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Saturday, October 29, 2016

The Shocker...

You are Sitting at Home on a Beautiful weekend thinking about your Boyfriend/girlfriend and how good and peaceful things have been between you both and how you cant wait for them to return from the Business trip .........and then your phone rings.......







Nothing Prepared you for this News because both of you have been dating Exclusive...
Has anyone been in this Situation before?
Did you Confront this person Physically or on the phone?
How was the confrontation?


260 comments:

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    1. Hmmm. Couch couch.

      If it happens to me..

      Hmmm. See why queen said don't put all your eggs in the same basket.

      Anyway, even in the for example, it cannot be me

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    2. Me too! I Have never experienced it

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    3. Happened to my girl friend. They dated. She visited. Spent weekends with him. Snooped!
      Dude still married his baby mama she never knew he had. He even called her on d said day to say "I love u"
      #yorubademon

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    4. It happened to me...

      Two occasions. I was dating this Portharcourt boy, long distance though. Then one Saturday, my friend sends me his wedding pictures. I almost died.

      Another guy, port harcourt guy as well did the same to me! He posted a picture of him wearing his wedding band.

      Lesson learnt: Do not trust port harcourt men!

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    5. It happened to my cousin, she even slept in his place the night to her wedding. That was very serious. Things are happening and may that never be our portion in jesus name Amen.

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    6. Bel, twice?
      Hmmmm, your own Don pass be careful...
      Biko, go and wash your head
      Hian!!

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    7. Ha! Happened to me. Mine told me he wanted to study for an exam so phone calls won't be as frequent as before. Found out he was getting married to his pregnant gf he just met, found out after I called his mum to do my normal monthly phone call gist. It was a 9year relationship, a distant relationship for some part of the relationship. He was my first bf.
      I never confronted him, I just added his contact to my blocked list, fell ill for a while, got busy and got myself back up. I hope he has a good life
      I am still working on myself, trying to learn to love and trust again, I have being single ever since this happened(2years ago) I can't come and go and kill my self and die for another human specie called man Biko! I am more interested in geting a better job, buying my father his faviourite ride; benz.
      I get lonely sometimes though, I get comfort from the love I get from my family. lol they comfort me with the ' you are still young' talk # am just 26

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  2. Chai stella right post cos I'm so bored.. What a Saturday. Story time.

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  3. Pineapple smoothie and Cashew nut handy.

    Amma read and troll

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  4. Am solely here for comments.....

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  5. Something like this happened to a friend of mine. They both stay In Lagos. That very day she was on her way to Ibadan when her cousin told her to come back home that he wants to show her something, that he will take her back to Ibadan himself. Just for her to get back home, got dressed and followed her cousin to her fiancΓ©e's engagement party.

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    1. Mine wasn't as serious. I went to a mutual friend's house and saw the invitation card on the centre table. The wedding was the next day and the mutual friend was a groom's man. He claimed he didn't know the guy and I were an item *yimu* Dude text me that he was rushing off to another state for business. Meanwhile he had gotten my ticket to come visit him his state of residence and formed 'see you tmr' things - cos I stayed at my cousin's. Formed he couldn't pick me from airport cos so he would do transfer and I could take a cab and he would take me out for dinner after work. Transfer was more than 'caB fare-ish' amount. Okay. Dinner time. Emergency had to go to xx branch please just chill take yourself out and I'd be back by Saturday or Sunday latest. 'Our plant caught fire in one of our branches'. Obviously trying to buy time.
      This was Thursday. By Friday I found what the 'plant' was cos the mutual friend asked me to come for lunch at his place and was frantically saying he needs to catch a flight to the east for a wedding. In retrospect, I think he knew and wanted to tell me somehow cos the invitation card was hidden under some newspapers so my friend (who accompanied me to mutual friends place) and I were going through one after the other while the chef made lunch. And at the very bottom of the magazine holder was the invitation.
      I was a little younger than 20 so that incident made me learn very fast. Didn't even date again. I will just chop money and clean mouth. Although I became very money conscious. If you're not a certain kind of guy even 'hi' won't support your 'hello' cos i know it's just your money I will chop. I started feeling guys are heartless and selfish. I still think so though 😏

