good 2 go continue he truly loves you but hasn't shown it yet ok. Be patient.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, receive sense in Jesus Name!
ReplyDeleteThe right guy dat deserve u will come in short while. Jesus will fix u.
ReplyDeletePoster One: I was so disgusted reading your chronicle. I've never seen such display of low self-esteem.
ReplyDeleteMy God! Orikwo!!!
Abeg, forget men & work on yourself jor. Imagine! Mtecheew!
Poster 2: please you two work on yourself biko. What are doing wrong? NOTHING!!!
Stop servicing men. Believe in yourself, pray and be positive... hubby dey come, na you go tire.
STORIES @ ALIFEDIARY
Poster 1,you are a fool. I have no advice for you.
ReplyDeleteStop being uptight @ poster 2
ReplyDeletePoster 2.....I perceive something bout your personality....You feel you are lil short of perfect and pple who feel this way tend to make errors when they receive advices or information as they try to carry out every instruction to the letter. There is no perfect advice for how to relate with a spouse but men who meet ladies who feel they are close to perfect, end up feeling satisfied after the sex cos the feeling is akin to that which a hunter feels after slaying a lion.....and wht happens afterwards ??? They loose interest.
ReplyDeletePlease take life easy and know that we can't force love on ourselves.....call me old fashioned, but i'm one of the few pple who still believe that when love comes; it sweeps you off your feet and if he is perfect for you....He'll adore you and make your life smooth for as long as destined. While you wait, please try to lessen wht you carry on ur mind and live freely....advices are guidelines not rules. There is always an optimal balance....as you read here dt a lady shldnt act like a wife until she's been down d aisle....doesnt mean you'll avoid doin som stuff for your man. Live, love and always pray to God. Cheers dear
Li-yon Vls.
Love your advice sir.i hope poster 2 take note here
DeleteIn Em jay's voice, Jesus fix this
ReplyDeleteI hate it when ladies carry men matter for their head like all these people wey dey sell gala for hold-up(go slow).
ReplyDeleteposter1: after d first D&C u did for dis guy, u still went ahead to get preggy again for him.my dear, leave dat guy and forget about him. He is a typical example of a PLAYER
Poster2:Prayer is d key
Poster 2, are you sure you are not FAT?
ReplyDeletelwkmd.......hahahhhahahahahaahahahahahah
DeleteIf she dey fat nko?
DeletePoster 1: Forget about that guy and face your life,he never loved you and never will.The signs were already there when you started dating him,you just didn't heed.
ReplyDeleteStop selling yourself short for anyone,you deserve way better.
Poster 2:You enter into relationships doing things wrongly,make God your number one and watch Him move in your life.
P1u need hot slap as Stella said,receive sense,P2 let Jesus fix it
ReplyDeleteIs it just me, or does it appear as though someone else may be writing for Chizoba.
ReplyDeleteHer writing style has become intelligent and less provocative(don't fall my hand o).
Or come to think of it, maybe she plans to drop another Video soon.
God bless your(Chizoba) hustle sha.
Poster 1: My advice is u should go back to d guy since he really loves u...give him another chance ok? And make sure u keep forgiving him everytime he cheats and also remove all d children in ur womb ok? U are a good girlfriend. ..oma_ale jatijati. ...Oloriburuku somebody. .go and die there. .since u don't have brain...u better go for deliverance if it his penis that has jazzed u. ..see ur mouth like I know he loves me. .mumu. .
ReplyDeleteAbeg make I go read number 2...
Stella why didnt u slap her, i dont have advice for poster no1! poster 2 pls give yourself sometime out of any relationship than pray and check ursel deeply and see if there is anything u ar nt doing right. a man dt deserve you will come by.
ReplyDeletePoster two. Look for a different job no matter how long it takes. Dats where your change will come from. You can't be cheated by love and still be cheated career wise. Biko pick a struggle.
ReplyDeletePoster one. Na movie script be this? Are you this naturally dumb or you are vying for the president of Dumb People's Association?
Haha@ pick a struggle
DeleteMy dear, u needs God's forgiveness in ur life.3 Abortion for one person,u know he was cheating on u yet u took in for him.just pray dat u hv kids when u finally settled down.
ReplyDeleteP1:
ReplyDeletePlease just chop chicken n die!..
