Beautiful Monday!
I hope you are having a good start in the new week?
God bless,no stress!
I miss my #CookiesAndCream.
BEAUTIFUL FACE OF IHN SAYS...
Hello Stella. I'm New bv(still getting used to this term). Your blog just has this addictive spirit attached to it..
This blog is really one that anyone could get back home to, sit on a couch, grab popcorn and Relax..
I really don't mind their bad mouth oh.. .na just mouth after all, nothing more
BV Blessing
Beautiful Blessing you are so blessed.I love your hairdo..what is this called?Is it crochet?I am planning on crocheting for Christmas oh.
If you think you are good enough to make face of IHN,Please send in your photo,all it takes is for you to have confidence and believe that you look good.
For example,there is nothing anyone can tell me that will convince me otherwise that i am not beautiful..I was made in God's likeness so i stand on that,if you are seeing anything else then you dental help for your eyes...LOL
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NOODLES GIVEAWAY
Good day Stella, Happy sunday to you. Thanks for giving us a home in your blog, keep up the good work. Lots of love. I would like to giveaway two cartons of noodles of Honeywell and Dangote to two struggling mothers who are really in need of it. Location is isolo, Lagos.
Please i'll also appreciate if you'll help me to post this, I am a wholesaler of kings, Mamador and Power oil groundnut oil, for a my fellow BV'S who are into hamper business this Xmas period please patronize your BV sister. Kindly call 07014295246.
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APPRECIATION FOR 5K GIVEAWAY FROM ENGR AYYUB
Hello Stella,
I am sending this appreciation on behalf of my son.He was chosen for Engr Ayyub monthly give away to enable me pay his fees.
I want to appreciate you for your kind gesture and the platform and for Engr Ayyub household, their source will never run dry and God will continue to bless the entire household.Amen.
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MAKEUP ARTISTE NEEDED ASAP
I am in need of make up artist preferably those that reside in anambra state for my upcoming traditional marriage next month. No buhari price please coz we are working on a tight budget. U can reach me on angeleze35@gmail.com
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In Need Of A Good Affordable Generator.
Hello Stella and fellow BVs....trust your weekend was excited.
Please I'm in need of a sound generator for my fridge and electronics, this heat is too much.
Any BV around Yaba or Lagos mainland who is willing to sell his/her own at an affordable price should contact me on 08025653564. Thanks and have a fruitful week.
No Buhari price please!
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HELP...I NEED HELP!!!
Good day Stella,
I really hate bringing domestic issues to the public sphere but my God I need help.
I lost it yesterday and really beat my wife. I am really slow to anger but when I lose it, I really go to extremes.
Just looking at the bruises this morning and I shudder knowing I did this to the mother of my children.
Suddenly my reason for hitting her seems trivial. Where does one get help on anger management please?
This woman is a good woman. I mean good but in 8years I've not been able to deal with her stubborn side.
I don't want to say what she did or does to trigger this. That's not my reason for sending this. I just want help. I have become what I used to criticize as a bachelor and I hate myself.
Please don't tell me to just take a walk whenever she starts her issues cos I've tried that and please don't tell me to find a pastor. I can't stand them.
I want a therapist a hotline something biko nwannem. I love this woman.
Please if you are a therapist and can help this man,contact him via addyfel@gmail.com
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FREE BRIDAL MAKEOVER
Hello My darling Stella.
Fortunes Gold Beauty makeovers will love to do a free bridal makeover for any bride in Benin or Warri getting married on the 3rd of December.
Contact: 08114743364 ( Please WhatsApp only).
Thanks darling Stella.
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HEAD TEACHER WANTED
Hi Stella,
Thank you for posting my last email. However, I am still looking for a Head teacher for a new Daycare and nursery school at Agip area.
Interested candidates should have at least 3 years experience, must be female, and should have relevant qualifications especially regarding dealing with children.
Anyone who is interested should kindly send their cv's to incnig.careers@gmail.com or call 07066683821 for more information.
Thank you so much.
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VACANCIES
My dearest Stella,
Please I have some vacancies. If it's okay by you, I would appreciate it if you can help me post it as a vacancy section of your blog. It could go a long way in helping someone there, even if it's just to have a place to go every morning.
Many thanks.
