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Thursday, 9 March 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..



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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
PREGNANT AGAIN TOO SOON


Good day Stella(pls,hide my mail) and my bv's.



 Am crying and very sad writing this. I need serious advice from experienced women or doctors, though going to see a doctor before this week ends. I just tested positive for pregnancy just 7months after birthing my baby through CS despite using condom as contraceptive.


I didn't want to use injectable or drugs as age isn't on my side, so we opted for CD which has failed o. We never ever planned for this. I and my husband have talked abt it and he said we shouldn't remove it because of my age (36)though I tried telling him to just let me use drugs to terminate it cos it's still very early.I We never ever planned for this. Am now reading on how to strengthen the uterus lining/scar tissue, if I may keep this pregnancy because what am reading scares me about uterine rupture.


 My questions are:
I am afraid of uterine rupture(UR) while my pregnancy is still on especially during the 3rd trimester. what are the chances of not having UR? 

2ndly, should I continue breastfeeding my baby or I should stop? 

3rdly, what are the things I should avoid doing?
I will reduce my portion of food so as not to make my tummy big but with plenty fruits and water, is this advisable? 

Has anybody experienced this kind of thing in this Nigeria? No need to tell me to travel out, I no even get the means. 

Lastly, can I abort it since its still very very early because we didn't plan for this but was planning till our baby is 1yr3mnths. Am crying,depressed,having headache and almost dying,cant even eat well, Chai, pls advice me.

 Thanks and God bless you all.Abeg,Stella,dont post hateful comments. I will watch what I say henceforth because I was saying I can never be part of those that will get pregnant 6months after CS, now never say never, God forgive me.*crying profusely* But God, why me`?

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CHURCH ISSUES AND MARRIAGE


Dear Stella,

I have been attending Winners chapel since 2012, although on and off, not as a registered member. Recently, I decided to join a unit because I heard that before I can get married in my parent’s church, I’ll need to present a letter from my church. I stay in a different state from my parents and my parents attend one of these orthodox churches.


The issue now is this. I work very hard from Monday to Friday, up early and get back home late. On Saturdays, I clean up, go to the market, cook and stock up food for the following week, just preparing for the week ahead due to how un-breathable my schedule is.


Since 2012, I have faithfully gone to church except when I have to travel on Sundays for work related stuff. I planned my life such that 2-3 hours are for church, preferably the first service, so that I can use the rest of the day to get as much rest as possible. NOTE THAT: (I do not have a social life. There’s clearly no time for one. The little time I have isn’t even enough to rest and clear my head).


The thing is, after joining this ushering unit, I discovered that their policy is all workers must come to church by 6am in the morning, and stay for both first and second services and sometimes even workers meeting. Meaning I’d eventually leave church by 1-2pm thereabouts.


Stella, this doesn’t sit right with me at all. I come back feeling so exhausted, I can’t even hear what was said in church, and my much needed rest is never satisfied. I begin the new week more exhausted than ever.


I would like to know from your blog visitors if:

1. There’s a better way around this.

2. If there’s another flexible church I could go to, that lets you serve your round and leave.

3. Is it possible to get the letter without having to go through all this hassles? (My mum is really on my neck with who will give you letter when you are not a member and worker in a church, help yourself so that God will help you…..bla bla bla).

Your responses would be appreciated.


177 comments:

Doppelgänger said...

Poster 1 don't you think you should go to the hospital and see a doctor? You're so conflicted and nothing we say here will make any difference. Please go to the hospital and let a doctor give you the best options for your situation


Poster 2 join the welfare unit or another unit that doesn't demand so much of your time.
I don't understand the use of a letter from your church to get married at your parents church though when a pastor can join a couple even on a beach.

Sharon Aminu said...

Poster one stop breastfeeding immediately, pls don't abort and yes because of ur age,c a doctor to know the safest way to go about it.

BECKY DIVINE said...

Poster one

Madam I don't understand you ooh
What do you mean by.. God why me? You had sex with your husband and you got pregnant.. Now it's God's fault? God should be blamed for y'all recklessness? Na wah for you

I suggest you stop worrying yourself to death and keep that child. Stop breastfeeding your 7month old baby and look for a good baby milk for him/her.

Stop worrying so much! God is in control and nothing will happen to you or your baby!
But please if aborting it is what you really want.. Go for it! But don't come asking God why you again if you don't get pregnant when next you want to(not wishing it on you)

Just saying one should be careful with the kinda decision we make today bcos of tomorrow!!!

peace maker said...

Poster. Why carry belle 7 months after child birth thru cs. It seems Toto dey scratch u always.

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Dietitian Nezz! said...

Poster 1,nothing will happen to you abeg.Its just tht you have to opt for CS to be on a safer side.My colleague took in after 5 months of CS and nothing happend to her.

Isaacson said...

Both posters honestly I have no idea regarding both your situations...will just read comments

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Madam pregnant again... thank God Almighty. He is the one that gave you, He will let you deliver safely. Just eat right and get enough happiness. I mean good happiness that wont make you think. What do you mean why me, if not you, who will it be. May be you are crying for money. Abeg enjoy your pregnancy and and you will deliver like Hebrew women Amen.

Poster 2... Work the one that you think your body can carry. Dont let yourself be exhausted. Working for God should not be stressful. Because if you carry on like this, you are murmuring and not working. Dont kill yourself. Do only 1 shift. You want to tell me as una reach 50,000 there, dem know you or what. If your spirit agree to be there, stay there, if not leave the church and look for where you can worship God without murmuring. Murmuring is a SIN.

Anonymous said...

Shut that your mouth queen of rubbish. How dare you open that your illiterate mouth always talking thrash.a man is bad a man is bad. Because igbos carry drugs; do mostly kidnapping and rituals e.g. vampire. Would I say all igbo men are bad. What do you teach your kids. You're an irresponsible mother the way you talk.
My child belongs to two tribes. I don't start bastardizibg one tribe against another..
You are an excuse for a woman.
A product of poor upbringing.
If you are not educated,granted but atleast pretend you have a brain.
I feel pity for the type of blog fake personae you are living. Carrying out your fantasies meanwhile you no fit do Jack for outsiders.
We Yoruba women will keep marrying your men and the men vice versa. Bed and roses you made my week for finishing queen and boss

BECKY DIVINE said...

Poster two

I don't understand your mom's church or their doctrine sha.. But I don't think you should remain in that church where you end up stressed and worn out!

