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Sunday, 28 August 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

INVESTING WITH LE BOO AND THE WAHALA THAT FOLLOWS


Good day Stella, great work you're doing. As usual, kindly hide my I.D.
There is this guy I was dating: We dated for 3 years plus, he was hoping to settle down with me. I didn't accept his offer (not financially buoyant enough ) and didn't reject it either( because I felt with the right push, he'll be fine). I decided to talk to him to set up a business so he could have another source of income.

Days later, he came up with more than 3 great business ideas but capital was the major issue. Since we were dating (hoping to get married soon) and I could fund his business ideas (I earn more than him), we picked one of the many business ideas he had and I funded it. We agreed I'll be in charge of all the cash made from sales (company account opened and I was the sole signatory, I do all the signing and also monitor money credited and debited) while he will only manage the company with my brother also (just another way of making sure he isn't doing something funny with the money).  

He was totally honest with all by the way, we discuss everything no matter how small and he doesn't make any decision without consulting me first.

As God will have it, the business grew over night with huge money inflow coming into the account, along the line we had a very big issue (irreconcilable differences) and I "sacked" him and my brother took over. 

The issue I'm having now is that he is asking I split everything about the business to 50:50 which I refused, after so much thought I proposed 10:90 ratio, my guy refused and threatened fire and brimstone (lol) that he will sue I and my company. Is 10:90 not okay? 

What do I do? 
Stella, put mouth for this matter oooo.


*Sue wetin?You were not married to him during the time he worked for you so i dont know how the law works concerning that,however for Peace sake i propose you give him 40percent and settle things off..you also didnt state if you both broke and you had to sack him.
Just settle him and get rid of him before it turns nasty..make them no go hurt you oh....you get?

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WIFE WITH HIGH LIBIDO AND HUSBAND WITH NO LIBIDO


Dear Stella, 
I'm a 34 year-old lady, pretty with all the attributes needed in a woman, I'm one person any man that comes across will wish for. I'm married, the marriage is blessed with 3 kids and I'm a medical practitioner.

Actually, I got to know about this blog 2 weeks ago through my very best friend, we've been friends since our university years. My chronicle is one thing I don't know how and who to talk to because I'm so shy when it comes to things like what I'm about to narrate.

I got married in year 2007 to a wonderful man whom my people cherish so much. Before we got married, we agreed that we'll not have s3x but as body no be firewood, we do every other thing lovers do to climax. His romance was something else. What made me get along without s3x with him is that he heads me very well, wow! I was like " if na only this one, I no need the penetration".

Two days after our traditional wedding, the heat was so much that we couldn't wait for the white wedding anymore to get it done to the fullest. So, after everything, we went back to the city. I noticed he keeps late night which made me cry all through the night. He woke up and saw me crying and told me that it's only hanging out at night he gets to meet with his clients to talk about business. That I should not try to come between him and his guys. He has this bound with one of his male friend that is questionable.


Hmmmm!

In the morning, I called my mum (may her soul RIP). She gave her motherly advice saying he'll still stop such life style that it's because we've just gotten married. My dear readers, I still moved on ooo with him. Then after our 2nd child, I noticed he no longer wants to make love to me not even the head he gives me that made me say YES! 

I did not really flex in the university because I thought I will when I get married because I dey enjoy that thing well with someone I feel for but I still maintained my decency.

I don't believe a man will stay for 6 months without touching his woman with the excuse of stress, not meeting his target, etc. If I make any move towards him, he'll say he's tired. He knows that alcohol makes him unable to perform, it makes his penis not stand for action but he drinks always. I'm this type that if I'm horny and don't get the satisfaction from my man, I won't be happy for days even months. I know your question will be "why didn't I go to him if he doesn't come to me?" yes!  I stopped going to him to make me feel like a woman because he told some of his family members that his wife is always on heat.



I just don't know what to do because I'm not happy again. It's almost 5 months and my man has not touched me and I've been so horny. So many cute guys /men are out there wishing to have me even if it's just for a drink. But I cannot! I need just my man, not that he even satisfies me but..... what can I do? All these makes me wonder if he's gay or seeing over demanding babes. I want to be happy ooo and I'm thinking of giving one sweet guy a chance ooo, 

hmmmmm!
You all should please advise me. Money I NO dey get and not that the money no dey, I take care of all my needs but you need to see how he gives to others and spends in occasions even love making I no de get. I believe there will be a way out after you guys response.  
Thank you. 



Dunno what to say but i think there are some people that naturally do not like s3x...They are not gay but they do not like sex...he is probably one of such....why dont you go to him if he doesnt come to you..like you care that he told his family his wife is always hot?you care?
My dear go and sit on that thing and ride it abeg!.

Note that i dont know what else to say but if however your hormones are too high,you be doctor make you treat yourself...LOL



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211 comments:

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Decepticon said...

Poster 2 I stopped reading your story when I read the first 2 lines where you said you are what every man would wish for. As in, I don't know how your husband is managing I
swear

Poster one you try sef. That man deserves nothing. You gave him 10% and he's complaining?? If he brought the money for the business will he even share everything the way you just did? He should sue.

Precious Ibik said...

Remember it was his idea. @first poster. It was love that clouded him. If he was in his right senses, he will only ask that you lend him the money to start up a business so he would pay you back within a specific time. That 90.10 you proposed is just plain greed on your end. Nawa o

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
The money is yours mehn...
Just give him whatever you feel like!...I'm happy you know what you want by not rushing to marry him...
I don't know why most broke ass niggas like rushing marriage to a financially okay woman!...so you will carry his burden for him,.,
Lazy fools!...

Poster 2,
You are really suffering madam!...
Since you can't cheat on him with a man,why don't you get a lesbo partner that will be heading and smooching you well...
Trust me,you will regret it and you would come back and thank me later....

Becky Divine said...

1) Since you guys agreed to do this business together and he hasn't cheated or lied all the while you guys have done this together, i suggest you kindly pay him his dues.

If the 'irreconcilable difference' you guys had, had nothing to do with your business rather your relationship. Then i still maintain you pay him off in a manageable way, so he can go start up his life with something. Cos if you don't, bitterness might set in and bitter guys can go to any extent to get revenge. Shine your eyes my dear


KEEPING UP WITH SDKB said...

Poster 1, you wicked no be small o, ratio 10:90 bawo, I never heard of such. Free the guy with 40:60 for peace to reign. Did you even know maybe it's the present of the guy that's making that business flourish? Hope that business won't fold-up when he leaves. We've read of such here of recent o.
Second poster, look for a man to satisfy you, don't die of loneliness, that's the only way out. If you don't understand what I wrote, CHEAT ON HIM SIMPLE

The best amongst the cuties said...

Poster one, pls settle that guy, don't be greedy na, he came up with de idea and urs was just to fund it, so pls settle him and move on, with God's grace the business will grow again.
Poster two, ur hubby doesn't have feelings for. Money he won't give, common sex too, he won't give. Hian. Abeg look for better bobo to satisfy ur urge joor. Don't go and be suffering/starving urself bcs of a man who doesn't give a shit about you.

Becky Divine said...

2) I really feel for you my dear bcos Konji is indeed a murrafucker lol

I suggest you swallow your pride and go to him again, if he rejects you this time. Then you should be like 'The General's Wife' and get A Rabbit baibe. Get a dildo and f**k your frustrations away.

Or were you expecting me to advise you to go and cheat?
Linda Eze will do that for me, She'll tell you to find a sugar son to handle you wella lol.. pele dear. That is marriage for you, it's a package. What you unveil is what you get!

Atheist. said...