1) JOB TITLE: Driver
REPORTING TO: Administrator
EDUCATIONAL/PROFESSIONAL QUALIFICATION: WAEC
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE: 3 years
PERSONAL ATTRIBUTES:
Christian, Single, Neat and Of Good Character, Honest, Ready To Take Instructions
KEY RESPONSIBILITIES/DUTIES:
Driving and some other related assignments
REQUIRED SKILLS/COMPETENCIES:
Good knowledge of Lagos Roads, Must possess valid Driver’s License, Good driving skills, Safety Conscious and Law Abiding.
TYPE OF EMPLOYMENT (FULL OR PART TIME): Full Time
MALE/ FEMALE: Male
AGE RANGE: Matured
SALARY: N25, 000 - N30, 000
DATE OF RESUMPTION: Immediately
To apply, please send your CV to iejrecruitments@yahoo.com on or
before Friday, 25th November 2016
2) JOB TITLE: Receptionist
REPORTING TO: Administrator
EDUCATIONAL/PROFESSIONAL QUALIFICATION: OND
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE: 2 years
PERSONAL ATTRIBUTES: Christian, Neat and of good character, cheerful and good looking, Ready to take instructions
KEY RESPONSIBILITIES/DUTIES:
Secretarial duties, Guest relations
REQUIRED SKILLS/COMPETENCIES:
Computer literacy, Good human relations, Location- around Ikeja/ Maryland
TYPE OF EMPLOYMENT (FULL OR PART TIME): Full Time
MALE/ FEMALE: Female
AGE RANGE: Matured
SALARY: N25, 000 - N35, 000 (depending on the qualification)
DATE OF RESUMPTION: Immediately
To apply, please send your CV to iejrecruitments@yahoo.com on or before Friday, 25th November 2016
2) JOB TITLE: Receptionist
REPORTING TO: Administrator
EDUCATIONAL/PROFESSIONAL QUALIFICATION: OND
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE: 2 years
PERSONAL ATTRIBUTES: Christian, Neat and of good character, cheerful and good looking, Ready to take instructions
KEY RESPONSIBILITIES/DUTIES:
Secretarial duties, Guest relations
REQUIRED SKILLS/COMPETENCIES:
Computer literacy, Good human relations, Location- around Ikeja/ Maryland
TYPE OF EMPLOYMENT (FULL OR PART TIME): Full Time
MALE/ FEMALE: Female
AGE RANGE: Matured
SALARY: N25, 000 - N35, 000 (depending on the qualification)
DATE OF RESUMPTION: Immediately
To apply, please send your CV to iejrecruitments@yahoo.com on or before Friday, 25th November 2016
3) JOB TITLE: Cleaner
REPORTING TO: Administrator
PERSONAL ATTRIBUTES Neat and of good character, Ready to take instructions
KEY RESPONSIBILITIES/DUTIES:
General cleaning of the office, other assigned duties and errands
REQUIRED SKILLS/COMPETENCIES:
Location- around Ikeja/ Maryland
TYPE OF EMPLOYMENT (FULL OR PART TIME): Full Time
MALE/ FEMALE: Any found suitable
AGE RANGE: 25 - 35
SALARY: N20, 000
DATE OF RESUMPTION: Immediately
To apply, please call 0816-793-5151
Thank you!!!!
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APPRECIATION FOR GIVEAWAY FROM BV TRINITY'S SISTER
My dear BVs,
Hope you are doing great. Thanks Stella for the good work. God richly reward you. I want to appreciate Trinity's sister for the giveaway items she gave me. I saw her post and requested for the diapers which she gave me. She was so nice and down to earth. Thank you so much. God shall surprise you. Thanks dear Trinity for acting as a go between and selecting me. I appreciate you as well. I really need it now cos I'm expecting And my husband and I are looking for jobs. God told me not to worry and He has been taking care of us. I encourage pregnant women to trust God. He would take care of His own. I appreciate this big great family.
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ENGAGEMENT GONE WRONG
Good day,
This is a story on how my cousin got herself engaged.
Last year Christmas she met a guy, they dated throughout the Christmas period. After the Christmas celebration, he visited the girl's family home, he met her mother and promised to come back later in January with his kinsmen.
Naim, my cousin rush go Aboki shop buy engagement ring wear herself, she even changed her relationship status on Facebook to ENGAGED.
After several months without the guy showing his face, she went on Facebook and posted a horrible story 'that her fiancé died in a horrible accident'. Come and see people showing pity to her. Stella it wasn't funny then ooh, whenever I remember I just laugh hard...
