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Saturday, 4 February 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

This is serious.....




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
FRIEND ZONING A FATHER FIGURE

Good day Stella,please I don't know if this should come as a chronicle,but I need advice from BVs.
Before I got admission into the high institution,I left home to a different town,to work and make ends meet,because my parents are not doing well financially,we fed from hand to mouth.


During the course of my work,I met a man(married),he usually gave me tips at work,from there we exchanged contacts,he always called,sends me money frequently


Few months Later he rented an apartment for me(I was sleeping in the company before then),he got me a better paying job,he always made sure to ask me to save,for my school,this man was God sent to me,he was/is like my Dad,he made sure I never lacked financially,to the point my friends thought I was dating him,but he never asked for it,and I thanked God,tho quite surprised,ofcourse his wife knew about me,she calls me to help her with stuffs.


Fast forward to when I got admission,I got seriously ill,I had chest complications,this same man was taking me to different hospitals like his child,thank God I got better,but was stopped from working by the doctors,to avoid dangering myself(I was still working in school).


Through out all these years,my parents were not in the picture of my life,the fact that they are Poor and don't even care about my well being,makes me mad,for 3 years i've not gotten a dime from them..


Back to my story,school has been fine with "this man" by my side,until during Xmas last year,I went to his office,and he asked to see my boyfriend,I told him,I don't have,and even told him I m a virgin,that was when my problem started,"this man" called me later,asking that I should please "sleep with him" that he loves me,and since that I am looking for how to "pay him back" for taking care of me,that I should have sex with him,I that he is afraid he will stop "helping me" if I refuse,I felt like my life was shattered,I cried my eyes out,I prayed my chest out,I talked to him,all to no avail,



Now my problem,is I can't do it,I can't betray his wife,who has been an angel too,I spoke to a friend about it,he asked me to report to his wife,but I don't want to scatter their marriage,because even with the Turn of things,I still respect this man,because he was my shoulder and everything,when my family deserted me,In fact this man is my FAMILY,But please how do I go about this,because he is my only hope of coming out of school(aside God),I would have forgotten about him,and look for jobs around,but reasons being that,I don't want to hurt him,or bite the fingers that fed me,and my health complications too,and as a student,getting a job is hard,and might not sustain me through school.

Please BVs how do I go about this,can I talk him out of this?



*OMG,i am just shaking here thinking of what to tell you.let me think this out,I will be back in the comment section but please whatever you do,dont tell his wife!
Do you have any monies saved?



156 comments:

Chidinma Grace said...

Jesus fix this because am speechless

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hian...
Poster give him sex nah!...
What's all these forming?...you will still carry your pussy and give to a rif raff that won't cherish you or even spend money on you!...
His wife will understand even if she finds out but I'm sure she won't!...
Mtcheewww...
This your story is too childish for my liking!...

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

You have no right to report to his wife because the man owes you nothing.
Since he has sposnored you for so long and has now brought a clause of sleeping with you to continue then I think you need to call hus bluff and let him stop.
Pleading with men like that will only make them more eager to know how between your legs feels like.
You should have known it was only a matter of time before he came with a demand as this one.
Leave his wife out of it. And since she is your friend then you'd ask for her assistance aa well.
But see this as a sigh that his help in your life has come to an end and God has set aside a helper who will step in in his place.
Get on your knees and pray, it could be a spiritual attack because I'd like to believe that if he was a man like that he would have made this demand from the onset.
Pray until things revert back or you carry your cross. Get a job and manage till you can finish up with school.
So many people paid their way through school without having to sleep their way through.
May God guide you.

Miss Ess said...

Men no matter what will still be Men, aha! I would rather you just leave him and go to God in prayers, there is always a way out with God.

Chidinma Grace said...

I was asking a friend the other day that why can't men help you without an ulterior motive. That's their way my dear. It's either you join them or you leave and put all your hope in God.

Anonymous said...

I'm broken reading this, I know how you feel, pls don't betray his wife, hold on to God, it will be tough but still hold on

Ed said...

Please and please don't ever tell his wife.... Try and reason with him to not sleep with you. If he refuses,then let him go... Since you are a virgin,I won't advise you to do such... Put your trust in God,he will always provide another helper. Believe me that many are passing thru worse situations than yours,yet God has been keeping them. So trust in God and he will see you thru.

Anonymous said...

Girl, the party has ended.
The end of a matter is better than its beginning.
Stay away from this man and his family to avoid a "rape chronicle"
The God who sent this man like you believed will send another one.
If not; hold on to that God and you'd have peace.

Becky Divine said...

I feel your pain dear

Do not tell his wife please
Quietly distance yourself from him and go look for work. If his wife calls to ask you what's happening... pretend you've been busy with school and give excuses when she invites you over

It's gonna be hard not having him there honestly, in fact brace yourself for anything. But in anything, just believe that you are a child of God and God never forgets or abandons his own.

You will survive! Just believe that this particular is about to close for a bigger, much better door to open for you! Be strong darling, you'll be fine

Blackberry said...

I hope ur story is legit.
How did u guys meet?
Did ur parents disown you?
What's d relationship between d man n ur family?
Cos u making is sound like u have no choice than to open leg.

Tilly said...

Talking to hus wife is a bad idea. I think you should pour out your heart to him as a father that you say he has been to you. Tell him you see him as your dad and you would never betray his wife who has been a mother to you. Tell him you are grateful for helping you all this while but that maybe it is time for you to move on from them as they have even done enough and tried for you.
Please do not let him think you are considering sleeping with him. Let him.know that it is not even an option at all.
Lastly, Gid that sent the man to help you is capable enough to send someone else or set u up to take care of yourself. The man is not your God...dont get it twisted. Dont place him like hes a god of some sort. You will be fine

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Please, don't tell his wife anything! Just stay away from him.
I respect you for not taking advantage of the situation just because of money.

