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Friday, 4 August 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

Hmmmm....A lot of Ladies now have this problem!







STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

UNABLE TO MARRY

My cousin is 30 and believing God for a husband. However,she doesn't have any boyfriend nor suitor at the moment and has never had any serious person around her, just hello, hi guys.

There is a twist in this whole problem;she believes it's not ordinary as she is always eating in the dream and having unsettling nightmares.

A Lady she met in Church told her to come for deliverance in one private Ministry, but she is afraid, telling me she doesn't know where they got their powers from and wouldn't want to compound her problems‎.

We have all been praying for years now and it seems as if nothing is happening for her‎.
How else do we go about this? Your advice and that of BV's is very much welcome.
Thank you


109 comments:

Miss Ess said...

It is well

Anonymous said...

Which one is private ministry?

Rocky said...

Not everyone will get married but even if she's not part of those people that won't get married, everything isn't spiritual.

She should improve on herself

Lipstickalley said...

Why all the commotion @ 30, there is absolutely nothing wrong with her.

If she's eating in her dream, she probably goes to bed hungry.

Don't fix it, if its not broken

Leave her alone, a good man will find her

AGELESS T said...

She can't fight that battle alone o. However, caution is key..

Let her pray sha.

Anonymous said...

most of them are being too picky, they see guys but shrug their nose sayin "hes not my spec" or "no money, no passion"....

Fan Emmanuel said...

I don't see the need to be running around at 30, I believe once she's not sleeping with someone's husband the right man will come before the time of gwemz

Anonymous said...

No need to be desperate about marriage, its not for everyone.
She should find things that interest her and engage in it.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Let the comments roll in...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Her spiritual husband and children don't want her to get delivered!,..
They have blocked her ears so she won't be free from them!...
You people need to drag her for a serious deliverance!,..
Or else,she will end up a frustrated gwegz!...
Infact,she need to give her life to Christ totally cos her own ogbanje strong!!...

Anonymous said...

I used to think I had spiritual problems till I relaxed and met my fiance, sometimes we worry over nothing but be prayerful

Anonymous said...

I have that same problem and in my case, I have a boyfriend, serious and all but he has just refused to propose! I really don't know what to do. I don't want to go a place where my problems will be compounded. I just believe God and pray as much as I can for mercy. I am 28 and I dread to be single at 30. God help us.

Blackberry said...

Husband ultimate search....

sexy Daddy said...

Poster,there is nothing wrong with your cousin! Advice her to loosen up in her attitude.First of all every man knows what he wants in a woman.

Does your sister package herself well?,does she wear face of smiles?,does she have bad character like unforgiving spirit? does she get jealous when she sees married couples? Does she select husbands base on their bank account?If she has all these things relax she go marry soon!

What I have listed above have continue to be a blockade to many young ladies of meeting their rightful spouses. Let me stop here.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Your cousin is just thirty, so she should not over worked herself because she's not getting suitors yet.

Please, tell your cousin not to go for any private deliverance! She should not search for problems with her hands. Many women her age who go for such deliverance never remain the same, things go from good to worse.

She just need to up her game a little. You did not mention if she is a social person, if she has friends or belong to any church group.

Tell your cousin to loosen up a bit, she should try and socialize with other people, go for movies, attend church activities (not only Sunday serves).
She should open up to her friends (many young women have become hypocrites, claiming they don't want men whereas, its all they cry for in their hearts), there's no shame in wanting to be married, a friend or colleague can connect her to other people etc...

She should be confident in herself.

Anonymous said...

hmmmm. @poster, are u sure ur not the one?
She should go 4 deliverance ASAP, that her spirit husband is seriously using her destiny to play yo-yo. The only thing she should be afraid of is clicking 50 & no husband in sight. Deliverance don't require anything fetish, so no need to fear.

Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady said...

God will perfect everything in its own time

Uriel (Freshdew) said...
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Anonymous said...