There are other churches to attend, like Catholic...i love them bcos they dismiss on time!
Anglican do dismiss on time too! I think..

It's left for you to choose which one of these churches to start attending! I dunno what else to chip in abeg, no vex.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

poster one you can still breastfeed your baby will pregnant. nothing will happen to the one in your tummy. dont know where people get that from. try to control your food portions so you wont balloon up as you have not had the time to loose the weight from the 1st baby. Yiu'll be fine but next time go and do real family planning cos having to take care of 2 babies is not easy

Daenerys_targaryen said...

Poster 1: your hubby aint complaining please calm your nerves and tender your worries to God and you'll deliver safe and sound.

Poster 2: since you can't meet up with the demands of the church, beg your man and your family to do trad and court wedding. There's no passage in the bible that says traditional wedding is invalid. No stress yourself abeg. It's all about having a happy marriage not wedding.

Rosemary Ezeji said...

To the first chronicle you will be fine. Pls don't abort, God will see you tru. Each child comes with their own blessings.
To the second chronicle that is winners church for you their protocols is something else. Look for an alternative church where there will be less stress for you.

Ldf said...

Poster 1 i feel for you. Schedule a visit with your gynaecologist and express your fear of uterine rapture . Secondly i wouldn't reduce the quantity of food i eat if i were you. The baby will feed from you unless you want to complicate issues by having a baby with low birth weight that ends up in the incubator. Yes people will judge but its not there business. You can continue with breast feeding till your third trimester. Good luck

peace maker said...

Madam. Why r u crying?? Are children no longer blessing from God? When U were hanging legs on d window and collecting prick from ur hubby,what did u expect to happen??

Anonymous said...

Madam abortion planner better leave that child and see your doctor on how to carry it to term.u never find pickin that's why u dey cry dey talk rubbish. Me be 30yrs and married. I dey find pickin.u dey ask questions for your own.
The church woman.try convenant Christian centre. They do perfect timing in everything That's if u find in your location.

CUPID said...

Poster 1. I no no wetin I go talk.
Poster 2. You sent your tory to naija single girl blog already now and yes they gave you good advices. So what again now?

Anonymous said...

@ 1st Poster - Your unborn baby is fine, don't touch her! Just ensure you register with a very good hospital and gynae, people have been pregnant at 2 months after CS and they gave birth to healthy babies. Don't complicate your life, stop breast feeding and face your family.

@2nd Poster - Kpele o!Hope the letter will open heaven's gate on judgement day. Stay there and be asking question....Don't borrow sense

------FROM BV Mummy Ade

Tade Adeola said...

poster one: Leave the belle abeg to avoid regrets later coz this opportunity u av myt not come again.. u don dey old sef! what if u don't later get pregnant? just be prayerful.. God gat you!


poster two: I do not know.. Ts either ur not a worker at all if u wan see rest rest! Beg pastor to give u letter Na.. after all u be member!

Istanbul said...

Why not join the santury unit, that's for only Saturday(cleaning the church).And try to attend home cells meetings for ur home cells leader to identify you as well. That will be preferable.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Poster 1....you're such an ungrateful woman....

Ebizimor Egbejule said...

Poster1: God who enabled you will give u strength even with d the Cs of 7 months interval my uncles' wife did Cs 2x in 1 yr and few months. Thank you Lord for enabling me to conceive and birth before my 1 yr wedding anniversary.

POSTER 1 said...

Thanks for posting Stella, God bless you. Will b going for scan test tomorrow bcos am not feeling any pregnancy symptoms at all despite testing positive(blood test). Will read comments. Thank you my bv's God bless u all and bless those TTC with their babies. *am still down and can't eat. My heart is pounding cos we never expected this. God help me decide. Thanks.

Esther Mgbolu said...

Chronicle 1,i have no advice for you,the professionals here will advice you. Chronicle 2,you must not be a worker before you can get a letter from you church naw,its very wrong.what your church is trying to say is that as far as you are not a worker,nothing for you?no letter?this is WRONG

POSTER 1 said...

Thanks for posting Stella, God bless you. Will b going for scan test tomorrow bcos am not feeling any pregnancy symptoms at all despite testing positive(blood test). Will read comments. Thank you my bv's God bless u all and bless those TTC with their babies. *am still down and can't eat. My heart is pounding cos we never expected this. God help me decide. Thanks.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Poster 1, please go and see a doctor.

Anonymous said...

Poster One Keep the baby God has a reason to bring the baby into this world.
Poster 2Yes is so with ushering unit in Winners Chapel.There are other units you can join to ease up. Sanctuary Keepers Unit, Decoration etc.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#If something feels off, something is most likely off. Trust the vibes you get & always follow your intuition*

redbotafly said...

Poster, must you marry in your parent's church?
Will that so called letter make you a better person or make your marriage blissful?
Poster 1,that child you are carrying is a blessing so don't even contemplate abortion.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1:
I can see that you love your life so much; sure?
Have you ever thought of dying on the abortion table?
I worked in the emergency in Nigeria for years and I saw a lot of girls rushed after aborting in a private clinic (where it is done illegally anyway). Many of these girls died!
Yes even married ones whose husbands "traveled" and when they got pregnant and know that they would be caught they tried aborting and died; yes and what they were concealing was let open!
Madam, be wise and raise you babies. Once an embryo is planted in your womb, you are pregnant and to shed that innocent blood is to anger the Lord God almighty.

Poster 2:
Is more concerned about "church rules and marriage" than she is about eternal life. You are not benefiting anything spiritually in that church. Get out of there.
Show me in the whole bible where marriage was conducted in the church in the NT or synagogue in the OT.
What you'd see is in the village; the girl's father's house.
Once the bride price is paid, you are married; every other thing is ceremony and THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH CELEBRATING in the church but it shouldn't be at the expense of your spiritual nourishment.

Chidinma Grace said...

Being a worker in Winners will not guarantee that they will give you letter. You must be active attendant of their home cell fellowship. That's where they know their members. Being a worker will only guarantee that the unit head will give you letter and not the church.

Blunt said...

Poster1: uterine rupture is only a problem if you are planning to give birth vaginally. 7 months is enough time to heal from a previous CS. And I'm sure your dr will tell you, you have to do a repeat CS to prevent rupture and scar tissue issues. Your best bet is to talk to your gyn about this. They have way more experience than any of us here.