If he insists on having sexual intercourse with you again, tell him you respect him and see him as your father, he should not downgrade himself all because of sex.
Don't insult him, continue to talk to him with respect but stop going to his office, home or wherever you people usually meet.

I don't know why some men become senseless when it comes to 20mins of enjoyment.

Becky Divine said...

Gosh I dunno if my earlier comment posted ooo and I don't have strength to type another one Mshewwwww

Dear poster be strong okay
God has got your back

Bohemian Girl said...

First of all, I wish you had had it at the back of your mind that all the "help" wasn't free. Then, your mistake was telling him you're single and about your virginity! What were you thinking? If he had restrained himself all these years, why did you give him a reason to start looking at you as a "woman" and not a "daughter"?. You can't talk a man out of wanting to have sex with you. Once sexual demands start, they never stop. I suggest you tell him exactly what you've told us- that you see him as a father figure, that you're eternally grateful for all the help he has rendered and will understand if he decides to withdraw his support in your life. You see him as Father, and not "Zaddy". He can't get your sugar.

I hope you have been saving, because if he refuses to back down, you have to cut off all ties with him and his family. No need to involve his wife because he can easily turn her against you quicker than you can say "He wants to sleep with me, ma", and you'll end up making two enemies. Of course she'll believe her husband over you seeing as he met you first and not vice versa.

Wawuu.. Please learn to be "sharp", street wise etc. This is a fairly common scenario and you need to handle it wisely to avoid any future vendetta. You'll be fine.

Anonymous said...

God sent, God has taken; may his name be praised.
Even if he slays me, yet will I serve him. (google this statements and read)
It is time to be faithful to this God who has been faithful to you.
Do not scoop fire in-between you thighs for it will burn you.
Do not give up this chastity you have nurtured on a platter of thrash.
And do not think that when the man sleeps with you, he will invariably resume the sponsorship;
He might as well renege as an unstable man he is,
He might as well lose his job; though about that?
Solution: trust the God that give all good and perfect gift!

Ldf said...

He has helped you enough please move on and fend for yourself. Leave the man to his conscience.

Daenerys_targaryen said...

Speechless...i'll just read comments

Anonymous said...

Let's reason girl;
John 3:34 For the one whom God has sent speaks the words of God, for God

This man has not spoken the word of God; to have sex with you isn't the word of God; is it?
Just switch off from that family . . . like you've deleted yourself!

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Monkeynofine said...

Hummmmm this one go hard ooooo you cos all these to yourself! Y tell him u still a virgin? That's what makes him find u attractive because some men don't play with the world virgin. please don't report him to his wife. I will wait to read from others.

Anonymous said...

Say no and stand by no . . . who knows, the man (with his wife) may be testing your resolve.
If not, just stay away.

Anonymous said...

If this man has a son or brother of marriageable age, tell us, let's know if he is playing games!

Rocky said...

How old are you? There are only very few men who are true godfathers without the sex part. What kind of conversation did you have with someone who is supposedly a father figure to you that you have to tell him you are a virgin?? The truth is that this man have been fattening you for the slaughter for a while and maybe you chose to not see the signs or whatever.

Personally, I don't think sex should be a 'reward' for anything; job, admission et al. If it's against your will, don't have sex with him, continue being gullible and give that family space... Hope you saved sha?

see no evil said...

U have to makke up ur mind that u are gonna lose that ssource oof cash. U need to sstart work again. Plss what sort of chhest infection makes one unable too work even after recovering?. Pls tell us. Get a part time job asap. Recharge cards selling clothes/shhoes. Something. Above all, don't tell d wife. Withdraw urself jejely. Meanwhile start a chat to that effect so u can have evidence incase he accuses u falsely to the police or to the wife.

see no evil said...

U have to makke up ur mind that u are gonna lose that ssource oof cash. U need to sstart work again. Plss what sort of chhest infection makes one unable too work even after recovering?. Pls tell us. Get a part time job asap. Recharge cards selling clothes/shhoes. Something. Above all, don't tell d wife. Withdraw urself jejely. Meanwhile start a chat to that effect so u can have evidence incase he accuses u falsely to the police or to the wife.

Anonymous said...

You've given so many reasons why ull go ahead and sleep with him are you askiyus so we can support ur school fees so as not to sleep with him?! Do what you want it's ur life !! Can't you work and pay ur fees !!

Anonymous said...

Style style Beggy Beggy.

Candid! said...

Turn to Jesus! I've never seen any help, more useless than the help of man. The Bible even States clearly that the help of man is useless. Look, everything God sent him into ur life to do, he has done and it's time to move on. If God sent him to u all these years without u compromising, don't u think he can send someone else to help u finish school? Keep ur faith in God and hang on, don't tell his wife anything and don't sleep with him. He might come to his senses and if he doesn't, move on! The only thing that pains me bout girls like u is that in the end u get disvirgined by one nuisance somewhere.

SANDY NEKY said...

No! You can't talk him out of this dear poster. It's already in his mind and until you submit, you can never get all those help further. He knew his target all along as such, reason he has been offering kind gestures all along. No be men again. So, the bitter truth in this is, its either you forgo and forget all his goodies or you submit that Congo for shining. Yes! In all, keep his wifey outta this!

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Anonymous said...

Thanks for posting ma'am,I would be a fool if I didn't save,but all I did was save and spend,cos my sister who is also in the same school with me,was PARTLY dependent on me financially,that is why the whole issue is heavy on me

John Edet said...