P2:
Trust me down right guy will come. U just 26 4 heavens sakes.dont b under any stupid pressure.n yes don't act wife wen u still dating.u can help cook n tidy up but don't rest mk email find cleaner. Guys these days De find already made wife. .mtchewwww
N1- so mumu like u still de exist for this our age & time eh kwa smh Dey dia make the guy de use him Prick dey sabotage ur destiny u hear, so if dem no tell u, u no go know say na side chic u be baa? Twenty first century learner like u mtscheew
ReplyDeleteMy dear help me Ask am, some chics. Dey 4get deir brain 4 deir mama womb wen dey were born
DeletePoster 1: receive another hot slap from me gbam! U r a very stupid girl.I don't like cursing pple but in ur case, u need double portion of it as u really deserve it. Continue aborting for that bastard u hear! See ur mouth like u realised he is still cheating with dis person. U r nothing but a floor mat to him. He is cheating on his girl with u. U no even reach side chick level! U r just a fuckmate which he uses to step down when his girlfriend is not around. U said u moved on and he is not taking it lightly with u. I bu ezigbo idiot of the highest order. So for ur mind he loves u abi.he has been cheating on u (in ur own words) since 2013 with the same person and u couldn't read the handwriting on the wall. U no reach pple wey dem dey fly out to obodo oyibo abi? U no reach pple wey dem dey invite for his sister wedding abi? Abeg comot for road make we see beta pple. Afukwana iberibe! Mtchew! *Spits on u* omo ale jati jati! Continue loving him and continue to believe he loves u. #receivecommonsense
ReplyDeletesome things i read from chronicle here sometimes gives me goose pimples.women and their ish...their must be something to talk about men...well,poster 1,may GOD help open your eyes and ears...shit happens though....poster 2,shit happens......pls do guys also write their chronicles here....sometimes i see this chronicles as a feminists ish......it will make u can never like or trust men again...pls ooo....we all have our destinies ,what didnt work for mr A might work for mr B...dont generalize things here.......ballin out
ReplyDeleteStella o gbadun lol... But me sef wan join u in giving her e-slap
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1 : I wonder wat your still doing with such a guy , and did I hear you say 3 abortions and how can you be having an unprotected sex. The best thing for you to do is to move on because the said guy does not take you the way you take him.
ReplyDeleteP1 you need hot slap as Stella said,P2 let Jesus fix it
ReplyDeleteTo the poster that asked if o woman can marry two husbands at the same time..... The answer is simple and straight YES. See what to do 1. Go straight to imo state, collect the list from your man's father and make all d necessary marriage rite payments 2. Return to Yoruba land, collect their own list and do accordingly. Either rent an apartment and bring your to husbands to 5heir new home or live there with one and keep the other in another rented house and make sure you supply them both adequately so that you would seen by them to be doing you wifely duties properly to avoid them cheating on you. Make sure they both know whose turn it is to have you every week. This is what every man who wants to marry two women at the same time does and it should not be difficult for you to do. Waaat, did I hear you say impossible. Hahahaha DAT is why women. would always be losing victims in every duel with men. Women have decided to claim equality with men and living off the same equals at the same time hence men are using opportunities provided by the women to deal with them. In this clime women don't marry, they are married only men marry. If women know their rights, resposibities and limits they will avoid all these avoidable hearthaches they constantly bother us with. Please contact me if you want to know how to avoid all the shenanigans of men and have a happy life. Note that this is a consultancy service that would cost you money. Reach. Me on amaeshi.henry @ yahoo.com or amaeshi.henry @gmail.com
ReplyDeleteAbeg which chronicle r u responding to? Abi u follow eddreamz siddon for jupiter?
DeletePoster 2:there's nothing wrong with u but misplaced priorities. Pls focus ur time on developing yourself.when a good man comes,he won't even need to know d colour of ur thighs.haba
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2: You just need to learn how to love yourself and try and get a life of your own. My dear with time the right man will come. Working weekends is one thing I told my boss that I cannot not do when they tried it with me twice and ever since I stood my ground know more weekend work till date. you need to sort it out with your company if is not part of working days in your letter of employment.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
One: mumu
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Two: sorry.
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Poster 1 so you didn't know u've been a side chick all along?
ReplyDeleteAnd u aborted how many again?
Just negodu d nonsense
U sent in your story for what exactly?
Poster 2:chill baby
Poster1, u were and ll always b his side chic, mind u, pregnancy n series of Abortion won't make him stay.
ReplyDeletePostr 2 someday ur prince charming ll locate U, just live ur life n b gud.
Poster 1: I'm a man but what I can tell you is that you are not in love, you need to see TB Joshua becoz you don craze finish just remain for you to enter market
ReplyDeletePoster 2: You need to tighten up yourself and increase your value in their eyes bcoz sometimes men don't like their girlfriend to be too homely or extremely soft until she's married
Bisola, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU
ReplyDeleteP2: You are too desperate. Honestly carry yourself with more self esteem and she the tide change.
Infact is it not the same BVs who say all men cheat, so why shout on Bisola. She is following your words. Foolish fish brain women.
ReplyDeleteNumber 1...u are a foolish fool..Period...Mtcheew
ReplyDeletePoster 1 : Accept him back , leave the one you are dating now ...sleep with him without protection , if you go to his house and see the other girl , leave and go back when she has gone . Get pregnant for him and then abort it , do this repeatedly ......hope you enjoy the cycle .