Poster 2: I dont believe that every single married person in that church had to work. Every church should have an admin department. Look for it and talk to someone. They'll give you the things needed for marriage.

I honestly don't understand why Nigerians don't like asking the right people questions. Both situations up there, you both know where to go to for the right answers. But NO, a bunch of strangers on a blog are the best people you prefer to answer your personal questions. Anyway I hope my advice helps.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1:

There is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Poster one:

A colleague of mine who owns and runs a hospital does "abortions of all kinds". I had always wondered that in spite of being a well trained specialist, he seemed to have settled on just aborting kids and it gave him so much money. No matter how much we (his colleagues) warned him to "reform his practice", he did not take heed. Once he was travelling with his wife and two kids on an interstate highway, he suddenly began to scream; "look at that kid crossing the highway, imagine that kid . . .!" His wife who was seated on the front passenger seat told him that she couldn't see any kid, His kids behind said same (the man NEVER had any psychological issues in life and was NEVER on any addictive substance). next he matched on the breaks and the car flipped severally. He woke up after a few days in a hospital and when he asked about his family, was told that they were all dead; he began to weep. He wanted to get up and found that he was limbless.
Exodus 1:15 The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, whose names were Shiphrah and Puah, 16“When you are helping the Hebrew women during childbirth on the delivery stool, if you see that the baby is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, let her live.” 17The midwives, however, feared God and did not do what the king of Egypt had told them to do; they let the boys live. 18Then the king of Egypt summoned the midwives and asked them, “Why have you done this? Why have you let the boys live?”19The midwives answered Pharaoh, “Hebrew women are not like Egyptian women; they are vigorous and give birth before the midwives arrive.”20So God was kind to the midwives and the people increased and became even more numerous. 21And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families of their own. NIV

Slikky said...

Poster one, keep your baby o before God decides to punish u after an abortion considering your age.
Poster two, pay ur tithe regularly as a living faith member n ur pastor would give u a letter to d effect it's needed for.

Anonymous said...

Folks should understand that "one is married does not mean that one has a family".
When the troubles begins to come in your "marriage" remember to repent of all the innocent bloods you've shed and all the fornication and adulteries. FEAR GOD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS FOR THIS IS THE WHOLE DUTY OF A PERSON.

The guilty ones will come under this comment to rant "don't judge".

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Your only reason for joining the workforce is because of marriage? Na wa oh, na real wa. Go back to your parents church biko. Na only them fit help you.

Blackberry said...

Poster go n wed in a Catholic or Anglican church, you'll be asked to pay fee since you ain't their member.

Efua said...

Lady no. 1, your drama is too much!! Do you know how many women have had babies in close succession? My aunt had her 2 sons exactly 12 months apart, in the 1970s. C- Sections weren't even as advanced as they are now. Another woman I've seen on Instagram had her son, then twin girls 10 months after her son's birth. Britney Spears (if you want a celeb example) also had hers sons exactly 12 months apart, via C-section, so what's the big deal?! I wouldn't advise cutting down on your portions, as you need the calories. Instead, I would recommend moderate exercise to control weight gain. Enjoy your pregnancy!!! Have faith!!

Blackberry said...

Poster one, u r lucky u carry belle with just one round of sex o, better keep it.

Anonymous said...

Folks should understand that "one is married does not mean that one has a family".
When the troubles begins to come in your "marriage" remember to repent of all the innocent bloods you've shed and all the fornication and adulteries. FEAR GOD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS FOR THIS IS THE WHOLE DUTY OF A PERSON.

The guilty ones will come under this comment to rant "don't judge".

1 Corinthians 5:12 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside?

Anonymous said...

I am also a worker at Winners Chapel Ota and I think you have not spoken the truth here. If ALL workers are to stay for 1st and 2nd services, then, who stays for the 3rd, 4th and 5th services? Abi, ushers don't work during those services? Have other ushers not got married in that Church? See, Winners is a very stress free Ministry when it comes to service. No one forces you at all for anything. The policy is that workers should TRY to attend at least 2 services and you have the option of choosing which service time suits you. Personally, I do just one service and 2 at most. No one scolds anyone for that. Now, why did you not discuss this issue with your group leader or fellow ushers? Is Stella a member of Winners Chapel? Did you discuss with marriage committee at Church? My colleague is getting married outside Winners Chapel (in girl's parent's Church), could not attend marriage counselling nor services like he should due to his new job and work stress, but yet, he's being attended to by the marriage committee and wedding is this month end. Madam, go back to your group leader and discuss this with him/her.

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Dear poster 2, why do you have to be an usher in the first place? I hope you know that you not serving man but God. If for any reason something is not sitting right with you then it's time to have a soul search. God is not a task master.
See if you can change your unit for another one that is less stressful.

Dear, poster 1, don't you dare touch that pregnancy for your convenience. You are not the only one this has happened to. Don't be ungrateful. A friends cousin got pregnant after 6 months. And she had the baby through c-section. Stop looking at all the negatives but dwell in the positives pls.
And stop breast feeding your child if not he or she will fall Ill.

Anonymous said...

Poster one:

YOU CAN ALSO DIE DURING AN ABORTION AND THE CHANCES OF THAT IS VERY HIGH!

I work in a hospital and the most cases of "septic abortions" (abortions that get infected etc.) that we see is usually during the first quarter of the year; a fallout of vaginal pounding during Christmas and valentine. Chai, come and see beautiful dead girls, lost wombs, bedridden ones and so on. What pains me most is that these girls will continue denying that they had abortion as if the doctor is a magistrate that will sentence them to death. One denied aborting till she breathed her last only for the nurses that were to prepare her body for the morgue to pull out a mangled baby's remains from her vagina.

And these boys just continue to prowl on the next victims -any vagina that opens! Girls, there is no "rest in peace" if you did not let babies find peace in your womb when the "mistake" of premarital sex was made. If this is your case and you survived it; repent, we all make mistakes.

The guilty ones who do not want to repent are those that will come under my post to rant. Having said it, they will perhaps hide under anonymous and talk about how "nothing happened"! It takes just one day for the thief and murderers to be caught!

tanimola ibrahim said...

Poster 2 must u join ushering unit re der no other flexible units lik santuary keepers unit plssss dont jst come here and put the house of God out 4 pple who knw ntin 2 finish wit mouth. Ders no big deal der i am a winner so i know for sure that ure making a big deal out of nothing. Yinmu

lopezbarbie said...

