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Saturday, 27 August 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives..

WTF.....Cant deal for the life of me!







NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MARRIED TO A GAY


Dear Mrs. Korkus,

 
After thinking this matter through I have summoned the courage to send this in. I met my husband in February 2012 through a dating site then I was 25 year and just out of a relationship with a cheater who impregnated someone. 

Immediately after meeting him he started talking marriage, looking at his age I come to the conclusion that he must be serious then we started dating. Few months into dating he came to see my parent then after he fixed the wedding in July, my instinct refused to with the wedding so I told him to move it to October but he said no that it must happen in July or no more wedding.

All this while we were dating we never kissed or have S3x  and I said to myself maybe because of he work coz he's in the medical field and always business.
Fast forward to the wedding, after the whole ceremonies and the wedding over no kiss even the priest I noticed did not say you may kiss the Bride and my cousin asked him why he said nothing.

I read lot of WNB here it pains me I don't have any because we slept in different Room that night and the night following it I was untouched. things started going on in my mind and for two weeks he formed busy and did not touch. So I decided to take matter to my hand by going to meet him and I discovered that he doesn't have erection and I asked what is the problem he said it's coz of stress, I kept quiet.

So one Sunday when he was not at home I opened his laptop coz I was feeling lonely and I logged on to his Facebook account, I started reading messages and I got a shocker my husband is a Gay. Stella I wept that how can this happened to me I called him and immediately he got back and carry the laptop and said now that I have discovered I will kill myself. That same night some guys come and i was scared for my life coz they might kill me I was confused and don't know what to do. Several times he has beat me.

Further digging revealed to me that he has being into it for decades from boarding school days then university in UNIZIk where guys do it to themselves. All the "beautiful" guys that are part of the grooms men are gay too. I told my parent, told his sisters and brother.

Even till this very moment we have never kiss, for more than 3 years now no S3x  and he has never suck or press  breast. I have a beautiful daughter anytime I look at her I erase any suicidal thoughts. She is a miracle child cos husband can't ejaculate there was a time he has had to use syringe into pour it inside after masturbation. I read where he was telling a guy that for him to have erection he will imagine having S3x with one of his lovers. 

I see handsome guys around him all the time and he's on dating sites for Gays. He travels every time to Abuja, Port Harcourt etc. I have even seen hotel receipts for lodgement.

Since I married him he doesn't provide for me nor for the child and he come back very late past12am. I enrolled for part-time school to better equip myself for the future. he doesn't pay my fees I had to be begging people. I told him to help me with school fees so I don't drop-out coz the work I do can't pay my fees he said no.

Stella am tired of life. I feel life is unfair to me. I have being struggle from childhood hawking in the market and running after vehicles in traffic to earn some money, even when people told me o can earn more prostituting I said NO. I am the first of seven children going to my parent is to burdened them coz my father is a pensioner.
Writing this brings tears to my eyes because I try not to think about it of  how unfair life has being to me and unlucky I am.


I plan to divorce him after completing my education and move far away where he can't get me. 
I know he'll try to fight for custody of the child. The lawyer friend that was ready to fight my case passed on recently and the other one knows him and refused to take on the case.
These Gay people know people in high places even when I reported to police the last time he beat they did nothing instead  they said I should go home or to give them money to mobilise.

We don't sleep in same room but anytime his away I sneak into his room, I see lubricant gel, condom and naked male photos in his laptop when he didn't carry it some time he'll go with the charger.



So what kind of Marriage are you in and what should we do?why dont you quit and move on?you seem to be just housemates.Discuss this with your family and end that marriage so that you can free him to live his life the way he wants....

Hmmm this kinda brings that celibacy issue to a point where it should be questioned...imagine not knowing becos you want to be celbate until after Marriage and then you find you married a man who married you to hide his sexual preference!...SHEET MEEEN!


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN SELF DESTRUCTIVE MODE IS ACTIVATED
Hello Stella,
Thanks for all the good jobs going on here. Please bear with me because my story is lengthy.
Dear BVS, you can cuss me but please leave an advise for your younger sister.


Few years back, I met this young, cute and down to earth guy when I was just 17 and he was 20, he didn't woo me nor ask me out. We just fell in love; he loves, cares and practically worships me and kiss the ground I walk on. He makes me enjoy so much that I dare not say I need something; he'll sell his things, lie to his parents till he gets the money for me.

 If my boyfriend has #10, I'll collect #9 or sometimes the ten naira itself. He'll cry if I joked about our relationship being over, he walked through the jungle with me, cooks and brings it to my house; if I said I was ill, he'll come and pack my clothes to wash and return them. 

His parents love me to the core, they pamper me but all of a sudden, things changed.

I TURNED INTO A MONSTER!

I disrespect, curse, hit him at any slightest provocation but being the gentleman he is, he'll still beg me, just imagine any worst thing in your head, yes! I did them to him but he is still coping with me. I disgrace him so much, I don't want to remember all the things I have done, it makes me feel like a mistake in his life which I truly am.

