Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Toke Makinwa's Controversial Video Advising Young Ladies To ''ENJOY'' Their Lives...

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Thursday, 13 October 2016

Toke Makinwa's Controversial Video Advising Young Ladies To ''ENJOY'' Their Lives...

This video is a day or two old but i listened to it at Midnight and all i can see is that what Toke Vlogged about is very Controversial and her mindset is her opinion but wrong to put out there.




She needs to wait until she has a daughter and then give her this advise privately!..That is what she should do.

If i had a daughter i will whoop anyone i hear giving her this kinda shitty 
advice!


178 comments:

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

I saved the video on my phone.

She'll surely breed prostitutes. No wonder she is desperate!

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

I wish life was that easy and nonchalant.

I actually got my first job at 21.

ukwu dimond said...

good to know.

Imelda D said...

Toke the adviser.. She can yarn for Africa...

Iman Bella said...

This video Toke made was all shades of wrong
How can you advice girls to have one night stands
To sleep with random men
She definitely passed a wrong message with probably good intentions
Now I believe, she doesn't practice what she preaches
Because if she did, her story should have been different

Apples ( SDKBlog Shrink) said...

Saw it on bellanaija some days ago, I know it's her opinion but it's wrong for her to put it out there, I mean how can she tell girls out there to her one night stand? Internet is not limited to age anymore, little kids out there have access to all things on the Internet, so her argument that her message is not for everyone doesn't hold water.

Never fancied her anyway, Na she know. Those that are obsessed with her should continue.

pink lady said...

She wants attention and she's getting it!

Doppelgรคnger said...

I understand where she is coming from but how she said it is what caused the problem.
There are lots of young girls who look up to her as a mentor, so telling them to get a tattoo, kiss a stranger, have one stand and make their hair (she repeated this alot) isn't the best word to say.
Yes have fun but don't overdo it then wake up at 25 to start making a living like she said.
You can make a life for yourself while having fun at the same time.
There are people who graduated top of their class but went from party to exam hall. If you can't do both then focus on one thing and if you can juggle both then by all means do.
Toke, next time try to say a lot without saying everything.
Nigerians, you all can sit your hypocritical asses down though because you do these things in private and go out in public to criticise it.
Just do you!

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Wow! I'm speechless,kai God will not forgive the man that did this girl strong tin oh! Who this advice epp?

Ehlarh said...

I can't believe this,it must be a joke. WTH

Anonymous said...

She's very stupid for this. After spending 12 years with a guy that didn't love her wholly now she's advicing.

Young women don't follow this rubbish u will end up a frustrated Divorced gwegs like her. Everyone can't have same life some would marry at 20 and others at 35. Am in my mid 20s n married with kids and growing my business. Some face career first its your choice. Later she will be forming Christian. God help us. Mrs Anonymous

IFEANYI NWA NSUKKA said...

Going to watch it asap

Ed said...

Mtchewwww,Wat an advice๐Ÿ˜ . Seems she is using her experience in life to give such stupid advice. Her opinion thou! Imagine piercing ur private... Stupid!

Cynthia Iyede said...

This must be a comedy skit cos I won't advice my 18 year old sis to take anything she said here seriously!

Get a tatoo? Kiss a stranger? Toke I'm sorry to say this but you've shot over the bar this time. I pray your daughter sef won't take this advice, na only you need am.

becky naka said...

U've said it all stella.. when I watched the video I was speechless.. she might be playing around but some people are gonna take it serious.

Anonymous said...

Right idea, wrong choice of words, examples and analogies.

Mother confessor the real deal on sdk said...

What kind of stupid advice is this. She is misleading a lot of girls. How many girls that went that way came back to being normal again. They keeping leaving such sinful life for along time.
That is me on my monika.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

I'm not a fan of Toke but she is right!..
And yes,I will give the same advise to my daughter!...
Don't you know that girls that flexed well during their teen end up well?...
They are not Mugus mehn!...they knows what's up!..
Men don't mess with them and they know their worth!...
Meanwhile,they are the ones marrying the best husband...
I'm talking from experience...
Toke chop kiss for this...

Anonymous said...

This girl is really ugly, see her face.

Anonymous said...

Kwakwakwakwakwakwa..i no wan shout...missylynn

Tilly said...

Seriously? See advise o. At tgat time when you are supposed ro be shaping your future. Building a career. Ladies can make friends and have fun while they also take their lives seriously.
I dont know what Toke is talking about. She needs to focus on getting her life together rather than giving senseless advice. I will take such advice from Adenuga, Dangote,Alakija,Mark Zuckerberg...not her. How can she mislead young ladies like this.

white Berry said...

Cant believe I have to recharge my phone to watch the video .my helpers ohhh plz locate me. it's she for real. real. Don't think so. My first time of listening to her

Stranger said...

All ye okpos (career okpo, trainee-okpos, confused and seriously thinking of becoming an okpo) I say to you verily, oya RISE! Go forth and start hustling based on Toke's advice.
I understand that Toke is speaking from a place of MAJOR hurt and this goes to show that she is yet to heal hence her stupid advise to ladies. Btw, only women looking for validation to prostitute will buy into the market that she is selling.
This one is straight out of the chronicles of a frustrated old gwegs.

Ehlarh said...

