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Saturday, 4 February 2017

Meeting Point 58

A woman always counts and NEVER forgets the meeting point...



Thank you so much for this wonderful platform fine woman, I feel like I forgot something each day I don't visit Stella Dimoko like my hubby calls it.


Sometime in august 2012,i got a friend request on facebook and as someone that was new on fb and wanted to increase the number of friends I have I quickly accepted and the cute guy sent appreciation on my wall. the thing vex me eeee but because it wasn't the usual horrible grammar people used to send, I kept my cool. he was this hello once a while person and I hardly noticed because I had my school boyfriend then.


About a year after, he asked for my bb pin and I gave him because he was chatting responsibly. when we started chatting on bbm,he would always tell me he was going to marry me and I will tell him to stop joking. we exchanged phone numbers and started talking on phone . I thought he was crazy because that was the only way to explain wanting to marry someone you have never met in person.


Fast forward to 2014, I was ready to go for NYSC and I wanted one of the south-south states but the person that was supposed to influence my posting heard a different thing and I knew I was going to the south west even before the call up letter came out. I accepted my fate and gbam i left for oyo state.
my boyfriend had already started acting up , hardly called and expected i send him airtime if i want him to call but this my unknown friend kept calling every time to check up on me and even recharged my phone without me asking for it. 


After camping, i was posted to a rural area(very rural oo) and i kept begging my boyfriend to come visit me like i did when he served but he didn't just want to sit in a bus for 9hrs just because of me. i told my lodge mates then that any body that will come visit me in this village that i wont deny that person anything he or she asks of me. my unknown friend kept pleading with me to let him come and visit me but i refused bcos i was hoping things would work out between my boyfriend and i(we dated for 6 yrs and 6 months).


May 2015,i said oya come lets see. it wasn't love at first sight but i didn't hate him either. he left that day and even came a lot of times before service year was over. i went to his base too. finally broke up with boyfriend because it was obvious he was distracted and i was forcing the whole thing. August i visited my new friend and stayed for 1 week. we had not started gbenshing cos i said no at first attempt and he promised he will wait till am ready. before the end of my stay we did it because i wont want to form mermaid and end up with a man that cant perform because i wasn't a virgin. 


The next month was my birthday, he proposed and i gladly said yes, we travelled home so my parents will get to meet him and they marked him good. that same month, i missed my period. got the pt strip and the 2lines almost blinded me, i cried because i was not ready and didn't want to be a pregnant bride on my wedding day. i wont forget the way he hugged me so tightly when i told him and how he hurriedly asked hope my baby is kicking(which baby kicks at that stage).


wedding plans began immediately , our traditional marriage was the next month(boyfriend came begging a week to the day but it was far too late). church wedding followed later. no WNB because we were too tired to gbensh,he only removed my gown, gave me a warm bath and held me tight all through the night. 

We have the most beautiful daughter ever and i will choose him over again. we quarrel plenty ooo but the only man that has ever loved and cared for me like he does is my father. i don't get to hear i love you every time because he believes he should make me feel loved and not to say it always
 (i have accepted my fate ). 

I know you will read this cos you sef dey visit pass me,thank you for loving me so dearly.
sorry for the errors and hope i didn't bore you with the long epistle.



*Sweet story Ojare,you didnt bore us...LMAO@ dated for 6years and 6months.
Some women dey even add days and hours...LOL



37 comments:

St.FranKooL.... said...

#If the whole world was blind, how many people would you impress?*

Miss Ess said...

Nuce story. Another fb advantage

Highness Gwen said...

Oh wow!

Becky Divine said...

Dated for 6years and 6months and it you guys still broke up... Wehdone ma oooh lol

Oga please try and be telling madam I love you more often na. I'm sure she'll love it

Highness Gwen said...

Your marriage is blessed!

Chidinma Grace said...

Lovely WNB story. Very interesting

Ebynwa: Property Investment in the UK, USA and Dubai from $25,000. Call/WhatsApp 07032338308 said...

Kisses to you guys. Lovely

Scarlett said...

Lovely story.

GenevieveNwa said...

Wow! God bless ur home,amen! True luv do fast nd find me oo!

becky naka said...

Ok, straight to the point.

When I get married, I don't want my husband reading blogs especially sdk. Let me be his sdk, I don't want him knowing where I get some ideas from. Lol.

Rosemary Chidi said...

Awwww, I love love!
May God continue to uphold and strengthen your marriage. Shout-out to your lovely daughter.

Anonymous said...

stelz your red pen comment is funny(meedah).

Wendixx said...

WOW!! I'm just here, smiling...
Reminds me of myself.. Feel like sending my own meeting point. Dated someone for 4 years and 9 months.. Lolzz.We always keep count jare. Met Hubby, got married in less than a year...

God bless your union poster jare.

straight shooter(allergic to bullshit*) said...

Lol, me too!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

This is one of the reasons why it's good to always have a plan B by the side!...
Congra poster!...

straight shooter(allergic to bullshit*) said...

Nice story, i need to send mine soon jor..i bind the spirrrittt of singlenessss in my life IJN...amen

Laeffizy said...

Poster..his saying he loves you is just a word of affirmation...
I'm happy you know that his actions speak louder than words...
Nice story btw...

SWAG LAFRESH said...

I like your husband o. I hate "I love you" everytime cos some men always expect a reply. Make me feel loved period.

keke driver said...

Nice....God bless your home.

Blessing Jackson said...

Lovely story, met mine in the days of yahoo messenger, we moved to fb. When I have strength to type, I will send mine.

LIGHT said...

Lovely meeting point story..... Boo where you dey o? Your husband is on point,i actually prefer showing me how much you love me than telling me. It gets irritating when you have to say i love you all the time,it becomes like a duty @ some point.

Anonymous said...

God bless ur home girl.

Anonymous said...

Many r mad but few r roaming.

Anonymous said...

Hian! WNB kwa?

Monkeynofine said...

😃😃😃😃😃 chief chief the SDK prophetess.......

Monkeynofine said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

Ideas on SDK blog? You better be wise, if you think that majority of ideas or advices you get here on SDK will help you in your marriage...Then be ready to send your chronicles after one month. Never practice what you see or read here at home.

princess Amra said...

Very happy for you...may God continue to bless your marriage

Joy Okanje said...

Smiling plenty , you didn't bore me at all but bros try tell Anty mi l Love you that's her only problem. God bless your marriage plenty

Amacastel said...

Queen queen

Dimplez said...

God bless your marriage, lol @ 2lines almost blinded ur eyes

Anonymous said...

Awww nice story just like mine dated my ex for 8yrs dated my husband for almost a year got married immediately and we met on Fbk...

Great lady said...

Hubby, try and be telling her 'I love you' even once in a while, women love to hear those sweet words. Though action is better off but add the verbal own to make it complete

Jasmine said...

Ur ex came back to beg a week to your trad? He must be a foolish person

Hawt Mrs said...

Poster's husband, while it's OK to show her you love her,telling her always is an icing on the cake. May God bless your home.

Barr. Oma said...

Jas,he is not foolish o. He is pushed by the devil to come and scatter a beautiful beginning, thank God she was pregnant if not doubt might set in. Enjoy you blissful union dear poster

Anonymous said...

Lol... @naka, I agree with u jor. @anonymous above, we learn from different platforms and channels, including other people's experiences. If one can learn how to correct mistakes, right wrongs and do things properly from an online platform, then why not? There isn't a defined way of doing things in marriage. To each his own

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