Stella sweets, my bae of life you too gbaski. You are doing a great job and your sense of humor is out of this world. Keep up the good job girl!
Biko hide my ID because I am about to reveal what no one else knows.
Some years back this cute guy was flirting on all the pictures I posted on fb. Finally he sent me a pm to ask me out.
Sharp Sharp I went to tafia on his profile status and saw that he was engaged. Hmmmm..... oga why naw? Do you want someone to visit the shrine on top my matter? Please I can't be responsible for your breakup with your fiancee.
This guy con lock up. Me sef bone like say nothing happen. I moved on fast and forgot about him. I didn't even have a good device to surf the internet so I never visited fb again until two years later.
Some guy bought me a bb bold5 as my birthday gift. With that I became a regular customer on the internet. Was going through fb one day and I saw him. Mehn... this guy has grown ooo.. He don fine finish. I sent him a pm to hail him. He responded and I stylishly asked after his wife. Because for my mind them suppose don marry before I will start falling for a married dude.
Dude said the relationship didn't work bla bla bla. So our conversation started from there like a spark. 6wks into getting to know each other I had fallen deeply for the guy. The conversations we had were deep, sensitive and educating. There was so much about him I have never seen in any man all my life. In my mind, "na for your matter I go die ".
But.... He wouldn't make a move. He gave me signs that he wanted us to take the relationship to the next level and he wanted me to use my brain agree. I no gree ooo... I waited for him to spill it like a man. Although I understood he was afraid of another rejection after his first experience with me. So one day I said to him, what do you want from me?.... Lol..... He became bold and told me his intentions. But he felt indifferent about my response because his profile status states that he is in a relationship. But irrespective he wants me to be his one and only.
I was like chineke meee, why didn't I check all along. Our chats was more on Yahoo messager than fb. So you can understand why I had no time doing amebo on his page. I went there to see for myself and I confirmed that he was in a relationship.
At this point I no send. If he chose me then it means main chick wasnt good enough for him. Ozugbo(quickly ) I told him yes. And we kicked off from there. The relationship was smooth and very interesting and we never spoke about his girlfriend even if I know they were still in contact. I just gave him time to end the relationship. He eventually did.
10months down the line we got married traditionally. All along we hadnt met in person ooo... It was just pictures and Skype video call. But we convinced our families that we had met several times before he traveled to London.
He couldn't attend the marriage because of tight schedule at work. I so trusted him that I didn't bother at all. After all I will still relocate to London to join him.
There are loads of interesting things about the guy that I can't begin to put in words. One of such was the fact that he never requested for my nudes he wasnt even interested to know the colour of my pants. On my part I was very impressed because as that was my first experience with a guy. I never asked him for financial support of any kind and he didn't ever send me money or gifts. But I didn't mind, his person was all I was interested in. I never knew that was one of his test.
Three months after the marriage I joined him in London. When I saw him at Heathrow airport I was lost of words, I became weak I started to weep. He was all shades of cute I couldn't believe my eyes. The videos and pictures didn't do justice to his looks. He looked way better in person.
He was also excited that when we got home he made the sweetest love to me. and for 6weeks we had sex non stop... *winks
Anyway, we did our court marriage and wedding in London. It's been 5 blissful years blessed with two kids. No drama no regrets.
Sorry for the long epistle. I hope I did north west ya time *in Stella's voice *
Kisses to you Stella and BVs
NB:My marriage was FAITH 100%. I never met him until I was married to him. But I believed in my heart that I was doing the right thing. To avoid anyone to make us doubt our decision , we both told our friends and relatives that we have met before.
*mouth hanging loose* YOU MARRIED BEFORE YOU MET?