      Idiot started texting me on Monday. I didn't even reply till today

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    2. Ideato I'm good oh! That was what? Like 8 years ago.... πŸ™„ I'm soooo good 😊

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    3. Chikito is a pro! Runs babe to d highest order, u can't tell me that u chop and clean mouth without the giving ur body to the guy. Some girls with lies ehh! How do u girls sleep at night with so much lies on your lineage?

      Krix via iPhone 6s Gold.

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    4. So which one is ' it wasn't as serious'

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  6. Lol,it hasn't happened to me,BT I knw DT she would love to do this,she is dis wicked, watching........

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  7. I'll quickly dress up and rush to the wedding venue. I'll make sure the groom sees me. I'll snap enough pictures with the couple, I'll be everywhere, moving around, that my bf/ groom will be so uncomfortable at his own wedding(cos he will be thinking I'm up to something not good at all) that he would wish the wedding should come to an end.

    After the wedding, I'll go spiritual on the couple.

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    1. He wouldn't wish all of these. He'll just send his friends to monitor u

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    2. Hahahahahahahaahaha what if they are spiritual too

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    3. Lmao @ you'd go spiritual on them. Abeg no one is worth you going to the dark side. You jumped a bullet anyway cos for someone to do something like that, he/she can kill. I'd just cry, take ice-cream, cry again then seek solace in God. U ku

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  8. This kind of situation arise when a girl can't be trusted as wife because she has been giving sex; like the kind of narrator of yesterday.

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    1. Guys experience it too so does it mean they have been giving too blokos?

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    2. Will you keep quiet there my friend!

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    3. Who told you?
      Be looking there, you no know say na de sex giving ones de marry pass

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  9. olormaje ooo.... biko let me read comments

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  10. My husband has been in this situation before he told me he went "mad" when he called the girl she told him his wife is still in the wombπŸ‘€ At the end sha she came back to beg.

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    1. from her response it means he was playing her and girl doesnt have time to wait

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    2. His wife still in the womb.. Lmaooooo. Gawd... Height of badt mouth

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  11. Oturugbeke!
    I remember the story of how a gurl invited her boyfrnd to come pound yam on her introduction with another guy, the guy ate after pounding believing that his gurlfrnd's mum is hosting her frnds, only for his frnd to call him and said, 'guy you dey fuckup big time why u gho dey pound yam for ur babe intro with another guy'?
    I will never lose guard mbok, my ears dey every where.

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    1. See devil in human form.

      He didn't pound her head?

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    2. Hahahahahahahaahaha idonbelivit

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚. Chai!

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  12. Dear Ruth,

    This is about to happen to you.
    As a fellow woman I wish I could let you know.

    My fiancee is fucking you cuz I resolved to close my legs like a mermaid. Each time you call him he cuts your calls cuz he is with me.

    I wish I could spill girl, so we could fry his ass. I'm just not sure you'll take it well.

    I'm the snoop queen so I know you've been fucked four times. Ever wonder why you are not given access to him at weekends?

    Ever wonder why he won't hang out with you or introduce you to his family and friends?

    Unless you don't mind and your just fucking for free, I hope you don't loose your mind when he relocates and disappears without a trace

    In the meantime ama sit back and watch the drama unfold!

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    1. You better spill and fry his ass together...

      Before e go do you like film trick when the guy go marry the Ruth leave you.
      Some men don't settle with women they haven't 'tasted', they can be silly like that.

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    2. Please do not fail to inform us when the drama finally unfolds....rme*

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    3. You are feeling cool that your fiance is cheating on you?

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    4. Dear Ruth,
      Why you dey sleep on top toothpick? 😭
      Dear anon 14:11,
      Do you know if Ruth is in a serious relationship and just need that your man as a side boo ? to service the engine so there won't be any case of engine knock. Maybe his cassava got undiluted liquid starch like tekno's own .πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Dear world people,
      Come and judge this matter eh !!