My Lord!!!! I had to Google it to be sure its not a stunt, I am highly disappointed, I think Toke is loosing it,she needs to go on break again.What the hell is this?

lovina ikpeme said...

Toke!!!!!
Did someone hack your face or account to post this? Like seriously??? We know what we do | did when we were that age but why are you advising a generation we are even trying to pray outta sin to be wayward?
Ah Toke! You haff done wrong. You need spiritual and brain cleansing

Ehlarh said...

My Lord!!!! I had to Google it to be sure its not a stunt, I am highly disappointed, I think Toke is loosing it,she needs to go on break again.What the hell is this?

reemah said...

Madam Toke! Methinks someone has caught the lets-be-westernised bug. Many want to be so much like the westerners that they'd believe anything and everything they see in their movies. Our values are far removed from theirs and we shouldn't lose sight of our morality just because we want to incorporate some parts of their culture into ours. Some things just don't gel. Nigerians are fairly conservative as regards socially acceptable behaviour and this kind of advice to young girls is bound to set tongues ablaze.

Believe it or not, as much as we all want to live our lives to the fullest and be whimsical in our youth, there's a thin line between youthful exuberance and outright moral laxity.

She's entitled to her opinion though....

However, this is NOT America.

winnie said...

This is my first time to comment here. But i have to say Toke just said her mind. But for any young girl who listened, leme tell you,all this she mentioned has kept her in dis state. No husband , No child. She probably mite not have a womb. Pls do not listen to her ooo.

Bee10 said...

OK oh toke!

abisoye ologbenla said...

Very irritating. She just lost my respect. No wonder her marriage crashed. Perhaps, the husband found out what she had done in her early 20s and it was so bad that he ran back to his ex. Toke get sense IJN

Blackberry said...

She's talking like one who has lost hope for a good future! Heck!

What if d one night stand goes wrong n u get hiv or killed?
When u use ur younger years to get a jail card, u use ur 30s for what? Blaming spirit husband? Blaming failed govt? well, follow her advice at ur own risk, kudos to all those that followed her marriage advice.

Anonymous said...

I think she was just joking.. But I thought toke was really beautiful, nawa , her facial expression sef. Toke u have just been deceiving me with all those ya pics

Loveme Jeje said...

wetin concern me with her matter. I pity people that takes advice from these people.

Toks i know you have received enough bashing, dont worry more bashing is coming.

Adetutu Babatunde-Edward said...

I personally think she was high when giving this advice. Each day I pray to God to help me train my daughter when she's a teenager because as a parent, you can't be sure you've given 100% training when the society is giving free and more convienient training. Toke doe not know what she's talking about.

CrazyHornyWife said...

Social media has dealt with her but trust your broda freeze to seek for notice/attention with it!
Anyway,from age 17-24 are adults to me,if they decide to be foolish and go ahead with her advice,they should be ready to accept responsibility for their actions.
IMO, toke has gone tru a lot, so thinking of things she wished she did instead of being in a long term wasted relationship is what she is voicing out.
Toke I know your dating now,but I hope you find closure/healing/calmnesss soon.

Girl in love. said...

Just watched the video, she's contradicting herself. Death can come at any fucking time,and yet she's advicing u kiss and have sex with a stranger, and she attends mfm? Toke the joker. For someone who lived an awfully boring life,and now I'm 28, I don't bloody feel like I missed out on any frigging thing, Infact I wished I spent more of my time making money. I get She's trying to be laid back and free and advising young people not to take life too seriously, but this advice be as e get. It's a manual on how to waste ur extremely active years. You can have fun but not the way Toke is describing abeg. People are changing lives and developing themselves at that age and ure asking a girl to be partying from Sunday to Sunday, Toke,Toke, Toke! Sigh, please give it a rest darling, sometimes u sound awfully empty and shallow.

Mother confessor the real deal on sdk said...

How are you sweetheart?

Anonymous said...

Many young girls has done things worst than that before they even turn 20. So what is controversal about it.

Tee Diva Organic Skincare 58C660AC said...

Wow... Toke Toke... This is so bad. I agree with some of the advice but not get a tattoo, pierce your body parts, drink till you can't recognize yourself anymore, kiss a stranger.. Nah nah nah
I guess you never did that in your 20s hence the reason you wanna live your 20s thru other people which is so wrong.
When you have a daughter, then you can relay this to her.




Stella, chop knuckle ๐Ÿ‘Š

zinny uwalaka said...

Stella thank you.watched the video on Facebook over provoke catch me. Imagine sleep with a guy if you want. Party club etc mtchewww she is sick that's all. When you die in it what do you tell baba God?????

ma binu said...

she simply said the truth....if you like it or not...it happens ehn...but my own is that....what ever decission you choose in life always make up your mind to accept what comes from it..be it a positive or negative outcome.

Girl in love. said...

