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Thursday, 6 October 2016

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This is so freaking serious!!!




D and C

Dear Stella
God dey...

Kindly assist in posting this in doctor’s in house section. I’m so scared now and need to know if I’m all right. I have ask several doctors about my case without giving full information on what happened but they have confirmed  I’m all right.

I will be getting married soon and I need to be sure I can conceive because the thought of not having a child is scaring me.

Sometimes in year 2012 I had D&C two times in space of six months duo it is a part of my life I wish never happened.  All the D&C were done in a specialist hospital at least I made sure since you can’t keep the baby you can’t risk my life in the process of terminating the pregnancy.

During the second pregnancy I delayed in terminating it because I thought I was going to persuade my then boyfriend to allow me keep it, I finally agreed to terminate it after the pregnancy was 9 weeks gone. After the D&C I have had this particular issue that has been a concern to me. A normal me don’t have painful menstrual cramps, I hardly have few or no pains at all the only sign of mensuration is that I’m moody for sometimes or feel small cramps in my womb then that all. My mensuration last for four days with normal flow that is I can wear one pad throughout a day without getting stained.


Now to the issue after the second D&C my mensuration came back to normal which is 26 to 28 days of my last period but to my greatest surprise I saw tiny blood when I mean tiny it was so small that one pad would have taken all the blood for the 4 days. I went back to the hospital I did the D&C the doctor told me that my hormone had change and prescribed a drug to take I have forgotten the name to correct my hormone so as to boost the level of blood to come out during my mensuration. 


I took the drugs and the next month my period came back to normal. I took the drugs for like two to three month and when I felt my period has come back to normal I stopped the drugs duo I dint go back to the hospital since I felt there was no need for that. After a while my period changed from the normal four days flow to two day without it been heavy please note, no cramps at all. I went back to the hospital on the day of my mensuration doctor checked me to the extent of even checking the pad I was wearing and said the flow was normal duo it lasted only for two days but it wasn’t as heavy as before in time past. He advice I should continue with the drugs he prescribed in the past I complained that I don’t like drugs plus I don’t want to live on drugs the rest of my life as I’m too young for that, he tried in making me see why I had to take the drugs for health safety all this was happening between 2013 and 2014.


I continued taking the drugs duo there was no side effect it was just that I didn’t like the idea of taking the drugs every day without anybody knowing not even the then boyfriend. Please note my menstrual  circle never exceed 26 to 28 days of my last period and it will flow for two days this month and flow for three days next month and it wasn’t a heavy flow plus no cramps at all. 



One faithful day I was discussing with my bosom friend who knew everything that transpired in my life then, I told her about the everyday drugs which I was tired of taking, she then advice I stop taking the drugs as she was also not comfortable with me  living on drugs that it was normal for me to have period for two days that what she will advise is that I try and take alcoholic drink like small stout or gin few days to my mensuration as it will aid in making me have a heavy flow since that was what I wanted. 


I stopped the drug after the last pack and waited few days to my period and took small stout or so to my greatest surprise my period came with a heavy cramps and heavy flow. I was so happy that I continued with the systems.

Now the issue is the day I forget to take this alcoholic drink few days to my period it will change to how it use to be after the D&C. As I’m typing this I’m in my period which started yesterday as usual I forgot to take the alcoholic drink. I just went to pee yesterday only to clean up and wipe some blood I fix my pad because I am always a ready person when it comes to my period. Since yesterday to now no menstrual cramps no heavy blood but small blood. 


I am so worry now because I really don’t want my past to hurt my marriage I almost confessed to my fiancรฉe yesterday but I was scared of him leaving me. I am scared of going to the hospital because I don’t want hospital compounding my thought with more. I just need a good doctor here who can give a good advice on the following below.

•       Should I go back on the drugs prescribed to me in the past mind you I have forgotten the name?
•       Should I continue with the alcoholic drink or gin my friend advice?
•       Will I still get pregnant since my periods don’t exceed 26 to 28 days after my last period?
•       Was I tampered internally unknown to me?
•       Do I have any internal issue that would have cause this?
•       Is it normal not to have menstrual cramps
•       Where do I get a good female gynecologist around Ketu in Lagos?
•       I will entertain all advice at the comment column, if you want me to contact you please drop your number for follow up.