Even the ones that are sleeping with more than three married men are being proposed to and getting married and are still seeing their ex married lovers. Biko, what will be will be even if it is 80yrs, one day she will get married. Stop calling single ladies that are unfortunate to get married yet gwez.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Just keep a positive attitude, your testimony is on the way.

Anonymous said...

I have to go anonymous on this,she is 30 and worried,am 34 no bf, no suitor,no job,no fund to start up anything,no friends,not up to 5k in my account,no hope,just putting my hope on God.I loose hope sometimes but sometimes encourages myself and rely on God. Tell ur cousin all hope is not lost.bv faith.Es

Anonymous said...

At 30 I guess she should ask herself why? Don't think it's spiritual like people are always associating dating and marriage issues to spiritual. It could simply be the right person has not showed up; She needs to work on her appearance, Her attitude towards guys; How outgoing is she. If she is not visiting places she can meet men then there are so many dating sites that she can meet people. And also learn to relate and make conversation cause if she is too quiet and keeps to herself it could be a turnoff also. Help your cousin do a little self assessment and evaluation then you might just see what the problem is.

SDK's FIRST DAUGHTER (GIFT E) said...

Blocked ears kwa,lol.She has spiritual hubby sha.

Chike TEFLON said...

Contact Queen and Boss aka CHIEF for pigeon and
Yori Yori princess to take her to her bishop... Lol


Advice: I'm not a fan of prophecy... Tell her to go down on her knees and cry to God. Let her pour out her heart desires to Him and watch God do His miracle.

Blessing Anyebe said...

She should pray. There is nothing too hard for God to do.

Lipstickalley said...

Help me tell them Mrs R.....iyanga dey sleep trouble go wake am

Candid BFL said...

Nooo....if her spirit is having doubts about the ministry already no need...at this point she needs God the most...most especially about eating in dreams...personal salvation...She should figure out the negatives in her and work on them....then again self esteem please don't act like your life depends on a man.....

Jasmine said...

If she wants prayers, she should do it herself. I'm not against going for prayers o but like she said, she doesn't know where the powers came from.


Let her pray her problems out

Madam Small Chops said...

I don't carry marriage matter for head so it beats me when a lady worry so much about getting married.The one I don't understand is a lady that is ready to settle down with just any guy becos she feels age is not on her side hian.Biko why wait long and be with just anybody? Know your worth woman!

Marriage is good and will happen if it's destined to happen so why don't you just enjoy your single hood wether it happens or not.There is more to life than just being married!!!
-If you are not fulfilled as a single,marriage won't make you fulfilled
-Spend your single hood working on yourself to become the mother/wife your kids/hubby will be proud of.
-Spend your single hood blessing your generation
-Spend your single hood serving God.

My dear,tell her to stop wearing a long face and face life becos worrying about a husband won't bring one along.She should exhale and live one day at a time.

Well everyone can't reason like me but its ok to be different and I'm happy to be different."

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

About opening up.... if you open up and there's an existing issue you still won't get hooked up. When people see certain qualities, referrals will come when you're not asking. Both my sisters got married based on referral, and they didn't ask. Infact most people I know would have a referral story to tell on the hen night. I think opening up to people about how she feels might be misinterpreted for desperation, if listeners don't understand. So its dicy.

LOLO IDEATO said...

Eating in the dream is more spiritual than your naked eyes can see or than what you think!

Anonymous said...

Nothing is more apaualing to a man as bad character

trish said...

Get yourself busy joor.u are only 30,u dey complain..mtcheww.package welwel,be goin out,places,i mean good places oo not cherewereh o.where guyz hang out,even club sef..u go see guyz tire,at a time,u won't know who to choose..Nigerians sha.tell God what u want Shikena..Nothing is wrong with u,when u jam bobo,aah no b person go tel u..WIPE YOUR TEARS GIRL N MOVE FORWARD.

Anonymous said...

