Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: The Meeting Point 42

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Friday, 23 December 2016

The Meeting Point 42

WOW!



Hello darling Stella, I love what you are doing, you are a strong
woman I admire a lot keep up the good work. I decided to send in my
meeting point for you and beeves, I hope you guys enjoy it though this
may be long. 



I met my sweet darling husband when I was going through domestic violence from my Ex.... ya you read that right.... I was in my final year first semester. I was traveling to the village for my cousin's traditional marriage, I was one of the asoebi girls and we met in the bus. 


The previous day i went to my then boo now Ex to inform him of my journey to the village, he refused I wasn't surprised he was very possessive, jealous and hit me at any slight provocation even if its minor disagreement so I tried to make him see reasons, for where the guy no gree o, I got angry and told him I can't let down my own flesh and blood becos of a boyfriend that my parents have never met before, that was it he bounced on me like an angry lion but thanks to God I didn't have the prints of dv like swollen lips, black eye etc from
this particular abuse, that day while leaving his house when I got to
the door I paused, looked back, called his name and told him its over
between us.


I cried all through my journey back to my apartment, I don't even know
what was making me cry sef, I got home, knocked ,my roomie the only
friend still permitted to be in my life by my almighty boyfriend open
the door for me, she saw the tears and know what must have happened,
before she could speak I told her it was over, she hugged me and we
went in, I opened up to her that I was tired. Each time he hit me I
wanted to leave but couldn't, I told her I was desperate to leave the guy.


My friend told me if I want to leave I must either leave this environment or get another guy to gbensh,according to her I couldn't leave cos this guy was my first, and I was subconsciously attached to him, I cried myself to sleep that night.


Early momo next day I carried my bag leave house cos I knew Ex was gonna
come next morning to apologise and I didn't wanna see him cos I know if
I see him I will go back on my decision. I got to the park, bought my
ticket, was still waiting for other passengers when I discovered I had
forgotten the shoes I was to use, chai see me sweating ,I couldn't go back
home cos he may likely be there ,I couldn't call my roomie cos what if he decided to stalk her to the park?


 I decided to go to the market and buy another pair, I told the bus company admin of my situation and we agreed to put someone else on my seat while I join the next available bus whenever i come back so off to the market I went, got the shoes and came back to the park. When I got back the first bus had left so I joined the second bus, my sweety was in this bus too he was going to the
village for his grandma's burial.


When we started the journey I brought out my phone more than 20 missed
calls from Ex, I ignored them, opened my okadabooks app and started
reading novels, a few minutes I saw a hand snatch my phone from me, I
turned it was this handsome creamy looking guy and for some reasons I
smiled, he smiled back and ask why I was keeping to myself, I told him
I enjoy reading, he said reading was going to be on hold for now, we
started talking, I got smitten the more I got to know him, he works in
an oil and gas company in port harcourt, guy was doing well for
himself, even had his own car and house but didn't want to bring it to
the village in order not to show himself.


 he told me he would love me to be his wife,it Sounded funny to me, so I laughed and asked him pesin wey you no know? Guy said he was serious that from when he saw me walk into the park he knew I was the kind of girl he's been looking for.


This guy pampered me all the way to the village, when we alighted he
invited me to his grandma's wake keep and then he added that he will
like me to meet his mum and my future inlaws, na laff I just dey laff I
thought he was joking, so I got home freshened up and went to honor his
invite.


When I got there, true to his words this guy started introducing me to
his mum and family members as his wife to be, my people shame come dey
catch me, fear even catch me join, that's how our relationship started
o, I fell in love with him and we were together 24/7 .

After the burial he had to go back, I missed him so much but we kept communicating, after 2 weeks he invited me over to his place and we had so much fun, he took me places, treated me like a queen, I came back to school and the new boo made me forget my first love ,infact I started resenting him,
he tried coming between us though by refusing to leave me alone, I
told my love and he came in like my man and got a restraining order, we
got Officially engaged final year second semester and got married
after my final year project defence and we are already blessed with a
son,and its still lovey dovey.

I hope I did north west ya time jare, am not a good story teller.


Una well done..Good you got away from the Violent guy.



84 comments:

stunning slim shady said...

Wow!

Loveme Jeje said...

