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Tuesday, 23 August 2016

Marrying For Good Luck

Is there anything like marrying someone because they have good luck?
We are about to have our Couch Session.....that is after you finish reading what follows....







Stella,
 I will like to share this with fellow blog visitors because they might learn one or two things from it and I will appreciate if I remain anonymous.

I had a chat with a male friend yesterday that got me thinking deep.We were talking about marriage and reasons why marriages are not working. This man confided in me that he's about to take the second wife. That she's already pregnant and he has rented an apartment for her but he wants to take it further by meeting her parents and paying her dowry.

I was so surprised because I know his wife from a distance.she's good looking,calm ,has a job and overall,this couple are fairing well on the averaged.so I asked him why he's doing all these and if the wife has offended him and he said no,that she's been a good wife and mother to the kids.


At this point,what came to mind was that this saying that its in a man's nature to cheat was obviously true but I felt there was more to it and started asking questions,how do u think this will affect your children?how do u think your wife will take it?are you family members in support?obviously,they will follow him to the in-law to be.

And somehow,he gave me the truth behind his action.that his spiritualist told him this new lady has good luck.she will bring him so much wealth immediately she comes into his house.Her star and his are compatible..blah blah blah..
At this point,I had so many questions for him but I was left dumbfounded.

where was the spiritualist when he married the other lady?what's wrong with her own star?what if he marries her and his financial status doesn't change or gets worse?
This and many other questions crossed my mind I began to imagine what truly lies in the heart of some of those men that cheat on their wives,decide to marry another one,divorce or even those broken relationships before marriage.
There have been so many good women,who don't even understand their partner's reasons for their actions.obviously,this is one of them.there's more that meets the eyes.

Even a lot of women screaming about marriages should search their minds and tell themselves the bitter truth, what they did to get into the man's life,what they did to make the man marry them,and how their charms cannot sustain the marriage or is it their spiritualist anointing oil or handkerchief,honey,bathing soap etc.

The men who may have two or more women in view suddenly settles down for them and because it's not natural,they begin to have problems.and obviously one becomes the victim and the other the tormentor.

To all singles out there,do not fall for these things.there's a man for everyone and if you decide to help yourself then don't blame God and cry wolf.
And to women who may have done something fetish,spiritual known or unknowingly, search your mind and Restitute or rather live with the trauma and stop complaining.
The bitter truth is that you may miss to fulfil God's purpose for your life if you are in a wrong marriage.

Food for thought.


153 comments:

Miss Ess said...

His spiritualist said so, this is bullshit. Nice conclusion by the way.

sylvia said...

i have heard that "yewo" thing is quite common amongst yorubas. Where they marry based on the woman's star after "seeking spiritual guidance".

Its also common amongst the yorubas when TTC, they believe if the man steps outside and gets another woman pregnant, the new baby would cause the 1st wife womb to be "opened" and she will then begin to have children.

I know this because i spent some time in western nigeria though i am not Yoruba

telema Cr7 present wife(way maker miracle worker,that is who my father in heaven is) said...

I have seen a man become successful and rich after his marriage and his pastor confirmed that the woman brought goodluck into the life.

Atheist. said...

Stella, please dust this couch before i sit to contribute... Too many asses must hv farted on it, not to mention bedbugs

Anonymous said...

All I saw in this write up isThe bitter truth is that you may miss to fulfil God's purpose for your life if you are in a wrong marriage.'....so spot on.
Look b4 u leap,pray well and pray through.a word is enough for the wise.
'

Anonymous said...

Qu’est chance a Γ  voir avec le mariage ? Il s’agit d’un non-sens. L’homme est juste l’utiliser pour justifier son action. Il est polygame. Simple !

Anonymous said...

One of my X left cos he said I was a bad luck n I was d reason he had no job. Til date,he stil gat no job n it's been a year since he left. Na me cause am? NO! Bt that ws wat his pastor said. Hrd he broke his leg sef n couldn't walk for months. He's stil managin nw n his mom feeds him til date after graduatn wit a 2nd upper class since 2013 frm 1 of d biggest private uni. No job,wife,money n a broken leg after I've left o. A man who luvs u wil never believe in that shit! If ur wife/gf brings u bad luck,u both need 2 check ursef. Pray hard n fast abt it. God is not wicked to give bad/gud luck to a particular future wife. I'm Anon on this.

Atheist. said...

End time Goodluck, One trillion shift.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Heard a similar story last week of a girl that her boyfriend abandoned when she was pregnant years back. Now the boy wants the child back. According to someone he confided in, his spiritualist told him that his business will never grow until the child comes to live with him.

To the above story, I'm not sure the new lady knows why he's marrying her. She might think its love.

Anybody wey carry my picture go babalawo, na fire the person go dey see sha.

beauty said...