Fast forward to this year, I'm 22 and he is 25. My boyfriend has changed, he is sick and tired of my attitude. I keep getting worse day by day, my anger is having its way in my life. He barely calls, he doesn't care anymore if I leave or not, he is just fed up! 

I'm not seeking advice on how to change for good but only seeking for advice on how to stop loving him, I don't deserve him but I love him so much and breath him.
 Please what can I do? 

Since I'm a b*t*h... , he deserves the best and nothing but the best. How can I let him go and face my wretched life? Please  advise me because I don't want to do anything bad to myself. I'm typing this in tears.
Please HELP!!!



*Confused*
Ah ah since he doesnt care anymore why dont you wait a while and see what happens.
I also suggest that you go for help,something is going on with you and you need to find out why you are depressed.You may never get your man back but you need to find out what is happening to you so that you can put a stop to it.people like you end up frustrated and angry at other people,jealous and bitchy for no reason at all.

Find help fast becos you are in a self destructive mode right now and nobody but you can help yourself,if you are sane enough to send in this Chronicle then i say GO GET HELP FAST BEFORE YOU LOSE IT!





116 comments:

Jasmine said...

Poster 1: he's gay and doesn't take care of u? Why not continue ur hawking in ur parent's house and have peace of mind that staying with him when u know he can beat u any time? Even ur pensioner dad will prefer to have u alive and in his house than u being dead.


Poster 2: how did u turn out to be this bitchy? Hian!!!

Anonymous said...

No comments... Both chronicles are crazy

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
I would have advised you to stay,endure and probably get your self a side nigga if he is rich and taking care of you but nna mehn...dude is a fuck boy!...
Leave that marriage now!...afteral,you are not gaining anything from it...
Don't go and die because of a fag like Bitchpls of this blog...

Poster 2,
You have to move on mehn!...afteral he is a broke ass!...

James said...

@Poster 1, people can now see why it is good for intending couple to test and taste each other before marriage. To date for a reasonable time at least one year is also crucial.
Madam.Go and Watch war room

White Diamond said...

Na wah for these chronicles!

#WhiteDiamondOut

white Berry said...

Narrative one: go for a divorce period. I don't know why you are asking what you should do and I think you are partially begging as well from then I started have double feelings if this your write up is even true or not because who will discover such a thing about the husband and still choose to remain in such marriage.

Sharon john said...

@ poster one you are not married at all,you are just married to yourself,is better you walk away,cause nothg will eventually change him.
Poster 2,you are a problem to yourself,seeing a loving guy and yet you are treating him anyhow,now he is fed up of you,just walk on urself and God will see u through.

Honeybunny said...

P1: speechless.
P2: u need to see a shrink ASAP!!

The best amongst the cuties said...

Wonders shall never cease. Odiegwu.

Anonymous said...

Poster one:
So easy to point a finger a someone else. How has your life been? How many kids have you killed by abortions? That one of the main reasons why women do not "have a family of their own'

Read Exodus one verse twenty one especially and see how God rewarded ladies who resisted the temptation of killing babies with "families of their own". When there is a stumbling block to your having a happy family you can call your own, think about your past dealing with kids; helpless kids and see if you were kind or cruel to them. Repentance and turning to God will be you salvage plan.

Those ladies who have aborted before and do not want to repent will soon come under this comment to scream perhaps anonymously.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

@1, how can u live with a gay for 3 yrs, u obviously don't love yourself,u c y fucking before marriage is very necessary, I can never marry a guy without gbenshing oh to avoid stories like this, madam married woman just pack ur load and go, if he's not taking care of u from d money he gets from fucking rich guys, wat d hell are u still doing there..
@2, u are a witch, an evil spirit has possessed u,u claim u love him yet u are trying to destroy him,u be OGBANJE, better go to deliverance.

DonMayor said...

Poster one. Why are you still in the marriage ? Seems the guy is very rich. You used syringe to inject sperm Inyo your pussy ? Abeg check yourself, you are having a problem upstairs.

Blackberry said...

Poster two when u clock menopause, ur watery brain would reset. Shey if he scatters ur teeth, u would shout DV? Continue.

Vickie Finest said...

Poster, you don't have to wait till you finish school to leave him. Why did you even agreed to have a child for him? Better leave him now before is too late for you.

Atheist. said...

Maybe if young ladies really know what marriage entails they'd be more careful b4 jumping at every man on bended knees, you wouldn't even wait to knw if he went on one knee to lace his shoes, you'd scream YES!!! Too many poor decision making keeps going in circles amongst youth, even the so-called educated ones, putting the cart b4 the horse... B4 u'd learn to make corrections, ure likely stuck & the regret is for life, marriage is to be feared like Ebube, but u see them waltzing in like Spar. Poster dedicate ur life to bringing up ur daughter to be wise, so history wldnt repeat itself, that's all

Poster2: Pls get out of my face!!!!

Mr. Chopalone said...

Omg! Poster one pls just take a walk already, it won't get "badder" than it is... Sigh

Anonymous said...