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    5. If my sister had your low self esteem, I will personally reconfigure her brain? What da f--'?? Are you this cheap? You know "your" man is banging another chic and you're still with him! Even teasing some other girl with it. You're the loser here. She'd only end up being heart broken, and then move on with her life, but in your own case, you're stuck with this fucking cheat for life! Let me watch you tease another chic when he marries you. Your low self-esteem in this case shows you're dependent on him. Get up and get a life. I wonder how men even date girls like you.

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    6. Lol...Ruth doesn't mind but you sure do...take heart.

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    7. Please dont settle for the devil when you can have an angel. Dont ever think its just Ruth their maybe another sarah out there.
      Use your tongue to count your teeth cos he will continue in marriage.

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    8. Lol...I'm having same experience, I don't even want to kill masef unto man case. Let d lady continue opening legs while I continue to plan my intro with my nigga.

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    9. Stop feeling like one main chick, sister girl. You've been played

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    10. So you want to still marry the public blokos? Don't write chronicles oo

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    11. And you are happy to marry a cheat. Wonderful.

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    12. So you're feeling cool with yasef as per main chic wey you be abi? You're comfortable with him fucking all sorts and at the end of the day you'll answer 'Mrs'.. Something is wrong with you.

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    13. Wait!!! Hope this is not true, how can he do this to me. I love him and I was hoping that we will get married very soon, so I'm a side chick. Ha *sobs bitterly

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    14. Stay there and be feeling yourself. He will still continue to cheat after marriage, why? Because he has no self control. Ruth you have heard get your something to yourself.

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    15. Dear Anon 14:11,

      Duhhhhhh, of course I know.

      But he's ok in bed and he pays my bills generously....

      So when I'm done with him, you'll know, yeah?

      In the meantime boo, don't worry bout me, worry bout you. You're the one with a dog without a leash.

      Bye Girl.

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    16. Dear anon,being a wife who have been cheated on,the joke is on you girl.wake up no man is worth it.

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    17. Chai anon 14:11i swear you are the biggest mumu and i pity you.in your odeh mind he is yours shey?be there and be feeling high where as you down below,low self esteem haff finish you.

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  13. Hahahahahahahaha...d guy's face tho

    It's time for stories...bring it on!!

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  14. Chai! This can cause heart attack ooo. I haven't experienced this before and I reject it in Jesus name! AMEN!!!

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  15. Tunde Tunde your GF is the bride at this wedding o. Lol

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  16. There's no bigger heartbreak than this type oo
    But i love my naija babes and guys cos i haven't heard of anyone committing suicide cos of heartbreak!

    No matter what, you gotta move on. Life goes on!!

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    1. They don't commit suicide. Native doctors, occult, witches and wizards become their companion to destroy the fellow.

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  17. There's no bigger heartbreak than this type oo
    But i love my naija babes and guys cos i haven't heard of anyone committing suicide cos of heartbreak!

    No matter what, you gotta move on. Life goes on!!

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  18. Wow I can imagine, my boyfriend had that experience with his ex, it has really affected him emotionally

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  19. One Birdy whispered that I have gone to Anoda blog, taaaaaaaah! God forbid! Either Stella or I leave blogosphere! Stella ur cuz is back o and I missed u! I waaaaaaaaaaant bwest! Ikwakwakwakwakwa

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. oh kelvin were have you been i miss you so much dear will you marry me?

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    2. See proposal kwa kwa kwa.
      You guys will use left mouth to curse kevin and use right mouth to propose taa.
      Kevin πŸƒ 4 ur life.

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    3. Get your bwest ready for nonstop sucking

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  20. oooh! I hv but t another different way..it was so painful. ..don't wanna talk about that...#tears#

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  21. Wickedness from d very very deep pit of hell... Some people are born with evil genes,God forbid.

