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Sunday, 12 March 2017

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Blood of Jesus....




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE VICTIM CRIES OUT 


Hello madam Stella I want u 2 help me post this on your blog I have suffered domestic violence enough from my husband and I want to speak up now to save my life.


 My husband keeps hitting me because of his girlfriend a beer palour girl even the girls father is in support of their relationship each time my husband vow not to go there again the man will call my husband on phone and beg him to cone back to their beer palour. Since my husband started dating this girl last year there has been no peace in my home. He will stay with them till they close by 11pm everyday. 


I have cried,begged reported him to his family to no avail. My husband turn that beer palour to his second house that is where he use to eat. He will buy bush meat and go there to kill it. The day I heard about the bush meat incident I told him was going there to report to the girls father. He beats me till I bled that day. I still have the cloth I put on that day as evidence. He said if my parents are truly d one that gave birth to me that I should come and meet him there. My husband bought phone for this girl and is giving her one thousand naira everyday for food. 


The second one time he beats me was the day he was calling her right inside the house and asking her if she enjoyed him yesterday he thought I was not inside the house when he was making the call. He hits me with every object that pulled my hair right now I don't have much hair at the back of my hair. If I want to talk people will advice me not to me talk that they are egun people and they can harm me. When my husband started dating this girl my daughter convulsed twice almost to the point of death. 


The second one was so terrible I thought I was going 2 lose her everyone in my street were crying for more than one hour my daughter did not wake up. It was later after the incident my neighbour told me that in the morning she saw the girl passed the back of my house around 6am. She said even when my daughter was convulsing that the girl was in my street. Later people started giving me prophecy that I should take my child away frm that area if I don't want to lose her. Since last year DEC my child have been living with my mum. 


Just last nite we had a misunderstanding again before I knew it he started hitting me again he beats me for more than one hour  I thought I was going to die am in serious pains now. I don't want to die pls I need justice I don't have money I am not working maybe that is why hubby is treating me this way.

  each time I tell him to set me up with business he will tell me to wait till I have another child. He said he don't want me to work under anybody I am just a full time house wife. Pls help me post it I need help I need a job to sustain myself and my child parents are not well to do out of the money for food he gives me I still send to my mum to sustain her. 


I want to live here before I die. I don't want money I just need a job that will help me take care of myself and parents. Pls well meaning Nigerians should help me if possible I need justice. I will send all the pix I took to you,please help me post it. May God bless you.








Madam,let me include your email address so that anyone that wants to help you with a job can mail you directly.

rose4flower1541@gmail.com or 09082587171


If your husband beats you this much,what are you still doing there?can you not run for your life?move to your mums place where you took your child?I dont understand it....

Most of you even run back to be killed after you receive help and that is why most organisations and people who help fight Domestic Violence are not so forth coming with help anymore.

I have a question for women who get into this kind of altercation with their spouses...When he is hitting you,do you try to hit back?or try to run?why wait until you are bruised all over like this and then you start making photos?why not just run?...R.U.N!!!

I am confused!!!





244 comments:

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Miss Ess said...

Lord have mercy! Madam please leave asap

Beloved said...

Oh my God

DV IS REAL .


Dear God will see you through

Anonymous said...

A man that hits a woman is a damd fool n a coward,wf exception of the ones DT would beat queen n loss of this blog, abi boss as she calls herself n DT stupid gahna bitch

Beloved said...

God

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

"Maybe you don't know how to cook"
Your parent's are not well to do, are they homeless that you can't move in temporarily.
You still allow the beast have sex with you seeing as he wants you to have another child.
I have no words for you because even after helping you this silly man will still control your life the way he wants.
Cook him a nice meal to cool his temper whenever he comes back from the beer parlour.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Wawu!...
Poster,it's obvious the girl and her father have used mensturation to cook for your husband!...
He is in their coven and he is gone!!...

If your husband is rich,I would have advised you to stay and fight this battle!...
But since he is a church rat,my sister run!!...
How can someone beat you up like this,cheat and rub it on your face and you still stay with him?...

The worst part is that you allowed your self to blow up with FAT!!...
Leave that house for your sanity biko..I will give you a call!...

VICTORIOUSEHIS REBRANDED said...

Stella,no they don't run

Rather ,they Jeep holding d men by d waist say "u go kill me today" meanwhile,the men keep panelbiting them .

Madam,safety first OK,when u are safe,then u can start looking for money. Thank God kids aren't too much now so the burden won't be much.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Say No to DV. Its only a coward that beats his wife. That's the best decision just leave him before he kills you

jay said...

Ewooo

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

What?!!! Is that your body?? My God!!

Atheist ™ said...

So you'd remain in a lions cage, screaming at passersby that uve got no place to go, really, you'd leave in a bodybag if u don't walk out of that hellhole. You married an irresponsible & shameless man as Peacemaker will say, ure not a tree, & u don't need 12yrs, start sumthg small & watch it grow. That ur hand is too fleshy, cus its been relaxed for yrs, get it swinging.

SDK Babe @amaq_collections..fashion designer at your service..bbm 58DB44B1 said...

Domestic violence is REAL and it's soo WRONG!!!
May God save us an help us not to fall into the wrong hands.
Poster I pray you get the help you need.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Peace maker please not today. I beg you. Na beg I dey beg.

Happyheart said...

