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Thursday, 29 September 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives..

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MALICIOUS HUSBAND
Hello Stella, 

 I need urgent advice from fellow bvs
Im married to a very loving and responsible man but the problem I have with him is that he keeps malice with me at the slightest. Misunderstanding. I end up apologizing most of the  time even if i am not wrong just for peace to reign, I believe that maturity and a show of love. 

The problem now is i think dh is taking me for granted. If I don't apologize he wont come around knowing my peaceful nature. He knows I cant keep malice for long. I tired of this bullshit.

Please how can I handle this is attitude because i am getting sick of it. Please fellow bvs your advice is needed.

Watch Prayer room!...I got the name right?


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
RELATIONSHIP ISH


Hello Stella,good job you are doing.please hide my email.

I started dating my supposed bf about 3weeks ago.though we met about 2months ago on instamessage (its a social network platform).


A week into the relationship I was already cooking for him.second week into our relationship he told me to pass the night at his place on Sunday ,he said we should go to church together then back to his place.

I got there very early on Sunday and met 2ladies sleeping on his bed while he slept on the floor.he told me that one of them is his friend who has an accommodation issue and the other was her sister and they will be staying for a month pending when she will get a new place .I said no problem,that I will just go home later in the day cos the four of us can't sleep in the same room ,his apartment is a 2room BQ without parlour. 

He said the girls won't be staying there that Sunday I said ok....after church he started disturbing me for sex which I ended up giving and it was unprotected sex cos he said he didn't have condom .

About 2hours later the girls came in and I told him stylishly that shey you said they won't be coming back ,he said does it matter that it seems I'm not comfortable with people around me.I said it wasn't about that but it's not a good idea for me.

He said they will be getting a bed the next day for the other room so I said i was going  to stay over the coming weekend .when i got there this weekend I found out they have moved to the other room and I noticed some food /food stuff in the kitchen.i also noticed they were now 3girls not 2 ,i asked him and he said he told me na, that one of them is her friend and the other is her younger sister and she  came temporarily and he will be leaving the coming week.i just let it go 

When he got back from work he started the sex move again I told  him to get a condom he said he doesn't have again.after much talk I gave in .he asked if I was going to eat and I said i just cant go to the pot to take food I didn't cook or he didn't cook he said do I know how the food came about ,and I saw one of the girls cooking when I got in . He went to the kitchen to get food ,I managed to eat a little.when we were about to sleep he started the sex move again then I told him did U even wash your hand after you got Back and u didn't take your bath.he said he was going to do that around 12midnite when he turns off the gen .he said i complain too much .....

I said shuo,you went to work all day ,you went to buy fuel for gen,you turned on the gen and you want to finger me with it?mbanu then he said he has washed it which I know wasn't true but I had to let it go. I'm very particular about hygiene. Then he started with the touchy touchy attitude I told him I'm not comfortable having unprotected sex that I can't be taking pills .he said he was going to do withdrawal method this time ,I still said no ,that no condom no sex .he got angry and we slept off.when we woke up the next day I still noticed the moody attitude ,I was teasing him ,greeted him good morning ,he answered ,wore his clothes and left for the other room. 

he was there for 1hr30min with them I also noticed it seems he had breakfast there. I was really getting pissed when he came in and asked in a moody way what i would like to eat. I said i was fine.I had my bath and left.when I got home I called him and gave him a piece of my mind .he said i wasn't being considerate ,that he was really in the mood and I spoilt everything .

I also noticed he was still on the site where I met him cos the notification sound kept disturbing me at nite ,he said why won't he be there that he needed to get his mind off stuffs that I really messed him up that night.And I was like wow.I just Had to end the call.stella please your red pen is needed.is this the kind of relationship I should carry on with?did I over react? 


HUH...You actually thought you were in a relationship?That didnt even qualify for a situationship....WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?UNPROTECTED SEX BECOS HE WANTS? Dont you have a mind of your own?
And those Ladies hanging around,dont be surprised that they are all his girlfriends oooooh.

Leave internet dating alone and find your own mindset before you come and go and get yourself messed up!



220 comments:

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stunning slim shady said...

Hmmmmmm

Anonymous said...

Poster 1.always apologize for peace to reign. He is the man and d husband u remember? U are even lucky he always accept your apology.

Rhoda Rex said...

Hmmmmmnn

Rhoda Rex said...

Hmmmmmnn

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
The earlier you learn how to ignore him,the better for you...


Poster 2,
Hahahahahah...
Which kain broke ass story is this?...poster,are you ugly,short and FAT to be taking this shit from a broke ass?..,
Imagine a church rat and a dirty boy having unprotected sex with you in a one room apartment...
Oh chimoo!...
This guy is bad news mehn...you better leave him...

Doppelgรคnger said...

Poster 2 you're a dumbo.
Better go and run tests. What a mess! I don't even know where to start.
Following local man and letting a man mess you up.
Read all you wrote and tell me if it shows you have any sense at all.
Such a waste of labour pain.
Not like anything I say will make you stop having unprotected sex.
Filthy thing.

Poster 1 you married him and know all this I'm sure before you settled.
You have to continue or do you want a divorce? Not everyone is quick to apologise and since you also want him to take responsibility for his actions sometimes then learn to carry face too its not that hard and you'd see him change with time.
You won't die if you ignore him till he comes around too.

Loveme Jeje said...

hahahaha Stella it is war room and not prayer room.

Poster 1.... chai your horseband is a baby. kai i cant deal. Since you started it by apologising first, try and end it. Na you start, so find a way to end it.

Poster 2... chai wetin i just read now, you really need better slaps and konk on that your coconut head. Imagine the nonsense you just bring out here. So you want me to advice you. You are a foolish girl oooo. See the yeye boy you dey follow. Let me tell you, those girls came the same way he got you. Am sure na from Badoo the guy get you self. Kai.... i need to see your mother.

Mama Afrika said...

P2 You are 'particular' about your hygiene but you had unprotected sex. Please which is dirtier between engine oil hand and hiv infected preeq? Please borrow sense and leave that relationship.

Only 3weeks and you already open your legs yakata!! Shame on you. No be say the man get money seff. I vex for your matter. hissss

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Poster 2

You are a cheap, dumb and daft prostitute.

You even agreed to dte a broke as guy living in 2 rooms no parlor, no kitchen or toilet

You are a disgrace. Go and treat yourself if Gonorrhea and syphilis before you finally die of HIV.

Na wa o. Where did you guys bury your self esteem??

Poster 1

Your life is encircled around your Husband. Just like women on the spontaneous post. Drop kids, sleep and wake by 4pm.

Get a life! Keep yourself busy, snub him By always singing worship. Cook his meal and serve at the right time.

Na who go tire? If u tire, go for a 2day visit to your family house

Blackberry said...

Poster two, are u naive? U are his fuckmate, he will fuck u like minister of women affairs that he is n clean mouth. He met u on SM, he'll definitely remain there n toast more babes, he won't close his account cos he met u, lai lai!

La'creamie said...

P2 so dumb girls still exist on SDK, after all the warnings and red signs we usually treat here.NNE u are so cheap even condom is expensive more than u tueh!!!...

nicky onikan said...

Poster 2- all I saw in your chronicle was you giving him unprotected sex upandan. BeTter go and do a pregnancy test. After that delete that mofos number and move on with your life.

Poster1 - you married a baby. Pray for maturity in his life

PLATINUM said...