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  22. I left him to God to punish without remorse. I found out that he was getting married after I had been playing the faithful, serious, wife material girlfriend

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    1. Eeya pele,hope u are not making dat mistake with present boo.

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    2. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Obviously he wasn't good enough for you

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  23. I've never been in such a situation before
    So I'll just chill for comments where I can learn

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  24. I am more than qualified to speak on this because it happened to me. Long story but ama make it brief.

    I got that call from a mutual friend and just said ok. My world crashed. We were childhood sweet heart, i was away on studies while he was in Nigeria. Funny enough, we were talking marriage then, slowly until that call...
    I confronted him that night, simply asked him, time and time again, ''do u have anything to tell me?''

    He said no, kept saying no, but m sure he knew, cos d mutual friend had told le boo, he would tell me but le boo had the opportunity of telling me first before he did. part 1

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  25. Yep. Happened to me.
    Christmas 2013, I was in town for him because he asked that we spend Christmas together.
    I ignorantly was at a friend's waiting to see him that morning while he was at Enugu getting married. The bride herself e-mailed me to give me the info. I read the mail and all I could do was laugh. I just kept laughing for about 20mins as tears ran down my cheeks.
    Funny, I can say this now and not feel anything. Time does heal.

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    1. Yes honey , time heals 😘😘

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    2. Don't worry dear, God has better plans you.

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    3. Sorry dear,time doesn't do shit.We just get used to the pain.

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    4. There was this guy who was in Canada and promised to marry me,he kept calling promising his undying love for me but I had nothing intimate with him,I later met a very good guy in Nigeria who proposed and I got married but never told the Canada guy,the guy then called me 6months after my wedding telling me he is coming back to marry someone else,I thought he was joking until he came home,did traditional wedding and sent me the pic after I refused to take his calls since I was already married,I then sent him my wedding picture 2 days after he sent me his and he was more than shocked,I was wondering what would have happened to me if I hadn't married my husband hoping on Canadian suitor.hmmmm he was so heartbroken .I laughed so hard.

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  26. part 2

    Le boo never did but that night as we chatted via skype, i asked him again and again ''do u hav anything to tell me?''
    He kept saying no, finally i said, its over and you know why. I know what we both know. Its over.
    I told my parents and only a sibling. He begged, he begged, he cried, he prayed, his mum, my mum, his siblings and only that my one sibling got involved. His closest friends got involved. Mehn, twas too much, not just one person but like 3 ladies at different points once i had left Naija.

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  27. " A plate of toast and warm milk at the side."
    hahahaha ideato the jobless,sad village wanna be jobless girl forming what she's not. How sad and miserable are you that you seek relevance and attention on a blog? You are pathetic! It is trolling you want, trolling you get!

    And those of you also seeking relevance and menstruating under my comment, ideato defender should eat your shit, birds of the same feathers.Keep shut because no one ask your opinion!

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    1. White berry....your English always gives you away even under anonymous.

      Please try and get someone to type these rude comments for you when you go anonymous.

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    2. And what did ideato do to you? People have time oh to be trolling people they don't even know in real life

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    3. Thanks guys. You guys are the bestest😘😘😘😘😘😘

      My comments will continue troubling them. The only person that can change me is my ANGEL

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  28. " A plate of toast and warm milk at the side."
    hahahaha ideato the jobless,sad village wanna be jobless girl forming what she's not. How sad and miserable are you that you seek relevance and attention on a blog? You are pathetic!

    And those of you also seeking relevance and menstruating under my comment, ideato defender should eat your shit, birds of the same feathers.Keep shut because no one ask your opinion!

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  29. Kai Stella, mind yourself...my bf travelled for bizness if u see how my mind just dey run up and down...till I remembered he can't go alone to marry without his family.
    And also he sent me a message this morning...Baby please just be back na

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    1. Hahahahaha missKay, relax jor!

