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Friday, 23 June 2017

Actress Funke Adesiyan Sends Women A Memo On How To Handle Cheating Men...

This Lovely actress is of the mindset that men are born to cheat.....





*I agree that it rains but not every where!


91 comments:

Dainty T said...

She can like to SHUT UP!!? Mtscheew
Oro rirun

Miss Ess said...

I hear you madam. So you give up that all men cheat? No, I don't think so.

Miss Ess said...

I hear you madam. So you give up that all men cheat? No, I don't think so.

Anonymous said...

Perhaps AIDS or other incurable sexual diseases is what you strive for. Madam relationship adviser.

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

I strongly disagree.
She should go and sit down.
Not All Men Cheats
#mtchewww

😎😎😎😎😎😎

amanda favour said...

Thi

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Owambe parties makes these men to cheat. And your women are the worst, so una fit marry una type. Cheat me, i cheat you. You have forgotten that there is no small sin or big sin.

My dear, not every man cheats and I still beat my chest on that.

Mz Poundz said...

Trash! for how long will this silly mentality continue? if he can't respect the marriage institution & the vows of forsaking all others.., then that's not acceptable!! how can women be pulling each others down??

amanda favour said...

This are the low self esteem women giving men reasons to cheat.
I'm sure pastor's daughter will like this
O.k bye

marjorie said...

Somebody should please ask this one to goan marry so that she too can be enjoying the rainfall that she's commending.
Learn to put your mouth in your pocket till you get married sisteh.

Anonymous said...

It swing mounts on either side. Hope this helps.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

I beg to differ!!!!
Men ain't naturally born to cheat!!!!, But because we live in a morally bankrupt society, so anything goes......
There are still faithful men out there....
Good afternoon Sdk and blogfam...

*Faithful bv*

Anonymous said...

To start with I don't mind a cheating man as long as he doesn't joke with me or my kids and loves me and doesn't rub it in my face dasall. The one I hate is a cheating wicked bastard

Jenny Gbanite said...

see her tribal mark,why won't they cheat on her lol
we have lots of underground actress in Nigeria sha nd recently it seems all of them are seeking relevance by dishing advice here nd there
abeg shift jare
ur man dey cheat on you no mean say my own go cheat too iwotago?

Baby bunny said...

"men are naturally born to cheat" na wa o! What a mentality.

Anonymous said...

Funky funky so na why u stoop so low to be second wife abi
Radarada

Anonymous said...

If he must,I hope he let's me watch so I can strike off one of my sexual fantasies...(watching my man get down with another woman while I touch myself). Like brutally fuck her till she begs for mercy.

Olivia Silk said...

Whatever you believe in, comes to you.
See her strong tribal marks, prolly affected her brains too.

Everyone to their own cup of tea. Except Yori Yori.

The Lifted said...

it rains almost everywhere, less only abt 5% of men don't cheat.....'concentrate on how he treats you' I agree with dis saying, but one have to be careful he's not a he-goat/dog to avoid story that touch

Anonymous said...

Funke, when he gives you hiv or something in that category, console yourself with the fact that he treats you well.
Cheating is no child's play , gone are the days of ignorance.I lost an aunt to HIV, she died!! The person who infected her was treating himself whilst she was ignorant of her status.
She is dead today and husband is alive, it is not all about the man taking care of you.

Live responsibly!!

The Traveller said...

It is always assumed that men will always cheat. That thing sometimes baffles me. I remember when I was single having a conversation with a female friend and she said she wasn't expecting her husband not to cheat and she'd always pack condoms in his bags when he travels. Despite telling her I could never do such, she just turned her nose up at the idea saying it was impossible for a man. This is unfortunate. It strikes me that this mindset that permits/expects men to cheat is so pervasive, and I suspect this itself could contribute to the correlated pervasiveness of the practice.

