Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

Friday, 22 January 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

A,B,C......1,2,3!......Kolo!








NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
A,B,C

my fellow bvs, first i will have to apologise if my words dont add up when you read please pardon my typos and language..i am high smoking marijuana and thinking about my problem

I am 28 year old man, i work and have a very good job, i have 3 ladies in my life, lets name them A,B,C

A is the type of girl that is a ride or die chic, she supports your opinion more than hers, for instance if you say lets tattoo our names on our body..she'll agree..and is bent on making everything work between both of you, a christian and just a Sunday church goer, i doubt if she knows a verse in the bible tho.she is a doctor and she lives abroad.

B is the take home to mama type of girl, she makes me laugh, she is beautiful and we never quarrel. B is a good girl, she is still a semi virgin at 26,and i honestly have zero complain about her.she is also a very good christian and she even advice me quoting the bible.she is not talking marriage but i know deep inside her she wants it. She is a pharmacist and she lives in lagos

C is saddist kinda girl, she is quiet most times, she has zero sense of humour, even when we watch comedy movies she does not laugh, she is over ambitious, and puts her career first, she is spirikoko to the core as in she goes to church Wed and Friday after work and Saturday for practise, Sunday for church, she wants to get married this year,C is an engineer and  currently works in one of the  top construction in lagos.

So una see wahala wey i put myself....i dont know who to go for. all you that will curse out that i am cheating,it is what it is.Who should i go for.
Thanks 
Mr Alphabets Bf



LMAO@Mr alphabets boyfriend.....looooool
You are so crazy.
My Dear i dont know who to help you choose oh.....Ah C is off,people like that will frustrate you when you marry her..choose between A and B.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN HIS EX IS BREATHING DOWN YOUR NECK...

Stella and the house good day....I've been having this funny experience about my boyfriends ex.They dated for over a year and broke up due to the fact that he caught her sleeping with someone else red handed.

They broke up June and we started dating October last year we've not done nothing cause I'm still a virgin and we having our introduction next month....we once had a fight bout her cause she walked pass us and made a comment at him and he was laughing while I was there,the other fight was cause not up to a week after that fight he started following her on Instagram then I called off the relationship cause I was extremely hurt buh he begged cried and promised never to do it again.He Blocked her and has indeed changed.

he quit choir and quit any church activity that could relate to talking to her and infact does funny things to me when she's in sight to get her extremely jealous and crazy to the extent that she herself had to quit the choir and changed her sitting position to where she won't be seeing us.But this girl won't let me be.She keeps doing everything possible to catch my attention,for example during prayers last week she just jumped into my front and I walked out.another time she pushed me with her body when I was going to the alter,I also ignored..I didn't tell my boyfriend cause it's a girl thing but I'm really loosing patience about this I'm not in a competition with anyone in terms of age she's older with 5 years I'm not gonna compare cause if she was better he wouldn't leave her for me.so I'm just so annoyed about this issue ,what will be the best thing I do right now ?


ARE YOU DUMB?CHANGE CHURCH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.shes acting crazy,dont let her go and pour you acid when it gets to your wedding date oh...avoid any form of physical or verbal contact with a jealous from both sides,they ARE DANGEROUS!



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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
YES OR NO?

Dear Stella,
Wie geht's? Keep up the good work. 
Stella, I will be so happy if you could publish this my letter as I need serious advice.
I am a young lady, 24years old and rounding up her Masters. I had been single for 2years now after a relationship that didn't end well. After the ‎relationship, I decided that I wanted the next one to lead to marriage. God willing. I have met quite a number of people but I just wasn't interested for one reason or the other.    
Now, there's this guy I met last year, he is a wonderful guy, very caring and loves me to nuts.

 The issue is his job is not paying much and he actually wants us to settle down early next year. We've been together for like 7months now and ‎I have grown to love him so much even though I didn't initially love him that much at first.

Now, the issue is, sometimes I'm confused. I am applying for jobs now as well but I don't know if I should settle down with him. What if I'm meant to meet someone better and more financially stable in the future? Believe me when I say I have never cheated on him before. 
 Am I too young? Should I focus on my career now and maybe I'll meet someone better and as wonderful as him along the way. Should I settle for him? I really need advice dear BVS. 


According to me,you either marry for love or for money...you dont sound like someone in love otherwise these thoughts wouldnt come,your man has no money so why are you marrying him? oh,i forgot,change of status?
Since you are having such thoughts,why not wait a while and see how relationship progresses?why are broke ass brothers always eager to marry sef?...before two years now,kids all over the place!.




169 comments:

Joblesshousewife said...

hmmmm
Joblesshousewife

SMURF said...

Yay Chronicles oh! Oya let's read and learn one or two things. Goodluck.

Jojo said...

Just negodu

em jay said...

Chronicles be nice!
Brb.


******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******

Lizzy T said...

Brb to comment

Joblesshousewife said...

3 confused posters... *sigh*

Anonymous said...

Recently, my bf thats supposed to be in the US has been calling me a Nigeria number, if I ask him he will say its network variation/problem. It's been happening for almost a week now. Bvs help me out here pls. While I have a feeling he's in Nigeria but doesn't want me to know, (i could be wrong) I still want to know if he's telling me the truth. Is his explanation possible? I really want to trust this guy but past experiences keeps popping up

stunning slim shady said...

Chronicles oh la la


brb

Doppelgänger said...

Poster 1 marry all 3 and after a year decide which one you would live with forever.

Poster 2 I don't even understand how you expect a guy or any human to forget sone one they once loved because you're now in the picture.
Okay kill the babe.

Poster 3 why not get a job first.
January 2016 has not ended and you said he is ready next year.
Marry do money because money can buy you cars, houses and books that you love.
Okay bye.

SDK Babe said...

Poster 1... B.
Poster 2.....
Poster 3....No
Lol

STARRY LARRY said...

@Poster 1, you're very greedy sha and I envy you, you're dating high class ladies, with what you narrated here, did you need a prophet to tell you that B is the Best among them, better still prayer over the 3 of them and let God chose for you.

@Poster 2, you're somehow immature, why can't you change your Church, abeg grow up jare.

@Poster 3, you placed material thing above love, I don't blame you sha follow your mind and go with your brain.



*Larry was here*

Loveme Jeje said...

Poster 1... D is for development. Develop yourself and know what you want. You be gigolo. Abi wetin dem they call am.

