Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Plea Memo To Angry Husband From Blog Visitor.

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Thursday, 10 November 2016

Plea Memo To Angry Husband From Blog Visitor.

We posted a plea to an angry husband before on this platform and it worked out,hopefully,whoever this is meant for will also see it and cool down...





''My Dear Stella‎,
I need your assistance. Please kindly beg my husband Dr. A. for me. Out of anger I said things I shouldn't have said, I wasn't there when he needed me, because I felt he wasn't there for me too. By this event I've realized how emotionally attached I am to him. 


Anger is not good at all and I have that problem.

We have known each other for over 18 years and married for 9 years now.‎ We met in our teenage years. He was my first, never dated any other guy. For the sake of what we shared, please my baby forgive me.

 I left my base to his, on Tuesday but he is still upset with me. I'll learn to control my anger. My first Love, my one and only, peacemaker, the most humble being I've ever met. Stop killing me silently with these resentments. 

Sweets you know I'm crazily and hopelessly in Love with you. My sexy Doc. My handsome. I can't leave you for anything. Never. I'll keep begging until you forgive me.

I'm short of words. Find it in your heart ‎to fall back in love with me again. 

I may not have composed this properly. Please you all help me beg my 'Sweets' as I fondly call him, to forgive me

This love ehnn if I come out of this ehn no be person go tell me........
Stella he is your Waffi Bros, do your magic for me‎.


*Bros abeg make you cool down forget the opata when she yarn you..you no sabi how we women mouth be?we fit use mouth ''kee' person.
Abeg Bros forgive and forget,make you manage this repentant devil when you know so..
She say she go change (not Buhari type of change oooo)...
Make you give another chance again and fall back in love with am..No be person go tell am again to watch her big mouth..LOL
I hope my beggings make you smile oh....

*Pushes Doc back in love with wife*
Madam if una settle na recharge card you go use settle we oh....ehen!



179 comments:

radiant D said...

Oga abeg forgive her.

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Oga, forgive her and give her belly make her body come down.

Anonymous said...

Rada rada. What won't I see, indeed the world is coming to an end. I'm still trying to contain my anger from watching Catching Kelcee on E where 50 girls are vying for one guy, now this. Mtscheeew

Nwa Nlecha said...

Awwwww!
Doc pls forgive your wife, I'm sure she is truly sorry!

Nwunye Doc, Biko control your anger!
Next time when you are angry, put water in your mouth and make sure you don't swallow it or pour it out, that way you won't be able to say things you can't take back!

Sweets, forgive your Sugar!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Hahahahahahahaha...
Me I can't beg a man like this oh!...not even my husband...
If I beg you small and you are still doing shakara,I will ignore you totally!...
Inukwa?...
When you are not even God?...
Odiegwu!...
Madam,continue begging you hear!..

Anonymous said...

Dr. E. A, Please, find a place in your heart to forgive your Wife. It takes a lot for her to do what she did so please rekindle your relationship with her as she ready to do same with you. Thank you.!!

Becky Divine said...

Awww oga forgive am mbok. Let love reign ooh

Oya you both should kiss and make-up immediately!!!!! Madam whatever you did, don't ever try it again please

mimsy said...

Bros please forgive her. She seems repentant enough, as I'm sure she's learnt her lessons.

NIRVANA said...

SMH

Bibi said...

Don't worry Stella has done the magic, he will forgive you but don't push it next time. Good men are hard to find please amend your ways..

Ada Nwanbueze said...

Madam how we go take beg now wen you nor tell us wetin you do/talk? Till then, I won't help you beg sorry.

peace maker said...

Hmmmmmm did I just saw @peacemaker in the write up?

Anonymous said...

Am sure Doci will read this amd see the funny side of it. Woman, go and sin no more.
Your sins av been forgiven
Doctor, all BVs are begging oooo.
E ma binu ooooooo

BeeVee Boo's Barny said...

Why you no kuku call am chewing gum, oya oga leave that sidehen that is distracting you and face your iyawo ASAP

Bee10 said...

Forgive your wife please

white Berry said...

Oga sweet to madam plz forgive her, teeth and tongue they quarrel sometimes so pls sir take it as one of those things. Forgive madam for us. She loves you so much.