Poster1: That ratio is rather too demeaning, so i think... for a guy that worked his butt off to catapult the business to that height, i think he deserves more than that, i must commend you on ur IQ accounting schemes, you didnt let love blind you completely, your love get okpolo eye, chai.... settle him, he has lost his business & his pussy, & youve lost only a dick.

Poster2: Is it sexual pleasure youre in search of? you can derive that from a dildo you know? it dsnt have to be attached to a man, abi you de eye the cute bobo since??

James said...

Poster 1,he threatened fire and brimstone and you are LOLing? U knows many things about you , your movements and ur in and out. Settle with him amicably to avoid stories that touches ...... There is nothing more dangerous than a man that has nothing to lose.

Blackberry said...

Poster one! Next time do not help another le boo!

Blackberry said...

Poster two, since sex is food n u r not getting from ur husband, go n look for a helper naa, as for money, Ms independent dem no dey complain.

DonMayor said...

Poster one. You are a liar. You stole his business idea from him and you are saying shit.
He proposed to you but you didn't said yes or no but comfortable enough to fund his idea that you never knew it would blow up.
#GreedyGirl
Greedy girl.

JustPorsh said...

Poster 1: 10:90, u get conscience at all?
A business idea is worth more than the money. He's entitled to much more than you offered him.
1st I don't see why u had to sack him cos u both broke up ur relationship. That's why it's not good to mix business with pleasure. You both should have drafted a legal agreement stating how u would want the business to be divided up incase of such an incident.
And yes, he can sue u!
Just be careful and try to be fair to him.

Anonymous said...

Poster one,i feel u av used the guuy and later dumped him,u beta setle that guy,before he eliminates u, poster 2,walahi 5months is longoo haba,dont leave that gap naa,if he doesn't come to u,pls go to him,me and hubby dey do 3 or 2 times in a week,pls is ur hubby,God s given man for you,so don't feel shy atalll,what ur are going for is ur food nah,but also pray to God for distractions from outside,that holyghost should paralise any negative influence,goodluck

DonMayor said...

Oga don tire to dey give head.. Lol.
Abeg no advice for you okay.

Anonymous said...

I know you are an Igbo woman, I read the same story here yesterday from an Igbo woman who married Igbo man like that. Yet you Igbo babes will be forming "Igbo men are the sweetest, most caring, most romantic, etc. There are underlying factors causing Igbo guys to end up like this, I don't have the time to state them now, I will in my next comment.

BTW, my libido is out of this world, but unfortunately my wife is the opposite of me. She doesn't like sex. I can have sex all day everyday. What a pity!

James said...

Poster2 why are you always on heat now?
Why do you like gbenshing so much?
Sex Na food?

DB Malumi said...

Stella mi don't like the answers you give to some ladies here oh, sometimes it looks like you promote this der bad behaviour. Now check poster 1 and her man issue, from the start she never really loved the man, even with all his faithfulness and willing to make her happy, what did she do in return sack the man and also break up the courtship now that she has some change in her pocket. The man ask for 50:50 which naturally is right, instead of telling her she is wrong with that yeye 90:10 ratio u even suggesting 60:40 who those that. There always two sides on a coin, I honestly don't trust this posters story. Sounds greedy and selfish. If that guy begin to do other things to make her suffer we would label him bad. Poster 1 share the profit and give him his 50% share.

Poster 2, I guess Stella just said it all. Having stayed this long in your marriage believe u should no ur hubby, talk to him and make him see reason. If that don't work report him to his close pals.

Miss Juliet said...

Poster 1 forget d fool after all na u get company he cnt do anything..
Poster 2 I feel he's gay or isn't feeling u again..all ds men na God go just punish them..if u cheat now ppl will start talking..i dnt even knw wat to tell u..if u really don't want to cheat try getting a dildo

Anonymous said...

Stella is right, 40% is fair, give him his due!!

Babe said...

Poster i am like ur hubby. I hate sex n am married. I feel 4 my husband.
I cant even allow someone touch my nipple. The feeling scares me. i have never wanted to be touched by any man.

However i noticed i like female to sex sex.... but i hot bored after exploring it.

So right now, no single libido.
Praying 4 a solution cos my hubby is blessed n can fuck r africs.
Nigga even masturbsstes n i will be looking.

Anonymous said...

@ poster... Maybe you are no more sexually attractive to him again.. Some with me, I Dont find my partner sexually attractive again, thou I still give him sex to avoid fight at home... Im secrectly attracted to female body 😊😊😊

Tuscany said...

P1
Haba, fear God na. How can you gv the brain behind your business 10%. Mind you it was his idea that brought u the huge revenue o. And like you said, he didnt hide anything or try to be funny yet you wont be good. Am sure if he had scammed you, you would be cryong wolf and now you want to scam him. God dey. Better give hine 40%.
And for some reason i feel you were the 1 that messed up and you didnt even plan to marry him from the on set.

P2.
Av heard girls say am not a sex person. And i have a frnd that even if she goes to see her bf for a week. They might collect just once. It used to bothet her but truth is thats just who he is. Alcohol lowers libido but even if his thing doesnt stand, then he should satisfy you by giving you head.
Truth is your in a marriage with yourself cos sex isnt the only thing wrong here. He does provide 4 u and doesnt care about ur satisfaction. Just get a dildo, and let him know u need head atleast.

Anonymous said...

The poster 1 is very wicked, and I know a lot of ladies here will support her. If it was a guy that did such to a lady you ladies will curse the guy to grave.

Anonymous said...

He is gay if he had questionable closeness with another guy. Get yourself a boyfriend. Don't know why women think they have to be matyrs in marriage and tolerate every bullshit a man dishes out... If a wife starves the husband of sex won't people advice him to look outside? But they expect a woman to suffer long...go out and make yourself happy

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

Haba! It was he's idea and without it you won't have that " huge money inflow coming into the account"
Don't be selfish. please!
You said it yourself that he has been honest SO ?
10:90 is damn low, give him 30 or 40%.

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

His*

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

As a matter of fact He help her! You know how many people money sit down for their bank account without any profit rather bank go dey deduct from am ?

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...seriously 5 months with no sex.... Odikwa egwu

Anonymous said...

Why do intending couples deceive themselves by "heading" and thinking that they are not engaging in a shameful act; haven't everything been exposed? Shame!

And girl, when your bride price has been paid, you are married (nothing wrong about having sex then). There is nothing wrong in going to church to do a ceremony but it is just a ceremony; Jesus did not give the church the mandate to join couples in marriage and you will not see such in the New Testament.

It is time for introspection; to find out why your husband who after he paid your bride price could not resist your body but now is no longer interested in sex. Have you looked at yourself; character (first; do you nag), weight gain/overeating and a carefree lifestyle? Have you neglected your beauty routines (in and out)? A man does not just break off from sex like that.

As for "revenge sex"; do not try it you will wreck everything you ever loved!

Anonymous said...

Poster 2! There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your libido is normal for anyone who hasn't had sex in a while. I think you should be more inquisitive, sensitive too. Who does he keep his late nights with? Men or women? Chances are that he may have become gay. That's the only reason why a healthy man will stay that long without intercourse. Dig deep! Pray hard! Cheers

Mrs. Romas said...

Poster 1, please, pay the guy 50.50, yes, is not your company. You only funded the company and was managed by your boyfriend.
You see what is wrong with some women! It was his business idea, and they are people who sell business ideas and it can be worth millions.
I blamed your boyfriend, because it seems he's not smart enough to know that when you are partnering with someone whether family or friends to start a business, there is supposed to be lawyers and guidelines for both parties involved.

