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Monday, 26 December 2016

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The reason I am posting this is for you parents who think birthing Children and neglecting them is cool.....This is for the men who have become Sperm donors instead of being Fathers....Read this and have a selah moment on how this Child wished her father RIP....









75 comments:

LEE70 said...

Very sad indeed!!!

OLORI said...

Very deep

Monkey Face said...

Daughter of Mr Oscar, please find a place in your mkpuru-obi to forgive him.

Suoebi(Niger delta finest) said...

Hmm...ok. Na

emmanuella marshall said...

Aunty stella release comment na, warrisit

Lizzy Berry Weds Atheist 2017 said...

Stella what happened
Did he abandon them,,,,,

Zion said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! I seriously don't understand me, let this be a lesson to those of you preparing to walk this part, you will die lonely and alone.

Anonymous said...

Selah! Baby daddies everywhere instead of fathers.

Anonymous said...

You are just too nice.
He does not deserve it... useless men everywhere!

Barr. Oma said...

So sad!

NORTHIE D SIOBHAN said...

She should have bridged the gap..
I understand some fathers are just sperm donors, but the fact that she took out time to write this for her late father shows she cares. Plus she still bears his name 'oscar'.
I hope she finds peace..


Dum Spiro spero.

Rocky said...

I know people who will do same thing. Some men have just chosen to be useless, they are just "sperm donors" for their children. They aren't fathers, they don't care about their families.

That's why I'm forever grateful to my papa, he isn't perfect but he tries and we know he does. He isn't just a father to us but he is a role model even though I have refused to have a personal role model. My father is just so humble, you can see him on the street looking very ordinary but when you come closer, you'll understand what a man of valor he is.

To the up and coming fathers, try to not just be a sperm donor but a father and role model to your children.

code009 said...

You see why ministry of women affairs should be active? Go after such parents. I have sworn not to birth more than two kids because even feeding the two is huge task and the man is careless. RIP Mr man. 🚶

Christy Odoo said...

Smh....

It's a pity

Happy boxing day pipo..

Roseflower said...

Useless selfish men everywhere. What does one even need an absentee father for?

Shantelle's Empire said...

He was married to your mom? Some bvs that are bm's can rest from comments like ndi bm's....tie your legs una no hear. Blah....
An irresponsible man is an irresponsible,marraige can't change those 'Bas....'.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

I can feel her pains! It doesn't only apply to men but also to women.

Some mothers are worse. They think because they birth you, so automatically own them your life, forgetting they were never part of your life growing up.

By the grace of God Almighty I will try my possible best to show my child/children love and care, and also be a part of their lives.

Some mothers are worse than an infidel.

Thompson Folashade said...

This is so sad...

NUVI HONEY said...

Awwww.

Chilaka Christian said...

so sad but life goes on no matter what happens.... na okro soup wey my younger Sis cook on the 24th, and the same soup we still eat on the 25th on Christmas day and I eat only once yesterday know rice and chicken but thank God for life... its well

Sweet Fresh said...

Na WA wah

Sweet Fresh said...

Na WA wah

Suwa Nen said...

Hmmmm!!! I wish I can share my story here..
PARENTS:
stop abusing your children!
your unkind words breaks their spirit-
your angry hands break their body-
your pain breaks their soul-

peace maker said...

Madam.Have u care to ask ur mum why ur father ran for his dear life? Was ur mum a good wife to ur late dad?

Lady C said...

Stella I dnt blame some fathers that neglect their child because most times the mother usually criticise the child'sfather infront of him/her and ensure that the child do not see his/her father even when the father insist but he get tired after endless insisting to see his child.


#speaking from experience#

peace maker said...

I can sense so much bitterness and anger in this write up.I hope her future dh don't suffer unnecessarily for what he knows nothing about. So much bottled up emotion

Anonymous said...

I dont know why some men would be this way! If you hate the mother please hate her dnt let it affect a child or children. Keep ur relationship with them and be responsible for their upbringing. I have a friend going through this same thing just take care of ur child thats all! Irresponsible LOT! Not like they dnt have the money. Co-parent happily let the child grow up feeling loved and cared for not leaving the responsibility for the woman while they go chasing women

Anonymous said...

I dont know why some men would be this way! If you hate the mother please hate her dnt let it affect a child or children. Keep ur relationship with them and be responsible for their upbringing. I have a friend going through this same thing just take care of ur child thats all! Irresponsible LOT! Not like they dnt have the money. Co-parent happily let the child grow up feeling loved and cared for not leaving the responsibility for the woman while they go chasing women

Anonymous said...

