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Tuesday, 9 August 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CONFUSED BABY MAMA


I must confess you are doing a great job. I am among the millions that read this blog without commenting. Please keep my identity hidden.
Also pardon my English because I didn't  attend Cambridge. And I'm not much of a writer.  Before I proceed,  I know some will judge,  some will say the story ain't real,  while the sensible and mature ones would  give good advice.  I also need your red ink please. And I'll try and summarize.

I'm 28, mother of a 3 year old girl, single and not searching. My baby daddy,  lemme call him *prince, has been a great lover and father. He has protected me and I can confidently say he's got my back. 

 We grew up doors away, in a large compound. though he is ten years older.  So,  both families know each other. Both parents separated. He is the first child. 
We started "touching body" when I was 13.  Like I mentioned before,  we were doors apart.  When I was 14, he left the house. Still the both families were good. The month I became 15 which was also a festive period, I went to meet *prince's dad for Christmas gifts,  he said I should come back.  When I went, the man raped me.

 I didn't know what to do.  I couldn't tell anyone. This is a man I call daddy. I stopped greeting him. And during that period,  my parents were having their issues which my mum decided to leave.  

While the years went,  I dated others and broke up,  then, *prince came back a little loaded and we continued.  When  I saw he was so into me and was planning marriage, I called him and explained why we can't be and what his dad did.  He told me he knows his dad molest girls and protects his,  that younger sister has reported their dad's behavior several times to him,  that their mum couldn't cope with his womanizing nature and left.  

He said when we get to "the bridge" we'll cross it. That's the bridge we are still trying to cross 7 years after revealing the truth to him.  We faced so much challenges,  the father frustrated us and even went around telling who cares to listen that I was his girlfriend and on and on.  The story got to my office,  *prince's office. But he kept encouraging me it will end well. 

 So, I got pregnant,hoping it will cool off stuff but for where? On my baby's  second birthday, the families had a meeting and gave their verdict.  I have gone for deliverance with my girl. Some people that swore during the meeting that over their dead body would they see us marry,  didn't see my daughter's third birthday. I didn't do jazz. The only thing I know how to do well is pray. I can't explain all.  

I have this friend I confide in. A true believer,  single and free. We used to hang out before I got  pregnant.  Even when I had my baby,  he was there.  Let me call him *charming.  *prince and charming have similar nature,  they are both domestically useful,  calm and the list goes on.  Of recent,  we became unnecessary close and started developing emotions for each other. I know *charming is ready to settle down.  And *prince  on the other hand is still trying to make way for me to enter his family as wife.  

Please what should I  do?  
Should I hold on things to  get better with *prince or tag with *charming?
*Prince  rented a two bedroom apartment for me,  far from his family. So I can have peace of mind. And of recent,  has brought the marriage talk again.  

He wants to damn the consequences.
*charming said he doesn't want a sexual relationship with me until married. 
All three of us have good jobs. 
Thanks.


OMG your daughter is so beautiful!!!...if her Father is sticking by you and has been a good man,then stick with him.I dont know how things will turn out but you are hanging with that second guy out of frustration..watch it before you make another mistake...*still thinking about your peculiar situation*

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
LONG DISTANCE HUSBAND

Please advice me cos am going crazy
I got married 3yrs  ago, after my wedding, hubby came up with the travel ish, though i was pregnant then but i lost the pregnancy. My husband traveled out of the country in September 2013 6months after our wedding.
Since then, I've not set my eyes on him.  He's not planing on relocating or inviting me over , though we talk on phone. He doesn't send money to me but keep giving me empty promises. 


Money is not REALLY the problem cos i have a job that pays #15,000 per month, and i don't train anyone. My problem is my marriage. 
I've been in my sister's house since hubby traveled cos i can't maintain the rent for the apartment we stayed in before his travel, even if i can, i don't want to be lonely. 

 I've told him countless time how frustrated i am but he keep on promising. Even his elder sister asked me to tell him to come back that her husband have a good job for him, in case he's not finding things easy there and he doesn't want to let anyone know. 

 i told her to tell him by her self, she said she have done that, but he wouldn't listen. Okay when i asked hubby his reason for refusing his sister's offer,  he said i shouldn't listen to his people cos they want to spoil our marriage. Am really fed up but what can i do. Even my people are worried!   BTW, am 27.
Please advice a sister.



*Ah ah,na wah....Is your husband married abroad?looks like oooooh!!!
Please ask him...not confrontation but ask him to be out with the truth of why he cant relocate back to Nigeria and then you can decide on what to do.



126 comments:

Joblesshousewife said...

Hmmm

Joblesshousewife

ukwu dimond said...

Tuesday chronicles is here.

stunning slim shady said...

Hmmmmm

Ibukunoluwa said...

Make I no hear war room or coconut oil for this post😒

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Poster one do you really want to marry someone who his dad raped you? You won't be happy in that marriage cos the family will do all sorts to frustrate you. Better move on to charming and live your life stress free abeg

Quiksilver said...

