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Sunday, 14 May 2017

Runaway Bride Explains Why She Abandoned 'Her Man' At The Altar...

A Bride Who Abandoned Her Groom At The Altar has explained why she did it.....She tweeted about it two days ago....









53 comments:

Onyinye Deborah said...

parents should stop pressurizing their children to marry whom they don't love,some would say, hey you are above 30,go and marry cuz am in my husband's house, poor mentality i guess.
my dear God will give you the right man.

CHI EXOTIC said...

Just like that?
And why did she wait till the D day to call it off
She's cold and hurting people means nothing to her

If it was the other way round, we would be cussing out the guy for doing a sister bad
You don't love him enough to marry him right? Then you should have told him from the onset.


Anonymous said...

Should have done the cancelling before the marriage day na haba....what she did was just unfair....@least cancel before the guy goes to the church to wait,haba....
QueenBlaq

Kamikaze said...

And she had to wait till the wedding day to pull this Hollywood style stunt?Quite irresponsible of her.

PurpleArc said...

This sudden strong conviction you had on your wedding day,why didn't it come on you all these while? Why on the wedding day?

If you don't want something to happen,stand your ground,no one is going to kill u.

You finally decided to say no.on the wedding day.you should have said no way before.

I understand when u don't like someone..you just don't.

Yes you would have been so sad.

But next time,dont let it get too far before you back down.

Isaacson said...

You shouldn't have agreed to his engagement or proposal then

ifeoma lan said...

Silly girl....u should understand that sometimes our parents pressure us bcos of love they have for us & not their personal interest....hope u don't regret it....marriage is not all about love, spark & butterfly in ur belly....I felt d same way wit my hubby but still went ahead wit d marriage....I'm grateful today ...and appreciate my family for the pressure dey put on me....u should also understand that d Man U may love & dream of settling down with may not feel the same way about u....

Vivian Emerenini said...

Abeg, she did right jare unfortunately she should have voiced it out before the day of the wedding. I bet if it had been a guy the curses that would have followed would be ten much. In spite of all this, i always believe a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

NaMe BeDis said...

I was expecting to read that she found out the guy already had a family or that he lied about something else. What she did was cruel. Why wait till the wedding day before walking away. Why damage someone psychologically/emotionally when all of that could have been avoided?

Sometimes we take actions thinking only of our selves. Her reason isn't good enough to justify what she did to that poor fellow, she should shove it where the sun doesn't shine.

SUGAR. said...

"I was just being pressured left and right"....

Sister wait first! So throughout the preparation, you could not open ya mouth to yarn.... You took the ring! You should have broken up the engagement. I dunno how girls do it but I Can't date a guy I am attracted to. You dated him mehn and He thought it wise not to prolong or drag the inevitable.

#IstandWithHeartBrokenGuys
#GuysHaveEmotionsToo
#SomeAreGoatsIKnow
#LetYourYesBeYesAndNoBeNo!

ola wealth said...

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Don't mind d girl ojere

ola wealth said...

Its not that easy like that..
Pressurization no easy to shake off

Heartbreaker loves TGW said...

She probably did, no one listened. Why do you think he just cut the call before she finished talking... He wasn't surprised from what I read .


Anyways better she left than feeling uphappy.


Heaven knows I can't force myself to love someone, if I don't like you, I will show it , can't hide my feelings .

Anonymous said...

It's not really easy o..in Naija many men use jazz to marry women..its true honestly..you look at urself and wonder how u ended up with that kind of man..its not even about d sex or money..sometimes u try to break it off, they somehow attack you..fear n uneasiness is God's greatest sign that man is not for u..if u can't break up on ur own..solicit help either spiritually etc..I'm still thanking God for saving me from such an experience..thou it didn't get to wedding day level.

Anonymous said...

I wish I had the courage walk away before the wedding. Now am unhappy and sad all the time.

S.I

Krix said...

Devil was busy playing disco on ur head, your spiritual husband at work. That's why I will always advice people to pray before going into this institution called marriage.

Krix signing out via iPhone 7+

slliky said...

One cant begin to imagine the pressure she would have been to accept the marriage proposal

That she cancelled on the wedding may look mean but life in loveless marriage isn't what anyone should walk into with her open eyes...Am sure u unhappy married women on the blog can understand her

Shyla said...