Ehen.
I though eeboh men are the best men on earth, best husband, best father. This child must be a liar because eeboh men don't ever do anything wrong in their lives. They are worlds best father and worlds best husband. They never abandon their family. It is a taboo punishable by death in eeboh land.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Your future self is watching you right now through memories*

MrsB said...

And for the women who abandon or neglect their children as well.

Anonymous said...

Same will befall you Saviour if you don't retrace your steps and start taking care of your son.you change phones,wear expensive clothes and jewelries, while your son doesn't know where his next meal will come from. May God have mercy on you if you don't repent because I will work hard to make sure my son becomes somebody great in life and till then I'm sorry for you.Men are WICKED and heartless

Anonymous said...

Same will befall you Saviour if you don't retrace your steps and start taking care of your son.you change phones,wear expensive clothes and jewelries, while your son doesn't know where his next meal will come from. May God have mercy on you if you don't repent because I will work hard to make sure my son becomes somebody great in life and till then I'm sorry for you.Men are WICKED and heartless

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Useless men everywhere smh

Yemi7up said...

I wish he can read this himself and realise how painful it is depriving the writer of fatherly love and care. Hope men and women who are still alive and have a lost child they refuse to connect with due to hatred towards their partner learn from this and make amend. Just because I was unable to be by late mum's hospital bed before she left even after over 16 years are death still make me miss are the more and getting over it difficult.

Justyswt said...

Epic R.I.P. Sperm donors take note.

Sad! Sad!!sad!!!

am elevated said...

this is so painful. sorry dear. God help us to always weigh d consequences of our actions b4 acting

juliet Is Bae!! said...

Reading this gave me goosebumps...so sad.

RIP Mr oscar and may God accept your soul in heaven

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Very sad! It always have effects especially negative ones. Its rippling. It affects the relationships in the long run.
I pray that both women and men will have a rethink. Especially the men, in how they sear children all over the place. Its painful to live your life wondering how it would have been. May God help us live well and leave good legacies and good memories for our children and children around us. Amen.

Ugonma Ajike said...

So sad. What could have happened? It is well.

Anonymous said...

It's just serious prayers and mercy of God for the cycle not to repeat. It's not by ranting.

Anonymous said...

So why would he lie? To please you?? You are so insensitive!!

Jasmine said...

We r saying something else and u r saying something else...at least u r alive abeg

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

I agree with you 100%. I have seen it in reality. Only God can heal such brokenness.

Jasmine said...


Why did u open ur legs for the foolish man?

Pipi Lee said...

Nobody cares to know pls!!!
Leaving your wife is one thing, leaving your child/children I another.

Anonymous said...

Who knows anything about gethelp worldwide, joined recently and was matched to provide help tomorrow. Am afraid cos of mmm, please do I go ahead and make payment

FOOTBALLMOLE said...

I think she never knew it will end up this way. No woman will want to end up with a foolish man. Woman, there's a reason for everything. Face your son and delete the dead man from your head.

Green Field said...

Fathers, take time to be present in ur children's life, dats hoe I went for a burial and a grown biy was looking at his father's obituary in the ful glare of every one and laughing.
Not a small boyooo, a boy about to go for NYSC and the father had only him as a boy cos d second wife has only girls but because the man so malrreated d mom and neglected her and d son, the boy's hatred of the man is so deep that even his death did not touch him.

Fathers sit up, don't be sperm donors

Rocky said...

Jasmine, most times it isn't usually that way. A woman can marry a supposedly good man and it's a different ball game during the marriage. A man can lose his job and that'll make him useless to his wife and kids, he could just fall out of love for his family (these ones are rare though). We just have to keep praying for our families to keep the love alive

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

This is very serious

Anonymous said...

11:37 I am not 11:07, but can't you recognise sarcasm?

Shyla said...

There are so many of them out there. I would have mentioned one man's name here but make I just pity am because people will be shocked. This one has never for one day paid for his daughter's school fees. Not like he cant oh. She is in University now and he still finds it difficult to even provide food money. The girl just keeps blaming her mum and saying that if she had married a responsible man all this nonsense wouldnt have happened. Her mates were busy getting good husbands and she was busy falling in love with a selfish bastard who abandoned her to shoulder everything.

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Some parents are mean sha ooo. Fathers are not the only ones abandoning their kids. Some mothers do the same too. At least, I can give account of five to seven women I know who left their kids for their husbands for no good reason. Some left five kids each, while the rest left 3 or 4 kids. Some are remarried while other are moving from one rich man to the other and having toyboys here and there. Going naked all in the name of trying to catch up and be like a young chic. Married women for that matter!!!!! No more shame in the world. My dear, give God thanks if you are lucky to have parents that are hustling or hustled day and night all because of you and your siblings, irrespective of their daily hala, hala and wahala.