Poster 2, money isn't your problem because you earn 15k per month? Wow!
You are a virtuous woman of the Lord. Your horseband is married. Ask for a divorce & move on. You are still young.

Doppelgänger said...

Poster 2 I hope you done raise your hand up when marred women are called because my dear you're single to stupor.
Better get a divorce and save yourself the time you've already wasted.
That man is not coming back and even if he does it will definitely not be for you.

Poster 1, sad that you had to go through such an ordeal at a young age but really you shouldn't have gotten pregnant with the hope that it will make people change their mind.
As far as I'm concerned if prince wanted to marry you, he would have done do a long time ago and damned the naysayers.
Men always know how to get what they want. Your little girl didn't get him to step up to the plate, is it till you turn baby mama for life before he'd step up.
Break off that engagement. Clear your mind off of him before you decide to jump into another one.
Don't be in a hurry like you were with prince.

Blackberry said...

Poster two ur husband has a helper abroad...and again things ain't so smooth that's y he can't afford to send u moolah. So chill n pray.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Poster two your salary is 15k or 150k??? No matter how much you earn your husband is meant to contribute to his family. You're in a sham of a marriage cos that man is probably married where he is. Give him an ultimatum to bring you over. If not, you will leave him. How he reacts and responds will tell you whether to stay in the marriage or leave

STARRY LARRY said...

@Poster 1, since your prince still insist on marrying, what's your problem? Let him come to your family and pay your bride price, do a small wedding and forget about his family.

@Poster 2, you said you're collecting #15,000 or #150,000? And you said money is not the problem, abeg tell him if he can't come home latest by December you will divorce him. My dear, you're married to yourself joor




*Larry was here*

xxxTrinityxxx said...

She is really single to stupor lool

RICHBEE said...

Poster one, what were you thinking trying to marry the son of the man that raped you? Leave the both of them ( prince and charming) invest more time on yourself and your daughter.. Take time to have a rethink you can't just leave prince and move over to charming

Good luck

Doppelgänger said...

*don't raise your hand up.
*done so

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
I don't see any problem here so I would advise you wait and marry your baby daddy if you really love your daughter...

Poster 2,
Na wah oh...
Which kain story is this?...be there waiting for someone that does not care about you...
The earlier you leave that marriage,the better for you...
What are you even gaining from the marriage sef?...
No money...
No accomodation nothing!...
Mtcheewww...
You better start dating another person...you will soon enter menopause!...

Loveme Jeje said...

Poster 1... if your prince charming is ok and brings the subject of marrying which is good. if you are interested to marry him, let me know jare. Dont mind your stupid father-in-law. I stand with you on this man. Marry him and nothing go happen. If you are a member of my church now nothing go do you. Marry him.

Poster 2... I had a friend whose husband left her for 3 years, he always call her on phone. she begged and begged for the man to come back for where. we worked together, i saw how sad she was, she told me, i took her to my Bishop and the rest is history. He told her before the end of 90 days your husband will come back, the man came back to Nigeria on the 70th day. My friend just looked at me and said so you are keeping your Bishop from helping people. The husband is around with her but left recently because she allowed him to go and make money. So i told her babe, any wahala let me know jare. I dey your back NOTHING GIDIGBA.

Only God can do it. Since you want your husband, you will have him. if he like make he use super glu gum his body in abroad, we go use kerosene watch the glue comot.

Atheist. said...

Poster1: Hold on for Prince, he seems resilience & steadfast, throwing Charming into the equation will just mess thgs up, some ppl are better of friends, anythg more the existing relationship will be chaos, sadly u wldnt see that part till u redefine ur friendshp.

Poster2: Are u sure he hes not married over there? men can be crooked like that, eating 2 sweet yam & non the wiser, you need to start throwing threats his way, watch him budge.

#Melisandre: Were you sleeping, Princess?
Did you watch the ceremony on the beach?
PrincessShireen: I heard it.
Melisandre: & it frightened you?
PrincessShireen: Ser Axel was my uncle, he was always kind to me.
Melisandre: They're in a better place now, Princess.
The fire cleansed them of the sins of the world.
PrincessShireen: But they screamed.
Melisandre: Women scream when they give birth, afterward they are filled with joy.
PrincessShireen: Afterward they aren't ash & bones.

RICHBEE said...

This is what we call " abroad marriage "

Loveme Jeje said...

I hope you wanted to write N150,000 and not N15,000 because that one na 2 days i dey spend that N15,000.00

Akinbobola Korede said...

Hmmmnnnnn....Poster 1 please just go n get married to charming and leave Prince biko

ukwu dimond said...

poster one since you can pray very well, why don't you pray to God for Him to direct your path? all the best of luck.

Anonymous said...

To each his own,ma'am...
Money is not her problem means she's content no matter how little she has.

Anonymous said...

My dear I am in the same situation but mine is not up to 3years. It's a long story and I am planning on writing to Stela, cos as it is right now I want to quietly leave the marriage. I am too young to spend the rest of my life alone. Did I mention that he is married to a white woman and has two kids.

Anonymous said...