Thanks Stella, I am so sorry for all the long write up.


116 comments:

Loveme Jeje said...

Poster it is well. Just commit everything into the hands of God. Stop taking something and wait for some time.

Tush baby said...

Poster u see ur life, after having an abortion u still countinue staffing without protection,i weep for you because had i known always be at last.

STARRY LARRY said...

Please go back to that hospital and if you're lucky the then doctor is still there




*Larry was here*

Tush baby said...

Abortion and it's medical and spiritual implications was the topic we jst finished discussing this morning in my office and only for me to open this post and see a case on it. Better confess and ask God for forgiveness then visit a gynaecologist.

Rhoda Rex said...

Serious...

nzube izuu said...

Hmnnnnnnnn! Serious 'ish'! Visit a gynaecologist ASAP. Good luck.

Anonymous said...

Poster how old are you abeg??? So u were enjoying the cramps and heavy flow abi?Two days its ok and if you ovulate,what's the essence of worrying yasef???
I did 5 abortions and still gave birth when I got married,thank God for the mercies of God.
Pls leave your body alone.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

You work in a church?

Anonymous said...

Oh so you are too young to live on drugs for the rest of your life, but you aren't too young to have unprotected sex and have not one but TWO abortions in the space of six months. You sound so idiotic and irresponsible. Is it by the flow of your period that determines if all is well with you? You better go for a scan and see a different doctor. You are looking for heavy flow when you may have more serious complications you aren't aware of. Gosh! So a man will unknowingly marry you now with all this katakata. Hmnnnn. It is well.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Hmmmm,madam,what is wrong with you is guilty conscience,ask God for forgiveness and forget about your past.Go into the marriage with a positive mind and you will bear children.

Anonymous said...

Our case is similiar and I hope God forgives us and restores us. Mine been married since 2013 had one miscarriage up till now nothing. Who that is without a sin let him caste below.

Anonymous said...

Oh pls stop writing 'duo',i can't take it anymore..pls stop! U can write 'tho' that's better.

Just leave everything mehn,the alcohol, drugs..your body will heal.

And ask God for forgiveness mehn.

Nothing is wrong with you.

Anonymous said...

My question is do you ovulating at all? If yes worried not.

Doroking said...

When it comes to your health nothing else matters. Why put yourself,your marriage and your future in jeopardy? See another doctor quickly and get a second opinion. and please stop self medication,it's dangerous! Good luck

Anonymous said...

Are u ovulating at all? If yes worried not you will conceive

Anonymous said...

Mrs judgina. people like you are the worst. A simple sympathy goes a long way to correct mistakes.

Highness Gwen said...

that's serious..

Anonymous said...

2 things might be going on- Ashermans or nothing. You need to go back to a
different doctor to check for
Ashermans.

Jam Jam said...

It is long sha, couldn't read to the end. I don't think you should worry too much

cakes by Bella's, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132, @cakes_by_bellas said...

Hmmm....

Anonymous said...

I discovered that whenever I take felvin for menstrual cramps I have a light flow. I can wear just 2 pads per day but when I don't take felvin, my flow is very heavy and I can use like 4 pads per day.

sandra said...

U just have hormonal imbalance.im not a doctor but I had 2 miscarriages after my first child since then my body has not been the same.had issues with irregular cycle and all tht treated my hormonal imbalance now I'm fine and since then I've been trying to conceive.human body differs what works for me might not work for you so just treat your hormones with a good gynae and u won't have period issues. Once u re still having issues with your period your hormones are not yet balanced.

CrazyHornyWife said...

Just go on with your marriage. Pray and be hopeful .



Dear Jesus,pls take the pain away becoz am your baby and am tired of all these medication.

Anonymous said...

Dear Poster, our honourable blog visitors will crucify you today o, holier than thou people.
I think you have little or nothing to worry about other than guilty conscience. You know your fiance better than we do, as much as there is no harm in keeping your little secret to yourself, confessing to him will also go a long way to help you two prepare well for the future, incase you have to be TTC (God forbid) for a while, as every Doctor will definitely ask you if you have being pregnant in the past, so imagine his disappointment if he get to know about your secret then. There maybe little or nothing wrong with you though, I advice you visit a gynaecologist and insist on hormonal profile test, with that you will know if you have a hormonal imbalance and an appropriate drug will be administered to you to correct it. How old are you? are you above 30years, if yes then insist the gynaecologist include AMH analysis in your test. I hope this help. Wish you a happy married life in advance.