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    2. Lol.... *here a cold glass of H2O*

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    3. Continue calling o. Especially at night. Jes kiddin'

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    4. People get married without family these days. He can arrange some friends and a father or uncle figure. May we never be caught in a web of lies.

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    5. Be carrying man matter on top your head @miss Kay

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  30. The man must be a yeye, good for nothing fellow.

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  31. Never been in this situation, never will be

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  32. Sacrilege. Any guy that such a thing happens to is not qualified to be called a man.In fact he is a disgrace to all men around d world. It is a man dat should walk out on a girl not d other way round.

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  33. Same thing happened to my girl friend.
    Dude told her that he was going for a burial only for him to come back as a married man 😬


    My friend being a stupid n senseless girl still kept contact with the useless boy.
    SMH.

    Dude told her that he doesn't love the wife that her family forced him to marry her(the wife is from a rich home)
    The stupid girl believed him.
    She started hanging out with him, snapping pictures n posting on facebook

    It got to a point, I was angry with my friend cos I didn't know she was that daft.
    I have to school her the sdk way... I spoke sense into her although she was a "dull learner"
    She got to understand my point n moved on.
    Dude has been posting his wife and child's pics on facebook like tomorrow no dey.

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    1. Nawa oooh, things dey happen.
      She is lucky not to have married him in my own opinion

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    2. Some girls sha ? You are a good friend.

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    3. This can only happen to a useless owerri girl

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  34. May God protect us from such people.

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  35. Lol, happens mostly wen u r d side boo and u ignore d signs.

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    1. Yes, the signs are always thr...
      But sweet xxx will cloud ur thoughts.

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  36. Stella it happened to my friend live February this year
    His girlfriend was with him throughout friday only the leave the house early morning Saturday so he couldn't reach her till 7pm when she called him telling him that she just got married saying her parent pushed her into it since he wasn't ready....He was admitted for 3days
    Some men deserve it sha

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    1. Did you have to end it with that "some men deserve it sha" nonsense. Don't validate what is wrong, it doesn't matter if it makes u happy. I pray u don't lose sth of great value that is destined for u just because it hasn't manifested yet. Patience goes with love, esp if a man doesn't cheat on u, but only needs time to put things together before wifing you. Some ladies that rushed into marriage just to flash their rings have their regrets as we speak because they aren't happy. Certain things are worth waiting for, it all depends on how confident u are that u are worth the wait.

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    2. @telema. That was a wrong conclusion... Really sad..

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  37. Pls who knows one officer called Moses A. He is a major, dude be professing love to me but I just heard he is getting married in December. Someone help is this true?

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    1. Better run! Military men, God go deliver them from girls sha. I know a few of them! Long story for another day

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    2. Be there asking for the answers you know already

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  38. Part 3

    the worse thing was i was one of those girls den that w0uld say, if u cheat on me, its over. Dude knew this.

    My mum begged me so much n somehow in my heart, i knew it was him. We had been together from our late teens, uni, nysc, you name it. I heard stuff like he was acting crazy and not eating, fasting every day and shit. I mean we were talking introduction date and bride price stuff when this bombshell came out.

    I choose to forgive. I still don't know how i did it. Its so hard until you walk in that shoe. Weda it was the over 8 years we had been together, i don't know. A part of me loved him. I remember looking at him on the wedding day, he had lost soooooooooo much weight due to stress and not eating, even till date our wedding pictures are bitter sweet memory.

    I told him before i agreed to marry him, first to go for medical tests and give my mum the results, he jumped at it. We continued with the marriage plans but my people, i lost something i always had - trust. I lost that innocent puppy face love i once had. I joined the endless list of Nigerian women doing ''Mehn, don't kill yourself for any man oh!''I lost confidence, I lost me, I used to bring up the issue a lot, dude ate shit from me but he knew it was the price he had to pay. I mean we did this for 2 years or so of our marriage. In those early days, when we went away on a trip and returned and we would be having sex, i would pause before he entered me and begin to heave. I didn't know where he had gone, I tell u that was a mood killer but he understood. He would nod is head and tell me, I've done nothing, i swear then we would continue. Damn it!

