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PROFESSIONAL  HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND SNATCHER

Hi Stella!

I'm a huge fan of your blog and I can proudly say that I've read over 98% of your posts. 

All pleasantries aside I finally have decided to send a mail which I hope will feature on the blog as soon as possible. It's on the issue of "HUSBAND SNATCHING".

My dear Stella I'm disappointed in most readers. Most females bash our fellow women when their husbands or pathetic boyfriends leave them for other women. Stella as an experienced husband/boyfriend snatcher I can assure you that the fault lies with the man (most times). I will narrate two experiences I had to buttress this point.

About three years ago I met a fantastic and intelligent man. He was in his late thirties and had a wonderful job. He spoke well and dressed like a fashion icon. We got chatting and the first thing that struck me was his age and that he should be married at this age. I didn't outrightly asked but I used style to find out. But this man would talk about his father, mother, sisters and friends. He would always complain about having to buy food and the stress of laundry. Dude was never in his house. In fact the time I went to his house with two friends and stayed for a week (because I was taking a course and his house was very close to the venue) I saw no trace of another woman. He kept on saying how happy he was that someone could cook for him. This went on for over a year. He was already asking me about my plans for the future and how I should better get ready to have 3 kids. Once I asked him why he wasn't married at his age and he said he was busy chasing money. But now he's ready. 

My man made trips to the U.S once at least every two months. He'd stay for a week. When I complained he took me with him and I felt foolish for being suspicious.

My dear Stella one faithful day when I was spending the weekend at my so called man's house I heard someone barking at the gate. When she and her army of hooligans barged in I want downstairs to find out what the issue was and why she was so pissed. Stella come and see the beating I received. They tore all my clothes and broke my arm. Acid was even threatened. What saved me was that the man had gotten some police men to drag them away. The woman kept screaming that i was a husband snatcher. That I want to render her 2 kids bastard. Aahhh Stella see me crying that it was a mistaken identity not until my so called man called her by name and told her to shut up. Omo that was when I fainted. 

This evil man took me to the hospital but my mum made sure I was transferred. For 3 months he kept on begging me and even found a way to reach my mum. He said he fell in love with me and wants to marry me but he is finding it difficult to divorce the other woman. Stella till now I don't talk to that man again.

Stella and my darling blog visitors if that woman posts my picture with her husband and calls me a husband snatcher would that be fair?????? 

Narrative two was with a male friend. This idiot had been professing love to me. I said no way no. I dont want. Let me focus on my studies. But after a year of persistent begging and him seeming level headed and all I decided to give it a try. I even made him swear that he was single. Aunty Stella we dated for two years! On my birthday he got me a nice avensis and trust my excited friends they uploaded the pictures. Stella the weekend we were to formally visit his people that was when the original girlfriend decided to announce her presence. 

She started by sending a bc to all his friends and hers and even some of mine (how she got them I don't know) about me being a deaparate unrepentant husband snatcher. That she is his baby mama and they've been dating for 7years. That me I knew but because of money I want to snatch her husband. That she had called me woman to woman but I told her that she should do her worst. Stella even on Facebook and instagram where she put my picture and her false story see people cursing me. 

I wanted to die. I thank God for my mum. She saved my life. Stella I had to defer a year in the University. Everywhere I went people would be whispering. Random guys would be approaching me trying to try their luck because I was seen as a whore. Those who were already jealous of me would start making up more juicy stories. Memes were formed for me. Stella I wanted to die. My roommate who had issues with me already took a picture of me in my underwear while I was sleeping and tagged it "after a hard days work" inferring the worst on my character.

It's a long story but before you guys jump and judge please and please get all facts straight. Also we as women should focus on the man as they are the cause of moslt infidelity cases. Married men and boyfriends posing to be single, widowers or divorced. They are the ones that come chasing after us. Aunty Stella if not that i had a strong support system of my mum and friends I could have gone back to that first man because i loved him too much. He showed me enough love you and attention. He made me feel like a princess and call me names oh ye holier than thou readers but I even lost my virginity to him. I was that lost in love.

I've also noticed that if a woman is caught outside with another man we women will still insult her. Why don't we focus the man outside and call him a Home wrecker or a wife snatcher??? Do we now see how biased we are to our own gender? That's why men won't stop cheating because they know we would never confront them.

To end it all I am a professional husband/boyfriend snatcher but am I really to blame? Think before you judge. Judge the men (your husband and boyfriends) and not the women involved. 

P.S. I'm in no way saying that all women are innocent as there are some evil and crazy ones out there too but please just try to see the sense in what I'm saying.

My darling Stella all this bring tears to my eyes. Please dont post my identity or email address. Thank you. I really want you to post this so we can save an innocent girl from slander.