Anonymous said...

It's just guilt that is worrying you.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

Changes occur and it affects the hormones, the fact that you are even thinking about it is enough reason for these things to happen.

Most importantly, make sure you make peace with God. You shed innocent blood, you might not have issues with having kids in your marriage, but if you don't settle this well, you still have blood on your hands.

Make peace with God, Pray for total forgiveness.

Anonymous said...

And the name of the drug is??? You possibly cant forget the name of the drug you took for so long. Lets know in the comment section please

Mao Akuh said...

WHat's duo? kpele o

amanda favour said...

Hmmm...

Anonymous said...

Two abortions in six months?abegi carry ur cross ,the time u were fucking without any care in the world,you know the dangers of abortions

Anonymous said...

There is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

I work in a hospital and the most cases of "septic abortions" (abortions that get infected etc.) that we see is usually during the first quarter of the year; a fallout of vaginal pounding during Christmas and valentine. Chai, come and see beautiful dead girls, lost wombs, bedridden ones and so on. What pains me most is that these girls will continue denying that they had abortion as if the doctor is a magistrate that will sentence them to death. One denied aborting till she breathed her last only for the nurses that were to prepare her body for the morgue to pull out a mangled baby's remains from her vagina.

And these boys just continue to prowl on the next victims -any vagina that opens! Girls, there is no "rest in peace" if you did not let babies find peace in your womb when the "mistake" of premarital sex was made. If this is your case and you survived it; repent, we all make mistakes.

The guilty ones who do not want to repent are those that will come under my post to rant. Having said it, they will perhaps hide under anonymous and talk about how "nothing happened"! It takes just one day for the thief and murderers to be caught!

SWAG LAFRESH said...

The "duo" too much. Got confused at a point.

Go to another hospital.

Anonymous said...

WHO opens legs for sex?Who get's pregnant?Who bears the guilt of abortion (the man shares in the consequences though; see Proverbs 6:16) and cries every second/everyday?Who is heartbroken and shattered and confused?Who has insecurity and low self esteem? Who is seen as the whore?Who has suicidal thoughts (yes you murdered a human being or more see Gen. 9:6)?Who sulks even a decade after the man has moved on, married and had kids?Who is dumped?On and on and on.LADIES, WHY NOT CLOSE THIS HOLE CALLED VAGINA UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED? THE TEST THAT A MAN "LOVES YOU" IS THAT HE IS ABLE TO RESPECT YOUR BODY TILL HE PAYS YOUR BRIDE PRICE.When the man finishes with you he moves on to the next "gullible victim" Leave such men who are only interested in you body (no; just interested in your vagina and breasts) alone and face your life and make it right with God and do not kill kids etc.Jesus says; "whoever comes to me I will not cast away". Matthew 7:6 "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.




Florence Dibs said...

God have mercy.... Doctors in the house Pls we need u guys here...... Out from anonymous now for over a year plus.....

Amacastel said...

Since u are about getting married try to get pregnant with ur fiancee nah if it not working them go see a gynecologist

Anonymous said...

You are "too young to take drugs" but not too young to have premarital sex and abort.
Always ready for your period but not ready for the consequences of your actions.

Julit said...

What is "duo"?

Anonymous said...

Stupid comments. Your past can never catch up with you. After all, all these female BVs wey dey here dey make stupid comments have done at least one abortion in thier life time, so please don't dwell on it.
Even if you are spotting blood or having cramps doesn't make it impossible for you to eventually get pregnant. Please stop all the stupid myths of taking any form of alcoholic beverage or medication cos you are actually going to destroy your internal organs by taking them consistently.
Eat healthy, exercise and rest whenever needed. That's all you need......@@@@BiaBia ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺

Anonymous said...

Poster go to the hospital for proper examination

Anonymous said...

Poster, why don't u believe in God ur maker don't think the other way round remember what u say about urself will come to pass so speak good thing to ur live

Anonymous said...

