Na wah my people!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
STINGY OR BROKE HUSBAND?
please how can I handle this issues that is eating me up , please I need good advise, my husband is not treating me well at all, since I got married to him he has never bought me a gift , even common pant but I have bought gift for him serially, to cut the long story short when I took in he said he will surprise me and his child will use already made things blabla, all this things he said to buy baby things is fight I have to start buying small from my little salary, am practically living married single because all the fruit and I ate was provided from my pocket.
he never gives money for upkeep accept to cook sometime, if I told the money he gave me is small he will start ranting I will add my own, fast forward to my delivery I had a safe delivery a baby boy thank God we are home ,I had to call my mother to come , my mother rushed to cook food for me , my husband cannot bring out enough money for food, he knows am breastfeeding and am doing exclusive which requires eating enough food, my mother is upset right now that he is not taking care of me, no good food same type of food daily , imagine taking sachet milo and milk.
The one that is paining most now is that he borrowed money from my hand since January and another last month and he refused to pay back, and he's never given my mum money even now she is with me for omugwo he has never given her common malt to take , rather am the one buying for her, he saying no money, last week his father died he travel to village without leaving money for food and said that the provision shop will be feeding us ,
I only collected 1800 and when he came back started shouting why should i buy fuel for gen,he spent almost 100k in the villa but cannot give his wife money for food, he keeps monitoring my text massages checking if I have in my account , I never dated him so I don't know his character and the marriage is still fresh.
he says he doesn't have money but keeps sending to his people , please how do I handle this issue cos am fed up. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured. Am sorry for long epistles. How do I handle this issue cos my heart is broken help.
NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
IN LOVE WITH A MONSTER
From Yesterday Night's Anonymous post
I come here with a heavy heart...make you all not judge me and my grammar I beg all of Una, please have patience as I'm in tears and need help. I wanted to send this in as a chronicle but can't wait any longer....here is my story.
I started dating my now husband in Dec 2013, got married in Dec 2015. I lobe my hubby he's kind, good to me and really understanding.I have always been loyal to him till this happened a week before our white wedding....I was meant to take leave from work before our wedding to finish the final preparations, unknown to me my colleagues organized a party for me in the office and I was truly and pleasantly surprised...chei see gifts, unfortunately for me on that particular day did not come with my car because it has been giving me problems.
My bosses boss ,offered to give me a lift since I had so much gift to carry home. This my oga's oga is a young guy...we work for one of those South African companies...you know they don't care about age but qualifications and experience. Anyway on our way home, he asked me If he could branch to his house to change his shirt, since it was a Friday and wanted to spend some time on the Island after dropping me. Well sha I said OK since I was not in a hurry.
We came to his house and he went to his room to change. Before now I always thought the guy had a thing for me, although he never expressed himself and I never liked him that way. He came back wearing his boxer and singlet, well to cut the long story short...the guy raped me in his living room, I tried to fight him off me but he was too strong and manly. I finally gave up..he manhood was so strong, so big , so long...I have never seen such in my life.
I screamed and moaned out of pleasure, he would grope my bum and whisper things to me that no man has ever dared to whisper. The issue here is I enjoyed the s3x so much that I fell in love with him.
I have been married now for a year and I'm still gbenshing my rapist and in love with him. He is becoming jealous and wants me all to himself...my people what do i do?