Decoration unit is very cool

lopezbarbie said...

Exactly anon15:25, home cell membership is wt guarantees the letter cos dts whr u are known#MCID#

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: get your facts right please I work in the ushering dept in winners chapel and different groups are assigned to each service i.e group A can serve in first, B in second, C in third and like that, It is also alternated each month such that the group that served in first service will serve in either third or fourth the following month. So it is always flexible. And meetings are last Sundays of the month. Besides if you worship judiciously in Saturday cell fellowship it's enough to get a letter from your cell minister.

Mrs bekks said...

Mschheeww!! Poster one i feel sorry for u, what's the big deal about this??? @36 u are considering abortion???? FYI my good friend got pregnant 3 months after just birthing through CS, infact both her kids were born the same day just diff years, n she's coping well. Dnt blame u Sha, not sure u TTC like us that's why. Better dnt touch that child oh!!! Ur hubby isn't even complaining dnt know y u are so worked up.

Mao Akuh said...

1st Poster - My Aunty once told me of a women that gave birth via CS but took in 6 months after, she never lost hope but gave birth normal, that's God in action. Don't lose faith in God, just control what you eat, exercise, pray more and see how God will perfect it.

2nd Poster - Serve God genuinely and forget about pleasure of resting and see how He will perfect things for you. I work on Saturdays, I'm an usher, sometimes I leave church around 1pm or 2pm and I will rush to the market to buy tomatoes for cooking, take care of the kids and by the time I finish its already 5:00pm then I will start my rest and the next day being Monday, must be in the office before 8.00am. Not by my power or might but by the Spirit. If you don't want that unit, look for another unit and join but the main thing there is - are you genuinely doing it for God or for your marriage? Na the same God will still determine/approve your marriage o, so think and stop complaining. We all need rest but atimes we just have to deny ourselves some certain things because we know what we're pursuing. #GODfirst

Anonymous said...

#MCID#

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

hahahahaha you this peace maker. you are just making my day today. I no understand again.

See your mates dey collect N50,000 for this blog, you dey here dey abuse women. you are a NUT CASE

Blessed said...

Poster one, please stop being depressed and see a Doctor ASAP. I won't advise you to abort either. I'm sure God will see you through and you and your baby will be fine. Who knows, maybe our first female president is in your womb?

Poster two, try to talk to your Pastor or join RCCG, we have only one service.
P.S : I don't like your reason for wanting to serve God. You should do anything for God because you love Him, not for any form of recommendation. Who knows, maybe you will enjoy the work and sacrifices involved if you do them for love.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1
Please I beg you, don't try aborting that baby. I had my first baby in June 2015 and had another Dec 2016 (both via CS). Just like you the 2nd wasn't planned. My first is only 5 months older than my 2nd. It has happened and nothing will go wrong. All I'll advice is for you to go register for antenatal early and do all that is required. I stay in Nigeria-FCT. So don't feel like there are no others like you in Naija. God is with you and i say a big congratulations. Please wipe those tears and begin to thank God for the great blessing. Youre blessed.

DON™ said...

She was expecting plasma TV.. LOL

DON™ said...

Pele tie.

Fingertrickz #iMix #iProduce #iMaster #freeBies said...

Poster 2. With all sense of responsibility, your head no correct! Simply because you came to a BLOG to ask that they help you forge a letter for your parent church, or isn't that the whole point of coming to a here to ask this kind of question? Abi na me my head no correct ni to think like this, because this person didn't ask any questions before deciding on what unit to function in,  didn't talk to anyone in the unit who may have the same issues, but because of marriage decided to start regularly attending church and even joined a unit but now wants the blog to get her out of her commitment. She didn't ask the head of the Unit, didn't speak to the excos of the Unit, didn't talk to the Pastor in charge of her unit but is asking that people in the blog show her what exactly? BTW, you do know it's only a Home Cell that would give you the letter you are asking right? #Justsaying.‎

DON™ said...

You are just going to church because of letter, not because of your salvation. Imagine.

Carry church for head like dreadlocks.

mmadu said...

Poster 1.

It is only natural to be tensed. But please, I will like you to calm down.

Uterine rupture most times occur during vaginal birth in at risk mothers.

You can stop breastfeeding your baby, and change to a good infant formular.

I will advise you not to do an abortion solely on the basis of being pregnant. 7 months is not bad. I have seen people get pregnant 6 months after CS. Just relax please.

Make sure you register for antenatal care with a good gynaecologist who would monitor you closely. Eat healthy too
Please relax. E- hugs

Anonymous said...

And I forgot to add, I never stopped breastfeeding my son until he was 1yr and 3months and that was 2months to when I had my 2nd. Don't listen to negative stories of the child falling ill, thas a big lie.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2. Ive been a winner since year 2000, i am in CCU. winners chapel is not a rigid church, you dont have to attend two services if its not convienent for you, just talk to your unit leader he will understand. And what you need most being a regular WSF memmber. Let your minister knows you as a member otan.
Dont stress yourself, rather build your relationship with God.

Anonymous said...

Living faith church aka winners chapel is not rigid, join home cell lobatan

Wild Rose said...

Poster one, pls don't do anything negative to that pregnancy. I know so many people including myself that got pregnant while their babies where less than 1 and it was complication free. The most important thing is to start ante natal classes early so that doctors can tell you the pros and con's of your situation. Pls dont stress yourself over nothing. Good luck.

mmadu said...

Is that why you are this bitter? She asked because she doesn't know and she is scared.. please you should be praying for the fruit of the womb and not calling your fellow woman an abortion planner.. mtchew..

peace maker said...

Madam.pls close legs& Toto for some months after u born this one.Quit too much fcuk fcuk .Sex is not food

Anonymous said...

Poster2

Explain your situation to your unit head, you dont have a problem. You need your zonal minister more join a house fellowship for recognition

MrsB said...

Poster 1, I know someone who got pregnant 4 months after giving birth to the first via Csection and another who got pregnant when her baby was 6 months so this happens more often than you think. I suggest you calm down and relax, take it easy especially as you have your husband's support. Most importantly, please go to the hospital and have your Dr explain all necessary details. Voice out your concerns and let them handle it.
Please look at the positives and stop beating yourself up.

Anonymous said...

I am a winner connect with a home cell close to your house and get faniliar, your cell leader will help you.