Just watched the video, she's contradicting herself. Death can come at any fucking time,and yet she's advicing u kiss and have sex with a stranger, and she attends mfm? Toke the joker. For someone who lived an awfully boring life,and now I'm 28, I don't bloody feel like I missed out on any frigging thing, Infact I wished I spent more of my time making money. I get She's trying to be laid back and free and advising young people not to take life too seriously, but this advice be as e get. It's a manual on how to waste ur extremely active years. You can have fun but not the way Toke is describing abeg. People are changing lives and developing themselves at that age and ure asking a girl to be partying from Sunday to Sunday, Toke,Toke, Toke! Sigh, please give it a rest darling, sometimes u sound awfully empty and shallow.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Are you sure you watched the video?...she didn't say have sex with strangers BUT kiss!...
that's how you people will be lying on top somebody's head...
And yes,death can come at any time...so it's better you live your life to the fullest!...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Yes it's good to party from Sunday to Sunday as a teen than be doing it as a gwegz!...
I see nothing wrong here...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Ask me oh!...

beautiful insight said...

I don't see anything wrong in what she said in the video...flex while you can it's not a bad thing

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Kikikikikiki,..forget all those pictures...
You will spit when you see them in real life without makeup!,..

CrazyHornyWife said...

Getting better and staying hopeful

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

She put all her eggs in one basket by giving all her heart to Maje that's why she was treated badly by him...
This can't happen to a girl that has so many fishes...
Being a good girl no dey pay abeg...

Anonymous said...

I totally agree with Toke! And all this sanctimonious and self righteous BVS will come here and castigate her. She is speaking the truth. Live your life to the fullest in your early twenties and more often than not, you'd have acquired enough experience to differentiate between the bad men and the good, husband material type of men! I was in a steady relationship from the age of 20, the guy close-marked me and didn't allow me to breathe, by 24 I was married, by 25 I was divorced. After my divorce, I did everything Toke suggested up there, except get a tattoo.
I eventually remarried at 29 and it will be 10 years of blissful marriage next year. So young ladies, listen to Toke!

Anonymous said...

I'm so ashamed to listen and watch such wrong advice from Toke (Who should know better). It’s advice like this that leads to increase in "baby-mama-drama", living young wild and free from 17-24 and then when your contemporaries have built themselves up, and you are no longer a spring chicken, because newer flavors are on the scene (there'll never be a short-supply of 17-24 yrs old girls) you'd try to settle down, with a reputation and resume that boasts of "club-hopping, body piercing, tattoo and may i include "bed-hopping", disease spreading individual".
Exemplary and leading women were in their formative years circa 17-24 yrs, Oprah didn't build her Media Empire at 50, Michelle didn't combine YALE with club-hopping,the very critical American media would have dragged her to the gutters.
15 years ago when FREEZE met you at a radio studio you were building your career; imagine if your marriage to MAJE had worked, and you have a 17 year old daughter, will your advice be this VLOG? Amber Rose is promoting “SLUTWALK” to reverse stereotypes about young women, your VLOG is what creates such stereotypes.

Candid Naija said...

Toke does these things on purpose just to get attention... To her any publicity is good publicity since she has crocodile skin

Anonymous said...

Hypocrites. As bad as her
advise is so Nigerians still pretend when even mothers advise their own daughters to do such!

Anonymous said...

I cried watching this... Tokes heart has been ripped apart. Now she's hurting badly, hope she finds true love very soon. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Graciousmeg said...

Was really shocked hearing her say all she was saying. At a point I felt she was probably drunk.

Anonymous said...

you can be young be carefree and have fun without having a one night stand. if she is as strong and independent as she says why is she always talking men this, men that. I have many nieces, i can't imagine giving them this kind of advice. if they choose to live their lives this way its different but as an aunt i will certainly not advice them to do it. WTF

becky naka said...

What works for Mr a might not work for Mr b.. just coz it "worked" for u does not mean it'll work for another person.. there are also some bad girls that didn't end well. Remember that whatsoever a man sows that he reaps. Stop misleading young girls.. it's not funny.

Brown Sucre said...

All shades of wrong,but Come to think of it,it's been long she or her vlog went viral,so saying something to upsets the morals of Nigerians probably won't be a bad idea.

rillyniddy said...

I will be right back, make I go watch the video

Tilly said...

I am not surprised. But keep your advice for your relatives and daughters.

Anonymous said...

Ideato you are a low life!
I got my first job @ 18 so get a life BIATCH!!!

Anonymous said...

I think she wasn't emotionally stable making these statements. Like seriously someone of her celebrity standing. My goodness! This video is appalling and really misleading to the young ladies out there who are looking for excuses and justification to do wrong stuff. No justification for this kind of trash she spewed. I'm greatly disappointed.

General Zod said...

Toke we are in Africa, Nigeria more so. You forget yourself sometimes.

Anonymous said...

You always typing trash

Anonymous said...

*are*

Anonymous said...

This is the Stupidest thing I've seen today.

Her true colours coming out.... Ashawo!

EkaTre said...

I assume the one night stand was the reason her man was snatched, her husband got a wonderful one night stand.

Bee10 said...

Thank you bb on one night stand what if something goes wrong?abeg oh

Otaswifey said...

Speaking out of the frustration.
Pele omotoke

Fierce of SDK blog said...

First of all,ugly makeup. Pierce your parts,have one night stands,get a tattoo, kiss a stranger. Madam Toke is high on cheap weed.

EkaTre said...

She Looks so frustrated, what! I guess because she's yet to become a mother that's why she can dish out this crap.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Are will still on this?