Its the spiritual that control the physical
She should fast and pray on her own and live holy if she has doubt about the ministry or go to closest mfm for their weekly deliverance
Eating in the dream is very bad its a sign the enemies want to poison your spiritual life or afflict you with sickness. Deal with it seriously
With Jesus victories is sure


Tiwa

Pharaoh D 7th said...

The first thing wrong with your cousin is her being worried at all. 30 is a sweet youthful age. Guys can detect a desperate lady from a mile a way and they keep off such ladies. If she sees every man that smiles or even just look her way as a potential husband mentally, she is desperate and it will scare guys.

take these tips :

1. Dress decently (don't flaunt cleavage - it will attract guys for the wrong reason)
2. Be a worker in your church
3. When you attend parties make conversations. Have a good laugh.
4. When in a professional gathering complement single guys who contribute intelligently to the discourse (use words like, "I like the insight you brought to the subject" and conversation can continue from there.)
5. Above all, believe in yourself that you are complete in all ramification and your man is out there looking for you.

I have a post on how women can make the first move. one of these days I will repost it.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

As a single girl all I can say is your outlook on life and how you handle challenges, really matters in this man matter. If your cousin had bad dreams why is she too afraid to face and deal with them? Is that the attitude she adopts in other areas of her life? Too afraid to face fears or fight back?
Please let her go for prayers, if she doesn't trust one person's spiritual leadership she can trust another's. In the place of prayer, alot can be revealed. Even if its her mode of dressing that's chasing them away πŸ˜‚
What me I sha know is that, if you keep doing something a certain way and you dont see results its Time to change. That change is what a lot of people can't deal with and they enviously attack those who effect change in their lives. They stay stuck in their ways (daily and psychological) and complain when they don't see growth/progress. Everyones journey is different -yes, but how many people know theirs?
Also, if she's in a toxic environment let her move out, cos that affects the mindset as well. Let her also take a personality test and know her temperament - it's strength, weaknesses and expectations. That's more like self assessment to enable her with with the way she handles general life and man issues. I feel for her sha.... but 30 (to me) isnt worrisome. Let no one deceive you there are very single never-been-married-before men in their late 30s and even 40s who are also looking forward to settling down with the right person (E.g banky before susu and don jazzy). Leave this self-recommended marriage timeline, calm down and deal with fundamental issues. So that when you eventually marry you will stay married.

Kay said...

I'm 34.
Fine
Good sense of humour and very well spoken
Reasonable income and I hardly have to even leave the house to make money as I deliberately built my business to run without me to be able to focus on my home. ( na the home I still de wait )

Some say I'm too selective but heaven knows I'm not. I can't settle with just any one and come and go and be crying in husbands house.

Considered having one or two kids and raise them myself. ( my liver no carry am )

Do I think anything is wrong with me? Honestly? Sometimes I worry, but I encourage myself in Gods promises.

All will end well

Any responsible single man abeg contact Stella to contact me. I live in Lagos and I'm from Edo state.

Age. 37-45
Christian
Decent source of income

Sharon Aminu said...

Lols
She should go mercy land
Or favour palace
Or liberation
Etc

Kay said...

Thank you o.

Na wa for spirit husband story oo.

Kay said...

Hahahaha.

Don't dread 30. It's not that terrible.

But I remembered I cried almost throughout my 30th birthday. Lol

Anonymous said...

@15:12 same thin with me will be 35 by next month.I just pray God put a smile on our faces this year.we will be fine. Nothing is impossible for him to do.

Anonymous said...

Its not getting married that's the problem, but marry right.

The Lifted said...

