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Saturday, 8 July 2017

SPONTANEOUS POST-Saturday...

#omgGODyesterdaywaslit #graduationpartyrocked #newday #saturdayisnotmything #ihatebeingignored #hateshoppingonsaturday.
#shorthashtagday.






I dont know how to describe yesterday...I had so much fun watching my boyfriend and his Classmates dance and sing ,some had already started crying becos after next Friday they will not see again or sit in the same Class cos they all have to go to different Secondary schools...Next Friday is the final Church service for graduation and that where all the little girls cry out their eyes and their parents cry along.......Mine has told not to bother cos boys dont have time for such..LOL

I talk bout my Boyfriends a lot cos I am so into Kids,so crazy about them but I just realised that kids get to a stage and want you to free them #painful.

My boy introduced me to someone as ''meet my mama.She is so clingy and has her eyes all over my business'' and his friend replied ''I can teach you how to get her off your back'' ..I FROZE.

I have a standing warning from my boyfriends not to Kiss them in public or embarrass them with love words......This is something I do a lot and they were Ok with it oh....

Anyone going thru such?Kids grow up Overnight and I cant believe this....

Anyone planning on going on family Vacation?I am!

Shout out to everyone who makes this the best blog to visit..We rock huh?#selfpraiselol 

Send in your chronicles and other stories...

Kisses.

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189 comments:

STARRY LARRY said...

Saturday is always Bea, let me go back and continue my sleep. I love you all😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

You ask a girl out and she brought 2 of her friends. Don't panic my brother, just give her friends more attention and appreciate their beauty, she won't ever do it again. No time for Capital Nonsense.



*Larry was here*

Em jay said...

If you Happy and you know say hurrah!

same girl said...

I'm such a mess guys πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ. So yesterday, I decided to take my wigs for washing and I was left with just one which was on my head. On reaching the salon, i decided to "relax" as lil sis was fixing hair so, I removed my wig. After we finished, time to go, i ddnt pay attention to the wig cos sometimes, it feels good to "rock" the conrows. Gist, gist and more gist..... On getting close home, I realized i had forgotten my only available wig at the salon. Couldnt turn back cos I had to pick someone and time was running and it was important i get home first. Picked the person, went to the mall.... It was too late to go to the salon. Now, I have an event a lil out of town so my plan was to leave by 7/8am cos i need to pick up something on my way and my salon opens 9am. Coming home, I noticed, conrows aint as sexy anymore and its "unrokable" and My hair is even too due to be parked. Chai.... Gotten too addicted to the wig life that I never realy thought of a plan B..... So, this is me, dressed, ready to move, just waiting for my stylist to call me that she's on her way cos I begged her to come early. Plans rudely changed *sigh*. Totaly going off my route but Good thing this is Abuja where you can Drive from point A to Z back to A in a flash Else, i would have been forced to Rok the Unrokable either the not so good conrows or the due hair or tie an uglyass scarf (not good with scarfs). I think I need to invest in turbans now..... But then, who Forgets her Wig for Goodness sake lol. You go out with hair on fleek and Return bald without noticing.... Lmao, 21st century woman life πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

Lady Bug said...

Where's everybody?

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

You know all these but you don't know their English or other names:
1. kulikuli - Peanut bars
2. Donkuwa/Robo alata - Hot Charcolit Nuts
3. kilichi - Beef crackers
4. Dundun - Yamarita
5. Fried potato - Potarita
6. Pako/Atu(chewing sticks) - Dental sticks
7. Boli - Barbecue plantain
8. Roasted corn - Corn aflame
9. Eko/Agidi - Corn jello
10. Moin moin - Savory bean pudding
11. Isi ewu - Goat hedo lickins' (remember your fingers)
12. Garri - Grain o' fibre
13. Bokoto/ Nkwobi - Hoof salad
14. Ogi/ Akamu - Corn brulee
15. Kpuf kpuf - Energy buns
16. Chin chin - Dough rocks
17. Zobo - Juice Rosa Afrik
18. Kunu - Grain alive
19. Gurundi - Coconut jaw breakers
20. Bread & akara - Bean cake burger
21. Ofada rice - Unpolished vegetarian rice
22. Adalu - Lentils & grain salad
23. Ekpang nkwukwo/ Ikokore - Continental yam casserole

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

I slept like a child and really wished there was no work today phewwwww what to do I am at work already Md has returned from his trip.
My lovelies happy weekend
Pipi Lee I am watching episode 8 now.
Miss Priya come out jor!
#iamamother
#iyaibejitosure

Elastic said...

A man is at work one day when he notices that his co-worker is wearing an earring. This man knows his co-worker to be a somewhat conservative fellow, so naturally he's curious about the sudden change in fashion sense. The man walks up to his co-worker and says, "I didn't know you were into earrings."

"Don't make such a big deal, it's only an earring," he replies sheepishly.

"Well, I'm curious," begged the man, "how long have you been wearing an earring?"

"Er, ever since my wife found it in our bed."


#DontQuoteMe

Greatlady. said...

