Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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  NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
FRUSTRATING PARENTS BROUHAHA

Hello Stella,
God bless you richly.

Straight to the point, Stella my parents are frustrating the living day light out of me, they are making me thing of various things like runs,doing something to disgrace them, get pregnant etc, they are driving me to depression infact.

I finished service last year, I got a job early this year but had to stop recently because they are owing as month as two to three months. I have skills but my area isn't business friendly or I do not even know if am cursed because even when I put it online, I get many likes but not a single soul ever patronises me.

Am 26, my elder sister is 33 and we are not yet married but I fee my parents are a party to it. Infact, my elder sister use to have body before but she is just a shadow of herself now, at 33, no serious relationship, she feel so low of herself because my parents derive joy in seeing us not happy with their deadly mouth. At her age, she is scared to even go on a date because they will ask her where she is going to and who is she going to look for. 

The other day a man came to look for her, imagine what my parents did, asked her to get a dictionary and define what a boyfriend is, I felt like dying. She has finally relocated but her esteem is already dead, she can't stand where are mates are because she feels so low of herself.
My mother worked with the federal government and was in a very good position to put all of us in before she retired but I don't know what is wrong with her. 

She only thinks of herself to the detriment of her children's future. She is either the leader of this and that group in different meetings and church and she gets to meet people who could be of help ,yet she does nothing about it. I do not know if she is feeling shy to ask for help or its pride. At times when I look at her when she starts telling us of other people's daughters, where they work and who is about getting married to them, I feel like telling her real words but I just have to hold myself back.

What about motherly advice? Minute zero, no good rapport of any kind. We prefer outsiders to advice us than her, because when you seek advice from her, she sounds as if you have already committed the sin already. She says other people comes to her for advice but her own daughters run away from her, I do not even gist with her, I just like staying away from her and her always looking for fault attitude. Since the day I told her of an 8years old girl who was sleeping with a 32 years old man in our secondary school then when the gist came , I happen to be i n the staff room that day because I use to be the teachers' handbag then. 

I got home and decided to gist my mother as per mother and child ooo, only for my mother to tell me that me that am talking, is it not how they have been using me up and down,that there is one of her meeting member that use to teach around my school, that she use to see me, oh my God, I cried that night because I have never known a man then, I was in jss2 then. Well, that was the day I vowed never to gist my mother anything again, I prefer to take it to outsiders.

My father on his own part, his mouth is too acidic, imaging him saying he doesn't know if these his daughters will ever make him happy. I graduated with a second class upper ooo, not that am not bright and intelligent. If he sees us watching television, it becomes a problem,he starts saying I won't go and read my books,that if they call me for interview if it is that film that will answer the questions am being asked,that we are saying there is no job , that intelligent people are getting jobs,etc. When he sees us operating phones, it becomes a problem, when we are idea, it's still a problem. 

I have refused to end up like my elder sister, I do not want them to kill my self esteem because am too sharp.
These people called parents are driving me nuts, i dont know if I should open my legs to get a job if that will make them happy or I should just die so they don't have to worry about me anymore, they will be glad that am dead and gone.
Sorry for the long write up please.

*sad sigh*

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
THE PRICE OF CELIBACY

Good day Stella, my Name is ****** but I comment as Strawberry. Please dont publish my email address, nice Job you are doing with your blog. God bless you. 

 I was actually introduced to your blog by my boss at the Office. Please I will like for you to throw this question to the house for discussion. Is it wrong to tell a guy a few days into a relationship that you can't have sex with him? Or you wait until he asks and then you say the big NO. And why do they leave when you tell them you can't have a sexual relationship with them. 

This is the situation I am in right now. Since I decided to go celibate since April 2013, I have not had a relationship. I remember one telling me that it's not like I am a virgin so why will he date and not have me. It's so crazy. But I pledge to still remain celibate till the one who wants me for me comes along. Celibacy no easy though but It saves you some trouble. Thank you.