My dear I am in the same situation but mine is not up to 3years. It's a long story and I am planning on writing to Stela, cos as it is right now I want to quietly leave the marriage. I am too young to spend the rest of my life alone. Did I mention that he is married to a white woman and has two kids.

White Diamond said...

Poster 2: You are so married to yourself.

#WhiteDiamondOut

PLATINUM said...

See poster one jst face prince, u guys hv already started together... and its not like he really want to let u go. Na wah sha!!
Poster two.. any thing long distance its soo annoying. I will advise u to ask him to come bck like his sister suggested or u call off the marriage n go ur separate ways. He will continue givin u empty promises till thy kingdom come o. I hv a neighbor that had a similar situation, in her case the baby lived, n he didnt knw his father until 10years after wen he came bck home and by then, u could see from his actions and behaviors that he doesnt love his wife anymore, he is more enlightened than her, while she is struggling to be upto his standard he is now a bigger boy. Nna eh, oga if ur not taking me with u, lets go n struggle together i no de do!!

BECKY'S DIARY said...

1) Stick with your Prince
Since he is a good man and has stood by you all through the years. Stick with him nd fight for una rove

2) Get a divorce
When you're tired of waiting and believing his lies, threaten him with divorce. His reaction to your threat will give you all the answer you need.

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 2: u r 27
U got married in 2013 meaning u were 24 then

Ur hubby traveled out 6 months afta u guys got married, what's that I. D plan bfr u guys got married? OK even if it was not, what did u ppl agree on bfr he traveled out?

My dear am sorry to say u r married to ursef cos d only thing u can boast of is dat he calls u.....no money, no sex,no kids, no plans on him coming back, no plans of u joining him ova dere. For how long do u intend to wait, kindly call for a family meeting...let ur husband's ppl call him n know wot his immediate plans are for u both cos if d case were reverse ur husband for don remarry shaperly... If dere is no positive response afta d meeting, kindly file for divorce n move on. Oge adiro!

ukwu dimond said...

poster two your husband has a wife in obodo oyibo, you are his Nigeria wife. Is high time you confront him with the truth, tell him you want to end the marriage, tell him you have suitors all over the place and see his reactions.

some times people like your husband may not return until the woman is 50 years old or is late, use your tongue to count your teeth.

Juliet Isi said...

Lol @ virtuous woman

Anonymous said...

The ladies that have sex before marriage and "know how to pray", to which God do they pray? Or are they talking about a repented soul after the whoring?

stunning slim shady said...

Poster one: stick to *Prince...d devil u know is beta than d angel u barely know. dazalll!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Kwakwakwakwa...
Eyaa,you are the Nigerian wife...pele

Anonymous said...

Poster 1- Leave Prince and go with Charming.


Why? The drama of what his (Prince's) dad did to you will forever hang between you guys, you shouldn't have dated him at all sef. Men are funny creatures, deep in his heart, he probably can't see himself married to a lady his dad has slept with (rape or not), I believe if he really wanted to wife you, he would have done so already.


Since you say Mr.Charming is as good as Prince and if he's willing to love and accept your child, pls walk away from Prince, his devil of a father and the whole family.



OR, marry the two so you'll have "Prince Charming", how you see am? Lol!



Poster 2- Madam, you're very single abeg.



According to you, he's not planning to come back anytime soon and has refused to talk about you going to be with him abroad, how long are you willing to wait?


He's probably married over there and has started having kids, you're here, childless and waiting?


For what exactly?


Till when exactly?


Make e no be you like film when he comes back 10yrs later with a wife and kids, walk away NOW!!!



SHARONNA

Sally Rue said...

Imagine the kind of world we live in where a man will rape a girl and the girl still has to live with this nonsense.

stunning slim shady said...

Hmmmm shebi person don ask for his ur Bishop's numba today......... Share d number mbok!

Anonymous said...

Poster 1- Leave Prince and go with Charming.


Why? The drama of what his (Prince's) dad did to you will forever hang between you guys, you shouldn't have dated him at all sef. Men are funny creatures, deep in his heart, he probably can't see himself married to a lady his dad has slept with (rape or not), I believe if he really wanted to wife you, he would have done so already.


Since you say Mr.Charming is as good as Prince and if he's willing to love and accept your child, pls walk away from Prince, his devil of a father and the whole family.



OR, marry the two so you'll have "Prince Charming", how you see am? Lol!



Poster 2- Madam, you're very single abeg.



According to you, he's not planning to come back anytime soon and has refused to talk about you going to be with him abroad, how long are you willing to wait?


He's probably married over there and has started having kids, you're here, childless and waiting?


For what exactly?


Till when exactly?


Make e no be you like film when he comes back 10yrs later with a wife and kids, walk away NOW!!!



SHARONNA

School Life said...

I dunno whad to say... Somebody plz tell me whad I should say to em.

salt E said...

Na real helper my sister the man has seen his greener pastures and with ur 15k he doesn't think it will be easy letting go of his helper.

Cissy said...

#Hodor: Hodor!
Hodor: Hold the door...

