Hmmmm na wah!
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WILLING TO BE SECOND WIFE.
When she was in school she met this guy..she was young and naïve he was single then they got close and she fell in love with him after sometime he got married she got upset when she found out and kept her distance he kept asking her for forgiveness she eventually forgave him.
Their relationship continued and it was off and on for years.They were both in different states. He helped her secure a job at the state he works and where she works is close to his own office so they go to work and back from work together. His family do not stay in the same state with him, they only visit and he visits them too.
They became very close and he got her to be exclusive with him. She had a relationship that was not leading anywhere and others that was just there and she eventually dropped all of them.
The man is in his late 40s and she will be 30 next year. He says he wants to marry her and she is worried that her father will disown her and her mother will have a heart attack that she wants to be a second wife.
They are both in love with each other, they have known each other for a couple of years now and have been through a lot together. She says he is better than all the guys she have met. His wife knew about her but did not know they were still in contact. You can imagine when she discovered again when she went through his phone, she saw pictures and messages between them and all hell broke loose. She threated to get my friend disgraced and all her family members laid threats on my friend, she will find her out and beat her up..she posted lots of things online to embarrass my friend and reached out to people that know my friend to warn her. She also swore that she will use her last drop of blood to deal with my friend if she does not leave her husband alone.
No marriage is a bed of roses...the man and his wife have issues off and on and she has a temper. The man still insists that he will marry my friend.That she will relocate abroad and all. My friend is madly inlove with him...now she is worried that
- What if he ends up not marrying her and just keeping her cos his family is not around so she serves the need he wants.
- She might have to leave her job and she is scared of that
- She is getting old what if he eventually does not marry her and she has locked up on dating anybody and have driven the ones that showed any form of interest in her.
Kindly advice please and bvs please easy on the acrid comments. Nobody gains points by been overly insultive and insensitive....danke für deine Zeit