He wouldn't understand, there is nothing that can be done than leave him and his money. You can't have your cake and eat it. One thing with we men is that once our mind is made up its hard to change. Our minds are imaginative in nature,I wonder the nature of your discussion that led to you telling him you are a virgin, my dear that moment changed everything. To answer your question ,talking him out of it is out of the question, telling his wife is betrayal, quietly pull yourself away from him but since you still want his money then its not possible. You remember the talk of keeping a chicken as a pet.if you had plan for the future you would have set up a business from the proceeds you have been getting in preparation for a day like this.. I see you giving him the cookies and keeping your mouth shut as the parasite that you are.
Married women be careful with 'she is like a daughter to be', father sleeps with their daughter these days..

Isi beke said...

Don't tell his wife, continue trying talking to him perhaps he might see reasons with you

LIGHT said...

Just like Stella said,whatever you do,dont tell his wife. If after begging and talking to him,he doesn't change his mind,im afraid you may have to get a job. I hope you saved some money to help you through pending the time you are able to get a job. May God see you through dear, E-hugs.

JSBunny said...

Hmm, don't do it, but you will have yo come to the harsh conclusion that his help may come to and end. Hard for you, yes but that's the reality you have to face. Beg him to see reasons with you but if he doesn't listen, take a walk.

preciousp gal said...

My dear,please don't do it. The purpose God sent him to your life is over. One door closes,another door opens. God will see you through dear.

Anonymous said...

Poster you are right, you'd be betraying his wife if you concede to this pressure.
However, I blame you.
Seriously how do you people feel comfortable talking about being virgin to people other than your mother? Haven't you heard of people being raped after such disclosure? Wisdom is profitable!!
You drove that man's imagination wild with the sensitive information. Yeah, he's no Saint and nobody should come here to tell me he lacks self control. Even Jesus was tempted and takes the grace of God to come out of temptation.

Because I have won a man's friendship this way, I will advice you try this.
Meet up with him, be on your knees, cry and tell him how he's lucky to have his wife, and that you had innocently placed a curse on any man that would make you loose your virginity prematurely. If you are intelligent, you should know the words you can say to quench his thirst because you know him personally.

I once did this and 11years later I am still friends with that man without him seeing my pants for once

Goodluck


MrsBee

Mosi Jubelo said...

In this case, don't tell his wife. See, God that started a good work will finish it. He sent the man to you. Politely tell the man you cannot do it and if he stops paying, find a small job. Do you have savings? I hope you do.
Please please and please, don't do it, you'll regret it Forever.

I pray God gives you wisdom.

pink lady said...

I would have advised you to sacrifice your virginity so that he can see you through school and have a better future but I think he will stop helping you after sleeping with you.
The ball is in your court.....

☆Omalicious☆ said...

Send him this link. He will have a change of heart.

EmmyBennie said...

You had to tell him I am a vigin, did he ask you. In his shoes I will never demand for sex.

Bertha said...


It's always like that with men. As long as you are not their blood child they will want to fuck for any little help they give you. Your virginity has turned him on that's what he is after you now. Don't sleep with him because you will regret it. The things he used to give you for free he will start demanding for sex before giving them and once you start fucking him his wife will know, she will see the chemistry change there, believe me, and telling her will make her hate you later because she will forgive her husband eventually. Hope you took his advice earlier on by saving? If you did not then you are stupid, and i don't mean that as an insult because this is the time you have to give him space and use your savings to survive till he changes his mind, because he will relent a little after a few months but that does not mean he will stop chasing you. Once your 'helper' starts asking after your boyfriend, it's a setup, he actually wants to fuck as he believes having a boyfriend means you are now sexually active so there is no harm in sharing the coochie with him as well...
Some men have no conscience and are ruled by their pricks. What am I even saying? Some men will fuck their own blood daughters and do not care, so long as they are not caught.

Anonymous said...

Hmm..this life!! what level are you in now? If you are in like 400 already, you can pay your fees with what you hv saved and start petty trading wt the rest...like selling eggs, noodles, tissue paper, soap, detergent in school; student are always in need of these things even when they are broke. If the rent he paid for you expires; ask a frnd to squat; you need to pray to God about this cos he'll be the one to favour you in this regard. Wear your big girl pants, it's gonna be tough but trust me, you will cope. Dnt joke with your studies at all, and dnt tell his wife. I guess his time of help to you has expired. 90% of men would do same, it is very very hard to see men that would totally help you on a platonic level especially when they know the level of your vulnerability and helplessness, he even knows your family is as good as useless (pardon me). Get close to God if you are not already, you'll be needing his help a lot. Be diligent and disciplined with proceeds made from your little trading. I rest my case.

Sexy Candy YumYum (MIND SO MILITARY) said...

don't fuck him, don't tell his wife. talk to him but if he doesn't listen it means d end has come between you both. pray for God to send u an helper.

Sexy Candy YumYum (MIND SO MILITARY) said...

God did not bring you this far to abandon you. some parents sha

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

chai this one is hard oooh, but abeg spare his wife the agony, she will be shattered, but wait ooooh do you really think a man will do all of that for you and still woundnt want to lash otele? do you want to tell me you dint see this coming? hmmmmmmmm ok, i would love to share my story but i cannot fit type abeg.
will be back to read comments.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Dont tell the wife, let him go in peace God will raise another helper for you.

Intelligentsia princess said...

SDK why are you shaking now?it seem little things ruffles you easily be calm oo,you're our blog momma...

O.k,back to the issue at hand.
Poster,don't tell his wife anything. Just take a walk,I mean a very long walk from that man. He doesn't want that father daughter relationship anymore. He wants to waste your glory, yes any young Lady that sleepe with a married man is wasting her glory. I wished you well in your studies and life endeavors...

I know what it means being a student without any form of assistance from anybody except God, I've being there before. But don't sale your glory for a pot of porridge.