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

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Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

2moro she will quote Bible from Genesis to revelations ๐Ÿ˜•

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

End time advice from a bitter heart. Life has dealt toke a big blow and she thinks life would have been better if she had lived otherwise,
Dear toke,don't be bitter with God,everything that happened to you was predestined,they are meant to be a stepping stone to greater levels for you,but allowing this bitterness,it could surely affect the great future you wished to have. Our words are like seeds,they germinate and produce fruit,and whatever you sow,you will reap.

Gemstone Vee'C said...

Heheheheheheeeeeeehhheeehehehe..this is not even funny,.why am I laughing swef.
Toke is back again with her silly advice! Imagine. An adviser that doesn't practise what she advises one bit! She was busy giving advice on how to keep a man...but alas, what happened? She couldn't keep her own man...hence her marriage crashed, no wonder that ...yimmu!!!
She's here again with another useless piece ...get a tattoo,kiss a stranger, have one night stand...woh? I can't deal. I just don't know what you're tryna achieve with this, but it was so filled with the wrong words. A teen that ought to be moulding her life according to you should be wasting her youthful years? You could have just waited to have your own daughter then given her this kinda advice. Mfm goer, I hear!... I don't understand these yeyebrity gwegws and their advice these days...hmmmmmm. I pity those that'll dance to the tune of this advice.
See her ugly face with that her Yoruba infested accent

Tush baby said...

I wounder who takes this gwegs serious. I don't watch her vlog bc since she can't keep her home she definitely has no good advice to dish out. Who takes advice from divorcee?

Gemstone Vee'C said...

And more followers for you though...
Attention seeking gwegw...you've lost it in my eyes.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

When I say first job, I mean after graduation not IT or all those volunteers.


Leave me and my low life. At least my Angels on this blog loves it that way!

white Berry said...

I got my own first job at 18years and the pay was just 1700 then and with that money I saved in enrolling myself for my SSCE then to make the papers I never made on my first sitting .am not a lazy person,have been a struggling lady right from time.

Gemstone Vee'C said...

These Anons are bloody liars

Anon 09:56 aka Toke , welcome ma

Anonymous said...

All this supermarket staff pls those things r real jobs can't b qualified as job job

Tetrina said...

Ah ah, this blog sef! So, because you got your first job at 18 and someone else got theirs at 21, they are low life's??...na wa o. Can I call you a low life too cus I got my first job @ 16 and my first treasury bills investment at 17!
You guys should live and let live maan.

Tetrina said...

Hahaha

Pretty Barrister said...

@ideato lmao. ..what did you do to this angry anonymous

Pretty Barrister said...

@ideato lmao. ..what did you do to this angry anonymous

rillyniddy said...

I just finish watching her vlog, I agree with what she said enjoy your youth to the fullest. It was just the way she listed the stuff that makes her opinion sound bad. As for me I enjoy my self to the fullest and I keep advising my sisters to do so.

Iphie dearie said...

I used to feel like I never lived.
Boring, not a risk taker.
When I was younger I even wished I had two lives... the first will go ahead and be a good girl.. make my parents proud etc.
Then my other life will live!!!! Experiment!!!
Guess what Toke, we only have one life.
As much as you wanna see the world, do everything bad and ugly... sometimes there are consequences.

Nothing is wrong in trusting and getting betrayed.. being thrust into horrible circumstances you didn't pray or wish for. These are genuine mistakes because of our naivety or vulnerability.

We all make mistakes you know, but deliberately putting yourself into these things in my opinion is living recklessly.
Why will my teen daughter sleep with strangers because she wants to live life?
Why can't she study, learn skills and do charity work? Travel round the world,learn other languages.
Is that not a way to "live" the so called life?

Getting experience is not about the number of men you've slept with, or how many times your heart has been broken or how many tattoos you have on your body.
Doing drugs will not make you a "strong" man or woman too.
I think Toke should have focused on the positive aspect of living life more.
Live,love,laugh.

Anonymous said...

That is how one of senior colleague who was her roomate in Unilag told us how she lived a careless life then, but when out husband cheated, she became a saint in eveybody's eyes

Highness Gwen said...

why did she keep her face and mouth like that?gosh she irritates me

Suoebi(Niger delta finest) said...

She just want to get publicity dats all she is abt as she no get any other talent

Anonymous said...

Eeyya linda Eze, I can now see the reason u dint go to school.. u wasted ur youth jumping from one club to another, licking Otu! Chaiiiii ndo inu

Anonymous said...

Can anything clean come from Lawma?

She is the Queen of trash!

This Is what happens when people lack love while growing up.

Omasiri said...

Lmao. It can only be Toke.

Anonymous said...

Anon 9.56 that's exactly my story, except my second marriage is just 2 years old. I grew up hearing I had to be married as a virgin, when my boyfriend disvirgined me, I knew he was bad news but I went ahead and married him thinking no other man wld value me since I was no longer a virgin, but after my divorce at I dated better men that treated me like Egg, my new hubby adores me even tho he married me as after one. Women please let d girl child breathe just like thr brothers

Tetrina said...

..the one thing I wanted to do growing up was pierce my tongue and tatoo stars from my neck down my back but my pain threshold won't let me attempt it and I would have regretted it in my adult years.
The new generation are already doing everything Toke has said anyway so nothing new. All we can do is pray for our sons and daughters that they live a life that brings glory to God.

Anonymous said...

