Who this one help?Abeg shiftI hope you read this @Miss Yellow pawpawEven.with all your gragra always wanting to be sexy and satisfy @IK@IK still remains a male "dog"Still fucking around and misbehaving all over the place.someone should please summarize her tweet for me@Galore
So many ladies faking the wife material thingyLadies lets be real, real men will locate you.Stop pretending let chewing gum pretenders not see uBut in all remember to always be moderate in your speech
Bia you think Nigerian men think like that ,Dont pretend and see how many single ladies will be in the market .you think because you are quater oyibo and ik adores and you can put those half nude pics on ig and he lets you do it ,let one niger babe try it ,say he is married to igbo babe they will call family umunna for her .babe face your marriage and leave Niger girls alone ,yes wife materialMust pretend her way oooh.Nigerian girls can pretend for africa
What moral right does she have to give such a stupid advice.
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Sorry off topicSonia if you loose that your big ass today ik go flee... chai! dude is obsessed over your thing.
Ladies'advice. Not my business biko!
It doesn't change the fact that some people's Real nature is badSo bad that they can't make a man/woman stayForget all those bla bla bla about if they can't handle u at your best As a lady, if you've got a bad attitude, try to work on it and make a change Same applies to men
This Her eye brows is not inspiring at all.
Thank you, Sonia for this post. Only if they will hear and listen. Stella I greet oooo.
Omo,this babe is Whiteeeee,choi!!
Abeg make we hear word!
Which one be wife material sef?
Get a life out of this blog.
Oh Just shut up. Must you be in the news every 3weeks interval
She's so right. Let him love you for who you are. No matter how long you try to fake been nice, loyal your true identity will always come out. Just be yourself. No lies no secrets.
@blogbrity tru talk,don't know when w ladies will stop living their lives to please men
It takes the grace of God for a man not to cheat on you.
True talk!most ladies worship boyfriend who hasnt paid a dime on them...then for men looking for wife material upandan,pls is ur sister one? Naija ladies are too desperate,marriage in nigeria is overhyped abeg!!!
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Gbammm WORD,better talk oo preach it to them girl,some peeps beefing cos my husband is still madly in love with me after so many years while their own horsebands cheating and having bastard children all over town.i know how to keep my man, make him wanna be with me all the time and never look outside,cos all the fun I gat too, I dress up nicely,sexy mama, nice hair,very active in bed,interesting and fun,never a dull moment with me.i have a friend that is always complaining ohhh I can't wear this type of cloth anymore, I can't dress like that anymore cos am married now!!! Like say na she go first marry.the girls her husband carries about that he doesn't go home to her dey baff up nicely.i tell her issooraittt sidon there make Pant dey wear oo,nau be only born your husband go born outside,he go soon marry new hot babe come house,pack your load outside. They will get marry and stop looking after themselves and be complaining their man nau dey come home again,who go blame the man,when the Physical attraction is not there anymore.how do you excite your man?
She nailed it!!! Everyone is a wife material for a specific husband design. Simple!!!
This foolish woman should just shut up. Beauty with zero brain. Ok. Ik impregnated you and wedded u. in a wedding that none of his relatives attended. So we should not hear word again.
Enter your comment...we don hear
This Sonia of a woman should keep her sermon until her 50th marriage anniversary. It is her type that will choke her man. with too much "love" that he will be looking for freedom from her.
I absolutely agree with her, when I was a full time house wife, I had little or no respect from hubby and people around, the moment I started working, see respect, now I am progressing fast in my career and I have absolutely peace of mind, the respect from friends and family doubled!!! But it's because I try to have a balance in my career, being a wife and mother, I make sure I make everyone happy.. I still play my duties as a good wife and mother to my kids, and do not play with my career either. It's quite demanding but it gives me joy seeing everyone happy and satisfied.XxxbarbieXxx
True. I can't settle for less
And u don't see anything wrong in a white person saying NIGGER?
Lol be deceiving yourself! I saw him with a chic in my estate just this night.....with his white range rover (ACE 1 plate number)
All these girls will just marry today and start advising women that have been married for decades. Mtcheww. Nne, when u type this 10yrs later, i'll take note
I only saw her lipstick. Please what brand is that? #campthingsonmymind#
But at least she has helped far more people than you @galore and isn't hovering over the blog begging for 1k5 Internet subscription monthly.
Really? Moderate in speech? Swallow your own advice first.
All these babes married for 2 seconds giving words of advice like they have seen it all. Issoryt, carry on ma...
Onye bu du onyea? Mtcheew
HmmmmYou say relationship is about compromise. Then ladies should compromise a bit. Some ladies have been waiting for someone who will love them the way they are. ..they are still waiting. Nigerian men adore pretenders. Take you for example, you became a relationship counsellor because of Ikechukwu. Now your past will be deleted like fiam.Take Tonto Dikeh, she got married and started pretending with these silly long quotes alongside every picture so girls won't snatch her husband. Now everyone has forgotten the real Tonto. It worked. My dear, leave that story.XOXO MYSTERY
Omo, dis story tag get as e be o. Reached for my pad and pen while I clicked on the 'Read more' tab hoping to take copious notes when the page loaded only to find THIS
can someone tell the lady wife material is not an act or habit its a natural african woman pattern.she cant come from Colombia and be school nigerian ladies...remind her of the picture where buhari's wife was fdrying akara in adamawa or is it borno sef. attention seeker.
You are just jealous! "@IK remains a male dog & fucking all over the place" Has he ducked you??? Useless person that you are.
