Monday In House News

Beautiful Monday Morning ''Innit''?..*Cockney accent*
*Side eyes at CookiesAndCream*

Who is this pretty BVN?

FACES OF IHN SAY

Hi sweet Stella, I am a regular,drama free, blog visitor but not popular like queen and boss. who popular epp sef?

So, i've Been seeing beautiful faces on IHN, and as a fine Woman that I is nau, I decided to send mine... Keep up the good work, I love you mami. 

P. S: if you like my brows I can teach you for free.

BV Chinwe

*Rolling my eyes*I love you too..how do i get your kinda brows?abeg other BV's make una try mind una bizness inugo?



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Stella Nwunye Korkus,

My name is Obioma Oluchi, also known as OliviaOlives,

I'm ardent reader and  lover of this blog.

I hope I qualify as The Face of IHN,

 Keep up the good work Stells, may God richly bless you.

Kizzez.

Obioma i love your face....



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APPRECIATION FOR GIVEAWAY

Good afternoon ma'am.

I want to really ‎ appreciate the kind hearted BV who blessed me so much this morning.

Stella,she gave me N5,000‎,an ankara material,1/4 bag of rice and vegetable oil,isn't she nice?

May God bless you my helper,and bless all that concerns you in Jesus name‎.

I promise to use the money to start up in making liquid soap,since job no dey,make I create job for myself,i now have capital,yipee.

Stella,God bless you too,since I came to know your "our"‎ blog 4 years ago,i've been blessed richly.

Thank you.

Bv- Brown Sucre.

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DnC BROUHAHA

Stella nwa biko help me post this on your blog for the last time.

Dear All,

Thanks to all your sweet response, I can’t stop laughing at them all; you are made my day on Thursday and removed a big burden from my life. I read all comment for your information, Dear Stella please make a column for doctor’s in house section, Thanks.

Every day of my life I wish I kept my babies but whenever I look back I thank God I didn’t because they would’ve suffered more than I did.

I was 24 years old when all this happened, I don’t think you expect me not to have a relationship not to talk about having sex. I never believed I had a boyfriend then because in my wildest imaginations I would never had thought I won’t marry my boyfriend then.

I actually thought we were in love then but it turned out I was actually in love alone. We have been dating since I was 19, and started having sex when I turned 20. He wasn’t my age mate he was older than me with 4 years, so you see I made the right choice and thought he was mine. I have always been a careful person; everybody around me can testify to that, that was why I stick to him alone thinking I was doing the right thing.

I was on pill all through our sexual life and was so devastated when I found out I was pregnant even with the pill. Heaven would bear my witness how I wished to keep my baby but he said no because I was going to bring shame to his parent who are very religious people. Who do you expect me to keep the baby for? My widow mum who is trying to feed herself or for myself who can’t even brag about her next day meal. 

(How I wished my mum was buoyant like his mum she would have embraced that baby because she love my then boyfriend so much and love me, she would have listened to me and asked me what I wanted and was going to support me) but no I couldn’t tell her knowing it will kill my precious mum, putting me to shame the rest of my life plus having an innocent child suffer for what he or she didn’t ask for. So I had to opt for DnC after much consideration.

In the midst of consoling me about his regret that he asked me to abort our baby with so many promises to be a better boyfriend/husband he slide in between my legs again, at the time I was just recovering from the shock of been pregnant and aborting it, immediately after the sex I took pill and did everything humanly possible not to get pregnant again. It was just once my people you know when the devil is at your case any little thing can be problematic (lol). That was how I got pregnant again, this time I refused to tell him so that by the time I was far gone it will be too late for him to suggest abortion but he caught me in the midst of hiding it. Thank God he didn’t deny it but he actually abandoned me when I refused to abort it (so painful). Everybody around him intervened and gave me a reason why I shouldn’t hold him down with my pregnancy as if I did it alone, that was how I went for the second abortion. Immediately after it I called off the relationship and sealed my legs, if not I would have lost count of the number of abortion I would have done for him.