What's my point? our ladies shouldn't be in a hurry.
VACANCY FOR DRIVER
Dearest Stella,
We require the services of a PROFESSIONAL DRIVER. He should be RESPONSIBLE, VERY EXPERIENCED and MATURE MINDED. Good natured and well mannered as well. If you do not have the above qualities please do not bother to apply.
Location is Festac, so he should live around Festac and environs.
To apply, send an application to: ajservicescompany@gmail.com
What's my point? our ladies shouldn't be in a hurry.
I hope that her facebook post will not come back to hant her when she eventually gets engaged for real....
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VACANCY FOR DRIVER
Dearest Stella,
We require the services of a PROFESSIONAL DRIVER. He should be RESPONSIBLE, VERY EXPERIENCED and MATURE MINDED. Good natured and well mannered as well. If you do not have the above qualities please do not bother to apply.
Location is Festac, so he should live around Festac and environs.
To apply, send an application to: ajservicescompany@gmail.com
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SIGNING OUT NICELY
Haha.....Foni.
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ReplyDeleteWatching movies on my phone is so not fun, so I have to wait till my Aba brothers release theirs. Mschewwwwww. The suspense is killing oh. I'm sure it's khaleesi that will win at the end.
ReplyDeleteI smiled and also learned. Thanks
ReplyDeleteU probably have been thinking about him much,lately!
ReplyDeletePlumpy j I have seen scandal waiting for season 6. I have seen devious maids too. Biko name another ehn. Tanxs
ReplyDeleteAtheist were you a part of the crew? Abi na you be executive producer to even know how many episodes dey. Lol. Tanx boo. I just cant wait anymore.
*grabs cucumber*
D'Royalty are you see what ayam saw? Xmas giveaway and new Ids appear.
ReplyDeleteChoi choi with gutter mouth bv King Nwa Amaka has put her full length photo. Wey ur own foto na
It's all good in IHN!!😊
ReplyDeleteRose flower you have neva been a happy bv na . you belong to the pretenders club lots of your comment carry hate and mockery like chair. Abeg swerve
ReplyDeleteReally?
ReplyDeleteE Don do na. 😒😒😒
ReplyDeleteAnony,wetin dey pain you
ReplyDeleteAre you serving in Gombe? I served there too, thanks to my glo guys, they made the town fun for me and I enjoyed every bit of it. Make friends with working class there and not corpers.
ReplyDeleteTrue
ReplyDeleteLord pls pick my calls.
ReplyDeleteNo reasonable church will wed without your bride price been paid.
ReplyDeleteMy church will even send a Rep to your traditional wedding or bride price paying before they will consider you for a church wedding.
Boo boo happy birthday
ReplyDeleteGod bless the givers n d receivers Cheers
ReplyDeleteAbeg who will help me manage it,i don't have that time but I want the money
ReplyDeleteStale...
ReplyDeleteHow about studying... hehe
ReplyDeleteMy dear, we are in d same condition.. D thing sef don tire me, another month at home. This country sef. My friend now told me to give her all the things I bought so she can use and give me back.. Mtchw. Disorganized country.. See 19800 that am hoping for.
ReplyDeleteGotham,greys anatomy,how to get away with murder.
ReplyDeleteHBD your highness, God bless you!
ReplyDelete... Jesus is my worth!
This thing NYSC people did to me today is not fair...they should have told people to prepare for stream 2 Abi ocean 2.
ReplyDeleteMe sef I need help to control my mouth and anger.Almost lost my hubby to them.Please someone should be kind enough to give new bvs a step by step guide on how to open a blog I'd. The one posted by Kevin didn't work for me as I don't have an existing id. On the other hand, Stella make it a stand alone post. A lot of people want to get identity on this blog and the more relate with ourselves personally based on I'd, the merrier it will be. It's just like knowing the names of your family members and relating with them based on who they are instead of generalising
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday dear
ReplyDeleteThanks guys for the encouragement.