You're just stressing over nothing..as women,our body tends to change after pregnancy..the pregnancy hormones takes long to wear off..and even after wearing off,our system tend to change. Me for example,I use to have a 3 day period,after my first baby,it would come for only 2 days..it continued like that for 2 years. Then I got pregnant again. After I had my baby,my period would come for 5 days,with heavy flow. After 2 years,I had a miscarriage and they had to do an evacuation,since then,my period comes for just 3 days and very light. Forgive yourself already. God has forgiven you if you've genuinely asked for forgiveness. Don't torture yourself. As for telling your fiancรฉ,oyo is your name.๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜

AMINA LAWAL said...

i believe your period is still very normal. i had a coursemate whose period only last 3days and she said the flow is so small that she only use cotton wool at nite!
she has two kids now. i will suggest you have all necessary test done from FSH, LH, HSG, PELVIC SCAN and FOLLICULAR TRACKING to erase any abnormalities in your reproductive organ. if you give all the results comes out positive, then you have nothing to worry about. please stop taking that acholic drinks and be grateful for your cycle. Trust me, i will give anything to have that your cycle.

Anonymous said...

It's well will you

Anonymous said...

You see this life, there was one of my friend back in school. That said I should "try my womanhood" with Lee boo by intensionally getting pregnant to see if am fertile, i almost did it but had a rethink. One can never be too carefull sha but u can create standard for your self. Because i no get pikin when them dey trowey.

Anonymous said...

Some ladies do countless abortions without any side effects ,others do it once and do irreparable damage to their systems.
@Poster,I think ur problem is that Karma lives very close to you.

Anonymous said...

IF CONFESSING TO YOUR FIANCE WOULD CHANGE HIS ATTIUDE BETTER KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND AVOID COMPLICATING YOUR LIFE THE MORE. PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES EVERYDAY. AND U DNT EVEN KNOW HOW MANY GURLS HE HAS PAID FOR THEIR ABORTION. TALKING ABOUT ISSUES MEDICALLY I THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG SOMEWHERE BUT IT DOES NOT LOOK SERIOUS. YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT. THIS HAPPENED LIKE TWO YEARS AGO AND YOUR PERIOD HAS NOT STABLIZED YET. WHICH IS MEANT TO COME BACK TO NORMAL AFTER ONE MONTH AFTER AN APPROPRIATELY DONE EVACUATION. VISIT A GYNECOLOGIST DIFFERENT FROM THE ONE YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING AND REQUEST FOR PELVIC SCAN AND A HOMONAL PROFILE TEST.WITH THE RESULTS OF THESE TEST THE CAUSE OF THE ISSUE SHOULD BE SEEN AND FROM THERE THE RIGHT DRUG WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU. TURN TO GOD AND TRULY ASK FOR FORGIVENESS. VISIT THE MOTHERLESS AND DONATE TO THEM. THE REAL FORGINESS COMES FROM GOD AND NOT MAN...GOODLUCK

Anonymous said...

Idiot. You holy pass abi. No aint the poster but if u have nothing nice to say shut it.

billion dollar lady. said...

Hmmm dis is serious really!please go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness..i don't know if you can get this longrich pad?and the pantyliner..wear the pad whenever you are on your period..when you wear it,wet it a little,(wet the tiny green part area,just 2 drops of water). And after your flow,always wear the panty liner,wet it also and it will correct it by the grace of God..have faith all will be well..

Anonymous said...

Ur brain just reset abi? Egbere

mimsy said...

Dear poster, it's understandable to be worried in a situation like this, but I believe it's due to hormones change in your system. The most important thing right now is to focus on your happiness and your forthcoming marriage, even ladies that married as virgins don't always get pregnant easily. I'm not saying same will happen to you, but stop stressing yourself over it, just pray and confess to God. Not to your husband, unless you know for certain he won't use it against you. In good time, God will perfect His work in your life.

Anonymous said...

Ask God for forgiveness, go to the lab and check your womb if its intact, check your hormones,do swap and continue from there.

Inimitable said...

Don't worry too much about your menstrual flow, it can be hormones or physiologic changes in your body. As far as you ovulate monthly, and you tubes and cervix are clear, then the DnC you did won't stop you from having babies. Perhaps you need to do some hormonal tests by the instruction of your doc. But just know that the flow of your menses isn't a telltale that you won't have kids. If the doctor you're seeing isn't giving you a satisfying response, a second opinion isn't a bad idea. Thank you

Ajagbe adeola hannah said...