Hmmmm,theres no nothing I haven't heard.some pple with their superstitious belief.

Syndy said...

Stella I've heard about this from different people. Some said some women have good luck, that if you marry them you will flourish in whatever you do. I think that what they mean by that is that there is a woman for every man, once you find your rib, you will prosper more. But if you take someone's wife, rather than prospering you will experience a downturn.

ThatEdoChick said...

Ha! I know a married man who travels all the way from Abuja to Delta just to fuc# one particular girl.. They've been doing this for years.. The girl sef contracted HIV from other people, the guy knows and he still comes to fuc#...
Another one old man this time says his mistress is more productive in every angle than his wife.. They all have stupid reasons for cheating Biko... It's in their blood

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

I have heard something like this too infact it happened to me but the truth is in my own case,I noticed the guy was trying too much,keep bringing marraige up after just 2 month of friendship,still opening car door*hahan*it became scary I just had to avoid him before his friend told told me his secret then I keep wondering "why marry based on things like that?the only constant thing in life is change,what if things falls apart eventually what will he do?too many misplaced priority#God help us all#oya commet keepers#make una note this one too*tongues out#

Krishina said...

Hmmmm, i understand the poster....most men of god nd proohets are the architect of brokenn homes nd marriages. Whatever one sows, he reaps.

I know of someone dat did evil to marry all his 4 wives. Tied dem down, used their stars nd later sent dem packing one by one after one or two kids. Now, in his old age, no woman with him. He us retired as a senior officer from the federal government. But guess what, all his pension money, almost 35million naira was swindled from him by a southafrican olosho.

All his ex wives glory dat he thought he collected den to make him who he was, was blown away by the same wickedness nd frivolities.
Continue using juju to tie your partner to you, you will reap what you sow

White Diamond said...

What rubbish!!

The man cheated and got another woman pregnant. Simple!

Goodluck star ke?

This goodluck thingy is usually what happens, when two people that complement each other, fall in love.

The other person helps you grow, both spiritually and otherwise, makes positive contributions and input into your life, cheers you on, encourages you, and becomes your biggest critic.

You'll have no choice than to be a better version of yourself. Have a positive outlook, grab opportunities as they come, become bolder and more open to ideas.

And to outsiders, it's your partner that brought you luck.

Inukwa akuko?

This his excuse is total bs, 'plix.' All these humans who have let their prophets pull the wool over their eyes.

God help her if after he gets married to her, his situation remains the same.

#WhiteDiamondOut

Cynthia Iyede said...

Hnmmm all i can take from this write up is don't manipulate anyone into marrying you as a man or woman.

It will fade off one day. Don't help God....

Anonymous said...

Its possible.
When I meet my Delta/Benin Hubby,14yrs back,my MIL of blessed memory insisted I shld follow herc2 Celestial Church of God in Edo state.
The Shepherd in charge sad my Star is compatible with Hubby,dat he can c my light shining bright.
So after the assurance from her Shepherd in charge,my MIL of blessed memory was my Support in my Marriage
We ve bn married fo 13yrs,4 children,Hubby's business has bn growing but BVs note DAT I am a praying wife,I fight all my battles on my Knees.

Anonymous said...

Abegi some men are just evill,there is a particular guy on my neck, married with 2kids a boy and a girl seriously bothering me to be his second wife! When he went as far as putting it on Facebook and telling his family,I was astounded and passed cos to me his life is perfect with the most loving wife buh it's like he has made up his mind but God forbid I do such!

Sweetheart said...

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the lord. There are certain benefits that come with marriage if you do it right i.e keeping the bed undefiled.

I don't believe in this star compatibility crap!

white Berry said...

It's hard to understand men and his reasons for wanting to marry that other woman is no good reasons at all. God help marriages of this days.

Sharon john said...

That is how all this spiritualist ,will be decieving someone,he claim to be a spiritualist ,and he wants to destroy a person home.

Loveme Jeje said...

Stella when are we getting a new settee. abeg we need new one.

Before you marry anyone, do a midnight prayer and if you do not understand your dream, get your Pastor who has wisdom of God to interprete your dreams.

You must understand, trust, respect and love your wife or husband. Marraige is an ungoing training ground for all

Anonymous said...

@Edochick, common Abj to Delta .u de complain. U rily dunno d power of d vajayjay. Trips men hv made ehn. Nly God can hlp us in ds lyf.

Anonymous said...

Ok make I go anon on this.
It is true. Any man that sleeps with me, not even marriage takes out of my virtues and goes on to become rich or successful.
As me no know, I just dey Gbensh all the Gbenshables.
Not until years after when God warned me to close my legs until I marry because a lot of my virtues had gone out of me through premarital sex. Anyone who marries me will be extraordinary rich and successful . Especially if I love him.
Nah so I close am oh. And things improved in my life. I looked back at my exes and toasters and realize that some of them knew this fact and were desperate to marry me. Especially those who consulted pastors and prophets or even herbalists.
Some of them didn't know but noticed a huge difference in their lives after they met me, and the change when I left their lives.