This woman is clearly frustrated. I don't usually comment but this has to be one of the dumbest videos i have watched. At 21 become a prostitute. Since when did sleeping with random men become an achievement? Don't take life too seriously until 25. Women are breaking boundaries at young ages and other continents? How about at 22 start building a career so by 30 you are at the top being a director or CEO. how about at 22 travel round the world, learn different cultures,learn new skills, get new hobbies, go ski-ing, dance salsa, go to croatia, go for a spa weekend with friends, build on your CV. Enjoying your life doesn't mean sleeping around, what sort of dirty mentality is that. Well i feel sorry for people listening to all these. How do people watch her videos with that facial expression?

Anonymous said...

This woman is clearly frustrated. I don't usually comment but this has to be one of the dumbest videos i have watched. At 21 become a prostitute. Since when did sleeping with random men become an achievement? Don't take life too seriously until 25. Women are breaking boundaries at young ages and other continents? How about at 22 start building a career so by 30 you are at the top being a director or CEO. how about at 22 travel round the world, learn different cultures,learn new skills, get new hobbies, go ski-ing, dance salsa, go to croatia, go for a spa weekend with friends, build on your CV. Enjoying your life doesn't mean sleeping around, what sort of dirty mentality is that. Well i feel sorry for people listening to all these. How do people watch her videos with that facial expression?

Priceless Jewel said...

There's nothing frustrating about it jare, it's her own opinion! Take it or leave it! I won't though!

... Jesus is my worth!

Dr T said...

the only thing she said I don't subscribe to is one night stand
every other thing is valid
Nigerians rushing to get married upandawn as if marriage na achievement I don't gerrit
18 year old go dey say my fiancee......
that's why white peeps would forever b forward
u think kim k was stupid?
or those guys dat gt married for few hours
...........

white Berry said...

I got my own first job at 18years and the pay was just 1700 then and with that money I saved in enrolling myself for my SSCE then to make the papers I never made on my first sitting .am not a lazy person,have been a struggling lady right from time.

MISS TRUTH said...

Don't mind her Stella. Any body that takes her advice OYO.

MISS TRUTH. said...

I can feel the frustration from here.

MISS TRUTH said...

@ Maje thank God you moved.

Anonymous said...

@Queen and boss, I now understand why people call you an illiterate!!

So having a one night stand is what?? Playing chess all night?? Read my lips....one night stand means S.E.X!!

TosinKate said...

Walahi!

Madea said...

I don't dislike Toke like the general public do but these she has said here are complete balderdash as none of it adds value to anyone's life. I'm surprised she is saying these because she proclaims being close to God but here is her telling people to conform to the doings of the world. Like Stella said, i'd whoop anyone who feeds my daughter or son this garbage. Toke, I'm disappointed.

It pays to live a meaningful life. So many diseases now and you advise people like this? No Toke, NO!

Madea said...

More so Toke, be careful what you put out there. See Donald Trump's fate recently after his tape of 2005 got released. Billy Bush's job is also pending. This video might ruin certain opportunities for you in the future. Be guided!

Anonymous said...

Shut up queen bitch.. one night stand means sleeping with strangers. Bush fool forming rich woman yet u have zero life outside SDK. Keep lying to ur spirit idiot.

Madea said...

Fun should be meaningful and not baseless and NO, one must not experience all things just to say they lived. I disagree with you.

Anonymous said...

I don't see anything wrong in what she said. Toke only came out to say what most of us have done codedly. As a young woman I've had piercings(i still do),ive gotten stupendously drunk(if there's a word like that),one night stands and so on and so forth. Now I'm married I can stay six months without sex and I am happy that at least I flexed and I did not miss. Let us stop trying to be more catholic than the pope and let toke be. God bless us.

Madea said...

Her facial expression doesn't suggest she was playing.

Madea said...

I used to think your warped world view was just a stunt but with this I feel pity for you because your mind is so caged and your horizon very short sighted.

Madea said...

I won't take such advice from the afore mentioned because God distributes wisdom accordingly. That they are successful doesn't mean they are wiser than you who is not yet at their level. Be you and hold on to your convictions because you are only accountable to your maker.

MISS TRUTH said...

Hehehe..@Queen and boss, one night stand nah sex o.

Madea said...

You were making sense until you used the word old gwegs and you lost me.

Anonymous said...

Gbam.. going to croatia today today! Hahahahahahaha.. true trua @anonymous. I think I like all ur advice, gonna follow it. Maybe soon i'll save up enuf to go to croatia. Im 23 :)

redbotafly said...

I wonder hw some people can actually open their mouths n say notin is wrong wit wat she said.its al shades of wrong.
Alot of young girls luk up to toke.
Havin one night stands is nt fun so dnt make it seem its alright to do so.
We al r different so r our ways.wat works for me may nt for u.
Grace covers us al differently.
N yes it pays a whole lot to be a gud girl.

Madea said...

Spot on!

Madea said...

Lol @ your last sentence. Very valid points you raised.

Madea said...

Oh my! A million Likes!

Madea said...

Word!

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

@white berry who asked for your CV? Never beg under my comment alright.

@barrister Don't mind the jobless anonymous. I meant real Job not those pre nysc and IT jobs

redbotafly said...

