Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: The Meeting Point -19

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Wednesday, 30 November 2016

The Meeting Point -19

Chei this story sweet eeeh,Where's my popcorn?LOL





Hello Stella,

Thanks for publishing the vacancy I sent, may God continue to bless the works of your hands.

I will like to send my own meeting point story, I know when I sent my WNB, you said my story was dry, its not all of us that are blessed with the gift of story telling, lol, but I do hope I can pass the beauty of this story across.


So, one fateful evening in 2009, in my 300 level, a friend of mine invited me out to her department's bonfire which is part of their end of session activities, she practically dragged me because I had a novel I was reading (introvert things).


My husband saw me for the first time at the bonfire, I didn't see him, or maybe I just didn't pay him any attention, he was the past president of the department, so he was invited, he was doing his masters then, instead of this man to come talk to me, he was forming Don and sent one of his friends.
That friend came, asked me to dance which we did, basically kept me company through out my stay there, when i was ready to go to my hostel, he offered to see me off, while we were walking, he was facebooking on his phone and he asked me for my Facebook name, I told him and he sent a request immediately, he also asked for my phone number which I gave as well but I never heard from him.


The person I heard from was my husband that sent him, when he called and explained himself, I was furious that if he wanted my number, why didn't he come ask for it himself, what was he feeling like? In my mind, I said I would suffer this guy since I didn't give him my number, he had no right to be calling me.


I didn't keep records but thinking about it now, I just realized I didn't allow him see me till 400 level, that was almost a year, he kept calling, sometimes I'll pick, many times I would ignore, kept on posting him, but he persisted, the day I agreed to see him, I told him to come meet me in front of my hostel in the evening, when he called me that he was around, Na so I carried my self go meet am for downstairs, what did I see? One giant looking, black(I guess the darkness made him look darker than normal 😀 guy with lots and lots of beard, I always like clean shaven guys, immediately I was put off, I didn't even spend five minutes with him, told him I had to go somewhere.


Well, he kept on calling, I kept on ignoring till I graduated, he also finished his masters, we lost contact, I was dating someone else at the time.
Fast forward to January 2012, I was serving my fatherland in the north, was chatting on Facebook, when the friend (the one that added me on Facebook) I gave my number initially sent me a message, which I replied, after a while, he asked for my bbm pin which I gave him, he chatted me up on bbm and almost immediately asked if I remembered that his friend then, I said yes I remember, he asked if he could give the friend my pin, I agreed only out of politeness.


The friend sent me a request and I accepted, but I started with my shakara again, he would chat me up, and I will just end the chat without opening so it will keep on showing d(delivered) but never r(read)..blackberry phones, lol
This continued for a few months until one wonderful afternoon that I had just finished cooking and eating my favorite meal, I was lying on my bed, listening to music and chatting (nysc was sweet and stressfree), then his chat came in and because I was in a happy mood, I replied, and we chatted for the next five hours non stop, wow, I was intrigued, he never said any of those rubbish boys liked to say while chatting, we just gisted about everything, and it became a daily affair, before I wake up every day, his message would be waiting for me 
(I always remind him about that now whenever he attempts to form busy).


 he never disappointed, he would encourage me, ask me deep questions, made me think, and boy, he's so wise and smart, he always had a solution for everything, and I was happy I had a new friend, he didn't even ask me out before I started falling for him( I was single then), the beards didn't matter anymore, we became best of friends in those few months before the end of my nysc, I started praying to God about him even before he said anything because I didn't want to make a mistake again, I asked God for some signs and He showed me, so I made up my mind not to do any shakara when he asks me out again.


I finished my nysc and returned to south west, had some interviews in Lagos, so I went, he stays in Lagos, but we didn't see because I didn't know how to tell the people I stayed with, that I wanted to go see a man and I didn't want him to come too, so they won't think I'm a bad shild(in Jenifa's voice)or something.


Anyways, It was during that time, he told me on the phone about his intentions, how he wants to come and prostrate for my father(if you're Yoruba , you will understand the heaviness of the statement) , I didn't even say I want to think about it because I would have been pretending, it was obvious how I felt about him already, all I asked him was I hope he's not dating anyone else because I can't stand drama, he explained how his last relationship ended, and I believed him, because of the signs I had seen from God.