The point of my story is that it is true, men and women women have to be careful.
Just as there is good luck, so is there bad luck. Some women are destined by God to be a helper for their husbands after marriage, but out of ignorance go about gbenshing, they now marry, no virtues left.
Aristioes and boyfriends don tap everything.
I was lucky to be warned.
Whether you believe me or not, na you sabi. Lol.

Anonymous said...

Abeg English ooo Wetin u write for here

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Truly,there are some women that brings badluck to their men..
Such men will start struggling financially after getting married...
Most of these things are caused by marine spirits,spiritual partners,faulty background foundation etc...
Some mothers,grand parents initiate their daughters and grands daughters to these rubbish evil spirits without knowing the repercussion later...
If you are a young girl and you are experiencing all these,biko go home and ask your mothers questions...
I'm happy I have my daddy in The Lord!...I must ask him questions when the time comes for my children to settle down!...
I don't want any badluck in my generation!,,.

Joy Uchenna said...

Wat happened to d bible verse that says He who finds a wife, finds a good thing & obtain favour from d Lord. Wen u marry according to d will of God, all d blessings of God will follow u.

bukola fagbemiro said...

Hmmmmm, may God lead us right so we can marry the bone of our bone and flesh of our flesh.

Nwa AMAKA said...

Amen.

Mama Afrika said...

Make i siddon read comments.

ololade Salaudeen said...

this thing is real oooo, it happened to one of my

mum friend den, this man bought her a car, house et all he also wanted to take her as a second wife, as a celestial she visited her woli to check if there star rhyme and the woli told her the man wants her for her star that he is using her star to boost his, the gal kuku na poor bar before so she no mind, she now own a big store in lekki she dey travel out of the country anyhow now... don't wanna mention the man name but he own lot of big hotels in Lagos

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

I've heard same too.I've also heard situations where a woman was said to have brought badluck to her man.I think of such beliefs as ridiculous.Like the poster rightly asked,where was the spiritualist when the man got married to his first wife? I don't know how these fraudsters manage to convince and confuse people.Common sense is not so common after all.

Nwa AMAKA said...

Any man that cheats on the wife of his youth will not be prosperous.


You ask, “Why are our gifts not accepted?” It is because the Lord saw the evil things you did—he is a witness against you. He saw you cheat on your wife. You have been married to her since you were young. She was your girlfriend. Then you made your vows to each other—and she became your wife. God wants husbands and wives to become one body and one spirit. Why? So that they would have holy children and protect that spiritual unity. Don’t cheat on your wife. She has been your wife from the time you were young.
Malachi 2:14‭-‬15 ERV

The Bible also said that he who finds a wife found a good thing and obtains favor from the lord.

A wife is a blessing. The lady out there is the devil that will destroy you. Your spiritualist told you and you neglect what God said.

Woe unto you who lust after another woman be it for beauty or otherwise.
For the fact that you have cheated is enough for God's presence to depart from your home. God is a God of orderliness.

Anonymous said...

Fuck off slyvia, what has tribe got to do with all these.

Becky's Diary said...

They all have stupid reasons for cheating!! Arrant nonsense

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

I will read comment biko

Stella maris Baby said...

Lolzzz

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Its real. Would have shared my positive testimony butt....
Some people get bad luck while some get good luck..

Anonymous said...

I once broke up with a gal I loved so much after 4yrs of dating cos some visioneers and young prophets said something to my mom about this luck issh. Mum disturbed my life till I couldn't bear the pressure. Tho I didn't tell my exgal, I just broke up for some flimsy excuse, regret it much. I hate that I can't go back to her now and I can't even love any gal anymore.

I know I won't miss my Godsent life partner in Jesus name.
Now they are tired cos the gal they talked to and wante to come marry is just an auxiliary nurse in the village and a stunch virgin and S.U who is just 22yrs old and not attractive to me and not pretty. I even tried calling her, but I am not just feeling her at all. So I stopped calling cos I don't feel I can love her and she has already told her parents about me sef. End of rant.
Mummy and siblings please leave me and let me look for my type, a decent gal who can kiss, suck and fuck real good without feeling guilty and conscience. I am too emotional for gals who cry or read psalm 51 after sex, it makes me feel sadder.
I am not qualified to marry a virgin. BTW, Virgins are too reserved and conservative in bed for my liking. Can't deal. End of rant.
I don't need any advice or comment under my comment please.

Anonymous said...