You just sacked him like that, my dear, you are a wicked person. Your likes are over-controlling. Your money would have been nothing if not for his business ideas. Is either you pay him 50% or 40% of the company's worth.
Greed kills. People will tell you is your company, no, is not yours! It belongs to you both.
The reason i will never do business with any Nigerian; family or not. Some people are just too greedy.

Poster 2, they are people who doesn't like sex. You both should go see a specialist sexology doctor.

James said...

Lol.Habaa Sister Stella which be make she treat herself. Is there any medicine to make a woman stop feeling like gbenshing?
Poster 2,it seems you are very unlucky. I don't know why women with high libido always end up with useless weak men. If Na person like me u marry, you go dey beg for mercy everyday. U go even dey fear to sleep for our bedroom sef bcoz of 3 round of hot very long lasting gbenshing every blessed night.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Poster1: pls settle that guy well.....don't be selfish all bcos u funded the business.
He contributed to the success of the business in one way or the other.
Many people will advice u otherwise but wisdom is profitable.
60%:40% is more like it.
And he brought up the business plan

Poster2: get dildo n u can also rape him once in a while after all he is ur horseband .

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

*you won't regret...

The best amongst the cuties said...

Hian! U need Jesus

The best amongst the cuties said...

Hehehehe, una plenty for this blog. Lesbo things.

Emilia Peter said...

Poster 1 give him 40% so dat peace will reign

orela said...

This is why it's good to have a legal backing when delving into such things....

Anonymous said...

At first poster please share with 40:60 and U can expand with the 60 U got. Second poster, I wonder why people will afvice a married woman to sleep with another man bcos she's having issues with her man, ahaha wetin sef? Woman please beg your husband, the solution to your problem is within you. These same people advising you to sleep with one bobo will criticize you when U got caught in the act. Talk to an elder in his family and he should seat you both down and I'm sure a lot will change, no lesbo or cheat o abeg, you will thank me in future when u grow old and your children will be proud of you. IRee o

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

Lol only a dick you say 😊
Hahahaha
NO!
She lost a dick and a brain!
You don't send such guys packing, No, you keep them!
Infact you marry them!
They always got a lot in their heads.
Watch it girl, you go hear of the guy

Anonymous said...

Secretly attracted to female body, you need an e-slap @poster, one round with me will recheck your brain naughty woman like you. My uncle must hear this today

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

As in, No conscience at all at all. Smh

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: ignore those saying u shud get a boyfriend or dildo to fulfil ur sexual desires. That is wrong on so many levels pls. #Theodora

Anonymous said...

We should hook up

TEAM_TBILLZ said...

It was his idea
Without it the business would have never existed
Give him his 50% for peace to reign and stop been greedy
You don't know the extent people can go for money
A word is enough for the wise

Anonymous said...

Here is a solution to those not finding their partner attractive for sex again, let the man give you head while you watch a color movie and make sure you have your earpiece on. You will testify to it when you don dey high through the gbangbanji gbedu wey dey burst brain

Anonymous said...



Poster 1 remember he brought the buisness idea, he managed it and you handled the money part becos your money was in it. I propose you give him 50:50. Before you shout note that assuming he had collateral and went to the bank, interest would be paid and nobody would say 50:50. You are really really greedy to even utter 90:10. Just imagine if it were you in his shoes what would you do? and besides would you have thought of the idea if he did not come up with it? Poster 1 think and split 50:50 becos if it is me I won't take it haba!!! Somebody brought idea, plus managed the buisness then you brought money. He definitely worked more than 10% assuming he did not come up with that idea, your money would have been in the bank for nothing or you must have spent it on something useless Abeg. I guess this guy wld never make that mistake. Sorry for all the bashing buy this is the truth for me.


Poster 2 I think you should snoop around and see wats up so you know exactly what ur dealing with. He maybe seeing someone else you don't know plus put on your praying shoes and arrest him with prayer it must work by fire by force in Jesus name!

Atheist. said...

She must have derailed his ego with her bossy & controlling nature... That's why business & fuck don't mix, if the business don't suffer, the r/ship will, he deserves more than wat she's offering. He's the brain behind the progress, & he'd resurrect even harder n stronger, pussies will chase him all over.....

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

Dump! That's the word. you see, for her mind she don make too much and she no need the guy again pity! See your mouth like sack! I sorry for Na that your brother Wey you put in charge Na him make you dey worried about now
Pity!

Atheist. said...

She must have derailed his ego with her bossy & controlling nature... That's why business & fuck don't mix, if the business don't suffer, the r/ship will, he deserves more than wat she's offering. He's the brain behind the progress, & he'd resurrect even harder n stronger, pussies will chase him all over.....

Arinola said...

Ist Poster. .your issue is very simple...remove your initial capital from the funds available and share whatever is left equally..this way nobody feels cheated...you have recouped your investments with profit and he has gained from his idea..
Poster 2..a husband who has lost emotional connection with his wife will find it very easy to stay off sex with her...forget about sex for a while and rebuild your bond with your hubby and see if he will not chase after you..

Atheist. said...

Xactly

Anonymous said...

You don cheat tire

ov o said...

Poster one: 10% is reasonable enough since you were the one who financed d business. D 10% is for his effort in contributing to d business. Otherwise he isn't entitled to a damn thing.
Poster two: go get urself a boy toy. It's not only men that can keep side chics. Just be smart and play ur game well. 6months without sex from ur man! Ha! Something fishy is going on definitely going on. Time to get ur groove on seeing as all ur efforts seem to be meeting a brick wall.

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

Oh you think so ?
He can do everything physically and spiritually unless say the guy no dey serve a living God.
If na me bi that guy, I go collect the 10% and leave you to God.
Wicked people everywhere these days. Kai!

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 I think it's high time you guys sat down and have a good talk. The both of you have issues you need to settle

Debi said...

Poster 1. I was like you. I withdrew the business from my ex. Fiam the business collapsed. It went down patapata. I'm still yet to recover. Please settle it amicably. Give him the 50 he is asking for to avoid story that touch especially juju things. Be wise!

ov o said...

Gbam! Or better still, get a big fat dildo to service urself with. Just saying.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

He told His family his wife is always on heat. Well when they ask you tell them that you're always on heat for your husband so it's not a sin. Shikena!!
Well I can't tell if your hubby is gay or not. At this rate you have to snoop. Sorry but you have joined unhappy wives association in my books. I pray the Lord brings you out of it. Haha. Amen

DonMayor said...

Don't mind the devilish girl. She gat no feeling for the guy from the onset. I wish he wasn't faithful to you. Idiot.
Give him 50% or keep watching your shoulder for the rest of your life.
No need to sue you, he will get justice somewhere with a token.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Poster 1- give him whatever you can muster. Thank God you were smart enough to monitor and out your brother in there. My kind of woman. Smarty pants!! 👏🏽 This is a memo to lazy men out there waiting for women to come and build them up. Women are wiser now so don't think it's business as usual.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Poster 1- give him whatever you can muster. Thank God you were smart enough to monitor and out your brother in there. My kind of woman. Smarty pants!! 👏🏽 This is a memo to lazy men out there waiting for women to come and build them up. Women are wiser now so don't think it's business as usual.

ov o said...

Yes oh. Sex na food. I don't mind starving myself of food, but sex is all d food I want. Different strokes for different folks. Some people love sex, some don't. Me, I LOVE sex. Intact, it's not food, it's d air I breathe. Ha! Don't go there

Jack Brenda said...

That 10% is damned too low. Even if he didn't contributed to the business at least just make it 30%

Anonymous said...