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Actually galore, she makes alot of sense on most of her posts
@Galore did IK fuck u, how come u know he's a male dog. What envy will do to the likes of u. Grow up already
The hustle for marriage is real, both men and women are pretending to be what they aren't, at the end of the day, they still separate/divorce. What's the essence of getting married.
word!!!!!!i feel you on this word,Enough for the wise
word!i feel you on this word.Enough for the wise
And I ask, what is the real you?
@Galore, get over that statement 'who this one help'. It is such an ignorant mind set. It is not a must or by force to help. However there are a whole lot of people who help others anonymously without flaunting it on social media. That said, comment on the content of her conclusions which borders on marraige, fidelity, self love, a good dose of a high self esteem, respect, appreciation, compromise etc. Learn to give constructive critique and or criticism. It won't make u lesser of a man or woman. To be insultive won't add a second to your lifespan talk less of a minute.
Be happy with yourself, and love yourself no matter what. Then anyone loving you is a plus. Wife or mother or sister materials, all na wash. How does wife material look like? Is it like Ankara or lace? Don't change your life for anybod. You will see someone who love you for who you are, without changing the real you but loving you.
Stella, when did all this rubbish start? Please leave this desperate housewife for the other blogger.... don't give the bitch our time please... she should go and rock her fake designer gears. IK is GAY, only married her cos no Nigerian lady will settle for his FAKE ASS lifestyle. My 2 cents, outtahere
Yes I agree, compromise is only meaningful when its mutual. Too many fake people out there.
Just negodu!So he can still cheat even after having a beautiful wife?What do men really want? I wonder what the chick looks like.
I must say I agree with Sonia... on the other hand Bv bipolar me pls I always look forward to ur comments esp whr u sign off with "don't blame me I'm bipolar"! cracks me up big time.. just noticed u don't use it anymore...'nough said..
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People shouldn't mistake other people's attitude based on this blog. I come here for fun, whether positive or negative comments I just laugh. So whether I'm loud or quiet on a particular day on d blog depends on what I want u guys to perceive. Dubai connection I yaff notice you. Go back to bed@anon the real me is what you don't see on this blog or read about@natt hmmmmmmm. End time blog friend
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I totally agree with her. Women can pretend ehh just to get a man to marry them. Then he marries u and sees ur true self then wahala starts
Her husband is black. Her son is black. So she's racist now?
who is she please?
HahahhahahahaI am laughing because it was her Hubby's ex Juliet Ibrahim that posted it first on IG.Mrs Smith was here :)
True talk anonymous.Chop knuckle.
This woman be forming marriage councillor every minute. Abeg we don hear. Some people have done all you've said but yet their spouses still cheat. Well,your advice is noted.
That fake guy called IK is a playboy naLet his chihuahua of a wife keep preaching.
Well said @anon 23:47,yes look good always. And above all, don't add weight. Or get a big fat belle when you are not pregnant. Women are their own biggest enemy. How can you be fat with bulging belle and expect your man to manage it. It won't happen.
women will always want to form cent each time they are married to a man or give birth. na God go judge every body.
My dear you make a whole lot of sense o! It's not the same thing for Nigerian men. Has alot to do with our culture. Sonia poses half naked and says that's who she is and I ask which Nigerian man will take that? Abeg let's be real jo. It can't and won't keep a man. Be yourself true but also behave like a Roman in Rome.
Let Kim K, married to a black man with black kids and a history of dating white men try saying nigger in the US. She has no right to say it
*history of dating BLACK men
How can you call a fellow human being foolish,just because she expressed her opinion on a matter! Please bridle your Tongue and ask God for Forgiveness! So much hate in the world! N am sure u attend sundday service! It's her opinion for christ sake, mind your business!!!! A word is Enough for the Wise.
La' Fresh: You are very local like a riverside fish seller. Your thinking and comment is always backward... You are asking which one is wife material? Well you are a local material and that's why your sense is inside your handbag.. Learn from your fellow female BVs on this blog on how to comment. MUMU girl
@totallydenim, yes she is very foolish for forming marriage counselor. when her marriage is only one year old
Word! "compromise is only meaningful when it is mutual"
Abeg am a housewife and my hubby respects and loves me
Linda may I ask you a question? Is the man you are trying to die for in shape? You think it's only women that need to be in shape? Go and birth a child and come back. These men who haven't harboured a foetus expect women to be sexy for them with their afo beer kwa ya? If u can maintain your figure good for you. If you can't, don't kill yourself. Try to be well kempt! Men should hit the gym ASAP! They don't have any excuse
Word! She nailed it
Trinity, that's not the point she was making. She wasn't referring to pretenders. She was referring to women who change their whole lifestyles, personalities, careers etc just to be what a man sees as "wife material", but then the same men who made them change all of that put them in a house/home but go out to cheat and run around with the exact same type of women they claim are not wife materials. That's very deep. And it's happening in most homes in Nigeria as we speak. Those men don't cheat because they suddenly see their wives' true natur, they cheat because they're the fake ones in the marriage. They do everything to get the " good girl" but yet are very incapable of making her happy in her matrimonial home after giving up so much for the guy. Basically, it's best to marry someone who accepts you the way you are, not a man who thinks you should cut this person out, tone that down, give up on your career, wear makeup a certain way, dress a certain way, speak a certain way etc because those ways are the ways he thinks a potential wife should be. Because after making you change all that and lose your self and self identity, he'll still go out to cheat with the type of ladies he talked down on.
She is married to a Nigerian so yes some Nigerian men are cool with it
They are not, is just for show@anon 20.52
The best thing is never to pretend but to marry someone who knows your flaws and ready to live with it forever. The sweetest part is when your marriage foundation is on God's solid rock.
still dating wife after 10 years of marriage!never cheated on her!love is a powerful thing so this girl is wrong !
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