Poster 2... Na una dey spoil house of God too much. no wonder pagans always better pass some Christians. All these chorister gathering, instead to sing to God, na boyfriend una dey take una voice sing for. who get beautiful voice so that chewing gum boys like that una boyfriend go see una. Sorry for una ooo. Devil will soon baptise the three of you.

Poster 3... Linda dey advice una say make una no marry broke ass boys. una no dey hear word. Go check The Queen of the blog statements of broke ass guys.

goodluck.

telema said...

Poster 1,dont marry any of them.
Poster 2,ignore her abeg,pretend like she doesn't exist.
Poster 3,suit yourself.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Poster one continue being high abeg. Is it only A, B, And c? What about D??

Poster two you are giving thag girl exactly what she wants. Change churches abeg. Don't allow her get to you

Poster three you're not too young. Nobody is too young for anything these days.make up your mind

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

@1, what do u mean by she's a semi virgin, its either she's a virgin or not ok, go for B.
The next she hits u, embarrass her by telling her she's a prostitute dats y ur guy dumped her, make her understand u know d story of their break up.
@3, next year is still far Na haba, u obviously don't love this guy dats y u are already thinking of d possibility of meeting a rich guy, I will advice u keep 2 other guys just in case this one fuck u, every woman should ve a plan B, the worst thing that can happen to any girl is to date only one guy.babe shine ya eyes.

tracy James said...

Hmmm

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
Go for C...
A man without a spiricoco wife is finished!...

Poster 2,
See them fornicators in the house of God!...
Next time she crosses your path,get a small razor blade and design her face with it...

Poster 3,
So you want to walk into poverty with your clear eyes...
Say God forbid!...
Continue fishing for the bigger fish biko and dump this nigga..
No be love you go chop nau...

nzube izuu said...

P1, You have juvenile ish. Grow up dear. P2,Dem use that church swear for the person?

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 3;

hw old is ur guy?
Is he teachable?
Is he a graduate?
Asides paid employment can he venture into biz?
Is he industrious?
Is he skillful?



More often than not i dnt lyk to judge a guy by his present state cos a man's turn around is a matter of seconds wt God. If h a bright future why seek greener pasture somwhere else?

Anyways,
follow ur heart

Blackberry said...

Poster one AKA crack head, go for B.

mamannuku bagowner A.K.A Jamal lyon babe said...

U don repost them Stella
I see am d first tym bfor u delete am. Lol..

Jasmine said...

Poster 1: choose B. A doesn't av a mind of her own and C is a saddist so choose B.

Poster 2: you can sha take note of silly things o. Ignore her. When she sees that u r not even seeing her, babe will respect herself. If u can't, set a trap 4 her and teach a good lesson. Lol


Poster 3: stella, someone in love is suppose to think of her finances too abeg. She is just trying to be careful. Don't settle down with him yet. Tell him you need more time to think, like 6 months. During that time, he might be able to save something that u can use after your wedding and you might also get a job

Anonymous said...

Chysugar...you are such an attention seeker,what was that long note you wrote on dt Esu story for? you wrote as if you all the three of them. So coz you dated the guy is dt y u have to wrote all dos long story? I know that you are still hurt coz he left you and married another person..that happened in d past nd you don't need to talk as if you know everything that happened btw the 3 of them, or mayb you were his sidechick b4 he got married sef..y nt just insult d man or d stupid esu nd end story. Calm babe nd lastly stop lying abt been married when you are not. Goodnight.

Blackberry said...

Poster two see as una dey behave like kids. Committing fuckery inside church. Choir things. How old r u guys? Taaaaaaaa...all of u should grow up. D might be lying dat he caught her cheating u know.

Anonymous said...

ALL I SEE HERE ARE HYPOCRITES!

POSTER 1: There is no Christian among you and these 3 girls. If you are having sex with three girls who deceive themselves that they are Christians, it is a pity! After what you call "marriage" all of you will remove those masks and shudder. And when you add marijuana to hypocrisy, it is a snake; Repent.

POSTER 2: Foremost, your hypocrisy is when you are doing somethings with your toyfriend to annoy his ex and accusing the ex of annoying you. Get out of that Church and change your attitude and close your vagina till marriage.

POSTER 3: You love money too much and I guess you are one of the disciples of "the queer and bus of this blog"; money is fleeting. You type ends up marrying "rich devils" who will use you for sacrifice/money rituals!

Blackberry said...

Poster three, pls buy time for urself. U open eye c say his not as financially buoyant as u expected, u still went ahead n fucked him. Either u marry him or get out.

BIPOLAR ME said...

Y'all gat no issues.

Poster 1.. I think you are T***N O**B*. Guy, free that weed. You be paramilitary na

Anonymous said...

All of una no get problem jare.

Anonymous said...

My own chronicle is that I'm looking forward to the day when my salary will be mine and not to pay debts. After 13months, i'm so frustrated and depressed about it.

Anonymous said...

ALL I SEE HERE ARE HYPOCRITES!

POSTER 1: There is no Christian among you and these 3 girls. If you are having sex with three girls who deceive themselves that they are Christians, it is a pity! After what you call "marriage" all of you will remove those masks and shudder. And when you add marijuana to hypocrisy, it is a snake; Repent.

POSTER 2: Foremost, your hypocrisy is when you are doing somethings with your toyfriend to annoy his ex and accusing the ex of annoying you. Get out of that Church and change your attitude and close your vagina till marriage.

POSTER 3: You love money too much and I guess you are one of the disciples of "the queer and bus of this blog"; money is fleeting. You type ends up marrying "rich devils" who will use you for sacrifice/money rituals!

Matthew 23:27 "What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs--beautiful on the outside but filled on the inside with dead people's bones and all sorts of impurity. NLT

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 2: d next time she gets in ur way stand firm n serve her in d same measure she served u. If she push u, push her bak. If she eye u, eye her bak. Mschew na by force? Ur bf hav exed her already let her accept reality. She's just a meddlesome interloper, pained twerp n bcos she's older she wann intimidate u by all means. Btw she n ur bf were in d choir n were knacking each oda, inukwa d things God will judge sha. *smk*

pink lady said...

@poster 1,you should be ashamed to say you have 3 ladies!You don't deserve any of them!
@poster 2,Give your bf some space.Trust me,he's still seeing her behind your back.That's why she sees you as a threat.How do you look at your bf during church service/prayers? I can't imagine myself dating my church guy,unless we no go fuck...kai!