Jessy Oriflame said...

Oga bros husband, abeg, forgive her for she knew not what she was doing/saying. Biko, ejoo, lawowo. Thank you in advance

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

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peace maker said...

Madam, I hope u now know who is d head of d house .

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Bv's sweetheart, please forgive her. She's truly sorry. Marriage is a union of 2 forgivers. Put the devil to shame and let it work. Dan Allah, ejo, biko

Loveme Jeje said...

hahahaha, is he a blog visitor?

oya Bros Sweetie abeg oooo, forgive madam talk talk. She loves you ooo.

You have come a long way, dont allow her foolishness to get to you.

Madam, next time KEEP QUIET.

OlaGold (add up 58BF8F56 for 18-24k raw gold dust and bar) said...

Bros E Jo. Forgive madam ooo

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Bv's sweetheart, please forgive her. She's truly sorry. Marriage is a union of 2 forgivers. Put the devil to shame and let it work. Dan Allah, ejo, biko

peace maker said...

Women will always talk b4 they think.

Amebo said...

My sexy Doc, I beg you just forgive am. If she misyarn again my arms we be wide open to accept you. *I know he is a Rich doctor if not you for nor dey beg am like this. Poor people nor dey vex πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Oga sweet abet leave that side chick and fall back to madam.

I approve you have a side chick but just for pleasure. Abeg accept her back. She is scared as you can see. The recession isn't smiling and Nobody respects a woman webpage is separated from her husband.

Abeg bros

Miss Brown said...

She is really repentant, awwwn this is lovely, please forgive her sir, she has realized her wrong and has promised to change..

vancutie said...

awwwww di oma biko forgive her... am sure she has learnt her lesson, madam biko take it easy next time: when angry try not to talk just walk away and keep calm.

GORRETI BAE said...

Oga abeg fgv am.. E no get road to aba wey near... No one is perfect. U guys have known each other for 18years so biko fgv n fgt..

candy yumyum said...

forgive your wife.

Anonymous said...

Love is stronger than pride.

I'm angry but I still love you.

Repeat as many times as needed to yourself, to save you the stress of saying things you'll regret and the also the stress of begging your husband via a public forum. #Bye

Spicy April said...

Doc, her one and only true love, please kindly forgive her ok. Goodluck and cheers to you both.

peace maker said...

Na so una go dey shout I love my dh but com respect una no go show him.I hope u will learn good manners after he must hv forgiven u cox I know he will at least for d sake of d good old days wey u never tear eyes.

gorgeous baby said...

Please Doc, kindly forgive your woman,she loves you and kindly forget all she said.

peace maker said...

Na so una go dey shout I love my dh but common respect una no go show him.I hope u will learn good manners after he must hv forgiven u cox I know he will at least for d sake of d good old days wey ur eyes never tear .

nkiruka alonge said...

wow!oga pls forgive ur wife and fall back in lov with her,her mouth no go run like tap again.

candy yumyum said...

even thoh i dont like putting mouth in husband and wife matter, i dont want another marriage to break. so oga free her basket mouth and forgive her.

Hourglass said...

Oga, Abeg, cool your temper. Please forgive your wife.

I understand marriage wahala, it isn't easy.

young FOREVER said...

Awww. Forgive ur wife dear dokita. If she repeat it again,then you will have a reason not to look back.we beg u in d name of that "one thing" that made u fell in love with her yrs ago. Ejoor, e ma binu si wa. Me too sef,my mouth na wire Nd I can only but imagine

Miss Brown said...

And poster please don't forget to give us feed back on how it went, so many things happen on this blog and I find myself wondering weeks and months later how those issues were settled or how they ended, I always crave for feed backs especially from those who send in chronicles eg the woman with hubby and 3kids in cairo with a rival in Nigeria here..

Christabel said...

To err is human, to forgive is divine ' pls doc forgive your wifey. Let peace reign. I can imagine the emotional torture she's going thru . Bros abeg cool your temper .

Olori footwear said...

Has it gotten to this? Madam what if your husband doesn't like this idea? Each to his own though.

Anonymous said...