@jasmine....yu so stupid for dis comment...

DonMayor said...

Imagine poster two. Youno get home training abi ?

Debi said...

Poster 1, please go and continue your education in your parents house. You are not married. You entered one chance. You are not different from all the single women out there. If you don't want to leave your child with him of which I won't advise you to leave your child, go to the village somewhere far away that he won't see you and your child and start all over again.

Anonymous said...

@poster 1...yu nid to act fast and dnt undastnd hw yu got a baby girl widout se for dis same man
@poster 2...yu got a very very big problem words can't solve,wen yu age 100 widout a man,yu wil solve ur deadly problem

Anonymous said...

As a rule, the word been is always used after have (in any form, e.g., has, had, will have, having). The word being is never used after have. Being is used after to be (in any form, e.g., am, is, are, was, were).

Debi said...

Abi. Even my old parents use to say, your room is still here abeg come back home. We don't want to bury you. At least there is peace

Trey Mama said...

Wow... poster one, so sorry for what you're going through. Really sad. Thank God you're taking steps to better yourself.
Poster 2, said you not seeking advice to change for good? But you should be seeking advice/help to change for good. Even if not for him, for yourself.
Am imagining the worst things in my head... nah, you couldn't have done that. Hehehe, you are being too hard on yourself. Concentrate on working on yourself for now, you can change your "monstrous" ways. He will come back to you if it's meant to be. Good luck!

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Poster 1

You married out of desperation and not celibacy. Youbsae the sign. Why should a man threaten you with marriage? If not July no more marriage. You knew he was up to no good, why did u artificially inseminate yourself? Because you want to appear to the whole world that you're happily married and not barren.

This I'd your baggagr, you brought it upon yourself. You want a cute dude and you got more than cute. I laugh at you, if an of your ex gets to read your story. If you like divorce but until your graduation. Watch WAR ROOM!!!

Blackberry said...

Poster one, stop giving d guy hell at home, stop d quarrels, pretend to be understanding and he'll so shower u with money ehn, then when u've gotten enof, get a clean break, you'll be amazed how many women are comfortably living with their gay billionaire husband's.

Anonymous said...

Poster2; pls work on urself and try to rekindle d love u guys have. But first work on urself
Poster1; ur self esteem is almost beyond redemption. ..u allowed d fag to use syringe to insert sperm into ur something #in james'voice#...choi....just leave
#PAM 👄 #

Anonymous said...

Poster 1: you should have left immediately you discovered that you married a gay man. He could have infected you when you did the artificial insemination to get pregnant. Homosexuality is the fastest way to get infected with HIV.

Anonymous said...

It was my husband that taught me about "spiritual snooping" and I will never be tired of sharing this experience with ladies. The problem is that some ladies want life the easy way and that's the way of chronicles of bitter narratives. But the way of peace is to connect with Christ and know what lies in secret!

Yes, I broke up with my best friend of over a decade. We were too close. She went to a medium to make me mad. Her reason, I was too close to my New husband at the expense of our friendship. She wanted to exercise control over my home and I stood my ground and said no. she tried to seduce my husband; but that one was harder than igneous rock; he knew weeks before the girl made her first move. He is a praying mantis and fasts more than he eats in a week. To think that I could have lost my mind, ran naked on the streets etc. because of "a friend" is mind boggling. I was used to eating just fruits at noon (well, that was after I got married) and joined my husband to eat a whole meal with drinks and snacks at night (he eats only at nights for the past decade). When he told me of my friend's moves and the consequences of laxity, I went on 3 days with water and joined him to eat at nights for three months. It was the girl who came to confess of her evil deeds when instead of me running mad, she lost a very dear sibling. Guess that was the price she paid in the medium. Her long luxurious hair was clean shaven the day she came to my house weeping. I wouldn't have allowed her in if not that my husband wanted "my eyes to open" and asked me to indulge her. She told me that if my husband had fallen to her seductive maneuvers, I would have gotten mad the moment I had sex with him. If you hear what was pouring out of her mouth? I have learnt a veritable lesson in my life. You are either a Christian or you are not! Forget about all these giving of vagina and dancing in the church!

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Poster 2

Since you want to stop loving him. Tell him about single n mingle. Do the posting for him since he's a newbie and let him mingle.

This your attitude might be spiritual husband, and until you're delivered, you might not get married

PayUrsula said...

@15:09 lol

Latoya Totsman said...

Really crazy!!!! Don't even know what to advice anymore. They both sound like they already have solutions to their problems. It is well.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

He is gay
He beats you.
He doesn't provide for u n ur child
Pls what are you waiting for to back to ur father's house?
I also blame u for being dumb.....u met someone online without even trying to date him for atleast 1yr.
You just rushed into the marriage.
Pls blow the trumpet and pick race.

Olufemi Atinmo said...

Hmm na wa oo.