Poster two im marveled at the extent of ur idiosyncracy, really? Infact go n get ursef tested before ibu ru oria. And u knw wat? Leave that relationship fast!!
Poster one, there are some men like that who can keep malice until tge wives apologise. All u hv to do is tlk to him abt it,tell him how u dnt like that attitude n if he is someone that considers ur feelings he will change.

salt E said...

Poster 1: I'm begging u join him in the malice keeping.What rots? What is wrong with some men and some of us women? My darling he knows ur weak point stop apologising,u didn't come into marriage to be treated like shit.If he thinks ur apology is respect then u too deserve some respect.

Poster 2: better borrow urself brain and stay on ur own.Soon, ud hear 1 is his babe, he is sleeping with 1 and begging the other one for sex and u all will not know, be wise relationship is not by force I u aren't happy.

Anonymous said...

Poster one is the definition of a "worked up" lady. Work on your character and stop living in a charged room you call marriage. There is no spouse without a fault. If what you described is the only fault he has, then there is no issue, just a mild challenge that you will overcome with perseverance.

Poster 2 is the definition of "a typical foolish Nigerian girl". Why live with a man and open vagina for him when he has not paid your bride price? Fooooooooooooooooooooooooooolish!

Now, who is writing chronicles?
Who is worked up?
Who is the whore?
Who gets std and pregnancy?
Who is being blamed for "messing up the night" and will be dumped like thrash
Who is going to get depressed and suicidal?
The man is just browsing three girls under his small roof and feeling cool.

What a messed up feminine brains you girls have.

Sewa Joseph said...

poster 2

You loose child, unprotected sex in 3 weeks of dating, do you know the disease this guy might have, you are not even afraid of your health. once you get hiv there is no going back you fool, you shld delete this guy from your life and pray to God for a better boo!

Atheist. said...

Poster1: show him two can play that game!
Ignore him also.... Till u both mouth starts stinking, he'd realize that ur system is now immune to his malice drug, he'd think of sumthg else.

Poster2: Mtcheeeeeewwww

young FOREVER said...

What did I just read. Are u this daft??? How old are you?? Do you have a low self esteem?????? Answer these qstns deep within you pls. Pls borrow some sense and stay clear of that guy before it gets too late... How long will you keep taking pills.?? Soo many qstns going thru my mind.

chi said...

After three weeks? I never thought I'd say this but pls Jesus fix it.

Anonymous said...

P2 it's not all that bad nau. Don't worry, soon he'll be using aboniki balm hand to massage your vagina. Soon he will even pour fuel in your vagina and start the generator from there. See talk oo.

Becky Divine said...

1) Marriage is Patience na
Keep enduring my dear, E go better!

Borrow your self strong heart and STOP apologizing already! Na him go tire for this round inugo. Don't be a fool, your hubby is just using your brain to boost his dead ego msheww


2) NNE did you say you like your hygiene??? Ikwakwakwakwakwa
Lemme just laugh at you first

NNE I by nno ezi ofia! Gutter pig that's what you are and you know nothing about hygiene! Cos if you did, you wouldn't have had sex with a total stranger you met online just few months ago unprotected! Not once but Twice!!

And come on here to preach Hygiene for us? You ain't serious lmaooo. You ain't in a relationship alright? Consider yourself used and dumped!

Borrow yourself some self esteem and leave that fucker alone! In few months time, go check yourself for HIV and Co.. Be sure to take something to flush out that sperm swimming inside you now. Ciao ๐Ÿ‘‹

Anonymous said...

Poster 2.go and test yourself for HIV. He hates using condoms that's how he has been sleeping around with other girls.

White Diamond said...

Poster one:
If you've tried everything from talking to him and pleading with him that his behaviour upsets you, try showing him how it feels to be ignored. Give him everything he wants. Talk to him when necessary, and leave him alone. If he's reasonable, he'll realize that what he does is really hurtful. I seriously don't get people that do that in relationships. Na you cause am sef. Apologising when he wrongs you, maka gini?

Poster two: Take this * deafening e-slap*
Three weeks and you've experienced all of these? Sorry to say but you don't love yourself at all, not to talk about being capable of loving someone else. Two weeks into being with someone you know little to nothing about, you opened your legs without shame, and even let him put himself into you without protection. Then you let him finger you ; and with a dirty finger. You already started cooking for him, plus the girls brouhaha.
You need help ASAP.
Mtchewww!

#WhiteDiamondOut

ZIONA said...

Poster 2,y are you gambling with ur life like this with a player, that guy just hooked up with you for sex, stop deceiving urself that you are in a relationship, u sound very young and like a student, build your self esteem abeg
Poster 1,better begin to develop mind u need to teach ur husband a lesson, better give him a dose of his medicine while at it make sure you go out a lot and talk on the phone when he is home and laugh a lot, look hawt oo, when he sees u no send his tantrums again his brain will begin to reset, I can't stand malicious men,a great turn off

Staphylococcus Aureus said...

Poster 2 : you are just a razz girl forming miss hygienic. I'm sure this boy also fucks you for free.
Please go for HIV test because that boy is fucking all the ladies in his small house RAW.
Where do you girls meet all these guys?

chi said...

Poster 1: two mad people can't stay together. One person has to stay sane for the good of the both of you. Remain peaceful, that's a very good trait you have there. Just go about it with wisdom.
Poster 2: may Jesus fix you.

Jennifer Lawrence said...

@Poster 2;foolish girl smh

Ann Okere said...

Madam particular about hygiene, are u sure u are very particular about hygiene? U are particular about hygiene, and u let him have u without condom
I raise rihanna yansh 4 u.

iambae007 said...

Poster 1: You should stop apologising. Summon the courage to hold grudges for a while and see if he won't come begging.

Poster 2: You are not in a relationship but a 'shiptionlare'. Borrow sense and walk away.
You have been warned!

Precious said...

Thank u aunty stella,u hve just told poster 2 wats on my mind.ur rltnship wont last 6mnths.plz dont allow any guy to use ur head

Robyna Fenty said...

Poster 1: It's time you grow a spine. It's either you learn how to keep malice with him back so he'll realize that you are no longer a push over or you accept your role as the peace maker. Choose 1.
Poster 2: That boy isn't your bf sorry. You are just his fuck buddy for now. You were already cooking in the first week? Isn't that the period he shld have been wining and dining you? You went to his house and saw your "co-girlfriends"(They arent related so chances are he is fucking one of them) and you still slept with him? Unprotected sex for that matter. Ok you took a pill to prevent pregnancy. You know what's worse than pregnancy? HIV, herpes, genital warts to name a few. Forget about that "relationship". That's if he actually asked you out cos you could be in denial. Go to a hospital and test yourself for all common stds then go to church and thank God for sparing your life. Why won't he still be on the site you met him? Its obvious that he is getting steady pussy from there. I have a feeling he met those his "room mates" there too.

Nwa Nlecha said...

Poster 1
It will be hard for you to keep malice if it's not in your nature but he needs to respect you. What do you like doing that doesn't include him, like movies, games, cooking, chatting etc..... pls, indulge in it, get busy, don't even look at his face, just cook and keep for him. If he brings up gist, reluctantly drop few words while you continue to do what you are doing. Why would a man be keeping malice sef?


Poster 2
Sorry!