    Sometimes i wonder why i married him even cos we suffered a lot in the early years of our marriage. But the I believe my husband was trying to prove a point that he could be faithful. That he had changed... and somewhere in a tiny corner of my heart, i like to think so.

    My marriage will be 4 years this year, Marriage has been good. I rarely think of his betrayal. I never bring it up again, i'm too old and its in the past. We actually laugh about it sometimes. I always think of our mutual friend who told me. I never forget that man wherever he is in the world. I still respect him for telling me, i have no contact with him though and hubby never got on well with him as well. Long story. Infidelity causes so much heartbreak i tell you.

    So have i forgiven? Yes
    Have i forgotten? No
    Do i trust him? No. I trust no one but God. I don't even trust me.
    Do I think he has cheated or is cheating? I doubt it but wont be shocked if he does
    Am i happy being married to him? Yes
    Do i love him? I do...I sure do...

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    1. So what made him not to marry the other lady?

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    2. Wow. Umunwoke di Egwu ooooooo#inChizobasvoice

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    3. Wait, I'm confused. I thought he married someone else.

      He was just cheating?

      He's already repentant, just free yourself from past hurt

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    4. Nice fake story. What happened to the wife? I'm sure u wrote what u wish happened not what actually happened.

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    5. I read every bit of what you wrote and your concluding part too.

      May your home be continually blessed.

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    6. Awwwwww
      Dunno but this ur story just melted my heart.
      God bless U and ur Man. And keep u two in love forever. Glad u overcame ur fears.

      Remain happy sweets.

      *Musing
      Forgiveness is an attribute of the Strong. The Weak can't forgive-M Gandhi.

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    7. what are you yapping about?

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  39. hmmm... my x was planning wedding while I was being a nice lady,wife material, all his friends knew me, been to family house twice, only for mr to find out. d dude said was trying to handle the case as d lady in question was forcing herself. she left him for another only to come back begging, asking the whole family to beg for her. it beme complicated when they said uf truely he has forgiven he shud marry her.... lol funny... he told me 5mont to wedding shaa..fogave him, now marrige b like hell.. sorr
    y 4 d long comment

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    1. Am not understanding

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    2. Pheww... Just type in English! Chai 😒😒😒😒

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  40. I had a school mother in high sch, we remained friends. They live in Uyo, I had been there just once to visit her family while I was in Uni. But she has always been to my family house in Lagos.

    I was dating a guy, I was a Virgin, and my mum and I are close, as in close. So from when we talk, I know she always tries to pass the message, never give it out, wait till marriage.

    Anyways, this Bros had tried an tried, no way, I didn't let him. But when we first met, he talked about dating some babe from Akwa Ibom, but they broke up due to some issues.

    Na so my sch mum call one day ooh, said her sis was getting married, asked if I could come, but because it wasn't her wedding and I wasn't close to her sis, I didn't ask for details of the hubby to be. I said I would try since it was gonna happen in Uyo and I was gonna b travelling same month of the wedding.

    Time went, I would call and ask how it's going to all, so same week of that wedding. I saw my supposed bf like on Wednesday, he said he was travelling to the US, I said he should wait so we can travel together since I was gonna travel soon, but had to attend that wedding first, he said no, it was just a short trip, he would be back before I know it. He tried again with the sex thing and as usual, I said No. So I left him an went home.

    I got to Uyo on Friday against the wedding on sat, went to my hotel, much later sch mum dropped by but couldn't stay long cos of the errands and all for the wedding. Am a very lazy girl, so I didn't even suggest to assist. I saw her off to the lobby, back to my room. The next day I dressed up, got a cab to drive me to church and then to the reception.

    The groom was the guy I was dating back in Lagos. And the bride was pregnant, in fact she put to be bed about two months after the wedding.

    I didn't say anything to anyone. I just stayed all through the wedding saying the thank you Jesus rosary, cos he saved me.