Explain to your unit head and serve in both services may be once in a home. Winners chapel no get problem

Order 4ur Cakes in Abuja. Home delivery. said...

As in ehn, the way she just wants to terminate the pregnancy so easily without any conscience. Your own child o. @36 you should be eternally grateful to God for stable fertility.

Monkey Face said...

You dey mind her?

Anonymous said...

Dont mind her, go join home cell you need that more and its join 1 hour

Monkey Face said...

You are such an insensitive mammal!
You don't know what she is going through and will never know until you find yourself in her shoes.
Now, go learn a lesson or two on being sensitive and stay off topics you have no knowledge of.
You hear me?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew

Order 4ur Cakes in Abuja. Home delivery. said...

Madam if you terminate that pregnancy ehn, ...lt me just stop here.

Pikin wey people dey cross python and baff for river dey find. Mtchewwww.

Just Glamour said...

Poster one,the best thing you can do for your health is to talk to your doctor,don't kill your baby, everyone's body heals differently,go for Ultrasound to see how far you have healed,continuing breastfeeding your baby depends on your strength,my baby was 7 months and I was already 7 weeks pregnant and still breast fed the baby till 9months don't be scared of rupture,God is on your side.

Monkey Face said...

Amen.
People are praying and paying huge amount for babies. Poster 1, you will be fine. Ok?

Monkey Face said...

Whatever you do dear, PLEASE do not consider abortion as an option
I dey beg you

Monkey Face said...

I attend winners and this is far from the truth. You only need a letter from your HOMECELL ooooooooo!
Who dey give una this fake info?

Anonymous said...

Warris this one talking about.abeg go baff

Monkey Face said...

She does not need to join a unit to get a letter from the church. That's why we have homecells

Monkey Face said...

Tankiu!

Monkey Face said...

Your last paragraph though
Lmaooooooo

Monkey Face said...

Imbe

Justyswt said...

Poster1, don't fret. And pls don't abort that baby!

Just go and see ur doc. There won't be any complications. As for breastfeeding, I don't think there is any harm in continuing.

And register for ante-natal on time.

Poster2, just join a unit that is not too demanding and let ur unit head know ur situation.

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Am always scared to read chronicles of a blog visitor. I took courage in reading it. Sometimes Stella heading is scary.

Anonymous said...

POSTER 1, IT HAS ALREADY HAPPENED. YOU CANT REPAIR ONE RIGHT WITH ONE WRONG. STOP THINKING NEGATIVELY. YOU MUSNT GIVE BIRTH BY CS AGAIN. GOD WILL SE YOU THROUGH. HAVE FAITH AND CARRY YOUR BABY TO FULL TERM. ITS THE DEVIL THAT IS TRYING TO PUT FEAR IN YOUR MIND SO YOU WILL SIN BY ABORTING. AT 36YEARS, ANOTHER PREGNANCY IS A BLESSING AND NOT A CURSE

Anonymous said...

Poster 1...pls don't stress yourself. You don't need it. As i type this, I am at the hospital for my antenatal. My baby is just 6months old and I am 3months gone. So plz, keep your baby o, eat as much as you can and take your prenatal drugs. That's all

Anonymous said...

POSTER 2, YOU CAN ALWAY JOIN ANOTHER CHURCH

mmadu said...

That's good. Go for a scan. Please try and eat okay? Don't forget to relax too.. You will be fine okay? Take good care. Hugs

POSTER 1 said...

@peace maker and don, thanks but know that nobody is perfect in this life. Am married and I can have sex. The only mistake I made was using CD instead of IUCD cos of my age, never knew I can take in so easily. Thanks and God bless

POSTER 1 said...

@peace maker and don, thanks but know that nobody is perfect in this life. Am married and I can have sex. The only mistake I made was using CD instead of IUCD cos of my age, never knew I can take in so easily. Thanks and God bless

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...@ poster two
talk to your unit leader.....or better still join a less stressful unit
......by the way u sound like ure going to church only to get a letter for ur parents church

Ehi Grace said...

Poster 1 please leave your pregnancy alone and start enjoying it. I think you should stop breastfeeding you are talking about your age as if you are 55 years old. CS or not your body is ready. Eat right and do light work when you can.

Anonymous said...

What is this one really talking about? Are you high?

POSTER 1 said...

Thanks for encouraging me, may God bless u.I pray and hope not to have high blood pressure cos of too much thinking. Hope the uterus won't rupture by itself during d 3rd trimester, though God forbid. I know I won't go into labour but do elective CS. Thanks once again

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 go to a freaking hospital. What kind of joke is this?

ADAOBI said...

Or Sanctuary, just one hour on Saturday to clean

POSTER 1 said...

Thanks for encouraging me, may God bless u.I pray and hope not to have high blood pressure cos of too much thinking. Hope the uterus won't rupture by itself during d 3rd trimester, though God forbid. I know I won't go into labour but do elective CS. Thanks once again

Anonymous said...

join home cell and be close to your home cell leader they will help you get it.

ADAOBI said...

You are an idiot!!! Toto dey scratch a married woman??? Why I'm I even dignifying you with a response.. You are just an IDIOT!!!

Anonymous said...

Poster relax, it is well with u n ur baby.This happened to me too.7 months after my boy ,I got pregnant again.Enjoy yourself

Anonymous said...

Lmao na true. Wetin dis one dey yarn? Go baff lol

happy Omoike said...

Poster 1: will advice u see ur doctor, he will have a better explanation and solution to your situation....

Poster 2: please join another unit in the church, that's flexible 4 u....

SWAG LAFRESH said...

I don't attend your church but I think you should talk to your unit head of your challenges.

What's bad in going to church 6am and leaving 1pm? It's a big deal for you because you're not doing it from your heart but for the letter.

Whatever!!!

Anonymous said...

Don't even give dt kind of advice at all. breast feeding while pregnant. haba mana

Monkeynofine said...

Ouch am always late..... OK let me enjoy comments..

Princess Scheherazade said...

Poster 1. Please relax your mind and stop listening to negative talk.
Using a condom wasn't a mistake because it is a valid means of family planning even though it is not 100% but then non of the family planning methods are a 100% apart from abstinence and tied tubes/ vasectomy.

It's just unfortunate that it failed you, but also realise that any other method could also fail you. I know someone who got pregnant even with an IUD in place.
I totally understand not wanting to use any other methods because of your age, those things make getting pregnant so difficult even when they have been removed.