ReplyDelete@queen believe it I'm a born billionaire, it's normal to feel this way for the first time na *wink*
@annon 14:10 Even if nobody had told you to give her emergency contraceptive you shld have used your initiative. I doubt he will marry her but the dynamic of your home has changed forever. I believe it's more than 5 times tbh. Why does she want to keep the baby? You and your husband shld go and meet her and her mom. Tell her that marriage isnt even an option and that if she wants to keep the baby she is on her own. Then give them a week to stew in this. If they are smart chances are that they will cahnge their mind, if they don't your husband better start sending money for antenatal and baby stuff cos it will be inhuman to abandon them. I hope the girl isn't a teenager oh cos your husband may just be a paedophile.
ReplyDeleteLooool @ if it's with feeding!! You are cray May,no be you dey find 'correct place'
ReplyDeleteLoud it annony!!! Not discouraging ooo but you guys should be careful
ReplyDeleteHello boo.....#sideye
ReplyDeleteLet her give birth to the baby while staying in her mothers house. You can take care of the baby. Please don't let her ruin your marriage.
ReplyDeleteGo to Toxicwap.com look for series and the movies! Knock urself out and thank me with otele!
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Howdy
ReplyDeleteChai! See awoof! Oya hit me up at La Mango Gra, den I will take u there and do ur otele one kain... Kpankere y u dey laff? Hmmmmn don't tempt me to txt TB Joshua to prophesy o!😏
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Kirk Franklin?
ReplyDeletehahahahaha kelvin, tell choi choi how to get there. which kind address be this? Otele man
ReplyDeleteLove me till I faint! When will u submit to me na 😥 I need to teach u a lasson! U kno na *winks*
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Hahahahahahahahahaha...... Very correct!!
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteMay you no well ooo.
Its only the traditional and court wedding that matters. The white wedding is just for effizy. Well I did the three to avoid story but I'm talking from xprience. Your people have to be settled traditional which you will be asked in court and in church. So my dear your not yet his wife.
ReplyDeleteAnon 14:59 for everyone not to like you that means you don't have respect..work on it and NO you are not legally married to him you are still a babymama
ReplyDeleteWhy are you using her sexuality as a weapon? No one calls you an idiot heterosexual now, do they? You have a problem with Elena, call her on it and chill with dragging her on issues that frankly do NOT concern you. BTW I don't know Elena on or off the blog.
ReplyDeleteLol😁😁😁 reminds me of one burial I attended with my grabd ma 13years ago. Peep be begging and badmouthing eachother cos rice. Even my grandma had spoon in her.reason is she dsnt eat with spoon given to them as she is among the meeting group which lost a member.
ReplyDeleteMadam, take her for scan to confirm the pregnancy first. Na today? Village people will tell you something and you believe??
ReplyDeleteTake 10 slaps first.
Next you tell your mum. Na only you waka come?
King Nwamaka, we had the wedding in the u.k. Pls I want to know if I have rights as a wife. I am really confused
ReplyDeleteIt's not about the country but who officiated the wedding. If you wedded in a UK court, you are his legal wife. if you went to a Catholic or Anglican church, you are his legal wife and as a legal wife, you had rights. If he took you to a Nigerian new generation church that did not get a license and register the marriage in court, you are not a legal wife however, you may have some rights as a common law partner. If you are very worried, go see good family lawyer or get hubby to marry you in court. If he loves you, he will understand the importance especially if you guys have kids.
DeleteLol. Fall off bed. Chai, bv May you are mouthed. The feeding must be two square meal with desert and appetizers to go with it.
ReplyDeleteTush baby have killed me o, hahahaahaha.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 14:52, Nsukwu na ekene.
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:36.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you. But your husband slept with her countless times and not 5 times.
Some men are worse than dogs oh.
At Anno: pls don't leave your house for a maid. Ask God for wisdom to deal with the situation bcos it's very delicate don't listen to Queen of the blog, if the gal comes to the house and get rid of the baby they might fight you physically and spiritually. Be careful
ReplyDeleteOga wife beater it's only you that can help yourself, be determine to overlook her flaws nobody is perfect.
Try control your anger and talk to God to help you. Goodluck
Thank you
ReplyDeleteReally?
ReplyDeleteLoveme jeje, which church do you attend? Because the way sing the praises of your bishop, odikwa very strong o.
ReplyDeleteLol. So correct. Typical of Nigerians
ReplyDeleteAno 14:59 you aren't legally. You didn't go to the registry, neither did they pay dowry. Iyawo nylon bag ni e o. Where is your husband? Is it his family that controls him? And check yourself too, are you disrespected to your in-laws? You better don't waste your time. Re package yourself and move on because you are a babymama and not a wife.