ReplyDeletePoster 2.....Stella shift make I Siddon ....yawn
Used to crush on Richard too..damn
Delete#2 My dear love will find you, don't be desperate. Be focus and always trust in God. The right one will surely come but tie your legs together.
ReplyDeleteNo 1: No more abortion again please.
ReplyDeleteNo 1: Over desperation leads no where, just take it to God.
At 1st poster one I wldnt av judged u nd am still not suppose to I know bt common d abortion was much for someone that is obviously using ur sense..haba na MOVE ON ELSE U'LL LOOSE UR WOMB TO MORE ABORTIONS#godforbidthou#
ReplyDeletePoster2....sowi nd b patient ko...d ryt pson will stay nd spend on u(amen)
Stella say the truth, smone really didn't send this Poster 1 story to you. Maybe na movie script. How to be stupid in a situationship. My dear Poster1, you are a side-chick, infact side-chick too good for you. You are a fuck mate. You better don't kill urself, ur are too young for all dis abortions plus miscarriages. Too too young honestly.
ReplyDeleteThat girl is probably his fiancé,the nxt thing u know while ur having anoda abortion for him, u'll be seeing his wedding pix on facebook.
Are you even gaining anythn besides sex in dis r'lshp. Let's say the guy dey even settling you big time financially now. Abi na the abroad husband status dey hungry u.
my dear cut off from dis guy, he's bad news. You are going to harm urself one day.
Pls concentrate on school and dis older guy ur dating,leave abroad boyfriend alone.
And pls DO NOT GET PREGNANT for this new guy, pls learn to use condom and in case of mistake,use postinor abeg. This abortion everyday too much .
N1, I know ur problem, I must marry an Obodo oyibo guy. Common sense is not common at all. Can u hear urself? Just sit back n read ur chronicle,den u will advice urself. Onye iberibe. N2, work on ur temper, guys don't like girls with temper bc de are scared u may end up controlling them. Bc hot tempered ppl are usually control freaks. Its well, when d right person comes, he will surely love u n treat u right.
ReplyDeletePoster1, who told you have boyfriend ? what you have is fuck-mate abegggggg.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 , do you still need someone to tell you that you a psychiatric patient? Dude got you knocked up many times and you flushed like the ode that you are, he kept apologizing and you bought it all knowing fully well that he is seeing someone else. Now you have moved on with some else, what right does he have to feel good or bad about it? Can you please give yourself sense or borrow from someone who has because na your type dey follow man like mumu even after he uses and dumps you and marries another woman. keep deceiving yourself that he loves you.
ReplyDeleteGerrahrahere biko,ndi nzuzu parading their iberibe everywhere. nonsense!!!
Lookin forward 2 (money makes u fuck bitches) comment.
ReplyDeleteNawa poster one ....miss side chick.....poster 2...jesus will fix it.....
ReplyDeleteposter 1---Please wait...SHORONIYEN# Le boo loves u....walahi..ure gone..ure a foolish fool... a man treated u like crap and ure asking us if u can go back...haaaaa...oponu ni e mehn...are u thinking with your boobs? u wont realise until u abort your destiny...come closer lemme reset ur brain with slap...olori gbeske oshi..comot make we see road abeg..Ndi Ara
ReplyDeletePoster one clap for yourself.
ReplyDeleteYou have officially been crowned the president of stupid people association.
poster one you are stupid! say amen.nonsense.
ReplyDeleteand stella,if you love poster one,if you want her sanity intact (is she even sane?),do not post any rejoinder she might come up with on ihn monday because if you do,i will send her into depression with what i will tell her...i am so pissed! idiocy should have a legal limit! stupid ppl will just b dragging me out of reading mode.nonsense!
ReplyDeleteP1, must this guy send a post to stella that you are just a pastime? Get it right babe, dude is in love with another woman. I see a future toke maje case in your story if you don't let this guy go and I tell you it would hurt you the more. P2, please see a pastor, some women are not that lucky, me included. But I know there's a silver lining in the cloud someday and a light at the end of a tunnel. Your man will come, but be more outgoing
ReplyDeleteThat first poster cooked up that story, that ain't true, like wtf?????
ReplyDeletePoster 1, even if you decide to be foolish and stick to d mofo who obviously doesn't even send you, can't you generate enough sense to at least protect urself from getting preggie? I tire for ur matter o. You will soon remove ur womb don't worry. Na ur future hubby I pity. Poor dude be running from pillar to post, looking for solution for his foolish whorish wife. Tufia!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you haven't just met Mr. right. When he comes around, there won't be need to stress urslf. You'll be perfect in his eyes weda u cook or not, clean or nt or grace his bed. Be prayerful, optimistic, and continue to look good. He's on his way, the traffic is just really crazy. E-hugs!