Please please please forgive her doc.

From her fellow sharp mouth woman hehehe

Anonymous said...

People get time sha!

mulika said...

Oga forgive abeg....No vexz....

Shantelle's Empire said...

Your hubby is a bv? Maybe he has participated in SM and one smally is shacking him for now. I wonder how our parents settled before social media.

Ngwanu,doctor forgive your wife.

Cutehajia said...

Oga pls forgive and forget.. Madam pls mind the way you talk to oga.. #Ngwanu make una hug each other#...

Shantelle's Empire said...

No mind am,why will a man be keeping grudge like a woman? Nawa! Ontop that,he reads blogs. Issoriat

Anonymous said...

You are a COMPLETE FOOL.
ELEDE....

Shantelle's Empire said...

Hahaha. Wee you stopeet!

La'creamie said...

Ide u wee not kee me ooo... How u take know same him get side chic???? Kwakwakwa.....

Anonymous said...

I hope this means she has been forgiven right?
Your hippocratic sister dey beg you so.
Abeg forgive wifey.. Thanks.

MISS TRURH said...

Madam I hope you did not tell him that his AMU is small,,Hehehe.. Sexy Doctor please forgive.

Shantelle's Empire said...

Your sexy doc? Where you sabi am from?

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Oga peacemaker abeg forgive and forget.

Mao Akuh said...

See begging like say you no dey offend your wifey. No because of this agbu-obi go torch-light your nurses...abeg grab your wifey and calm down as this life na once o.

Enjoy Doc.
Forgive so that your patients won't suffer for it. Jesus cares.

Pretty-mind said...

Darling forgive her and forget, we know she's done u wrong n now she regret.kos she need u back in her life to love n to 'gbensh'the hell out of her.
Pls forgive ur wife

prettyi said...

Hahahaha the girl that was evicted was just crying, I was left mouth open like how you gan love someone just like that! Knowing other 49 were kissing him too!

starshine said...

Bros abeg epp us forgive your wife. No vex again

Obi's Jewel said...

Hahahhahaha see different types of abeg things for blog. BVs una no go kee pesin. Oga oya e don do. Make u sef use shame forgive ur wife na as she don report u for village meeting. Oya make una hug. One love to u guys!

Anonymous said...

oga abeg I use God beg u. as I dey here so, I dey kneel down/lie down on her behalf. I'm sure she is truly sorry. see eh, we women get mouth too much, me inclusive. all those things she said she doesn't mean dem, na just anger she use talk am. she loves u. I've had this kind of encounter with my boo, but d love I have for him eh, after God na him, but my mouth no dey gree rest. but I don change Sha. abeg oga forgive am, naso we women mean. trust me after now, she not fit try that nonsense again.

PS- madam no try am again ooo. in fact cook his best meal, do every good thing doable for the next month, no quarrel oooo, even if na him cos am, just dey smile.
oga thank u in advance.

Maureen Ekeh said...

Doctor please forgive your love, she is truely sorry for everything.God bless you sir.

becky naka said...

Stella u be confirm waffy woman... bros no vex.

Tayan Taylor said...

Oga forgive madam oh,i know you have a side chick but always remember that after wandering you still need to return home
Docs are Corrupt, they like sex too much

Baby skeske said...

Stella u need 2 see d way am laughing loud, ur begging na from heaven,bros no vex I beg

zion baby said...

Oga Doc please forgive her.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Peace maker u are needed urgently.... πŸ˜‚
Oga, calm down jare, if na u provoke ur wife now she for don forgive u.
This is marriage, learn to forgive n move on.
She us your better half, getting angry with her is like getting angry with yourself.
KizzesπŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Una de craze. Na strangers make dem beg your husband. Wifey you are showing your immaturity again. You probably were not ready for marriage so you talk anyhow. I am sure na your type go de insult single girls here. Now you want us to help you beg with your wide mouth. Carry your cross abeg. And stop carrying your business up and down. Lastly grow the fuck up.

Sophisticated Mimi said...

Sir
Please forgive her
I'm sure she's wholeheartedly sorry

Cinnamon Apple said...

I didn't see you here yesterday, hope you're good?