Ds queen n boss is a bloody illiterate.
Wat makes u tink girls dt flex al end up well n kno wats up?frm ur write up most times,i'd say u r nt smart at al.
For ur mind na eye u tear so.
U r far behind u dnt even kno it.

redbotafly said...

Ds queen n boss is a bloody illiterate.
Wat makes u tink girls dt flex al end up well n kno wats up?frm ur write up most times,i'd say u r nt smart at al.
For ur mind na eye u tear so.
U r far behind u dnt even kno it.

Kaycee said...

I wish there's a buttton for likes on this blog, cos I just want to like your comment.
The bitch toke is hurting n instead of healing she is talking trash

Anonymous said...

Liar! That is gift we did diploma together @ Auchi poly and she's a mother of a 4years boy. I know her very well I will contact her and tell her about this.

Anonymous said...

Everything is not about marrying a good man Linda Eze. Heaven is real.

Godhelpus (Affordable Caterers And Bakers) said...

It's her opinion and she's entitled to it. If you choose to flow with her, your business and if not, your business. I don't see any big deal in what she has said. My own advice is to apply wisdom in all we do and to also have the full fear of God in us as we move on in life. God will help us.

Anonymous said...

Lol @ playing chess. The lady is obviously an illiterate.

Chidinma Gift said...

Why una dey para nau? I am not watching any video jare.... If you no dey comfortable with Wetin she talk then shift

Anonymous said...

@ queen and the boss, one night stand means sex. May a guy chop ur daughter and clean mouth. Any mpama!

Anonymous said...

Very pathetic! Look at who is giving advice. Don't you it at that period a man or woman gets messed up when they make mistake. Have a one night stand that can destroy your destiny or mark you for life. In this age of the internet... you will do something that forever will hunt you, it will just pop up from nowhere. Look at Trump now.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Wrongest advice from the pit of hell, kiss stranger ke?one night stand bi ti bawo?, clubbing fa? Piecing ke?, Ori toke ti da ru, let her save this filthy advices for her unborn kids.
*Faithful bv*

Anonymous said...

There is a big difference btw enjoying ur youth anf destroying ur future..some girls are actually into all those things

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Spot on annon, you nailed it, I like you already......

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Tetrina Biko leave that anonymous. I'm actually happy ideato got a taste of her own medicine. Later you accuse chikito bragging. When in your heart of hearts you're a bigger braggart.
Rabbesh!

Mrs. Romas said...

She should wait for a man to wife her first (I usually don't say things like this), give birth to her daughter(s), then privately give same advice.
If teenagers listens to and takes what she says, then they are doomed for life. The grace that covers some people does not covers all.
You can't say your message is not for everyone, whereas you put it out there on YouTube where gullible/naive teenagers can easily have access to it.

Toke, though i like you, but all that you said was wrong. Stop being desperate.
Many young girls have lost their lives, some their future destroyed because of one night stand and kissing strangers.
Take it back Toke Makinwa.

Anonymous said...

Doppelganger we reason alike nd ur comments re always on point.it's only close minded people dt won't get d message she it trying 2 pass across.

adedapo muritala said...

She is a frustrated idiot looking for attention. Its only a fool like her that will go by her advice.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Phew! You get her drift shebi?
Frankly speaking, there are lot of young girls in their 20s who haven't enjoyed their 20s. When you speak to them they sound like 'what have I been doing all my life?' And there are two sides to it: 1. They remain stuck there and never know anything apart from what they know in that box. 2. They wake up to start doing crazy stuff in their 30s and pathetically 40s, cos they want to catch up ok all they missed. (Old mama youngie)
I have this colleague. I remember when I told her I used to come to Lagos and party with my friends for weekend and return to school on Monday morning and head straight to class. The first thing that came out of her mouth was 'Ehen! So you were a Bad geh!'. When I went on YouTube and showed her a music video i featured in in 2008, her mouth was open she didn't talk to me for a week. Why? She knows me through church and work and never hexperedit! But does that make me bad? No! I just enjoyed my late teens and early 20s very well. In fact, my children can't deceive me. I go just dey look them dey smile. I still graduated, still building a career (im her superior) and keeping my life goals in check. Got my first job before I even submitted my project, bla bla. All my friends I used to party with are married, working professionals, successful entrepreneurs, etc. The ones who are too careful, are still careful till tommorow. She always wonders aloud why 'certain' guys don't woo her and I've told her ditch her the scarf and stop all this big skirt. But Can she? No. wig and makeup is for bad girls. So what can I say? Can't take risk at work, too mundane and boring. ๐Ÿ™„ At 25 she look older than me. So one day a client told her she looks like Whoopi Goldberg and she sparked. In my head I laughed cos really.... honey you look, act and dress 35!
What toke is saying is your 20s are the years to live freely without any emotional attachment to anyone or anything. Don't be so 'marriage conscious' 21. We see them on this blog don't we? Just live life and be yourself, know yourself, chill and get to Love yourself, explore options in life, and be flexible in your thinking. Have an open mind. Don't overdo 'good girl' and be fearful, can't take risk, tieing head, wearing big skirt, looking older than ur age. argh! The list is endless.
Having fun doesn't mean you do runs or lose your virginity or focus. Afterall, two of my besties are virgins at 27 and 29. And they are very very hot and exposed. They don't fret or get timid around guys or anything.
I was still an entrepreneur in my 'crazy' uni days and I developed presuasive skills I use till today. That was what even landed me my first job. NOT my certificate.
I don't support sleeping around, kissing strangers and having tattoos, though. But Toke always over stresses her point for attention, so.... ๐Ÿ˜

Stella, this video is at least 2 months old nau.... she release am tay tay! I subscribed to her channel so I get notifications when they come up

Anonymous said...