U can't really put a price on a business idea, mark zuckerberg conceived the idea of facebook but he wasn't the one that brought up the start up capital...today he is the youngest billionaire, whatever differences you had, give him his due

Anonymous said...

Poser 1. Just ask yourself this simple question, would you take 10% if you were in his shoes,Given all you have said about his idea, honesty and running around for the biz. If you answer sincerely, then you may not need anybody to advice you. He may not deserve 50%,but he definitely deserved more than 10%. Remember he was honest with you. That should count for something. God bless you.

Poser 2. Talk to your man, maybe you guys should go on vacation. Well there's a wild idea in my head now. Drop some aphrodisiac into his drink and see him turn into a sex god, but how long will that hold. So your best bet is communicate your desires to your man. God help you succeed. I want a horny wifey biko...

Anonymous said...

Poster one is very greedy

ov o said...

Stella gave her good advice. In my opinion 60-40 is even too generous. For chrissakes d lady financed d business. 50-50 for what now? What kind of foolish move is that. Abeg, leave Stella to give her advice d way she wants. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I believe 80-20 is reasonable enough.

Jack Brenda said...

Poster1: please settle the guy very well. He might end up hurting you or do something drastic to you.


Poster2: for good Five months he hasn't make love to you. As for me, I will advice you to masturbate since your husband has refused to make love to you.

Anonymous said...

LOLZ@ if ur lubido is high,treat ursef u b doctor.stella u r a case study i swear.Naturally doctors them too like fuck i dont knw y.weda dey av wat dey take only God knows.my ex is a doctor dis guy like fuck!

Anonymous said...

LOLZ@ if ur lubido is high,treat ursef u b doctor.stella u r a case study i swear.Naturally doctors them too like fuck i dont knw y.weda dey av wat dey take only God knows.my ex is a doctor dis guy like fuck!

happiness is free/creamy cakes..Ajah..08186505645 said...

Poster 1 Haba u get mind ooo..someone that brought the idea for the business u want to give him 10% if not for his idea u might have probably spent that capital u using in starting up the business on stupid things..this looks like a plan between u and ur brother.. u probably planted ur brother in the business to learn everything about the business then u can kick ur boyfriend out of the business and take over the business.. he made a very big mistake,he would have asked u to loan him the money then..it's idea that brings about a business.. many people have money but don't have any idea of a profitable business.. what if he had loan money from the bank to start the business.. but he came to u as someone he wished to spend the rest of his life with..my dear search ur conscience if u have one and split it 50/50..You never can tell what he might be capable of..

Queen David said...

Some people are wicked n inconsiderate, this young man came up with the idea n started d business from the grassroot 2 did secondary stage n u feel 10 2 90 is okay 4 him 2 start all over with? Not minding that ure still working n he has nothing doing. Make ur conscience judge u if u have 1.

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

Oh yes! She's never gonna marry that guy and she knew just used the guy.
Madam can pls forward his contact?
Some people get money dey find business ideas but Dem no see, dis one see dey sack hahahaha

Cissy said...

@ Don, take some jollof rice n plantain to calm down ok?...lol
@ poster 1, Ideas rule the world n he gave you his business idea, agreed ideas without money is futile. Since he had the Ideas and you had the money. Split it 50 - 50....in all fairness....for me 50 - 50. Don't forget you might still need him someday.
It's really a thin line between love n hate...

olubee said...

Madam y now? Lesbo kee that not. The solution please, prayer can do it

xquisite said...

Poster 1: settle him off and make it legal incase he comes back asking for more.
Poster 2: you are a medical practitioner abeg slip viagra or Watz it called inside his drink #winks

Ghana Babe Yayra said...

No every lady will support her, not the wise ones.

Adadioramma said...

Poster 1, you are simply greedy. Share that money 50:50 and let peace reign. Doctor treat him of low libido nah, you know what to do.

anonymous.... said...

Pls where can I buy dildo in port Harcourt and how much.....a handsome,thick one with vein marks on it.....Pls help a sister..

Anonymous said...

'settle him and get rid of him' I'm highly disappointed. The way you said it shows the kind of person you are. Be very careful of what you teach your readers here cos they learn whether directly or indirectly. I believe you also make plans with your husband.

Flakkie Chris said...

10:90???? Na greed go kee you. You were holding all the funds, you claimed he handled the biz well and was faithful, so why are you so greedy and wicked?
it's bad enough that you have transferred his intellectual property to your brother. Na your type dey provoke people to dish out acid bath. Wicked winsh!

Fab Mum said...

Poster 1 you are wicked. It was his business idea. You funded it. The right thing would be 60% for you and others for him. You are offering him 10% as what? After he brought the idea and made the business grow??

It's the man I blame for not signing an agreement before the commencement of the business. You should have had a written agreement.

Stella no dey type any how. He can sue. Whether they were married or not. This is business not marriage or relationship...

olubee said...

Madam y now? Lesbo kee that not. The solution please, prayer can do it

Anonymous said...

Talk is cheap, you say it as if it's easy for a married woman to start cheating, I believe married women who cheat have it in their blood
Not because their husband doesn't satisfy them

Anonymous said...

Is that what u do? Cheating on ur husband. What happens to praying for God to intervene

Mercifotos said...

Woman wrong adviser to poster 2. Take ur time ohhh

Yellow Diamond said...

Your head dey there, u re right.

Porsh beibe said...

poster1, the biz was his idea while you funded it. Without his idea, your money would hv been cooling off in your account and you won't get up to dat from ur bank as interest. Do you know hw much people make by selling their ideas to companies?It should be 50:50 but since you were the one that funded d biz 60:40 is ok. You will make more profit, pls settle him to avoid problem.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 just call ur ex and settle things in peace with him,make sure that you ve his signature concerning the settlement. @ poster 2, I know exactly what you are going through,my hubby is the same with urs,the only different is that we don't ve kids yet so he is only bothering with having sex with me only during my ovulation,I.e we only ve sex twice or so every month,the marriage is only a year plus but no intimacy not even kissing,during courtship d guy lied that he always feel guilty after sex that we should wait after marriage to have the sex proper,after marriage the sex didn't improve,his libido is zero,me that love sex during my dating days.funny enof he dosent even drink or smoke so he dosent hang out @ night.so am soo confused and I reglet ever marrying him in the first place,I ve fallen into depression my heart always skip whenever I remember that this is for life,I wish I have even.less than two years of marriage...my dear single sisters please look well before saying I Do cus marriage is like a bail of okirika you might get quality materials inside or it can be full of rags

Mercifotos said...

Making sense

Miz Attractive said...

Poster two? How do you know what everyman would wish for? Please gtfoh will ur stupid chronicle. I bet that's why ur man aiint hard for you. Your ego can't even wrap moi-moi. Eeewwwww. Funny how almost all the women that send in chronicles are "beautiful, sexy, have everything in the right amount". Give ur ugly after 3 Pussy to whomever cares. You obviously already said that's what you wanna do, adulteress

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 you are wicked!!!! He worked his ass off and you proposed 10/90? Stella suggestion is better than the crumbles of peanuts you're offering the guy. Rubbish.

Mercifotos said...

Make I hear word joor

Mercifotos said...

I know u re a broke ass that's Y u re talking like this. Get urself busy for good joor

Anonymous said...

Can we be friends?I'm a very private person.

Mercifotos said...

U re right. Business should b differentiated from pleasure

Ify Lawrence said...

Poster 1.. Your greed is outta this world. Trust me, if you don't pay him what he deserves, your business is cursed. Not only will he start up something similar,he will do even better. Its his idea remember, and I bet he has better managerial experience and will properly carry his clients along. Better use your head!