Poster 2 how could you have gotten pregnant for such a person. When you are in a hole, stop digging! . Since there is violence involved PLEASE pack your load and leave IMMEDIATELY. Make sure you take your child away from that deviant.

Poster 2, what exactly is your problem. What is making you angry? . Get closer to God.dazzall

delta babe said...

Poster 1,leave him ASAP, poster 2,you've identified the problem,you need a combination of prayers,therapy and some hot slaps.

Tessbaby said...

Poster 1, so if dem say all married women come out u sef go stand up? Ok o. Carry on.



Poster 2, ure not bitchy, ure just taking advantage of his "mumurity". wait till u fall in love with a real nigga then ull understand d word humility even without a dictionary. Dont ask how ull leave him just leave him d hell aline n carry ur agbanje face front.

Miss Cute said...

If he is that caring,and u threw him away, pls pass me his details, lemme amend his heart. Meanwhile, seek medical help, before you hurt yourself.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. Good girl never helped anybody. So after all you went through in your life you allowed a man do this to you? Na prostitutes dey marry pass and marry well. So why did you have a child for him? You better leave that situation because he'll never change.

Anonymous said...

This has nothing to do with celibacy Stella,many people who had sex before marriage has even encountered similar or worse problem,the world is now full of strange happenings.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2. You are an obanje

Anonymous said...

Lmaoooooooooooooo #DEAD

Martins Aboy said...

Ahh;This war room sha..

I have read a lot about it here and just some mins ago I finished downloading it..
I will try to watch later at night and see what is with most BV's and this movie..

If it isn't interesting eehh;the thunder!! The thunder that will fire .......... is still obtaining NAFDAC Reg No....kikikikikiki

#JustKidding...

@MARTINS ABOY

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 2: nawa o how dd ur psychological state detoriate to this level, am very sure u are one of those frustrated bvs who go under anonymous who spew venom on ds blog. Its well wt ur soul, I wonda wot ur bp wud be reading. Pls see a shrink bfr u kolo finish....

Pure Nigerian said...

Poster 1: No, life isn't unfair; you made it so. Women! There is more to life than marriage 'at all costs'. Your life dream shouldn't be only about your dream man, please. It'd be terrible to die as someone without ambitions to be better at something or impact positively into the lives of people around you. You owe it to yourself as an adult to be something. Also, having a sense of self worth is important. The man never loved you, when you found out, you didn't leave but decided to hang on, for a reason I can't decipher. You haven't consumated your marriage and agreed to be injected so as to have a child...that you are the first of 100 children is irrelevant; that you come from a poor home is irrelevant...these and many more factors are no reasons you should behave stupid in life *no insult intended*
Come on rise up from your stupor

Poster 2: Na omode be dey do you and plus you took your boo for granted. Work on yourself

Chidinma Grace said...

N1, pls leave bc u re married to urself. N2, work on urself n leave man matter for now till u are cured.

Martins Aboy said...

@poster one;if you know your worth,Value that..cos if you lose your worth;you have lost your self value!

What you are into is a sham in the name of marriage,and truth is there is no advice like that which you give to yourself..

If he is bent on being gay and isn't ready to accept the "Straight" lifestyle;stop killing yourself and quit that marriage!! For it was built/started on deceit..

Quit complaining and make use of your time while you have still got it;cos your "horseband" seem to be like those gays who want just "A child" and can take further step to eliminate the "wife" figure if there is any form of threat or turbulence in their life..

Be wise!!!

@MARTINS ABOY

Anonymous said...

Is this one ok atall?

Anonymous said...

Gbam!!!!! Immediately she stared to write I hav suffered my parents are this and dt I lost interest. I read it to d end but it's a sob story and even she knows dere is no advice to give her cos d marriage is obviously a sham. As for poster two,follow Stella's advice. No need to further expansiate.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: A woman has got to love a bad man at least once in her life to appreciate a good one. when you fall for the wrong one, you brain would get a reset.

MISS Jacobs.

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 1: sorry for ur predicament but how long do u think u have to live on earth dat u have completely resigned to a life of misery n pain under d platform of a marriage was not just built on deceit right from day 1... Pls u have evry right to walk away from dat toxic situationship, d next Chronicle u might send kud probably in ur grave...(God forbid sha), I know its difficult but pls walk away ur dota still needs u alive.

Adadioramma said...

Poster 1, whether you leave today or stay forever, the truth is you are single. He is even stingy to you, please run fast. poster 2, deliverance calling.

olubee said...

Poster 1 Kai the truth is this gay of a thing is a strong spirit if u want to fight it I mean if u love the man u have to pray I mean have DNA with the holyspirit pls that all u need that can bring joy.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Poster 1,,,,Move on and don't ever look back..
Poster2.... You're such a physco!!!! You need godly counsel...
*Faithful bv*

beeolah said...

Poster 1, pray until sometin happen or divorce
Poster 2, visit them at yaba left.

Atheist. said...
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Anonymous said...