Stella Internet dating isn't the problem here. SnM is Internet dating and you encourage it. The point is knowing the limit, even if she met the guy in the church, it won't change the story. Two people are strangers until they start dating, irrespective of how or where they meet.

redbotafly said...

Ds girl dumb fa.unprotected sex in ds generation?
U r nt in a relationship.
U dnt ve confidence in urself.
Dt boi is a pig.
Wen u learn to luv urself,u wil be a beta person.
U deserve beta.dumb him ASAP.

Mama Afrika said...

P1 dont open your home to the devil, DO NOT join him in the malice keeping especially if he hasnt wronged you seriously. Two wrongs dont make a right so just keep 'babying' him abeg.

Dicey Dee said...

Everything I typed just vanished. My badass advice. I can't fit type again.

Ify Lawrence said...

@Poster 2...Please respect yourself na. I even feel embarrassed for you.Receive sense!

@Poster 1...I have come across a few people with such behavior. I had to learn to beat them at their own game. My ST treatment is on point! And stop apologizing when you are not at fault, you can let it slide/or play the silent treatment game, but just stop apologizing!

Ol's Network said...

working in the village with no better internet na die oh... glad to be back on my favouritest blog....... hello Stella, how markate... I don't know much, but @poster 1, maybe you give him too much attention and let him know that the malice gets to you...

@poster 2... I just kent

Madam Small Chops said...

Poster 1:

The Obi Akpor in me will say give him a little dose of his pill by ignoring him sometimes but he is your hubby na.keep showing him the Light with scriptural guidance one day he will see.

Poster 2: Ermmmmmmmmm........I have forgotten what i wanted to tell you.

This guy doesnt sound serious at allllllllll, Looks like someone that needs a newbie to satisfy his s.....l urge.I might be wrong though but lets say am not wrong Run fast.

If he is the type that doesnt have shame he might be planning to or already running shows with his sisters friend.He is not even getting to know you better,na lamber dey em head.

pink lady said...

@poster 1
Didnt you date him enough to know his character before getting married to him?
It seems you married a childish man or he is simply tired of you but doesnt know how to tell you.
Check yourself very well,if you know that you are clean,whenever he starts his malice,start yours...if you can!

@Poster 2
You sound naive and stupid at thesame time.pls,work on yourself...you need to have a mind of your own.I pity your pussy because due to your foolishness,a dirty idiot is busy harvesting its goodies!
I wont ask you to leave or stay because at the end of the day,na dirty prick u go still choose!

Anonymous said...

Blunt but true!

Ann Okere said...

Lmao, una no go kill person 4 here, funny people many 4 sdk... biko where is james?

Atheist. said...

Poster2: You're worried about a condom, you should be more worried about a lubricant for ur brain......

Anonymous said...

Poster one:
Aunty stella meant to say war room. The idea is to pray about it, don't repay eveil for evil, be kind to ur husband, fulfil ur marital duties but don't u dare apologize for something u didn't do. Uve spoiled him. When u strt treating a man a certain way u must make sure u can go on like that cos sooner or later, he'll get used to it and when u begin to complain wahala go dey! Too bad he's selfish like that but we're all flawed so don't crucify him but do the right thing and leave the rest to God.
Poster two:
How old are you? Have u become so desperate that u'll please a man against ur wish just so he stays? Ur not in a rship madam, that guy is just knacking u and when he's had enough that supposed friend of his will become someone else. The guy doesn't even seem lyk he's organized at all. Ur pay attention to hygiene and u can afford to sleep with such a person??? Check urself again. Please my dear leave that guy asap! U don't complain too much, he's just using that to make u feel guilty so u'll come bk apologising and let him do as he pleases without asking questions. U nred to hv a Mind of ur own. If u can take that kind of risk with him just to keep him, what has he done to make u stay??? Its a two-way street damn it! Stop letting these men turn u into something else just because u want a rship. Who bad rship epp? Nothing is worth it if you're not happy! That's my two cents

redbotafly said...

Poster 1 stop apologisin to him everytime.dts y he takes u for granted.give him a taste of his own medicine.
Just as hes d man of d house u r d woman of d house.

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

poster 2 come here, lie on the floor, *raises skirts up and flogs her butts* you are a very stupid girl. are you an ashawo ni? dont you have a mind of your own? that boy is bad news forget him, he is poor, am sure very ugly and rude too. what are you doing with him sef? how do you fuck a person you just met two weeks ago? damn i just cant deal. stupid girl better go and do a Hiv test asap.





*hangs leg on the cupboard*

XOXO MYSTERY said...

Poster two...I stopped at 'I am particular about hygiene' yet you had sex with him unprotected. I bet you felt since he is a struggling young man, he is free of diseases. Most of you believe it is only older men that are full of diseases. I hope he has not passed something to you.

Sometimes, it is hard for us to read a situation but shake yourself up and move on. You have a good story ahead of you. Shitty situation should not define who you are.

KING XOXO MYSTERY

Mrs. Romas said...

Poster, stop apologising to him but don't keep malice with him. Only talk to him when is necessary and leave him be when there is nothing to talk about.
I dislike people who keep malice most especially men. How can a man be keeping malice? Men i know usually easily talk it out.

Anyways, i wish you luck in trying to make him understand that his keeping malice habit is drifting both of you apart. And don't stop praying for him, because the devil is busy 24 hours of the day seeking for homes to enter/devour.


Poster 2, some of you girls are so desperate! You met someone on a dating site, and you started playing the role of a wife immediately, what is it with you? You went to cook for him, and started having sexual intercourse with him, even without protection.
You don't even value your life, cos if you did, you would have considered you health first before sexing someone without protection.

You met girls on his bed, and still thinks there is a way there. What do you young ladies listen to in the Churches you attend? You went to hear the word of God that is totally against fornication, and few hours later you fornicated with all pleasure. #Stinkingthings

Please, go and examine yourself, what do you really want for yourself and stop being cheap and desperate.

redbotafly said...

Poster 1 stop apologisin to him everytime.dts y he takes u for granted.give him a taste of his own medicine.
Just as hes d man of d house u r d woman of d house.

starshine said...

Poster 2u no try at all how u do dey do without condom na? A guy u just met far. Babe u don fall my hand highly disappointed

Chioma Azubuike said...

Poster 2 I don't know why but reading your story got me pissed. Mtcheew.

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Poster 2,your stupidity is amazing! What is wrong with you? Have you no brain? See how you're even saying it,he started disturbing you for sex.Have you no self esteem? You started cooking just a week into the relationship,condoned him housing girls with the excuse of them being his "friends" wtf?

My dear,leave that good for nothing idiot you call your bf.He has no regard for you whatsoever.You also need to work on your self esteem.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 - All I can say is "They walk among us..." First time I am commenting on SDK blog and it's because yours beats all the chronicles I have ever read on this blog hands down. Please ask God to renew you and give you wisdom.

Moms please let's do our possible best to ensure our daughters have high self esteem.

Anonymous said...

For how long will she continue 'babying' him? Or can't you see her hubby is simply manipulative?

Poster one,stop falling mugu for him. Give him a taste of his own medicine


Anonymous said...

Poster two....i just pity you

The best amongst the cuties said...

Poster two; Allah, you be BIG mumu! Tueh! Oshofree.

cathy said...

What sort of rubbish relationship is that? Poster 2 people just take trash all in the name of being in a relationship haba mana now.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 - All I can say is "They walk among us..." First time I am commenting on SDK blog and it's because yours beats all the chronicles I have ever read on this blog hands down. Please ask God to renew you and give you wisdom.