Music is food to the soul. It heals or deepens the wounds of the heart. The lyrics rubbing your heart in synchronisation to the resolves of your deep watered soul. The chorus piercing deep down your feelings, sheathing out the flesh, fresh blood and skin. Loud barring beats, rhythm shutting you out of the noisy world and bringing you into a blue dawned world- the world of your thoughts. A world that will make you Ponder hard on determination, heart break, failure, journey so far, love, success, mistakes, and passion.

For DAREY.
"I GO MAKE AM"

Goodmorning. Have a nice day

SWEETIE said...

TGIS I need to be blessed this Saturday f......lly 😁

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Lagos and rain. Everywhere is just too cold. Rain allow us shine biko.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Anonymity empowers more than a few to be abusive without any risk or consequence to their person*

Linda Zoe said...


Good morning everyone,Pls who is in a long term relationship???
I need your past question papers,lol

Arab Money said...

Good morning people

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

I'm not planning a family vacation but personal.
Hopefully I'd do a trip with friends out of Nigeria in September when I take my leave.
This Lagos rain should calm down biko.

Atheist ™ said...

Where are those TV addicts? Pipi get ur butt in here, ive been waiting for that serial drama Heroes with ppl with superhuman abilities, is the final season out already? The last i watched featured T.bag from prison break (Robert knepper)... they better not end it poorly as most series do, they should take a clue from Breaking Bad.
#HugsNenny.

SWEETIE said...

Children are like that most times.praying to God to bless me with mine soon

EESAH (MR NOBODY) said...

Listen..

Don't waste time trying to prove your critics wrong. They'll never be satisfied & will always find something to pick on. #RunYourOwnRace.

Some of 'em will go out of their way to disturb your peace. Don't allow their petty drama to stress you out. Don't take it to heart. Let it go.

I'm outtie

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Congrats on your son's graduation Stellastica.

Kayanmata (NATURAL APHRODISIAC) D623C11B... 08120062969...Order now! said...

My ovary just tickled

πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒawwww!

I love love kids!

Morning Y'all

SHAKITI BABY said...

Today is gonna be a beautiful day...I can feel it already.
Kisses to ur boyfriends in jenifa voice

same girl said...

I can totaly relate to boys wanting to grow up so fast. At a very young age, my lil bro wants to act like the older one Over me and my elder sis. He ha grown with that habit. Good side of it is that when we go out, its his atm that suffers (shey he wants to be older abi?). The way he gives my mom distance when we go out ehn cos my mom is the PDA kind of person And on his part, he has been allergic to her holding of hands sef for such a long time. These boys tire me out lol. But on the flipside, they are super loving begind the curtains and would do anything (material tho) to make sure you are happy.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Simi hi

Adeniji Bisi said...

Larry...you are right jare...who be mumu


MC pinky

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Buggy I am here

Anonymous said...

Am sad,I don't know why some group of girls in my department picks on me,like they make me feel less of myself,I just discovered a new girl has joined them,like they laugh whenever I pass,or gives me a very bad look whenever our eyes meets,I have been thinking what I've done wrong to them but I just can't find any.because of them I always have a cold feet going to class whenever we have a lecture.pls is there anyone here that has had dis kind of experience? What do u think it is and Hw did u overcome such

Lady Bug said...

So you only woke up to write this?,what a wawuuuuuuu!

Give my friends attention?,nice one because I only came to spend your money!,no time for nonsense πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‹

Anonymous said...

Too much grama for dis u named. I'll stick to d 1 I use to knw abeg

Adeniji Bisi said...

Hurrah

Emjay,I don miss u ooo

MC pinky

SWEETIE said...

Only Childship girls does that and should be cleared they've not eaten fried rices before if not why bring friends along on s date

Lady Bug said...

No message to the brethren today?

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Morning bee10

Ed said...

We are here😘😘😘

SWEETIE said...

Half Hurray...no money jor

Adeniji Bisi said...

U dey ask of everybody abi...

I tink he has gone to SCH shaaa


MC pinky

Lady Bug said...

Too long,will read later.

SWEETIE said...

Lol

Ed said...

Good morning bae😘😘😘😡

Ed said...

Good morning boo😘😘😘😘

SWEETIE said...

Good morning mummytwins

Lady Bug said...

Anty oloyinbo,thanks😏

Ed said...

G
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Em jay said...

Story of I wig lover, I am never comfortable in wigs, I don't even have any.

SWEETIE said...

Hahaha Mr cheat

Lady Bug said...

I don't get people that work on Saturdays😎

#youareamother

SWEETIE said...

*rice

Lady Bug said...

Cunny man 😁

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Good morning to you all! It's been a busy day so far, cleaning, cleaning and more cleaning.

Kids grow fast, they get to a stage where they see their parents as almost enemy (teenage stage). Stella Dimoko, enjoy your time with your boys, a time will come they'll start going for coffee, summer shows etc.
You should send them to camp sometimes, kids like camping, they make new friends and experience new things.

I'm not sure I'll be going for summer holidays, I'm surrounded by sea and beaches, it's like I'm holidaying already. I would have loved to travel to Florence with my lady friend, but, I'm just too busy this period. There's always a next time.

You al, enjoy your Saturday and don't forget to put a smile on someone face.

Isaacson(OTONDO) said...