Girl in love said...

I love Queen and boss I swear. She just keeps it real. That anon that mentioned catching kelcee on E! I swear I thought it was only me, shame catch those girls leave me. I can't beg a man like this! I just cannot. Call me proud but that's ur bloody headache.

zinny uwalaka said...

My dear in marriage u must beg oooo. For the sake of your home. Its just pride in you that's all. Me I go over beg to keep my man. Especially when am at fault. Abi u know no read d story wella

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

So u also watch that stupid program?
LMAO... Husband material no too dey market πŸ˜πŸ˜‰

Anonymous said...

As the amebo that you is now.

Anonymous said...

You are naturally bitter.
Oga abeg forgive her biko and madam, mind your mouth next time.

Anonymous said...

You r the side hen, FOOL

Anonymous said...

So u can stop begging, God be praised

Stella maris Baby said...

Oga Doc,_please forgive ur wife,for the sake of good old time sake.
She has learn her lesson..

Madam,go & sin no more,remember to always control ur mouth next time Oga is talking..


Girl in love said...

I love Queen and boss I swear. She just keeps it real. That anon that mentioned catching kelcee on E! I swear I thought it was only me, shame catch those girls leave me. I can't beg a man like this! I just cannot. Call me proud but that's ur bloody headache.

Anonymous said...

R u not a side hen yourself? Always yarning dust....idiot bride

Anonymous said...

@Linda Eze keep deceiving other women to have problem in their homes while you respect and live in peace with your dh.Continue your cup go soon full like your false prophecy pastor

Anonymous said...

What is this idiot saying?

code009 said...

Oya u r the head of the house pls forgive me sweets....

Anonymous said...

You r jx so jealous, u can't stand her being happy. I will open ur yansh here, I swear it. Be careful n watch ur flat back

Anonymous said...

Oga no vex for madam, it is not easy to come out open to beg your love ones to let peace reign, she loves you and i no you do too, no vex oh, kiss madam for me and remain bless

Anonymous said...

Like u care

Anonymous said...

Learn to mind your biz n give us feedback when you r done fucking your dad's frd

James' Lover said...

Queen, you don craze totally.. lmao

Lacey Love said...

AmeboooπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

crouchingTigress said...

Lol,oga pls to err is human and to forgive is divine. Pls forgiv her.

Anonymous said...

I no get ur time, if not

James' Lover said...

He likes it.,what is your own? ITK

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Hahaha

Aeegurl... said...

Lol

Roseflower said...

Doctor sweets,please forgive her and make your marriage work. Love is not about holding hands while you understand each other but about having many misunderstandings and not leaving each other's hand. Madam please bridle your tongue. Even as a woman I hate flippant, lousy and nagging people.

Anonymous said...

OMG!!! lmao... Who is behind this handle, you be fool@ poor pple nor dey vex

Vivilicious said...

All I see is peacemaker.

Sonia Spence said...

Bros doke please forgive her. She's truly sorry.

Anonymous said...

Smh, I Really Pity You.

Ella 'R said...

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Kachi said...

Oga please forgive your wife, sometimes we women talk without thinking, at least she has learnt her lesson

Anonymous said...

Must Everything Involve Side Hen, Smh For You.

Fiona said...

Doc pls forgive and forget. Madam is indeed sorry.

SANDY NEKY said...

Awwww what a fam blog like jeeeeeeez! This got me damn emotional now. Mr sweets, pls kindly forgive and forget biko. We can be mouthed atimes which is just normal hun not like we mean it sef as such,keep understanding hun. Thank you very plenty

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Nothing wrong in begging whom you love like this

Anonymous said...

Pls Doctor, Forgive Her, Ejoor,mbork.

The General's Wife said...

Awwwww
Please forgive her Sir. Please.
She loves you see?And see the humility. She says she won't stop til you forgive her. Eeeya.
I know you wil say she does it all the time but u see? It's because she is human. To err is human and to forgive,Divine.
Please don't focus on her shortcoming now but on her good side. Please forgive and forget!

Thank you sir in advance!

Nwunye Doctor,I know u have really learnt this time around.As You don hear nwiiiii! Now go and sin no more!