I am not writing this to seek pity because whenever I look back I thank God for bringing me out of that bondage, duo I lost my babies as I use to call them but I didn’t lose my worth. It would have been so painful to see my babies suffer for my carelessness, you don’t know what pain is until you see your children cry for what you can’t give them. My mum suffered to raise me and my sibling duo I lost my dad; I knew what hardship was from teenage age, my mum did her best to give us the best. (Story for another day). So I don’t regret letting go of my babies.

I am ready to have them now that why I’m worried, I believe in problem shared is half solved. I will be vising a gynecologist soonest for all the necessary test and I pray it comes out positive. If not for not trusting human I would told my fiancée but hell no, I’m a lady it will always turn against me in future. Thumbs up to all the ladies who got my back.

I have forgiven myself and I believe God has forgiven me too.

Thanks all.

See you soon with my wedding photos plus babies’ pictures.

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CAR NEEDED IF IT IS CHEAP

Hi Stella, I throwey salute for the wonderful work you doing. God bless...
Please I would have sent in this mail since but work has kept me too busy and i also had to exhaust all my options.  My wife is heavy and there is need for a second car now so I want you to please use your platform to help me plead with my fellow BVs if dey have a Toyota corolla or Toyota matrix that's in very good condition and my budget is 800-900k. Please the car has to be very neat with AC & every other thing in good working condition.I live in Abj but if any comes up in Lagos I can also deal too. Please Angels on the blog I need you all to help a brother. 
Cookies n Cream on my bill stellastica Nose-tradamus of lyf. My email is Agubata007@gmail.com

Cookies and cream?lol


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CANADIAN DOLLARS TO NAIRA

Hi Stella,

I really enjoy reading your blog! Its very mature and entertaining. I saw a message recently about someone who wants canadian dollars for naira and I am interested because I am relocating to canada in January. I can be contacted on  0816 972 1015.

Regards

Ms Johnson

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GIVEAWAY ANGEL SCREAMS OUT

Hello Stella 
Last week was my first time posting a giveaway, I must say, I'm overwhelmed. Till now I'm still getting messages from people. I'm tired of responding that it's finished. They've all been picked.
How do you do it on a daily basis? OmG. You are a hero oh, incase you didn't know. Kai. All those people who call to insult you for one reason or the other are mad I swear,coz na full time job plus extra hours you dey so. More grease to your elbow maami. You are one hell Of a woman!

LMAO...This mail sweet me well well and its obvious why..hehehehehhe


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SINGLES MINGLES FEEDBACK

Hello stella boo,how you doing (in Wendy Williams voice) .ABeg make una help me table this matter oh .....I decided to send this to you after the post on feedbacks on the last SnM.

    I decided to try the last SnM you did for single parents/divorcees ,I didn't do It for myself ,I stated in the comment section i was doing it for my elder sister who just turned 34 and has an 8years old daughter.I didn't put up her number cos she told me to do the screening first,so I added my own phone number.so a few guys added me up which all of them is underaged except one Eddie guy like that who said he stays in festac.so I did all the neccessary intro on behalf of my sister which he reciprocated too nicely.

He sounded like a really nice guy,good looking and polite.I didnt waste time in giving him my sister's number ,cos I liked him already.I was always doing a daily rountine check on my sister to know how it was going with them and she always says very fine.so they decided to meet last week ,but he said he wasn't bouyant enough to host my sister and my sister wasn't too ,so they had to postpone to this Wednesday.