SDK,post her account details let us help her in our little way.

Anonymous said...

Please DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM OR VISIT HIM ALONE OR TAKE ANY DRINK ALONE WITH HIM TO AVOID DRUGGING.

Pray intensely for God to uproot this thought from his heart as the devil has entered to blacken your destiny.
I feel your pain biko do not submit to such devilish desire of his nd do not tell the wife.
Preach to him via fone if u call him and allow God to fight this for you.

You can drop your details with Stella.

Anonymous said...

This your story, I hope it's not cooked up to beg stella or us here. Cos u claimed doctor said u shouldn't work? Is it all kinds of work? If yes, then how will u work after school when u graduate and how do you cope with the stress of schooling in Nigeria cos I know that alone is more stressful than any job. If it's true sha pls don't do anything with him, Pray harder with faith God will answer u. Don't ever sleep with that man, instead drop out of school and look for a small job like sales girl in a boutique with your Sec sch cert. and then enroll for mature program

Eminado Onimisi said...

Poster don't give in to his demand, God will send you another helper. Stay physically away from the family but call once in a while to check on the wife. If he ever lie against you to the wife, tell her the truth.

DonMayor �� said...

You should know that it will get to this, long before now. I don't know how to advice you.

Anonymous said...

I hope this is not an indirect begging post. How could your biological parents desert you for 3yrs? And the man's wife had been silent while the husband showers you with gifts,?
This your story no join ooo,try harder next time.
I know you most Beevees and Stella herself are gullible but not smart muah...

Anonymous said...

I hope this is not an indirect begging post. How could your biological parents desert you for 3yrs? And the man's wife had been silent while the husband showers you with gifts,?
This your story no join ooo,try harder next time.
I know you most Beevees and Stella herself are gullible but not smart muah...

pee said...

The thing is that he is tired of u.if u sleep with him he will just dump u,if his wife finds out he will still dump you.respect or no respect. Maybe u should use his influence and get a job now and give him space for sometime.
He might even be trying u and his wife is aware.

Anonymous said...

Begging things! Scammer you are a very good strategist.

Tphany Gracia said...

Poster avoid him... U will not die

mii said...

Gosh! Garrison, cold pure water and epa is bae,

Brb peeps

Anonymous said...

You can't talk him out of it!its either u do it or avoid him,don't tell the wife yet just avoid them,she will suspect something if she asks u you can open up to her but if she doesn't no bother. With the little u have saved u should be able to start a "little"some thing for yourself.what if that man dies today won't u continue living yourlife?won't u find a way to survive on your own?look I am from a poor home too,that taught me to be independent and never to expect anything from anybody,if u cant work cause of ur health go learn hand work there are also less tedious jobs out there.

HighlyFavoured said...

My dear, it is time to prove to God dat ur trust is in Him and not in any man. Also, to acknowledge dat dis help came through God and not man. Cos who would do all these, all these years and not ask for a tin in return?
U have to have a long talk w d man in an open place. An eatery or restaurant (to prevent being raped). Appreciate him and His family for all the care over the years. Then, tell him u have come to c him and His wife as ur parents and would never do anything to hurt either party. Let him know how his wife is an angel, for letting u into their home and trusting u w her husband all dis years and how u can never break d trust.
Tell him even if he doesn't do anything for u again, He has already done more than enough; and u trust God who connected both of u to come through for u.
Let him understand dat for the Love of God and His family, u will never do it.
He will beg further or become angry, etc; but don't ever go back on ur word.
After this meeting, try cutting ties from him. (He is lusting after u right now and will take God and time to Quench d feelings) stop seeing him, visiting his houSe or office or taking his calls (help him to get over u). He might term u wicked, ungrateful etc. But u are saving His marriage and returning the good turn.
Finally, brace urself for the very worst dat might happen. Cut down on every luxury. If it means getting a room mate, changing apartment etc. I know a lot of people from very poor background dat went to sch and graduated without knowing how d monies came. Sell sometin. Fresh pepper, tomatoes, recharge cards, eggs, run errands etc. You will survive and scale through.
I don't know how close u r to God, but dis is a time to hold him close. Put ur trust and focus on Him. U will be surprised how big the next door he will open will be.
As for ur parents, pls don't hold a grudge. They are grateful to God u r surviving somehow. (Pls I am not supporting dem o) Maybe, it was der prayers dat opened dis door. Pray for them and love dem. Anyway, if dey had not brought u up properly, u wouldn't be a virgin till date or sending dis chronicle. Wen d opportunity comes, don't hesitate to help or provide for them; especially ur mom. And for God to answer ur prayers, ur heart must be pure.

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Lip stains said...

Wow this is a tough one though,I would love to write an epistle but my newly fixed nails won't let me...there should have been signs all along I mean signs that he may later request sex from you,from the way he asked you if you had a bf should have given you a signal,(God has given we women a beautiful gift,which is the gift to detect all kinds of feelings from the opposite sex) the moment he asked you if you had a bf you should have said yes,there's only one solution girl if you can take a man along with you to his office introduce him as your fiancΓ© and also lie that you are 3 weeks pregnant and you guys would be having an intro immediately after you re done with school,you have to plan this with a male friend you are really close to, if you don't carry out this plan my dear he will never stop demanding sex from you,and don't even think of reporting to his wife or anyone close to him good luck.
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Lip stains said...

Wow this is a tough one though,I would love to write an epistle but my newly fixed nails won't let me...there should have been signs all along I mean signs that he may later request sex from you,from the way he asked you if you had a bf should have given you a signal,(God has given we women a beautiful gift,which is the gift to detect all kinds of feelings from the opposite sex) the moment he asked you if you had a bf you should have said yes,there's only one solution girl if you can take a man along with you to his office introduce him as your fiancΓ© and also lie that you are 3 weeks pregnant and you guys would be having an intro immediately after you re done with school,you have to plan this with a male friend you are really close to, if you don't carry out this plan my dear he will never stop demanding sex from you,and don't even think of reporting to his wife or anyone close to him good luck.
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Miyake said...