Babe, please, relax. Nothing is wrong with you, just talk to a gynaecologist.

Ajagbe adeola hannah said...

Babe, please, relax. Nothing is wrong with you, just talk to a gynaecologist.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Consult your doctor and spill all out, don't withhold any information from them......

Tee Diva Organic Skincare 58C660AC said...

My dear, I will advise you stop taking the drugs and the stout or whatever your friend prescribed. During pregnancy, your system changes, mood swings, your period stops, your breast start getting ready to produce milk for the coming baby,you womb expands, every PART of your body works to cater for the feotus and after birth, it takes a while for the system to adjust back due to breastfeeding, it's God's programmed cycle. But you cut that process short by having an abortion, it will take a while for your body to process that fact that there's no more bun to bake, your hormone will change so will your period, it all depends on your body. Some women see their period immediately after childbirth while some don't till they stop breastfeeding. After you had the D&C,your hormone was adjusting back, remember you took it out at 2months+, that's pretty lengthy.

My advice? Leave your body, stop the drugs and continue with your normal life, with time, your hormone will adjust back, just go for an abdominal scan to ensure your womb,cervix,tubes are okay and you have no PID. Then monitor your cycle to make sure you ovulate.

Lastly, cry to God for forgiveness and Mercy and repent. Even women who haven't done abortion b4 have fertility issues so dear, it's all God. Like I said, repent.

All the best.




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Tiwa said...

Confess your sin to God and ask for his healing and cleansing .
Stop all the drugs and alcohol u are gradually becoming an addict.
God perfect your healing

Adadioramma said...

Please talk to God in prayer. Ask for forgiveness and repent from your sin. Make use of Psalm 51 and promise God you are going to change intoto. Focus on the future dear, He is a merciful God.

Anonymous said...

All I see here is duo.

Op it's well with you

Anonymous said...

I hope you are marrying the man that advised you to do the d and C so that two of you will carry the cross together?

Anonymous said...

jst b calm.....it wil stabilise with time

Anonymous said...

Instead of being sorry and mourning the two innocent chilgren you killed in you womb, u are more concerned about future kids. Go to God in sincereity and acceptance

May said...

Please no one should judge her,we all humans and make mistakes.I think you should go to another hospital,do a scan if possible, but try and see another doctor and not the same,after an abortion your body would take weeks to a month or so to get back to normal and i guess some how the drugs you've been on has its own effect,dont do the drinks again as well and also pray about it,i believe in God's mercy as much as i believe in the power of prayers....All the best

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

You will get pregnant so far u ovulate.
Just go for check up from time to time but incase of any thing, just tell ur doctor the truth so that he will know what he is treating you of!
Good luck

starshine said...

Just leave it in the hands of God and see what He will do for you. In the mean time don't take any thing again it will return to normal after some time

Motola Famojuro said...

You see your life? The guy or guys you aborted for are gallivanting around na you dey worry your brain karelai. You better go to the hospital and check your self up

Anonymous said...

Judgina shut your smelly mouth. You have committed worse sins than the poster. Are you a virgin? You will both go to the same hell fire. Hediot

Anonymous said...

Sorry poster but all I see is DUO. Wetin u dey duo?

Christy Odoo said...

Mmm mm. Poster ask God to forgive ur sins, abortion is a sin. And seek quality medical attention.. God is on the throne...
Dokintas whr una dey.... Help oooo

Anonymous said...

Ask idea to. Babe na abortion guru. Recycled virgin. Sharing tohtoh didn't even give her a husband

Anonymous said...

Ideato, is dat u?

Anonymous said...

Ask God for forgiveness and calm down... I had more than 10 abortions which I'm not proud of and luckily I have two lovely kids now... Thou when I eventually got married my hormones was in balance, ooops I didn't get married, my partner processed my visa then and I jump inside plane come join him here for Europe.... "we are still together more than a decade now... So my dear don't be scared and stop telling your friend everything about you๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

Minnie Rexpect said...