Truth be told, a man will always get tempted. Heck, having a girlfriend or wife doesn't mean your body gets switched off towards other women. It will always fire up when there is a woman around. The idea is not to deny this fact but to acknowledge it and decide how to respond.

Early in my life, I had a crush on two girls (think I was like 13/14 then). I discussed this with a trusted older family friend (he was married at the time and was in his take 20s). He said to me, "no matter what I find attractive in one woman, I will always be possible find the same or something completely different attracting me to another woman. So, I had one of two choices, either spend the rest of my life chasing one tail after another simply because I am attracted/tempted or decide that my response towards every new tail that crosses my path will be to acknowledge its a nice tail, but it is not my tail. Also to make sure the woman I end up with is one in which I am hugely satisfied. I chose the later two and had lived with it
.
I am married and not cheating. I currently have been away from my wife for almost 3 months because of work, and still not cheating. Have I faced temptations? Absolutely!!! My loins are bursting from longing, and finding a woman to warm my bed is a bit too easy really!

Staying faithful under such circumstance is hard. However, I think it would have been easier if I had given myself permission to do so since my youth. Hence, I think it got easier on me because I started conditioning my mind early in life and because I look to Christ for strength. And for those who has not tried hard enough to tame their loins and think there is something wrong with me, you can't be more wrong!

TheLagosShopper(Goods and services 4rm the popular Lagos markets to anywhere in naija?07030493148) said...

Thank you The Traveller,more grace and blessing!!!!!!

Nicole said...

We are enslaved by our mindset. Women with this mindset raise men with similar mindset.

The only way to break the cycle is to teach our sons the right thing and also lead by example.

We also need to teach our daughters to reject advances from married men. The truth is we women weild all the power. If women can learn to say no and discourage philandering men, the men would have no choice but to revert to their wives.

jelly said...

Only a man with genuine fear of God don't cheat!

amanda favour said...

Awwww...
You are a good man
May JESUS bless your home

Nicole said...

Good for you! Stay faithful.

Broomstick said...

I don't get why we women are enablers for this sort of thing. Who can't cheat? Women? We're all born with the desire to seek what we don't have even when what we have is better than that which we seek. If women sit men down and talk about the number of men they've wanted to cheat with but resisted, the men will finally understand that they're learners. If most of us can control ourselves, not just because of what society will say but because we want our self respect, why can't the men? Women, we've always been our own problem. Imagine what she's saying. One day when Stella dedicates a post to this, I'll share a story of how I stopped an ex feeling like he was all that. Before the enablers come for me, I dumped his sorry behind cos he wasn't worth it in the end. Abeg make I face my work

Fab Mum said...

Hello Olivia
I'm fabulous today. And you?

You get what you accept. If you believe all men cheat, then cheating men will be your portion. If you believe not all men cheat, then you will meet the faithful men


Men weren't born to cheat. We all have that tendencies to cheat. Not towing that line is what makes you different from the other.
🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶

Timaro said...

Hmmmmm
Thelma, longest time.

Timaro said...

God bless you sir

Baby bunny said...

I love you traveller. (Agape love oo)

Baby bunny said...

My kind of man. May God give me a husband like you.

Anonymous said...

Really Nurse Eliza?

Someone gives an opinion.

You respond with a crass insult.

I see the depth of your intellect.

Midnight you will stretch your mouth like rubber carpet and be disturbing other sinners shouting olowogbororo

Hmmmm. Smh.

The Observer said...

Hehe @ rainfall ☔

The Observer said...

Spot on with morally bankrupt

The Observer said...

Choi!!! I don't like d beg for mercy bit but I dey feel this fantasy

Anonymous said...

She's using reverse psychology on wives that might catch her with their husbands or someone has already caught her

lizyyaminu said...

The traveler God bles u fr dat mindset....u are just like my husband aldo he cheated wen we were dating but in his own he sat me down and confess den swore to me he will neva do it again and I believe him coz he he has truli changed and I dnt regret it.

Anonymous said...