Just because something isn’t happening for you right now, it doesn’t mean it never will....STAY POSITIVE AND FOCUSED ALWAYS


SDK kids are always like that,always want space as they are growing up,my kid bro was all over me then but these days he will say he is a big boy and don't want no piggy back ride or fighting wrestling or even me calling him my fresh bobo in public...lol I will just smile and no its a normal phase kids go thru,eager to b adults not knowing its a trap lol

Started today exercising with some fellow corpers,we jogged since 6am till 7:30 some girls really impressed me while some made me laugh real hard,now its resting time before sanitation proper then hopefully anything else fun might pop up....wishing everyone a fun filled Saturday guys,av fun no matter what

Lady Bug said...

Okay...

Adeniji Bisi said...

Tanx to Almighty God for bringing us this far.


If you are alive and you so much love ur creator then somebody should say "tank u Lord"

Also,I want everyone passing through one challenges or the other to be rest assured that,soonest,u will laugh last ur enemies.

Long live SDK
Long live beevees
God bless Nigeria


MC pinky

Kamikaze said...

In the office......doing the usual.
Beautiful day.
Good morning my neighbours!

"Tony,lee m'anya na mkpuru anya"
Lmao!
Shit was scary.

I'm walking on sunshine.....literally.These shoes are something else.My love for Ranti inspires me to be adventurous. My new sunshine sandals is so pretty.

Blah blah blah...shut up!

SWEETIE said...

Try and always act like they don't exist.build up ur self esteem

Lady Bug said...

You miss Em jay that comments everyday?,I don't get,or you know her outside this blog or you just want to follow the trend of 'I miss you'reπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Sharon Aminu said...

Lols
Gudmorin Stella
Kisses to ur bfsπŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹
Am just imaging them in my mind.. They will really be lovely... Enjoy dear
#iamamotherijnamen
Gudmorin bvs.
Love u guys like crazzzzzπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ‘†πŸ‘†
Kidjo ignoring me....😬😬😬😟

Pipi Lee said...

Oginidi!
Bean cake burger.

Thanks Simi

Sharon Aminu said...

Hello
Is me..

GIFTY said...

Am gonna sleep all day, before I resume work on Monday, wishing u all a splendid weekend .

Pipi Lee said...

Lol
See you at the finale.

Savvy Hilton said...

πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Sharon Aminu said...

OK
Tanks
Gudmorin

Meee said...

This happend to me toooooooo. I travelled all the way for a wedding and forgot my wig.I realised on the weding morning when i was ready to slay.Had ro run to the brides room.Thank God my hair was relaxed,the man doing her hair just made me sweet doughnut.Since then,i must check and recheck my wig

Unbreakable Me said...

I'm here baby girl 😍

Anonymous said...

We are all here observing in anonymous 😁

Sharon Aminu said...

LolsπŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜

same girl said...

Big name big money. Lets stick to our local name. But wait, some of these things are particular to our native land, who then gave them these sophsticated names?

Anonymous said...

Please my ppl,wat causes boil on d private part? I have like four boil already,one is even big,haaa! Wat can I use to discharge dem? I don't know If its d shaving stick I use. Please who has experienced such should help a sister.

Sharon Aminu said...

Hello

Baroness X said...

Please how do you subtly tell your MIL that she has overstayed her welcome without hurting her feelings? Her manipulations are killing me!

Pipi Lee said...

Are they mad!!!
Bia, no let me vex!
How on earth will you let cretins make you feel less and sad?
Didn't you pay the same amount of school fees?
Is it about fashion?
Or intelligence?
Which one?
Why do you think they laugh at you?
Whatever it is you think they are jealous of, make sure you do it with more energy. Pepper them
Make your own friends, guys will be better, dress well, read HARDER and SLAY(Exams and fashion).
Bullies try to fight/hide their weakness by picking on others.

Cookie said...

Take a stand in front of a mirror and tell yourself some hard truth, pick up your self esteem and don't let anyone make you feel less of yourself......

Don't notice them, don't send them, be happy from within, and careless about what people say esp when it's negative and a lie!!!

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Lol!

Lady Bug said...

Bless you!

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Hurrah

Sharon Aminu said...

This is very bad.
They are bullies
Pls report them to ur HOD
Let him call them
Bcus they won't stop
Why are they doing it to ur face??

danny fisiye said...

been a while tjo






#GOAT™

Cookie said...

Hello Saturday, be Nice!!

Please how can someone know his/her finger size??

How do you say "I Love You" without using those words??? Leggo!!!!

Hailing to the Extra Ordinary People πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

Kisses to the normal people 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Chill pill to the children of anger πŸ’Š

Lady Bug said...

Okay,thanks for the update πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Lady Bug said...

Amen, sometimes you wish they remain kids forever😁

Madame koinkoin a.k.a 'peace lover" said...

My dear,not going to class, listening to them, looking at them or making eye contact will not help your situation ,just gather your ego wella , package am without stress act like say animals dey Mormor abeg help urself, even if you shit for body wetin concern them? If you start to imagine everybody dey gang up dey hiss for head walahi them go find you come hostel as you no get liver, better bring out ur though skin where u hide am .Be strong and stay focus !

Kamikaze said...

What is "the lyrics rubbing your heart in synchronization to the resolves of your deep watered heart"?Like really??????
Why does everyone think they are deep and poetic?Huh?