Judgina you have never sinned in your life abi. If you don't have any advice for the poster waka pass, you must not comment.
@poster just go to the hospital and also have some hormonal test conducted on you. You are over thinking it you will be alright.

doctor samba said...

My dear, from the history you gave of repeated D AND C with subsequent scanty menstrual flow,u may be having Asherman syndrome I.e the lining of your womb has been scarred by the repeated trauma of d and it is now narrower.you need to see a gynaecologist who will give you a test called HSG(hysterosalpingography) to confirm the diagnosis,after which adhesiolysis will be done for you.All the best my dear fellow Bv

Anonymous said...

Hi Poster, sorry to hear about your predicament. First thing to do is repent to God with a sincere heart and he will forgive you and give you peace instead of allowing satan torment you needlessly. We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God and God's forgiveness is available to all if us.

Now from a medical perspective even though I'm not a medical doctor, I suspect it might be hormonal and therefore we can rule out serious conditions such as Asherman Syndrome.

Since you're bleeding fairly normally ( presumably bright red blood) and responding to hormonal drugs, I think you're fine. Terminations and pregnancies can alter ones periods... periods can become heavier or lighter, longer or shorter after a pregnancy or termination. I strongly suspect that your issues are hormonal and can therefore be rectified with these drugs. Consult a fertility expert. I think you're fertile and will go on to have kids by the grace of God. Cheers.

Anonymous said...

May none of your cross be taken from you.

Chike Anumba said...

I am not a lady, but I know that D&C is very painful. What baffles me is the fact that ladies do it multiple times.
God is your strength, so put your trust in him

Cissy said...

...that's the irony of it all. She is not

Anonymous said...

I don't think she has intra uterine scarring ie Asherman Syndrome. If you read her post closely you will see that after taking the hormonal drugs as well as the gin, she started bleeding normally and heavily. If she had Asherman Syndrome, she'd have to have surgery first to correct it and wouldn't start bleeding normally until after surgery. I think it's most likely hormonal. With Asherman Syndrome, she'd also most likely be experiencing painful menstrual cramps which she isn't.

Anonymous said...

U people should shut up u hear, when someone says the truth, the person is called judgina.. The poster is just stupid, u aborted the first time and u still dey straff without condom.. They say experience is the best teacher, but Mumu poster had to repeat the same mistake all over. You people just can't stand the truth, rubbish. Continue fuvking raw oo

Anonymous said...

Spot on my sister, leave them stupid bitches to ruin them lives.. U all should continue chanting judge Judy. Just remember some mistakes can never be corrected.

Anonymous said...

She is lucky she hasn't lost her womb sef, continue ooo

Anonymous said...

Oh you people should shut up with the holy art thou, judgina, judge Judy,he that is without sin and it likes.. So we shouldn't say the truth again? Let's say the truth so that other wise set of Bvs can learn..

Anonymous said...

U r stupid, which all? Don't ever generalise u hear. Wise people learn from the mistakes of others, play safe,fuck safe.. I have never had an abortion and I'm happily married.. Oya call me judgina.

Mama Afrika said...

Stop taking those nonsense recommendations. Forgive yourself and ask God to forgive you because it seems the guilt of abortion is making you very worried about a minor issue. This could happen to anybody, even those who have never done a D&C. I advise you visit a good gynaecologist and express your fears.

Mama Afrika said...

Yes you should tell your fiance. A man that loves you wil stick with your flaws and past mistakes!

SHAKITI BABY said...

Madam,no cause for alarm.
you will give birth IJN.
Mine wqs even worse cos i was taking every every and yet no result.
Am nursing my second baby.

zinny uwalaka said...

Stop all these rubbish commemts biko. Insulating like na you holy pass. Ogini. If God comes now will u make heaven be sincere? Cursing her has gained you free ticket to hell fire. Do u still remember the prostitute story in the bible. Throw the first stone to the house if you are without sin ngwa! We humans can judge people over their mistakes meanwhile na our own bad pass.my dear sister for awhile avoid drugs. What you need now is Jesus Christ. Tell him how sorry you are. Renew your mind if it means fasting pls do it. Speak right words into your menses. There is power in the tongue. Life and death lies in it. Be positive and sees things change. When you surrendered totally to God he takes full charge of situations. Nothing is beyond God OK. Go on a break biko
This might be the way God wants to save you from further destructions
Holier than thou oya chop me raw with insults

doctor samba said...