Story for the gods, your destiny, good luck or wheeever lies in your hand better pray for your own to manifest. Cos the day you were created that woman wasnt there

Cynhams Cakes & Pastries, Abuja. Home delivery. said...

Most of these spiritualist, prophets, pastors etc use "brain" and study the environment or nature of the "subjects in question" to confuse the people who meet them for "spiritual guidance ".

They will tell you exactly what you want to hear and add more confusion to your already confused life.
God has given us the power to talk to him directly and make our request. He will answer you.

Going to pastor and prophet and co "for prayers" is like adding more ache to your thunderous headache.

Cynthia said...

Is it wise to have a plan B boyfriend ?

Rebecca Omosimua said...

In this life, when you tempt satan to tempt you by visiting all these spiritualists, God will leave you to your own strenght. And by strength shall no man prevail.Any counsel that you seek outside christ is sorrow-filled.

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

Bla bla you heard is common amongst yoruba..bla bla you heard is common amongst yoruba.can't you use your common sense ehn sylvia?so what is the usefulness of that rock that's on ya neck when everything is you heard,you heard?common gerrahia mehn*moron..

Cynhams Cakes & Pastries, Abuja. Home delivery. said...

Its fate and luck.

Anonymous said...

There is something like luck. My sister is extremely lucky in life and she has changed the life of her husband. Even we her family know she is highly favored in the luck department. Everything works in her favor.

Stella maris Baby said...

I have heard things like this too,A friend of mine told me last month that someone is seeking for her hand in marriage but the funny thing is that,the man told her that his spiritualist said that her future is bright,he should not waste time before another person comes.
She replied him to wait for her to see her own spiritualist.
Case closed.


Look before you leap..
Things are happening..

ogo said...

Only lazy men look for luck in a woman.can Dangote etc look for a woman's luck.Broke ass bingos looking for who to take their destinies

Latoya Totsman said...

Naaaaah.... Your legacy lives on with himπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Nwa AMAKA said...

God bless you

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

Anybody wey carry my picture go anywhere..thunder+many many evils things go strike them

Latoya Totsman said...

I'm with you on this.

Blossom said...

I've watched something similar on African magic yoruba. People have different reasons why they cheat.

Chinyere Ekwueme said...

The man is not serious and also not faithful to God so what the happens if the new lady did not bring the gud luck, will he chase her away look for another with gud luck? He is very very confuse

Blackberry said...

You marry some and lose your job, you marry some and you get elevated, that's how it is, pray for favour on youself that whoever comes in contact with you should be blessed.

Blackberry said...

You marry some and lose your job, you marry some and you get elevated, that's how it is, pray for favour on youself that whoever comes in contact with you should be blessed.

Latoya Totsman said...

My dear, something similar happened to me, but mine was a direct revelation from God(through a dream). I kept seeing this man trying to touch my forehead in the dream oooo and this is someone I had barely said "yes" to. Nna mehn.... I borrowed sense and said "No! I won't be your woman biko"

Just Glamour said...

Anon c'est la verite

Latoya Totsman said...

"Butt" asin bumbum?😳

Blackberry said...

Guy go and make money and you will have your way.

Anonymous said...

What if he is dead by the time your kids wants to settle down, who will you ask? Or is he immortal, seek Jesus, stop running after prophets.

Blackberry said...

Simple @sexiest

Anonymous said...

It's actually more common than you think. My ex was in such a hurry to marry me always harrassing me about marriage and i wasn't ready only for me to find out that his spiritualist aka babalawo had told him not to let me go infact it got to the point of him trying to charm me. Mehn i ran o and never looked back

Blackberry said...

U know some chase away the blessings, u no need prophet to tell u.

Anonymous said...

Where is the like button for this comment?

Anonymous said...

Lolz @ I don't need any advice or comment.

Starjoy said...

I have seen a guy dating a lady for 3 years and broke up with her because his pastor told him that the guy will never be successful if he married her.

Anonymous said...

SOME GIRLS/BOYS HAVE ALSO CONVERTED THEIR PASTORS TO MEDIUMS/SPIRITUALISTS

Ma**y was 19 and very beautiful; six feet tall, ebony chocolate (if you imagine what I mean), and "an hour glass" shape that turns heads 360 degrees. Men began to come for marriage when she was 16 (looked more mature than sixteen) and above all, the daughter of a known lady professor who insisted that she'd complete her masters before marriage.

At 25, she had hit the jackpot of a suitor and her mother capitulated. A*e, her suitor is an oil magnate with an intimidating personae. Well, mama had to consult pastor to ascertain the veracity of the magnate's proposal. Pastor confirmed it and told them that the marriage is blessed with 3 boys and lots more. finally the wedding was fixed "in six months time". All the while, Ma**y's friend (a seasoned Christian) had encouraged her to take out time and seek God . . .pray and do not allow folks to think for you . . . have a personal relationship with him etc" but the "bride" will have none of it . . . she's been swept off her feet by the whole exactness of "the dream jackpot" and the anticipation of the family.