"And he whose faustian's so sublimely bad;it is not poetry but prose run mad"Alexander Pope.

"If poetry comes not as naturally as leaves to a tree,it had better not come at all"John Keats.

Hian!

Anyway I get that what you mean is 'music is cool'
One line.
Lmao!

Alloy Chikezie said...

Hahahaha @meet my mama.She is so clingy and has her eyes all over my business'' and his friend replied ''I can teach you how to get her off your back'' ..I FROZE.

That was funny. Lol

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Anonymous said...

God just blessed me yesterday with a good job God it can only be you thank you Jesus

STARRY LARRY said...

Lol @MC pinky, why the childish behavior?

@Lady Bug, it's a pity, the sleep no green come again, I'm really stressed out this week, I need to rest like seriously.

SWEETIE, den be Atenu now



*Larry was here*

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

You're the one paying them attention! Don't ever allowed any body to reduced or kill your self esteem.

Carry yourself with class, always catwalk with your shoulder high when they are around.

Don't try to be friend with them, do things within your reach that will make them feel jealous (that's if they are not jealous of you already) but, don't over do it.

Befriend the men in your department and let them wallow in their misery.

KIDJO said...

Hello Mr and Mrs, Mister and misses. How's the weather over there?πŸ˜†
IyaIbeji@Sharon Aminu , The Lord has answered your prayers, work more on your faith and stop the doubt.
Lolo Ideato, you say what yesterday? I had to put off my phone during my trip and when I got to my destination, I was too tired to even touch my phone that's why I couldn't reply you yesterday. Did I hear you say I nor get front and back abi na my ears dey scratch me???😠😠😬. I must attend that lagos party by fire by force, lemme see how you look sefπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…..if you like go wear fake yarsh or pump your yarsh I go still catch you πŸ˜‹πŸ˜œπŸ˜›
Mrs Priya Eze, ya now a scarce personality o πŸ˜… abi oga don score goals?
Morning Oluwadarasimi, suwapa?(I must speak yoruba by force)πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…
Where's omotola Brianna and Ibukunoluwa?
I'm off to prepare for a wedding,
#NaJollofRiceMakeMeTravelComeOπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

Lady Bug said...

Next time,try and compress your good morning,😁😁😁😁😍

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Heroes was an interesting one pipi Lee come and confirm if there is continuation.

Oliver said...

Join another group hotter than theirs, stop walking alone but first Upgrade your wardrobe and see them wanting to be your friend.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Bone them act like you don't even know they are existing.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Good morning sharon

Pipi Lee said...

Heroes...I can't even remember how it ended at Season 4 I guess. But samuel lost his powers. Infact I can't remember.
They came out with another series tho, Heroes Reborn, try this one but the Main Heroes is over, didn't end well.

Krix said...

People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Maya Angelou
Try to put smile on someone's face this weekend!
Goodmorning beevees!

Just Krix! (Stellz main boo) via iPhone 7+

da diva said...

I was typing when everything I had already typed wiped away,I no get strength to type lengthy msg again. Imma just summarize it.

Listen sis,wherever u dropped ur sef esteem, go pick it up fast! Don't make a human being like u make u feel less of yourself. They're not better than you. Don't ever think that!

I used to be like you those days in sec school,not bcos I'm not pretty but cos of d ppl I was surrounded with. Now my self esteem is like %200.. I don't believe any girl like this is more beautiful than I am even if d girl is as fair as a mermaid. Nobody is better than I am,so no one can make me feel inferior. Mbanu! Lie lie.

Just work on your esteem n don't send anybody, infact dey don't even exist. Odiegwu

Cookie said...

Mama Twins!!!

Lady Bug said...

These are the kind of stories we want to here about your NYSC experience,not everyday struggles,keep it up boy😁

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Use ori as in shear butter and stop using the stick try and get a shaving cream.
If you continue with the stick make sure ori is used after shaving.

Cookie said...

Morning........

Lady Bug said...

Yay,your neighbours indeed!

Lady Bug said...

Yay,your neighbours indeed!

Sharon Aminu said...

Hello
Its me

Lady Bug said...

Send her a mail!

Pipi Lee said...

Lmaooo
Nneka the pretty serpent.

Sharon Aminu said...

Jogging!!!
Faint
Gudmorin

Cookie said...

Forget my Wig ke???

Mine is very big, so when it's not on my head, I know something is missing!!! Loooool

Pipi Lee said...

Received both hailings and kisses.

STARRY LARRY said...

Right beside you




*Larry was here*

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Chai baroness x I don't pray to be in your shoes,but you can stylishly tell her you are planning a trip so she can start thinking of her own trip back home.My Mil doesn't like to travel,she and bakery are 5&6.

Lady Bug said...

It only shows you are dirty,change your panties and have a good personal hygiene!

ola wealth said...

''meet my mama.She is so clingy and has her eyes all over my business'' and his friend replied ''I can teach you how to get her off your back'' ..I FROZE...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Good morning stellz.. You boy na big boy oo.
If na my mama "left hand slap fall on me"

Pipi Lee said...

Hian!
Finger size? Congrats in advance...hehehehe. Locate a jewelry shop, let the professionals do the measurement. Or DIY with thread, I guess

Kamikaze said...

Jeez!
".....sheathing out your flesh and blood?