Congrats. Enjoy your marraige ooo.

Na wa for dv people oo

Rx Mams said...

Such a fairy tale.

Monkey Face said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww
So sweet!

Becky Divine said...

Interesting story
I'm very glad you were wise enough not to go back to that idiot! Congra

Girls be wise! A man who hits you does NOT love you in any way!! I'm sure the fool will be somewhere now looking for another babe to hit to make himself feel like a man mchtewww

RICHBEE said...

This is so sweet

crystal said...

Thank God for you, love your story

barbie said...

Okay...

Gorgeous Lilian said...

Interesting.

Amysweet said...

Awwn.. ❤️

charitybino said...

I like

FORD EXPLORER said...

I love the way this ended, so happy for you babe. Congraaaaatulations dear.
There's nothing sweet or lovely in an abusive relationship. The earlier you realised you deserved better, the sweeter it got for you.

FORD EXPLORER said...

Men: there's a woman waiting to treat you like the king that you are, be patient for her.
Women: there's a man out there waiting to treat you like the queen that you are, wait for him.

unwana angela said...

Congrats love! Our God is d mountain mover. Thank U Jesus, my time is now!

Anonymous said...

So so sweet.. But I'm Still compiling my "meeting point" story..

OSIOBE FAITH said...

A foolish man never deserve any pity.... Ride on with your best catch.

Abraham Whyte RC said...

Beautiful

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Stella bring back "save blog visitor pls

Quality Madam said...

Wise girl

Pat Kings said...

Oh my!!!! Such sweet story. All this courtship wey nor dey west time, Lord I want!!

Chiamaka L said...

Nice one... women please no guy is worth dying for or even having a black eye for. They will always say, they never meant to harm/ hurt you but they do/ did. Congrats to you dear.

Christy Odoo said...

Congratulations dear, abeg u r strong... All dis violent boyfriends.. Na God go judge u pipo ooo

Chidinma Gift said...

Congrats

Chidinma Gift said...

No be lie you talk

sexy Daddy said...

I love this story.say no to domestic voilence.Please guys stoping hiting your woman,and woman bridle your tongue when arguing with your man!I'm out

Nonye Inspired (James Bond's Girl) said...

Wow we find love in very unlikely places..Am so happy that you took the courage to walk out from that Buffroll and Mutula..Glad you found happiness congrats dear..All ye chronicle senders una don read this one...a word is enuff for the wise..

Ugonma Ajike said...

Interesting story. God will keep strengthening your marriage.

cherie mendez said...

Lovely story, you must be a nice person with a good personality, I really don't see myself smiling @ a stranger that snatched my fone. Anyways i'm happy for you and wish you the best.

Controversial Orangechic said...

Duno why I keep skipping this meeting point post but anytime I open it, I feel wowed. Really really nice read.

iyke david said...

You're very fortunate.
God bless your family.

amanda favour said...

I love your story!

ganglion said...

So sweet.

Aivies Shawarma,BBQ,Small Chops,Asun&Cocktail. Lagos.For events booking,07030581673. said...

Don't I just love this meeting point! Lord let my own meeting point story be in this 2017 o!

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

I love this .. you forgot to tell us the first time you guys gbenshed

SANDY NEKY said...

Naaaah! You didn't waste our time at all. I enjoyed your story. Enjoy, na God give you

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Don't let people know too much about you*

Anonymous said...

The story sweet die

Candy YumYum (MIND SO MILITARY) said...

thank God you left the coconut head ex.

Amacastel said...

Like seriously congrats to the poster the last beating reset ur brain

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Thank God for your life

Starjoy said...

Good

Cynthia Iyede said...

Lovely story. I'm happy you're happy.

Ebony Doc said...

Wow! Nice story. God bless ur marriage

margaret udo said...

Nice story..some of the abuse a woman verbally, tell you how they've been spending on you and how you are ungrateful like he isn't doing it for love..then,they'll check your phone,call logs,messages,chats and call you a cheat even when they have no evidence.. How on earth do you expect a woman to love you when every time you guys meet it's quarrel, fight or accusations.. May God bless your home.That dude wouldn't have married.. He'll just keep beating till when your body turns old he'll go and marry someone else

Cyddie said...