@poster 3,you are not too young to settle down but the problem is that you still haven't found the right man. Date him for now until you find someone better,who can add more value to your life...then port like Saka!

Eve'il said...

Poster 2 ehn...

Martins Aboy said...

@poster one;B is the best woman here ooo..nothing can be compared to A woman with A huge sense of humour!

The peace of mind it oozes out,laughter,funny moments,teasing etc is what most men can trade anything just to have..and she is a working class too;so that is full package! Cos she wont have time to nag you at all after the whole stress she must have gone through during the day..

Dont miss this one ooo!!

@poster two;since its the church that brings you all together;why not make use of another branch which the church has?? Or even if you wanna remain with that church,start coming early for service and make use of the first seat row where she wont have any means to make you notice her..

@poster three;your options are quite simple here..

1)You either go for A man whom you would start up A life with and thus help build up..(ie if its what u want)

OR

2) you leave this current man and wait for an already made Nigga..

The choice is yours!!

But remember that at last;love is what really matters!!

@MARTINS ABOY

NWAKAEGO said...

Poster1 go and sleep off that igbo
Poster 2 busy body. Dont face ur relationship, be there and be looking for who's pushing u or eyeing u. You better dont go into marriage with this ur immatured mentality.
Poster 3 olojukokoro

Ade Esther said...

Poster 1 ,I can't stop laughing. Seriously you don kolo Pata Pata. See as you dey analyse una babes. Pray over it please. Only God can choose for you. Goodluck


Poster2 beware of that babe. She can do anything to you.. but you sef chop liver Oo snatch person wey senior you with 5yrs bf... be vigilant please

Poster3 have you pray over the guy? If he's the one for you, I will advice you to take it easy. Get a job and let him have a stable income before you talk of marriage.

Anonymous said...

Sorry chroniculars for not advising,I need help from other BVNs who applied for pgde in nti to please tell me how to go about it.Have printed out my admission letter.want to know when lecture starts.My center is ketu.Thanks

Anonymous said...

1. How can people be going to "Church" and be filled with hate and fornication?
2.How can ladies be attending churches and be planning a marriage with a marijuana-smoking nonchalant boy.
3. How can ladies be attending "churches" and live in hypocrisy?
4. What really is taught in these churches?
5. How can a lady be in a church, call herself a "Christian" and all that matters in her decision to marry a man is "how much he has"?

Proverbs 11:4 Wealth is worthless in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death.
Eccl. 11:9 You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see, but know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment.

Tayan Taylor said...

Wait for comments

Nwa Amaka said...

And once kids start coming in a broke marriage, it only takes God's grace for money to come.@ poster3 make sure you are sure before you go into it. If you have doubts then it's not meant to be.

Anonymous said...

I op u post my comment here o!.......plz hw do i get a blog id...tayard of commenting as anonymous o....hlp fellow sdkers

vivychoco said...

Lolzzz Stella eh ur mawt no good@bfore two yrs kids everywia.ehen poster 1 I think B would be a perfect match. Poster 2: Dey dia dey open mouth dey close no change church na wen yawa go gas u go know wet in u do urself.

DopeMum said...

Narrative 1: U really need to stop taking marijuana, its killing u gradually.

Narrative 2: I believe ure still in that church coz u want to wed there and shame her. But u have to be careful coz chicks ain't smiling.

Narrative 3: I don't think u know what love is,probably because ure still 'very young'. I believe u wld have said ure matured enough for marriage if he was super rich.My dear,U can grow with him and be the woman u want to be.It all about having thesame vision. and good plans.

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 1: mschew ds ur gist follow for chronicles? Hian u no get wahala @ all. Just add more babes D, E, F............... to d list n by then d effect of d marijuana u r taking will fizzle out n u can then decide wot u want @ 28. Small boy lyk u.
u seem lyk a proud person.
I have a feeling u r not 'hunky', money just dey help ur image.
Abeg swerve.
U need Christ!

Misturah said...

Looool at narrative A

Cynthia Iyede said...

Stella all these your advice today lagbara and on point....

Seriki Abiodun said...

Poster1:u are really high on marijuana, I prefer the" B"lady I tink she is the best for u.
Poster2:like the way Stella has said change church abi dey born u with DAT church ni and if u feel it not possible for u to change church whenever she attack u,attack her back.
Poster3:it seems u don't love DAT guy cos if u do u won't be complaining abt his financial status and if u continue like dis u won't see another guy DAT will love u d way d present guy does.

Stella so becos he his not wealthy he shouldn't get married,love conquers all and don't be surprise DAT d money will start flowing in wen dey start giving birth or even immediately they get married,it all abt prayer.

cinderellla said...

First poster, if B is perfect while then do you need A and C? You're just a cheat.
Second poster, you sound very childish. What kind of story is this? 'she jumped in front of me' and you're about to be someone's wife.

Bookie Lee said...

alphabet boyfriend ...lolz Stella oh

Anonymous said...

poster 3,u shouldn't rush into anything,,u re still young,,just hang around and see how it goes

danny fisiye said...

read





#GODWIN™

charitybino said...

Poster 1,from ur narrative, go for B but still pray about it bcos appearance is not reality.

Scholar Ibhagbe said...

Alphabet bf for your mind you be don oh.

SON OF SOLOMON said...

Nonsense chronicles everytime, confusion all the time, triple nonsense...

Rubbynia said...

Poster1: I think you should go with B

Elegant Nums said...

Stella his pay isn't good doesn't mean he can't get married pls! Which situation is permanent? U sound as if u haven't experienced hardship b4! If u like swallow my comment and don't post

Anonymous said...

POSTER ONE

YOU DONT DESERVE ANY ONE OF THEM
GO LOOK FOR YOUR TYPE, ONE THAT SMOKES TOO

sugarcane said...

It is Well

reemah said...

Poster 2, go with gf B. U seem like u r more comfortable around her.

White Diamond said...

Poster one:

Go for B, abeg. Though I don't like the fact that both of you rarely fight.
Fights are the spice of relationships. * side eyes *

A is too malleable, and no right thinking man doesn't want a boss as his woman.
This is because you mind end up resenting her for not having a mind of her own.
Plus, she doesn't stay her,so the distance thingy..

