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Monday, 26 September 2016

Reverend Forgives Wife Who Bedded Homeless Alcoholic They Gave Shelter

A VICAR’S wife had an affair with a homeless man after she and her husband saved him from the streets and moved him into their spare room.
Rev Matthew Taylor, 53, and Sandra, 49, took in alcoholic Ivan Mascarenhas when he fell off the wagon.




But when the Church of England minister was out doing God’s work, the man he had taken pity on was having sex with his missus.
Last night Ivan, also 49, said they could not resist their “forbidden” lust despite both being tormented by Christian guilt.
The pair first became close in April last year when ex-warehouseman Ivan moved into a drugs and alcohol rehab shelter managed by Sandra and volunteers from the East Northants Faith Group charity.




Sandra, married to Rev Taylor for 29 years, appeared in the local press to talk up the good work at the Recovery House in Rushden.
Her husband gave it his blessing on Twitter and heaped praise on Ivan and others from the pulpit at the town’s St Mary’s Church for confronting their demons.

But despite rules against relations between addicts and workers, pillar of the community Sandra was soon enjoying cosy chats with her bedraggled admirer.

‎Then after a spell back with his own wife Claire, 41, dad-of-two Ivan called Sandra. He begged for help when he started boozing and was turfed out of the family home.

The vicar and his wife agreed to put him up at their four-bedroom home in Rushden in May — and the unlikely friends grew even closer.

The married couple got him a place in another rehab house a mile away. But in July Sandra began sending him phone messages whenever the coast was clear for him to sneak over for afternoon sex.

‎Ivan said: “The whole thing was so far-fetched it didn’t seem it could be true. I would have to wait for her to message me. I wasn’t allowed to message her in case she was with her husband.
“Sometimes I’d just sit by the phone all day, waiting to be told where she would pick me up.
“And when I came over to their place I trusted Sandra that it was safe and we wouldn’t be caught.

“But I was jealous of her husband because she was still living with him. Sandra would say, ‘It’s you I want’, and that would calm me. She had so much to lose. It goes to show the level she was involved with me.
‎“And I was smitten because of how lovely she was. We’d fallen in love.

“We just couldn’t stop. Of course it was wrong, and the fact we are both Christian made it even worse. Matthew was a friend, which makes me feel terrible about it.”

Sandra took an active role in the church, organising Bible studies for youngsters, giving talks at the ladies’ group and putting on a winter ball for worshippers, where she sang with her husband.

The guilt-ridden mum of two grown-up daughters finally decided to tell him about the affair.
She is believed to have dropped her bombshell while on holiday in recent weeks.

 Twice-married Ivan, from nearby Wellingborough, added: “The truth had to come out. Sandra decided to tell her husband about it first before anyone else did.

‎“They were going on holiday for two weeks and I said I couldn’t cope with the fact she would be away with him.
“I couldn’t cope with the jealousy. I said, ‘We need to tell everyone and be together or end it before we cause any more damage’.

“They got as far as London where she told her husband and then she came back to be with me. At this point she resigned from Recovery House because of what had gone on. It also meant that I lost my room at the dry house where I was staying because we had broken the rules.

“I ended up in an overnight shelter surrounded by drug addicts.
“Since then we have met only once. I did everything I could to keep her, because I wanted her.

“From what she told me, her husband has shown her understanding and forgiveness.

‎“Sandra and I have said our last goodbyes. She has gone back to her old life and I’m homeless again. I guess it’s over now for good.”

Last night Rev Taylor said: “During a time of great and intense emotional loss and stress, my wife Sandra was drawn into an inappropriate relationship with Ivan Mascarenhas while he was a voluntary member living in one of the rehab’s dry houses.

“It was a short relationship which is now ended and for which Sandra now feels great shame and sadness.
“She resigned immediately having realised the seriousness of the situation. Ivan has left the house and a flat has now been arranged for him in a different location.”

A spokesman for the diocese said: “We are committed to supporting Matt and Sandra as they rebuild their marriage.”
The Care Quality Commission said the matter had been referred to them by Northamptonshire county council.

Associate minister Rev Taylor presided over a 9.30am Harvest Thanksgiving at the church yesterday.

Source: thesun.co.uk


*He forgave her so easily.I hope they succeed in rebuilding their Marriage.This would have turned nasty with some people...Hmm!!!




56 comments:

felix akheen said...