You must be a calm person. Let someone I don't know snatch my phone first na. And I hardly take anybody that tell me he wants to marry me on the first serious. Nice story 😍😍

Anonymous said...

I am tired of being single.I am tired of trying too hard to keep and hold down on dead relationship.Even tired of making it a prayer request.Hmmmm.I want my own meeting point.

mia said...

Ur story sweet me, congrats dear

Anonymous said...

Same way my boo will never allow me be with friends..he stopped me from talking with his friends...scream at every little mistake of mine..and this same boo do not have a job...so financing my needs is a problem...I have been with him for 3 years now...but I think is time to takeva walk...

Becky Divine said...

Stop thinking! It's time to take a walk for real and when you. Don't look back

Candy YumYum (MIND SO MILITARY) said...

and you still call him boo?
you girls will be calling mad men Boo, what is he booing? except you meant oloriBOOruku, yhen i concur.

Jasmine said...

Awwww, lovely story

Just Glamour said...

Don't take a walk, he might catch up with you,put on your running shoes,and Usain Bolt.

Jasmine said...

No o, stay!!!

Soon he'll start beating u

Grandeurconcept said...

Lovely meeting point...thank God ur brain reset ..had a frnd who was in a violent relationship turned into a violent marriage...den wen dey were dating dey had an issue n she asked me to help her beg her fiancee, so I used my phone to call him but omo d insult I received no b here oo,d dude warned me not to greet him ever again..during the introduction he almost slapped d mum Cox she wasn't in support of the marriage she was pregnant sha..but d family intervened n settled d issue..she doesn't look happy nor beautiful anymo..she dey dorge me wen Eva we meet including her other frnds...she's without a frnd now Cox he has chased them away like h hated me then..Single ladies in the house follow ur hrt but carry ur brain along with u as ur passenger..poster thank God u were widen God bless ur Husband Cox he came in at d perfect time.ciao

Mrs James said...

Of coz she collected na.. You no read treated her like a queen!!!

Nelly Udoh said...

When is my own man going to come?

Cynthia Ibhe said...

See dis one...so that what will now happen?!

Anonymous said...

God Bless Ur marriage! It still shows dat no mata wat u going tru, don't give up on urslf! God Is And Wld Still Be In Control!

Asa nwa said...

Nice story

Lollipop said...

How come most meeting points involve the guy telling the girl he is he is wife at first sight. Does that mean my boo wee not come and now pop the queshaun?

Bekee-Bekee said...

Lollll @ Ideato that one will come in the next WNB.

Abi @ Meeting point OP

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Aww,this is beautiful....

Mosi Jubelo said...

I say it that some ppl know who they wantu marry.

A guy knows if he'll end up with a girl or not.

Anonymous said...

I claim this double next is my year by the special grace of God. Amen

Anonymous said...

Asin ehn...the kind face I go squeeze.

Lol

Lilly simple said...

Same too

Anonymous said...

This torey sweet die, asweh!

Anonymous said...

Boo of life Ayam waiting ooo...

Anonymous said...

All these men that beat women are cowards, send to war niwand they will be the first time run for their lives. Mtscheeew! Madam may God bless your home real good

Anonymous said...

*cowards- autocorrect and it's issues

Classic Chic! said...

I love i love

Classic Chic! said...

Candy buhaaaaaahaaaaaahaaaaahaaaaaahaaaaa

ukwu dimond said...

You did not waste my time, thank you.

Adorable Debrah said...

God has answered your prayers. Stop worrying over things you can't change. Just be happy, happiness is contagious, they will flock around you. Search for purpose instead and own your own happiness.

Dr Chy! said...

Posters story so similar to mine.

Nne nwa said...

This your story sweet die

Biodun funke said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Anonymous said...

Nice read... I tap into this grace

grace said...

Inspiring story,congrats

Onumebgu Mary said...

Awwwn meeting goals

sdk's first lady said...

Nice story😊

Omolola said...

Awwwnn, I love this, God knows how to plan things, thank God you went to get another shoe, to meet your future partner.

Nnukwu Nwanyi said...

Hmmmm,congratulations

missylynn said...

Happy for you dear
I don't understand why some men derive joy in beating up women who are not men..

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