Remember to include your STD story too.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Anon 11;09- but Linda is married with kids and many girls who probably Called her a 'bad girl' are still tapping into weddings. You see? Abeg there's no formula in life so Becky is right. But Toke shouldn't be hanged for this. This might work for some people. However, because people always take living a happy and free young life with being bad (ESP Nigerians) they would misinterpret. And toke's context doesn't help. Abroad, your younger years you go camping, bungee jumping, sky diving, travel to another country and do a year in uni, summer trips with friends and no parents, road trip for 24 Hours to attend a 4 hour concert with friends. You learn independence early and not stay home cooking for one bf who will be cheating on you at 22 ๐Ÿ™„

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

She's not pretty in real life. Like I call myself petite but Toke is PETITE and bleached. Fine physique? No. legs? No. face? Just there without makeup. But her 'agidi' ehn? She walks like she's trying to force you to notice her ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Anonymous said...

I wonder y she's getting the backlash from so many people. I agree with everything she is saying. I'm 27 and I'm ready to be serious with my life now. If u started being serious at 16 Na u sabi. I have my PhD by d way, Incase u think I mean living a useless life. The keynote is...have some fun, explore, but be safe

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Yup! You're saying the same thing. She just used the wrong context which makes it negative.

Muna said...

From my own point of view, all she's trying to say is that before any girl gets married, she should experience it all. Which, I think is a good thing. So that once u hooked, u wouldn't feel like u missing sth.

C'est La Vie said...

My take-
Bring your child up properly and what crazy things are being said and done on social media would not matter much.
If you know half the things our youth are seeing and hearing on the web you'd know that the battle is real and Toke, just a small fish.

But, wait o when did Toke lose the false accent? She now sounds authentic ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ

Anonymous said...

I have gat so much hatred for this batch I pray your daughters bring hiv back home for you I swear they will bite your ear ewu

Anonymous said...

Chikito you are loved *winks*

Tilly said...

Madea i understand wisdom, thanks. Add "rather" where you got it all mixed up

dazzlinstar said...

Simply put it, she's got a really low mentality. How about advising young girls to develop themselves intellectually: read books, become entrepreneurs, create jobs and be known for sometime good? This is why people shouldn't model their lives after most of these celebrities. Their foundation is just poor and shaky.
'He/She that has ears let them hear what the spirit says to the churches'

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Chikito are you still yet to recover?

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Ideato idiot, why so polite? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I expected a 'better' comeback. Come on.... this isn't you... Fancy you Accusing someone of begging under your comment, when you're chief comment percher. 'There were two black birds (chickens) perching on the comment section .... one named ideato and the other ideato's hands' buhaaaaahahaha

Anonymous said...

Chikito and the lady with the summary of her life, "can anything clean come out from lawma" Chei! There is success and there is "good success".

Anonymous said...

You're all ignorant narrow-minded fools. The truth of the matter is this has happened to majority of people. Everyone has technically had a one-night stand they wish they could take back, had fun in their early twenties etc. But now that she's saying it publicly its a sin? Bye!

Fearless! said...

This is definitely for attention, and she's taking it too far!
"Kiss a stranger"?
"One night stand"?

"...Then she ends with, when 25 hits u, then u make a turnaround..."

She has failed to realise that by then, age 25, u are who U are!

I'm no saint but I know that this is a stupid advise, whatever the motivation or real reason for this advise, it's a shame show!

Anonymous said...

Key word 'one night stand they wish they could take back' .. mutter this over and over again until it sticks and makes sense to you. But incase your brain is still so tiny, I'll tell you.

Now why will you want to do something you are gonna regret in the future when you can all together avoid it? Is there like a special award for being foolish and dumb?

If you are gonna do something which you'd regret or in your own words 'wish you could take back' then don't do it!
No one is saying don't have fun in your prime, but the kind of fun that you'd look back and be like 'yeaaah, I'm glad I did that' every day of your life is what we are talking about. Risk isn't until you kiss a stranger, risk is investing your time/resources in something and hoping it will yield something for your betterment.

I'm 26, and I've never been a wild child, and quite frankly, I'm thankful for these things I didn't do. While my friends at this age wanna party, drink, smoke, and do crazy stuffs, I'm here working my butt out to make money, engaged and can't wait to start my family.. while what works for A might not for B as people's paths are different, generalizing can lead to the downfall of a lot.

I'm don't think and I've never felt like I miss out or have missed out on anything, I'm only grateful I've been able to protect myself.. while others are regretting mistakes, I'm the one sympathizing with them. Not like I don't have my own mistakes, but what fun is there if your mistakes are as a result of childish exuberance? A mistake you'd use your adulthood to nurse and regret?

HAVE FUN!!! But make sure the fun is gonna be worth it at the end of the day.. the type of fun you'd never regret.

Mzbee ๐Ÿ’‹❤️

Anonymous said...

Butts off*

Anonymous said...