Anonymous said...

👍

Anonymous said...

Is it just me or are there many lesbians on this blog... Haba...almost every time, a female here is talking about being sexually attracted to another female..... Na wa o!!! Person go con dey reason to try am...temptation

Yellow Diamond said...

Poster1, thinks she is in money, so she is getting rid of the guy to make it more like a family business. And I can bet she is the cause of the irreconcilable differences otherwise she would have stated what really happened if it had been the fault of the guy. Poster 1, you better make it 50 50, because if not for this guy u wouldn't have the extra income and a stand by business. From your narration u are the bad egg.
Poster 2, sit up husband down and ask him the reason why he is refusing to make love to you, there must be a reason, because I know men very well, even if they don't love u or they are cheating, they will still fuck their wife because it's a free pussy, unless you people are living separately, which is not the case here. So something is wrong, get it out from him.

Anonymous said...

Lol@ who *those* that.

Anonymous said...

When your elders are talking, keep quiet. Mannerless girl.

How old are you again? Is this person your mate? Is your mother's first born age mates with her? Just because it's a faceless blog doesn't mean you must/should be disrespectful.

Just take a look@the way you typed "pele dear" se egbe e ni woman yen ni? Or you think because ppl read your copy and paste stories, they won't caution you when you're derailing? Ki elegbe mo egbe o.

QUEEN AMY Loves Sisi Eko and Stella Asemota said...

Poster one you are so greedy and selfish, na your type dey make man drop bible. Imagine 10percent after all he did for that business, settle him biko.

Mercifotos said...

U've come so far with in ur marriage to get urself a boy friend... what u can do after trying to seduce him n no way is to get ur mind off sex untill when he is ready. We face temptation in one way or d other but d ability to say NO it's in our hands bec God has already release his sufficient Grace for us. Madam prayers changes things trust me. 3nights of praying for ur husband can turn things around for good. God bless ur home. No way for d devil. He has lost his battle in ur home

Fab Mum said...

Poster 1 is the reason why people should be sensible in business. Don't let love or family blind you. Always draft MOU. It's highly needed in any partnership business. Have lawyers sign your agreement and follow it thru. So that whenever a misunderstanding comes up, you don't loose

esther ese said...

@poster 1, u greedy gan ni oo haba! He brought d biz ideas, so pls settle him for peace sake.

@poster 2, I can't advise cos I'm not married, but stella's red pen said it all

yasmeen s said...

poster 1 40:60 z a good deal.. 10:90 z a big slap on his face. haba the insult tooo much Jor
poster 2 better walk out than to cheat am

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm!nothing more dangerous than a man that has nothing to loose.Gbam

victoria usip said...

"You will regret it" or "you wont regret it" which one na?
I raise beyonce hand for you.

Anonymous said...

Yes all other men are better than Yoruba men in Nigeria even Hausa man will sell oranges jus to feed his family but Yoruba men will be looking for independent women and they have started corrupting other tribes in Lagos,Yoruba men are so lazy they leave all the work for their women,the woman will take care of the family with her own money and even build a house,a Yoruba woman will birth a child and in 7days you will see her hustling again,no other tribe does that rubbish in Nigeria.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2,exact thg av found myself in plus am also a Dr married for few years now. During courtship, hubby will suck and romance me to the moon n back since we did no sex b4 marriage. Hmm a month after marriage oga changed. No more foreplay. His drive declined so bad, I had to push for sex b4 he agrees. He stopped giving me head n I equally stopped giving him too. I drowned myself in my job and kids but the days I am super horny, I fantasize till I climax and that calm my nerves for like 2 to 3 weeks. I also have a special friend I chat with but he's not in country. The thought of sex outside marriage is unacceptable but I am afraid if this my special friend comes around, I just might do it cos he's so good, a sexiologist. Lol. So my dear take care of ur self ooo. Cheers

victoria usip said...

Poster 1 give him a "fair share" in due time you will recover it .

Poster 2: it maybe you need some extra help from a sex therapist for your husband. Check her out on punch newspaper her contact and info is all there.Good luck

Olufemi Atinmo said...

Poster 2 I will advise a bit of patience. Please remove the idea of cheating from your mind. Never ever cheat no matter what. Just sit him down and try to have a very honest conversation with him. Pray for God to guide you.although hates divorce, he allows it on the case of infidelity. If he does not change then investigate to see if he is cheating then you can divorce him!.

Poster 1 . Please do not be greedy
Although you brought the fund's, it was his idea that created this business and partly his work. Break him off with at least 30%. Money isn't everything. Don't let him go away with bitterness in his heart towards you

Anonymous said...

That's how your mom was fucking another bobo Abi? Poster 2 leave if you want to and since people want you, hopefully it won't be hard for you to remarry. How will you feel if you were caught cheating? How will your kids feel? Well its up to you.

Anonymous said...

The poster even sounds like someone that is hardened,better be careful how you treat people,you may later meet a man that will destroy you,and you later in life even regret losing that guy,this life is a lesson.

la effizy said...

Tuscany, you dey mind am?

Poster 1, you are a very wicked person. Infact that your behaviour can be likened to WITCHCRAFT. How dare you? I blame the guy for not documenting properly. If he had duped u or eloped with your money, you would have written a long chronicle crying wolf. Now, he has racked his brain, and made something out of nothing, you have the guts to come here and shout " I sacked him, I want to give him 10 percent". What impudence!!! May God judge you. Do you think starting a business is easy? Are you aware that a lot of businesses fail within the first two years? Iv told you people, stop listening to advise from some wicked/senseless women on this blog, you won't hear. A lot of them comment just for the fun of it and mislead others. After giving you back your capital, you should split the business 60 to him and 40 to you. I am so angry right now. Reason I hate to read chronicles.


Poster two get a dildo and stop whining!!!

Anonymous said...

PG 18
Women are always very selfish.the guy is just vexed that you betrayed him, ur a very bad girl from the unset I knew how it was going to end, u wer very careful and mindful of him because you knew what criminal you are and it won't take long before you kick him out and that was why you refused marring him cos his income was low.you refuse to tell why you sacked him, my guess is because you knew you won't be left out since your in charge of the cash so to hell with him.u love money too much and be careful what you do to others cos some one may do it to you. That guy is a honest and bright star and he has so many business ideas and your stupidity and greed just made you miss out on him. That business will fall, cos the brain behind it is dead.dont come here asking for advise when you've made up ur mind to be a thief. You had the money since why dint you start up the business your self? He got the. Brain but no cash and you got the cash but no brain. My friend go and give him 50% then go your way.
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN.

Irene Abe said...

Poster 1, you are so greedy and selfish! Pls settle d guy,50 50

Anonymous said...

Chai,the Queen, girls Don suffer for your hand, how many married women have u initiated into this your lesbo stuff? Fear God oh

Franglais said...

Poster 1.if that guy takes you to court and present evidences,he'll win. He owns the business idea,what you only did was fund it.Therefore,you can only take out your fund and the interest on it. Imagine yourself as an investor who only put someone in charge(your brother) to oversee the business.The business isn't outrightly but the fund is,therefore you can only take your fund and leave. On the other hand,if God has used you to bless people,let them remain blessed. You have nothing to gain by seeing someone suffer. Do the right thing.

pinky peters said...

Hello twinnie, same with me

leema said...

yes it is true most women will support her but be honest you lnow that most guys will not even give the lady a dime.
Most guys will even push her out of her own company.Marry a woman secretly. what are we talking about? Most men will dump the woman in a heart beat without any remorse. A business idea is just a business Idea that any partner can offer. for the sake of humanity and pity I would give him 30%.