She can't run because she will become an extra mouth for her poor mum to feed. This is sad.
Let's forget that she doesn't want money but a job.she needs money to rent a place,start a biz, treat herself before getting a job.
Abeg let's help her .
Those stupid people should pls comment about her injuries and his to help her. This is not the time to point out her shape or colour. I know una

OlaGold ( 58BF8F56 ) said...

Uhmm. Why wait till you are bruised. What happens to running. The annoying thing is that, you will help them now and all of a sudden they will remember their husband again.

lastborn said...

This woman will still go back to him. They always do. But madam u get d size to beat up ur husband,
Why u come dey slack.
Wat have u been doing all these years, even before u married ur husband.
One of the major issue of DV is finance especially if it Is only the man bringing in mony.
There Is a lesson to Learn in every story. Ladies please have something doing before getting married

Istanbul said...

Madam so sorry..Stella i will post something to you.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Na wa o. Please leave now that you still can before its too late. It is well.

BECKY DIVINE said...

This is serious

My dear please what are you still doing there? Please please please move back to your parent's house first before help comes. That man is a devil and he will surely kill you one day if you continue living with him.

Once you have something doing, start taking good care of yourself and your baby.. Try to lose weight too, not for him. Do it for you! Look sexy and smart once again and watch as he'll die of regret!
It's well

Isaacson said...

This is just so sad to read and view...i pray help locates you poster...as for that husband of yours I just pray he has not been jazzed by the girls father

Jagaban said...

This is sad....the best thing would any woman that her husband abuses her physically or emotionally should have a gun...hit him on the head with the gun...stupid mahn...

Anonymous said...

Madam in with your mum and try to find something, teaching, wirk in a restaurant something to survive on till you get a better job. Me i tire for una help will come now and you will still remain there.

Favourite Girl said...

Stella, some will lock door and remove key before beating u, tell me, where will u run to? And if u hit him back then expect d worse. God pls grant my heart desires in Jesus name Amen.

Anonymous said...

I'm in tears, why would a human being do this to his fellow human. Please anyone that can help should help quickly before he kills her

Monkeynofine said...

Jesus is lord gosh I am so pained right now...... Madam are u ready to leave ? Give a sincere answer .... I won't jump to help not until I am really sure that ure ready to leave that bastard of a man .. ........ Where are those blaming tonto for speaking out? I think tonto story inspired this lady to speak out! How I wish tonto can jump onto this matter to help this lady.....

tehila prima donna said...

Jesus christ! Men but why!!!😒😒😒😒..

Dietitian Nezz! said...

Tmoro she will jejely go back to the beater.
Madam use hot water and ori since you don't have legs!

Monkeynofine said...

Domestic violence is real they can't find solace not until they speak out! Please you all should stop blasting them for speaking out!

Monkeynofine said...

I keep saying it I can't leave my home for any sidechic except dv is involve ! I won't even nag about it to my hubby nope I know how to fight silently ..... ...

Gbonju said...

Haba,this is much now

Miss Juliet said...

Blood of God!!!!! This is getting too much,how can a human being do this.. Anyway dat was how his dad beat his Mum,dey grow up thinking dats how things should go..May God deliver his people.Madam i just wonder y u can't leave,i just wonder..so u want to get the job and remain there till he kills u? Run for ur life and go start something..leave d man and his side chick alone..tnk God u just have a child..

Lady Bug said...

Every single time you thought you were going to die and you still stayed behind,madam,you are your own enemy!
More so,seeing your picture,I have my reason of why your husband is cheating,saying it is like stating the obvious.
I hope you get help soon!

Highness Gwen said...

Geeeez!don't u value ur life?
Don't u have parents or relatives to run to?look at ur body covered in blood and u are still staying in that house?dear lord,pls come to her aid!this is not fair!no woman should ever have to go through dv!

nina chocomile said...

😒 I'm in tears. I'm so so sad at this chronicle. Why is the world so wicked? Why are some men so evil? If you don't want your wife anymore , why not just divorce her in peace? Poster pls I beg you in Gods name leave that mans house right now. Just go to your mum's place 1st while thinking of what to do next. I assure You, help will come your way. I will do the little I can and I know some lovely souls from this blog will also help you. Pls stay alive and stay safe for your daughter, she needs you like mad, and that's why you need to leave that bastards house today. Jesus is Lord.
N.B James a.k.a peacemaker pls I beg You, do not comment on this post if you want to see the end of this 2017, cos if you drop a useless comment here thunder and lightening will locate you where ever you are and strike paralysis into your bones. Thanks as you comply.

Minnie Rexpect said...

Jeez! Madam abeg run for your life. I usually don't comment when it comes to marriage but I need to.
Pls don't wait till your dead body leaves that place, leave there now! What kind of man beats his wife to stupor? Would he like it if his sisters or mum are beaten this way all because of one strange woman?
Madam poster, your life is more important cos you need it to train your child. Job will definitely come but for now please leave that toxic environment.
Sorry for all you are passing through,the Lord is your strength in whatever decision you choose to make.

nina chocomile said...

Chai, this is so unfair. This posters husband will do some jail time, so that in his next miserable life he'll never got a woman. Sonofabitch!

Anonymous said...