when my sister got back she gave me a little gist about him which I started having a wrong impression about him.Note that she went all the way from lekki to festac oh,she doesn't drive and he does .she said when she got to festac ,they met at a fast-food joint, after little chatting he asked her what she would like to eat,she told him and  he said she should go to the centre and order,she stood up and went there and he didn't follow her.hmmm my sister ordered and he still didn't stand up.As a sharp warri girl that she is ,she told the lady at the canter politely so she wouldn't say no, could you please take my food to the table I need to use the rest room.she said she was in the toilet counting the ceiling for 5min,when she was sure he must have paid she came out.she said he started asking her question like how many clothes does she make in a month (she's a fashion designer ),does she make up to #1million or took monthly ,she said she wasn't comfortable with the questions but she answered him she was still on a small level.He also told her u loves to test ladies alot to really know the kind of person they are ,also that he doent take girls to his house cos once he does that they start to feel like a wife.hmmmmm

    The next morning he told my sister to please lend him 20k that he needed to send it to someone urgently  and his own online banking isn't going through, that he was going to refund my sister bac,that he thought he could ask his girlfriend for assistant and she wont oblige, My sister said she doesn't have up to get amount in the account she does online banking with and he said she should please go to the bank and withdraw and send to the person my sister still insisted she doesn't have . Why would a guy ask a lady for money after first meeting ?did my sister over react by saying she wasn't seeing him again,cos I also told her to forget him .

I guess she met one of the broke ass who hangs around the singles mingles forum.Once a man starts to ask for money like that shamelessly,it becomes obvious what he is up to nau.


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TAILOR NEEDED

Stella dear please i urgently need a tailor who can use industrial sewing machine perfectly well for a job in Elekahia Portharcourt. Please the person must live within Elekahia axis or willing to come to Elekahia everyday with ease.Its a side job for tailors you can come in the mornings or at night whichever one you prefer.Male or female. 08155829143

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TTC POST 71 WRITES IN

Hi Stella,

I just want to say thank you to you and all BVs who congratulated and wished me well. Amen, thank you so much all. Me and my hubby are extremely happy and thankful to God everyday for this amazing gift and for choosing us. I can't put into words how greatful we are. 

To those of us who are now  pregnant i pray that we will all carry our babies till full term as this is God's baby , he will protect our babies from evil spirit or any form if harm. Our babies will be delivered healthy and alive.

To those still waiting on God , God will visit each and every one of you soon, your mother gave birth to you and so you too shall birth your child. I wish you guys best of luck and remember     
NEVER GIVE UP, God is listening.

Baby dust to you all.

Thanks again Stella for posting my testimony. God bless you real good :)

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MOTHERHOOD JOURNEY TO ENCOURAGE SOMEONE

Hi Stella,

I have been on my journey to motherhood for some years now and having arrived my "destination" safely, I would like to share my experience on the things I found "along the way". I believe my experience will encourage someone who might be going through the path I went through on my journey.

I got married in December 2008 and have always wanted to have children. I thought I'd start the process early in other to stop early too; so I ensured my wedding was fixed at the same time with my December 2008 ovulation days. I had everything planned out as if I owned my life!

In January 2009, I was pregnant! Me and DH were over the moon. We announced it immediately as we couldn't contain our joy. Two months later (at 10wks gestation in March 2009), I noticed some spotting so rushed to the hospital and a scan was done immediately. The doctor quietly said "Im afraid there's no heartbeat, you may have had a miscarriage, I'm so sorry for the loss". Those words broke my heart and my hubby practically nursed me back to health. Tests were carried out on the "products" and the results showed no reason for the loss. We had to move on.

In August 2009, I fell pregnant again and I thought, "this is it" as I had done loads of fasting and praying after the first loss. I had faith that the second pregnancy was going to make me a mum but at exactly 10 weeks gestation, the spotting began and it was another miscarriage. Another heartbreak! My plan of having kids immediately after marriage was being dashed. Again, tests were run but nothing was found.

In February 2010, I was pregnant again. This time, we kept it quiet. Carried on past the usual fearful first trimester and had a 12wks scan. Things were going well and at almost 5 months (18 weeks gestation), spotted again and I quickly called the hospital who scanned and confirmed no heartbeat! This time I almost went mad! Again, test results showed nothing wrong. I kept asking questions but no one had any answer for me.