Men are naturally born to cheat? So women are naturally born to nag?

Anonymous said...

If you want to bring women together, send them to their early graves or make them hypertensive, just bring a gist about men, cheating and side chicks and you'd see all of them like ants around sugar.

Whenever Stella posts educative stuffs or current affairs, the comments from women that are BVs will be less than 10. Then, why won't the men you cherish so much and treat as your gods not cheat on you and rub it in your faces. You all sound as if the only reason you were created as women is to marry a man and give birth to children. If that's your destiny then stop complaining if he decides to add another woman to his harem who also has your myopic mindset.

If you want to go all Biblical on this matter, remember the Old Testament and how the great men of old had women as concubines(side chics) and wives. Those women did not kill themselves shouting fire and brimstone. God did not punish the men. The men were even prosperous and the women fruitful.

So, all you women that have decided to die untop man matter, keep on pushing it. When you die or run mad, another woman will take over while the man will live longer.

Receive sense woman!

sholetoga said...

See who's given advice......OMG

sholetoga said...

See who's given advice......OMG

Sandraeseh said...

This went through my heart...... .
Wonderful

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Very low self esteem.

MEN ARE NOT NATURALLY BORN TO CHEAT madam Funke. Go buy yourself some self esteem

Jeni_zee said...

Don't this foolish funke with no brain

Jeni_zee said...

U are blessed bro and u would live long

Great charming said...

Madam notice me Adesiyan always trying hard to be noticed shift abeg

Anonymous said...

You this Lady, u never cease to amaze me. So it's only Yoruba women that cheat, Honestly u don't think before u talk. I guess Linda Eze who never cease to talk about her sugar boys is Yoruba. You are really a tribal bigot.So in your myopic mind Igbo women don't cheat. You always show that u have nothing in your brain, mumu Bishop worshipper.

Olivia Silk said...

I am great hunny!

Leave the brain fogged human being yarning okpata.
I no wan even talk too much.

wideawake naija said...

Fine tribal marks

Anonymous said...

Yeah, she should shut it!

Anonymous said...

Those are the worst.

Anonymous said...

Kikikikikikiki...see how dem tear her face.

Anonymous said...

No wonder

Anonymous said...

She's 80% right.
Before you married him, you knew he was a player or he was with someone but later focused on you alone...it will reoccur.
Just focus on how he treats you.
Not the one you reach house finish and start looking for loyalty where it never existed.pls.
80% men cheats...10% of men don't cheat..d remaining 10% are hindered by finance or looks or religion.

Anonymous said...

Know someone whose husband cheated anyhow. Wife got infected, unborn baby got infected before they discovered their status. All of them are dead today. The more we tolerate cheating​ from either sex, the worse it gets societally and otherwise. We should never promote cheating.

Chinelo said...

Bravo! Welldone

Anonymous said...

May God keep you good man. I pray to have a man like you, not those old men who still want to remain boys.

Bootylycious diva said...

only in this part of the world you will hear the slogan all men cheat.For me cheating is anyone can cheat man or woman ,white or black.

Anonymous said...

The fight is for both sexes actually.

Anonymous said...

👍 yeah gurl, dump their sorry behinds.

GALORE said...

MUmu... Do you blame her, when her father cheated on her mother... So she thinks it's a norm

When an average Yoruba man cheats.. Even their women.. Married or not married

Mtchewwww


@Galore

Ada Idemili said...

Gini k' onye nka n 'akokwa bikonu? mtcheww #Just finished eating that red palmoil rice with stockfish# i no fit talk much now# lying down and reading commentmode#

Anonymous said...

What do you expect from this girl and iyabo. They sleep with people's husband.

I have brothers who don't cheat.

Anonymous said...

It's amazing how many women are here saying not all men cheat. The men that cheat have not commented.
Every man is a potential cheat,create the enabling environment for him (money,privacy comfort,beautiful woman etc).let me see that man that will not cheat.
It's like saying not all women like phones and bank alert.they all do

Paige 3 said...