Really bad... oyinbo women like gbensh too much and most times, their husbands aint up to it.. I know of someone that lives in Us and the husband pays him to gbensh his wife for him..

Sweet Mother said...

Awwwww.....the reverend has a good soul. That's the bad thing about cheating. The shame and guilt is too much to handle for a few minutes of pleasure. Once you orgasm (that's if you do) it's all over.

IVORY said...

Hmmmm.. This man is a saint. It's hard to forgive such.

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Jasmine said...

Wait!!! She actually dumped her husband and went back to be with the alcoholic? Lmao!!! Women!!!


So if the vicar had not forgiven her, she'll be homeless like her alcoholic bf? Lol

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...Hmmm Good man I must say

Alloy Chikezie said...

Forgiveness is divine

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Anonymous said...

hmm wow am speechless such a kind hearted man he forgives so easily may God almighty be with me. am just short of words



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LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Chai,he did well at least living with an example while preaching the word of God

Anonymous said...

It would have turned so nasty honestly if it happened in naija, oyinbo with their brain sha.. Endtime olosho wife

JSBunny said...

Take note! You know yourselves! Hehehe

Blessing Jackson said...

Hmmmmm

Anonymous said...

The dh is a weakling

Anonymous said...

Thats real love.. Which is so rare😅

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Without grace,none can make it. Thank God she retraced her steps.

To everyone out there,Linda and co. still living this kind of life,the bible said "there is way that seemth right unto a man but the end is destruction.
"Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God."

The General's Wife said...

Hmmmmmm

What a moment of passion can cause ehn if unchecked.
Good man! He even made the weighty wrong done him seem a bit light.

Tush baby said...

Unfriendly friends, they pretend to be ur friend while you help them and they go out to stab you at ur back.

Anonymous said...

Her husband is a real man of GOD.They will rebuild their marriage and things will be fine with them.their love will even become stronger than before now.Forgiving comes easily when you have Christ in you.

Shantelle's Empire said...

James how your anonymous market? You forgot to type you will send her back to her papa house.

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

If I have the power, I wil wipel out sexual intercourse.

corisande said...

He he he he
Bad ass homeless guy!
How can you shelter this kinda guy.
Vicar is one of his kind!

Anonymous said...

And you had to call names. Silly woman always sounding Holy.

BA said...

Thank God the guy did not go to the extent of killing the rev,so as to have the woman permanently to his side.

Mao Akuh said...

Sex causing 'odido' since mgbe uwa gbaa oto.

Barr. Oma said...

The rev. has a beautiful soul for him to forgive his wife and also help the guy in building his own marriage. This is rare,God bless him real good

cathy said...

Issokay, oyinbo no too sabi hold body

Anonymous said...

Lol @ Linda & Co.

Starjoy said...

He is so kind

Roseflower said...

My sweet hubby is exactly like this Reverend gentleman. He can forgive any and everything I do.Sometimes I even think he is not human because his gentility and sweetness is unfathomable. Dude can't even raise his voice at anyone talkless of hurting a fly.Such extremely kind and gentle people are rare to come by these days.
God bless the Vicar and his likes.

Mama Afrika said...

I think it was a bit easier for him to forgive since she confessed herself. It probably would have taken a different turn if she was caught (red-handed).

nicky onikan said...

Endtime Igando

Cindy Babs said...

Dish out your advice without mentioning anybody's name. Duuuuuhhhh!

Tendermum said...

Forgive...but will he forget

Chidinma Gift said...

Hallelujah there is still time for you and I to retrace our steps, ask God for forgiveness now and change from your old ways and He will direct your path

Anonymous said...

Y'all should save ur energy Linda still say yesterday that she cheats on her hubby that she doesn't like eating egusi soup everyday.

Anonymous said...

Roseflower stop cheating or taking him for granted please there is a limit to forgiveness and gentility.

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Well said Gift.

Daveen Laundry and Dry cleaning Services, Ajah, Lagos. 09072092853. Free pick up and delivery. said...

I commend the vicar. Practice what you preach.

Mrs. Romas said...

The Reverend is a good man, but that doesn't mean the marriage will last or be lovely as it was.
White women are full of it. They surround me here, and most of the time, their men are left with whether to forgive and allow the women continue their extra marital affairs; so they don't go away with the kids. Because the court/judges always work in their favour.

White women don't easily forgive their men when caught in adulterous acts. (Christian or pagan)

I hate adultery, may God give us the grace to overcome the spirit or adultery. May we not be a reproach to the body of Christ.