At 30 something years you dont have sense. Which kain pressure from family. Dont you have mouth to talk. How can you dump someone on the wedding day because you were confused and stupid. You knew all the while that you couldnt do it and you let it roll till your wedding day, not like you discovered somehing bad about marrying him a day before. You are callous. Dont justify your cold attitude here with your reasons. Pray someone dont play you ten-ten like you did this guy.

Eka Joy said...

Exactly. She had all the time in the world to cancel the wedding. If if it's just invitations that had been sent out, it would have been manageable, but no, she had to wait till all the guests both hers and his, were already at the wedding. Imagine the embarrassment for the man. Not like the man was wicked to her oh that this would have been a good payback but no, she didn't realize she didn't feel any spark until the day of the wedding. Mtsheeeeew. Black witch!

zizi said...

Why wait till the wedding day. You should have cancelled it long before the wedding day. You have a strong mind ohh

BEDS AND ROSES said...

I don't really blame her. When your heart isn't somewhere; it just isn't.
I only blame her for leaving it that long till the wedding day. At over 30 you should be able to stand your ground,you are not a 19yr old still collecting pocket money. You should have had your own job and your own money so even if you are told to leave the house you can comfortably do that.
I know someone that called off a wedding but atleast they had not even choosen the wedding date yet.
This guy was her boyfriend of atleast 5yrs since she was in school. He proposed,she accepted. But I knew something was amiss when she never wanted to wear the ring.
The groom's family called and fixed a day for introduction so they could formally come to ask for her hand in marriage. The parents already even knew eachother since the kids have been dating for years.
Day before intro she said she can't marry the guy. Her mother cried o, wailed,got family and friends to talk to her she stood her ground.
The Father just said to leave her,it's her choice and her life.
The guy had everything going for him,good family,good job,his own property he just bought to start a family.
She said her heart wasnt with it.
Today both parties are happily married to other people with kids.
This girl is this post did wrong by waiting that long. My only problem with it.

Anonymous said...

At over 30 you still dey find spark ,no worry that Marine Husband is very strong in your life.You are a wicked woman and for you to have done that,you can never be a good wife even if you marry the best man in the world.God go punish you.

Jeni_zee said...

Don't mind the useless thing, if she knows she won't bow to the pressure finally, why did she wait till wedding day? Now she's explaining some silly epistle

Push up said...

After they don waste money cook rice, buy drinks this is wrong on so many levels .

jelly said...

Why won't your in-law and family hate you.. after wasting their time and resources for the wedding, you are wicked even if you are being forced on him.. you are over 30 to speak out your mind and stand on your own.. you could have ran away long before the wedding.

O'Visione said...

Hi Stella great job you're doing and happy mother's day to you and all mothers in this colony😊 or yard as some will say.

Em Jay thanks a million.

I greet you Ola W. and @Martins A. the tech guru.

To the runaway bride I understand how family and society can pressure u into making decisions u never wanted. It seemed hash on the guy and family for the embarrassment but that's what they deserve for not listening to her and not seeing the signs all along. The guy should be grateful because this couuld have ended even worse as she could end up cheating in her matrimonial home or do worse things that could lead to domestic violence.

In my opinion we should all be sensitive when in relationships to decode the bad signals and make decisions in time. Wedding ceremony isn't the ultimate end to a relationship but a happy marriage should be. I pray they both find their mr/mrs right soon enough if they haven't.

I greet everyone, una doh oh.

PEARL (JJC) said...

Hmnnnn!!!!, village pple at work. Gbam

Anonymous said...

Plz Anty have you seen the spark you are looking for?why wait till the wedding day that's really wicked of her.

Anonymous said...

U are very stupid... Like, is marriage all theres is to life?
U guys always measure someones age with shovel..... She should be unhappy for the rest of her life bcos shes 30?
U no well.

Frau Juliet said...

At over 33 now she is still answering bunmi'bumbum' in Patience Jona's voice 'all right continue'

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I'm finding it hard to believe she didn't love someone else,you took the ring and waited all the while?wernt you aware when your mom bought the first bag of rice?i would never support marrying someone you are not invoke wig but the babe was selfish all through,she didn't consider EVERyBODY else,imagine her aunt coming all the way from the U.K.all the asho-ebi girls........I might not talk to the girl for a while too o,she made up her mind TOO LATE!!

Pure Nigerian said...