    I was sick inside out sha, cold from no where, pictures I took had a question attached to the way I looked. I left the reception early, couldn't eat, I was just shocked.
    I went back to my hotel room, undressed, spoke to my mum briefly, said I was I was going to bed that I'm tired, turned my phones off, got into the bathroom, opened the shower, sat in there and cried for hours.

    I didn't even tell my sch mum or my mum. I have only told my husband this story. Or when I talk about it, I just say it happened to someone I know.

    And the Bros never called me again, he just wanted a piece of my 'something' but I was raised right.

    I like all them pre-wedding photos new couples take now and how it's always all over the Internet from fb to instagram, it really helps. Cos you could be scrolling and see a babe or a guy you are dating posing there.

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    1. Wow. Thank God your mum trained you right.

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    2. Wow. Thank God your mum trained you right.

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    3. Yes oo.... Dt pre-wedding pic is like pple see oo, he/she is mine, speak up now or forever hold ur peace.. Lol
      I had a friend in school, same story as urs except the guys family knows her n usually call her not knowing they even know another chick sef and she let him disvirgined her.... Long story short, we saw d wedding pics on fb.... And d dude was still lying that d girl got pregnant and he could not abort his first seed.... Radarada

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    4. Some drama filled peeps would have caused a scene, you handled it so wellπŸ‘

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    5. Oh dear! Bless God for you and your mum!

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    6. Thank God you didn't give him the cookies

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    7. "Cos you could be scrolling and see a babe or a guy you are dating posing there."...lmao

      I thank God for your life.

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    8. You are so lucky you listened to your mum's advice.

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    9. This your story na epic movie!!πŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½ I thought mine was the worst apparently I have 'elders' in the heartbreak biz

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  41. It happens a lot. I think guys are more often the culprit!!!

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  42. It happened to my sister, she met this handsome dude the dated feel in love, she goes to spend weekend at his house, she leaves her stuff at his house, cooks for him and do other chores. He traveles a lot though so she never suspected anything. She snoops when he is not around not even a strand of human hair was found in his apartment cos I asked her. Anyways fast forward to one of his trip my sis went to her tailor to sow so she picked one of the ovation magazine to choose style viola she saw her boyfriend and another woman elegantly dressed both in trad and white wedding. My sister fainted only to wake up three days later in the hospital. Aunty Stella the story no sweet for my mouth will tell her to send in her story to you so people will learn. Some men are the devil they only let you know what they want you to know no matter the FBI snooping you sabi.

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    1. Na wah o things dey happen. Imagine the emotional trauma.

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    2. Tell her to cum here to gist us abt it,d story no sweet for ur mouth truly.

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    3. Ovation magazine ke
      Lol... Eeyah.....

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    4. Very interesting story. please I need to hear it

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    5. Or read it, since you're not my neighbor na...

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  43. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  44. Happened to me 2014... ThankGod I did not resign my job back then..infact were good to go only for our mutual friend to call me that his engagement was announced in the church on Sunday..called him and he said all we had together was just friendship...Godwin platinum mortgage bank abuja God don pick my call o

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    1. Lmao...don't sweat it, not worth it.

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    2. Am happy for u swtheart.

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    3. Peter of QACC kaduna married to fatty bombom Meg God don pick my call too

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    4. See friend zoning. Sharparly

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  45. I was told by a mutual friend that my bf was getting married. I got to know two weeks to his wedding asked him why he said he didn't have the guts to tell me. I cried sha. But thank God am married now. We have our ups and downs but we are pushing on.

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  46. SDK you are extremely good at what you do. I won't say idony visit other blogs but your blog is home, my resting place. More grease to your computer and your heart too, Much respect!