Anonymous said...

Here's some sugar cane to add some sweetness to your life; and also beat out the bitterness. You go dey alright last last

Anonymous said...

My fellow Doc
Please forgive Mrs
It is well

Karma said...

Will you keep kwayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet,looooool.....

geraldine okafor said...

Enter your reply...i look forward to ur comments.. Am ur A.C not just ur fan

The widow said...

So I thought I was alone in hating catching kelcee o, that show is annoying. Doc please forgive your wife,life's too short to ignore people who play vital roles in our lives. Kiss and make up biko.

LAS GidDY said...

Will stop her from running her mouth like a "free-wheel" tap after now? Couple with her inability to put her temper in check?

Una get time o.

Anonymous said...

I am not bitter, far from it sef. I just think it's childish coming to a blog and asking people you don't know to help you beg your spouse. Yes I stand by my words, it is rada rada. I've eaten my half of the sugarcane, oya take the other half. Lol

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Lol
Thanks for the love Geraldine.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Olori footwear. You just spoke my mind.

tush baby said...

U really like gossip..loool

ChyAdaJesus said...

Gbam!!! @Chibaibe.

ChyAdaJesus said...

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Oga dear pls forgive your sweet heart. She has promised to bite her tongue from now on.

sassy barrister said...

Gosh Stella, ur begging. I can't stop laughing.
Good one tho. U re a correct waffi chic.

@michelleogo said...

Docki mbok forgive and forget

Miss Brown said...

Lol@tush baby no you don't get joor, not like gossip, I'm really surprised at the problems of some peoples lives and I'm interested in how they dealt with it, not like its my business sha

Miss Brown said...

Lol, don't mind this queen, she doesn't mean it, she will beg but maybe not publicly

Empress CHO said...

I find this terribly childish and disgusting....mtshewww
Like seriously?
Madam, you may not realise it now, you have pressed the drama button in your marriage.
It will manifest in a while...mark my words!!!
Get a grip of yourself, this is not an extraordinary step to seek reconciliation,i dont buy the BS. This is you escalating things with a notice me or i quench attitude to boot. Enjoy the attention and comments, get your hubby's ego boosted and get the compensatory attention u seek but, i hope the dynamics do not change so much, you have to write a chronicle later.

Anonymous said...

Dr please forgive your wife.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Hahahahhahahah @anon 16:16 how did spicy offend you? Bitter soul

Barr. Oma said...

Doc,please forgive her.She has repented from her mistake. Two wrongs can't make a right,prolonging the issue will not give either of your peace of mind and as the peacemaker that is you biko forgive her. Infact like Chi exotic suggest give am belle to keep her busy 😁😁😁

Miss Brown said...

@anon 16:18 I laugh in chinese

iam Owen said...

Oga Dr Bros....somborry cannot even play with u again?....is joke she is....juss forgive and forget eh....be a lamb bros

Uniq Gem said...

Please forgive her sir.

Cisca Chesca said...

MR abeg forgive your MRS

spunky said...

Gerald baby hw is u

spunky said...

Comment GI bugodu 6figures

Anonymous said...

All of you asking me to forgive her do you know what she said to me?

Mother confessor THE REAL DEAL . said...

I cannot beg a man like this. Never.

stephan said...

Pls what if the woman that cheated on her husband,hav she been forgiven ?

NIRVANA said...

Shantelle my boo. Where have you been? Can't someone shake their head in peace

Starjoy said...

Bros abeg forgive babe for her wrong

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

1m likes

Anonymous said...

Am sorry miss brown, am the same anonymous.... Choptas kiss

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

You see what I was saying?...
This woman should ignore this man nah!...
Can you imagine?...
Over 100 people here have begged you on her behalf and you are still feeling on top of the world!..

Who are you that you can't forgive her when God himself forgives us!...
Thank God I didn't join them in begging you cos It would have pained me seeing this your comment!...
Una type no dey jam my type of women ka m gobo gi nti!...

Anonymous said...

Mother confessor, stop fooling younger girls, you will do worse...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

I love you too Girl in love...
Are you always in love?...

Anonymous said...