Sheathing out your what?What is even sheathing out?
Like seriously?????

Lmao!
Shoekuma fall on me and pierce my feelings biko

STARRY LARRY said...

The most annoying part of it is how everywhere turned to mud, no where to dry your washed clothes as well




*Larry was here*

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

πŸ™‹πŸ™‹

Frequency Unlimited said...

Present πŸ™‹

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Morning sharon

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Morning Ed

Lady j said...

Meeen...na now I dey open eyes, hubby nearly finished me last night,I never see man wey go dey do,30,minutes him never cum, e go put u for different positions,bless me for being slim,to think DAT I initiated it ooh,I dey speak Latin oooh,later na me come dey beg cos my Toto come dey hot..now I be like who trailer pass..abeg I wan go resume sleep.

SDK a big congrat on your blue eyes graduation, may celebration not cease in your household.

Lastly my Catholics bv and those DAT are not Catholics pls come and teach me how to use d novena ooh cos I downloaded it yesterday BT I don't know which to use ooh and how to use it cos I saw different novennas inside d one I downloaded.
God bless u all...

Olivia Silk said...

I don't understand wigs.
I don't have any.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

How are you feeling??

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Olivia welcome to the club. Bloggie said we should get at least one

Olivia Silk said...

They might not even be laughing at you.
Your esteem issues needs to be worked on.
Back in school, during lectures if I look at anybody I start laughing or giggling. My course mates knew me. So whenever my eyes cross with any body we just burst into laugh.
That became a way to relieve stress during long boring lectures.

Are you a guy or a girl?
Are your eyebrows funny?
Does your foundation match your face?
Do you do funny hairstyles?
Or weird lipstick colors?

Cuz amma laugh if I were your coursemate.

Sorry. Ignore them and make your own friends and stop being weird.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

I love prison break.

Anonymous said...

Hi people so I ranted yesterday and got some responses. Thank you guys but I still have somethings to say. First I want to say to the person who said that old age is not a crime, I totally agree with you. I shouldn't have used that but I was really vexed. I want to live a very long life heck there is longevity in my family I guess due to their kindness my mom’s side that is. Zik of Africa said anyone that despises old age will never live to be old. Why then should I despise old age?

An apple doesn't fall far from the tree you know. I am a very kind and helpful person even though I say so myself. I have had my own share of people using my head. If I say some, some people will cuss me out here but I had to caution myself. Now I know when to say yes and when to say no because it won't kill anybody. Why say yes and carry a heavy load heavy enough to break your neck.

What the woman did if it is good in the eyes of God then may my breakthrough as Eka put it tarry till when it suits the Lord. Not to brag but any one man business job interview I go for I always get but I have come to a stage where I can tell that a job won't give me joy and I decline the offer. I want stability and peace of mind even if the salary is not much. I am not at that desperate point yet. Hopefully I will never be though I wish I could help out a lot more. She took advantage of my mom’s kindheartedness because she knows my mom will be in a tight corner and not know what to say but it is all good. God should sha bless my mother.

People care about their immediate gain and don't think of other people. Its been years many waters have passed under the bridge for you to say you came to just eat, sleep, bath , lounge et al till the actual day of whatever your mission is with another adult in a struggling woman's house without prior notice or permission.

I will rest my case. This will never be ok anyhow it is viewed. My prayer now is for Friday to come faster what am I saying? I know it is till Sunday. It is well. This too shall pass….. End of rant till I come for thanksgiving. πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Feeling better @Simi. Thanks.

Larry, I tire for the rain

Olivia Silk said...

I really want to travel with my friends this year.
We talked about it last 2 months but I don't know if they are actually really planning towards it or not.

lizyyaminu said...

Morning everyone.being a mum ain't easy God ur grace is all I need...how do I corect my child witout beating

Em jay said...

Mc pinky i have been here naa.

Em jay said...

*a wig lover...

Ed said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@Lady bug....😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘@All

STARRY LARRY said...

Your self confidence is still low, you can only kill them with your 'I don't care attitude', walk with confidence amidst them, you can even fake a call and be laughing very loud while walking out of them. I had some group of girls who did the same to me while I was in school, a family friend was even among them, we came to the school same day, but she later joined their clue. I don't look at their side at all, I'm independent and doesn't need anything from them. But at the end of every thing, they had a serious fight, chasing themselves with knives and threatening themselves with cultists. At the end, I became the champion that they later came to beg me and settle the grudges, I asked them what the problem was, but they couldn't give any genuine reason.

So you make your enemies jealous and sad when you're happy, always be happy and let your self confidence be strong, you will win over them




*Larry was here*

Olivia Silk said...

Invest in a good hair removal cream please.
Or next time moisturise the area before using your shaving stick. Use coconut oil from Lucille or Shea butter.
And don't shave dry.
Always use a new shaving stick. Buy a good pack of razors.

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

I hate cold too

@swaggy hope u are better?

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

@bee10 hello
@Ed morning dear😘😘
@pipi Lee you're welcome dear
@lady bug you're welcomeπŸ˜€
@sharon morning

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Lady bug, where did you get that boil and dirty thing from? Please do your research.

STARRY LARRY said...

Wig Keh,i have none




*Larry was here*

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Proposal on the way.