My 19 year old cousin left her husband because he was always beating her, he have warned the man severally bt he will stop and later start beating her again, one faithfully day she left the house and sold her phone so that she can be able to have money, then went to another town and started washing plate for the owner of the restaurant and was also sleeping at the same restaurant so that she can be able to eat food and mind you has had a few months old child, no one knew her whereabout,fear no allow the husband call to tell us that she was missing, until one day she called my dad with some1s phone and my dad had to send some money to her, she said she did that to show that she can survive without her husband even her family members, this is a girl that didn't go to the uni oo, bt she was able to leave that beast called husband and survive alone without her family's help unfortunately her baby died and she used her own money to return her bride price sef. Now she is about to be married to a better and a rich person. Madam if my Lil cousin can, you can do that too. You even have a mum to go and drop your child. But my cousin no get papa and mama again only 2 siblings and she left without telling any1.

Anonymous said...

My 19 year old cousin left her husband because he was always beating her, he have warned the man severally bt he will stop and later start beating her again, one faithfully day she left the house and sold her phone so that she can be able to have money, then went to another town and started washing plate for the owner of the restaurant and was also sleeping at the same restaurant so that she can be able to eat food and mind you has had a few months old child, no one knew her whereabout,fear no allow the husband call to tell us that she was missing, until one day she called my dad with some1s phone and my dad had to send some money to her, she said she did that to show that she can survive without her husband even her family members, this is a girl that didn't go to the uni oo, bt she was able to leave that beast called husband and survive alone without her family's help unfortunately her baby died and she used her own money to return her bride price sef. Now she is about to be married to a better and a rich person. Madam if my Lil cousin can, you can do that too. You even have a mum to go and drop your child. But my cousin no get papa and mama again only 2 siblings and she left without telling any1.

Anonymous said...

I hope you are not one of those telling Lillian to go back to her husband and also calling karma untop Tonto head

Anonymous said...

Lord have mercy what kind of men are walking the surface lf the earth?

Anonymous said...

Stella, you've not heard of men that lock the door before they start hitting the woman?

Isi beke said...

I know some foolish ones will begin to call out her fat arm, pls if u don't have anything meaningful to say u better shut up cos this is serious and she needs help. I pray she finds help so fast

Anonymous said...

Some, I say some of these women enjoy the beating, it is the foundation of their relationship
and perhaps their sexual turn on or feeling loved.

I feel no pity for these women, if you help them they go right back to their abuser, saying you don't understand. Of course we don't.

Work on yourself earn your own money, sell pure water if you have to. No one does to you what you don't let them. Survival is the first instinct of any human being. Staying in a bad relationship for the sake of children would only breed future monsters or doormats.

Enough!!! Forget what people will say.
Forget society. Do you.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#If someone tries to mock you, you can perceive it as an attack on you, or someone trying to strengthen their self-image by belittling yours*

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Advise for single girls,
If you know your parents are poor,please don't make it worse by getting married to a poor man!...
Marry with benefit and forget all the rubbish love cos when realities set in that marriage,love alone can not keep a marriage!...
It's better you cry in your rolls Royce than to cry in a Keke!...

Super Model said...

Next time kick him very hard on his penis if he hits you, may be your horseband is under a spell from the girl and her dad why don't you start prayers on his head.

DON™ said...

Jesus fix this. Amen.

Monkey Face said...

Sorry about the bruises and pains but my dear, give yourself brain and move out of that house. Though I suspect you ll go back to your husband afterwards. Already from the tone of your mail, you have stylishly moved the blame from your hubby to his Egun bushmeat seller.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

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Anonymous said...

Stella I have experienced it for 5 years and I am mentally done....sometimes it's difficult to run when you are been attack by a beast who is twice your size, pins you down in a choke hold with one hand and inflicts the blows with the other.... Domestic violence is REAL

Sexy Asa said...

Na WA . Why go through all this for a man? I didn't bother to read your story ,all I know is that it's domestic violence.
Some women will say they are there because they don't want their Children to be raised by another woman.please save that talk for another day. The child will understand when he or she grows up.
Your life is important.
And yes i am mother,madam give yourself some brain and move out.Abi na when u carry one eye u go comot?
May help come your way.

Blackberry said...

Madam, no carry belle again for that man o. Lose some weight n be hot, separate from him n live to life, but as usual, u might still go back.

ola wealth said...

O my God.. I have said it n I ll keep on saying it.. Don't depend too much on your husband. Try to save money and find a good job before venturing into holy matrimony.. See how he has cajoled you because you don't have a job or something doing.. Have a job even if it is not your dream job.. This man something is wrong with you, how will you beat your wife like this, see blood everywhere.. Oga ooo ooo. I m sure that man is a Yoruba man, I m also Yoruba ooo. But its too common with Yoruba people.. Ki lode na.. Won fii seyiin ni.. My growing up, I witnessed a lot of things. Most especially men from ondo town, they cheat, drink and womanize a lot.. 40% of women in ondo town are single parents, I can beat my chest to that. Some of their men are too wayward, they can drink beer for this world..!!! Some will panel beat their wives so tey you go dey cry. Men learn how to control yourselves. If a woman offends you, leave d house for her to cool off. This is not the way ooo.. Atall.. Madam sorry ooo. God will see you through, just give the man space abegi, give him enough space.. Oga ooo..

Apples ( SDKBlog Shrink) said...

What is all this naah????

What is happening to our men???
Madam, you need to get out of that house before he kills you....

Chijay said...

This is horrifying. Who raised these men biko nu. Madam how can someone batter you like this and you are still in the house? You want to die first???? This is too much abeg. That man will not blink an eyelid before he kills you. Some people didnt even sustain as much injury before they took their last breath. God forbid bad thing. Please my sister, life no get duplicate o, run to your Parents house, I know your fear is feeding and support. Go there first, bare your heart to God and I tell you, starvation will not kill you. Even an orphan will not go thru this. #saddened

Chijay said...