ReplyDeleteNo be only you oh
ReplyDeleteMy own I apply for N power teach and I got N power build. Wetin I wan build?
Nonsense, na this kind doctor my husband dey like reply. How e take concern am?
ReplyDeletePeople when they conceive during honey moon nko?
Safe delivery
Shout it loud
ReplyDeleteFunny. Spirit of envy
Annon 14:59 Are your truly mannerless ? If yes, you are not yet married o.
ReplyDeleteYou better go and beg them for forgiveness
Cucumber big Darling, try carrot to avoid bruises
ReplyDeleteTush baby u just made my evening! Rotflmao...
ReplyDelete@Atheist, season 8 will be the last season, actually. Seasons 7 and 8 will only have a "handful" of episodes spread across both seasons 7 and 8, according to E! News. Sad much.
ReplyDelete@Steffy, How To Get Away With Murder is pretty good. Stranger Things. Atlanta. Insecure. Scream Queens. All the aforementioned shows are pretty darn good (I watch them and enjoy them).
Pple crying u didn't take our advice before, if she had taken to maid to see a doctor so? You wanted her to abort d pregnacy without d maid's consent or again her wish, like seriously??? If anybody must abort, let it be horseband, his wandering fucking DICK should be amputated!
ReplyDeleteLmfaooooooooo so true!!! Igbo kwenu
ReplyDeleteGbammest!! Iji okwu
ReplyDeleteInukwa!! So why is it too late na
ReplyDeleteWhat makes you feel Diff would be stress-free?
ReplyDeleteWord @Atheist!!! Awesome signout.
ReplyDeleteGlad the man us seeking help for his issue.
Sweets, the dowry is an important part of marriage... if he's not paid it and the family knows he hasn't paid it, I doubt they see you as a legal wife. I guess that's why you have been having issues with them.
ReplyDeleteEasy dear,you never can tell what God has in stock for you!be positive!all d best
ReplyDeleteJay she does! A man that truly loves his good wife will not hit her even though she shows her stubborn side everytime. He will do whatever it takes to solve the problem without violence being involved. If you check it he still found a way to blame the woman for what he did with his own hands and I have a strong feeling that what he calls stubborn, is her not being at his Beck and call everytime. Anyway Oga, the main thing is that you know you have a problem. Kudos to you for trying to find a solution.
ReplyDeleteStefy you should watch How To Get Away with murder and Gray's Anatomy, Empire too
ReplyDeleteLala
Got married and immediately got pregnant, got pregnant again after two month of delivery. Please what should I do.
ReplyDeleteno u r not married dear.u ar only cohabbiting.d dowry to ur parents is wat mak u legaly married.
ReplyDeleteVillager na u b my new blog crush nw o.hehehehe
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteModern family. 2broke girls. Family guy. Mom. The Big Bang theory. They comedy though...... enjoy!
ReplyDeleteThat story of the lady that got engaged Is
ReplyDeleteso funny.
Osukwa hi
ReplyDeleteMadam don't bring her into your home ever again! Your husband is sorry and to prove this let him sign agreement with you that he won't marry the girl. He has to stand his grounds on this like those useless jobless boys do!
ReplyDeleteHe can insist he needs a DNA proof that the child is indeed his, I am sure her folks can't afford that.
Lastly, if eventually she gave birth and problem continues, Tell them you will be supporting them financially.
I wish you had prevented this!!
MrsBee
Send your question to Stellz, I'd like to know what everyone thinks.
ReplyDeleteOne needs the parents blessing and witness to seal marriage IMO
MrsBee
IHN is bae, thank sdk
ReplyDeleteEven me. I couldn't even tell my husband or anybody for that matter. If my 250k enter voicemail let me just cry in peace and not have additional burden of "I told you so" & blames. I cant wait for 5days to GH and reclaim my money.
ReplyDeleteThat was how a yeye friend asked me how much is the worth of my arm when I told her the cost of my watch. Broke ass mentality msheww. I just looked at him & hissed.
ReplyDeleteOnly white weddings performed in a Catholic or Anglican church is legally recognized in court. If you married in one of these new generation churches, try and get him to do a court wedding. It doesn't matter if his family is absent as long as you have 2 witnesses but try to make peace with his family if possible.
ReplyDeleteEgo oyinbo has killed me and carry my volvo.
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