So go for the scan tomorrow and if it's positive see a gynaecologist as soon as possible in order to assess your situation and help you make an informed decision.
Reading comments here will confuse you more.
Left to me though, I would say keep the pregnancy, God who allowed you get pregnant even while using a condom knows the good plans He has for you.

All the best.

Anonymous said...

POSTER 1

My dear what just happen to you is not new. Many women have gotten pregnant 3 months after having a child. Having a child is a gift from God. Is not because you had sex if not go ask women that have been looking for fruit of the womb. I personally had such experience and so can feel u. As I too made a fuse out of it way back. had 3 children in 4 yrs -1997,1997,2000. A year 6 months apart.

Do worry u will be fine. my children all all grown up now and I really am grateful for them.

Now am resting and training them.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 from nsg blog to sdk blog. Whats next madam, bn or lib?

poster 1, no advice ma

POSTER 1 said...

Thanks for encouraging me. But u didn't birth via CS, if mine wasn't tru,CS,i wld have been happy considering my age but God knows best. I haven't eaten since morning, av been crying. Thanks all

Anonymous said...

Madam praise God ypi didn't marry and wait long for babies. Nothing do you so rock your pregnancy. Once you have sex with or without protection you should plan for pregnancy so stop hammering on you didn't plan it. My mum had two children in 16/17 months via CS. So you're not alone on this situation. Once you deliver this baby go for better family planning methods. CD will not do the trick o. Congrats in advance

beautiful godly said...

Whatever she is going through is not an excuse to terminate the pregnancy
Tomorrow she will start crying that God has forgotten her to bless her with more kids when she is the cause of her problem .if she knows the number of women crying day and night for just one child. Hisssss
She should keep the baby who knows she might birth the child naturally

Tiwa

Ngozi Eze said...

Poster 1, stop breast feeding ur baby since u r already pregnant. Alittle calculation,my dear, ur baby is 7months, by the time u r due to give birth in 9 months time ur baby will be 1yr 4months. So u see u don't need to abort that child. Dont worry God will see u thru okay?

Anonymous said...

peace maker, your idiocy has no boundary. poster 1, God does not make mistakes. He knows why you had to get pregnant now, He will give you all you need to carry the pregnancy to term. I tap into your anointing. Pls stop breast feeding the baby.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1, you don't have a problem at all quit stressing yourself. I took in when my baby was 3 months and I had her through cs. I didn't travel out. I carried her to full term and had her through cs again. Both of them are very heathy and very close too. Stop worrying your pretty head abeg!

Great lady said...

Isaacson,you shouldn't have any idea because you are not a woman. This is women issues.

Rukky's cakes @rukky_cakes said...

Madam poster after seeing your doctor if there is no risk please and please keep the baby please, and yes you can still breast feed.

Great lady said...

Aunty,whatxup?

Winnie said...

Poster 1.
I know there are so many comment before this.
But truth be told
I also got pregnant while my baby was 7 month.
Saw and doctor and said it was fine we keep it.
Also he said strongly not to stop breastfeeding the 7 month baby.
He said
'keep giving her. Very soon she will stop collecting her sef. But if u deny her breastfed, she will be fixated.
But the only fear I have for you is the fact u had a CS. Its very risky oo. Pls see a doctor.
Wish u sfe delivery.
And don't ever think of terminating it.
U are 36, I am 28.
Who knows how long it will take you to get pregnant again. Maybe when you are 40.
Pls ma. Be wise

Anonymous said...

Poster I know of a friend that faced similar issue.. She has 2kids now but the difference is that your older than her(almost a decade older).. But I don't think you should abort it no matter your plans considering your age..
And pls for your own good stop reading negative stuffs so as not to affect you mentally.. Your baby is 7 months that means you have healed fully.. Before your delivery your baby should be over a year so don't worry.. And yes you can take fruits and vegetables its alright.. Be strong..
God be with you

Anonymous said...

They get if from doctors who are actually licensed to practise.
Pregnancy takes a lot from the mother, lactation also takes a lot...noway you can do both and still hv enough nutrients for yourself

Slikky said...

Reason why you would remain a monkey . Silly thing wt your peanut brain. U think its healthy to terminate pregnancy at 35? Bloody irritant!!!

Iphie dearie said...

Poster two join the sanctuary unit.
Clean the church in the morning....and leave. Simple!

Quiksilver said...

Hahahahaha @monkey face

Anonymous said...

EGIDI
My wife took in 7months after she delivered thru CS, nothing happened to her and she delivered without CS. You have to stop breastfeeding else u wil lose d pregnancy

Anonymous said...

@ poster 2 If you reside in Lagos, try Davids Christian Center. They have two branches 1 in Lekki nd the other in Amuwo Odofin Festac area, Lagos. The workforce is less stressful

SWAG LAFRESH said...

We don tire to see this comment. Save our eyes biko

Anonymous said...

Recieve sense IJN. So she shouldn't sleep with her hisband anymore? Didnt u read where sge said they use condoms cos they dont want to use drugs or injections? Age isn't on her side, those drugs n injections have sone side effects. U'll just be talking nonsense cos u didnt read to understand

SWAG LAFRESH said...

My mum got pregnant with me when my sister was 5months. Though she didn't give birth to my sister through CS.

Keep the baby if you're really pregnant.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Not sure she attends ota. Maybe she's not in Lagos.

If she was doing this workforce thing from her heart, she will find joy in it and not complain.

MamaZ O said...

Poster 1. Please keep the baby. At 36 why would you even consider abortion.
As a mattwr I fact your doc should have adviced you to get pregnant almost immediately cause of your age especially since you birth your first through CS. No issues here whatsoever. Just use a very good private hospital like Lagoon or it's like if you can afford it. Relax and enjoy motherhood.

MamaZ O said...

Secondly stop breast feeding so your child does not fall sick.

Anonymous said...

I fit help you do the dagbo letter. Shursh no go code. Na small money e go cost you

SWAG LAFRESH said...

My thought exactly. She's not happy with being a worker because she's doing it for marriage.

Anonymous said...

what are you even saying?Rosemary winners is not rigid she can do one service and go back home, you are even in a service group where you serve inside the church madam poster so why are you complaining?

SWAG LAFRESH said...

RCCG has only one service or your parish has only one service?

My parish has 2 services every sunday except on thanksgiving sunday.