Your lifestyle though. Hope they know you do weed sha.

Poster two :
That girl knows that she gets on your nerve, that's why she's always acting up.
Stellz don tell you. Abeg look for another branch of your church mbok.
The girl is crazy. At least, she'll rarely see you to act up, except she comes looking, then you'll bare your fangs legally or otherwise.

Poster three :
Either build with him, or find an already made man.
You're not too young, nor too old for marriage.
Better still, you could build yourself financially.
That's another way to attract a ready made man.
Almost all of them are attracted to successful or ambitious women.
Goodluck.

#WhiteDiamondOut

beejay-oro said...

poster one.....rora fagbo.....option b na im pure pass......pass me dat blunt

cynthia kama said...

Why are broke ass brothers always eager to marry Hahahahahah I wonder o

Gladys said...

Hmmmmmm. Stella..... your advice for chronicle 3 nor be here oooo. Direct and blunt, if she wise, she go have to wait ooo. Period

Amaka O said...

SDK na really Mr. Alphabet..more grease to your elbows o...try find d e and f...g might just be the one..if not, there is always h and i.

Uduogu Chinenye said...

Hmmmmm, let me read comments

moy dot said...

Alayee,re u sure u re not a semgbe..cos u talk like a semgbe..what do need again when u ve found an A kind of girl..na wa for u oo.okay marry B and gimme A number.thanks in advance #sipsMoetnChandon#

Default Smile said...

Mugus

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CHI FRANCE80 said...

Hahahah @ poster 1: marry 3 of them as simple as ABC.

events by tegz said...

Nah wah

Mrs Oreo said...

poster 1: I was afraid when i was reading your post cause I act like lady C Most times. lol what is semi virgin

Poster 2: i cant even remember

Poster 3: I dont think you love him, If you FEEL you have to wait then wait

Miss Oma said...

Poster 1............ I am still amazed at how you get to be a three-timing man, i mean, you ain't even ashamed about it.... you do not deserve any of the ladies, no wonder you are confused on who to choose... Until you are matured enough to settle down.. no advice

Poster 2..............i used to think that before you start dating someone in this day and age especially someone you intend to settle down with, you should learn to TRUST the other person... why you would allow someone who isn't significant to you in any way aside being an ex to your boyfriend influence you to the extent of driving you crazy baffles me.... why do you feed such negativity? Ignore her please, you are giving her power over you...Your guy actually loves you enough to work on his communication with her, like my friend would say, "she is immaterial"...

Poster 3.... What do you really want? in the answer lies the solution to your problem.. goodluck...

Anonymous said...

POSTER 1, GO FOR THE ALPHABET B GIRL.THAT RIDE OR DIE GIRL IS JUST FORMING FOR U.FOLLOWING EVERYTHING U SAY UP AND DOWN. SHE GAT NO OPINION OF HER OWN? YOU WILL TAYA FOR HER. TRUST ME U WILL APPRECIATE A LADY WITH A MIND OF HER OWN. THIS ONE SEF MAY EVEN BE FORMING ALL THIS ONE FOR U THEN WEN U FINALLY GO FOR HER, SHE WILL BRING OUT HER TRUE CHARACTER AND U WILL NOT LIKE IT AT ALL. DONT CHOOSE C, AS STELLS SAID, SHE WILL GIVE U PROBLEMS MAN. GO FOR THAT SWEET B GURL!EASY TO LIVE WITH TEAR RUBBER GIRL JUST FOR YOU. (WHEN I SAY TEAR RUBBER I AM TALKING ABOUT HER BEING A VIRGIN) AND SHE MAKES U LAUGH. DUDE IN LIFE, LAUGHTER IS IMPORTANT O. PLUS SHES BEAUTIFUL, WHAT ARE U EVEN ASKING US SEF? CHOOSE B JOOR.

brown suga said...

I tire o stella
why are broke ass brothers eager to marry
Poster 3 u dont love that guy abeg leave that thing, na money u dey find

Poster2...... Tell your guy and don't answer the girl
change church abeg

Poster1 I'm sorry but we cant choose for you o
Its your choice mehn to avoid stories that touch in future besides forget all this church going things shine your eyes no be by spirikoko or going to church, devil sef dey go church
some of these girls sabi pretend
Do they have a good heart?
How will they treat their inlaws,
Will they stay with u even if u have nothing
My guy shine your eyes o
Besides what do u mean by semi virgin?


Dewdrop said...

Poster 1:
Mr alphabet bf. U made me laugh when u said " it is what it is. Who should I go for" I like the pharmacist I think she would make a good wife if she isn't pretending. BT overall if u have to pick another aside from her biko Dnt go for the engineer so u don't go violent on her. God would give her a man that would make her happy.

Poster 2: lol..... Church relationship it is well thou. It might not be easy to stop attending ur church since u are deeply rooted there even thou I think that's the best thing to do. I think u should have a talk with her Maybe she might calm down.

U people that date pple at ur church,office,school or where u live u people have mind oh! What if the relationship doesn't work out I will start a new church? Move out? Stop going to school? Mbanu.

Poster 3: I think I have been in ur shoes before. What I did was move on hoping for a better spouse, did I eventually find him? Not yet. Am I regretting returning his ring? Not yet. So I can't advice u. Follow ur heart.

cuteaijay said...

Poster 1: Marry B
Poster 2: Call her outside one day n give her serious warning, ya raa nsi.
Poster 3: Pause marriage for now as u too no get job.

Didy Alexander said...

Poster 3, broke as brothers always eager to marry... No be small, dey can form serious love. Choi

Queen Bee said...

Poster1,if u want a doormat kind of wife,den go for A since she agrees to any and everything.B seem perfect only if u are sure she's not acting!C is not a writeoff either to me cos ambitious women drive u to achieve more in life,dat she doesn't laff or crack jokes,is she a comedian? If u wan laff,go AY show abeg#rme#free d gal!

@DGoldenJenny said...