That was how we started, I got the job and moved to Lagos permanently, fortunately he lived close to where I was staying with my relatives, so we used to see every evening when he got back from work, we were like 5 & 6, and I was as happy as anything, he kept his beards trimmed most times even though I never told him I hated beards, and he didn't look so big again in my eyes, lool.


It was everything a relationship was meant to be, my only regret was that I was still a virgin when I met him initially, but by the time we started dating officially, I wasn't anymore, if I had known he would be my husband eventually, I would have agreed since that time, but its all good, I am happy God blessed me with one of the best men on earth, not all Yoruba men are Yoruba demons, a man after God's heart, no stress, very hardworking, he spoils me silly, and we didn't have any issues while dating except when his family refused that he can't marry me because someone went to a pastor to pray about it and the pastor said we are not compatible, it was a tough battle but I stuck with him because I was sure of what God told me, he refused to call his family's bluff and go ahead with the wedding even though we could have done that, but we chose to pray and wait, and just like a miracle, after four years of dating, his father called out of the blues one day that we should come and meet his pastor to bless the relationship.


 The introduction was held 6 weeks later and the wedding 4 months later, our bundle of joy is arriving next month by God's grace, so please Stella, don't close LRD folder, make i send my own first 😀.
Hope I wasn't too boring this time.

Thanks,
Funke


*Funke you try oh,the story sweet well well...Ehen when you prayed what kind of signs did GOD give you?You said God told you?Please explain it to me,I am not doubting you but i dont understand how you see signs oh.

Like you pray and tell God ''Oh God if he is my husband,let him call me by 4pm'' and then he does?



61 comments:

white Berry said...

Haba your story long ohh.which year will finish reading that. Am happy he finally became your husband.

Pam said...

Lol Stellz God gives signs in mysterious ways..there a guy I was dating that time n he wanted me to give him d cookie buh I wasn't so sure of him n I asked God to give me signs so I could leave him...luckily for me, I activated my FBI mode and found out a day to our next meeting that this guy has numerous gfs...I dumped his stupid ass that same day...so Yea that was d sign God gave me

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

God bless your home

Funmiolu said...

Sweet.

Villager said...

Ur horseband is a very patientfool sombori...
Allso, I which you save delifery in dew time.

God blaze ur marage.

Kachi said...

Wow nice story, may God bless your Union

Anonymous said...

Is this girl talking about the same God; the Lord Jesus? How come you were already having sex while dating; your bride price hadn't been paid? And "pastor blessed the marriage?" Is it the same God that in first Corinthians five told us to flee fornication and not to associate with folks who claim to be Christians but commit sexual immorality? Which God are you talking about; I am confused!

Mrs I said...

Lolz pls am also interested in knowing d ansa to Stella's questions. How do God talk to pple? I honestly want to av d experience. Nice story thou

marriedchick said...

Nice..... E long sha

Dr Chy! said...

Luvly story! @ sdk my own sign was God shld miraculously End my bad n abusive relationship,n give me som1 I would hv something special with n Wld eventually lead to marriage by latest nxt 1 yr. Within a month it just happened. A year + l8r we said I do.

STAY AT HOME DAUGHTER said...

Awwwwwww this story is really nice. That your Virgin regret part made me laugh. If you had known abi e for sweet pass.

Most guys that keeps beards can be very sweet& romantic. sometimes I feel they use the bushy appearance to cover their soft side so you think they are tough.

Stella when God comes in and shows up in your situation the quickest way to know is the peace that comes with it.. You just know cos everything will begin to align in your favor.

Classic Chic! said...

Lol Stella ur not serious oo.abeg poster I'm also interested in knowing ur sign. Mi too I get signs from God,just DAT sin came inbetween us.

Lovely meeting.I'm sure u go learn how to write, remaining me.

temmy yemmy said...

Wow! Dis ur story long ehen,thank God u finally settled down together.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Nice one

African Barbie said...