Moms please let's do our possible best to ensure our daughters have high self esteem.

Empressitta said...

Poster 1; I dunno if you should continue apologising or not sha but I would say, u toughen up a Lil. By the time he sees u ain't budging, he ll he surprised at least Nd stop keeping malice. Eve if he is a baby sef, who still keeps malice like that .

Poster 2; biko am begging u, just leave that sorry ass boy that is good for Nothing. He is definitely upto no good. Just leave him, u Don't need such baggages in your life nne. You'll definitely meet someone better

My two cents

lady Akhiem said...

Poster 1: I know how you feel, you don't need to say sorry all the time. Babe change your style. Sometimes make him laugh, kiss him unexpectedly, jump on his head and push him around. That's how i always get him to talk. Plssss dont get angry, just stay in the love and tolerance zone.

Poster 2: You fall hand oooo. I hope you are reading all this. Please listen to all the advice you have received. Get out of that relationship and go for HIV test and other test that will certify you healthy. Plsssss stay away from that guy and be decent.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 do u really love yourself? Hw cn u start sleeping wit someone u barely know?someone u met on d internet?do u knw dos girl he kept in d other room are girls he met on d site jst like u?pls give urself some selfworth na!u sound and act desperate!hw can u allow someone u barely know to sleep wit u witout condom?and even allow him to finger u wit his dirty generator oil stained hands?madam it seems u dnt hv sense!u had beta go borrow some brain!abi na by force to get boo?pls give urself some selfrespect!pray and let God direct Ur Own Boo to U! Am out!

The best amongst the cuties said...

Lol๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜@ I need to see ur mother.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 do u really love yourself? Hw cn u start sleeping wit someone u barely know?someone u met on d internet?do u knw dos girl he kept in d other room are girls he met on d site jst like u?pls give urself some selfworth na!u sound and act desperate!hw can u allow someone u barely know to sleep wit u witout condom?and even allow him to finger u wit his dirty generator oil stained hands?madam it seems u dnt hv sense!u had beta go borrow some brain!abi na by force to get boo?pls give urself some selfrespect!pray and let God direct Ur Own Boo to U! Am out!

Fancyface said...

SDK BVs U guys are da best๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜!! All wetin person wan tell dat dumb poster2 una don talk am. Let me go with White Diamond, Poster 2 receive a *HOT deafening e-slap*

Cheks said...

She is not even afraid of HIV or any disease. Nawaa for u @poster 2. Pls go & run a test ooo.

Anonymous said...

1. Pray for your husband.
2. Leave that man alone. Please learn to spot rubbish from a mile away and run like a deer. It is better to be single than let a man use you, put you in danger and treat you like an idiot. Don't you deserve better? Delete that twat from your life and learn your lesson. Also go for tests and treatment where necessary and start afresh by closing your legs firmly. Start a new life in Christ and pray to God for a 'correct' husband.

Cheks said...

Nnem biko help me ask poster 2 oo. Ike gwuru m 4 ha mata joor.

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Poster 2 did I hear you say peculiar about hygiene? Yet he slept with u without Condom? Clap for ur self. Wat Dai he'll? Someone u just meet on social media? Hian

Anonymous said...

Hmmm poster I feel you. My husband is like that too. The bad part is that we don't live together. He comes home once in 3months but can kip malice for as long as possible. Im just tired. God help us my sister

Scarlett said...

Poster is so dumb... lmao

if i advice you, i will insult you. so let me seal my lips.

Robyna Fenty said...

Lmaoooooo. So she is lucky he accepts her apology even when he is wrong? A man my foot. What kind of man keeps malice and with your wife for that matter? You must be a man and if you are a woman pls dont raise your son to be like this man. For the sake of other people's daughters.

Adadioramma said...

Stella Stella, it is called WAR ROM not prayer Room, hahahaha.
Poster 1, look for a big stone and block your heart, men are always like that.
Poster 2, Ndo. Desperado.

Virtuous woman said...

Poster 2. I really don't like to insult people on this blog but you are as stupid as they come. You don't have any iota of common sense or self respect. How can a man be disrespecting you so blatantly and you are here asking rubbish question. Give yourself some brain and tell the guy off. And how can you meet a guy in three weeks and start sleeping with him, without condom for that matter? Your own stupidity came with a doctorate degree. You have self esteem issues and you should work on it,close your legs and learn to say No. And go and do tests for all stds. You don't know what that idiot player would have infected you with. You are gullible sha. Common sense is not really common.

Mini Me said...

Poster 2 as I was reading this rubbish you wrote ehn, the insults were building up in my head!!! What is wrong with you???? In this day and age??? This era of spiritual, physical and supernatural wickedness, you slept with a man RAW!!! Haba! Are you stupid??? And see the foolish reasons you were giving ??? Chai! Jesu!!! You have issues o! Tueh!!! What is this abeg!
Look! You don't have a boyfriend o! That's a fuck buddy...wake up!

Zitel Coconut oil Onitsha 08081725441 said...

End time advice.

Edo finest said...

Poster 2,you are a very foolish girl,i feel like giving you hot slap to reset your brain.You better go check yourself for std and face your life.

Mao Akuh said...

1...Always keep away from things that do result in malice and pray for him. SOme men are like that. Their ego is on another level... Always forming hard guy.
May be you can pretend to be seriously sick and see him act one day... #joke

2. My dear stop going to his place. Stop having unprotected sex. That guy is not serious. Don't be surprise those girls are feeding him and at a time only one will be left and the real him will surface. Give yourself a little COMMON SENSE.

mz_tobbie said...

What????

Anonymous said...

Who is this crazy person giving such an advice? Are you a man or a woman?

Pamela said...

Poster 2,its like you don't like yourself! See the crap you wrote up there, don't worry, by the time these BVs finish with you today, if you see that fuckboy on fire,you won't spit on him to save him...I won't insult you o! Nooo! My BVs here finish you and help reset your brain...IDIOT...

Stella pls stop posting some kine of stories abeg...it's like permitting stupidity

Spirit said...

Poster 2 ... that is not a relationship. My dear is seem you are still so young and naive.
Lister to me clearly... A MAN MUST WINE AND DINE YOU. He must treat you like a princess the way you deserve to be treated.

But first of all, you must love yourself inorder to be loved in this way. Delete your account from that online website and start loving and adoring yourself.
And if he must fuck you on the first date, make sure it is because YOU wanted it and YOU had multiple orgasm.

MzAnon said...

Poster 1 you married a man you love more that's why you are always begging. Ladies, that man that everytime you see him you heart flutters, all the butterflies and worms in your tummy start to dance know that that's not your husband o. It's not true love it's your sense that is flying out of your body. Marry a man you LIKE and respect, he'll love you till eternity and will do anything for you
Poster 2 receive hot slap and sense! You stupid gan. Unprotected sex in this day and age? Oponu. You weren't in a relationship you were chop and clean mouth

Ralu M said...

Poster 2- Babe you are the biggest mugu that ever liveth. Unprotected sex with a guy you met barely a week ago on social media? Spending the night at his place and cooking for him? I don't have the strength to type an epistle for you. Give yourself some respect and dignity, stop giving up the coochie like free akara and don't be quick to spend the night like this (na girls like that all these yahoo boys they use for rituals)
Poster 1. You see this thing you told us? Go and tell it to your husband and see if it resets his attitude.