Poster no1
Are you serious in all your tabulation concerning your women?
Something in me tells me that you love miss B followed by A before C
Yes you do.....if not why do you label miss B as a beautiful and a take home to mamas girl.,
Miss A as a ride and die chick; supports your opinion MORE THAN hers
Mis C as a saddist kind of girl with zore sense of humour yet she still makes it to your top most
You sounds like an authoritative kinda guy, your supremacy is in the highest level.(NO OFFENCE)
My dear in marriage you don't rule out things base on selfish desire,you give room for your partner to match
Your outlet or rather chronicle detect that all you ever wanted in a woman(wIFE) is someone you can control,use any how, command as you wish and order around the house, but I tell you this... YoU're MaKinG a GreaT Mistake...marriage is far far beyond these things
Just sit down and check your women closely without any form of preferential treatment attached to any of them.
Stop being paranoid and stop blowing horn and appraising yourself, cause from your chronicle; you had already made your choice even before writting to us
In marriage you need a woman that knows herself,a woman who has time for everything(time to play n time to be serious), a woman who knows her right as a wife and play her role well, a woman who is a warrior(strong),a woman who can contribute in every issue surrounding her home, Above all a woman who value,obey God and appreciate him over her family.
Ask God for more wisdom in choosing a life partner because some ladies can pretend without a trace.....PEACE!!!

Anonymous said...

Oh Lord I am sorry, I finally fucked Liz today and I seriously regret it but laid Kemi off completely.

Oh lord pls forgive me cos u said if we confess our sins, u are faithful and just to forgive. Let pls ur goodness and mercy follow me and drive away women from me.

Blog Addict said...

Stella to answer ur last question: that's cos they meet a good girl & wanna tie dem dwn sharp sharp b4 a rich dude sweeps her off her feet. Some of them will now later begin to pour their frustration on the innocent angel.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1..nawa for u oo..i will choose b for u sha..
@ poster 2- no need to change church, jst ignore her dear..dnt get violent, infact u can be friendly to her and even greet ha..ur happiness will push her away..
poster 3- Go and spend time praying dear..i know d way u feeling, jst go and pray, we can't give u direction on dis matter..

Anonymous said...

Na wa o........comment tinz!Enter your comment...

Mao Akuh said...

1. Mr ABC, PLS CHOOSE BETWEEN A AND B. Shine eyes well o.
2. You better let yr guy know and if possible change to another branch of yr church to avoid story that touches. One more thing, did he actually caught her in bed?

Iphie dearie said...

And lady C might actually be the best of em..
People like that are very soft,but project a hard exterior cos they don't want to get hurt.

Iphie dearie said...

But Oma, ladies always send chronicles of how they have 10 men and need to select one na. Lol

Make I play devil's advocate small.

Anonymous said...

Oh Lord I am sorry, I finally fucked Liz today and I seriously regret it but laid Kemi off completely.

Oh lord pls forgive me cos u said if we confess our sins, u are faithful and just to forgive. Let pls ur goodness and mercy follow me and drive away women from me.

strawberry2020 said...

Poster 1 I advice u go with B

ZIONA said...

Y does poster one remind me of bitchpls.hahaha.
I must say U are a long throat no advice for a cheat like U.and I know U would end up choosing a knife and not a wife.

Poster 2, leave that church. Lag that is filled with churches haba.the truth is d more U see her or she sees U the more worked up U both will be.U all sound childish, changing sits up and down,una Don chop belle full if not that would b d list of your problems. Are U sure ur bf is over that ex,make sure and watch him before U marry if not they might still continue after the Wedding.

Poster 3.U don't love him.so obvious from ur write up.he will still grow trust me.be patient. U are just after money,I pity U cause U will end up wrongly with this notion. And to think U don't even have a multi million job urself, U are funny. Wake-up. Except he is not driven or lacks ambition I see no reason for ur silly excuses

chinyere onuoha said...

Poster 1, There are about 23 alphabets left, maybe you should try all 23 of them before you make a choice. Lmao. Hey, it's a joke...

chinyere onuoha said...
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anonymous? lol said...

Hmmmmm...

Cyndy said...

Hmmmm oga P1 wats ur own job? am sure ur de type dat dnt ave anytin reasonable doing, dis 1 wey u de even smoke join. U better leave dos babes, cos ur nt even an option 2 any of dem. Beta go find ur follow ganger sister marry. Ehen P2 so u can't make an ex 2 ur bf jealous, sorry 2 say madam ur nt ready 4 marriage. P3 madam bright future, no marry nw wey u see hubby till menopause nark u, den u go begin de hustle church wey go tell u say ur village pple de fry garri 4 ur head. Make it visible after approval.

Cyndy said...

Hmmmm oga P1 wats ur own job? am sure ur de type dat dnt ave anytin reasonable doing, dis 1 wey u de even smoke join. U better leave dos babes, cos ur nt even an option 2 any of dem. Beta go find ur follow ganger sister marry. Ehen P2 so u can't make an ex 2 ur bf jealous, sorry 2 say madam ur nt ready 4 marriage. P3 madam bright future, no marry nw wey u see hubby till menopause nark u, den u go begin de hustle church wey go tell u say ur village pple de fry garri 4 ur head. Make it visible after approval.

anonymous? lol said...

Alphabet dude, very tough predicament. The way I see it, you wanna decide between: A, half cooked jellof. B, fully cooked ready to serve jellof, with garnishing a drink & possibly dessert & C, raw rice. Hmmm, tough one!

Simple Woman said...

What about praying before getting married? That is why many marriages fail this days because it is for the wrong reasons. In the long run, who would you have a happy home with. It's not just by attitude or character only ooo. You might think C isn't the one and just might actually be the one, or B, or C, or none. Dont make the wrong decision.

Ms Tee said...

Lmao.. serious Don chichi.. beta stop feeling like a player. Guys like u don't deserve any of those girl. U deserve a heavy runs mama dat would use jazz to tie u down. Ashewo okunrin.. oko iyawo elepon bulu.

em jay said...

I can see d hand work of marijuna in ur life mr alphabets, I have one question for u, hw do u manage dem, ohh distance right, ok marry B, I don't like ladies who don't have life of their own, God forbid make i agree to everything when hubby talk oohhh.

Poster2, chaiiiiiii that's my food, I will so make life a living hell for her, don't leave that church ohhh,by so doing u will show her u re a weak, "babe up" jare, do X5 of everything she is doing for 1week, I swear naa she gho run,wen it's time for worship, make ur voice loud pass, prayer time, shout holy ghost fire looking her straight in da eye, sit close to her every sunday, lol wenever she is arud, and u will see a drastic change, na me tell u, since the hunter has learn to shoot without missing, who born pikin wen nor wear pant? Mtewwwwww.