Aaawww... What a lovely story. I also don't like guys with beards, you can imagine my disgust when I heard guys now have a gang called beard gang. Reminds me of a guy that bought heaven and earth for me but because he had beards and refused to shave them even a little, I never dated him. He always looked dirty. Anyway, it was a blessing In disguise as the guy ended up dating my friend and treated her like crap.

ZIONA said...

funke nice story,what got me in ur story was how u were convinced he was since u prayed to God,u didnt depend on pastor said ,and thats y God showed up for u at the end,then like stella said ,what signs did u get from God,so that others can learn from u and not solely depend on one prophet,please share in the comment section,thanx

Anonymous said...

The same year you'll stop your beggy beggy thing here.

Anonymous said...

Chai.....long story,happy for you...longlasting marriage.

Ms. Nicey said...

This your shakara long sha...anyway, what's your is yours.
All these prayer house people going to see the future, I fear una oo. That thing is a gamble, it works for some, it backfires for others.

Ella said...

Lolzzzz, so romantic..... Biko sweet husband where eva u are start making ur move oo, I cnt wait to fall inlove again.. Love sweet ehh, only d strong hearted can love..

Bella D Chemist said...

Lol at God let him call me by 4pm and he did. Stella the signs depends o

Oluyomi Odukoya said...

Good to know it turned out well. God bless your home

Blossom said...

Nice story Poster and save delivery.

ProudlyDeltan15 said...

LOL....Stella exactly what I was going to ask o...Lovely meeting point story Funke...ProudlyDeltan

Tesa said...

Nice story! God bless you. I pray for a safe delivery for you. Amen

stephan said...

Congrats in advance.

Rachy said...

Wonderful story 👍🏻

Chidinma Gift said...

Sweet story

Chidinma Gift said...

We wey be say our marriage na arrangee make we still send our meeting point?

THE KING"S QUEEN said...

So so sweet. All these pastors sef, let me close my mouth sha.

Uniq Gem said...

Yeah yeah. Happy endings.

May God bless your home more abundantly.

Julius Not beggar said...

Lol Enter your comment...

Spanish Lantern said...

Beautiful story. Stella GOD speaks to us in different ways everyday but most of us don't listen.

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Lol@Stella's 4pm

Mrs. Romas said...

Wow!! Such a lovely story, happy for you and yours!

Some pastors been destroying people's relationships for ages.
Thank God you're happy, may you deliver your baby with ease in Jesus Christ name...

Bibire said...

Beautiful story,may live never depart from your home

Spicy April said...

Cool, nice and juicy story

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Nice story... Safe delivery madam

Anonymous said...

Stella i think you should start praying with Jer. 33 vs 3, it works magic for signs, for me i see my signs through dreams and when i wake up and remember it clearly hmmmmm, so now the good ones i claim it and the bad ones, i pray if am not satisfy in my spirit and seek for advise from pastor and if not still ok, i go into fasting and my spirit says it is well.

missylynn said...

Awwwww so sweet
Prayer answering father
Congrats dear

modella said...

Too long o... pls also try and summarize your LRD when sending.

Quality Madam said...

Nice story, come tell us the sign

Becky Divine said...

Amen
Safe delivery in advance dearie

Anonymous said...

Yes na Chidinma, all jion

Mosi Jubelo said...

I was going to ask about the signs also. Aiyah, congratulations jare.


Me all my own is dry
Meeting point
WNB
LRD

Even the OMUGWO chronicles....

It's to continue reading tho....

I enjoy the LRD well

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Whatsoever you shall ask in my name I will do, if you love me keep my commandments".
God is faithful even when we are not faithful,the poster may not have loved God enough to obey Him but God remaineth faifhful,even though we must strive to love God and not take His love for granted. We must remember that every sin has wages but God's arms are always open to welcome us when we come to Him.

KARMAisabitch said...