It was during "counselling for the wedding" that the first shocker came . . . "why does the pastor want you to be coming in turns for counselling?" Her friend had asked but she could not give any reason. The "man of God" knows what he was doing. Well, long story short; Ma**y was raped by the "man of God". And what became of his "marriage confirmation"? Well no marriage held . . .The lady's eyes opened to all the deceits, she was too downcast to consider marriage to a man . . . she hated men . . . the downward spiral continued to the point of attempted suicide; and saved by her lady christian friend. It was then that M . . . decided to seek God in fasting and prayers that she overcame the passion to take her own life and made peace with Christ. M. . . is not married yet (in her late 20's) but has overcome the hatred for men . . .

Let's see Ecclesiastes eleven vs. nine

"You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see, but know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment."

John ten vs. twenty seven:
"My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me":

Just Glamour said...

Follow your heart,your happiness matters,your mum and siblings won't live with your wife,but you,if they keep choosing for you and you keep rejecting when you are 50 I bet you will still be single,make your choice and respectfully invite them.

Anonymous said...

GREED IS THE DRIVING FORCE TO MOST MEDIUMS AND SPIRITUALISTS WHEREAS MARRIAGE IS THE BAIT:

OU *** is a young lady who thought like most young ladies that she was "in Love" (it is a shame that most women do not know what love is). She married the man of her dreams and the envy of every lady. She said yes first week of their meeting and marriage happened within a month. Her husband was stupendously rich but she does not give her a dime. The only "gift" he gave her was their diamond engagement ring and wedding band which Ou must put on all the time or she will incur his wrath. Ou became fed up and began to cheat on him to make cash but to her surprise, any man that she had sex with dies withing a week mysteriously. It was then she sensed that there was more. One day, she confided in her hair stylist who introduced her to Christ and advised her to fast and pray with her. They went on 6-6pm fasting (drinking only water) for 2 weeks and studying the scriptures. For the first time Ou was having peace; she woke up at midnight to urinate and found that her ring (which she wore to bed) had left her fingers. She looked for it and found them on top of the table in the room. She picked it and put it on again and by morning, same thing happened. she told her friend who asked her not to worry but continue the fast.On the fourteenth day, she came home from praying with her friend in the Church only to find her husband trembling with fear . . . he was dumb and could only write with his pen all that he wanted her to know . . .he visits a spiritualist and . .. makes human sacrifices to keep his wealth . . . his wife must not touch his money . . . the wedding and engagement rings were deposited in the spiritualist temple for 2 weeks with 2 heads of virgins etc. . . Ou and her friend continued their fast for another week according to their conviction and it was then that the man began to talk and ask for forgiveness. He gave his life to Christ and that was how their marriage was healed. Look at Romans eight vs. one . . .

Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set youa free from the law of sin and death.

Anonymous said...

Amen!!!

Latoya Totsman said...

Listen up women: For every man you sleep with, there's an exchange. You're giving the man something(good or bad). There's this grace, given to us(women) by God. This grace is limited to just women , but can be keyed into by a man(no wonder the bible refers to us as the man's helper). Some women spend their lives, distributing this grace to men and end up empty when they finally meet their husbands

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

Lmao@ya legacy lives on with him*omG*hahhahhaha

Alloy Chikezie said...

Rubbish, there is nothing like marrying for good luck, if you marry the right woman, and she becomes your wife, God will bless u, that's what the bible says, just like this man, God has blessed this man who married a wife but out of greed and selfishness have decided to marry another under the guise of "she has good luck"

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Anonymous said...

Adetayo Adenekan Afeme married to bright afeme, had her aunt washed her head in a cele church to bring good luck to her husband. They had nothing until she decided to do it for her husband. From a one bed room and rickety Honda car to being land's and house owners with lastest automobiles, salons and travelling around the world. My dear people do it.

Anonymous said...

So, men do not have luck? So, they must rely on a woman's supposedly luck to progress in life? Na WA ooo!

Anonymous said...

Why not? Just make sure you don't get 3 things. Feelings, STDs and caught.

Stephen Adesanya said...

If you cannot get the revelation by yourself
you are the path of destruction

ThatEdoChick said...

ceci est un blog en parlant anglais et vous Γͺtes tenus de parler anglais.

Oby O said...

You beat me to this comment... Like getting married will improve a lazy man's finance overnight.. Abeg you guys should go and hussle and stop deceiving yourselves.

Shyla said...