IVORY said...

Poster 2: single lady with a ring.

Poster 1: first mistake was ever trying to marry into a family where u were raped instead of seeing to it that u got justice. You went ahead to get pregnant for his son while the rapist walked free to he extent that he could boldly and shamelessly show his face in public when he should be rotting in jail. You aint a gweg, so why are u desperate? How would your daughter feel growing up to the knowledge thatbher grandad raped her mum? Did u think of that at all? Prince will never marry you lady! You're just his fuckmate. If he wanted to,he woulf hav braved the odds while you were pregnant and not now tgat you're a baby mama. Free prince and Charmin and go pitch your tent somewher else cuz charming might be a rebound but if you're sure about charmin and what u feel for him,marry him. Don't marry prince under any circumstance.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

God will fix it

Anonymous said...

She mean her current situation is even worse than money problem

Anonymous said...

Each tym I read WNB, at night I always dream of being given head and someone making love with me passionately. Pls who else is experiencing same?

Anonymous said...

Each tym I read WNB, at night I always dream of being given head and someone making love with me passionately. Pls who else is experiencing same?

Adadioramma said...

Poster 1, I think Prince is your man, just give him some time. Poster 2, owu na asa di gi badly.Pray for him to stand on his feet. You can never tell how he is managing there.

Miss Ferragamo said...

Poster 1 and 2, make una drink coconut oil. Lol

Anonymous said...

Poster one, I am a man, don't even think of settling with the second one who knew you before you got pregnant.. He will use it against you later in a way you wouldn't think of.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2, no ey isn't the problem but you are living with someone else, can't you rent tour place? See talk o... Senseless I must say.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1:if I were u,i would not hang around prince even though u have a baby for him.there's no way u won't feel pain each time u see his father.my advice is that u go ahead with charming.families matters in a marriage n u won't be 100% happy with prince

Miss Ferragamo said...

Poster1, Prince's father raped you, and now his family says you can't be together,but he's nice to you and he loves you ba? My dear that too much baggage if I were you I'd go for Mr Charming since there's a connection between you two.

Mrs. Romas said...

Poster 1, Please stay with your baby daddy. Even though i am not in support of baby mama/papa ish, you already made the mistake by getting pregnant out of wedlock. You have to be patient with your baby daddy; he has given all his support and want you to be his wife no matter the difficulties you both are facing from his side of the family

That other guy you called charming, is not in for good. Beware! Don't make same mistake again by getting pregnant for him. May God see you through.

Poster 2, you are married to yourself. Your husband must have gotten married to another woman abroad and there is no way he will leave her and come back to you.
Go and nullify your marriage and tell your people to return the dowry.
Until you nullify the marriage though, stay off other men. May God see through.

Exx said...

Welcome Back @joblesshousewife.
Mmm!!! Poster 2:who told you that you are married? Poster1:Enjoy the love the both of them can offer. Remain small for your pickin...

Miss Ferragamo said...

Anon 15:12 same difference. Read to understand.

didi said...

I think the poster meant 150k.it has to be a typo. If it isn't then all I can do is lol.

BonaParte NN said...

""Also pardon my English because I didn't  attend Cambridge. And I'm not much of a writer.  Before I proceed,  I know some will judge,  some will say the story ain't real,  while the sensible and mature ones would  give good advice.  ""

Why do people bother to put these sort of prefixes before stories. You're already judging yourself before the comment and still telling us not to judge and those who will criticise you are immature?
Sorry, you sound like a tormented soul trying to find peace. I hope you do.

There is actually nothing to judge or criticise you for. The only thing I feel sorry for is you because youre too used to judging yourself and think you're not good enough. Your family drama left you feeling rejected. You clung to Prince as a child to feel some form of acceptance. You were raped, so you felt you were not good enough for Prince. With all this drama in your life, you judge yourself too much and underrate yourself.

Its difficult to tell you what to do...because only you knows what you want...

Exactly what do you want from life presently? Do you want marriage at all cost to just anyone, be it Prince or Charming?
Do you want Prince because he is your baby daddy and its neater that way?
Do you want Prince because you love Prince and want to be with him?
Do you want Prince as husband so he wont suddenly run away as baby daddys do? A husband is more of a commitment or you just want stability or people are beginning to talk or you're getting old?
Do you want Charming cos he seems to offer you this stability?
Do you want Prince with all his family baggage, a rapist father and possibly diabolic family?
Is Charming willing to accept you with your 'baggage'. I mean, not only your beautiful daughter but the fact that you are literarily another man's wife in spirit, you carry around the shadow of prince who youre used to, who might only let go of you if you let go and will keep being in your face and charming's face for many years...? Even if he's ready, Is Charming charming enough to charm away that shadow and seed of Prince in your life (cos this guy seems 2 be a stunner).

Only you can answer these questions and decide.