That's your blood in the bucket, gosh! Please escape for your life please I beg you in the name of God. This Just broke my heart. A man you bore a baby for did this to you, not an accident or an angry mob. This is just too much. Leave that house today before you are murdered.

D mbaise gurl said...

Wawu. Opens totoh wide
Madam I'll send u my widows mite. Send your ACC details. Pls leave with your child today

Madam B said...

Honestly, I don't understand how can you stand and allow the person to beat you till you start bleeding? RUN even when we were young, you run when our parent beats us, how much more now. Na wa. Poster please run first till help locate ypu .madam B

Kachi said...

This is serious, madam I pray help find you

Gorgeous Lilian said...

Aaaarrrh! Some women have strength sha.

Monkeynofine said...

This pics are making me go crazy jeeeez I just forwarded this pics to my hubby dude 😱 unbelievable...... Madam I have sent u mail...... And I will b following up your story ...... Can't give u help today and watch u go back to that πŸ‘Ύ tomorrow that will really make me sad..... Take your time to makeup ur mind on wether u want to leave or u want to give him a second Chance! 😭😭😭😒😒😒😒

Madam B said...

Honestly, I don't understand how can you stand and allow the person to beat you till you start bleeding? RUN even when we were young, you run when our parent beats us, how much more now. Na wa. Poster please run first till help locate ypu .madam B

Chidinma Mirian said...

Please leave the marriage first.so that you Will still be alive when the job comes biko.

Chidinma Mirian said...

Please leave the marriage first.so that you Will still be alive when the job comes biko.

Daenerys_targaryen said...

It is well. As this John Cena he is na.

Baby Oku said...

You do not need to get a job before you leave the man..GO BACK TO YOUR MOTHERS HOUSE AND DANM THE SHAME.. I believe the girl has also used jazz for your husband...her father will support her cos they are both milking your mumu husband.....go and suffer in your mothers house, you don't have to remain a mrs under these circumstances...marriage is not do or die...close your ears to what people will say, you know where the shoe is pinching you

Great lady said...

Obara Jesus!

Xoxo NotMystery said...

Rendering help isnt the problem, when the coochie needs some plugging, yall go back to hubby. God be with you.

Mary Fiyin said...

Madam run for ur life now, what are you still doing there. U want him to kill u before u run. Egun girls with there jazz.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Peacemaker go finish this woman today

Anonymous said...

See her arms alone. She feeds well.The man is a good man

Iphie dearie said...

Tearsssssssss.
Madam leave now!

trolling baby said...

Stella I ask myself d same question.. like when he starts beating u,u just stand still n do nothing,then after the beating u take selfies... God abeg no bring violent man my way o... poster pls leave ur husband's house before he kills u...

Monkeynofine said...

See this fool, go do ur research well depression also makes one add weight !

Anonymous said...

The beater is a Bv. Welldonesahhh

ola wealth said...

O my God.. I have said it n I ll keep on saying it.. Don't depend too much on your husband. Try to save money and find a good job before venturing into holy matrimony.. See how he has cajoled you because you don't have a job or something doing.. Have a job even if it is not your dream job.. This man something is wrong with you, how will you beat your wife like this, see blood everywhere.. Oga ooo ooo. I m sure that man is a Yoruba man, I m also Yoruba ooo. But its too common with Yoruba people.. Ki lode na.. Won fii seyiin ni.. My growing up, I witnessed a lot of things. Most especially men from ondo town, they cheat, drink and womanize a lot.. 40% of women in ondo town are single parents, I can beat my chest to that. Some of their men are too wayward, they can drink beer for this world..!!! Some will panel beat their wives so tey you go dey cry. Men learn how to control yourselves. If a woman offends you, leave d house for her to cool off. This is not the way ooo.. Atall.. Madam sorry ooo. God will see you through, just give the man space abegi, give him enough space.. Oga ooo..

Anonymous said...

@Isi thank you for doing the arm call out first. Now we are waiting for your reasonable comment apart from the fat arm.

Anonymous said...

You're a big fool oh.oniranu, Omo ale.fuck out of here

Anonymous said...

Mumu, so it's because of her weight he beats her? Talk with sense girl! Weight gain or loss,has absolutely nothing to do with Domestic Violence. Amekop?

Anonymous said...

You forgot to tell the poster to hit the gym maybe it might be the reason her husband is beating her. Kakakkakakkakak

beeolah said...

May god help you poster

Pls pack out and run to ur mum

zhandosky said...

My dear it is well,,,just leave themarrage first and go to your mum's,,,I am sure u will get a job,,,,gather money from the food money he gives u,,,,go and rent one room if going back to ur mum will be embarrassing for u,,,, forget about him so that u can focus well,,,,it is not too late to make things right for urself,,,then when you av fully recovered from this mess,,, send correct bad boys to beat that girl and the father,,,then burn half of the beer parlour as a warning,,,,if it persists,,,send stronger bad boys to burn everything to the ground.,,,,I AM OUT.

Highness Gwen said...

Smh

Anonymous said...

My aunt survived, she decided to leave and stayed with her brother, after a year she managed to buy a house for herself. Can you believe this man came came back begging......!? She took him back but guess what? It did not reach 3 months he started beating her again but this time she was in her own house with her brothers and sisters....oh my God it was terrible, they beat him up so bd, he left and neva came back. He later married another wife, then another one then another one....same story, the women kept leaving him. He later died. May his soul wonder about...rubbish

Monkeynofine said...