Mab said...

Wtf are youbon about...

JOYOUS said...

poster 2:
for the love of ur life, why will u let someone u don't know his medical background have sex with you without condom..its totally wrong!

you didn't over react, you have to end that relationship cause that guy is a player, he doesn't love you one bit and if you dont have enough sense to leave him try and be close to those girls and find out who they really are.

NEVER sleep with him again (dats if you dont have sense to end the relationship) and see his action...if he dumps you then you will know that you are just his sex machine and come to think of it just because u refused giving him sex the third time IN THREE WEEKS that's why his finding solace in the hands of his female friends? common girl open your eyes this dude is not real!
MAY YOU RECEIVE SENSE IJN.

Nicole said...

Lmao! I was actually looking forward to your comments on poster 2.

Virtuous woman said...

Poster 1. As you lay your bed so u shall lay on it. Am sure he was this way b4 you married but you were trying hard to please so you can become a Mrs. Anyway what do u want us to do na, since you say he is a loving and caring malice keeper, you are already supporting him nau. When you settle for less, you will eventually get less than you settle for. It's almost impossible for a man to respect lily livered women, even if they love them. Your malice keeping dh will never stop until you put your foot down and give him what he deserves. Pay him back in his own coin, that is the only language these abusers understand. And yes, he is an abuser. BTW, where una they see all these yeye men marry sef. Man that keeps malice, nothing we will not hear on this blog.

Anonymous said...

Idiota/Alaye blood. U don't have a boo sofri with all the bashing on the girl

oyibo wu agbara said...

N2- ibagokwa one chance season 1, just negodu how u gave ur self out (foc) free of charge to a certified ezi bida (dirty pig) hygiene minister oshi mtscheew

Anonymous said...

That poster 2 matter is just pathetic! !howold is she ? I beg go buy sense from effurun market next market day!!! Sex without condom with 3 weeks boyfriend!! I dey shame for you!
Nmaureen

InChristAlone said...

poster2... Are u serious??? What is wrong with u? just negodu.
Postet1... Discuss it with him. Ask him to grow up!

Spicy April said...

Sweet Sally!!!!!!!! You too much. Poster2, is this what you call a relationship? You are particular about hygiene and you are having unprotected sex and sleeping over?????? Pz dear rethink and wait for God's time to give u your own.

Asa nwa said...

Poster2. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ฆ๐Ÿ˜ฆ๐Ÿ˜ฆ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ™Œ I raise hand for you darling.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 are you alright??! You are having unorotected casual sex?!? What is wrong with you? I am sorry but you come off quite desperate please find yourself ehn cos you are lost.
Poster 1 my husband does or should i say did the same annoying thing is all through when we dated this atitude never showed up o. Got tired of d ish and just ignored him whenever the spirit came upon him. No malice back i just do me . He later realised dt mumu ship has long sailed . If there are issues he opens his mouth to talk

DonMayor said...

Poster two. Abeg forget that guy. How could subject yourself to all the rubbish up there.

chiamaka said...

Poster2:are you for real? He succeeded in using your head. Pls go to the hospital for proper check up to be sure your fine also you were never in a relationship dear...

DonMayor said...

Poster two. Pay your husband back with his own coins. Simple.

SilknSteel said...

Who is that daft poster 2 eh? i though a jss3 girl was asking me kweshon about men when she is not matured enough. Warrahell berra get a life!

Ade said...

Dear ladies stop selling yourself cheap! Say no to premarital sex. Until a man finds himself he will ruin and play with everything that comes his way.

Anonymous said...

@Poster 1: Some people really don't know how to express their grievances when wronged; they'll just bottled it in for a while. That's why we cannot all reason or act same way. You may apologise whenever you are wrong; otherwise just ignore him too. However, do not be found wanting in your duties towards him...he'll come around.

@Poster 2: Your case is serious. You turned yourself into a tool in the hands of a terrible creature to use as he pleases. The solution to your matter lies in your hands

...SlimSLK

Sylviaasss said...

Poster 2 I wish you loved yourself enough to know that you deserve better.
3 weeks is too small for you to open your legs for a stranger because he is still a stranger to you
Calm down madam people do a whole lot more than sex in relationships.looks like you don't even have a standard else you won't be in this mess

gloriah 24 said...

Poster 2. U be correct mumu.

Anonymous said...

Ziona, i saw ur post on that 80yr old looking kid.
You tagged him a gift from God, abeg if that na gift from God, i dash you, i no want.

Maryjason said...

You got me smiling hard.

jumiakindipe said...

Poster 1 i pray you read this. My husband is the same before. My mum advised me to do him shakara. Na so he vex me one day. I carry my body go sleep anoda room. He noticed say i don step up. Next day. He was forming chatting with me. I just ignored him. Later he said he wants to talk. Na so we settle the ish. You need to let him annoy you well. Then ignore him big time. Sleep in seperate room and do your thing. Later na him go beg. This rule cant work for everyone though. Be wise about it. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

Lmao @ raising Rihanna yansh for her

Cherry Wine said...

Poster 2, you see that instamessanger y'all got to know each other from? He will bring another girl from there and tell you that's where he met you too... Receive sense, the giver

Kiks said...

Poster 1: A guy said to tell you to continue that way that he was exactly like your husband but that you shouldn't show weakness. You should always tell him how you feel even after apologizing for peace to reign. He said he (your husband) will eventually come around like he has.


Poster 2: I pray the insults you will get here will reset your brain cos you will surely receive a trailer load.

blessing bernard said...

I wonder y some women are so quick opening their legs, don't you have self respect, d idiot is sleeping wit you as if he is ur husband. Pls dear pray to God for forgiveness, go for test and quit dat dumb relationship. Pray for a responsible man and not a dog like him

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 wise up u don't need anybody to advise you, its obvious dat he doesn't love u. So do not weave away warning signal

Maria K said...

Na real waste of labour pain.. May my daughter not be stupid as poster 2. Very annoying chronicle

Jenny zee said...

Am 100% sure the guy sleeps with other girls he meets on the sight without condoned u foolishly slept with him claiming u have good hygiene

Lady C said...

Poster1:your man aren't mature at all,he his still a baby cant deal abeg.
Poster2:like for real u met a guy on sm , u started dating him abt three wks ago nd he his already sleeping with u,he also had three ladies living with him nd u believe dat thrash dat those ladies are his frnds then u need serious help.

Anonymous said...

Poster two, always insist on a condom..last week i slept with a 50years old man out of pity..Now hes ignoring me but luckily i used a condom.let me face my abusive boyfriend jeje๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘

joy ihediwa said...

poster 2 just like linda eze said,nne are you deformed?or u do have a brain defect,how can a poor broke guy living in almost penury be using you like this and you are comfortable,someone that is even housing his fuckmates in the same room wt u,as an ashawa that u are now,you let him drill you wt his syphilis infected prick,God knows the one he has passed to you,that you will now share to anoda person..akwuna!eme cha mmadu will gv u head kwa chai

Wumipwesh said...

Mtchww. She's lucky he's accepting her apology. What kind of egoistic husband is that? Madam pls,sit and have a talk with ur husband. Let him know how he's behaving

Anonymous said...

Stopeeeeeeet!!! Poster pls stop apologizing, if he bones you, you double bone him or u tell him how much u hate it. Dats how I keep malice with my hubby and he ll be so restless and begging all d time, these days he has hardened up and I ve loosened up.