As long as she's eating in dreams & having other kinda not so good dream then her situation is definitely spiritual.
Me I'm 26yrs ,I get seduced often,& even sex in dreams, I have met a very powerful catholic priest & a living faith pastor for cancelling & deliverance, we have been praying, the two pastors said its either spirit husband or the kinda personalities I have had sex with in the past that's causing me such & even family idols & they advised I abstain from sex totally ,& also keep praying that they see me getting married bla bla ,well I believe in miracles, so we keep praying just believe & the yoke will be broken
The hard part now is I can't just stop having sex with my current bf , although he's not staying in the country,he comes like twice a year & we must gbensh anytime he's around, I even told my pastor abt him,he just advised I should try my best, & he's even praying we both get married..Lil
Abstinence isn't easy joor, I avoid all my other toasters just to avoid temptation.
Poster it is well,make sure u have a regular pastor/partner in prayer who knows ur secrets, who u subscribe to in terms of prayer ,worship & seeds regularly ,a true man of God, & the yoke shall be broken in Jesus name.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

I see some of you taking eating in the dreams lightly!...
Anybody that eats in the dream don't move forward especially financially!!...
Your life will be very stagnant that commiting suicide will be the only thing in your thought!...
You people should stop living in ignorance!...
This life is too deep!...

Hahahahahahahah at Chike,what's up bro?

Anonymous said...

Most times we struggle with things that are more than us. Don't go to any private ministry, go to MFM and go through the 7 days deliverance starting every monday to sunday. Believe and pray then you will see result. What you are fighting is more than you. My 2 penny. Lol

Anonymous said...

We need to understand something here first of all.... Truth be told... Marriage ISN'T for everybody.
Some ppl might call me names for coming out straight to say this but this is just be bitter truth. I'm not saying you shouldn't keep the hope alive, but live your life to the fullest while ure at it.
If it's gonna happen it will happen.
Cheers!!!

Anonymous said...

Not always true.

Amacastel said...

Anons 15.18 you said it all, cos I don't see any big deal on this husband person matter.

BLESSED ONE said...

Dreams are revelation about things that happen in the spiritual realm which controls the physical. My dreams always have meanings and I never took them lightly. Once I have a dream, I get up immediately and pray. Sometimes, I follow up with prayer and fasting.
Going for deliverance is very dicey, I would rather go to a prayer mountain, except if I connect with the man of God spiritually.
She should just keep praying. My friend met her hubby in 2016 and they got married 2016, although he was an old friends that resurfaced.
I don't know why she is bothered. I as a person, in as much as I will love to marry, I am not scared of being single. If I meet a man who is worth it, I will marry him. If I don't meet one, I am not scared of being single.

Anonymous said...

What is happening to some girls of today? Crying for not being married @ 30? C'mon, marriage is beautiful but it's not the be all and end all of life.

Divine favour said...

Thirty is not bad an age for someone to be married. However, if your thirty years and no glimpse of suitor or serious relationship, it calls for worries. Its natural. But my advise here is to first of all treat the underlying factor which is Jesus Christ. Bible says "see yes first the kingdom of God and other things shall be added unto you. If you don't know this Jesus who is the author and finisher of our faith, no amount of deliverance will work for you Bcos in him there is deliverance. Rev12:11 says" and we over came him by the blood of the lamb and the words of our testimony" I pray the holy spirit will interprete there scriptures to you. My dear if you study and know what the word of God says about you, you will use the word to deliver yourself. Christ is our deliverer, in him live, you move and have your being. Just focus on God, He is able to make things beautiful for you at his own time. Don't go to anywhere and make your problems complex. Run to God and he will run to you, He is ever ready, ever loving, ever faithful. His time is the best! No human can do His work in your life. God bless you. Don't give up!

Intelligentsia princess said...

Pharaoh D, you be correct guy.

Anonymous said...

Not true, they say I don't offend them,yet they walk away with no reason, nvr been picky or anything. Just the regular girl,no long throat, so I don't agree on ur theory,my is spiritual, am 36 no kids no mony, even d biz is a struggle,av to finish spending the one I have before anoda enter. Everybody sees me and thinks all is well. Have been seriously fighting the urge to drink sniper. Becos I want to rest. This world have been unfair to me. Even betrayed by ur loved onces(hurts badly). Kilo ku,abi make person go,and one less depressed in d world

Anonymous said...