Damn, great idea poster; sweet lies from the pit of hell to gain monetary favour through false pretense. I am a man and I stand to be corrected, this is impossible. That's all I have to say. Reader read my lips - “nice try thief"!

Iphie dearie said...

The thought of you being a virgin has filled his mind.. that is all he's thinking about right now.
I wont be surprised if he knew all this while and kept nurturing you for the right time.

Some men can 'smell' innocence from a distance and wont stop until they've had you.

What level are you in?
Is your school very affordable?
Maybe we can make you our very own 'Project' here.

I dont see any other way around this.

Btw,why are you telling the wife? Are you hoping that she will caution him and then you continue collecting money from the family? Like an adopted child? She was not there when you met him... keep her out of this

beautiful godly said...

This is serious dear
Pls don't sleep with him and don't tell his wife
Tell him he is an Angel, and angles don't sleep with people,more so you love and fear God ,so u can't sleep with him
If u sleep with him ,u will ruin your destiny,where God is taking u to is greater than where you are . pls avoid him and trust God for his provision
Don't kown about your school but when I was in uniben ,uniben has job for their students call "work study"
I worked for uniben from my 200l till I graduated, they pay small but was able to do so many things with the money,I even helped my younger ones and friends to get the job, finout from your school if they have such work for student to sustain yourself .its well dear.
Pray to God for direction and wisdom to tackle the situation

Tiwa

Amacastel said...

Wow this is soooo hard

Anonymous said...

Hmmm,see how you jumped into this conclusion,you may be right or wrong,but give her a benefit of doubt Mr

Monkeynofine said...

She better not let the man's wife know about it. Secondly I don't think she need monetary help because she might ve saved from the little she got from d man.

Anonymous said...

God use people to talk to us. Poster listen to the advice you are getting here. Everybody is almost saying thesame thing "don't do it". God will see you through.

Monkeynofine said...

Then go give him the Congo after all it won't last up to 10minutes of fun. Ok you're from a broke family and u and your sister are in school? How did u guys expect to go through school without money? All in all please keep the wife out of it!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth*

Miss Juliet said...

Fuck him na,u wan take d viriginity to bank? Shebi later now u go go fuck one stupid boy dat doesn't deserve it..abeg na u sabi shaa..wateva makes u happy

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Firstly, don't be 'mad' at your parents. It's not their fault that things are the way they are with them. The bible says we should honour our parents so it may be well with us and our days will be long. The fact that they brought you to earth means you must respect them. Many girls in lagos have parents that are figure heads and they've been 'on their own' since a very young age. You're not alone so don't think that or act like you are.

Secondly, don't tell his wife. It will break her heart and it may backfire against you. He could turn it around and cause enemity between you and her. Just avoid the family and don't tell her why. Sometimes it's okay to hold some secrets. As women we should actually be able to hold some secrets between us and God.

Thirdly, nne leave this confusion matter and get busy. Learn a trade. Fashion, hair making, then add buying and selling. Don't do MUA things though in this critical situation, except you have something to back it up. Gather your savings and learn a trade with all your heart. I used to do buying and selling when I was in uni because for the greater part of my uni education things were tight for my folks. But I always held my own. And I must tell you I made very good money as a student way more than many runs girls in school. Everyone thought I would definitely be a core business woman after graduation. So truly the chains that bind us are all in our imagination.

Just calm down. God who sent this helper would send another. Take it from me because i speak from experience. This isn't the last time you will receive unexpected help from people who aren't related to you. If you have the 'head' for it, it will keep coming. And people will never believe that you arent doing these men or women sexual favours. Just keep crossing over temptation like this. You hear? Don't give in. Don't even think about it. Plus if you sleep with him in this situation it usually ruins everything.

As for that man.... nonsense and ingredients. Una go meet for future. Don't hate him oh. Afterall he was once good to you. It's just that now he's thinking with his penis. Most men often do.

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Anonymous said...

5mins for some

Happyheart said...

Send him a message explaining how you see him as a father ams cannot betray his wife.
Apologise for your refusal and tell him that someday you will pay him back for all his goodness and don't want to use your body to do so.
Tell him to pls stop helping you that you will find a different way to go through school.
In all don't sleep with him or tell his wife,ever. Don't disrespect him also and reduce communication to the barest minimum. God will make a way.
Stella pls can you get her account details so that all those who want to can help her out. Its been done here before or better still add her to one of those people you plan to help.
Some bvs are quick to call people style style beggars. Pls allow.people share their problems in peace abeg

Anonymous said...

No be u again?

Anonymous said...

Then sleep with the man. Or your sister should sleep with him.
So your parent dumped you and your sister. Mtcheeeeew

Anonymous said...

Story.

Monkeynofine said...

See questions πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ u be police .......

Monkeynofine said...

Relax we don read am already. Its up there πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Ok,to answer your question,Anon 16:16,on why my parents never asked for 3 years,my parents were separated for a while,got back together,so since then everybody has been on his or her lane,well I don't expect you to understand,probably your parents are always there for you,I didn't include it in the post,so that it won't be as if I m seeking for pity

Monkeynofine said...

Why continue with education when you can't be able to work for the rest of ya life except God intervention? Babe I am not not understanding this ya chronicle ooo😐

Anonymous said...

Lmaoo @miyake. So who's paying ur sisters fees that's also in the same sch with u ?!!! Shameless scammers.

Anonymous said...