Anonymous said...

It was his idea and he has been honest for crying out loud!

Anonymous said...

Where can I get this dildo you guys are talking about, I think I ll need to help keep body and soul together because I am not feeling it with hubby anymore. I am alone now and I feel like fucking.

Anonymous said...

Dear poster 2, my story is close to yours, last year na only 2 times we do. I confronted him about it and he told me sex is not his problem. That statement alone made me sad, then I started masturbating and watching porn to cool temper. I was becoming addicted so I had to stop. I told myself no need to form sey I no care, this dude is my hubby not boyfriend. I have 3 kids for him. Smtime in April, I changed. Once conji hook me, I tell him straight up "oga I wan f**k". He'll tell me he's not in the mood. I will say ok, undress and mount him.That's how I hv been dealing with my no libido hubby. Even this morning conji catch me, I carried his hand and chooked it in my pu**y, his tin stood at attention na so I collect, my body calm down. So dear poster, satisfy yaself o,no luk ya oga face.

Anonymous said...

You're on point. Thank you for been so honest

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: if your man no longer gives you head or fuck you, then it's all your fault. You made the sex boring samething every now and then, why the man no go fedup? Do you do 69 or you just relax and let him chop toto? Or when he kisses you,you just close your eyes like mumu? The problem is most women thinks guys can do anything just to fuck and yes guys can do anything for sex,but after a while they get tired if they are to be doing the work always.

Anonymous said...

I think she scam the guy business idea all in the name of love and watching if the idea will fail or not.

Anonymous said...

Poster one you are a greedy woman. He came up with the business idea and he also made it work. It's only fair you give him his share .or take out your capital and share the profit 50/50.

Be careful because your brother is watching and he will definitely be wiser when is time comes that is if he will be patient with you to have any stupid discussion wit you.

You may think blood is thicker that water but you will end up seeing the opposite when the time comes

Loveme Jeje said...

Poster 1 share 30:70 with him. His ideas your money. Don't let him kill you because of money.

Poster 2 get a Dildo.i don't advice cheating. If you are tired, we can pray to God to take him far from you and then marry another person

Anonymous said...

You can't read and even if you could you don't have sense to comprehend what you've read

Anonymous said...

Marriage is more than sex, yes people can get attracted to each other and have sex, but after a while it will die off if no chemistry. Some have been married for 10yrs and still fuck like it's their first time. I and my husband have been married for 12yrs now and any time I see his dick I just want to eat it and he feels same way too, even when we quarrel we still have a way to have sex, once body near at night a don sit on the dick or he done ride me. I guess the chemistry is more than everything we share. I dated a few before we got married and have never felt like this not for 2months not to talk of 12yrs. Well I'm happy!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Aunty Poster 1,

Calm down. 10% is just you vexing for him. You are clearly way more objective than that. To keep the reins on your business and not let love blind you is commendable. You're a tough cookie.

Be wise. You brought the funds, he brought the brains. Share the business into three parts: 50% for your (principal partner), 30% for your ex and 20% for your brother. It's the fairest way to end this.

Anonymous said...

Aunty Poster 1,

Calm down. 10% is just you vexing for him. You are clearly way more objective than that. To keep the reins on your business and not let love blind you is commendable. You're a tough cookie.

Be wise. You brought the funds, he brought the brains. Share the business into three parts: 50% for your (principal partner), 30% for your ex and 20% for your brother. It's the fairest way to end this.

Chidinma Grace said...

N1, 50-50 is a fair share if u ask me. U will suffer if d guy curses u bc like u said, he was good n never stole from u. So pls settle well with him. N2, I don't like sex, I just pray I marry a man dt is moderate abt sex. So am d Last person to advise u

Mrs T said...

Poster one please split that business 50:50. An idea is worth more than money. His idea,his time,his hustle . You only invested money. I blame that guy sha.he should have demanded the money as a loan from you even if you have your brother working there to make sure it's not squandered. That guy trusted you too much and you played a fast one on him. Don't think you have learnt everything , karma is a bitch.if you didn't do right by him ,that business might collapse at his exit .dont let greed blind oh. he is not some piece of trash.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: your hubby is attracted to men and doesn't know how to go about it. Get yourself a lover or leave the marriage. Don't go and committ suicide because of sexual frustration.

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

Dear Poster One..... 10% is as gud as nothing. Just put yourself in his shoes and sincerely think of how much you'll bargain for if reverse were to be the case. Having truthfully thought of that, give him that percentage you'll want given to you. Remember, do unto others as ........ (Fill in the gap)
Dear Poster Two..... Its not easy to want sex and not have it. However, my advice to you is that you should avoid getting it from extra marital affair. Judging by your write up, you seem to me as someone with a conscience, and my sister if you condescend so low as to having sex outside marriage your conscience will prick you for eternity. Think of it this way, you hook up with a boyfriend, you smooch, kiss, lick and do everything doable for an hour (max), you get back home and recount the memory not just for an hour but forever. Is that really how you want to live? Along the line, you might breakup or get tired of this boyfriend and get another one, and another one and another one still, ask yourself again and personalize it this time 'is that really how I want to live?'. E no easy to hold body, after all na pwick be dis thing food no be amala, but sis, manage the small one wey u see anytime you see am, keep your dignity and self worth in place. Kisses
*God bless my Angel in human form*

kola peter said...

@poster one: people who don't have ideas but work for a company are made partners after years of dedication.
Ignore what your new man may be telling you or family.
He deserve more than 60% if he has to fight his way in a regulated society.
He's been working his ass out, diligent but made errors by not putting things int documentation.
I know you feel 10% is a lot of money and you Doing him a favor. You are not. If not for him, you will still be stuck on your day job and can't boast of a fat account balance.
So give him his 50% as you still own the business anyways.
Don't be greedy else you have taken his pride, time and now money!

Anonymous said...

Poster one biko split it 50-50 and give him his 50%. Avoid trouble.

Anonymous said...

Poster one is a very greedy human being I do not care whatever difference you have with Mr ex. That business is his idea, he has worked hard in making it successful and you sit your greedy conscience-less self down to cut him short. 10% is the best u can do? My dear read proverb 11.1. You are wicked and God would judge you.... I am a woman! But would never condone to such rubbish....

Anonymous said...

Decepticon or whatever you call yourself, you need to come clean on who shattered your heart and caused you this disdain for men. In your little mind, try and understand there's more to a business than the seed money. Without the investment idea, the seed money would remain SEED MONEY just like without the seed money, ideas would remain a THOUGHT. None can do without the other, those that brought the idea and money both have stakes in the business and one cannot divorce the other at will. The initial mistake was mixing business with pleasure (never lend your spouse/bf/gf money, give them what you can part with), so at this point...it is best to amicably and tactful negotiate the split. Yes the financier would have more but a mere 10% is actually insulting. Both parties should find a middle ground and sort themselves out

Anonymous said...

Well girls are wicked! I had this same experience last week with my best friend. I was the idea behind the business that brought the money; I placed my life goal online for the business to work; as money enter the girl did not even offer me 10% she gave me 7%... well; I gave her all her money including her 7% without touching a dime and apologise to her that I even asked for an increase and she said thank you.... I got home cried my eyes out, knelt down and prayed for God to judge this case in due season... its too painful how human beings can be so wicked.

Anonymous said...

"just to fund it" like it easy. ..Do u know how many people with business ideas, but have nobody to kelp them finacially?....

Tush baby said...

Poster one ur boo owns those ideas not minding u sponsored it he deserves compensation, poster 2 go down on ur knees and pray to God.

Anonymous said...