@Queen see i didnt say anything about the sidechic because of the dv involve dis man no deserve second chance ni,this is the handwork of juju ... if maybe the only problem here is the sidechic I would have advice her to stay..... Dv is a case between life and dealth !.......

Highness Gwen said...

Peace maker be like...

Madam,hit the gym and watch ur husband return to u or u are a very stubborn woman

Lol

Highness Gwen said...

U just did my dear

Anonymous said...

Chikito wow wow, this one really shock you to the extend you are short of words. Madam poster Pls leave your husband as fast as ur legs can carry you beacause this man is heartless. How can your husband be cheating on you and rubbing it on your face. Pls stop sleeping with him so you won't get pregnant for baby no 2 or even get std. Take ur baby girl and run far from this animal of a husband.

Monkeynofine said...

Hisssssss

Highness Gwen said...

Ki shiga hankeli ki

Monkeynofine said...

Blame those who always give him the attention he so crave for..

Highness Gwen said...

Why did u send it to ur hubby?u want him to start doing same to u?ki shiga hankeli ki yarinya

Monkeynofine said...

She should look for a place to hide her head first before looking for money to rent her own place.....

Quiksilver said...

You mentioned her fat arm first so you are the foolish one here.

Monkeynofine said...

That's the prob

Monkeynofine said...

Exactly..... There is nothing like earning your own money.

Highness Gwen said...

U re just an Ewu Hausa Congo
Dan iskar

Monkeynofine said...

Before nko oga don chop big food naw

Monkeynofine said...

Not in Nigeria , they would still put the blame on the woman. Moving out is the best decision! Wen it comes to dv Nigerians are too backwards

Monkeynofine said...

Ola wealth u making sense.....

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Blossom said...

Madam,pls leave already! The job will come but your life and safety first. Go stay with your mom and begin making plans from there.

you are a woman of value. Don't let anyman diminish your worth. Pls move and move fast.

SANDY NEKY said...

DV is very very real na @Beloved! Funny thing is the women that suffer it more are mainly the jobless housewives who have absolutely nothing doing or going on for themselves thereby collecting every dime/pennies from their so called horsebands. Hence, the seeing finish syndrome will come in. Just negodu how this woman left her look in this age and time that married women do all sorts to look hotter than the singles sef. It shows she must have been dealing with depression and all sorts. Madam, I feel for you but no matter what advice you read here, my mind tells me you will still go back. Well, the only advice I have for you is pls try and work on your weight first. Go to a dentist to tie your teeth and make it faster by feeding on only liquids for at least a month biko. That way you will gain your sanity/self esteem back before thinking of any other thing biko. Ndo!

Debi said...

πŸ™Œ Someone just confirmed what I've been saying about ondo and ekiti men. Marry a man from these state is a waste of destiny.
No strength to write ondo/ekiti men chronicles jare.

SANDY NEKY said...

Iji okwu biko! Love abu onye ebe? Mscheeew

Monkeynofine said...

Because she's fat?! Hian main looking at this woman u will know she was never on the slim side.... If the man don't like them fat why did he marry her at first?



Anyone that want to keep dating a married man should pray they don't jam a man that's married to someone like my mother! They will live all their life to regret it!

Debi said...

5 years??? Mehn I can't manage.

Anonymous said...

Someone does not have money to run,Na gym money she go get? May it never b ur portion. Tonto Wey no orobo, no b beat Dem beat am?

Monkeynofine said...

Awwww Nina ur comments just weak me somehow...... U have a good heart! I hope she take ur advised

Anonymous said...

Cow dung! If you had no word for her why leave a comment?!

To all YOU idiots on this blog who call this simpleton 'smart', y'all are responsible for her outright insenstive comment on this issue.

Debi said...

Lols. I agree with queen and boss on this lol

Vivilicious said...

Wow....your cousin is such a strong young woman. I pray her marriage brings her nothing but peace and happiness.
Madam poster, pls take your child and go to your mother's place to cool off first, while considering the next step to take.

Monkeynofine said...

😒😒😒😒

Debi said...

This anonymous 16:30 don kill me ooo

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Ola wealth,I like you for this comment...
God bless you for saying the truth about your people...
You are now one of my blog boo😍😍

Order for your hair wonder products both whoselale and retail BB pinD6169ED4 said...

Lol... I give up on you

Lilly simple said...

Lol @ "you go kill me today o"
Kwakwakwakwa

Damnic's Touch said...

Just SHUT UP!!!!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

He will soon kill you madam!
What is wrong with you?..

Vivilicious said...

Joblessness plus depression can also contribute to weight gain.

Lilly simple said...

Over flesh worry the hand
Madam, you don't look like a kid nahhhhh?
U shouldn't wait for people to tell u what to do

Olori footwear said...

If I didn't see the FAT part then I know your account was hacked.

Monkeynofine said...

Yaah that was how my mum best friend got killed by her Husband.... He luck the door and hide the key...... Wen the man notice she was unconscious he didn't remember where he kept the key no phone then and the woman later died on his hand!

anonymous gangster said...

Lwkmd!!!! DG will not kill me!! πŸ˜‚ cook him a nice meal, then politely ask if he still has enough energy to do 1 or 2 rounds as top up for the night.