Push up said...

@poster one I had my two kids via cs in nigeria and the first one was 7months plus when I took in for the second. I had a normal pregnancy. Pls do not touch that child cus I also cried to God when it happened but I tell you my second child brought a lot of open doors, she's so cute when I see her smile I ask God for forgivness for even complaining. Pls do not touch that child at 36 you should be very happy, just go to a good hospital with God everything is possible @poster two pls find another church

Anonymous said...

In winners nobody knows if you pay your tithes or not.

sholetoga said...

Poster 1, please leave the pregnancy. God made it fast for you. Stop breastfeeding your baby from now, so that the baby doesn't fall sick. After giving birth to the baby put your self on a birth control method. God will strengthen you. Also please seek medical advice. My sis in law became pregnant 3 months after giving birth through CS. Although her own first baby die but the she one she gave to after the first die is alive and playing football all over their house now.
Poster 2, please change church jare. Your source of money which is your job should be protected at all times. Not the one that you will stay in church from morning to night and go and be sleeping at work. Borrow your sef brain . If you're a lady you're definitely going to be wedded at your parents church, because the man is taking you to his own church. And if you're a man, you're still going to your bride church to wed her.........I hope I've been able to convince you and not to confuse........e don do abeg......kwakwakwa

Anonymous said...

At Poster 1- please see your doctor but leave the pregnancy alone. Same thing happened to me although my daughter was 11 months and I cried so much. Thank God i didn't make any regrettable decision as my son is now 4 months. I breast fed my daughter till she was 1 year and 1 week so I won't suggest you stop. I was told to continue if the baby is still taking it. Some babies apparently stop taking the milk once you get pregnant. Babies are a blessing and it will work out well in the end.

Anonymous said...

This why I hate reading chronicles...Why do women wine slot..Over every simple issues...Me wey lose 3.5 for donation hub I go write chronicles of 2017 na.. Mweeetch

The Young Millionaire

kay elsie said...

Is it dat some of u like spewing trash?haba she said dey use condoms as contraceptives nau, well some of u r nt married so u can spew nonsense 4rm ur mouth? Any form of family planning can fail @ anytym,maybe d condom broke or madam it's divine arrangement by God so tink of ur options wisely so u won't regret later.God help u make d right decision.

soblessed ifemi said...

Poster 2: serve God diligently and cheerfully so that he will bless you.stop complaining and go join home cell. Your reason for joining that unit is very wrong,ask God where he wants you to serve begorey you join a unit

soblessed ifemi said...

Poster 2: serve God diligently and cheerfully so that he will bless you.stop complaining and go join home cell. Your reason for joining that unit is very wrong,ask God where he wants you to serve before you join a unit

Nobi's Mum said...

If people can read the TTC posts and post the kind of chronicles that the first poster did, then am scared.

Henny said...

My take exactly. She is there because of the letter.

ukwu dimond said...

Poster one you should be thanking God that you are lucky to get pregnant with no stress, look at us in the waiting room yet no show, stop breast feeding your baby, do not take the pregnancy off, it is well.

ukwu dimond said...

Poster two am a member of winners chapel I don't know any rule from above that gave all the conditions that you gave up there.

Go and talk to your pastor and hear from him and your local church marriage committee.

prettyi said...

You maybe thinking you are funny both here and instagram, don't call for something into your life that you won't be able to know it's source because of popularity, your sillyness is getting really nasty!

Anonymous said...

Poster one coming from a doctor you have to remove the pregnancy because its worse dan etopic pregnancy and secondly the scares from the previous operation ve not healed up properly. I am sure your doctor did not tell you not to get pregnant until after a two years unles you have faith in God and you want to keep it.

Anonymous said...

Poster one, how can u be thinking of aborting a child at dat age just becos u took in after some months of having a baby? Hiiaan! U shud be thankful to God cos there are a lot of pple seeking for d fruit of d womb and u are here asking God why u. Maybe we shud switch position so u wud have been in my position TTC for 6 yrs while I gladly birth dose kids and sing praises of joy to God every morning. Dis life shaa. Nothing will happen to you and you will deliver safely. My sis in-law had her first thru CS and within 4 months she took in again and had d 2nd one thru V-birth. Don't let fear grip u, for get aBT uterine rupture n trust God. And don't let d devil snatch away ur bundle of joy. Wat u have, some women pray n wet their pillows every nite to have it, a lot have gone places and spent millions to have it so be grateful and don't give d enemy a chance.

Poster 2, biko serving God no be by force and shouldn't b regarded as stress. U seem to value wat u do 4 a living dan wat u do for God. Change dat mindset. U can serve God diligently irrespective of letter or not and see God bless u wit a man dat will not even allow u go thru such work stress becos God wud have blessed d man to b mega rich enof dat u may have to do just little. U can also look for anoda unit to join becos service to God pays. Me, i'm an usher in my church, and I go usher till I grow white hair.

Anonymous said...

You don't need to stop breastfeeding....I got pregnant when baby was 7months and I ve had 2 previous cs.... I cried like you but when I saw my gynae he said there was no problem and I should continue breastfeeding till whenever I want and I did until baby was 1yr 2 months....after all the stress this was my best pregnancy...so see a doctor so you can rest your mind

Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate said...

At your age you are considering abortion, i.berra be gratefull.

I read about some who got pregnant 3months after CS and haf twin 9months later. Nothing do you

Anonymous said...

Poster 1, please keep your gift from God. Yours is even 7 months, mine was two months when I took in again. But I breast fed my baby till 7 months. I started antenatal early though and had a smooth pregnancy without issues. MY Doctor even said i can breastfeed till the new baby arrives if I want to. Mind you I am 34yrs. Both babies are doing fantastically well. Now I can focus on my career.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1, please keep your gift from God. Yours is even 7 months, mine was two months when I took in again. But I breast fed my baby till 7 months. I started antenatal early though and had a smooth pregnancy without issues. MY Doctor even said i can breastfeed till the new baby arrives if I want to. Mind you I am 34yrs. Both babies are doing fantastically well. Now I can focus on my career.

Anonymous said...

Quake doctor with oluwa certificate, joy killer.

Anonymous said...

Poster i took 5 months after birthing my first son through CS.. i actually considered going for an abortion my doctor adviced against it.. Guess what i have a trouble free preganancy and gave birth another CS. I can tell that keeping my baby was one of the wisest decisions i have ever made. So relex you will be fine.. good luck.

