NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
my fellow bvs, first i will have to apologise if my words dont add up when you read please pardon my typos and language..i am high smoking marijuana and thinking about my problem
I am 28 year old man, i work and have a very good job, i have 3 ladies in my life, lets name them A,B,C
A is the type of girl that is a ride or die chic, she supports your opinion more than hers, for instance if you say lets tattoo our names on our body..she'll agree..and is bent on making everything work between both of you, a christian and just a Sunday church goer, i doubt if she knows a verse in the bible tho.she is a doctor and she lives abroad.
B is the take home to mama type of girl, she makes me laugh, she is beautiful and we never quarrel. B is a good girl, she is still a semi virgin at 26,and i honestly have zero complain about her.she is also a very good christian and she even advice me quoting the bible.she is not talking marriage but i know deep inside her she wants it. She is a pharmacist and she lives in lagos
C is saddist kinda girl, she is quiet most times, she has zero sense of humour, even when we watch comedy movies she does not laugh, she is over ambitious, and puts her career first, she is spirikoko to the core as in she goes to church Wed and Friday after work and Saturday for practise, Sunday for church, she wants to get married this year,C is an engineer and currently works in one of the top construction in lagos.
So una see wahala wey i put myself....i dont know who to go for. all you that will curse out that i am cheating,it is what it is.Who should i go for.
Mr Alphabets Bf
LMAO@Mr alphabets boyfriend.....looooool
You are so crazy.
My Dear i dont know who to help you choose oh.....Ah C is off,people like that will frustrate you when you marry her..choose between A and B.
NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN HIS EX IS BREATHING DOWN YOUR NECK...
Stella and the house good day....I've been having this funny experience about my boyfriends ex.They dated for over a year and broke up due to the fact that he caught her sleeping with someone else red handed.
They broke up June and we started dating October last year we've not done nothing cause I'm still a virgin and we having our introduction next month....we once had a fight bout her cause she walked pass us and made a comment at him and he was laughing while I was there,the other fight was cause not up to a week after that fight he started following her on Instagram then I called off the relationship cause I was extremely hurt buh he begged cried and promised never to do it again.He Blocked her and has indeed changed.
he quit choir and quit any church activity that could relate to talking to her and infact does funny things to me when she's in sight to get her extremely jealous and crazy to the extent that she herself had to quit the choir and changed her sitting position to where she won't be seeing us.But this girl won't let me be.She keeps doing everything possible to catch my attention,for example during prayers last week she just jumped into my front and I walked out.another time she pushed me with her body when I was going to the alter,I also ignored..I didn't tell my boyfriend cause it's a girl thing but I'm really loosing patience about this I'm not in a competition with anyone in terms of age she's older with 5 years I'm not gonna compare cause if she was better he wouldn't leave her for me.so I'm just so annoyed about this issue ,what will be the best thing I do right now ?
ARE YOU DUMB?CHANGE CHURCH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.shes acting crazy,dont let her go and pour you acid when it gets to your wedding date oh...avoid any form of physical or verbal contact with a jealous from both sides,they ARE DANGEROUS!
NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
YES OR NO?
Wie geht's? Keep up the good work.
Stella, I will be so happy if you could publish this my letter as I need serious advice.
I am a young lady, 24years old and rounding up her Masters. I had been single for 2years now after a relationship that didn't end well. After the relationship, I decided that I wanted the next one to lead to marriage. God willing. I have met quite a number of people but I just wasn't interested for one reason or the other.
Now, there's this guy I met last year, he is a wonderful guy, very caring and loves me to nuts.
The issue is his job is not paying much and he actually wants us to settle down early next year. We've been together for like 7months now and I have grown to love him so much even though I didn't initially love him that much at first.
Now, the issue is, sometimes I'm confused. I am applying for jobs now as well but I don't know if I should settle down with him. What if I'm meant to meet someone better and more financially stable in the future? Believe me when I say I have never cheated on him before.
Am I too young? Should I focus on my career now and maybe I'll meet someone better and as wonderful as him along the way. Should I settle for him? I really need advice dear BVS.
According to me,you either marry for love or for money...you dont sound like someone in love otherwise these thoughts wouldnt come,your man has no money so why are you marrying him? oh,i forgot,change of status?
Since you are having such thoughts,why not wait a while and see how relationship progresses?why are broke ass brothers always eager to marry sef?...before two years now,kids all over the place!.