Gerara here, isi amu dika gi.

BLUNT said...

The way women treat men when they're paying the piper! Madam, he conceived the business, he nurtured it and you funded it. Were you paying him salary? I guess no. So he worked for nothing! He was the technical partner, while you were the financial. It's even a 60-40 thing in his favour. Now you're no more together, you're offering him just 10%!! You're demonic. You're evil. I believe you're doing all this because there was no signed agreement which I blame him for. Just look at the way you programmed your write-up to ridicule him. Thank your stars you're dealing with a weakling. To God, if I was that guy, expect a different scenario. You will be begging me to take the entire business. As for all you cheap men that take money from ladies, you can see what's unfolding here. I keep saying it, don't take or borrow money from a woman. She must surely ridicule you- someday.

Anonymous said...

So many sick people on this blog. U guys need to see a shrink asap.

SMURF said...

Poster 1:you are greedy, if he didnt give the idea you wont have the cash you are guiding jealously now. Also, he worked there for hours. You were just seeing money in the account without working for it. So be a good person and give him atleast 45% if not 50%. Dont loose something bigger cos of your greed. What if he assassinates ur brother? Do right

Anonymous said...

Poster 1,though you didn't state what made you to sack him. That word "sack" doesn't even sound appropriate. It just looked like you used and dumped him. How can you offer him 10% in a business he slaved diligently for, at least you said he was honest with his job. Why do you want him to go and start from the scratch after he has helped you build up a business? not even minding that the business in question was his idea. He was your lover and not your employee, just settle him with his 50% and let him find his level. Mind you, I'm a woman.

Starjoy said...

10:90 haba, not good enough he brought the business idea,don't do that to him even if you fund the business 40:60 is ok please.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Ghana babe,my dear that poster 1,is one wicked womanoo,haba,u can't be smarter than God,just because of money,haba greed at its peak

Anonymous said...

Im not sick or a lesbian but before I settled down have always preferred and got turned on by female bodies. I Dont want to have a relationship with a girl, I just like what I see and want to try it maybe once or twice with someone. 👭👭

Anonymous said...

Poster 1, Even from the tone of your msg it is obvious yiu always looked down on him. The fact you financed it doesnt mean the originator of the idea is irrelevant. He built the business and was true to you as the business grew. God alone knows what you and your brother may have coniced to do him. For the sake of paece and safety make sure you settle things I a manner no one woukd feel used or cheated. This world is a wicked place. Be careful... 30% - 40% is very ideal. You money wouldn't have yeikded a dime if not for him. Be careful

Anonymous said...

Fuck u anon 17:58. She asked. For advice not
Ur Story.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1, from every thing you have said he seem to be a hard working man. This shows you looked dkwn on him all through. Good he is gone... His blessings would cime and he'll start anida idea. Just be careful and settle amicable for your own good

DonMayor said...

I will fund your foto business @mercifoto. Write and lemme help you. Idiot.

Abeg bring the jollof... Lol

James said...

*He

Anonymous said...

Lol chikito I'm the anon that wrote the narrative about my aunt. I loled reading your story. I've decided to face front abeg, she doesn't add anything to my life financially, morally spiritually or otherwise. I'll call her only when I absolutely have to, see her during family occasions etc.

Let me even add another one; there was a time I met one of her colleagues that was talking oh I like this your sister oh blah blah.. Only for my aunt to go this one that is not domesticated, it's only book and work she knows. Agreed my domestic skills are not great; but it shouldnt be coming from someone who had a maid all through university ( as in my grandma sent her to uni with house girl because she was that spoilt). She only started cooking and cleaning at 24 or so when she started living alone. She is/was like my big sis, the age difference is only 8 years.

That day I made it clear that domestic skills or the lack of it does not define me, and that's not my selling point.

Anonymous said...

Thanks jare, your head dey there. I'm so happy that situationship ended now, otherwise that guy would have regretted marriage with her because she'll never have been able to regard him as the head of the home, simply because she financed the family business. Imagine dumping the man after he had made her. "Irreconcilable difference" my foot.

Becky Divine said...

Haaaaaaa!!!! See me see wahala oooo!!! O gini bu ifea

Anon 17:05, who are you again? I ask again, who the fuck do you think you are? What copy and paste stories are you blabbing about biko? See this fool looking for respect in a faceless blog!! Soo sorry for you, imagine coming on a blog of all place to seek for respect? Chaii. I bu ezigbote anu mpama. Ozu lere ure that's what you are.

GTFOH you imbecile! I don't think i've insulted anyone here but i will insult you cos that bile u just spewed is too much to ignore. It is my opinion, deal with it!!! Ntoor gi there *biggest tongue out ever*

Anonymous said...

Blackberry dont fail to understand she helped him as much as he also helped her. It takes two three thi go make a business. Idea, money & time. The young man provided two of those ingredients. They should sit down like adults and settle ammicably so they go their seperate ways without animosity. -k

Anonymous said...

Blackberry dont fail to understand she helped him as much as he also helped her. It takes two three thi go make a business. Idea, money & time. The young man provided two of those ingredients. They should sit down like adults and settle ammicably so they go their seperate ways without animosity. -k

Anonymous said...

YiuYou have said it all.

Anonymous said...

Is your bible as big as the dildo you have in mind?

Anonymous said...

Gbam. If she like make she nor receive sense.

MISS TRUTH said...

Poster 1 you are too greedy, wicked and very disrespectful. the least you can do for him is 30/70. If I were you I will do 50/50. Don't let him waste you. ( if he has the heart he will waste you. )

Anonymous said...

This is the kind of cases my lawyer thrives on. I wish we can get the guys contact... people should learn to understand that running to the blog doesnt mean we'll back you up when you are dead wrong. The young man in question should have been more proactive. Darling you know the right thing. Do it.

BonaParte NN said...

I think poster 1 is very arrogant. The tone of her write up is condescending. Ofcourse, this is a feminist blog and we are to congratulate you for being 'sharp', 'the boSs'. You picked a guy up, chose not to marry him cos he isnt up there in life(yes, some people are not that lucky to find jobs after school), you admitted he had atleast 3 good ideas and was ready to work, you picked his best one as the boss you are. Made him the manager! Paid for the project and oh, you didnt give him access to any of the money (boss!) sole signatory...Let me even stop mimicking you.

It is all shades of wrong to combine business and love affairs. What did this guy mean to you really? A mere worker or was it a relationship? Cos you sound like he is a mere tool. You even sacked him despite him being upright in the business. (I guess bedroom affairs or he was becoming too forward and you want to dictate the tune of the business always)

-This brother of yours, how sure are you that he will not run down that business, knowingly or unknowingly? Family are the worst people to entrust with a business. If they misappropriate funds, you can do nothing. Can you arrest your brother? Dont think they're no loopholes to explore in that business. And even if he is honest, does he have the expertise your ex has?

-So basically, you used his ideas, used him to grow it and dumped him. Fine! You think he's asking for too much? You both started as partners? Or was he an employee? The court will determine this to know the ratio but either ways, he is entitled to some compensation. What you propose to pay him, can it make up for the years he put into your business (without asking to control the capital) thinking he was building something with you? Can your 10% pay for his time? Can your 10% help him to start his own business even if its on a small scale? Or you want him to beg his next girlfriend to start over. He's a hardworking chap, its probably not his fault he has no rich father to fund his ideas or give him connection to work in CBN or take him to NewYork to study and work. Put yourself in his shoes, imagine you table an agricultural contract to the government and they buy your idea, give you acres of land to manage but put you on a salary; you spend 5years making this your groundbreaking ideas work and now the farm is producing and exporting. Next thing, because you skipped the governor's dinner or had issues with his wife over greetings, you get fired and the governor puts his cousin to manage it. A farm worth 100million naira, a farm you know you could have stolen frm but you didnt, the govt offers you 400k to leave.WILL YOU BE HAPPY?