Usually patients with Ashermans must have had the basal layer of the myometrium traumatized leading to healing with fibrosis(adhesions),now the symptoms the patient presents with depend on the site and extent of the fibrosis(scarring),if, for example it is at the cervix,patient may have amenorrhea I.e absent menstruation with cramps,if only patches of the womb however are affected,patient may have reduced volume of menses(oligomenorrhoea);hence the classification of Asherman into :mild,moderate and severe.from the foregoing,she had repeated uterine trauma following which her hitherto normal menstrual cycle changed as she described.I still think she most likely has Moderate Asherman syndrome from the history.Though I must add that my opinion is not a substitute for a visit to the gynaecologist,that is why suggested she saw one.

Miss Ferragamo said...

Judge Judy

Nikita said...

Pls stop using felting, abeg. Paracetamol is beta

Star said...

It's expected.. don't be scared. But please be careful and don't take it excessively because of the risk of Nsaid induced PUD.

Anonymous said...

Madam poster I hate ur type..always paranoid and worried about unserious things..U are d type dat complain of not having a boyfriend and even cry about it...And if u manage to be TTC after one week of marriage,u will start panicking..
Give urself a break..haba..which kain person u be? D fact Dat u had an abortion which changed ur cycle doesn't mean u have fertility issues..
U expect ur period to be d same after getting pregnant and aborting a baby? Of course there should be a change which Is normal..
D issue is not about seeing ur menses but ovulating..If u are ovulating very fine then stop bothering urself..
I have d same menstrual cycle as urs..I can use one pad for a whole day..my menses comes in drops which hasn't affected my ovulations.

Don't u dare tell ur fiance about ur abortions..U will live to regret it tomorrow..I wonder what is wrong with u women that run off to tell their men their secrets..Are u all doing it for them to see u all as honest people? Did ur man tell u about d girls he got pregnant and forced to have an abortion? Borrow urself a brain and stop acting dumb..

U don't need to go to d hospital cos nothing is wrong with u..I had d same ish years back when I did my first DC..it changed my menstrual cycle..I stopped having cramps and my periods started flowing for few days..Yet i'm still as fertile as.I'm married with a child and baby no 2 is on d way...Stop drinking dat small stout.leave ur body d way it is..Since u have a fiance,why don't u gbensh him raw on ur ovulation and see if u can get pregnant..afteral u will soon marry him..

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Remember why you held on for so long in the first place*

D'Royalty (STELLA'S BLOG BFF) monkey no fine but rich people like am. said...

Poster don't confess anything to him. There is nothing wrong with you. Don't ever do it. Even if he hears from your friend(yes, friends betray) or the doctor who did it, deny it with plenty cry cry. He might not leave you if you confess but he will use it against you for the rest of your life. Any little misunderstanding, he will cuss you with it, if you don't give birth on time or have complications during childbirth, he will cuss you with it, if his business does not do well, he will say it is your past abortions that caused it and so on. Meanwhile, he might have impregnated some girls in the past and asked them to abort but he will never tell you. No woman should confess her past sins to a man, confess to God alone.

Anonymous said...

I understand what you've just said. Like you said, one of the hallmarks of Asherman Syndrome is cessation or reduction in outflow of menstrual blood which can usually only be corrected by surgery supplemented with hormonal treatments to regenerate the lining of the womb. This lady in question, has observed changes to her flow ( which isn't actually an unusual following a termination, miscarriage or pregnancy). Changes can occur to the length, duration and quantity of menustral flow without signaling any medical problems. Now, this lady's menstrual flow, following hormonal treatment and without any surgical intervention, resumed as normal- it became heavy. Her flow responded to hormonal treatment and was able to regenerate new uterine lining growth without any surgery. This makes me believe that her issue may be hormonal or she may not even have an issue at all... and if it is Asherman Syndrome, it's probably a very mild case.

Anonymous said...

Are you are!!! Yes we all make mistakes but make we try dey borrow ourselves some brain biko.

Dauntless Cersei said...

Herein lies the solution....poster please follow this advice to the letter. He/she just said it all. Anxiety sef dey cause hormonal imbalance.