Sister how you sef get this kain friend. You girls will be following bad gang before marriage and then marry to be forming holy sister. This might not be your story but your friend sparked just because? Man is wicked but sister before you start prescribing you better bury your head, be thankful and cut off all bad friends

Noirxvn X said...

I don't feel anything when I read narratives like the first. Nigerians have decided that homosexual people cannot be free to love who they want and this is what that results in.

Poster 2 you have issues and you need to see a therapist to figure out what's going on with you. That's the only option. You might have some sort of mental disorder (Emphasis on might). Get help. Don't be silent. Tell him you realize your behavior is unacceptable and you're now willing to get help. I'm sending some positivity, love and light your way and I hope you and your boyfriend are able to work through this.❤️ (Feel free to contact me if you need help or anything)

Anonymous said...

Poster 2...you will outgrow your immaturity. Allow this man to go and be with a mature girl.

Poster 1...You wanted Mrs title and to tie 2 wrapper. Calling all these happy single women Aunty Gwegs? How will you marry a man who threatens you with marriage? A beautiful queen like you? He is gay not "a gay".

He beats you on top of his ways?
Take your child and run far away. Igbo parents will keep pushing their children off to marry and see the consequences. Before anybody asks how I know the tribe...I know this story. Besides it is not just Igbos but this lady is so lay off.

Anonymous said...

Hahahahah....abeg whr u see abortions from? Hahahaha....u sound gay! Go read d post again u unnatural creature! Hw u de tke process info abeg? Upandan creature like u...go get help

3Dview said...

I am a Lady, 24 yrs old, one boyfriend, 1 ex-boyfriend, christian, working. Never aborted and Never will and I have to tell you that you are mad, anonymous 15:16. See how u judge all in d name of preaching. Woe unto you and dat ur pastor

3Dview said...

I had to go back to see where she said she aborted. Did u even read abt how she grew up hawking on d streets nd refused to prostitute herself? Haba, ur palace in hell awaits u if u dont change ur judgemental mind set. Na wa..

mali said...

poster 2..ur story is fake...and you need to stop watching nollywood movies

Anonymous said...

Gbammesttttt @ur response to poster 2.i used to think like this poster until I met Mr.B..omo d obanje,left me by force and I beame like the 'guy'this poster talked about.

Porsh beibe said...

@Anonymous15:32, u neva tire to post dis story? STALE!

Anonymous said...

90 percent of igbo guys are gay both married and unmarried. It's strange but it's the truth.

Isolde Fontaine said...

Poster 1, this your situation is critical oh. You should pray and specifically ask the HolySpirit for what to do and your next move.
Poster 2, please let the guy be before you kill him or before he snaps and does something to you.

Anonymous said...

Please put sniper in his food let him die a beg! U are better off a widow than married to a gay! And d fool even rubs it in ir face? Lol

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Martins,watch it with an open mind,you have a lot to gain from it.

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Poster 2,please deal with your foundations or you might never be happy in life. Go for deliverance.

AGELESS T said...

He used syringe to pour semen into you? And you spread your legs for that to be done? I don't get it! That's the height of it for me!

How did you allow that? Why did it take you this long to seek help? What role is his family and yours playing in all these.

Ah! End time is truly here...

Anonymous said...

Please judge this matter.

I have this aunt, that I stopped visiting or calling just because; i only call her when i realky have to two years ago after an incident that I like to refer to as the last straw. Bear in mind we are a very close knit family to an extent.

I'm just going to give a few examples of the things she does/did that made me stay away.

About 2 years ago, I went to her house so I could help her package her son's visit visa. She wanted him to travel with me as I was traveling that summer plus he needed some docs as well from my pop. So I went, did everything for her. We submitted, even though I was supposed to travel like two weeks after we submitted the passport I kept shifting the travel date until his passport came back. Anyway she asked, sorry begged me to stay as she's a working mum and my cousin also begged that he didn't want to have to go to work with her. So I stayed. Fast forward to one night, one of her friends came- I guess my snobbish look made her curious about me. She sha asked my aunt who I was, my aunt replied that I'm the sister that came to take care of her son till he travels- meaning I'm the maid. Only for her friend to say, oh when he travels she should let me come and stay with her so she can teach me manners. I just smiled and went inside- I realised my aunt didn't consider me family after all. I sha packed my bags, went to my papa's house the next day, renewed my passport, bought ticket for 50k higher than normal, because I was waiting for her sons visa.

Apart from that; you know how we all have our blonde moments.. She never misses an opportunity to talk about how I'm not that smart, and why people always say I'm so smart; and she wonders how I even pass school. At first I used to laugh about it, because I thought it was a joke but I later realised it wasn't.

One of her boyfriends at the time once called me homeless and she laughed; I was staying with her during my it as her house was close to where I was working, just because I wanted to squander the rent money my Dad gave me then... I sha moved to another city for my it sha. There's still more oh but you get the picture.

Anyway, my other aunt the oldest one called me and was chastising about not calling or visiting my aunt. Obviously she would have gone to table my matter before her... And I'm trying not ti cause fight between sisters so I didn't tell my mum or siblings.