#RAINFALLHOWAREYOU#

Anonymous said...

This is a very shallow way of thinking... This is the same lie we keep telling ourselves,making some men act like animals in the be of "I'm only human" is just so unfortunate this is coming from a woman.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous, nothing you say will change their mind.
Stella's bv's are majorly igbos
And you have to lick their Yansh and do shout out if you are from another tribe before they can accept you.
The moment you insult them, no chin chin for you o!
Go back to 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014 posts if you want to read meaningful, unbiased, truthful, real, intelligent, untriballistic(if there is any word like that) comments.
These days, hmmmmmmmm........


@Tenderheart

Broomstick said...

😂😂😂😂😂😂 abi?

Imo said...

You go school at all? See tenses of life.

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

God continue to bless you sir

Isek said...

Sensible woman.
Men have allowed their hypocritical pastors and their wives to browbeat them into behaving unnaturally. Monogamy is NOT natural. No man cheats until he is caught! And his wife will be here asking Stella and fellow BVs for advice. You (men) can fool yourself all you want, but have you wondered why prostrate illness is so wide spread these days? Why didn't our grandfathers suffer as much from prostrate illness? Now medical science has discovered that regular sex (at least 21 ejaculations in a month) is good for prostrate health. Our grandfathers had enough women to help them achieve this easily in a month. It has nothing to do with religion! Prayers will not cure prostrate cancer! You can pretend all you want, I won't be there with you.

Anonymous said...

Explain looks Biko , lol. Looks is a thing of the mind o, forget looks where there is money

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

They are talking about general cheating and u just had to bring tribe into it and you will later come and say you're not tribalistic?

Anonymous said...

Men will always cheat and women no dey carry last in the cheating game. Married women live in denial. Let's all cheat and live happily ever after.

Lollah said...

Galore you have started abi? Is it only yoruba guys that cheat? Everyone cheats. Its a personal thing not tribal. Don't keep dissing yoruba dudes pls

Lollah said...

Like seriously anon 21:38? How did you get that stat? I didnt even know that bvs were mostly Igbos. I am yoruba and I thought she had a mixture of all tribes here...even though some people comment more than others but you can't use that to conclude where majority of her bvs are from? And ass licking? Lolzzz, so shout out now is ass licking? Anyways, it's just a blog were i believe that everyone's like a family and those that feels like they need to lick ass before being accepted should work on their self esteem. Something's wrong

Anonymous said...

WHO IS A LIFE PARTNER?

men think it's someone to live with on earth that will turn a blind eye to cheating. Rather a good life partner should help youlive holy life and make heaven ....the true life. A wife that stops you from cheating is a good life partner. Madam pls snoop . It is biblical

Anonymous said...

Nicely put The Traveller

Bootylycious diva said...

@ Imo school for what , find what in school ,idiota child of anger

Anonymous said...

the make up couldnt hide the tribal mark

Anonymous said...

You ladies are so gullible! That's why men keep toying with your trusting hearts. See them awwwwwing because these are the lies you wanna hear. Just so you know the Traveller is a lady and not a man. Keep fooling yourself and swallowing up all the lies to console yourselves

Miss Inquisitive said...

For me everybody's born to do different things. If all the men on earth are cheating, must i cheat too? The answer is up to every individual caught up in such situation. Those that shout "men are born cheaters" are those sleeping with other people's husband. Sluts!

Mrs CJ said...

You see
There are still some faithful men out there
Not all men cheat
Kudos Oga and may God bless you.

Amacastel said...

Gbam

Amacastel said...

Lolzzz

Amacastel said...

Lolzzz

Anonymous said...

So well said @Anonymous 05:46.

Anonymous said...

Well said.

Anonymous said...

Spot on!

Anonymous said...

When the 'good' man go organize one 'good' STD for u, na then u go know say e pass,'he treats me fine'.

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