Poster3, I luv u stella for dat advise to her, madam u re asking, u do not luv him, since u ain't gwe, why not focus on getting a job first, so if u later end up with him things will be lighter for u both.

SMURF said...

Poster 1: I think you shld choose B, cos she seems alright, C is a no no, but for me I think B wants you to do the marriage talk or doesn't wanna sound or look desperate. Most female when they come of age wanna get married. But wait how can you even marry anyone when you are dating 3 of them? Who are you emotionally Attached to??

Poster 2:if you don't wanna leave the church and u have left the choir for her but she still follows you up and down taunting you and you are loosing ur patience, why not take this route: Be friendly with her, sit her down and gist with her, that cos u dated same man doesn't mean you can be cordial. Also don't forget the saying "draw ur friends close and you enemies even closer" she might reveal some things to you about ur bf.

Poster 3:its obvious you don't love the guy.... also u want the next one to lead to marriage, then why didn't you choose or date the one that was ur preference who might wanna marry you instantly Eg Mariah Carey's Bf.... you stated the shortcomings of the guy, where are yours or you don't have a comma at all.

oloruntola oluwatoyin said...

I have never been out of the county but I believe he is in Nigeria.

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

What is this one saying?
So she was wrong to share with us her experience abi?

Y'all lives are so boring that you've no life experiences and when someone share theirs y'all come out countering the person.

Leeches.

Anonymous said...

My sister tell am o! Sometimes Stella's advices are just annoying, like someone spoiling for a fight, if you were a dr and someone brought you an issue will you sound off that way?..Stella it isn't fair

arinola said...

Looool. Comments got me rolling.

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

My man often calls me with his Mtn and Etisalat line and he's in Los Angeles.
Calm your titties down

He's not in Nigeria.

Anonymous said...

See werey omo oni sugar, u dey call man broke ass ?se ur papa get moni for im life?anuofia
comon prostitute

Anonymous said...

It's very possible. When my mum was in Yankee last summer she got a mobile number there but whenever she calls sometimes, a "strange" naija looking like number shows


Ebony beauty...

Mz Chee said...

Poster...leave it to family members to do d choosing for you. Introduce them to ur siblings or someone close n let them judge. Cuz u might not be seeing clearly sef with the maryjane u puffing. Good luck.

telema said...

Forget about him

Anonymous said...

Madam ur bf is in d U.S. it hapnd wit me too... no nid to loose ur cool

Lizzy T said...

He is saying the truth. I think there is an app or so that they use to make calls. The numbers varies most times and are never the same. It usually comes with +234

Christabel Christian said...

Lol. Which network? My dear u already no d koko but u no wan believe am

Lizzy T said...

Poster 1: Mr A,B,C u didn't tell us about the sex part cuz I think that's what's confusing you. From ur write-up, I can see u know what u want but something is holding u back from taking the bold step.

A, is the one with the low self- esteem that only moves at d sound of ur voice and m sure guys don't like ladies that cnt take their stand.

B, as u said is the take home to mama type( so u know, why r u nw invading our space?). She makes u happy but I guess she hasn't given u the cookie since she is a semi-virgin that's why u r deliberating on what u shldnt.

C, is a sadist like u said so what are u waiting for? Anyway, if u want my advice, go for B!

Poster 2, I started reading with mixed feelings and then I saw where u said he quit church nd church activities cuz of his relationship bla bla bla then I stopped. When u r more matured, please send something better. Next please!

Poster 3: stella ur comment cracked me up. Why are broke ass brothers eager to marry???? Nyways dear poster, no u r not too young and thank heavens u admitted that u dnt really love him. Chilaxx babes, u go see someone wey u like when the time is right.

Anonymous said...

Possible with Skype

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

poster one, Your introduction alone shows that your ganja don make u enter semi madness.

I love ur spirit of dating my dear. A,B,C D, E, F,G,H,I,J,K,L,MM,N,O, P,......... Continu!!!
Ganja master, Just choose alphabet C since she is a sadist and you are all over the place happy at all time. She is the only one that can cure you just in case on day ur ganja takes you into the realm of the other spirit. Two happy people can't be in a home else, people will think you are both from happy people's home. Choose C Mr. Ganja man.

Poster two, Can't you give her back attitude? or dump your bf jor. Those two will come back together and be doing small small sweet sweet tins behind your back. The guy wan keep you first before him begin nack her. Good luck.

Poster three, Just forget the guy till the day you wake up and see that you are already in the league of aunty Gwegs. Happy choosing days ahead.

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

poster one, Your introduction alone shows that your ganja don make u enter semi madness.

I love ur spirit of dating my dear. A,B,C D, E, F,G,H,I,J,K,L,MM,N,O, P,......... Continu!!!
Ganja master, Just choose alphabet C since she is a sadist and you are all over the place happy at all time. She is the only one that can cure you just in case on day ur ganja takes you into the realm of the other spirit. Two happy people can't be in a home else, people will think you are both from happy people's home. Choose C Mr. Ganja man.

Poster two, Can't you give her back attitude? or dump your bf jor. Those two will come back together and be doing small small sweet sweet tins behind your back. The guy wan keep you first before him begin nack her. Good luck.

Poster three, Just forget the guy till the day you wake up and see that you are already in the league of aunty Gwegs. Happy choosing days ahead.

Shyla said...

It happens sometimes. When you try calling back the number it will not connect. Its usually 0805 kinda numbers that show. It happened to me when my ogas travelled and whenever they call, it shows naija numbers. Most times they are not even aware. It was only when I drew their attention to it that they even knew about it. Hope that's your case and not what you are thinking.
Poster 1: B seems to be alright. That sadist one no be am oh.

Anonymous said...

Daft question. Why don't you call his US number?

Anonymous said...

It's call card issue. I have 4 suitors from the U.S. since late last year their no started coming in with Nigerian no. Dont sweat it baby.

Anonymous said...

There are some lyca mobile numbers now that have the prefix of the countries one from abroad is calling. For example, someone in the UK can call u in Nigeria with a number that shows +234 but actually calling from there.
I reckon his explanation is true

Olufemi Atinmo said...

Poster 3. Don't marry a broke man oo. Wait at least until you get a job before you think of Marriage. Do not enter into suffering

Anonymous said...

Yes.it's possible..I av frnds abroad and sometimes dey cal wit Nigeria number.. D problem is from d service operator.. The him to rectify it

Anonymous said...