Anyway am I supposed to just act like all is well and start calling her or visiting (fake which is so not me) or should I just damn what anybody is going to say afterall I have my reasons. Nobody want to be around anybody who feels the need to put them down.

Thanks guys. I apologize for the long narrative

Starjoy said...

Poster1 you are married to a guy who does not support you financial, and even beating you, then what are you still waiting for?it seems you don't cherished your life and your little girl, please go and talk to your father to return the money he paid on you if not may God help you. Poster2 what is wrong with you is that the guy has shown that he is badly in love with you that he can never move forward without you, but you are very wrong because he is already moving on. You better retrace your steps since you have realise it.

Mrs. Romas said...

Poster 1, your husband is gay, go and nullify your marriage, you should have leave the moment you understood he was gay, why remain with a man who never take care of you?
My dear, be very careful, gay men can be very jealous and they also kill easily. Leave that house and go back to your parents. Continue your part time study, try and get a job or start a business so you can be able to take care of your child.
God be with you.

Poster 2, you don't need any advice on how to unloved your boyfriend! You already don't love him anymore; because i can't seems to understand how you'll just wakeup one day and start disrespecting/insulting someone that worship the ground you walk on (your words).
Let the boy be, don't put your frustration on him. Is either you're possessed or depressed. Either way, go see a psychologist, priest or a pastor.
You are sick, you need to get treated as soon as possible before it will get worse.

Nneyo said...

Poster2 they say too much familiarity/kindness breeds insults,you are used to his full blown love and mumurity that's why you are taking him for granted.You need to date a guy that will rough handle you to reset your mentality.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Is marriage do or die?why are you still there

Anonymous said...

Poster 1: I feel for you. May God engrace and strengthen you to make the right decision concerning this marriage.

JOYOUS said...

i completely doubt poster one.....seriously? no no u cant tell me u found out he's gay and you still stayed with him for three years....you just wrote a touching story that will attract 500k! poster 2 please take Stella's advice seriously

Anonymous said...

Poster 1
You don't have sense. Your marriage was based on deceit and by right should be annulled. The very day you found out he was gay, that was the day you should have left that house, but you stayed put because you must be a "Mrs". Imagine your husband using a syringe to put sperm inside you. You are just foolish... no vex.

Poster 2
I understand exactly what you are going through... I have been there. He loved me with his life... I loved him too but had so much disrespect for him. What separated us was distance... he got a better job and left. He calls me on daily basis and still gives me monthly allowance. He is married now to a woman he doesn't love, I pushed him. But his kind of person won't cheat on his wife, yes, I know him that well. I missed a good man because of immaturity and bad character. The worst part is, I have never been disrespectful, not even to my juniors. Till today I didn't know how it happened. He was a husband I missed... I will go on my knees and apologise to him over and over again, not because I want him back, but because of the bullshit he had to put up with. The respect I have for him now is tripple... and that's because I'm more matured now and have come to understand God and life better. if you can, please don't break up with him... just work on your character.

Elixir Ray said...

See this fag o!

Anonymous said...

Martin where did you download it from?

Anonymous said...

There Really too many war room movies on youtube, which one exactly is the movie

Anonymous said...

Is the American war room or Nigerian war room

Anonymous said...

Poster2: Na people like you no dey allow girls see better husband cos una don destroy their life. I wish you all the best.
Poster1: madam, you have some esteem issues. You found out your 'flatmate' is gay weeks after the wedding ceremony, yet you stayed. Why? I am sure it's cos of the money. You decided to get pregnant for him thinking that would make him drop more bar, but you chose wrongly. I just pray your flatmate doesn't beat you blue black when he finds out you put story out there.
I have some running bata for house incase you need it. In short, you seriously need it.
Anyways, you can choose to remain in the marriage. At least, having a housemate, eating 3 squared meals a day is better that hawking under the sun in their Buhari period. Wish you all the best.

ghostwriter said...

Poster 1, carry your daughter and divorce the man pls. He is mad

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

i hate reading small small children chronicles biko. postor2 shift for road joor.

eeerm poster1 bikonu leave that man alone, park and leave but before you do make sure you have enough evidence to nail him to the wall forever. last time i check being gay is a crime in naija. just gather enough evidence that will make him agree to you having custody of the child. be smart woman. you seem like a very dull woman sha. use your brain for what it is meant for THINK!!!

Anonymous said...

Martins pls can you post the link you used to download war room.

reemah said...

Interesting narrative. Take the middle path. Don't be too distant and don't be all in her face either. Cheers!

reemah said...

Poster 2, go see a psychologist fast! You need help. Somewhere, your emotional wires are all tangled.