Seriously, men who beat women and especially their wives are animals, period. However, I am quick to add that some women fuel the beating, in so many ways. Its a sensitive issue jare. Make God grant us wisdom.

Monkeynofine said...

Huh? Turn on by beating?

Monkeynofine said...

Queen Queen you're always ℅101 right to me ..... It's better to cry in a RR with ac😊😊😊

Anonymous said...

You are an idiot. I'm sure you are a fellow woman. So it's okay for her husband to beat her because she's fat? Didn't he see her like that before he married her? Don't slim and sexy women suffer from domestic violence as well?

anonymous gangster said...

Hmmmmm. I have seen a woman yelling to an already provoked husband that if he doesn't beat her he's a bastard. That he is useless and good for nothing. My people, the man jumped on her with punches, punches!! Almost 50! Kicks, body slam, like men fighting! People who had been suing for peace were so shocked initially they let him pummel her, Na when teeth & blood begin komot d woman body Dem separate them. Lo & behold, teeth missing & lips swollen & eyes almost blind, blood flowing, the cow kept telling abuse & saying he must kill her! Ar that point, I walked away. I was stunned. Hmmmmmmm.

anonymous gangster said...

What an ambiguous statement! Shock at seeing blood & injuries, or her fat body...?

Stella Igbokei said...

What if the man locked the door? I'm asking coz I've seen a situation where the man locked the door and the neighbors had to break the door after the landlord has given the go ahead. Nobody will want to start when a man is pummeling her with punches

anonymous gangster said...

We don't use bodybags, her own wrapper most likely. Or bedsheet.

anonymous gangster said...

Atheist has helped him above already. A bit sha.

anonymous gangster said...

Lol! You really know beevees! Dem don already start!

Monkeynofine said...

Sorry to say this.... Prayers takes longer time to work in a case like this.... If u notice ur husband is beginning to act strange please seek help from a strong prophet or a strong native doctor to do the sidechic strong thing and turn your husband face to yourside.... These are the things that young ladies who are about to get married are supposed to do before walking down the aisle! Do it the way ur husband is supposed to see only u! He's your property protect him......



Before anyone come here to say the man should be d one to protect the wife note that there are millions of girls who rub jazz on their bodies before going out just to hook arristos!

Monkeynofine said...

Lol at bush meat seller

Anonymous said...

Locate her with 5K or 10k from your begging & ass licking proceeds oga. You'll still have plenty left for cartons of gala & zobo.

Anonymous said...

Stupid comment. Very childish. Go and watch cartoons.

Anonymous said...

Looking at the woman posture she'll be closing in on 40. So I guess she's scared of starting all over. Madam leave please and start something

Anonymous said...

After you call yourself a woman. Common emphaty you don't have. Or do you think it is all women that jump from one town to another being a side mistress like you. Wawu

Chidinma Gift said...

Blood of Zachariah

Chidinma Gift said...

Stoppit lol

MrsB said...

Oh my God! Wtf!
Please leave this man, I beg you, look at this blood! Oh my God, why are you letting him do this to you?! Do you want him to kill you?? What about your parents? There must be somewhere you can escape to!
Oh my God!

BEDS AND ROSES said...

Madam you will soon die in that house.
You better leave now that you still have life.
If it means you sleeping on the floor in your parents house and drinking garri it's better.
Do you want your daughter to be motherless. This man will kill you one day. That man hates you believe me.
You are not in a marriage.
The most important thing now. DO NOT get pregnant for this animal again.
It is easier managing with your child even even its in one room.
I hope a job and help comes your way soon.
I will see the little i can do. But Stella has to verify this story first. Plenty 419 abounds.

Anonymous said...

You know you are foolish.

Anonymous said...

I don't bother if my horseband don't come back home. He come home 11am-1pm everyday even on weekend and enter with spare key. I refuse to let that bother me coz I don't want to go work with bruised and battered face or have emotional breakdown. I leave his food on the counter and sleep. Can't kill myself coz of a man when I have my angel to think off

Anonymous said...

You are foolish for this comment.
Come and see igbos in my compound with DV. Or is it the mallam in my office that constantly beat his 16yr wife. We Had tthreaten him with sack.
There is DV even in oyibo land.

Izuchukwu Theophilus Chukwuma said...

Most time when i hear abt domestic violence i don't blame the men.now d lady in question has told us how she is domestically violated but failed to mention what statement or action they took that made their husbands react that way . men hates women that nags a lot and often questions their authority in such cases d questions to be asked are
1:what do you do DAT chase ur hubby out of d house
2:how do u communicate with our husband
3:do u respect him
4:when he is angry or in a bad mood how do you talk to him do u insult him shout back at him or hit him

reemah said...

So so sad😒😒. So sadπŸ˜–

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Ola wealth I admire your honesty. Wish everyone could be honest about our shortcomings and not see it as an insult.

When this kemen issue came up, I no even argue because I know men from that my side of the country. Them too like sex. E be them like food. Money go come but until e show dey 'straff' dey go πŸ˜‚

Jennah said...

Ola wealth he is an egun

General Zod said...

I am actually looking out for his bullshit comment because he must make one...a nasty one.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

God bless that little woman. Oh....such a sad story. May her second marriage bring her nothing but the very best. May she know joy without bounds. We women never know how strong we are.... truly.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Queen you have a strong point.

General Zod said...

Why do I feel this is James.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Nothing happening to our men. We just have social media now. These things have been there

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:31..read to understand....before making a comment...

jelly said...