Babe, there's a way it's measured but my brain dey om break now.

Buy aboki ring take measure.

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Be focused and develop ur brain very well.

Try ur best to put in more efforts in ur academics. Be the guru in d class, come out wt good grades




Then u will see them wanting to be friends with you

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Morning kidjo. Mowa pa. Awayu? You dey try for the yorubaπŸ˜€. Enjoy your day

Adeniji Bisi said...

Woman bug...if I slap u ehn...ur life wl Neva remain d same




MC pinky

Kamikaze said...

Where is Pipi Lee's boxing gloves?Anthony Joshua better make way.Someone greater's coming.

Anon the power those mean girls have over you is how intimidated they know you feel.That's what bullies strive on.
Pretend you don't see them.After a while you wouldn't even notice they exist.Once they see your disinterest, the game would become boring and they would move on to a new toy.

Alternatively(tongue-in-cheek),waylay the weakest in a lonely place,beat her up well well,make her eat sand and take a picture.The tables might turn and you would be the one laughing when you see them.

Lmao!
I really don't mean that.

How about you meet one of those huge nice but bad boys and tell him this?It could work but there might be consequences.....hmmmm

I know everybody will tell you to 'pick up your self-esteem' like it's yesterday's garment you dropped in the laundry basket.It's a psychological thing and could take years and therapy and maybe even an epiphany. But don't worry.Even the most self confident,have-got-everything-going human-gods have had moments of self-doubt too.

Adios!
Brain aches from my plenty 'blahing'.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Congrats

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Try and improve on your personal hygiene. Do away with your old panties and stop using shaving sticks.
Your skin might be allergic to the shaving stick, try shaving cream and use the plastic that comes with it to remove your hair or just wash it off with warm water. Use Vaseline, Shea butter or kenacomb cream.

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

We had aerobics last Friday at my work place


Teachers were made to jog with their pupils Choi, come and see those heavy duty colleagues of mineπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ we d young ones had a good laugh

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Congrats
.thank God for u. I pray those looking for this same type of testimony get to testify too in Jesus name

Anonymous said...

Lol. I was expecting that lady bug. No! I'm not dirty,I have ocd. Lil tin irritates me,if u are not a neat freak I can't be around you. That's how neat I keep myself. D boil started a few days back after using shaving stick for d 2nd time in a row cos I've not gotten my shaving cream. So sis,don't even go dere cos u no reach me for cleanliness ataaalll sef.

Adeniji Bisi said...

Lady bug...MBA...I disagree with u..so,u mean she is dirty dats y d tin catch her for oju ara?

That's not true my dear,so many factors can cause dat ok


Pls,stop using d shaving stick and even though u tend using cream like very,make sure u don't apply into ur Oju ara cuz d tin get side effect.


Better still, apply mentholated cream after d use of d shaving stick


MC pinky

Kiks said...

To the girl being laughed at, success! You need to succeed that will shut the fools up. Don't join another group hotter than them like someone said. That is like seeking validation elsewhere and you don't need that. Will you keep changing groups like that when your new group feel you are not up to their standard anymore? Maybe something you should do is when passing them and they laugh, walk a little past them, do a reverse and come back with a stern voice and say "girls you need to grow up" and leave immediately. I think that will shock them because they won't expect it from you. Don't struggle to outdo them say in your manner of dressing just be neat and manage what you have. My cousin was in Unilag and I went to visit her. First question I asked was "how do you cope?" You need to have seen those Unilag babes. What she told me was that she doesn't look at anybody. These days I bet some of those power dressers can't match her. Don't report to the HOD you are not in secondary school but don't get confrontational with them. Physically or verbally none whatsoever except for the one sentence up there. If your liver no carry am please forget it sef. Just pretend they don't exist. Some of these girls are witches with no home training they bring their frustrations with them from home to school and mask it with false confidence while bullying others their insecurities are there eating them away. Iranu! I wish someone had tried that with me but question is where would they have started from. πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

When i get married,i don't wish to ve a husband like dat,who can go dat long,sex is not food biko.

I don't hate sex but when it takes more Dan 15mins it becomes boring. Na so I take meet one guy,dis guy can go like 2hrs eachtime he takes alcoholic drink without cuming,he likes sex like mad! He doesn't mind having it morning,afternoon n night and he wanted to marry me oo,I picked race. I can't ooo. He's looking for someone to kill.

amanda favour said...

Lol 😁,I hate wigs eeh...
My hair biko or I braid or crotchet . I rarely fix weaves

Say no to bullies said...

Olivia your birthday post one time bvs yabbed u Ezenwanyi took u to d cleaners one time like that, it wasn't ok to me how come it is now ok for her coursemates to laugh at her for those reasons u wrote up thereπŸ‘†? Or for any reason at all.

amanda favour said...

Nice one 😊 Isaacson
Good to see you're adapting
Stella your boys are turning into men oh....hehehe please give them Space,don't be clingy. Good morning 😊 everyone

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

I dunno why us women cant sometimes ignore these men especially when they act stupid. You officially 'break up' with a guy who has been stringing you on for years and the guy is sucking up to your family. And making your fam feel you're the one who has a problem. And you still want to call him to have a talk. Talk about what? That he doesn't know what he is doing or that what he is doing isn't bad enough? Now you're saying it isn't giving you peace. And you need to call him to trash it out. How??