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

@ BLACKBERRY you comment cracked me up chai. talking bout scattering of teeth na so my ex bf slapped me once, i couldnt open my mouth to eat for one week as my jaw hurts like hell. i could swear i saw stars that day, i kinda went blind for few seconds. when i manage to open my eyes the first thing i did was look for my purse as soon as i laid my hands on it you needed to see the speed i took, it was like i just disappeared. he was so shocked. well turns out that he had temper issues.
He begged,cry and pleaded saying he was sorry,for where i no gree hear that one ooooh,and to think he was so cute, sweet and caring ehn mtcheeeew. na that temper issues just spoil the guy. na so i end am sharp sharp. no be person go rearrange my dentition for nothing.

Anonymous said...

Ure wicked, I don't honestly blame them but still he could've chosen not to bring an Innocent woman into this situation.
Pls, how do I get a blog id.

Anonymous said...

Am tired of reading this story mbok

Anonymous said...

Ignore her abeg. She should be the one calling you and looking for your face na

Sensa Greene said...

Poster 1 please find a way, raise money and retain legal counsel. This is grounds for annulment. Fraud is a tangible reason( misinterpretation or lies to deceive the other party). Be guided!

Poster 2 I really don't know what to say but please seek help, register in anger management class. See a shrink. Just don't #self destruct

Anonymous said...

Poster one I think there is more to this story beacuse this guy hasn't done Jack for u but make life hell and u still stayed with him. My advice, get solid prove that he is gay then pack out and file for divorce and if he wants to file for custody give the judge prove that u cannot Leave ur child with a gay.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1,why the pity party? Just negodu...listen to yourself. You need help. You married him,probably to be tagged "nnwuye doctor"!!! You have complex issue. Ngwa kontinu with the syringe marriage.msssssheeeew

Emilia Peter said...

Poster1 pls better leave dat house and stay wit ur parent b4 d story dat touch happen.

Anonymous said...

You are a very very very stupid and judgmental human,like wtf? Where did you see her talk about abortion please? Poster one is dumb agreed but in the dumbness competition you in first place!! Now take your sanctimonious self outta this post and go read where,jesus asked "he who is without sin cast the first stone"

#Byefelicia

Anonymous said...

Thanks reemah and anon.. I guess I need to find a balance.

Anonymous said...

Anon that's what I'm doing oh, and I'm perfectly happy with my decision. The only thing is I don't get to spend as much time with my cousin whom I love so much. Besides that, I'm good, I mean I was good until my aunt called me this morning to talk and guilt trip me about my choice to stay away. Now I'm forced to reconsider- I'll pray for wisdom sha.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Ehen! Chronicles like this explains the angry BVs we have on this blog. Na wa oh! Una dey suffer well well. Thank you Jesus for my life

Anonymous said...

@ poster 1, save money, get his for you and your child,tell him you are going on holiday. He can apply with you if he likes. Once you are in the UK or US, find your way with your child. That's the only way to be safe from him cos men and their ego. He'll fight for custody,if he looses it he'll kill you. Be smart and leave.

BonaParte NN said...

Her desperation killed her.
Desperate to be married.
Desperate to be married to a man above your social strata.
Desperate to marry a man you met online without investigation(if you had stayed with him for a while, you would have sniffed something out) you let him coax you to continue the wedding at an early date.
Desperate for children despite your sinister situation.

You laid your bed with desperation.
And my dear, people can smell desperation from 10metres.

The idiotic man knew and knows you can do nothing, will do nothing and you're probably scared to death of him. You cant challenge him. He bullies you enough for you to spread your leg to be injected with his wanked up sperm.
You were a perfect candidate for his use. Your family status. Your financial status. Your docile nature. Your desperation. He has turned your house to a grove for gay meetings.

This is what happens when parents of gay men force them to marry. You saw his age as a factor. The man married you out of pressure from his parents and society. My only annoyance is that he treats you like trash despite being a beard for him. Its unfair. No gain.

The options open to you;
1) Seek a divorce on irreconcilable differences. Dont bring the gay issue into your divorce proceedings. You're 3yrs into the marriage, divorcing him will be easy if he doesnt contest it. Stop allowing him maim u.

2) grow some balls. Start making your own money and decisions that will shock him. Change the way your house is arranged. Make certain changes in the house(those things send a signal to men). Start by taking charge of your house. Stop living like a victim. Look him in the eye when talking to him. Accept his gayness, even buy him gay porn tapes. Show him you know exactly what he is and dont care.

3) next step from this will be 2 suggest to him that you have unwritten contract as housemates. You live your life, I live mine. Open relationship. You contribute this and this. You can be happy if you take charge...

4) take a lover. A rich lover.

5) leave the house and move back in with your parents. Stay there for years and get a divorce based on dessertation or something.

Those are the options you can explore BUT Pls:

-DONT threaten him! You dont know what he is into. Dont push a gay to the wall. He has a lot to lose if his wife comes out to say stuff like that with evidence. A lot of nigerian big men are into this arrangement thats why when their wives divorce them, you rarely hear the women talk.

-DONT blackmail him or get ballsy. try it d calm way first. its convenient for him to become a widower with a daughter. He doesnt really need you. Be wise.

Xclusivebae. said...

@martinz boy pls how do I download dis war room , I v tried using YouTube but not successful. Pls kindly EPP me post how here. Thankz

Xclusivebae. said...