Poster 2, I forgot to add. You may also want to look into ur spec for guys. Why not lower the standard abit from the "drop dead handsome, flashy ones with "swagz" to the "not so handsome, but good looking calm ones without so much "swag"? You just may find the solution there. Best of luck
ReplyDeletePoster no 1 - You are a side Chic.. Plain and simple.. you narrative should tell you that.
ReplyDeletePoster No 2 - You are trying too hard.. Because of the end goal "wife Status" you are not really living to enjoy any relationship.. guys can tell when you are desperate and you are exhibiting that is strides.. chill
@poster one, the story is fake. I don't believe any one can be that daft. NO WAY!.
ReplyDeleteThis is for poster 1.
ReplyDeletedearie I will not insult you, and I will not judge...I myself have witnessed a case such as yours. . Its called blind love and it is the worst thing any woman can do to herself. . The moment a man asks ypu to abort for him weigh the situation is he asking cos there is no money? Is he asking cos he just doesn't want the commitment that comes with a child?
And as for the other chic issue my dear smh. . If he can invite her to the wedding of his sister it's cos he does not want his family to see him with you, its publicity for the other chic..
He does not love you he just loves the power he has over you..
Leave him ALONE!!! It will not be easy it will be hard very bloody hard but if you know what is good for you.. leave him!! And work on your self you don't need anything serious right now cos if you go from this to another relationship you will do no better.. your broken you need to fix yourself, you need to pray and you need to find yourself
LOVE YOURSELF! ONCE YOU LOVE YOU, YOU WILL SEE YOUR WORTH
this is for poster 2
sweetie you have no issues just stop being desperate for marriage and men.. a man can smell desperation from a mile away
work on yourself and face your work and if that job won't let you be on weekends look for another and leave this one..
Then station yourself in strategic places.. no need for sex all you need to get a mans unadulterated and complete attention is the words that come from your mouth, your looks and your body language. . No need to flirt be you..but be the smarter bettet you.
Cook for no man unless your both very serious or married
And..... am done :)
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteJust move on with your life. Many hassles are not worth it
Poster 2. Stay away from relationships for while like for a year. Learn to love yourself ist, discover who you re. Set a standard the right man would find you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Pls try to stay away from relationships for a while. You are still young you don't need to rush into marriage. Love yourself,discover yourself, set your standards the right man would find you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. A slap is the only solution to your stupidity the guy is a real eg of psychopath.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you need a hot slap like Sdk said. Is something wrong with you? That you are not thinking straight?
ReplyDelete2 abortions no 3 cos you Lost the last one. When are you going to stop. And the guy is still cheating on you. You need to find out if someone has done something on your behalf from your village.
Poster 2 i could have sworn i was the one with your exact kind of narrative,i wear the same shoes,i know how u feel,i have gotten advice from lots of friends saying dont be too much of a nice girl.men perceive it as weakness, secondly,on the aspect of sex i think its very important you keep your legs closed, i used to think there was nothin like soul ties, until i experienced mine first hand. Soul ties are real, sex is worship,once you give men that dont understand your worth and can leave anytime your body. Baby Girl thats a part of you,you will never get back, its evident in most relationships that you know are bad for you but you have a hard time moving on and letting go, there's that part of you they carry in their spirit. So you dont want to give your Mr Right. Fragments of yourself. You want to give him this whole benefits and what it feels like to have the whole of you.. We all Falter.. We are Human beings. Take it to God in Prayer. Thirdly, how do you see yourself? You do not need to overcompensate a man with all this cooking,cleaning,washing. I am just 22, i have done same but it yields disrespect, it makes you look desperate this days, this are benefits that should be given to a man that you call husband, in my opinion the right man will come along, never get bored but will love you so much, this will be someone that understands you and knows your worth, That should be your Prayer. You might not even get to do all this washing, cooking, and cleaning before he treats you like a queen that you are. So stay Prayed Up and Focus on getting better everyday,Understand who you are and make yourself happy. May God Guide You.
ReplyDeleteSorry babe but you're the slowest Bisola that I've ever met! All the Bisolas I know are sharp babes! What's wrong wit you girl? Get it 2gether pls
ReplyDeletePlease Disregard any 1 that disrespect you. Be it verbally, emotional
ReplyDelete1. Please confess and repent
2. Accept God's forgiveness He loves you and given everything to succeed in this life. Receive God's bless
3. Wean yourself from this guy. Read on breaking soul ties esp by Terry Savelle
4. Meditate on God's love for you.
5.prayer and fasting discipline the flesh. The word of God overcome the flesh. Check Lady Igo's on this blog on fasting and fornicating.
Thanks for your questions that's the first step you seeking break through.