I am confused too.Is it that same God who made Abraham the father of nations?That Abraham that 'went into' his househelp at his wife's behest(Oshey baddest pimp)?That same God of Jacob(whom He loved so much)who was basically 'tasting' all the females in his house and cheated his own blood brother?The same God who blessed Solomon so much even with his ADHD dick?The same God who made Judah(the dude his daughter in law(who had already married 3 brothers) drugged and raped after pretending to be a prostitute at the temple gates(Judah na real aristo) who ended up becoming Jesus's great great grandfather?or Rahma sef.Remember her?The prostitute who helped the isrealite soldiers into her country(what a spy and traitor!).She became Jesus's great great grandmum.How about Ruth?I don't know but I think she seduced Boaz.And Esther,the very beautiful Esther,that husband snatcher!(Well,according to BVs).It really can't be the same God.No.Mary Magdalene,Jesus's bestie used to be a hoe right????

I'm so so confused

Great lady said...

Lol. Only women have been sending meeting point. Men, Biko send yours too. Let's know how you met your wife.
(already praying for my future hubby)

Anonymous said...

i like to read love stories but unfortunately theres no man to love for more than a yr now, God pls remember me and send the love of my life to me.

Mao Akuh said...

Atimes the signs, one can't explain it. May God continue to keep you two together, no intruders like Anita Solomon in Jesus' name...Amen

Anonymous said...

nice nice nice story...safe delivery ijn

biko someone should please give me stfeps on how to own an ID

thanks
waiting

I love my family said...

Could have sent this as a mail to Stella but 've been quite busy lately so 'm seizing this opportunity to do so...I met my darling 15yrs ago at my cousin's birthday party I was 15 while she was 10yrs old,unlike every other toddler present at the party catching fun,dancing and all sort my girl was sitting calm and seems bored with the whole scenario,so my aunt(mum of celebrant) noticed this and she went over and dragged her to the dancing floor then called me to join her,she was reluctant but I didn't let go of her hands till the music was over(I felt something was special about her but I couldn't figure it out never knew it was love)...fast forward to 11yrs later on a cool friday I was going to pay my aunt a visit but stopped by at a mall to get some stuff to take with me,while on queue to pay my car key fell down,i tried reaching out for it but before I could a lady dressed in a corper kit picked it up and handed it over,I raised my head to show appreciation lo and behold it was my long time crush(that shy girl at the party)standing before me,I recognized her immediately(maybe because she was still very beautiful as she was then with the most charming smile)I paid for her goods and we left in my car since her parents lives on thsame street with my aunt,we exchanged contact before she alighted, sincerely speaking this is not to spice this up but the truth was that when I got to my aunt residence I was hungry but I could neither eat nor think straight my mind was only filled with her thought even sleep no gree come,I put a call through to her to arrange a date but she refused,normally I was supposed to leave for home that day but I stayed over for 2days before she agreed to see me at a grocery store behind her house on the third day,I was so nervous to speak took almost 10mins before I could utter a word after the normal pleasantries (maybe because I was overwhelmed with her beauty),she didn't give me an audience but I was persistently disturbing her till she finally gave in(imagine resuming to my aunt's house every Friday after work till Sunday noon just to see her dark beautiful face because she no gree come my place or any arranged venue)...we got married on 3rd of may 2014 on my cousin's 20th birthday (she came up with the idea)with a son and another on the way...forgive my typos pls.

Lisa Smith said...

Awwww...I love ur meeting point story, may God bless and keep your family!

Dunes N said...

Shweet! Blessed union

fola said...

May your home always enjoy the best of God.

monisola Da-silva said...

Well for those who wants to know if God talks to people or if God talks to people yes he does in many ways, like my comes in the dream mostly future things. I also did not notice mine until I was 18 and this is what leads me. I try to often take note of my dreams and merge them with my steps. God talking to people is real.

oguike akudo said...

Wow...I got married to my hubby same 3rd may 2014.

Anonymous said...

@Karma...this is the BEST response I have read on this blog. Tell judgina....if God was man...

Anonymous said...

It is not our place to judge. It is between her and God. It is enough of an effort to keep oneself pure talkless of joining mouth in another persons walk of faith.

Anonymous said...

Yinkus yinkus at K...........Lovely story.May God keep blessing your Union.Amen

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