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  47. Mine was that he was already married and i didnt knw cos tbey dont live together,although he had a child he jst gave me one story thats she is his baby mama and nuffin more.dude was swearing wif his life anytime i ask him.i snoop tire ,didnt find anything.we go out together ,wif frnds ,his frndd,his brothers.i even talk to his child on phone ,God i was broken.i dunno where d strenght jst came from for me to move on,i guess it was God.i dnt think i can trust any man right now

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  48. Happened with le hub and his gf back then that was feeling like the Queen of his life. She saw our wedding invite at a friend of a friend's place.( yeah y'all would say so I knew he had a gf alongside me and I went ahead to marry him..well he's a very clever liar,still is,found out all these years after. Well shit happens and we're here now) . Fast forward 8 years down d line I discovered they're still very much together and she a frigging anty gwegs that even looks older than me with most of her friends and even younger siblings married with their own kids. Guess what bitch, I'm the frigging Mrs known and recognised by all the people that matter,you're hidden all over the place and denied when seen together, babe u no get shame? I'm ashamed and afraid on your behalf o cos you'll keep aborting for the arsehole (yeah I called him that,but he's MY arsehole) but I'll keep enjoying d perks, he sleeps next to me every night cuddling up to me no matter how long you think you have him after work,it's MY NAME on d documents that matter and no matter how much he lies to you.. don't be deceived girl, you lOSE!! Better use d little remaining part of your youth to find your own instead of looking like mama of fifteen kids while waiting that I will vex and go..whosai! I mean why be the best among the others to a man(yeah, he get una plenty)when u can be d very one to ur own man(though karma lies patiently in wait,and yes you're my karma)It hurts but I'mma roll with it to ensure I and my kids keep getting d best of d best from him. But wait o,u get family so? Dem no like you o, ur friends too no like you if they can't go and wash ya head since I'm sure you refused to heed advice. Better go and commit suicide biatch! * Stella pls post where u deem necessary abeg*

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    1. Funny thing is she won't even read this πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ But I get your drift

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  49. Let me read comments. Just finished my first exams

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  50. 😁😁😁😁
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  51. Something similar happened to my uncle. Unfortunately they were already married. Uncle was hussling in Yankee. Thinking he got the perfect wife material back home. The girl was ugly but he came back for her. You should have seen the ridiculous traditional wedding things the bride's family demanded. Fast forward wedding night, Uncle slept with his new bride for the first time, he saw blood and was very happy with the decent girl. Took more things and money to appreciate her family for raising their daughter right. He went back to process papers for wifey to join him, six months later wifey gave birth to a full term baby. Revealed how she went to break off relationship with her boyfriend they did it one last time and she got pregnant. How her mum slept with the person in charge of pregnancy test in the church to cover it up. Even after 15 yrs any time I remember I just shake my head. Uncle is happily remarried with his own kids now.

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    1. Wait wait oh.... abeg replay this your story again.... you say? 😳

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    2. Jesus!!!!!!

      Like mother like daughter

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  52. Well what's my own ja re Stella I woke up this afternoon only to find out the girl I have been chasing for past 2 years jst broke up with her Boyfriend the guy don get another babe and to think the reason d girl is doing shakara for me is becus I don't have much now only she is confessing love to me chail I swear I will teach her sweet lesson mk I fist chop her first tk relax
    All d stress for 2 years am happy Menh

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    1. You are a stupid man,so you expected her to cheat on her boyfriend,better treat that girl right or else you will regret it.

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    2. Broke ass answering senator!...
      Thank God I have never exchanged words with a riff raff that can't stand in my presence and talk!..
      Hungry boy!,..

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  53. Hmmmmm my story l can't fit shouts my happened two times like say day sent them.the first guy was admiring me for so long when he wanted to get married that's when he came l gave in, cook for him and his friends, how did l know he was getting married a friend of his came with his wife and i serve them food as a good cook na but who e epp back to the story as they were eating the guy now ask my den guy is this our new wife in lgbo you need to see how he reacted and said no I was like so this guy is getting married and is using me l went straight and collect the food enter kitchen carry the pot of food for sink he was there begging me even the friend day regret y he ask am that question l lift ,the second guy is story for another day but mind you guys am married oooooooooo am to hot to be single

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