Anonymous said...

Their marriage can never be the same tho. I wonder why he is still staying with her because in the end he will eventually leave. Yes he will.

PLATINUM said...

Wow wow

Bolty said...

THE MAN HAS A GOOD HEART. I PRAY THE WOMAN FORGET THE MAN FOR LIFE.

Anonymous said...

See talk, if you like continue misbehaving and taking the piss till he clears your doubts 1day and shocks you.

Olivia said...

The marriage should end. The Rev is trying to be Christ like but he is not Jesus. He won't stand. That woman would become a slave to him, not physically but otherwise. He should have let her go and be with the guy and take it as her loss. The woman would never be happy for the rest of her life. For doing this to her husband and the church. Guilt is worse than cancer and thats what she has to live with for the rest of her life. She behaved like a teenager who just spotted one ''bad guy'' and she lost her senses at 49. Oh Mehn! She ruined 29 years. She is not worth it in my opinion. The rev should have forgiven her but ended the marriage. Then again, how would she cope with all the stares and pointing fingers, how would she address the crowd and people would listen, how would she face her CHILDREN????? Oh mehn! some things are not just worth it. She should just have run away with the guy or asked for divorce. Her life is ruined and she ruined. It wasn't a one night stand, it was full blown affair with all the lies, deceits,sneak outs. Her affair partner could have killed the rev in a bit. They would be housemates henceforth. The marriage is over

Olivia said...

The marriage should end. The Rev is trying to be Christ like but he is not Jesus. He won't stand. That woman would become a slave to him, not physically but otherwise. He should have let her go and be with the guy and take it as her loss. The woman would never be happy for the rest of her life. For doing this to her husband and the church. Guilt is worse than cancer and thats what she has to live with for the rest of her life. She behaved like a teenager who just spotted one ''bad guy'' and she lost her senses at 49. Oh Mehn! She ruined 29 years. She is not worth it in my opinion. The rev should have forgiven her but ended the marriage. Then again, how would she cope with all the stares and pointing fingers, how would she address the crowd and people would listen, how would she face her CHILDREN????? Oh mehn! some things are not just worth it. She should just have run away with the guy or asked for divorce. Her life is ruined and she ruined. It wasn't a one night stand, it was full blown affair with all the lies, deceits,sneak outs. Her affair partner could have killed the rev in a bit. They would be housemates henceforth. The marriage is over

Anonymous said...

Me I cheat well on my husband o. I cant come and go and die. He is popular Pastor in his own right and alwayd busy. Should I be waiting for him every time? Even if he catches me he cannot do anything about it. He's handicapped because he also counsel many people to forgive such. He's always busy so me too, I had to find a side piece to keep myself busy. The orgasm is beyond description. I don't have any guilt because I dunno what he too is doing. Only God forgive all of us. Let me go anonymous on this one

Anonymous said...

Me I cheat well on my husband o. I cant come and go and die. He is popular Pastor in his own right and alwayd busy. Should I be waiting for him every time? Even if he catches me he cannot do anything about it. He's handicapped because he also counsel many people to forgive such. He's always busy so me too, I had to find a side piece to keep myself busy. The orgasm is beyond description. I don't have any guilt because I dunno what he too is doing. Only God forgive all of us. Let me go anonymous on this one

Anonymous said...

My exact thought!

Aurora said...

Thank God the wife had the courage to confess her wrongdoing to her husband,may He give them the grace to repair their marriage in Jesus name...Amen

Anonymous said...

The marriage will end, it will not be like it used to be, guilt is worse than cancer. Children of God, remove the log in your eye before you check the splint in your neighbours eye. What of pastor Cola,didn't the wife forgive him? So kuz she is a woman , she should die? BTW, the husband is Christlike. God bless him and may their marriage work out for good.

Anonymous said...

It's not over yet!!he's a sick guy and I pray he doesn't murder that man of God eventually, He's hurting and jealous of the husband. They are meant to let that man go finally so the wife can get over him and vice versa, not providing shelter for him in a known destination

MrsBee

The General's Wife said...

Awwwwww
God bless ur hubby darling

Affiong Uyah said...

It is well

Anonymous said...

Abi, after all "is you I want Ivan". She clearly does not love her husband again. This forgiveness strong, nai that guy call off wedding bc his fiance kissed smone else during bachelorette party.

sisi eko said...

Eyah. Poor couple.

When flesh takes its course

sisi eko said...

Na so na. Lol

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