Anonymous said...

U must be a she goat. Just see your mouth'you are lucky he even accepts your apology' so the husband is a lord? If he does so what will Jesus do??? Please Shut up and go and worship ur mini god. Anuofia

Godhelpus (Affordable Caterers And Bakers) said...

Poster 1, Please when next he is at fault nicely blank him out. Talk to him like regular but don't apologize or beg him. You will see that he too will feel silly and adjust when he knows you have moved forward without begging him. Some men are babies...lol...
Poster 2....hmmmmmm...just hmmmmmmmm.... I don't believe what I read... You did what without protection? Hmmmmmmmmm.... God will help you.

Jenny zee said...

Lmao the way u called d fool made me lol

joy ihediwa said...

poster 2 just like linda eze said,nne are you deformed?or u do have a brain defect,how can a poor broke guy living in almost penury be using you like this and you are comfortable,someone that is even housing his fuckmates in the same room wt u,as an ashawa that u are now,you let him drill you wt his syphilis infected prick,God knows the one he has passed to you,that you will now share to anoda person..akwuna!eme cha mmadu will gv u head kwa chai

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 STOP APOLOGISING
STOP APOLOGISING
STOP APOLOGISING

He does not value you
Face your front. God did not create you to be trampled on by a man

Who is he? Is he your creator?

When he is angry ๐Ÿ˜ก, leave him alone and focus on something else.

For how long will you be a mumu

Anonymous said...

You are what is wrong with the world.

LEONA said...

LMAO @ such a waste of labour pain. Hahahahaha

Anonymous said...

Ode ni e. That's why there are so many emotionally abused women in Nigeria

Anonymous said...

Chop knuckle

dt chic said...

Huh. Say what??? "U are even lucky he always accepts your apology self esteem is -0.00000000000001. Build it up sweetie

Anonymous said...

stella tz ''WAR ROOM"

Anonymous said...

poster 1, you married a man who thinks you are a mumu.
poster 2, your level of mumu no get equal. na mama born u so? Chai.

Shennel Hyacinth said...


Poster 2 ,now you listen to me . Go run some tests to see if you are okay , take good care of yourself lady ( what happened to self-love? ) ๐Ÿ˜ฉ
Dust yourself up, look into the mirrow and say to yourself " I should be a priority, not an option or a back up plan ". Go ahead and block that fuckboy's phone number, he is as good as dead.
If you ever need a fuckboy repellant ,send me a mail. Don't let your emotions run your life, be in control.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2
Desperate she goat
๐Ÿ mmeeeeeeeee
Didn't your mama bring you up more than that
The guy don use you clean nyash

You are d side side side side chick.

Stay there, aids is real. He'll dump you like you're trash

1nigeriangirl said...

How can you fall in love with an instamessage guy. Instamessage guys are there for hookups. Don't take them seriously.

Now leemme scroll up n complete the story



What did i just read? Are you a gwegz? Are you fat? Are u ugly? Why don't you know your self worth. You're a cheap hoe, that's all. Too desperate eishh

DOMINA said...

Hahahahah

Anonymous said...

Most of you coming to form saints here are worst and have done worst than poster2.So pls zip it.If you want to advise her,do so and get out.Stop calling her this and that.

CherryCee said...

Poster 2 you fall my hand o.
You are very particular about hygiene, yet you had unprotected sex with someone you barely know. 2weeks into the relationship- not like it's a relationship anyway, he asked you to spend the night. You met some girls, he convinced you it was nothing. He started demanding for sex. No condom. You agreed. Mehn, I don't understand o. Did he promise you marriage?? I'm asking because you acting desperate. You should work on yourself. Live yourself and a man who loves you will come to you in no time. Please leave that boy. He is just out to use and dump you.

Poster 1, sometimes, people take advantage of our peaceful nature. You bear it; but it gets to a point you become fed up. Whenever he behaves that way again, leave him be. Go about your activity. Play with the children. Read a novel. Watch a movie. Listen to music. Ignore him completely. Trust me, he will get the message.

Scarlet Gruber said...

poster 2, internet relationship? hmmm, even snm sef fear no gree me try, even though I am in my forties, too many fake guys out there, run for your dear life

LAS GidDY said...

@poster 1...men are egoistic in nature, learn to manage him afterall you saw the sign before you married him. Na your cross, there is little or nothing we could advice here.

@poster 2...honestly, i have come to an unbelievable conclusion that girls of this our generation are daft and hyper-senseless. How could you not have used your sense from day 1 and shut this boy out? A jobless, homeless broke-ass boy squatting with girls for that matter. He is squatting with those girls, don't you get it? Use your head.

Isaacson said...

Poster 1:during courtship you should have noticed this his girlish traits and discovered a solution before becoming his wife,as for me no matter what if you are not at fault do not apologise let the malice continue so long he us d one initiating it and ur are nt at fault then so be it,bcos real men don't keep malice at all only bitch ass niggas...trust me if u do not stop it do not be surprised wen he does something stupid like impregnating someone else bd expecting u to apologise also...b wise



Poster foolish 2: First of pls tell us more about the insta message since we are all,using slate and bowl of water to read ur foolish chronicle...my dear u don jam correct fuck boy and something tells me dis is not ur first time at all,d fact he could easily convince you to do all those silly things and u agreed simply tells me u Av no sense at all...learn to be wise ooo if konji hold u too much then masturbate instead of looking for preeq on ur almighty insta message

Jenny zee said...

I de Shame for her

Maureen Ekeh said...

Wow! posted two , posted two how many times did I call you? Pls just read comments.so the awareness wey dey this era na for where you keep am, to even imagine say you like good hygiene abi na eyeginia you want talk,pls never please a man weda e get money dey over pour for ground o abi he broke sef, if the man dey healthy he for fear sef for him life, abi you no reason before you allow am so tey you tire to take pills meaning wetin you want dey submissive .Na your husband? Onye-onyinye, abeg just rearrange yourself wella come give your self better proper check up for hospital then move on with your precious life.

Anonymous said...

War Room

doctor samba said...

Safe sex practice is not bad u know@ poster 2..ur health first next time pls

Olori_1812 said...

Poster2: Receive sense o! two weeks into the relationship and you are already saying spouse upandan,aunty you no even get boyfriend.Plix move on,before he milks you dry..ese.

Dauntless Cersei said...

@ Poster 2, I have never commented on this blog but I just had to get a blog ID for you. Stupid doesn't even start to describe how much of a moron you are.

@ Stella, please I think age and Educational background should be stated once anyone sends in their chronicles because I just don't get what she wrote up there. ONLINE, OSHO FREE FUCKBOY, HAREM KEEPER, then as if that wasn't enough, she allowed him fuck her several times without protection then came inside, poster pls ruuuuuuuuuuun, you are in a SITUATIONSHIP

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Abi oo

Olufemi Atinmo said...

Poster 1. Next time your husband starts his malice. Just say to him calmly that a good marriage is based on communication and compromise. If the is an issue it would be better for us to discuss it like mature adults and resolve it. When he is ready to do that he should let you know.

Then continue to cook his food and do everything you usually do. Greet him as usual. If you speak to him and he doesn't answer, just carry on. After a while, he will realise he is being childish and will change his ways.

Poster 2- firstly go for a full range of std tests. If you come up negative just fall on your knees and thank God. Secondly, give your life to christ

AMMY said...