Anonymous said...

Poster i took 5 months after birthing my first son through CS.. i actually considered going for an abortion my doctor adviced against it.. Guess what i have a trouble free preganancy and gave birth another CS. I can tell that keeping my baby was one of the wisest decisions i have ever made. So relex you will be fine.. good luck.

Anonymous said...

That is a lie from the pit of hell.. No doctor will say that. 2 years???

Anonymous said...

Stop breast feeding
Don't overfeed
Eat right
Rest well
Don't do strenuous activities
Schedule for cs around 37 weeks. Don't stay beyond 38 weeks.
You will surely be fine. God is with you . Shalom

jelly said...

Poster1 please don't touch that pregnancy go and register in a good hospital and start your antenatal right away

Yemi7up said...

Hmmmmmmmm.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. It happened to me. I got pregnant less than 3 months after a CS with an IUCD inserted. I had been told not to get pregnant too soon after a CS so I got an IUCD fixed. I got prgnant and I didnt know until I was 20 weeks old. My baby was still breastfeeding and by calculation I was still on maternity leave when I got pregnant again. Just like you, I cried and cried. But- removing the baby was not an option for me. That pregnancy turned out to be the best pregnancy I ever carried. I had no complications at all. No tiredness. Nothing. I felt healthy all throughout.The only thing was that my doctor asked me to come for antenatal every week. I stopped breastfeeding the baby because of hormonal changes. It's wise to stop breastfeeding once you are pregnant.A good doctor will advise you to stop. I had an elective CS as I wasn't allowed to go into labour .A uterus that has just gone through a CS will not withstand the stresses of contractions without rupturing.So I was monitored every week for that and As soon as I was 34-35 weeks, an elective CS was done. And it was all in Nigeria. Today, that child is a grown man and is making waves in Europe.Because of him, the entire family travels to and fro Europe.Its amazing when I look back now and wonder how I was so upset when I got pregnant with him. So my dear, you never know why that child came in spite of your using prevention. Just trust. Like you, I was filled with so much apprehension when I discovered I was pregnant. I thought I wouldn't be able to cope. But I did. You were sensible enough. You used a condom. But you still got pregnant. So thank God. It must be for a reason. Okay. Every child has a purpose in life.

Anonymous said...

It's called tandem breastfeeding. Educate yourselves please

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. First of all, there is no problems you got pregnant when your baby became 7 months. When a woman gives birth through a C's and she takes in after 6 months, the scar is mature enough and you could actually have a vaginal delivery if you have no contraindication.
2. You can continue with breast feeding please, it wouldn't cause illness of the baby neither would it lead to abortion. Go to a standard Hospital and speak with an Obstetrician.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. Pls don't abort and also keep breastfeeding, There is no harm at all.if your baby falls sick it is not because of breastfeeding while pregnant. ..

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. Pls don't abort and also keep breastfeeding, There is no harm at all.if your baby falls sick it is not because of breastfeeding while pregnant. ..

sugarcrush said...

Dear poster one:i will advice you from my very own experience!!i had mmmy first baby through cs,and was told to wait till after 2yrs....i opted for condom like you, but failed me.I realized my baby stopped breastfeeding all by herself @7mnts....i never knew I was preggy of 3mnts,mind you I was menstruating normally....i was scared,cried, couldn't eat,but I can't harm my baby!!i had the second baby through CS again, with no complications at all......dear poster one,stop the idea of checking Google for answers....hold on to God(He's gat your back for real) !!!

sugarcrush said...

Dear poster one:i will advice you from my very own experience!!i had mmmy first baby through cs,and was told to wait till after 2yrs....i opted for condom like you, but failed me.I realized my baby stopped breastfeeding all by herself @7mnts....i never knew I was preggy of 3mnts,mind you I was menstruating normally....i was scared,cried, couldn't eat,but I can't harm my baby!!i had the second baby through CS again, with no complications at all......dear poster one,stop the idea of checking Google for answers....hold on to God(He's gat your back for real) !!!

Anonymous said...

There will be no problem keep the baby. Same happened to me at around same age, I didn't wait for EDD I had baby removed at 36 weeks to prevent rupture according to Gynae's orders. She's 10 years old now.

Anonymous said...

Please keep it my friend got pregnant six months after her first she wanted to abort but doctor told her not to fortunately for her the second was by normal delivery

QUEENMOTHER said...

@ poster 1. go to hospital or google how to remove early pregnancy at home, you just have to eat more of some fruits.

beautyvile@gmail.com said...

Poster 1 don't do any harm to your baby, because you not the giver of that child, do you know if you can have another if you flush it off. leave it the Lord that allowed it will see you through, see your doctor for further guide.

Poster 2 I am a winner too, if you attend wsf (Winners Satellite Fellowship ) I.E House Fellowship and midweek service you don't need to be in any group to be given letter to marry. just be committed in WSF 5-6PM every Saturday and midweek service of Wednesday in the location where you live. The zonal pastor will give you letter that you are a member and the House fellowship minister will acknowledge you commitment too.

Meanwhile it pays to serve God, so if you put you trust in him and serve him well he will elevate you to a better job that you will have more time for yourself. remember Matthew 6:33.

beautyvile@gmail.com said...


Poster 2 I am a winner too, if you attend wsf (Winners Satellite Fellowship ) I.E House Fellowship and midweek service you don't need to be in any group to be given letter to marry. just be committed in WSF 5-6PM every Saturday and midweek service of Wednesday in the location where you live. The zonal pastor will give you letter that you are a member and the House fellowship minister will acknowledge you commitment too.

Meanwhile it pays to serve God, so if you put you trust in him and serve him well he will elevate you to a better job that you will have more time for yourself. remember Matthew 6:33.

Anonymous said...

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Beautiful Eagle said...

@ mmadu, Anon 15.14 is not sounding bitter. She just wants Poster 1 to be sensitive and she has advised that she goes to a doctor to find out how to carry the baby till full term

Beautiful Eagle said...

Poster 1 I wish you a successful pregnancy and safe delivery in Jesus' name. You should cast away all fear. Children are blessings from God so stop crying and start taking good care of yourself and the little one.

Beautiful Eagle said...

Please a non-Catholic can not just go and marry in a Catholic church without becoming a Catholic. The Catholic church is not a dumping ground for protestants who persecute us and yet don't want to abide by the rules of their churches

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