BB you always represent when it comes to reasoning. I also asked myself same question. This lady might end up opening her legs.

Monkeynofine said...

Its either u give him the πŸͺ or you drop out of school.

Anonymous said...

stella ARE YOU CRAZY? WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY WHATEVER YOU DO?

DEAR POSTER... JUST IGNORE THE DUDE FOR FEW MONTHS. YOU WONT DIE IF YOU IGNORE HIM. GOD IS WATCHING YOUR NEXT MOVE. DETERMINE HOW FAR YOU WILL GO IN THIS LIFE. IF YOU START SUCCUMBING TO A MAN'S LUST FOR FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN,IT MEANS YOU WILL COMPROMISE EVEN FURTHER IN LIFE ONCE YOU ARE RUFFLED.
MY ADVICE,IGNORE THE IDIOT FOR FEW MONTHS. MANAGE WITH YOUR SAVINGS. IF YOU NEED HELP SO BAD GO TO HIS WIFE AND ASK FOR HELP.BUT DONT TELL HER. THE CLOSER AND MORE ATTACHED YOU GET TO THE WIFE WILL MAKE THE MAN RETRACE HIS STEPS FOR FEAR OF WHAT HIS WIFE KNOWS.
REMEMBER THIS SAME MAN WILL DENY YOU TMRW IF HIS WIFE FINDS OUT THAT YOU COMPROMISED. AND NOT ONLY THAT SHE WILL SHUT YOU OUT,THE MAN WILL DUMP YOU WHEN HE IS TIRED OF YOU.
STAND FOR CHRIST AND GOD WILL OPEN OTHER DOORS FOR YOU.

Rosemary Chidi said...

Lmao. Your comments are always cracking me up. I'm sure you didn't mean what you typed tho.

Rosemary Chidi said...

Dope advice coming from Doppelganger. Poster listen to her πŸ‘†

Anonymous said...

God should be your only hope. How can you say the man is your only hope? What happened to your creator? God forbid what if the man dies tonight? What will you do? He cannot help you forever. He has done his part. Make Jesus your everything and he will give you everything. Safe your virginity. Your soulmate that will even do more for you will come. And please respect his family, stay away and never tell his wife. Best wishes poster

Anonymous said...

So your parent don't have money yet both of you decided to enter school.

What happened to school if you finish I start? If your a virgin is your sister a virgin? Do your parents abandon both of you?
I just realized this story is fake. I know you need money and maybe your parents don't have but you don't have to lie about it. Nobody is a fool here!
Is eida you drop out or our sister drops out and learn trade. If both of you insist on staying then you have to sleep with him. I doubt if your a virgin cus to me you have a boyfrnd but you just don't want to sleep with the man.

Am not saying pple shouldn't help you. Cus your actually begging.
Bvee please help her if your touch to. I for help but I no get.

Great lady said...

Doppelganger,chop kiss.
Exactly, same thing I have in mind.
Follow her advice. How sure that after giving him sex, he still won't stop helping you. Don't expect that he would be helping you till you are very comfortable.
Had been in ur shoes though my situation wasn't as large as urs but I told him I can't do it, he left me and I boldly walked out. Another helper came.

You can buy him gift, wine to bade him goodbye. But stand on ur ground, don't give in. This is not a matter of biting the finger that fed you.

MrsB said...

Please tell me you saved a bit. This will be easier if you did.
Do not sleep with him! Sure you read a recent chronicle from a bv who gave her virginity to a married man and still feels guilty about it. Tell him 'No' firmly. You might have to cut all ties with him especially if he knows where you leave. So he doesn't come to take what you have refused to give him forcefully.
I know it feels life-shattering, trust me you'll be fine. God always find a ways to Reward us when we obey Him.
Don't tell his wife even that he asked you. Don't be the reason their marriage fell apart.
Do not do this, please.

Anonymous said...

Why tell him your a virgin tho
You put yourself in trouble
Ask for whatever you need through his wife.reduce communication with him

Anonymous said...

My dear he has been grooming you. He was just waiting for the right time to strike.

Dark Horse said...

All of you saying go look for work, I hope you all are in Nigeria.. Is it work of 15K abi 20K? Graduates never see work finish na under G go get work

Poster all the while, you should have seen this coming one way or the other and prepare by learning a skill hair making. Your situation is beyond man. Go to God in prayers and see what will come out of it

Anonymous said...

Never ever ever tell his wife. You go to him and request respectfully that you both bow and pray to God to destroy the spirit of darkness is about to come between you and your helper, to destroy this evil before the two of you separate forever, to teach you how to be a good daughter to this man whom God has chosen as your second father, to strengthen the marriage of this second father. Amen! Then rise and ask about madam and if Madam is at home so you can pay her a visit, maybe to help her with laundry or go to market with her.

Omo, time toh start looking inwards o, don't get too comfy when others render assistance. It doesn't usually last. It may be hard but you have to find something doing yourself. Many students do it. Just find something you can do that won't strain you too much because eof your condition. Don't bow to the pressure of sleeping with him. If you do, you will probably end up worse off in the long run.

sense world said...

Haba queen not nice, poster Pls try look for anoda job and bone d man.

Anonymous said...

Poster
You need to wisen up
Download an app on your phone that records your calls automatically. record him as he's begging you for sex. Keep telling him you can't betray his wife..praise her well
Play it for the moron if he doesn't stop and threaten to send it to his wife
Collect a large sum and run

Anonymous said...

The man groomed this girl and was waiting fir this moment when she's halfway done and has no choice! He has been working towards payback day. So sad! Poster font do it....

Dark Horse said...

If you truly are a virgin, I go jst swerve look else where.. I want gals who hv at least 2-3 yrs experience

My two kobo said...

This is weird!!! A lot of similarities between yesterday and today's story...