Doc don't forgive her oo unless she hang her toto ontop table come tie leg for ceiling while she give u toto to fuck. If not no gree ooo. Na hanging toto fucking go be the punishmnt. If she no gree make u no forgive am.

BeeVee Boo's Barny said...

Hahahha fans mi

oluwatoyosi said...

Your comment made me laugh so tey I begin dey cough

oluwatoyosi said...

How many idiots do we have under your comment ideato

oluwatoyosi said...

Mother confessor, if he is a good man that has manage your flaws and you know what u did is abruptly wrong, you will. For a woman to come out like this, it means she over did it and that man is a good man. And she felt his pained with the words she has uttered

oluwatoyosi said...

Oga if na u be this? We don't know but she said she uttered wring words out of anger. It's a big deal so pls forgive her. And if u r not a good man she won't do this. So use your left hanf to embrace her and the right to chastise her, biko.... Pls na wee wee dey follow am beg na. She hasn't blame you in any way. She's begging, biko sweetheart, peace maker, her one and only. Forgive pls. Thank you.

malia said...

Bros abeg 4giv her, becos of baba God just 4get anytin wen she do since she do realize say she dey at fault.abeg bros just cool down 4 Jesus,she nor go try am again.abeg oooo bros

TUSH BABY said...

Madam queen and boss so you believed it is the man that wrote this? Any way madam talk wetin you do to the man

Miss Brown said...
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Anonymous said...

Queen abi wetin you be? And beside how are you sure it is the husband ppl like you sure no get boyfriend let alone husband. Wanna be oshi

Anonymous said...

Hehehe queen

Anonymous said...

You guys can't even take a joke, na wa

Anonymous said...

Okokokoooooo, see rove wantintin

Anonymous said...

Za intelligent one, poster you hear?

Anonymous said...

Wetin she talk na? Tell us so we can warn her too. And you doc, you no know say no be everything woman dey vomit from mouth you supposed dey swallow?

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Not 'all' kindly exclude me. Say 'all BVs except Chikito' thank you 😐

Anonymous said...

Odiegwu.this one don turn public marriage

Anonymous said...

Taa gbafuo!!!

Ndi adviser!

Nnechi Spicy. said...

Mtsheeeeeeew. Nonsense and ingredients!

Bisi said...

We should learn to forgive Jare.
What to do when your pastor or mentor messes up

Ronalda. said...

Even if you can't beg a man, you should be able to beg YOUR HUSBAND for forgiveness if you offended him in any way. If you feel too proud to beg, perhaps you're married to the wrong person or you need an attitude transplant. One of the major reasons marriages crash is, most people don't know what marriage means or is all about. A husband is like a crown on his wife's head, same way a wife is the most precious stone on her husband's crown. If you're single, you are the crown on your own head and you are good enough that way, but the minute you agree to become a man's wife, you must realise your head now wears a new crown. So, don't marry a man you can't respect.

How can the mere thought of begging a man put you off, even where it involves a wife and her hubby? Doesn't that reveal you have deep seated issues? This is her husband, for goodness sake, not her boyfriend. You rush to call her out for begging but you fail to ask what she did wrong. Why the erroneous belief that a wife can get away with anything or a hubby has no right to ignore an erring wife? I think that's grossly unfair. In this era of domestic violence, the hubby should be commended for not using his fists, a lesser man would have.

For the benefit of the single ladies, please, my lovelies, being arrogant to a man you agree to marry is not strength, it's ignorance. The #1 rule is; KNOW YOUR MAN. What works for Mr. A may piss off Mr. B. However, the general rule is; RESPECT YOUR MAN. Don't allow some ladies project their anger at having a recalcitrant boyfriend on someone else's husband. If you want to be lord over yourself, you really don't have to get married, you know? So please, choose wisely.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in begging your ‎hubby, especially when you've done something wrong. A wise woman knows that there are times when she begs for forgiveness, just for peace to reign. The operative words are "there are times", I didn't say "every time".  You may win the battle but lose the war. Be wise.

Suwa Aneetah said...

Forgive her please oga

SWAG LAFRESH said...

1m likes.

Has it gotten to SM level in your marriage? Na wa.