Iwu onye agbor?

Anonymous said...

Calm your titties woman.
It's very possible.
I'm in the states too and it happens to me.
Don't go about looking for what isn't lost.
That's how relationships get ruined.

411 CEO said...

P1. Choose B

P2. Do u need any1 to advice u on what to do? Receive sense in Jesus name.

P3. You dnt knw wht u are doing.

Anonymous said...

Yes,it happens that way. My brother calls sometimes and it comes with a Nigerian number. Relax na network.

Anonymous said...

He may not be lying. Sometimes when people call from the US it shows Nigeria landline number.

411 CEO said...

P1. Choose B

P2. Do u need any1 to advice u on what to do? Receive sense in Jesus name.

P3. You dnt knw wht u are doing.

s@min@ir@ said...

These 3 epistles possess elements of synchronized dilly dallyed attitude towards choice. Good luck to them
Akparawa

Anonymous said...

Everybody is a virgin na wa for all naija babe before i forget my grandma too she is a virgin as well.

Anonymous said...

Fool

Anonymous said...

My dear it is network. It ws always happening 2 me sometime last yr.

Dymond said...

Madam it's called ROAMING

Dymond said...

She has said it all.

Anonymous said...

Baby I'm really in the US. I'm having fun with a stripper in New Mexico.

The irony of team snoop.


Dumb hoes unite.

Anonymous said...

He uses D to service A, B, and C abi you wan join the ministry?

Anonymous said...

Semi virgin = she sucks dick or takes it up the ass with plenty of water based lube


Not all naija babes are Lerner's you know

Anonymous said...

Mr. Perfect. Stop casting stones and take several seats

Fab Mum said...

Poster 3 said the man wants to marry her early next year..

That's about 12 months away...

In your impatience you decide to leave him for the next available guy and then find out next year he is a mega millionaire??

What would you do??
You have been with him for 7months and you don't love him?? Why the hell are you wasting both your time??

You don't have a job or business and you see looking for a rich man. Okay

24yrs isn't too early to get married.

NBA ANAMBRA said...

P1 I go with B.

P2 avoid any means of meeting her even if it means changing church no fight her make she carry her wahala go.

P3. Abeg no rush wait and see if his financial status is upgrading.

Ammie said...

It happens nne
But if your instincts tells u he's lying then he's lying

Folakemi Olugbile said...

for poster A, the first thing u need to consider about all this three ladies is who are u actually comfortable with? when u upset when around she makes u forget ur temper or anger. for mi A might not be a good partner in a sense that ability to interact over an issue is important. you must be able to talk to one another and agree on a statement. from what u said she agrees to everything u say, she might be desperate and after she becomes the Mrs might show her true identity.
B from the way u painted her shows that u like her as a person and her sense of humour. she has a mind of her own and cares for u. I kinda like that attribute.
for C... that's a clause to it.... Am not bothered about the church services and all.... but that sadist stuff u mentioned. she will drive u nuts and eventually u gonna cheat cos u sound like a show guy too... think about it well.. check for other attributes too.

All the Best

anonymous said...

P1. All I can say is pls don't take any of all these B-votes seriously. Your marriage isn't some kind of democracy. You really think you can do all 3 justice using just a few lines on a blog. You know them way beyond the sentences. You understand ur emotions, usually you only end up in such confusion when u pitting common sense against feelings. My take is, apply urself totally. Lemme put it tis way, I could have advised you better if you had taken all those lines telling us what works for you as against explaining three awesome traits if it possibly were three other men. Summary, to each his own. Discover urself.
P2. Hmn. Irony is, u seem to be worried abt ur man's ex than she is abt you. I doubt she is on some blog needing the world's advice to sort herself towards you. Best advice, worry only abt ur dude and where he sits. Lol. Silence is golden. Use it. Remember that old popular yab saying back in the day "silence is the best answer for a..."
P3. Really? You know, it baffles me how people judge a journey of a life time by a few initial months or years. Sweetheart, look again. Tis time at more important things. What are his values as it concerns success, hardworking, smart, progressive? It's a whole bunch. Have seen women get married to big bucks and sign out indebted and have seen some get married to prospects and signed out mega. It's a long journey honey. Peek deep. Rummage for the important things. Well, again, to each his own. Cheers mates

GiftedTouch said...

Why do I hate Randall so much?bbad friend!!and why on earth is if loving you is wrong season 2 isn't out..mcheeew

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 22 January 2016 at 15:03, it might be true. In my case, I live in the US, but whenever I use my Skype (Which is my default international calling method), it always shows a Nigeria number. I have called my Mom a few times and she thought it was my brother, then I said it was me, she said when I did flew in. So, your boyfriend might be saying the truth if he's using Skype.

Anonymous said...

my sister calls me from America many times and a Nigerian number comes up most times. She's not aware of it and when I ask her, she will just say I don't know how it happened. So your boyfriend may be telling the truth. But...wait... Why do you have trust issues? its not a good sign...

Anonymous said...

Lmao @ design her face. This Linda eh u are hilarious Haaaahaa. Seriously u sound like ny kinda person, friends like u keep it real lol.

XOXO MYSTERY said...

Poster1. ..Go for C. She has chosen the most important things in life. God, career and you. Also, because she tolerated a boring comedy movie with you that means she clearly loves you.

Poster2. ..All of you should stop that fornication.

Poster3...Marry him. Money will come.

XOXO MYSTERY

Anonymous said...

Poster 1, please SADIST means someone who derives pleasure from inflicting pain on others. Maybe she's no sense of humour but no, she's no sadist...

Anonymous said...

@P1, no comment, "igbo" at work
@P2, hw r we nt sure dat u r d 1 dat snatched d bf, I dnt lyk all dz church-church rship,na una dey do worst, continue going to d church n face front,na preaching u come find shebi?
@P3, calm down n get a job, marriage go dey hungry una as if na jollof rice! #AmOut

School Life said...

These 3 piece of shits ain't worth a chronicle... Imagine the nonsense analysis p1 is putting down. Young man, you ain't ready for marriage. She doesn't laugh at a comedy because it isn't as funny to her as it is to you( it happens to me too. Because I dun laugh to it doesn't mean I dun appreciate it or I'm not entertained). These things shouldn't be used to ascertain if a lady is worth marrying or not. The question now is, are they good planners? Do they take your family as theirs? Are they good Christians? How do they manage finances n materials(dun mean in a stingy n greedy way)

ucheoma chimdinma said...