If you can't live then invite family people to talk sense into him if his senses still remain because with the look of things the lady and dad don waka for his head oo

Anonymous said...

Lol...una funny i swear...

Anonymous said...

Nina..you got no right to say such..comment and lwt others comment as well..though,i dont support most of his comments but you have no right to lay a curse on anyone...sometimes your comments are so annoying and am sure no one insults or lay curses on you for stating your opinion...

Anonymous said...

Domestic violence. I no dhey put mouth again o....poster...you know whats best for you...make up your mind to leave or stay...at the end ,its all about your decisions

Anonymous said...

This is real oh sorry but you need to reduce your fat sha!

Anonymous said...

You see,now you feel,you the only one that got the exclusive right to comment and say what ever you want...and you dont want others to state their opinions in their own way base on their perception...everyone must not reason like you...tomorrow now,you will call buhari a dictator...lol....that aside shall....am not in support of domestic violence..poster please leave that man...please..as fast as you can please...that man is a bad news.

LYNE BEAUTY Products. Whatsapp 08088680702 for all your skincare products. Lightening, whitening, glowing, anti-wrinkles, sunburn and dark spots cream said...

OMG😳😳😳😳. Madam pls leave ooh. Your parents/Fam members are still alive, don't allow this man to kill you ooh. Leave and get something doing. It might be tough at first but with time, things will normalize. I'm talking from experience . The Lord is your strength. Wish I could help you really. I'll def set up a foundation for DV victims

babeweysabiblog said...

Anon 17:57,so it's only her fat arm that is ur wahala?u are a moron,a bunkor!!what do u expect from a woman whose hubby kept a prisoner?u don't know what depression does to people?people should be careful of the things they spit out really.I love this blog but theway people get abused here eh......its worrisome.pray for her to get a job so her life can get back.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Please leave him while you still have breath in you...πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

Anonymous said...

No matter how provoked d man might be, he his not suppose to lay his hands on a woman.

LYNE BEAUTY Products. Whatsapp 08088680702 for all your skincare products. Lightening, whitening, glowing, anti-wrinkles, sunburn and dark spots cream said...

Lmao @ blow up. We dey discuss serious matter you dey talk about FAT

Anonymous said...

I don't get it, you all are here insulting this person, yet no one is going after linda's sick comment up there, you all are cowards including stella... I'm out jare

Anonymous said...

You're just a fool. You are lucky I don't have a blog ID I would have come out to tell you to your face so you can do your worst.stupid thing.that is why you are stil single...and yes I am the anon that always cuss you out because sometimes I wonder if you take out your frustration on others because you are a gwegz and unmarried.
'Cook him a nice meal, maybe you don't know how to cook' listen to your retarded self. Just shut that toilet if your rotten brain doesn't give you anything to say.ewu

nina chocomile said...

Jeez! What are you talking about Sandy? So her hubby should kill her cos she's fat? Is that enough reason a man should beat his wife? What about hot sexy women who go thru DV? What about beauty queens, models, who go thru DV, what was their husbands reason for beating them? Pls shed this mentality fast. You sound almost like peacemaker and it's shocking. She needs to get her life back b4 talking of Weight. Her hubby isn't beating her cos she's fat, he beat her cos he's a man that lacks the fear of God in him and cos he was poorly brought up.

Monkeynofine said...

@Highness Gwen I no be today 🌽 oooo I wasn't myself after reading this story and he was the first person I called!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

What a Wawu!,.
I love this...

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Thank you for that comment.
Some people will never be slim no matter what they do.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

True Chikito..

oluchi nweke said...

My dear sister, it's like he is under the influence of evil forces. Pray but you need to leave the house for awhile, don't have another baby for now while you try to see if the marriage will work. Go back to your parents, you will manage with them and be fine. This happened to my aunty five years ago, he later brought her home and moved my aunty out of their room. One day, when we went to church, this woman cleared the house and disappeared. My uncle went back to their beer parlor and her mummy said that she didn't know her whereabout. Just leave it to God, and live your life. His sense will reset very soon.

Justyswt said...

Lol @u go kill me today. Sorry for laughing.

Poster,pls leave that house for ur safety. Runnnnnnnnnn

nina chocomile said...

I won't even waste my time insulting you dopple, cos you've been stupid from time immemorial. It's so sad that people always thought you were wise, but alas you've started to show your true colour. Shey you'll marry in future, your hubby will beat you silly even with your 'perfection' so you'll know how it feels.

Asa nwa said...

I strongly disagree with you Mr! You don't have any reason what so ever to hit a woman. Why not send her back to where she belongs instead of committing murder.

Beloved said...

But Tonto was made before marriage yet she suffered it.

Cases of dv just tire me.

preciousp gal said...

No responsible man goes to beer parlour until they charm him. The man is useless already. Poster you better pack your things and leave,I hate useless men.

Anonymous said...

Our society is so much riddled with double standard, the extent of hypocrisy has left it entirely confused and clueless. People just doing whatever and hoping to come out of the other side alive.

People will emphasize the importance of mothers being very much around their young kids, some husbands will even beg their wives to be full housewives for the benefit of their children but they find it very hard to appreciate these women. Why can't people appreciate the women who do this for their family? Mothers know being care givers to young children can be the most stressful task to take on, yet people are always very quick to look down on these women. Some even call these women jobless. Really? Many if you working mothers know the real job begins when you get back home. Smh.