Poster 1:he is the man,men are like babies. Keep apologising for the sake of peace.
Poster 2: where is your self worth. Ur story is disgusting. How can u allow a jobless, dirty ,poor idiot use you. You are key on hygiene but you allow him. Madam you avent found a man. Better move on before the poor bastard impregnate you or gives u Hiv. I wonder why ladies are now so desperate.

Mrs I said...

@ poster 2 sounds very irritating to me.In dis era? Hian!

Laju Ayanru said...

poster 2- work on yourself okay,you musnt date a perfect man but date a reasonable man, its low self esteem, pump it up dear, all of you insulting her you might be interested to know alot of females go through worse. you need to see how some dirty guys gbensh and treat alot of these so called preety girls. just work on yourself. simple

Anonymous said...

Here her*** I'm very particular about hygiene. Are you okay??? You screw a man you met on a dating website barely two week ago without condoms and you talk about hygiene? Whaaoo loose girls everywhere.

Starjoy said...

Poster2 are you that desperate to huk up with a guy that will make you had unprotected sex With a man you hardly know? Please borrow sense and walk out because you are not in relationship stop deceiving yourself.

i am wonderfully made and i love my family to the moon and back. said...

@ mama Afrika, she should keep ' babying' him, na wa! His he a baby Or a man? African men with their wahala and African women with low self esteem.
poster 1, worship him o cos he is your God. rubbish!

simple edo geh said...

Poster 2: Raise your stupid timid hand up and give yourself a resounding knock on your head. You have to be in a relationship before you send in a chronicle. you are not even in a rela talk more of ship.#potorpotortalk

NIRVANA said...

Poster 1 I'm very sure you noticed his unforgiving nature before he married you. How can a man keep malice? Maybe he's over doing the whole malice thing cos he knows you're a softie but honestly this chronicle is pointless. Continue enduring his malicious attitude. The Lord is your strength.
Poster 2 you don't even sound responsible to begin with, see your disjointed narrative madam lashing without CD, who in this time and age still falls for the "my condom is finished" lie, I pity you. Don't be surprised your so called BF split the rent with those girls cos I see no reason why they should get a mattress. You better dump that guy ASAP. He is as irresponsible as they come, he's sleeping without a condom but you refused to allow him "finger" you with his fuel and engine oil stained fingers. The both of you are two foolish people with misplaced priorities.

i am wonderfully made and i love my family to the moon and back. said...

Kikikikiki, chai! You are wicked!

Pels said...

Poster1..Abeg carry ur face small I know it's hard coz u like peace to reign, probably u are d kind of woman dat doesn't like to go to sleep angry.. Do it but don't over do it. Poster2..u are just a she goat.

Anonymous said...

My2cent says::
Seriously???
Appalling comment

Jenny zee said...

Site* condom*

Sweet choco said...

There are some questions people shouldn't ask at all. For Christ sake you met him on dating site. As bad as e reach you can just pass a night and not live with him. Okay if you love him that much why not buy the condom yourself? Unprotected sex is risky.
Please delete him from your life. I don't even wanna start talking about those girls there. Because those girls, they all know how long you where gonna last.

Sweet choco said...

P1 just gather mind and lock up. It will be hard but do it. When he realizes that you are no longer cut out for that bullshit he will sit up.

Esther Mgbolu said...

Anon i swear ur brain is filled with ash,eehen so she should continue apologosing for peace md she's lucky he accepts her apology nd blablabla.you are just a zunga your odehrity nd mumurity is raised to power 1million.nonsense

barbie micheal said...

Anon 17:01 beht why evuls?? Jisos, I just can't mehnnnnn*ROTFL

Anonymous said...

Platinum I guess you meant idiocy and not idiosyncracy.

Esther Mgbolu said...

Best advice so far

Abaraonye Nonye said...

Geez Poster 2: why do some ladies act like classic 'bit*h*s' I don't get IT..So why are you tell us, to clap for you or something...Ask God to forgive you, forgive yourself and go treat yourself in the hospital..Haba why cant you treat yourself with some lil respect lady!!! Gosh! Gosh!! am just so upset like right now


Poster 1: I know someone very close to me that behave like that..It is not easy with such people cos you are constantly walking on ''eggshells''. He is very immature but my Dear that is Life..one has to be a sheep for a Lion to roar..Keep Praying dear only GOD can touch him dear...

Esther Mgbolu said...

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha,oh my anon i swear uv killd me with laughter.hahahahahahahahha

barbie micheal said...

They're on this blog too

Esther Mgbolu said...

Poster2 u fucked up big time but the deed has already,pick urself up,go for tests hiv,preg etc.

barbie micheal said...

Dump him keh, he has already dumped her... too damn late

Anonymous said...

HahahahHahahahahahHahaha... Lovemejeje just killed me

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Is it your booless??

Anonymous said...

Poster 1: You have a virtue of a good wife. I understand how fed up you are already, BUT dont start up the malice stunt also. Call him at the moment he listens to you, and talk to him. Let him know how demeaning this act of his makes you feel. Let him know you will always hold him up there, and that apologizing to you does not make him less of a man. Make him realize you are his beta-half, as such keeping malice with you means keeping malice with himself. Speak to his conscience in all respect and seriousness. Remember to pray also. I did it, it worked perfectly for me, and changed alot of things. God bless your marriage dear.

Fire cracker said...

My sister e be like say the boy dey with those girls oo. The boy no get house.

Fire cracker said...

Dey squat.

Tegilicious said...

Stella you suppose flog poster two with koboko naaaaa. Poster 2 kindly ask God for wisdom

Empress CHO said...

Poster 2: Pls, ignore everyone here making you sound like you did something majorly wrong or you insane.
See, the poor must always be with us... Poor meaning broken, downtrodden, dejected, frustrated, hopeless, dumb, useless.
Now what's wrong with what you are doing? I see nothing wrong with your story, infact,i sincerely applaud you embracing your destiny to be classified poor and, your brave desperate attempts to recycle poverty leaves me humbled....wipes tears.

Your heartwarming description about being particular about your hygiene is a daring one but well, it's okay... i mean you could be living in a parallel universe where private part is public utiity.....Can't judge you honey!

Oh, i bet you like to think girls who go for guys with prospects and are building themselves to be better women are simply materialistic and needlessly ambitious... high five baby,i mean isn't it all vanity?
Come on,some people are created to be spectators in life, allergic to good things, diseased by luxuries and forever be brushed aside as nobodies...It is okay to be among that group.

See aiming for a guy who has something going on for himself, who has the fear of God, sound values, Sense of decency and discipline, refined and all....gosh! Can you believe girls who want such, like seriously...Such longthroatism and depleted yards of wife material. So what exactly will they do when they marry, what efforts will they make in marriage....just cross their legs and enjoy the good life, end minor squabbles with gifts, vacations and promises....how boring?

What happened to lifelong sufferhead?
How can you exhibit your wifely skills praying and fasting yourself to skeletons?
What happened to surrendering your self-esteem and sacrificing your existence for a man?
What sort of wife want to be her own woman...what does that even mean?
What about the future WWE fights where the whole street gathers to cheer and seperate fights?
How can you show how much of a superwoman you are breaking your back to feed your horseband and multitude of children while diligently praying and serving his side-chicks?

Lady, pay no mind to everyone insulting you, they don't know what you want out of life. They want it easy, happy and simple while you aim for an exciting, draining lowlife....But it's okay!
Come here, take this warm hug...You are on the right path, keep at it love,
Go ye into the world and suffer!

