Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: The Meeting Point 50

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Saturday, 31 December 2016

The Meeting Point 50

Every couple has a meeting point....






Hello Stella. I've spent 15 minutes thinking of new words to praise you with but i'm yet to come up with something new as they've used up all the fantastic ones i'd like to use. I'd just say you make my life so beautiful from the things i takeaway from this blog and may your pen never dry of ink as God's blessings will never dry in your life.


After reading all the Meeting point stories, i became motivated to send in mine. I hope it's not boring or clichΓ©.

I was in year 1 in the university and i loved to have fun and to live a little. I was also a little naive as that was the first time i was totally free to do anything i wanted. I loved clubbing so much i'd go on Wednesdays (Ladies free night) and on Fridays of every week. When I couldn't go with friends, i'd go alone. (Very unsafe thing to do.) 


That night i wore my usual club attire ( a Short denim skirt and a pink mono strap top) lol, i still remember. I went with my male friends from Engineering department as my bodyguards. I got there early and started dancing at the play of the first dancy music. I danced well and did tons of seductive moves.


After a while the dance floor was full. He walked up to me and 'excused me dance'. While I could dance exceptionally well, I noticed he had 2 left feet. I'm certain he stepped on me a few times. 


After dancing with him i left to dance with a new guy and he left the dance floor. Later he pleaded with me to meet him outside so we could talk.
Outside, he told me his name and what he does. He got my number and promised to visit me in school. Days later he visited and drove me around school. He doesn't talk much. Just replies when spoken to. He told me he'd come back on another club night to take me clubbing and he'd take me home after that. I agree.


That night came, after giving my sister his number and telling her of my plans that night, we left to the club. Danced and partied all night. And we retired to his house. He tried to do the touchy-touchy but i told him i'd love to get some sleep, that i'll let him have me in the morning when I'm feeling better.
Morning came and we had sex. He took me back to my hostel in the afternoon and became a frequent visitor. The sex was out of this world! One time, we went 8 rounds! I think it's safe to say we fucked into each others lives. πŸ˜‚(Waiting for the Judginas to come get me.)


Dating him had ups and downs. He caught me cheating and i caught him too. We would break up to make up. In the relationship he was a better person than i was because he gave more than i could ever give. In all these years we were dating, we always reminded ourselves that not all long term relationships lead to marriage to avoid disappointments if it didn't work out in the end (he was from the north and i from the east, so we weren't sure parental consent would be easy to get). I was too stubborn and very silly but he tolerated me. He was and is still the only man who takes my bullshit.


Our love grew and after 8 years and a trailer load of experiences, he asked me to marry him after one of our rows. I just laughed and told him "you are not serious". He said he was and fixed a date to meet my parents. They knew about our relationship and he was welcomed with open arms. On the day of my Induction, (i'm a doctor) he slipped a beautiful ring on my finger and said 'You know na'. One year after, we had a beautiful wedding. His parents love me so much and gave me a car as a wedding present. 


It's almost 3 years and 2 kids later, he's still my best friend and lover. He's still the most selfless man i ever met. So gentle, kind and generous. We know and understand each other so well that we hardly have issues. O... We still have issues but I have decided to choose my battles. 


Our relationship is so strong I always have a little problem telling people where we met. But yea, i met the bone of my bones in a club and it's been one hell of a ride!


LMAO@''you know na''

God bless you both!


65 comments:

unwana angela said...

I took sth away fro ur story ..."Choose my battles". I must learn how to choose my battles, its wisdom!

Tayan Taylor said...

Beautiful 8years you guyz really are destined to be together, if not after your free sex with him, it would have been goodbye. Pls upcoming undergraduate don't try this, this is computer age it won't work

Jasmine said...

He slipped a ring in ur finger and said 'u know na'? Kikiki.

Is dis not better than that yeye girl kneeling to receive her ring of life?


Congrats madam.

Nne nwa said...

hmmm, thank God it worked out good for you

Intelligentsia princess said...