Let her go for deliverance. It's not ordinary. I am not even up to 30 yet and I have gone for deliverance at a Celestial church twice. Omo, the whipping no be here, the first one with broom, the second with palm fronds, neither is better than the other. Wore wedding gowns on both occasions. I was caught unawares sef because if the possessed person is aware, it will not work out. Something bad might happen to those that want to deliver him/her. The first one was at the river, the second one at the sea.

It's so bad that I have been told several times I can't live long yada yada. I don't even celebrate birthdays. My parents told me I told them when I was still little that the day they throw a birthday celebration for me is when I will return. That's when they knew they were dealing with a possessed child. They said I am a good one, that's why I have resisted going back. Those forces are real o. They really troubled me during my childhood. The midnight seizures and all. The spirit hubby used to ogle me when i was still a kid then graduated to having sex with me when I became older. Comes in form of familiar male friends. I don born two for am sef πŸ˜‚, painless delivery in dreams. A drunk once saw me and asked after my two kids.

Whenever old people pray for me, it's always for longevity. My ogbanje be strong like that. I believe I have been delivered Sha because I no longer see my spirit husband or eat but enemies are still around which is normal because the girl's future is bright😎. I plan on going to MFM for another round of deliverance.

Things are happening o. You better believe πŸ˜‚. It's not funny but I have accepted my faith. I didn't ask to be created this way.
Don't waste time. Never too late to be saved!

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Please tell me in the Bible where Jesus used whip to fuse our demons? I'm curious

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

*chase out (not fuse our)

Anonymous said...

She shld better start going for deliverance bcos b4 u no it, she'll start clocking 35.i faced worse, no single graduate guys notices me and am petite and beautiful. This isn't abt not dressing well cos I dress well and do fine hairstyles. Only alcoholic, tout,and dose wayyyy below me notices me, SMH. I always dream of wearing my mom's wedding gown, black wedding gown, wedding holding but later scattered, no job. Went to herbalist after visiting white garment churches, MFM but it seems all door has been closed. Later on, I decided only MFM but there was Dis pastor that prayed for me wen my mate a guy from d same university saw my suffering bcos hes already with his family , he took me to that pastor who sha prayed for me. I was thinking, Mtcheeew, ordinary prayer but wen I got home dat afternoon I slept and had a dream where God changed my torn cloth to white and told me to wear it and I woke up. After some days, my uncle said he has a guy for me who's 40yrs, I was like, I don't love Dis man jare wen we first met. He's not rich but focused, most of all, very gentle and easy going. I decided to sha try him. Wile dating him, I dreamt 3different times that he is my husband and everything played itself out as I dreamt den. We r clocking 2yrs soon, though, there might not be a car, fridge, or basic household gadgets/goodies of life, I thank God that am starting from d scratch with him from buying curtains even to pots but we r still believing God for serious financial upliftment. My 2nd baby is on d way and by d time we clock our 2nd anniversary, will be with 2children. I thank God for bearing kids cos I tot d devil will strike on dat after almost clocking 40yrs but God said no cos I kept myself for this marriage even though there were temptations here and there. Pls, there's no fast rule to this cos I later learnt to be very very prayerful during dose times on my own, no more pastors but was going for MFM deliverance. I thank God for everything cos Dis isn't abt being beautiful or dressing well, it takes Gods grace, I swear. If not that God used my uncle, I wldnt av been married. My mates don finish to dey born, the only ish in my marriage is money but I am optimistic that God will bless us tru dis baby in my womb. My story long we'll but baba God, I thank u......YANJU

Anonymous said...

I don't want to sound racist but mostly Africans and hungry Asians eat in their dreams. You can ass hungry eastern Europeans and south Americans and any other group of hungry folks out there. The reason is that hungry folks think about food and would easily east 5000 in a place like Mr Biggs if you let them.. gotta get out of here, little bit hungry

Anonymous said...