In 2011, I tried again and fell pregnant. I was assigned to a medical team early enough for close monitoring and things seemed to be going well. I walked on "egg shells" daily until it was time for the usual 20wks scan to know the gender and Boom, another shocker! The foetus had an inter uterine growth restriction. What does that even mean? I was referred to a foetal growth consultant who found out that the foetus was struggling to get nutrients and oxygen. "What do we do"? I asked and she said, "it might be a little too late at this stage". My heart was being broken again! At 26weeks (almost 7 months), the foetus couldn't go on. I had to be induced for the still birth. I felt my life paused for a while.

My faith was damaged! I stopped praying as I couldn't get my head around what's going on. Everyone had an opinion about my situation. Some People judged me, others pitied!! I felt helpless and hopeless. My body changes, weight fluctuation kept reminding me of the losses. How I got over that loss? I don't even know.

Four months after the stillbirth, I fell pregnant for the fifth time in 2012. Things were going well. It was a boy this time. At 18wks gestation, I had a ruptured membrane and that was how we lost that pregnancy.

I went through 2 more early pregnancy losses in 2013/2014.

For the first five years of my marriage, I went through 7 pregnancy losses! I was ready to walk out of the marriage so DH can be free to meet someone else. I considered surrogacy as I wasn't ready to go through another heartbreak. I was done getting pregnant. But hubby kept encouraging and reassuring me that everything will be fine.

We took a break for two years! No trying for any pregnancy. I wanted a breath of fresh air. I wanted to enjoy my marriage! I wanted to build my career. I stopped talking about pregnancy. I was scarred. I hated TV programs on pregnancy. I walked away from people who discussed pregnancy. I was damaged emotionally! I withdrew from the social scene as my issue was the subject of discussions.

At the same time, I asked God to heal me. Gradually my faith was building up. I got a new job and my work environment magically brought out my usual bubbly self. I had hope again. Hope kept me going.

In December 2015, I fell pregnant. This time, I just told God "It's over to you". For some reason, I was convinced everything will be fine. I carried this pregnancy with confidence that it will end in praise! I was blessed with a perfectly healthy pregnancy! No morning sickness, no complication! Just like a dream, God rewrote my story! Each time I go for a scan, my medical team was wowed at how fine things were going. I carried full term and gave birth normally to a perfectly healthy girl on 29/08/2016.

Now I look back and I knew I couldn't have made it this far without God and a wonderful hubby! Remember my open letter to him during our fifth wedding anniversary? It was inspired by his love and support throughout our trying time. I'm glad I married my friend!

Many thanks for reading me. I hope someone will be encouraged by my story; and never give up on themselves. It will end in praise!

Regards,

Lilian aka POLA

Pola congratulationsssss

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I need the help of an anonymous bv on Friday's IHN

Stella, I love your blog, it keeps one sane in this harsh

economy. Pls an anonymous made a comment on Friday's IHN about a sales

girl job in Lekki phase 2 where the pay is 40k with accommodation. Pls

I want the bv to send the address to me. I'm interested. I'm dying

slowly at home, pls a good sales girl job like that in Lagos will put

food on my table. Thank you. emmykate4love@gmail.com.


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EXPERIENCED TAILOR WANTED

 i urgently need a tailor who can use industrial sewing machine perfectly well for a job in Elekahia Port harcourt. Please the person must live within Elekahia axis or willing to come to Elekahia everyday with ease.Its a side job for tailors you can come in the mornings or at night whichever one you prefer.Male or female. 08155829143

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ADVICE TO PARENTS

Hi Stella bae, please post this in IHN . Am a 23 years old female who has and is still suffering the effect of a dysfunctional home. The recent one happened this afternoon. I was in the kitchen with Mum, when Dad came and was shouting a lot of stuffs and I ‎was just in between both of them. Tears rolled down my eyes cos since I was born, I have never seen my parents show love to each other. Am just the only reason why they are still together.