Oh God!!! Why do we let men issues give us so much unrest? WHY??!! That's why one person would sit down and write something and say its Joyce Meyer and expect all of us to follow as if soemone cant live life without putting a man at the center.

Just use phone call ruin my better sleep!!

amanda favour said...

I receive the hailings and kisses πŸ’‹ too

amanda favour said...

Congrats 😀

amanda favour said...

Good morning 😊 Kris

LUCILE COCONUT OIL, CARROT OIL AND BLACK SOAP ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh,Stella,all those you wrote up there is so emotional.God bless your home
Happy weekend all,10 days in suncity movie on my mind

amanda favour said...

I thought you're a Winner oh..
Please don't make the single and celibate ones jealous with your gbenshing gists oh...hehehe

Greatlady. said...

It is not poetry ma'am. I don't do poetry. It is a short piece written from inspiration from that song. I wrote what I feel from the inside.
Try and understand the words. You may have to understand what the writer feels at the moment of writing the piece. ThanksπŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Madam, note that anyhow you state your issues (esp family issues) on this blog someone will always twist it and make it look like you're the bad person - seeking loopholes. Me i cant sha slave for any relative/visitor in the name of hospitality cos none of them are God who hold my blessing. Na them pay my fees? As i haven't slaved for anyone has my life stopped? Abeg don't give in to mind games.

If you were living in some countries someone dare not come and sit in your house for weeks on end without reason, adding to your bills and eating free food. I get the part about parents kind heartedness being taken for granted but as children if you don't stand up to it, it won't end. So better get a job fast so you can talk to you mother to stop this mother Theresa moves. If she collapses out of exhaustion now those people would leave you there with her. Nigeria is stressful enough abeg. I don't know about you oh but we warned my parents about the live in relatives. They were doing strong head but after a month of low food and electricity consumption in a less crowded house, no be person tell them. Human beings that won't allow people enjoy their older age in peace *hiss*

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Congrats

Greatlady. said...

And no, I didn't mean music is cool. The words I wrote up there are more than the one line you deduced from the write up. You may have to read in between the line to understand that I mean 'sometimes, when the heart is troubled and your emotions are in rage, music comes to help as a way to calm you'
Pls read in between the line again.

Thanks for your criticism.

Greatlady. said...

Congrats dear

olaedo said...

Good morning this beautiful morning.
Why do people steal even in church?
One stupid guy asked me yesterday"so you have not retired from choir".
This is a guy who had a fatal accident last year and even killed someone, yet he had the gut to ask such a silly question.
My God Will answer him.
Have a splendid weekend.

Lady Bug said...

Good one, at least people weh know you from the picture you displayed go no say your hubby knack your ponyor this morning,and that your hubby na late cum hereπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Measure your finger with a measuring tape or better still, go to any jewelry selling shop and act like you're getting a ring, try a ring on and then ask the size of the ring that suits your ring finger.

Congratulations in advance.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Congratulations.

Ed said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@buy Aboki ring

Cookie said...

Congrats dear

Cookie said...

Lmaoooooooooo @Pipilee and Swaggie, no be proposal oooooooo!!!

Swaggie, it seems all these Abokis are on strike, can't seem to find anyone around jare.... Hope you're better now babygirl?? 😘😘😘😘😘😘

Anonymous said...

Stella I don't know where this fits in but I have a confession (really don't know what to call it sha but I choose to say "confession")
Its about how I got to know you Stella and how I became addicted to your blog. Don't know if someone can learn one or two things from it.
I got to hear about you when you had a beef with one other blog(don't know if am permitted to write this)
I used to visit that blog then and I heard so many stories about you(kind of bullying story).
One day I decided that I wanted to even know who this Stella dimoko is,let me see her face. And then I googled her, when I saw the face, I felt" kai her face looks strong, she must be a very wicked person, she's not looking as cool as the other person, she must be troublesome "
Latter I decided " let even check that her blog self and see the stuffs she has there. I googled your blog Stella that was the end, I fell in love immediately, even with just seeing little stuff and then when I began to follow and I saw the real person you are,OMG, I fell and since then no going back. I wouldn't lie to you, I have nothing to gain from lying.
Since that time till date I never find the pleasure in visiting the other blog,it became boring to me,its over a year now and have been stocked to your blog.
This incident taught me 2 great lessons that has been guiding me, it has changed my orientation about people and it has helped my judgement and relationship with people.
*there's more to people than what meets the eye
*don't judge a book by its cover , I got the real meaning of this saying
Don't relate with people based on what you hear about them.
I was just reminiscing and just thought "wao! Its been over a year on SDK and each day comes with a lesson, experience and what have you.
Thanks SDK for being you.
I love your kind of person, you're real. Have learnt a lot from you and still learning.
Thanks

Pipi Lee said...

Lmaoooooooo
I'm ready!
Who wants to try the Undefeated Titan today?
*jumps, fist pump and sway, boxing style*

Pipi Lee said...

See it's normal to form cliques and make jest of people, you see something funny and laugh with your friends. Everybody is guilty of this act. But when you pick on a particular person and do the same thing everyday, you do not go close to the person, no conversation, even 'Hi' or 'Hello', this is abnormal. That person is a sick bully.