But if i'm to answer you, from my point of ignorance of your true affairs. I'll suggest you hang on with this Prince; he seems dedicated just a bit confused. If a man wants to leave you, he will leave you even if you're married (im sure you know this from your family issue) and sometimes its even better he leaves you than stay and be a mess, like Prince's father. So, there is no assurance in life. Not with Prince, not with charming. The only thing you owe yourself is inner happiness. Stop being too harsh on yourself, most of it is not your fault. Take care of yourself, save for your daughter, make yourself stronger and let it rub off on your daughter. So you can give her a better life than you had.

Anonymous said...

Please what is the name of your church, I need help too.

Miss Ferragamo said...

15k or 150k, she said money isn't her problem. Nsido?

Anonymous said...

Please what is the name of your church, I need help too.

temmy yemmy said...

Stick with ur baby daddy if he's willing to stay with you since it's not ur fault u're raped by d father.

@poster 2, you earn 15k per month and u think u don't need money u must be a joker.....As far as am concerned u don't av a marriage so move on with ur life and open ur eyes to find a better man to marry. your marriage na "one chance" be dat.
@tee-y

SD2016 said...

Im very sure she lost one zero.. maybe stella lost it in d envelope she used in sending dis chronicle.. Stella check well please.. hehehe

Ayo said...

Poster 1 please marry the second guy.

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

I hope your bishop is not gradually taking the place of God in your life. Who your bishop believes in is very important, talk of more God than your bishop dear, from the way you mention your bishop,he has not done well in teaching you people to trust in God and not man, and that says more about him. Be wise,the anti-Christ is already here.

Justina Michael said...

Coconut oil will solve this one too?

Sweetheart said...

Poster 1
I'd rather you start over knowing fully well your FIL to be RAPED you, that will never be forgotten even if you've forgiven him. If you think there'll be light at the end of the tunnel with charming, go with him and start on a clean slate, if not, stick with the devil you know.
P.S: Prince seems like a really nice/cool guy but.....just follow your heart and do what's right by you!

Poster 2
Seems to me like you're married to yourself!

Anonymous said...

Poster 2- that your husband is not sincere. I know married men that travel and marry oyibo for papers and still find a way to bring their wives over. Once they get the paper they divorce and move on. They don't hide anything from the naija wife. Ask him and let him tell you what's up then decide if you want to stay or leave.

Poster1- in my opinion the only difficult thing before marriage is the decision to marry, once that decision is made the rest is easy. If your prince has decided to marry you, he should go and pay your bride price, all this family people are just trouble makers and bad belle.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Lol,thats my advice for both of them.kwakwakwa

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Hmmmm,Divorce him,as if it is dat easy

Anonymous said...

Gosh av never stocked any1 on dis blog be4 even ur oder olosho BT u u re such a local pig I HATE!!! u dirty bitch u re a bad influence to oder ladies

Jasmine said...

Jobless house wife, welcome o. Hwz baby?

Jasmine said...

And u married him? Hian!!! Women!!! All for the 'mrs' title

Yemi7up said...

JHW you are welcome, how is your baby and family as a whole.

Anonymous said...

Poster2
Wo bi, You are on a long thing
what?
You opened your eyes to correspondence marriage
Why didn't you arrange to travel together
Na wa o, this thing when u do no dey reign again o
You better find yourself a man
by the way he doesn't send you money and 15k a month is money to you okwaya
You better open your eyes and forget that man
cos na one chance you put yourself

Sorry Jare poster1
You man's father is EVIL OMG who does that
sorry for what you are going thru
Dude(baby daddy) seems nice by the way, I'll say stick with him
IT IS WELL

Jasmine said...

Poster 1: prince wants to marry you? Let him go and see your people na. His father must be a useless man. Imagine him telling people that the woman his son wants to marry was once his gf? Ha! Tufia for that kind man o.


Poster 2: you r sharing ur husband with another 'oyibo' woman.

Tuscany said...

Jobless has taken back her position as 1st to comment.
Oya mail me your number lemme send u airtime cos you are the real mvp

Yemi7up said...

Poster 1: You can't stay in charming's family it will always be war,the world is too short to be fighting on ending battles. The man will give you NO peace,he might still want to have you but if made that attempt make sure he end in police station.
Poster 2: follow Stella's advice.

Anonymous said...

War room! Coconut oyel!! :-)).

Anonymous said...

Poster 1...Pls stick with prince..bcos even after knowing what the dad did, he is still sticking around and still wanna put a ring on it...charming might shame you tomorrow by your past.


Poster 2, you are married to Jesus

Anonymous said...

Anon at least get your spellings right before stalking (that's how it's spelt BTW) her.. What exactly is wrong in her comment or what is her offence..

Pained much?

Anonymous said...

Nawa ooooo

Anonymous said...

There should be a meme about love me jeje and her Bishop

officers wife said...

Starry Larry always mkn so much sense. Poster 1$2 I think he just said what's on my mind.

Mao Akuh said...

God bless the senders.

Loveme Jeje said...

Anon 15:34 you have allowed spirit boyfriends to be sleeping with you. You are in danger. Abeg run and go and do deliverance oo. Dont allow your breakthrough to be delayed in life.