-Madam, im female like you but you need to change your attitude. From your write up, I sense you have little regards for others. I can give you examples in your diction that shows this. Arrogance ruins relationships.that ex of your is of a rare breed of Nigerian men who dont mind being subordinate to a woman. It doesnt make him a weakling and ofcourse you are on your right when you sought to terminate the relationship because clearly you dont love him and feel you can do better. But what is better? Richer? Don't end up falling for a man who has 'money' but is a wastrel or ready to squander yours or a man who just wants to cut you to size. I think the most important things in a man (as per finances) are hardwork and growth. Some rich men cant grow anything and are rich because of circumstances. Fast forward next 10years and under heat, things change and its the wife who suffers from their violence and issues. You might think your ex is a gold digger or broke ass but just be careful who you roll with and please tone down on your bossiness. We are all human, you know...

Anonymous said...

Sorry but I'm a woman and poster 1 you are wicked and you are the reason good men change and treat good girls bad. You give a bad name to womanhood taaaaaa

Anonymous said...

Financed the business with how much? How much is the business now worth? Ok. Let the guy take over the business and give her her start up capital. As una wise.

IVORY said...

You see why I hate reading chronicles? Poster 1 you're worse than the devil! Let's turn the tables where you brought the business idea,worked your butt off while your man was the signatory to d account,was busy collecting money and also put his brother there to monitor you. At the end of the day,he sacks you and offers you 10% of a business idea you brought and worked off your butt to grow while the person who was only collecting money keeps 90%,how'd you feel? Please remove your capital and split that business 50:50 if you don't want God to deal with you. All you brought in was the money just like a bank would do,but now you also wanna steal his business?A business he worked to grow? You'll suffer if you try it. It will be the beginning of your downfall. You're wicked!

Anonymous said...


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Anonymous said...


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nkechi susan said...

Poster one, YOU are a very wicked woman! Business is business, no matter the sour relationship.. How can you think of just 10%? It's your money, so Fucking what? If there's anything thing bigger than greedy, that is what you are. May GOD help women like you.

Mr Purity said...

Seconded.

la effizy said...

@ BLUNT... I almost thought I wrote this. lol. The woman is a witch abeg.

la effizy said...

@ poster 1: spot on.

Anonymous said...

Fuck you too ann 17:58 na be cause me and my husband dey enjoy our sex life e dey pain you abi? Oya go and die!!!!!!!!!! In osho baba voice. Margot like you.

Nkem said...

Poster 1, you havent heard of something called 'sweat equity' before? He could have just come to you for the funds as loan and by now, he would have been pay to fully repay and the business would be his. He brought the idea, he put in the sweat. Please split it 50:50. Anything less than that would be less than fair on your part.

James said...

Poster 1, you better share the money 50:50. U never love the guy no wonder you rejected his marriage proposal. He will feel used and dumped now.
U now feel that he cannot do anything.
This type of thing has happened before in my street and the guy used acid on the pompous girl. Uptill today, no one knows the guy's whereabouts .

Think twice. Never tell an able bodied man or woman that he cannot do anything when you are holding his something. He can use Africa remote control against u and your hands are not clean.

Anonymous said...

First time commenting. You are a wise woman. God will bless your hustle.

Dat Business Woman said...

Your so right @Orela
Cmon poster 1,it was his idea.
His idea is as important as your cash
Since it was btw both of you,i think the 50:50 is okay
Cmon,the business is booming, you also get to keep the business, giving him 10percnt is really really not fair
If he goes to court,i doubt he'd win cos there is no legal backing, im guessing it's all in your name, but use your church mind na and be fair....50:50 is perfect.....anyway,this your slap on his face will wake him up if he can turn lemons to lemonade. I'd do so

Dat Business Woman said...

@Anon 18:45, just like there are people with funds who lack viable ideas
Cmon,both ideas and funds are important
I blame the dude for not legally making an agreement
He is just at her mercy, that's the honest truth

Dat Business Woman said...

Choi @ Blunt, you are Blunt

Dat Business Woman said...

Lol @Don Mayor @bring the jollof
I sincerely hope he can see this as a challenge, and work work work his butt off to make his life the best it can be
I just hope he can see this as a stepping stone,the push he needs to think, get more ideas and make it
I really feel for the dude.

Dat Business Woman said...

1000 likes

Dat Business Woman said...

Nawa for you o @Miss Juliet
You know you'd also need empathy one day ba
@Ghanababa, as in eh, then turn that 10% to 200% and more...he has done it before, he can do it again
Poster1 is not being fair at all, the dude should just see this as a costly mistake and avoid it in his next business.....mtcheeew

Dat Business Woman said...

Thirded.

Passenger said...

@poster 1, I swear u're very greedy and wicked for that sharing ratio. This is why some people don't want 'joint anything' cos everyday we learn. I'm sure d guy has learnt too cos next time hhe will rather take such money offers as loan and make a refund. I've lost counts on how many times people seek advise on wat bizness to do despite having capital and yet u exploited a man whose idea u established, yet it's another ting to start a biz and another thing to run it successfully but he did both faithfully cos he believed he was doing for the future he hoped for with you. I will advise u take ur capital u used in starting up, then share everything else as 50/50 so posterity will attest to it if not karma is a bitch o.

Dat Business Woman said...

@Leema, the fact that most guys won't give the lady a dime doesn't make it right
I agree some men can be terrible,ladies can be terrible too
A business idea is not just a business idea,its gold, its something special,
I blame him for allowing himself be at her mercy...sure he ddnt see this coming

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Mrs anonymous said...

Poster 1,you are wicked and heartless & I am glad you acknowledged his loyalty.When you start facing problems now,you will call witches & wizard forgetting it is what you sow you will reap.Dont give him anything and watch what will happen.He will start another business and make it cos he was sincere in his dealings with you & God will definitely bring a devourer your way.Your smartness won't help you then.For your mind now,you get sense abi?Karma is a bitch

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 it seems you are the villain here. You never mentioned that he did not keep his own end of the bargain business wise. You from beginning were using "sense", whereas he obviously trusted you. Now you feel you have found someone better (my guess), you want to throw him out in the cold. If you succeed in doing that, he doesn't even have to revenge, Karma would take it up for him. Kontinue feeling too wise, you hear?

Anonymous said...

Poster two spike your hubby's drink with Viagra, then go ride him all night long.

Anonymous said...

1. It is good to be wise, but to be considerate is even better. If you do good you do it for yourself. If you do bad you do it for yourself.
2. Not everyone enjoys a dildo. Some also want to be held and share intimacy with the opposite sex, especially a spouse. Poster pray ooo. From what I read you have no inkling as to what your problem is really about. Until you get to the why and because,the bottom, you will be going round in circles. Get your snoop on!

Anonymous said...

Am shocked on how greedy people can be!

90:10? Hey, Nne you are mean o! I even feel for the guy.

It seems you don't know people create business ideas and others buy it?

He brought the idea, nutured it, made it bring in profit and stayed true to you and you have the effrontery to come here and ask this jezebel question?

Please not all business ideas transformed from the ideas to business, not even all that transformed stayed more than a month, he has made you a business owner, for the sake of the future of that business, pay him his 50 and apologise for offering that 10 in the first place.

I can't shake off the shock still.

Idikwa hard Nne, you no fit marry wf ds kain heart o!

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