Exactly @ Queenblaq, why didn't she cancel before allowing the man to go to church and wait. Any man (cause it's usually the men that go in first) that has been left at the altar and has to be the one that relays the news and then take that long walk down the aisle alone with head held high, enduring all the sad and pitiful stares and sighs, even though he is breaking inside, must be given a medal of courage.

bobims&hexiv said...

I don't believe anyone can pressure another old enough to be independent that much, she should have backed out on tym rather than hurt so many people by taking a rash decision. I hope she don't pray for such opportunity later in life

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Lol,push up

Martins Aboy said...

Greetings to you too @O'Visione..trust you are having a great day.

A beautiful sunday to you and yours!

@MARTINS ABOY

Anonymous said...

With this level of fight she displayed on that wedding day, she should have displayed when the iv was printed. She should have call the man and tell him look I don't love u so don't try to marry me. Anyway she will have to pay for the damages. Maybe 1.5m will do. Cos u can't be broke n causing damages

Justyswt said...

Hmmm, parents can pressure one to do what they don't to.

that quiet girl said...

Even if its the last minute we realize we are making a mistake, its best to retrace your steps than continue in self denial and loose yourself and your life. Living in misery and regret is the worst that can happen to anyone. You need to hear my divorce story. I knew it was wrong but did not back out till after the registry pronounced us a couple. That day, he traveled back and I went back to work. We got it dissolved before it was even 2years. There was no traditional and white wedding. We saved us from living in misery because I did not love him but I think he loved me. We were together for 4years. He was even my first relationship. He is married now while I am single. My family still thinks I made a mistake, everyone wonders how we could even break up but it is what it is. I am happy with myself. My reasons is a long story.

AbaMade said...

Life itself is hard, not to talk of living in misery and pain everyday. Please summon strength and take a walk

Anonymous said...

All that rice, other menu items, wetin go kom happen to Dem? D guy for jus collect her junior sister or chief bride's maid! The show must go on!

BEDS AND ROSES said...

Because she is over 30 she should enter a marriage and be unhappy and end up divorcing at 35 and end up as a single mum with kids.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

You're 1/10

Anonymous said...

It's good she left and she made herself a happy gwegs. I just think it could have been handled in a better way.
Come to think of it, what if it was a man that called it off on the wedding day, would we be here praising him for following his heart?
Just asking though

Anonymous said...

The quiet girl....u are leaving in denial...when it will dawn on u is coming...u are still living in fantasy

Yeeda said...

1.Pls don't force anyone to marry you, if they don't love you or respect you, let them go. Let's grow some esteem and learn to deal with rejection. If your bride/groom feels no excitement about the marriage, something is amiss.
2. Communication is key. If you communicate effectively with your partner, you will know how they feel.
3. There is no karma waiting anywhere for her. She might find love or not, we cannot play God. The heart of man is wicked but God is always merciful.
4. My ex did something like that to me, luckily it was just introduction. If we got married we probably would have been divorced or sth by now. It's his loss anyway but now I'm really glad i didnt marry someone like that
5. Yes, the pressure to marry in some families is horrible. But marriage is not the holy grail.
6. So in this case I agree the bride made up her mind so late but the groom should have seen that the babe no send him naa.. pls watch your partners body language, infact communicate. If they love you, it shows. If they are merely tolerating you, it shows. You really don't want to marry someone like that, so take heart Mr Groom.

sholetoga said...

This na medicine after death jor.......The guy must have move on tetee

Anonymous said...

"Divorce" beginning was what I read here;
Hadn't her bride price been paid?
She was married.

Anonymous said...

Some men will see the sign and still force the lady.abeg make i leace my own story for another day.although, in my own case we only had intoduction, and after a year of sayibg a constant no. This man stilll calls me and some of peeps still giving me reason y i should accept. My mind is made up, because na only me go enter am. Marriage is nt all about money n love. I beleive wen we find our better half. We are going to have inner peace and genuine hsppiness

Anonymous said...

Yes

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Don't let your age control your life. Let your life control your age*

Jade said...

Almost fell into that trap oh. To make matters worse the so called fiance that begged and pressurized even my parents to persuade me started to misbehave. Omo,I called off the wedding no time. He has been begging ever since. It was the best decision i had ever made. I didn't have an iota of feeling for him. I have no regrets, just gratitude.

Asoge Atelier said...

Lolzzzzz

Anonymous said...

The least she could have done was to tell him before he got to the church.

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