If you have had one night stand speak for your self don't generalise. What she is saying is all shades of wrong, there is more to a womans life than all these nonsense. Why does enjoying life have to be about sex, being drunk and getting tattoos. You shouldn't take life seriously till you get to 25 what the hell.

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

T..so you follow Tone abi ..aiit

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Anon 15:44- in your mind now you know bible. You're exactly the people we are describing. Ignoramus on a social level

Anonymous said...

Is it all about man? Is that the ultimate goal for us? Anon 14:18, having a phd at age 27 shows that you were serious with your life. We can have fun while we create our future.
I am married but marriage is not the price. Marriage doesnt stop your life. Getting a tattoo or sleeping with a random person is something that will be regretted later. Roke pls mind yourself. Dont be shocked if you don't get offers to be an ambassador.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

My dear,wait for confession post they go anonymous to spill their dirty secrets worse than this . And come on regular posts to act holy. Those of us who don't go anonymous are now the devils nau.

Anonymous said...

Akunakuna. Omo oshi , ashigbe omo ward. Is this the advice your foster mother Mrs akinyelure gave u? See how serious she looks while saying it. God has given u a platform to be a shinning example and this is waht u use it for. Advising awon omolomo to live carefree...like u enjoyed yours dating a guy for 12 years. We all know you were doing runs on the side but please don't come and advise young girls to do rubbish. Later you will be quoting God, God. Replay this thing in your MFM teenage church on Sunday since u get advise wey u wan give. U for start for your church as charity begins at home . Any guy taking u to his mother after this had better make sure she has no Internet or she is dead. Confirming yourself as a retired Oloso. U need to lay low for a while. If u like don't listen. Be saying they are beefing u. Many have come and gone.

Anonymous said...

Chai! A da fun e, omoluabi. In fact, Chop kiss.

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Toke u just showed how shallow minded you are. Now I don't blame maje for cheating with a less attractive woman. I'm sure she does not spew rubbish out of her guts like this. Besides, are u trying to shit when u clench ur teeth together or na still part of the phone swaga? Okokobioko

sisi eko said...

Absolute fuckery. What's she on about?

Listen Toke, if this was just for attention because u wanna trend yet again, then maybe I'll understand. Just maybe.. but seriously speaking you've lost the plot. I'm not one of ur bashers, I tend to always speak for u cos I thought I understood ur person. But today after listening to this bull shit, I think I'll join the bandwagon to say you are simply MAD!!

Are u trying to form tough babe or what? All of a sudden u wanna act cool and street wise ko? Your advice is very disturbing. No one is a saint, but u might just detail one young lady out there who wants to be like Toke. Your advice will definitely put a lady in trouble cos they won't understand what u mean by living your youthful years.

Toke, You've just added to the moral decadence that we are trying to curb in the society of today. How can u encourage a young confused mind who's trying to find her feet to lounge and be this careless? Are u ok at all? Biko let me leave this matter cos I don't know what to say any more.

OK bye Toke

sisi eko said...

I hope that all those companies whose products she represents are listening? This is down low. Smh

sisi eko said...

Yes people may do all what she said and much more, but why amplify it? That's the problem I have with Toke. It's not as if she's saying things that young people don't do, but why endorse it publicly?

Like u rightly said, a lot of young ladies follow Toke and want to be like her. Those are the ones I pity.

Anonymous said...

But Chikito you are the ignorant one here. How can you hype a reckless life? The fact that someone is married does not mean her life aim has been achieved.
Did we come to this world just to get married? Being social does not mean sleeping around like u lack self worth or getting a tattoo that would become annoying later.
I am too vain to scratch my body or to have allowed any random guy touch me. I love myself too much.
Dont promote a wild lifestyle. Not everyone can be like u

Anonymous said...

Chikito, u r a smart girl. I am impressed. Please stop arguing with these morons on this blog.

Ogundiji Oladayo Naomi said...

As for me, i love d way i lived and living my life. Other people's opinion do not count, let everyone live his life the way he wants to.

Princess Charming... The Only Princess in SDK blog since 2009. said...

Don't mind her. Her best friend April by kumbi is happily married, nurturing her home, Toke is busy gallivanting without a family.

And to think she's a member of MFM.

Mee... said...

Word! You simply nailed it! A billion likes for this!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Anon 22:58- each to his own. I don't envy all the 'overly' careful girls I know. They still come to me for life advice and all sorts of assistance. Most of which they can solve with very simple common sense found around. But cos of the 'guided' lifestyle they don't even know simple life hacks.
In my previous comment I clearly stated that I didn't support fornication and tattoos. But you obviously didn't read that part.
And #IMO Linda is far better in her husband's house than all those 'decent' 22 year olds cooking for their boyfriends and hoping they would marry them. Are those ones also meeting life goals? Hian!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Anon 22:58- each to his own. I don't envy all the 'overly' careful girls I know. They still come to me for life advice and all sorts of assistance. Most of which they can solve with very simple common sense found around. But cos of the 'guided' lifestyle they don't even know simple life hacks.
In my previous comment I clearly stated that I didn't support fornication and tattoos. But you obviously didn't read that part.
And #IMO Linda is far better in her husband's house than all those 'decent' 22 year olds cooking for their boyfriends and hoping they would marry them. Are those ones also meeting life goals? Hian!

sisi eko said...

*derail*

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