Hmmmmmm... Odikwa very risky..
@poster, what exactly did you want us to learn from your story?
I Just wasted 2mins of my life that I could have used to read my Human Anatomy.

Sweet Fresh said...

My dear, you can find your husband anywhere. Na naija we dey put people matter for head like gala. Congrats.

Anonymous said...

Sorry i dont get. 8 rounds of what? beer?. For a year one student? una try sha. God bless ur marriage.

Anonymous said...

Dedicating 'In the club i found you' by YQ to both of you

Ivy said...

Sorry i dont get. 8 rounds of what? beer?. For a year one student? una try sha. God bless ur marriage.

Quality Madam said...

So your Sister allowed you to do sleep over.
Thank God it ended in marriage

Miss Ferragamo said...

Well articulated and straight-to-the-point I must sayπŸ‘Œ
Indeed Love can happen anywhere.
Nice story.

peace maker said...

Good to know

Oloche Fidelis said...

The better we get with being transparent with each other, the better off we'll be as a couple in the long run. They say that true intimacy is letting someone see all the way into you, flaws and all. It's opening up about painful experiences that you may have gone through. It's talking about the things that scare you and the things that you have overcome. It's showing someone who you are in love with what makes you weak and allowing them to be your strength where you fall short. It's trusting someone with certain details of your life that you normally wouldn't share with anyone else. It's having the ability to be completely vulnerable in front of someone, and trusting that they'll never look at you any differently or love you any differently because of that. We can't hide behind these invisible emotional brick walls that we have put up forever. We both have to learn how to bring our walls down, so that we both can build a new home together filled with beautiful memories.
- IG@woodtheinspiration

Suwa Nen said...

Beautiful story.

Chike TEFLON said...

Going to good places to find my missing rib wasn't easy. Back to back, from church to social gathering to fellowship.
Club ti take over, good places no gree bring good Bae.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

So I read the chronicle where trinity was called out for dating a community penis.
Well, she's as much of a victim as everyone else who believed that yeye guy - Egbe Igbins right?. I've never participated in S n M because I argue with too many people on this blog over dumb comments. Being sapiosexuAl, I choose not to annoy myself any further 😊😊 Plus I'm an extremely picky person. ' This one good this one good na it make mad man carry load'.

However, I think people laughed at the fact that she became more arrogant once she felt she got the 'ring'. Than the fact that she was deceived. Which is not a surprise because many Nigerian women do a 360 once they feel they've clamped a man down. Someone even said she made a tribalistic comment about yorubas. Well as we can see even a Benin man can't be trusted so it's not about tribe.

Can people just keep all the excitement until the wedding bells start ringing?!! Is it too much to ask? In this day and age where Nigerian men are something else, when someone slaps me with their wedding invitation I don't blame them. I just ask for asoebi and appear. Bettery than carrying trumpet only to come and disppointed later.

But as usual, some of us don't learn. I still saw someone commenting yesterday that she met an S n M boo few days ago and is spending new year with his family. You just met someone and you're already rushing to meet his family in less than a week and you're excited and telling him you love him in the comment section.

In this day and age if you choose not to have sense you never will. As i always say: Smart women rule!!! ✌

Sweetheart said...

Wawuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh

Anonymous said...

Happy new year in advance,please bv my boyfriend collects girls number on Facebook. Should I be worried?

Iphie dearie said...

I don't think you should be reluctant about telling anyone willing to hear how you met your hubby.

People have been known to meet the devil in places that you and I considered appropriate.

Enjoy your home.You sound like a carefree person.

Becky Divine said...

Nice story

GALORE said...

I love love...Cool story

2017 is a good year.




Happy 😊 new year.




@Galore




Lateesha Pasteries Ajjah Lagos - 07032392414 said...

Nice.
One day, I would send in mine. Lmao

Sam_Cranked said...

Hmmm, sweet!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#It's when you start to wonder whether you can trust someone or not, that is when you already know you don't*

Tiwa said...