Fuck you said...

Beat them or u pour shit on them...u don't have to befriend anybody to have good self esteem...be on ur own and deal with them...be a one man mopol

Sharon Aminu said...

Congrats dear

Sharon Aminu said...

Tanks😘😘😘😘

Pipi Lee said...

Awwwwww...such a nice confession /testimony.
Stella is a good stockist.

Lady Bug said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@anony,okay change your shaving stick.
@lafresh😁😁, research mode activated!

Lady Bug said...

Congratulations!

Anonymous said...

Say no to bullies,is she the same Olivia that sent birthday pic of her wearing contact lens?

jelly said...

Your story almost like mine, from another blog i found myself here oo till date no better blog than sdk.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Ehn? You say???
You got no wig ke?

I have short and long of different textures, different type of wigs.
I go with whichever Lenght that suits me on each day.

If you no get at least one bad ass wig, you are on a longggggg thing.

Wigs are life savers.
Easy transformation from bland to glam.
Swaggie, you got one now?
Ensure you do.

Right now I am rocking my braid wig. Very light in weight
Feeling extra sexy...πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‹

And you know the best part? I slay out there and back to 'housegirl mode' once I get home as I fling the wig one side while my scalp breathes as hair is in Conrow steady. Better breeze go just de blow the thing.😁





PRISCABABE said...

Happy Saturday Bvs.

Olivia Silk said...

Lol.
Are you the poster? Kpele.
Ezenwanyi sent me to the cleaners bah? Okay oo
But at least my esteem was high enough to blast her back.
Just mere laughing at you and you are bleating everywhere? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Anon 12:27 Yes it's the same Olivia with the contact lens on the birthday post of 4 years ago.
You want to continue the insults?
Go on darling.
Since you are an old BV you should know I no be fele fele pelzin.
Just always make sure you tag me. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Pipilee I am not supporting the "supposed bullies " but you shouldn't believe anything anybody writes on this blog.
Same people come here and insult and bully people just cuz it's online abi?
Now this is the real life. And she/he is already depressed by laughter? But it's okay to be an online bully?
Both have same effects on the victim.

The worst part of it all is that the girls might not even be laughing at her/him.

#Saynotoonline/reallifebullies

Anonymous said...

Instead of making wrong assumptions, you should have simply asked her what she meant.
You feel you know too much, which one have you written? ITK

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Chikito, God bless you for this 2nd paragraph. It's like you knew my conversation with my mum this morning.

Imagine my cousin came since last month and she's still there. She just finished WAEC and mumsie was telling me she said she's leaving January. I asked her if the mama brought feeding money. She said we take things too serious.

She go sha pursue herself. My mum dey travel next week to come back september. I trust my senior cousin and stinginess. When she no see 3square meals she go run back.

AbaMade said...

*We women* not *us*

AbaMade said...

Many likes. Stella that your throwback reminded me of one of mine.I took it with my friend whose name is Stella too, setting was our annual interhouse sports, you need to see us in that pics with our "swag" no go there oh.
My friend had begged me to destroy the pics but I refused she finally succeeded in stealing the pic but that was after I've scanned it and save in my cloud file.i sent her a copy, she just weak.they are memories of who we use to be and how far we've come.

AbaMade said...

Parents should teach their kids self esteem at early stage. This is for the one that said she feels threatened by her coursemates.
At an early age my father thought us that the only obligation we owe our fellow man is respect. He told us not to fear anybody but rather respect them, they are two different things. He taught us in both actions and word.
In pri4 i had my first taste of bullying but I stood my ground, I wasn't afraid. They tried everything yet I resisted them. Their leader was a girl called Queen and she was acting out her name, she will make them give up their lunch take their money and other stuff.all because they want to belong in her clique.
I had just one friend and we try hard not to get in their way, but they always come after us because we won't "bow" to her.
One day at our break period, my friend and I was playing suwe in our little corner oh when one of her subject walked up to us and said the queen commands that we give up our spot that she wants to use it.i told her to go back to her "Queen" and tell her to come and say it to my face herself, even though my heart was pounding like mad. My friend said I should take back my words and just give up the spot that we can find another but i refused. The Queen was mad, she came with her entourage, she ordered them to beat us up, I tried to fight them even though we were outnumbered. Then some pupil started calling the attention of a teacher in sight so we broke up the fight.I challenged her, called her a coward, I told her if she is not afraid she should come let's fight one on one not sending her goons.so it was agreed that it will be settled with a fight after school.as the coward that she truly was, she nominated someone else in her place.i beat the girl, that the scar I gave her stayed till we left PRI sch. The funny thing was that the queen was not there when her throne was taken. Before the fight started, her people came to pick her so it was the next day that she heard the news. After that day people stopped following her, she lost her respect she was human after all. I became the reigning belle the position I held till we graduated but my reign was fair at least I didn't go about collecting peoples lunch. she on the other hand became no one it was just one of the girls that stocked with her afterwards.

So, am telling you that the only way you can fight off those horrible feelings you have is to build your self confidence because the only one who can make you feel less about yourself is you.
No one here can help you if you don't know that about yourself.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

@abamade read poetry too. Thanks

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