Not only Yoruba oh. Its all tribes. I have this friend that the husband, according to them oh went and checked her out and was told that she brings good luck and success. Na so guy man woo the babe and eventually married her. He didnt have a car with his meagre contract staff job. This guy bought two plots of land, bought a big car. Meanwhile the babe business was no longer doing well. After plenty prayer sessions it was revealed so. Babe left the guy. Not up to 3mths after, the guy was sacked from his job. The job that he was getting the crooked deals from.

okwa dat igbo gal a.k.a Ada Riches said...

Lol..See how u bv's are giving us fake gist, claiming to have goodluck, how ur imaginary exes were rushing to marry you..blah blah blah. Who then has badluck?? BV's and lying eeeh!!

orela said...

We all are saying some women bring their men bad luck...abeg...don't some men bring their women bad or good luck in marriage too?
Make unable no vex is this bringing luck ish (Wetherby name true or name false email no concern me)one sided?

Haba...so good or bad luck is in the hands of the woman the man is an 3mpty vessel and needs to be filled with the luck if the woman.

The most I can contribute is I feel we humans have some form of essence around us that either attract good or bad things...like bees to honey..
Pray for God's presence in your lives because when he steers your ship nothing bad can happen to you...3ven if you come in contact with a bad lucked man or woman...For thy sake they shall be blessed. .IJS

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Things dey happen sha.

Anonymous said...

Simple, short and straight to the pointπŸ‘Š

Anonymous said...

As for me, I don't think that their is a lady out there dat my future is attached to.i think one just need to work on himself & and stop believing in fetishism. What is my star and her star no match.to m I see dat as uncivilise attitude not dis jet age dat one will be lookin for compatible star. It awkward I beg some pple just need to be colonise again for a period of years be they will grow up.

Mama Afrika said...

Preach it sis!

Anonymous said...

God help me not to miss it in marriage,poster God bless u wen d man start seeing negative tins concerning d lady wat will he do?

Mama Afrika said...

Before? Even plan C sef. No dulling o. Just make sure you use the mermaid position wisely

Anonymous said...

I don't know if it's true but any man I sleep wif just starts having financial problem,my recent boyfrnd has lost more than 10million in d cause of our relationship,I have prayed n fasted but it's still the same thing n worst is they all love me to the death

stephan said...

Hrd soo too, me sef I hav goodluck.. cos since my hubby met me.. Hz been doing wonders. *grins*

Anonymous said...

i have heard this story but the truth is some people have done really bad things before marriage and this reduces blessing and since marriage is sacred. you sleep with your husband with all the bad sins on your head, the person you love will be affected. this said, pray for forgiveness and once you get married pray for your husband

Zee said...

Gerrout with your pidgin French jare. Next time You want to show off,show off with well written French. La prochaine fois, ecrevez très bien..

Anonymous said...

That's how this bastard I'm married to called me badluck. After 3 sons and plenty favor. Just because his finances have nose-dived. That he doesn't know what he saw in me. I don't blame you C, one bit

brownsugar said...

That's favor @ work not luck

Erelu said...

On the other hand: the spiritualist told him he has to use his wife for rituals. By marrying another woman, he can use her without touching his first wife. Afterall the juju will recognise Her as a wife, whether 2nd or 3rd. The children she bears can be sacrificed as well,n thereby saving the first wife and original family.
In another instance, Men just come up with stupid gist daily to scare women into allowing them to do what they want. The man may come up with that gist to his first wife to make her accept the new woman he has found love with.

Amacastel said...

Yes if u marry a man that is spiritual compatible with u everything u both touch will be progress

Newbie Alert! SDK- MyNewFound Obsession said...

Lol!!! You just brightened my dolorous day!!

MamaOj said...

It's not really about going spiritual. Even the Bible says "he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord" so biblically things are suppose to fall in place for u after marriage.

Erelu said...

Latoya stop. What if he's the one with the bad luck? Why do the women carry they power of goodluck and badluck. I was dating a guy once and everything was suddenly crazy. I was so happy and fulfilled with him but everything else was crazy. I was fighting with everyone. My work becomae a nightmare, my schooling was suddenly unbearable. I was always disoriented and confused. I left after so much consideration and I have peace. I love him like I've never loved anyone else but I had to be realistic and walk away. Let him sort himself out

Cyndilicious said...

Lol hubby told me he knws our marriage will bring him good luck nd blessings(we actually discussed dis yesterday) . he sd he knws he married his own wife and truly things have being working in our favour..aside dat am a prayerful wife,I pray for him everyday for God to kp blessing and uplifting him and he has bn d best hubby ever..I pray God will continue to bless and uplift us.

Erelu said...

It is more than wise. It is Solomon itself

Erelu said...

No be small story. Go and marry a "lucky" woman then sit at home and wait for money. The way poverty will design you ehh. All this foolish propaganda to make women feel bad about themselves. So men don't have luck? It all depends on woman. Looking for where to throw blames when life isn't going their way. And one insecure woman will accept that she does not have goodluck and then allow the man to fuck a girl who has "goodluck".
Omo, pray and and hope in God.