 I grew up seeing Dad hitting Mum and I started hating men generally. I tend to shout on every guy at the slightest opportunity and I got scared of marriage. That's little about me. Here is the advice, please no matter how upset you are with your spouse do not display in front of your kids.

 Go into your closet and settle your differences and leave the kids in peace cos, they watch and learn from you. Dysfunctional homes have psychological effect on the kids. Am the only child so I cry alone. God bless you Stella.  

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GIVEAWAY

Hi Madam Stella,
Trust you and your family are doing great. Please I have these books for giveaway to parents who are really in need of it for their kids. Some are two because my nephews are two and books were bought differently. Contact me on olapetanpetty@gmail.com, pickup is Ibadan (Ringroad precisely).

I also have this shoe for a November birthday girl as I'm also a November celebrant. Brown shoe, size 36 and never wore as the shoe is not my size.

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VACANCY

Hi Stella, Please Post. A law firm in Abuja  is in need of a Secretary, interested Candidates should forward their CV's to excel4sure@gmail.com

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VACANCY

Good day Stella,

Please help me post this on Monday IHN, a fashion home is in need of an experienced tailor for immediate employment, Must already know how to some w,‎and live around illasan,Jakande,igbo efon or Chervon Lekki Lagos....for proximity sake..Please call blessing on 09023455359 or 07081381620 

(Blessing is male)

Thanks.

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WIG MAKER NEEDED IN WARRI

I am looking for a good wig maker in warri that can make a good unit for me (must know how to lay closure properly)

Please I dont want mgbeke looking type of wig biko. Plus you have to be very affordable in this buhari regime.

Kindly contact me on mehumble4@gmail.com. Thanks.

Kisses to you You Stella. God bless

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VACANCIES

Good day Stellz, 

I have a massive teaching recruitment going on which I would want the SDK followers to enjoy.

These are the categories‎;

Are you 18 to 45 years of age and you have passion for teaching? You can earn extra income working for us as a Tutor.

Vacancies exist in the following categories :

Mathematics( Nursery and Primary)

English( Nursery and Primary)

Mathematics( Secondary( WASSCE/GCE/NECO/UME))

Literature in English

Further Mathematics

English (Secondary(WASSCE/GCE/NECO/UME))

SAT

IGCSE

TOEFL

GMAT

A-LEVEL

Physics(WASSCE/GCE/NECO/UME))

Chemistry(WASSCE/GCE/NECO/UME))

Financial Accounting ((WASSCE/GCE/NECO/UME))

Technical Drawing

Music

French

Cursive Handwriting 

Being conversant with the British/American curriculum will be an added advantage.

Minimum requirement: SSCE

Send your CV to info@mayowaalausa.com with your subject area as the heading. Eg Mathematics(Nursery and Primary).

N.B : Job is basically between 4pm to 8pm and also on weekends.

only short listed applicants will be contacted.

Job Location: Lagos for now

Thanks so much in anticipation

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MAKEUP GIVEAWAY

A very good day to you sweet Stella. Missed some days on your blog because I was tied up on stuffs and church again. I'm back now.please

I want to give 10 lagos bvs the opportunity to do their traditional marriage and white wedding makeup for 20k. 

Between now and 1st 2weeks of December. Provided all would hold in Lagos or neighboring states. God bless u Stella. No cookies and cream today? My bbm contact is 7efa9c77

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ON A LIGHTER MOOD

A stressed man was in his office tinking deeply wen a man runs inside shouting 'Peter, ur daughter Tonia just had an accident and died. Confused, he jumps out the window! As soon as he does, he remembers his office is on the 7th floor. 

As he descends lower, he remembers he doesn't have a daughter called Tonia. Still descending, he remembers he's not even married..just 2 floors before hit the ground, he remembers his name's not even Peter.

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SIGNING OUT......