Shantelle's Empire said...

Jasmine do you know if they are married? Abi you'v not heard of married but loving single?

Today's poster's parents were also married. Did you ask her why her mom opened legs for a foolish man??
We should be careful with our comments biko,not everyone is a baby mama.

Anonymous said...

I wonder how some men sleep at night knowing they have a child out there somewhere.
Some even have money o, but because they hate the mother or did chop and run they wld ignore and forget they even have a child while being worlds best father to the kids they eventually have later when they get married.
I know a family like that, that d daughter got pregnant when she was 16, the guy was about 20 in the university and he denied this girl. This is a guy that comes from a prominent family. The girl had the child a boy, with her parents support, she finished school while d parents looked after the child.
The boy bears the girls family name, the parents have taken him as their son. They sent him abroad to school. He finished with a first class and is now 25 and working as an engineer and doing well. He thinks the mother is his sister, while the grand parents is his parents.
This guy knows about this boy, he even looks like him. Till tomorrow he still hasn't made effort to know the boy.
I feel it's even better sef after all he didn't take responsibility, my only problem will be what if this boy unknowingly meets and dates his siblings one day.

DonMayor said...

Go sitdown. You know how many people that want the okro soup so bad ? Nonsense.

Anonymous said...

Most men in London are sperm donors . In fact their own is on a dif level . Giggolos and douchebags. With pus in the arseholes like my ex.

Anonymous said...

They should make it a crime for parents to leave their kids in future except thru death or dv .

Anonymous said...

If she was married to him God has judged but if not God has still judged.baby mamas and loose women take note,u will end up bitter and alone with a sad innocent child.baby daddies take note u will die alone and the world will know u are a failure and a beast and rejoice as ur body rots 6 feet below.children don't worry God will see u through and make u smile again.side chicks be warned wetin go do una go strong pass erection one day.

Anonymous said...

They should make it a crime for parents to leave their kids in future except thru death or dv .

Anonymous said...

Go and find work... Lazy bone.

ukwu dimond said...

So so sad and terrible. Things are really happening

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Anonymous said...

So silly to bring tribe into this.

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Anonymous said...

I hope my dad doesn't end up like this, am 15yrs never met my dad. I never celebrate Xmas like any other kids. My mum struggle to pay my sch fees while my dad live abroad showing off on fb

Anonymous said...

After mmm una still dey get help lol. O boy save your money. That interest you will get is jot up to the money you will lose. If only I could get.my 100k back from mmm. What is 30k interest compared to the 100k I lost now? Mchew.

Jay Udoo said...

Ha! Are you my brother abi Sister? Your description of your daddy fits mine Perfectly.

Anonymous said...

11:07 go and sit down, you don't have anything reasonable to say

J*Ice said...

No mavro is lost.
MMM still dey.

AMO said...

I cried after reading this. My daughter is just 6 but if care is not taken, she will write these exact words if her dad is no more. Even at age 4, she met me crying once and her 1st question was "are you crying because my daddy is matitin (maltreating) you?". She has never know fatherly love...any man that shows concern, she melts into his arms. If she's stubborn and I shout, she begs me not to send her to her dad. Funny part is I've never said evil things to her about her dad. I weep sometimes when I see where I am and know it's different from what I envisaged. I never knew I'll have a kid with a Yankee man I was traditionally married to but who abandoned us. It's 3 years now since he sent a kobo for her feeding talkless of school fees. I struggle all and my kid is aware. I had to beg her that she won't get a dress or shoe for Xmas and she understood... I never knew I'll have a child who can't recognise her dad facially if they meet today...the story is long but this story just touched me, pardon my epistle and errors I'm just writing what I feel.

Anonymous said...

Sperm donor Mia for 20yrs n counting.

sparkle said...

And I tot.i.was alone in all these. I was married and he left whn I was preggy. DV ish. I had.my baby, he came and never returnd. After 2 yrs, I called to apologise cos the malice wil lead us to hell esp as I became an evangelist. We talkd a lil but he backd off later. I still send updates once a while,he care less. So I made it official,the div. Told my family and moved on. His welcom to see his baby if he wants. Methinks its his generation curse, cos the re similar cases in his lineage. I ve forgiven bt still shockd. God is abt to give me a bigger better man soon. Life.

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