IJAY said...

Oga,BIKO, EJO, forgive her pleasd , she won't do that again and again, abeg forgive her Bro, we are all on BLENDED knees, thank you bro for ACCEPTING. God bless you and may the bond be more STRONGER. Daluuuuu

Anonymous said...

Wisdom....bless you

Anonymous said...

I love u

Anonymous said...

My dear wife,I have forgiven you .Don't say those words to me another day I am man but also a human being with feelings. I thank you all for helping to restore peace and love back in my home. God bless you all

Christina Olumekun said...

Oga plss forgive her.. Thankyoi

stella dimokokorkus said...

Chei Bros your shakara sweet die!!!!!!

Make i push you make you fall more

*pushes doctor into a deeper well of love*

Madam sharp mouth enter email make we yarn oh.

Bros thanks for cooling down.

Tilly said...

Our tongues will not kill us.Women have verbal power while men have physical. Pls forgive us.

EEA said...

Doctor for life, abeg forgive and forget.....for the love u both share.

Anonymous said...

You must beg,why must you carry yourself outside and beg? Beg him at home,toast him,this woman n.a. d type wey go dey gist people around her Wetin dey happen for her house. You must know how to manage crisis in your marriage. Of wch if she had even apologised properly her hubby wld have forgiven her if he truly loved her. Well let me speak for myself. I can't carry my matter outside. we go settle an by force.

Shantelle's Empire said...

Darling,i'v bn on observing mode.

Olori_1812 said...

please doc..forgive your wife

Empress CHO said...

Lol...Aunty ronalda, attitude transplant really? Very flop attempt to sound condescending...that was what you did there.
People who are bashing this are bashing the SM route involved not the act itself.
Poster, ask way matured women a d even your mom about this action you look, look beyond their conservativeness and listen to their reservations. These hiphop wives of 15yrs and below marital experience know too much and so little...sorry.
Very cheeky for a SINGLE GIRL to say, but many here are so consistent in their shallow views...now i'm being condescending and heck, it sticks coz it's true.
Madam, you are 9yrs old in marriage, 2yrs older than the described "Honeymoon of marriage years". More actions will pop up,better find a balance in your communication skills both in quarrel and in peace with your hubby now.

If suddenly you can't get through your hubby after these number of years, you have either overdone it like you admitted or he has evolved. Fix the attitude and exhaust your options completely WITHOUT social media involvement.
Yes, this might work and you guys reconcile but what would be the reason.
That he finally got to "see" how sorry you, to the extent you have to use a renowned blog and the "humility" behind the act. Then he now gets to see how much power he has and what he can do to push you into desperation...good man or bad, it is something to be careful about.
And if this is coz he has evolved, find out what is triggering the new excessive behaviour and not just completely internalize all the faults here... that is the first step to "victimhood". You are more at fault here, but that epistle you put up there is way overcompensating.
Pray very well that your hubby is the truely sensible type and has the fear of God in him else.
You will make more desperate moves should more quarrels pop up...u have exposed your threshold mind you.
It's an unhealthy dose of power you've bestowed on your hubby....forget your good intentions and regret at whatever you do.
For your hubby to make you get this point...he has some ropes of maturity to draw. Silent treatment is a form of abuse. Quick and nasty tongue is a bad flaw, fix it. But then he married you and your flaws not just your good. So find a practical way to work and iron your flaws. You should never try this again.


If this man changes tomorrow and gets a sidehen or chick, this post is an evidence to kick you out. You have casted yourself seriously and painted a saint out of your hubby. Yeah, live life with optimism but be realistic as well. Social media don't care, many people are here to be entertained strictly.
Warn yourself, and never use longterm approach for short term problems.
True, you need to overcome short term problems before reaching long term. However, do things right. Social media has never been a mediator or gauge for marriage and healthy outcomes.
Restrict strangers from your union. All you did here was generate clicks and drama and amusement and maybe the reconciliation you seek. It is not okay to do this at all.

peace maker said...

Empress CHO pls shut the hell up. U r not making any sense.Stay single forever if you cannot beg your husband when you are wrong.
Some men will even use their fist immediately u use ur bad mouth

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