Women need to learn from others. If your man can't pay you salary for being stay at home, don't do it. And the money better be good enough to set you up should things go south. Yes! Nobody prays for broken home but realistically, it's a possible outcome that needs proactiveness. Never go into anything without having an exit plan in case the space there becomes too small for you. Most importantly, women must be financially independent from their men. We can't say this enough!

Madam poster, all the best to you. I hope you get the help that you need.

Beloved said...
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nina chocomile said...

In as much as I love love, I'm almost tempted to agree with you on this one Linda eze. Poverty is the worst kind of sickness in this world, and it's the major cause of aggression in marriage. Women should also learn to be independent, at least by 10%. How a woman can solely depend on a man for every kobo she needs is baffling. But then you can have love and wealth, it's a matter of telling God what you want and having faith to accompany it.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahaha...
That's my girl talking at Monkeynofine!..
I love you joor!...
You know what's up abeg...
Correct babe!..
Gbam!!,,.
Gbammer!!...
Gbammest at your comment...
Most married women are Mugu!!!..
I know one that is still praying for her husband to stop cheating for over five years now...
Dude has gotten worse sef...I saw him the other day at quilox with one babe doing lovey dovey...

If you advise them to keep bible one side and chain their dog,they will refuse saying God forbid!...
What's my own sef,na me dem go dash orishirishi disease?..
Hian

nina chocomile said...

God bless you monkeynofine. This is the time to come together as women and help this poster, let's put her Bastard of a husband to shame so he'll see that she can do without him. God bless your kind heart.

Anonymous said...

Yes dear as wierld as it sound some women actually say make e beat me small so that e go pet me my bff was like that.

nina chocomile said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ƒ ok you've officially brought me out of my sad state, thanks. Lol @ May his soul wonder about. Chai you are mouthed.

Adanna Kristie said...

They use rope tie you in that house. Please leave that house immediately. Go to your church if you don't have anywhere to go to or better still go to any convent around. What is wrong with women. Is it till he kills you that you will take a walk?

VICTORIOUSEHIS REBRANDED said...

I have seen a case whr d woman is d one who locks d door ,beat up d man and at same time shouting "he don kill me o"

This woman practically beats up her hubby but pretends to be d victim.

Neighbors got to knw d day she forgot to lock d window

nina chocomile said...

Izuchukwu theophilus chukwuma you're a shameless nitwit, you're a nincompoop, you're a brainless small minded weak man. I feel sorry for whoever wifed You (that's if you're married) or your chic if you even have one. You don't blame the men cos you're a woman beater and an animal. No man has the right what so ever to beat a woman. If she nags too much and you can't cope divorce her, if she doesn't communicate properly and you can't cope divorce her, if you're too angry to be around her walk away, if you feel she's too 'fat' for you divorce her instead of DV. you have a lot of options you bloody fool. Don't use any of these silly excuses to beat a woman she's not your household property. I'm totally appalled by men like you. If you had my type as a wife and you ever make the mistake of hitting me, I will castrate you and I mean it. I'll deal with you in such a way that you'll choose to remain single the rest of your life. Rubbish.

SANDY NEKY said...

You are 100% correct @Vivi!*phew*

Omotola Brianna said...

God bless you. Most times the women bring it upon themselves. Not every one can handle frustration. Mind you, I'm not supporting the men. I just feel most domestic violence can be avoided.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

His soul can gonna beat the devil in hell fire. Animal

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Well done oh! D.V. Analyser that you IS nah. So a woman can control her tongue, yet a man can't control his temper. I can't even exchange words with you. Remain in your bubble but pray to never meet a woman like me.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 17:57. u r cursed, I curse everything u represent, may God mk u a dry land and may tears never cease from ur eyes. How can u be this heartless? Were u given birth to by the devil? may God shame u for being so heartless. Wicked idiot.

Phenomenal woman said...

Exactly @ Chikito , thank God for social media. At least now women can use this medium to speak up.
Now to the poster, there is no point throwing a pity party for yourself. All I see in that marriage is a death sentence. RUN. And do that ASAP.
Women tend to endure DV in marriage for the sake of the kids.
Madame believe me that your daughter will need you alive tomorrow. So don't think you are enduring the marriage because you want to give her some bragging rights that she grew up with both parents still married. Baboo.
Meanwhile while you are waiting for a job, you can put up with your mother for a while and also look around for services you can render to people in exchange for cash. You will do just fine.
Next time he tries punching you, don't aggravate things by being defensive, just run as fast as your leg can carry you till he cools off.
I have seen Dv happen to women first hand and I know that sometimes when it gets to this point, the woman starts to throw tantrums around the house, breaking things and shouting at the top of her voice while rendering all sorts of abuses on the already angered man.
Some even go as far as hitting the man too and trust me he would hit you back without mercy and everything will eventually go beyond redemption.
Run! Run! Run! Finito. God have mercy on you.

Lilly simple said...

Awwwwwwwww
Brave cousin
God bless her

Anonymous said...

Bitter anonymous! You cut across as delusional, evil and wicked! Have you ever in your nonexistent life seen this young man beg? Cos his light shone and helpers came his way you decided to attack him. Learn to be happy for and with people so you can experience happiness too. You ooze of bile.

becky naka said...

Lol @ may his soul wander about... U guys have bad mouth.

becky naka said...

There is no reason for dv, if she nags..... why don't u leave the house.... how many of your fellow man did u beat outside for insulting you.

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