Run oooo. Cover yourself with the Blood of Jesus. Kai you don enter one chance with this. I pray you get DELIVERED from it. AMEN

Anonymous said...

Anon16.17, u must be so useless ur own self that stringing women along and wrecking them is ur 'natural food', as u think women will continue to be brainwashed by ur lot... Poison to women is what u really are!

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but poster 1, when you were 13 Prince (A 23 YEAR OLD MAN) was messing around with you?? Doesn't that show you that he and his father share some kind of predator-ish behavior/tendencies?? It may be subliminal but who knows if it will surface in the future.. Say, when he reaches the same age his father was? I'm sorry, he sounds like a good person but I just can't get over the fact that a 23 year old man, an adult and possibly a college graduate, was messing around with an underage girl who only entered her teenage years one year previously. Here, he'd have been arrested!


Additionally, marrying someone without both families in sync with each other will seem plausible now but think about the years to come. Do you want your daughter and unborn kids to feel the animosity between their grandparents extended families? This is a very dicey situation but if it were me, I'd pitch my tent with Mr. Charming and not rush into anything permanent just yet (I.e marriage). Just my two cents. All the best!

Esther amaka said...

OmG!I think queens ID has been hacked! She can't possibly type these naw... mbanu! No curse! no babalawo! No side dick! Abi dem Don hypnotize the queen?

Kaycee said...

Poster one stick with prince o.
I repeat stick with prince, and stay far away from charming, cos that dude rented flat for you and has got your back, wouldn't find it funny when he realizes another man is coming close

Omah Cindy said...

Anonymous tuzaquin, how can you "stock" anyone on this blog? Are you a stock fish? Keep hating on people you don't know from Adam. Onye under do

Esther amaka said...

Thank God, man no be God o coz If man be God....

Robyna Fenty said...

Posted 1.Marrying into a family that doesn't want you is risky. What if something happens to him? Who will have your back? How would you even consider marrying a man whose father raped you? You don't mind seeing his face for the rest of your life? Na wa. Besides, its been 7yrs, if he really wanted to marry you, he'd have gotten some random uncles from the village and gone to pay your bride price and then follow it up with court and church marriage. As for the second guy,hope he really knows about your present situation and doesn't mind? Hope he treats your daughter like his own, if so go ahead. When your "prince" sees that you are considering moving on he is will give himself brain and marry you or he will let you go. Either way you will become a "Mrs".It's obvious that you are extremely desperate to become one. Goodluck.
Poster 2. Call him and threaten him with divorce. It's time to be forceful. It's either he comes back or takes you there with him. How can he not send you money for you to take care of yourself. If a man cannot take care of his conjugal responsibilities because of distance, he ought to make it by putting extra effort in his financial responsibilities. Get a lawyer and draw up divorce papers, Scan them to him. When he sees that you are not joking he will give himself brain. If after he gets it he doesn't budge, then my sister,that man doesn't care about, not to talk of love you.It's time to file for a divorce or annulment on the ground of abandonment. I don't know if his signature is required, that will be the tricky part. Goodluck.
P.S Did you just say money isn't an issue as you earn 15k a month? 15k? Lmaooo wtf is that about? 15k means you are leaving from hand to mouth oh? No buying new clothes, shoes, or making good hair. Do you work from home? Cos 15k is not enough for even tfare is this economy.

kinky with a golden pen said...

Poster one.... Marry Prince n 4get about charming, remember he is d father of your baby and he still loves u regardless of knowing his dad has tasted your honey pot. If charming were in prince's position, knowing his dad once had u, do u think he'd still love u as prince does? Food for thought.
Poster Two... Did u say u are a married? Thai!!. U better help yourself now that ur still young b4 old age comes knocking. Think about it, ppl dat got married same year as u are probably nursing one or two kids already, and those dat will get married this year/next year have a higher chance of becoming mothers before you. So my dear, how long are u willing to wait b4 someone calls u MUMMY? Dey there make pant dey wear u, u Berra divorce d man NOW

Cissy said...

Lol @ leaving prince to move over charming...
Well said Richy, well said

kike Bunmi said...

Pls give me the name of this novel or story u have been posting here, am dying to read it

IJAY said...

Poster, seems Prince is charming and has a good heart u can marry him chikena. Poster 2, nne biko tell ur obodo Oyibo Di DAT u cant wait again, bcus as it is now he so has someone else dere

Asike Sylvia said...

Poster one and two...none of us can give you suitable advice...you're in the shoes and you know where it pinches...so use your tongue to count your teeth

cakes by Bella's, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132, instagram @cakes_by_bellas said...

Hmmm, it's better not to open the post then. Don't draw another thing for yourself. I personally just jump and pass, I don't read most of it .

Vivienne Nwabueze said...

Spirit husband alert!!!

Anonymous said...

Good advice from you. Poster two please heed to this

BeQuiet Instead said...

Poster 1 - you are really in a fix. Since, you said you only know how to pray, I advice that you seek God's will concerning your life partner. SEVEN years is not seven days yet a thousand years is like a day in God's sight. You didn't mention your current age and that of your prince but I believe it's high time he took a decision of legalizing your relationship if he is a matured man irrespective of people's opinion.