Unbeatable said...

Poster 2: I shake my head for u. How can u be dis loose and desperate? No self esteem or worth? If he has hiv, u already have it & it's forever (though not a death sentence ooo), dat isn't a relationship. He just needs a sex mate. Permit me to call u a fool & a stupid somebody (abeg no vex o. Dats exactly wat u displayed). Pick up ur remainin self esteem, and cut all ties w him. Am sure d other room is owned by d girls. Dey must be co-tenant and might turn lovers soon. Too bad. SMH

Unbeatable said...

Poster1: Bone ur dh too. Dats d only way to end it ooo. If not u will keep begging forever. And he will be becoming worst. Try and keep d malice too for as long as he wants. I promise u he will break & settle if u don't give him. Dats d only solution

Empress CHO said...

Poster 1: You apologize when he is wrong?
Girl, you are doing too much.
See that boy you married need to grow up...how can an adult be stuck in that toddler act?
Stop apologizing, firm up!
Do your wifely duties but ignore him in other ways.
You cannot stay married to a man you walk on egg shells around.

Take charge because you endure years of ST in decades of marriage and lose precious moments of happiness to this brickwall your hubby puts up.

First, you really need to stop being scared of your hubby...yeah, it's easy to sniff seeing this is something you haven't confronted yet.
You guys are in marriage not a master-wench relationship.
If you think he is the type who wouldn't raise his hands to hit you. Find a good time, talk AT him, i didn't say to him.
Like, he is right there not watching T.V just relaxing, walk up to him and talk.

Go like, i love you, when i said yes to you,, you were the most amazing man in the world. I was immensely excited about getting married to you.I looked forward to spending beautiful moments just being your wife. I have been blessed and happy sharing life with you but recently, i don't feel that magic we had. I can't get to you when we have misunderstandings and it feels like that amazing man i married disappeared.
That should get his attention.....key is appeaing to his conscience. Go on, open up, be civil while you do so. Let him listen to you. Flow along that line and push the talk in a manner that suggests you both need an adjustment to change the atmosphere in your home...and not necessarily, coz you want him to change for you.
But if it works you win right....cool!

Don't go gangster initially and pounce on him like...hey you, you think say only you sabi quarrel... i will show you. Craze must jam craze and all the razzness that would hurt you both more.

If you succeed in working on him... seek better means at bonding, find other interests and do the whole team work. If issues come up between you guys, tease and deflate the tension immediately. Malice is ugly! Encourage him and mark anniversaries just for fun on how long you guys have quarrelled last. Pick fun quarrel and make a mess of the silliness of it. You both will get to see better sides of you with time.

But if you married a he-goat and after all these better moves, no show,
Withdraw!!!
Find other things to keep you engaged.....wear out his malice by emotionally relegating him.
All that whole intimate convo, teases, jokes withhold it!
But my fingers are crossed for the former.....kisses.

them Go Taya said...

When I say Them go Taya na for people like you. I guess he most have told the girls u met in his house that you are his sister cus his shining one of them too. Miss hygiene I pity Ur life

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 go to the hospital to see a doc and ask for HIv drugs so you don't get infected.

Mosi Jubelo said...

Poster 1,since he's nice and all, pray for him, talk to him about it, he's your husband. It's well


Poster 2, you're just doing suffer head. Respect yourself and leave him. He's a fuck boy, he will gbensh you ehn, you sef you won't like your vagina again. Abeg leave him, he's not a serz somebody. Don't tell me love anything, better leave him o, you're a wonderful creature and you'll meet millions of guys. Mumu guy, getting angry because you didn't agree even after you had done twice sef.
Must they even tell you? Abeg leave him Jor. I'm even vexing with you sef

Mosi Jubelo said...

She's lucky he accepts her apology, can you imagine what you are saying? Madam, just be wise Jor and prayerful

Anonymous said...

Come and see the likes of poster 2 here o! Chai! Waste of "cum". And as for you stella, you also encourage S$M too! Let's call a spade a spade, what is bad is bad.

Anonymous said...

Get out of that abusive relationship now. Ur chronicles will not be next ijn. To get boo no be assets. Get back your self esteem. U no even get sef

SDKoldies said...

@poster 2
I know ladies can sometimes be foolish (even the best of us hv once been) and to be frank with you, you were foolish raise to power 10, but 'go and be foolish no more'.

End it all now and quickly too. This relationship will give you nothing but heartache. Infact, I see no relationship here.

Chummy cho cho said...

Lol@ I need to see ur mother. A three week boyfriend and already having unprotected sex?? Pray he doesn't dash you one deadly disease...

Rosie and kids said...

Like seriously poster 2 How old are you? Even @ that from secondary school they start preaching against HIV and AIDS and it is being sang on the blog every day, yet you meet one idiot on social media and under 3weeks you are sleeping with him without condom? I don't get it.My prayer is for God to deliver you from low self esteem and while God is at work in your life kindly close your legs and pretend to be a mermaid.

Henny said...

You said that you are particular about hygiene yet you allowed sex twice without condoms. I pity you, dirty pigs the two of you are. Rubbish

Anonymous said...

Jumiakindipe I like you already and your mum is the type of mums I respect

MrsBer

Anonymous said...

Poster 2, you are just stupidly stupid. Relationship indeed. You can't spot bullshit even when it hits you square in the face. Dey there o, don't worry he loves you. He just wants to fuck you raw well before he makes up his mind. Mumu.

Anonymous said...

poster 1 please don't apologize again if he is the one at fault. do all you are supposed to do as a wife,be yourself, pretend as if you nothing happened, occupy yourself with what you like doing, when he asks you a question ans him and keep quiet. he will stop keeping malice and chart you up.



it worked for me. I pray it works for you

The Traveller said...

@ SDK on Poster 1, I believe the movie you want to recall is "War Room"

Anonymous said...

poster 2 I don't have time for you. You are a disgrace. you are irritating, you are a ๐Ÿท, imagine allowing somebody that came back from work with public transport, still tracked to go and buy ⛽ with all the sweat ๐Ÿ˜… wow neat girl indeed. gross!

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 u re so not in a relationship he is just into u for d sex, just walk away now.

olubukola bakre said...

Poster2:what is this? Are u daft or insane?e be like say you are insane cos a sane person won't act this way.I pity your life.You better be using ur brain next time.That guy is a fuck boy. You don enter am oooo.Abeg,go for test

Anonymous said...

E-slap. did I hear you say you are very particular of hygien ? And you are fucking left ,right and centre without a condom... you must be a foolish girl. Omg I'm so posses right now. Please leave that guy alone ,he doesn't love you be is keeping you for shag. Okay bye.

Dauntless Cersei said...

I swear down....maybe that's not even his real house, just a base to fuck random chicks

Mrs anonymous said...

Poster 2,I am sure you have been a BV on this blog for you to send chronicle,what have you learnt from this blog if you go about having unprotected sex?Everyday there is always a lesson to be learnt here,I am sure you just read but don't digest?where is your self esteem?Having sex in a BQ where people were just a door away just because you want to be in a relationship or married?What do you want us to tell you now?Go back and bath him or move into the BQ too.

ZIONA said...

Lol, but that doesn't give that silly anon the right to call the baby monkey

ZIONA said...

Lmaoooo, I wonder where them dey pick these emotional abusers from

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