Heritage said...

He that finds a wife,finds a good thing and obtains favour from God. Foolishness is not an excuse. We must keep our eyes open and seek God's face ourselves ro reap this blessings. Marriage can make you or break you.

Ralu M said...

Don't mind the polygamous he goat. He fit say he saw vision join to justify his actions. * I need to dust my french*

Datruthsisreal said...

He findeth a wife
Findeth a good thing
And obtained favour from the LORD
-Bible

Datruthsisreal said...

Tor exactly

Datruthsisreal said...

Amin

Datruthsisreal said...

And coming from people that will surprise you

Ralu M said...

Chop kiss babe😚😚😚 and before una misunderstand, prosperity is not necessarily money.

Ralu M said...

Is plan A misbehaving? Then Yes. If he's not then it might backfire and you will end up losing.

Datruthsisreal said...

Selfishness
Is using other people for your benefit

Datruthsisreal said...

Selfishness
Is using other people for your benefit

Mr Purity said...

Did Dangote consult you before he married his wife. Do you know the source of his wealth. Get methylated spirit and clean ur head, its filled with fogs.

Anonymous said...

I remembered our family friend said their previous maid brought good luck to their home. They went spiritual (pastor)when they noticed all things was working well and money coming in anyhow and was told it's the new girl they took in that brought the goodluck....I still don't get it

Mrs Bee

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

That's why as a girl, it's good to live your life decently. Numerous sexual partners can divert your God given purpose and destiny. (Which they call 'Luck').
Read the book: Operating in the courts of heaven.
That book explains the importance of destiny in the life of every individual. And how not to rubbish your destiny through sin and all of it. And the spiritual warfare against your God given 'gift'. By the time you've slept with numerous partners, you enter your husbands house and you're empty. Unleashing negative spirits everywhere.
Anyone that wants the book can put their email down here and I'd send to you. (If I have my church mind 😝)

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

True @ blackberry

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Latoyaoooh

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Yaraba or Na?

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Good!! Karma's address book

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Read my comment above nne.
You have said it all. Sex with different people distributes your gift and calling.

Miss Ferragamo said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@your legacy lives on

Y said...

I hv an elder sister like dis as well. Chai!!!!! She is favoured oo. Very blessed lovely kids,her husband though tough u know he loves his wife. I pray God blesses me with her luck kind of favour o. And this my sister is just too loveable.

Olori_lizybethy said...

Please send it to me afolabiolubusayo@gmail.com
Tnks

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Chikito πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚yaraba

Jack Brenda said...

That spiritualist should go and rot in hell. He dey advice the man to marry another woman even when the Bible forbids it.

Martins Aboy said...

I don't how this works in marriage;but I know naturally most people have this Good-luck charm;such that whatever they lay their hands on prospers..so from what i think;if you are lucky to marry such,the blessing extends to you...

@MARTINS ABOY

Jack Brenda said...

Spiritual husband dey follow you around. You need deliverance

Becky's Diary said...

Hahahahahahahaha very funny comment oo. I haff die
@Just glamour, the guy said he doesn't need advice na lololol

Anonymous said...

I had an ex who I was supposed to marry in a few months time then.We had an argument, then we did not talk to each other for sometime.Only for us to get back and the guy said his PROPHETS were praying for him on who to chose to marry.He said anyone they pick would be the one.We actually quarreled because he was sleeping around forming Spirikoko on top.I remember visiting the parents few months before that incidence and the mum took us both to one "PROPHETESS" like that who we didn't meet at home to check if we were compactable.

Anonymous said...

I had an ex who I was supposed to marry in a few months time then.We had an argument, then we did not talk to each other for sometime.Only for us to get back and the guy said his PROPHETS were praying for him on who to chose to marry.He said anyone they pick would be the one.We actually quarreled because he was sleeping around forming Spirikoko on top.I remember visiting the parents few months before that incidence and the mum took us both to one "PROPHETESS" like that who we didn't meet at home to check if we were compactable.

Anonymous said...

Edo chick,is the guy's name ediri?

Anonymous said...

@zee Pour quoi vous etes peine?

perfect God said...

He doesn't have any excuse

Anonymous said...

Lol...its only a matter of time that the man in the house will marry the maid with the wife's consent just to make the goodluck permanent in their home...Good raddianxe to bad rubbish

Anonymous said...

Am wondering why nobody is talking about the married women that may have charmed their husband's directly or indirectly...just take note of the poster's advise RESTITUTE..
Go untie another person's husband.

Elizabeth said...

Lol@ legacy lives on.

Elizabeth said...

Amen

Ruthie said...