Did charming propose to you? You know we women have a way of concluding things all the time. When you start being close to somebody, there is always the tendency that you develop soft spots for the person - but that does not mean that the person loves you to spend his/her lifetime with you. You already have a child with prince, he is still single and even rented an apartment for you,so I will advice you remain with him. Do not complicate your life the more, stop being close to charming until you conclude with prince. All the best.

Poster 2 - It's a pity this happened to you. I think your hubby deceived you - he already planned this travel stuff while you guys were planning to marry. He left immediately you got pregnant because he just wanted to keep you as his local wife while he 'frolics' with other women abroad but unfortunately for him, you lost the pregnancy.

How can you say that money is not your problem when your hubby is not sending you a dime and you cannot maintain an apartment? What is 15,000 in this age and time? You sound so naive and timid else why did you not threaten him with divorce instead of hiding behind your sister inlaw? Young girl, you are married to yourself - he is not providing for you and you have no child with him so please call the he-devil and tell him you are done - get rid of the wedding band and move on with your life.

You did not mention if you have suitors/lovers; may be you are still claiming wife, wearing your wedding band. I don't know how the law works on this but I think you can divorce him in a magistrate court and get married to another man that loves you and want to be with you. Life is too short to be lived in misery. I wish you are my sibling so that I will talk sense into you one-on-one.

BeQuiet Instead said...

BTW I have this for yesterday's poster of chronicles - I read it very late.

Hey poster....i just read your chronicle and feel like contributing this. You have been in this for TWELVE SOLID YEARS even finding out in your first year of marriage that he slept with your sister and cousin.

I now ask you why are still not in talking terms with your sister yet went ahead to give birth to FIVE children for your husband? I believe you blamed your sister and exonerated your hubby thus had issues with your father's family - correct me if I am wrong.

Again, you feel you are enjoying sex with your hubby that's why you still go ahead - AFTER TWELVE SOLID CHEATING YEARS - to snoop and monitor his phones and SM.

Let me tell you the truth woman:
1. your hubby has a cheating habit that cannot be tamed so forget him changing any time before God's Kingdom comes
2. you will soon be hypertensive because you have refused to mind your business and do your bid - taking care of FIVE wonderful kids
3. you love sex so you cannot keep your legs tied while living with your hubby in the same house as if he's your elder brother
4. you can't cheat, you can't leave, you can't pray again SO STOP SNOOPING/CHECKING ON HIM, USE YOUR LITTLE SALARY TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN AND YOU only...IGNORE HIM
5. he asks for your forgiveness each time you caught him yet he continues in his philandering ways because HE KNOWS YOU STILL CARE FOR HIM.....YOU HAVE NO WHERE ELSE TO GO .....AND YOU PROBABLY IGNORE YOUR PARENTS & SIBLINGS

I can go on and on but madam I will tell you to sit him down and tell him your decision to mind your business while he minds his - he should forget about sex with you because IT WON'T HAPPEN AGAIN but he must take care of his children - their feeding, clothing, schooling, etc. He must be up to his responsibility at all times. DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY OF HIS GIMMICK PLEADINGS AND MEAN IT.

Also, forget what he does with his phones and SM. reconcile with your siblings and parents and live your life with your kids.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 stick with your baby dady, he seems good to me, let him try to pay your brideprice despite his family refusal. Poster2 i am married to obodo-oyinbo husband for the past 6 yrs blessed with 2 kids, after the 3yrs there's no year he doesn't come home, we communicate like we are nearer to each other, he set up a business and bought car for me and also about completely our mansion too and I have never for once visited him over, my husband is a wonderful man and loving father to our kids and my family. What i want to say is that it is not d distance that is the barrier of long distance relationship but communication, since you are communicating Weller let him open up to you how things going on with him over there.

Dominion said...

I hope you preach Jesus the way you preach your bishop?

Anonymous said...

Please stop reading WNB and go to Lovemejeje's church for deliverance from spirit husband.

Oluyemisi Olotu said...

Wow. So no one else noticed that both father and son molested poster 1? Ten years age difference and she was 13, he 23 when they were touching bodi. My advise is to leave that entire family of pedophiles and start fresh with some one else.

Poster 2- long distance marriage is the worst. Married but living single- just depressing. If you are unable to join him where he is, and he refuses to come back, then am sorry - time for a divorce so you can truly have a marriage not just a title.

General Zod said...

Better than Mr. Charming that will always remind her of her predicament and make insinuations everytime they have issues, will not trust her and she will keep thinking about Mr. Princewill.

General Zod said...

*Prince*

Anonymous said...

Poster number 2, google your hubby's name to see if he has married. Do you have friends abroad who can help you research? You need to ask him what job he's doing. If he went on a visiting visa he's probably staying illegally now and if he leaves he knows he wont be able to come back. If he's in the US i can help you find out.

Keji

Baby Oku said...