Pls don't sleep with that man...how far gone in uni are you? Do you have any money saved?

straight shooter(allergic to bullshit*) said...

Queen and boss your comments always crack me up and they voice out the*unholy* thoughts, that lodge in the dark parts of my mind ,lol

Anonymous said...

The chronicle is somehow i wont lie, but who am i to judge.she truly needs to start something that man owes you nothing. The story is suspicious anyway.

Great Lady said...

Whatever you do please do not sleep with him. You would regret it for the rest of your life. Cut off every and any communication from him.
Trust God to take care of you. No man should take the place of God in your life.
He's an opportunist and was just waiting for the right time, please don't sleep with him. One act of indiscretion can totally destroy your life.

Anonymous said...

Stella why are you shaking πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Chairlady association of Drama Queens 😁😁

Anonymous said...

Some of you should allow people share their problems,you don't wear the shoes and u dnt knw where it pinches,some parents can be useless tho,poster God will see u through

Didy Alexander said...

What exactly was she thinking??when she kept collecting and visiting his work area. Abeg shift jor

Monkeynofine said...

After reading her reply πŸ‘‡ there I be got no choice than to node my head to your comment😊😊😊♨♨♨πŸ’―

Honeybunny said...

Y do I have a feeling dis story is fake??
So all d while d man was bin nice to u, u didn't know he wanted ur kpekus las las??
He has even tried. Pls give him d kpekus to chop.
This is recession, everyone is going tru financial difficulty. So dis style of begging
Kolewerk!

Munchies Diner said...

I am a University graduate but presently unemployed. I need a small loan or grant to be able to grow my small diner to a big fast food restaurant... Any amount will be appreciated. I believe empowering me will also help take lots of people off the street and feed families.

Sassy Meruche said...

Lmao,I immediately scrolled down looking for your comment,and you didn't disappoint.Poster,abeg do what's best for you in this situation.

Jamila Ibrahim said...

Queen Queen, I am your number one fan!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Miyake said...

Anonymous brother/sister. The lies and follow up comments from the Chronicle poster just tire me. No man go do ozuo tey reach that level without chopping common kpekus since. Is the kpekus made of silver lining or na virgin he never nack before?! This one na professional begger thief, see how she is blocking every advice that is being given. Sotey he/she didn't leave anything to debate, telling how the wife supports too, shebi dem both see you for their dreams ni? My friend goan sleep. Na only pure magas go send you their hard earned coins at this juncture.

Anonymous said...

Drop your contact but I must take you to a doctor to verify your story.

CHILD OF GOD said...

Take Dope advice.
Whatever makes you think any man will help you freely without sex.
His time has come to an end in your life. Don't break his home 🏑. Believe in yourself and hardwork.

Isaacson said...

Hahahahaha I always search for your comments to laugh

Jasmine said...

This woman, u never fail to surprise me

Jasmine said...

1 minute for majority.

Anonymous said...

She can deffer her admission for one year ,go work then return to school and finish up. She can also benefit from benevolence in church for students foodstuffs
My opinion . Time to carry your cross and maybe you will also forfiet the present lifestyle the man has exposed you to.
Get 1roommate to pay half the rent, and generally cut down your expenses.

quietly avoid the man and stop blabbing your mouth about your virginity to any man. They don'thave to know, your hubby is the only person you need to Prove that to.

Anonymous said...

Anon 17:45, my thoughts as well!

Jasmine said...

I don't even feel comfortable talking about sex with my mother o. Dunno how i'm gonna tell i'm pregnant when I get married self

Dat awesome gal said...

Queen of the zanga.i open yansh for u.u too dey practical.hahahaha.poster no mind queen oh.

Anonymous said...

Life is in seasons dear. Your season of help from this man has ended. Thank him and move on. It's time to find other sources. You have obviously started idolizing the man cos of the help he has rendered you. And he has shown u that he is only a man. The same God that brought this man to help you will raise help for u from elsewhere.
Ndo!

micheal kobi said...

No boy friend all this while because he was there providing b4 u even asked,..so wat r u now saying,. logically he's ur bf.. He just didn't want to burst ur speaker at the time bcoz he felt it would look like Child Abuse..now that ure matured enough;.welcome to the real world..now u gat two life lines; be a "good" gal and grant he's request or be "good" gal and walk away...

Gbonju said...

Poster, in case u later agree to sleep with him,pls don't get pregnant in order not to add salt to the injury.

Anonymous said...

I'm in tears seeing my baby happy and smiling eating what she's not suppose to eat yam and oil for three days now and she's just two .I can't even make stew or buy baby food for her or pampers she wears at night and I will have to wait till next month end before I get my salary is killing me. Pls I need help please. I hope and pray someone will reach out to me thank you. Dinma.vivi12@yahoo.com

I am hephzibah said...

Poster trust God who has brought you thus far. It is time up for this man in your life God will send another but even if He doesn't still trust Him,He makes a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert He will provide for you.In the meantime downgrade your expensesto the nearest minimum and look for other means of survival but never give in to him as don't involve the wife.it is well with you.

Anonymous said...

This style will surely pay.

Anonymous said...

Just stop! Joke or no joke. Someone will read the abominable things you write as advise and may foolishly do it. What is wrong with you? You make me SICK!

Ralu M said...

God bless you for this Doppel

Anonymous said...

With the way both of you were collecting from him it was probably going to end up with this. Its law of nature. Try to reason with him, If all fails, I will contact stella for your details and help you complete your studies as far as your fees are not outrageous. He is just being human, i am a man too. He might have developed feelings for you. It takes strong self control and the spirit of God not to fall into these follies. Been there , done it all. Vanity all is vanity.

Anonymous said...