@martinz boy pls how do I download dis war room , I v tried using YouTube but not successful. Pls kindly EPP me post how here. Thankz

Anonymous said...

Nothing is certain in this world. A gay person can manage to have sex with you before marriage and forget about it altogether in marriage.

Anonymous said...

If one discovers after marriage that a man is gay or bisexual and the man sleeps with the wife regularly , will the wife remain in the marriage?

ty said...

Poster 1 is
A liar,i don't believe you,you are trying to beg,your story makes absolutely no sense!!!!!! b!b
A big fat lie

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

All these aunties.
If I write my own chronicle about aunties here ehn.
Okay check this out.

I have an aunt. She's like an elder sister to me cos my grand mum died months after birthing her (hemorrhage) and my dad literally took care of her from when she was a baby till now. She grew up with us, went to the same schools with us. She was like my mums first daughter. The age gap between her and my eldest sis is like 4 years. So she was our big sister.

When this my aunt was growing up ehn, she did things in my fathers house. My parents never told us the things she did Until one day they were talking about selling one of my grand father's properties to a school that wanted to buy and she the last born (who never even knew what her father looked like as she didn't grow up with him sef till he died) started saying they should share the money equally and not according to age. My dad lashed out on her ehn. Out of anger when she left my dad started ranting about all the things did when she was a teenager, how he and my mum scrubbed eczema for ages, how severally he picked her from men's houses on tipped information, when she was an undergrad. How some of the bags she was carrying he - as a top banker back then couldn't even afford to buy for his wife. He used to give her pocket money but he knows it's not his money that she was using for her shoes and bags. He over looked it and wedded her out in peace and now she challenged him cos she's a woman. It was funny but he was angry and we calmed him down. She never apologized but they still sent her the share of her money.

Me I saw it as sibling drama nau. Still maintain relationship with her. So one day, my dad went to the village and my mum was out of the country. Only for my dad to send me text that he's at Ibadan ex way I should make pounded yam. He's hungry. And I was expecting him two days later. I slept in my friend's house in ikoyi that day. We partied well. I was an undergrad then nau. This my Aunty was staying in VI, so from ikoyi I popped into her House and we were gisting when I got the text. I explained to her That Abeg oh! If popsy asks I was here with her. I quickly rushed to my friends place to get my bag and then rushed back home. This was traffic hour. I told the help to pound yam that I'm coming and all. We were on Mainland then. On my way I sent her a text saying please she shouldn't forget that incase anything I was with her. She replied no probs. Luckily I got home on time and quickly made white soup for my dad. Everything set when he came.

When my mum came back, I told her that I want to go spend two nights there. She agreed. My aunts husbands job doesn't keep him at home and one of her kids is deaf. The one who talks was toddler then, so she was always bored at home and enjoyed extra company from us. I jack bag go. In the night I say make I use her phone make long free call as we dey the same bed dey sleep with children. Lo and behold, as I open phone Na text she and her elder sister my dad's immediate younger sister dey exchange about me and my siblings. Even the text I sent her that night she forwarded straight to that one abusing me and saying all sorts. They abused up to my mother and my dad who is their BLOOD Brother. Chai! Sleep commot for my eye. Me wey wan spend two days, as day break I bathe tell her say I get auditions for mainland (I was an upcoming model then nau 😂😉) Na so I waka. Spread the news give my sisters say these our aunties no loyal oh! We cut off from them since that day.
That's how one of the step sisters came one day, after like 4 years asking what happened and was like we should re-unite in peace no matter what. Na so we tell her say them be our aunties we would discuss with them When we feel like. She should stay out of it.

So, some aunties aren't worth it. If she's shown you who she is, better face front. Cos tmr she may do worse. I've said my own.

Phew... That was long 😁

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...
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Anonymous said...

Not only gay, I believe 60% have Hiv

Anonymous said...

Poster1. Uhmmmmm its difficult to understand how u reason Sha
1. He's gay
2. Stingy n selfish
3. No sexual relationship
4. No respect n beats u, and u still went ahead to inject urself with his gay sperm? What is wrong with you? I don't get the rationale behind ur action.you kwn u don't HV any use there. R u this worthless? Bcos u r under his roof it will b difficult for help to reach u. Pack out cos this marriage is a sham. I'm sorry u r going thru this, but its ur fault fix it. No one will do it for u

Who'sThatGirl doubleuteegee said...

Thank you!!! No need to type again.
Real stylish begging.

You went ahead to stay and have a child after your earlier discovery ok o

Anonymous said...

Sorry I meant get a Visa*

Anonymous said...

Obviously you didn't love dude poster 1 a would have been happy to have him be your mugu take you outta hawking etc. Now you've been played you're crying foul. Pele

smart move said...

Exactly!Even if this story were to be true, why allow him inject you with his semen? I have never seen a fool like this woman before. Ndi I must marry. Carry your cross

Anonymous said...

sorry

simons said...

sorry

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