I love ur comment

Jostified Doc said...

Lolz! Holy Ghost fire! Kikikikiki! Emjay kenan.

Anonymous said...

Nne he is not lieing one bit. The thing is that he is using a service from called voip which is cheaper to make calls to Nigeria bt not so oo cheap ooo. Of recent they have this problem. But you should be smart enough to know that the number that enters ur phone are never the same and another is that they are nt real telephone numbers, hence it won't connect when u try calling bk. Use ur hand and give urself sense ooo. Don't accuse that bro wrongly before he vex and decides to save his money

Anonymous said...

Babe relax why are u suspecting him. Wen my husband calls me using rebtel app the numbers starts with 01 like say na lag number. If u don't have trust....

Anonymous said...

I don't know if his name is Bitchpls...but there was this guy whose gf was looking for her period (actually one of his gfs).He just crossed my mind while reading the first post.

Mbagwu Chukwuma said...

all d best

Anonymous said...

Poster 2..So u were in the same church when they were together..he broke up with her, and u decided to go out with smh..U even started going out with him just 4 months after they broke up..Are there no men outside the church??....mtcheew

Mo Says said...

It happens witg rebtel, boss revolution apps, ultra mobile n lyca mobile. They r cheap to call Nig n it appears as Nig num at ur end

Anonymous said...

Poster 2... his gal friend was doing another guy and allowed him catch them; he is comfortable to abstain till marriage. U r most likely in for a surprise on ur wedding night.

Hopefully, u won't write another chronicle when u find he has Pre Mature Ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction.
#Just saying

Anonymous said...

Poster 2... buyer beware. At this rate marriage no go sweet u o. 1) broke ass brother, 2) constantly fighting for ur man 3) sexual surprises post commitment.

Anonymous said...

My son calls me from the U.S and a Nigerian mobile number pops up sometimes. When I tell him to drop and call again, his U.S number sometimes then appears in the next call. so you could try this if you don't trust that he is telling you the truth... I do that with my son too because I'm not sure sometimes what to really think. He pulls stunts and surprises on me...

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm poster 1..you have to choose between a doctor,pharmacist and engineer? What do u do tho?? Serial cheater,be there smoking weed and waiting for bv's to help u choose..yimu

john ushies said...

Stella your advice on post number 3 is so dumb, u fall hand today, so broke guys don't deserve to marry abi? The guy in question no broke sef, all this ojukokoro girl deserve guys that treat em anyhow

natt nathaniel said...

End time chro chro
According to stelz, kindly follow her advice.
P1 :My Dear i dont know who to help you choose oh.....Ah C is off,people like that will frustrate you when you marry her..choose between A and B.


natt nathaniel said...

P2: na beg I dey oooo.... make u listen to stelz
No b end time advice ooo
"ARE YOU DUMB?CHANGE CHURCH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.shes acting crazy,dont let her go and pour you acid when it gets to your wedding date oh...avoid any form of physical or verbal contact with a jealous from both sides,they ARE DANGEROUS!"

natt nathaniel said...

P3: I think u r partially correct Mrs korks.
I also think ur comment is partially an end time comment.
P3, follow stelz advice.

"According to me,you either marry for love or for money...you dont sound like someone in love otherwise these thoughts wouldnt come,your man has no money so why are you marrying him? oh,i forgot,change of status?
Since you are having such thoughts,why not wait a while and see how relationship progresses?why are broke ass brothers always eager to marry sef?...before two years now,kids all over the place!"

natt nathaniel said...

Emjay, dt advice 4 p2 no bam ooo
P2, jejeli leave d church b4 end time start happening.
Biko leave wit immediate alacritation

Ronalda. said...

#2: Sweetheart, it appears it isn't as "over" between your guy and his "ex as you think. He might really want to be with you but still enjoys something about her, perhaps the sex is good and he will keep going to "get some" as long as she's willing to "give some". There's a reason she can be that daring with you, knowing her actions will get back to your boyfriend. Trust me, if a guy really wants to end a relationship, he knows what to do.

This is a girl whom he caught pants down with another guy, according to him, yet he can laugh at her jokes and allow her upset you? Darling, isn't there something off about this? I know how guys react to infidelity, it's like cutting off their balls, emasculating them. It not only crushes their hearts, even if they aren't in love,‎ it takes a healthy chunk off their ego. Unlike ladies who can forgive a cheating partner, guys usually can't deal. So you can appreciate my curiosity at how at ease your guy is with his "ex" s intrusion in your relationship. The normal reaction will be disdain and resentment, he wouldn't even want to see her, let alone dignify her utterances with laughter.

I always smile when I read lines like " I'm not in any competition because she is older" or "I'm not threatened by her because I have a better figure and I'm classier than she". Honey, never underestimate any woman who wants the same man you want. Once a lady can connect with a man on an emotional level, looks become secondary. As for being 5 years older, that can mean she is more experienced at taking care of a man. Haven't you seen or heard about a guy dumping a younger lover for a much older one?  Some older women are fantastic lovers skilled at manipulating men with "reverence" and "humility".‎

You are already in competition ‎with her, it doesn't matter if you don't want to. Once someone wants what or whom you want, competition starts. I would've felt better if your guy could put an end to this competition by having a clean break from her. As long as he doesn't discourage her, she'll keep hanging around you guys and do all she can to get under your skin since she can see the effects her foolishness has on you.

There are several ways you can handle it. Go all machiavellian on her. Start being friendly with her even if you hate her guts. Sit next to her at any opportunity and strike up a conversation. When walking past her, you can also give her a "friendly" nudge and seal it with a smile. Beat her at her own game by giving her a taste of her own meds. Secondly, you can completely ignore her, which will be very challenging for you because she already knows how to press your buttons. Tell your boyfriend to handle the situation or you'll be forced to step down until he gets his life together. For all you know, you may be the rebound chic, he may not be ready to let her go completely. Give him time to sought himself out or this "ex" of his will haunt your relationship like an Albatross. But whatever you decide, my darling, NEVER let the competition see you sweat. Deal with whatever confronts you with dignity.‎

#e-bearhugs.‎

Anonymous said...

Mumu Nigeria number appear when you call from abroad nowadays

aisha jane said...

Lol emjay baby. Dis ur poster 2 advice eh