Poster 2. What if ur husband is trying to make way for the future for the both of u? He might be married there and the only reason will be cos he wants to have a stay so he can send u over.. u have been patient enough.. but I think u shud talk to him.. like dnt ask him to return, jst ask him to explain things better to u and u shud try and understand his reasons too..

These kind marriages no dey easy.. but u have to be willing to understand the .

Vickie Finest said...

Poster 2,there's a lady in our church the husband has been away for 11years. She told my mum they talk on fone bt he doesn't send money...even when lumps were found in her breast and she needed it removed. Church contributed money and sent her to UBTH no kobo from him. During the period she was at the hospital,they church assigned some persons to investigate about her husband...they found out that he got remarried with 4kids o. The Lady is now 45years of age. So poster 2 use your tongue to count your tooth.

Blossom said...

Poster 1: the grass is never greener on the other side my dear. Since he supports you against his families wishes,stick with him. I think soon,his family will let you guys be. Even if they don't and he is determined to wife you without their backing,i'l say you should marry him.
Poster 2: I think your hubby may be married like SDK suggested. Just talk with him again heart-to-heart and let's hear how it turns out. All the best.

Anonymous said...

Send me your church name,mbok

Anonymous said...

Send me your church name,mbok

Anonymous said...

Game of thrones season 6

memmie said...

It's Game of Thrones. It's a movie as well as a novel

Anonymous said...

Epistle according to .......

Cissy said...

@ Kiki, it's a novel as well as a Movie called Game of Thrones (GOT)
Seasons : 1 - 6 (2011-2016) for now.
Awards: 186 wins and 331 nominations
Enjoy

karen Gideon said...

@poster two my husband lives abroad two and send money like hell, well I feel 4 u sha cos u don't even have a child. I believe ur husband might not really love you maybe that why he's believing like that. Ask him wot he really want and move ahead. Life is too short to be unhappy

karen Gideon said...

@poster two my husband lives abroad two and send money like hell, well I feel 4 u sha cos u don't even have a child. I believe ur husband might not really love you maybe that why he's believing like that. Ask him wot he really want and move ahead. Life is too short to be unhappy

Moncoeur behbeh said...

@kike Bunmi its Game of Thrones, its a series. It also has books sha.

Anonymous said...

THANK YOU!!! Exactly what I said when I read it and had to comment it earlier! She was 13 and he was a grown ass adult at 23. It's clear the guy and the father have very similar tastes when it comes to the age of their sexual interests. Thank you for being the only other reasonably minded person on this blog! Smh

Anonymous said...

Poster 2. Earning 15k naira a month. You have no business being in a relationship. Or marriage. That reeks of poverty. You no dey go Pentecostal? Abeg I!

PL THE GREAT said...

.... the book of Bonaparte chapter 1 vs 1-100.





Lmao!

Nmasinachi said...

Nah stockfish? inukwa stock? Hate someone you do not know? What exactly is "oder"? Smh! You trolls actually think people you troll gives a rats a*s about your hate? Who your hate "epp"? Get a life and drink some honey. Hatred in your heart will give you wrinkles, and high blood pressure.

Poster 1, look before you leap.
Poster 2, hubby is married out there. Do as Trinity has said.

Nitty-Gritty said...

#1, wait for prince. All the same continue being friend with charming and don't make the mistake of touching body with him. Best of luck.

#2, Hmmm, my grouse is that, why is he not sending money to you monthly regardless of his status there? He might be trying to legalize his stay, hence, he is not able to relocate or visit you yet. Continue to be patient. Best of luck.

dame sexy said...

1st poster,sorry ,but am gonna be harsh,ur prince is a pedophile,haba! 23 years old man touching a young 13 yrs old girl(having sexual thoughts towards a young kid!).Just like the other 2 deep thinking posters have thankfully observed,your prince charming might have his father s blood and sexual inclination on under age girls flowing in his vein.(how would you feel ,(GOD FORBID)if your precious little daughter at 13yrs is being fingered?by a big brother in your neighborhood?)the whole story is too messy to immerse your whole life in.
2nd poster,ur USA hubby had not deem it fit to contribute to your upkeep since he got to the states,no matter how rich or comfortable? you are with your #15.000? or #150.000?
The guy seems not into you anymore and you better make hay while your sun is still shining!
Dont be a fool,use your head!

dame sexy said...

1st poster,sorry ,but am gonna be harsh,ur prince is a pedophile,haba! 23 years old man touching a young 13 yrs old girl(having sexual thoughts towards a young kid!).Just like the other 2 deep thinking posters have thankfully observed,your prince charming might have his father s blood and sexual inclination on under age girls flowing in his vein.(how would you feel ,(GOD FORBID)if your precious little daughter at 13yrs is being fingered?by a big brother in your neighborhood?)the whole story is too messy to immerse your whole life in.
2nd poster,ur USA hubby had not deem it fit to contribute to your upkeep since he got to the states,no matter how rich or comfortable? you are with your #15.000? or #150.000?
The guy seems not into you anymore and you better make hay while your sun is still shining!
Dont be a fool,use your head!

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