Linda eze may God Deliver You o! Are u sure e di ok? Ogini ki e na ko' sef? Na wa for u o! Smh!

BLUNT CHIC said...

Dont fuck him. He wants to use you for rituals.

Anonymous said...

O ma seun ooh, anonymous 18:40, o bere arede ni yen.

Dre said...

Poster it's only a fool who puts his trust in man, but whoever puts his trust in God will never be disappointed. Aren't you a believer? Go and read your Bible and appropriate the word of God in your life.
Life is full of disappointment and temptation but they serve to make us stronger. Make the right choice and reap the good fruits.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Poster, leave the man's wife out of this. You soumd so vulnerable and I'm scared you might end up sleeping with him. Please don't

Thank him for all he has done for you and tell him you can't do it. Don't wait for his response.

Pray before doing the above.

God will send you helpers.

chikito said...

Poster take this advice, let the man go.

PL THE GREAT said...

Poster God will see you through? By you're the poster na. Many bvs here aren't dumb you know. BTW, you and white berry have an eerily similar writing pattern.

Rob said...

Corpse you can't exceed this year.

Anonymous said...

It is either you're a sadist or you just enjoy sending controversial comments to remain relevant

Ronalda. said...

Sweetheart, I'm astounded at your naivety, it's almost endearing. Did you really think a man who isn't a blood relative will be so generous and show such concern with no strings attached? I can imagine how challenging it would have been managing on your own, but how come you got so comfortable with all the largesse and care he showed you? Surely, somewhere at the back of your mind, you had to have known payday will come eventually, no? 

My darling, it appears this man was grooming you to become his lover/mistress. No man will invest that much consistently on a particular lady without an ulterior motive. No matter how helpless you are, you must be mindful of whom you accept help from and how much help you are comfortable receiving because the day your "helper" comes to collect, you'll feel indebted and the price you have to pay, like in this case, will be too costly.

Are you saying if he drops dead today, Heaven forbid, your life ends as well? Are you aware that a lot of young ladies have gone through worse without any helper, yet they managed to make something out of their lives? He has given you the launching pad, cut all ties and learn to stand on your own feet.

Sweetie, you can't "friend-zone" him. That ship has long sailed. My primary fear is your naivety, if you don't cut off all ties, you'll end up doing something you will regret for the rest of your life. The minute he told you his intentions, he stopped being your "FAMILY". You have only 2 options, cut all ties and move on or remain with him and become his sex doll. Don't get seduced by all you stand to gain. If you lose your virginity to this man, you'll be amazed at messed up your life will become. You are way too inexperienced to get sexually involved ‎with such a man. What if he gets you pregnant and he makes you wife #2? It will dawn on you later when you find yourself stuck with a man old enough to be your father but you now begin to have appetite for men closer to your age range, or worse, fall in love with who would have been your idea man. When faced with a challenge, always see the bigger picture. Don't just do what seems appealing right now because it may become disgusting later in life. Choose wisely!
#e-bearhugs.

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...
My suggestion to those of you who like me think it's a scam. One can independently verify her studentship directly from her school. So poster give out your details to people who are willing to help you

General Zod said...

Buss it open girl. You knew deep down that the guy will want to smash finally. You just did not expect it too soon. Hope you really a virgin tho? Some girls say that to give a man hope and keep waiting for the right time.

Anonymous said...

I know this poster..

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the additional information Poster. Since your parents are now together, they should jointly take up the responsibility that is theirs. Let them know you will not be able to pay for the fees for the next session. Everyone cannot be on their lane. They must be made aware of this obligation which is theirs to discharge.

Tee

Chinny Baby said...

Do not tell the wife

SANDY NEKY said...

Hahahaha! I can see that comment really entered you hegoat. You think its only you that has mouth to always spill rubbish here as a confirmed hater oshi that you ISπŸ™„πŸ˜‰waste of a sperm fuck boy!

Anonymous said...

@Queen is very ryt. Most girls like u end up giving ur pussy to one small boy who will never appreciate it. I had a friend like u and she refused sex with d man. After awhile d man moved on and she gave her pussy to one guy like dat. D guy chop clean mouth.
Now she is back to square 1.

Abeg fuck nonsense out of d man jare. If not for anything, do it to appreciate what he has done for u.

U are just selfish jare.

If u fuck dat man ehnnn. I promise u, d man go dey kolo for ur case

Irresistible dudu said...

Ok. If you have savings now is the time to invest in a business. If you can. Go to your pastor's wife, meet lecturers in your school and offer your services as a nanny or cleaner for homes weekly. Don't give in to such demands from hrll

Anonymous said...

Very stupid plan!
Why can't the fiance who impregnated her take over her expenses??

Anonymous said...

My dear don't do it, if u start u may not be able to leave & u will just get roped in 4da in2 dis mess, turn to God. In ur soul go to ur fellowship to talk to dem, dey usually have a welfare purse, whatever dey give u, speak to ur parents & source 4 funds in oda ways. Don't let anyone deceive you, u always have another choice. He is not ur God, pray 2, He won't neglect you. Ur friends too can raise sth 4 u 2, speak 2 ur class rep, ur coursemates don't even need to know who dey r raising d money 4.

Lilly simple said...

Troll up to confirm

Anonymous said...

Anon 20:47 take it back to the other blog. begi begi

Cxx said...

Poster na wa thou!! How do u intend to sleep with your '"father" You can't be a virgin and be thinking of giving it up that easy, because of money no less!! U are mentioning God and you are trying to do his work for him. Let God solve your problem. Trust in him and stop leaning on your understanding. Having sex with that man is not an option, things may get worse if u do. Stand your ground and hope in God. (Unless of course u have been lowkey having sexual fantasies of the man and braping anyhow, in which case, do u boo!!

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