Before I got married to my husband a pastor came and prayed for us,calles my husband and told him that I am good woman with a clean heart oh but ......,if stil finds someone he can better for him.My husband told him that he can't he has chosen me and whatever problem we encounter in life let's God see us through, after our wedding I stopped my husband from paying tithe to him after all we don't attend his church.My husband has a disability,i stood by him encouraged him,now I here in the UK just finished paying for his master's programme.Tell me if I no be good luck.All this pastors only see the things that will favour them.

Anonymous said...

Some guys have bad luck too talking from experience. Met this ugly soul things just went bad for me.. Was so broke couldn't even afford to eat three square meals. It was like the prayers were not working at all.. It was his friend that advised me that the guy was cursed or something. I ran faster that bolt and u thank God for my life... God I thank you!!! You are Great!!

Anonymous said...

The same problem with me. One of my ex ran without looking back saying am carrying bad luck, that ever since he slept with me it has been one problem to another. He even suggest I give him a break which I did and he actually bounce back. Now am married, still this same problem, sometimes I feel like committing suicide or even run away. He was doin pretty good when he married me but now we can hardly eat or pay our rent, too bad, really don't know how to help him, I pity him.

Anonymous said...

My crush @blackberry always on point -p

Anonymous said...

My dear. I learnt the hard way.
My legs are firmly closed.
Thank God for second chances.

Anonymous said...

Stella this post was really helpful. A similar situation is what happened to me.after courting with my man for 2yrs, his family suddenly seek spiritual guidance and say we are not compatible any more.after praying to God and questioning why, I realised it's a way of God taking me to a higher glory and leaving him to the desperate single women around him who would do everything (fetish) to av him . In all, for all those single, there is no shortcut to happiness. Let God have his way in ur life and relationship,No matter how tedious it may look , God always wins in d end

Anonymous said...

There is this guy iv once dated. But suddenly he came back and was desperate for marriage. I prayed and asked God to reveal y he's so much in a hurry.and I felt in my spirit that he went to check me out with other lady names. And they must av told him I'm d best. Nw I'm running frm him cos I know he's only after d benefit he can get from me. As an individual I know my worth. But I believe God will definitely bless me with a man that will also be a blessing to me and not a one way traffic πŸ˜†

It'sJustMyVantagePointDarling said...

Sylvia dear, whomever embittered you this much did not do good ooo......so much bitterness.

Mz complicated said...

I don't know of luck but I know of divine favour. Having sex is spiritual, it is intimate. I know something about myself I don't need juju man or woman to tell me. If I'm ur friend or just someone close to u, If u make me really happy blessing comes to u but if u make me sad or angry or offend me things would begin to fall apart for the person. My bae knows this and I do so I try not to be angry always. My bae tries to make me happy always. We are very compartable and he is muslim and am a christian. Don't use juju on anyone oo.

Anonymous said...

My ex of 5yrs left me because of this shit. They told him we weren't compatible. Day my star didn't match his own. Gbam! That was how he left. Dude is now married to the one they claimed their star match nd will bring good luck to him. He's been running around making trouble with prophet claiming that d man deceived him.

sisi eko said...

Your closing remark is the real deal. You are a wise and a virtuous wife.

For some women, when told that their "luck" is what will ignite their husband's prosperity, would rather become swollen headed and just sit without making any effort to make the prophesy a reality.

Prophesies will come, no doubt.. but what u do with urs is what makes the difference. Prophesy is a spiritual privilege that should serve as physical guidance. Some will even insist that the prophesy given is a fake if things fail to go as they wish. Meanwhile if u check them well, you'd see that they are the reasons that their prosperity is still hanging with the king of Persia. Some women do not know how to provoke God's blessings upon their husband's work and home in general.

Spiritual laziness vs spiritual intelligence.

Rather than utilize their spiritual authority, some wives will start to hold their husbands to ransom by insisting that they are the ONLY reason God has blessed him. Such women think that when they leave their husband, it is finished for him.

Well, While this may be true, it is also pertinent to note that you can also be the reason a man will fail in his endeavours..even though you've been foretold that you'd bring him success. So u see..

Anyway, Bottom line, God has given women absolute power to determine what becomes of their marriage, both in the physical and the spiritual realm. What are u doing with yours?

Be a discerning wife/partner

OK bye

sisi eko said...

You are right. But u can also meet with a partner that'll derail ur good luck by messing up your life. So even if u are not depending on any partner's glory, it is important that u pray fervently so not to come in contact with one who'd quench ur own. At least so that u can be the one to help shine theirs.

sisi eko said...

Correct. Absolutely

Anonymous said...

@ sisi please how can I provoke Gods blessings upon my husband and family? Thanks in advance

Invincible said...

My dad is on his fourth wife because of this good luck thing. He divorced the first 3. It's just annoying. I pray not to marry a Muslim

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