You never marry, you don begin find pikin...SMH

Dauntless Cersei said...

Am sure this judge Judy sef dey straff random guys without protection, Na your type dey fear pregnancy pass HIV.

Please having an abortion is better than bringing children into the world to suffer. There are people who have had as many as 7 abortions and still had plenty kids after marriage. So all you judginas shld STFU

Anonymous said...

Don't confess anything. Throughout the course of your adult life, you will experience such changes. My period now is different from before I had babies, and my period before I had babies was different from when I started my periods.
Just do tests to ascertain that there is no infection. Go to Elegbeleye specialist hospital, ketu. They are small but good.

Dauntless Cersei said...

So she should wallow in self pity cos she made a mistake? We are seeking solution here people

Dauntless Cersei said...

Poster please buy Fertilaid and start taking it tomorrow morning... Then wait till after wedding, if no show after 6 months then you and hubby can go see a gynecologist and pls keep capice about the abortions in front of hubby. If you like go and be forming miss honest, then you will come here and write chronicles of how e no epp you

ukwu dimond said...

poster you need to talk to God, i believe there is nothing too big for our God to handle, you will be fine. do not tell your boo yet until he ask you.

doctor samba said...

I understand your point @ anon.16:49,if she came to my consulting room I'd consider Asherman as a differential diagnosis among other possibilities.but thanks for the civility displayed,we all want to help a patient and do her no harm...

Ola Modupe said...

Don't worry too much about it. Since you have confessed and sorry for the abortion.God will forgive, I used to have very tiny flow too immediately after marriage. But now I have a beautiful daughter although it took a year and 2 months to conceive. Put all your trust in God you will surely obtain God's mercy

Anonymous said...

The abortion I had over 20yrs ago is still hunting me.Ladies please say no to premarital sex and abortion.

Tush baby said...

The truth is bitter. Stupid mofos Countinue applauding evil

Tush baby said...

Ihe ojo gbaa afo Oburu omenala....

Anonymous said...

My dear as a medical student I've come across stories like this while doing my obstetrics clinical. I'll advise u to visit a good gynaecologist immediately and narrate all these your experiences. From my knowledge u're stepping into what they call Asherman's syndrome which comprises of the following 1)infertility 2) oligomenorrhoea(scanty menses) 3) uterine synechiae. (pls check up d meaning and read it up) I don't mean to scare u dear. But then from d scanty menses, most times after some years d menses stop totally. U hv to see an experienced and qualified gynaecologist. 2012 is a long time ago and slowly some adhesions may be going on in ur reproductive tract

Blossom said...

Stop the alcoholic drink and the drugs to start with. See another gynae and let him run tests on you. The length or how scanty your cycle is doesn't really matter.

I'm guessing the problem is hormonal or even no problem at all but to be very sure,run those test. If you want to make a confession,pls tell God alone as noone is perfect as your fiance also has committed things he isn't proud of as well.

There is nothing wrong with you poster so pls,dont create problems where there is none. I wish you well.

Anonymous said...

Ur also a stupid mother Fucker bitch. How dare you????@@@BiaBia

Anonymous said...

Guys are you seeing your kids future mums?I pity any guy who marries a girl who isn't a virgin.Useless generation

Anonymous said...

She don kill the 2 good children,n.a. winch she go born now

Anonymous said...

CHAI!!! Lord Jesus save ur sons 4rm d clutches of d daughters of jezebel. 2 abortions!? Men r suffering o! D person I pity is d poor fellow dt is abt 2 marry u. In his mind, im don c beta person nt knowing he's abt 2 enta 1 chance. Women & their secrets. I fear una next 2 God. Sista u really need Jesus. u r on ur own. Beta go & c a gud gynecologist 2 evaluate ur reproductive system & beta pray dt everything is fyn. If u can still trace d doc dt gave u those drugs, do so & get d name. Hweva dnt 4gt dt wteva a man/woman soweth, dt he/she shall reap. Get ready 2 reap d reward 4 ur bad choices. It's nt a question of if;it's a question of when it wld happen. Karma wldnt be fair if it frees u.

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Awesomeness said...

Poster... go for HSG test.It could be that the opening of the cervix has become very narrow due to the scar from the D&C.But do that when you ve tried to conceive for like 3mnths.All the best.

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