Interesting .
God bless your union

Lucy Jackson said...

romantic

Jennah said...

Whereal are those fools that insults northerners here as if there are better. Those animals that loves to spread hate. My lady God bless you and your family jare.

Iman Bella said...

You know Na
God keep you both together

Omolola said...

Waoh clubbing has make you have ur man

Classic Chic! said...

A Sextape as a meeting point! Una well don oo

kenny jay said...

awww

Cynthia Iyede said...

God bless your home

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

8 rounds of sex?
Kuku kill me.

KIDJO said...

Wow.lucky you.

Princess Diana said...

Owwww?beautiful story,I love d gbenshing part Stella my love,howdy

sense world said...

Wow. Happy for 4 guys. Kisses

chikavincent1 said...

Wow God bless you both oo. You can meet ur husband anywhere dear.club hubby are d best self wink..

Omotejowho said...

Glad it worked out for you.

Pat Kings said...

All these people gbenshing on the first day and still getting married, I raise bombom for una. That's how I will try it now and it will not work for me. Lol.

Beautiful story, God bless your home

BunMystique said...

So glad it worked out for you.....where's my boo? I've been waiting for so long, haba!

NANA O said...

Hahaha....chikito you made a balid point.
No point letting him know you are tripping till he has consolidated his stance.
Weldone tho. I always look forward to your comments.

Olu Vee said...

Sorry oo but you sounded like an X olosho.

Blackberry said...

Madam J, there northern muslims n xtians, if it's d xtian, she's lucky. U know the rest.

Nkay said...

Chop kiss

Cookie said...

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Cookie said...

I'm too shy and uptight, how I wan take meet man bikonu??

I don't drink, club, to even go to the mall Dey tire me..... I don't even need man, I need job!! Looool

Anonymous said...

Dont get it twisted dear, self charisma matters alot, cos it work for someone else doesnt mean, it wil work for you. Stay focus n believe in yourself.

LOLLAH said...

You are very Lucky o. Some men dont get serious with babes they met at the club. Its nice yours ended well dear

Anonymous said...

Dont get it twisted,self charisma matters alot cos it work for someone else does not mean it gonna work for u. Stay focus n determine luv is beautiful n bliss when u meet d one.

Housed-On-Water said...

No be yourself. Be a Nigerian. Be patriotic.

Anonymous said...

Lovely...as long as it's the two being this committed, the sky would be their stepping stone.

Jennah said...

My dear northerner is northerner be it a Christian or Muslim. I don't like people that discriminate and I don't do it.

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

I really need to learn how to choose my battles.

Anonymous said...

Chikito d professional runs girl, take 5! Dis is d first time am seeing u make real sense! Thumps up for u babe! Abeg tell dem to tk a chill pill!so shd stop getin excited over nothing! U begin to mk noise wen d guy eventually walks u down d aisle, chikena! Wishing u a prosperous new year!

Anonymous said...

Chikito d professional runs girl, take 5! Dis is d first time am seeing u make real sense! Thumps up for u babe! Abeg tell dem to tk a chill pill!so shd stop getin excited over nothing! U begin to mk noise wen d guy eventually walks u down d aisle, chikena! Wishing u a prosperous new year!

digileee1 said...

Judgina! C ur anonymous post up

crazyhornywife said...

Kikikikikiki!!! Epic reply

Miss Kay said...

No don't be,is he Your husband???, ogbeni collect tooπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†don't mind me o😘

Aeegurl... said...

Lmao at this reply. Damn!!

elle said...

I choose my battles.that's wisdom

Olaide Ogunmola said...

U still need prayers cos i know 4 sure dat ur husby might still be clubbing. I rep keeping urself untill wedding night

Valentine Onochie said...

Asin ee, year one don sabi gbensh like that? I fear o

Anonymous said...

Very important .

Cookiesandcream said...

Continue to be shy and uptight..You had better enjoy your life.

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