Must everything be spiritual??
SMH

Anonymous said...

Imma sit for this one.

Chike TEFLON said...

Adim oyi Agu nwanyi

Chike TEFLON said...

Ugegbe that dressing part is very important.. Even body size is necessary

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 15:21, 10 gbosas for you. I am 35, no relationship for almost 10yrs, underemployed, feeding from hand to mouth, resisting aristos, always praying for miracle to buy rent n clothes.. Boyfriend sef is not a priority anymore cos Naija men don wise, they don't date broke gals no more.

Anonymous said...

People that eat in the dream don't move forward especially financially??
Lol, I doubt so if not I'll be the worst pauper on planet earth.

oguike akudo said...

Lol@ going to bed hungry.

Anonymous said...

Lord Jesus!
Please who actually put the age limit for marriage in this country?
Poster are you worried about other things you haven't achieved at 30 or is it just being married?
Will you rather settle with just any man at 30 or focus on developing yourself and marry happily even at 40?
I don't get why women develop Bp once they clock 30. Like there's some kind of rule or something.
*Can you boast of at least 500k savings?
*Do you have a satisfying job?
*Can you independently provide for yourself at 30?

If no to all these questions please find yourself first, marriage is not ultimate.

Anonymous said...

Relax o don't be afriad, i am in my 35 this year I met my Mr right,the best man any woman wants, generous, rich, God fearing, understanding to a fault, don't be worried, just relax, but pray always , have a good character know your worth

Anonymous said...

Dear Chikito,

Your write-up is filled with knowledge. How can I type something else when you have said it all.

KING XOXO MYSTERY

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Pharoah D 7th πŸ‘πŸ‘

SANDY YO said...

I thought ayam d only one o! Going to see prophets upandan for prophecy isnt ma thing at all. Tooooor

Timaro said...

Lol
Don't I just love you fan Emmanuel.

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

@ Anonymous 16:58, you need serious deliverance. And am not joking. There is no where it is said that deliverance has to be by the river or you have to be whipped.
The Bible says that at the name of Jesus every knee should now and every tongue confess...
Pls go to MFM, or Dunamis International Gospel center. Or pray and ask the Lord where to go for prayers.

Anonymous said...

I don't know Chikito. My parents were desperate. Who wouldn't go to lengths when they know their daughter is possessed and might die young? Maybe you should ask the cele folks on the blog.

Anonymous said...

You girls are in your 30s and complaining. I'm in my 40s and I've given up. No relationship because i dont want to get into sexual relationships anymore. Three times i tried getting married but the man will just walk away only to come back and say he did not know what happened. I'm very comfortable. After giving up on marriage i decided maybe a child, no way. Mfm? There is no deliverance i hv not done. A man will always appear in my dreams or follow me up and down and only me will feel the presence. I can go on but what is the use? I just spend my remaining time helping ppl and wait for deliverance if God wills it or live a lonely life till my last days. I hv fought too much.

Anonymous said...

Pharaoh D:
Whether in church or not if you are not a worker in church for the right reason After a while your frustration will peep Through and that would only make the situation worst . The perfume of a desperate girl/guy in search of a spouse is chocking Also, most guys have woken up from thier slumbers they go to church to package themselves too.

Dress decently Period! because the bible say so and is the right thing to do. As Whether you show cleavage or not some guys will still see one fully clothed turtle neck join and already imagining naked and approach in a quest to fullly undress that person in 3D mode

So it really doesn't matter all you've listed. You don't have to put yourself "out there" so to speak. You can just be going about your activity and one will meet the one in Gods time.

How can she believe in herself if she doesn't believe in Gods plan for her

So my dear poster, Serve God wholeheartedly trust in him,live by his words don't cherry pick :) it will happen, in his time . No don't listen to those that say it isn't for everyone, as long as it's your heart desire and it's according to Gods will it will surely come.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

I have a cousin that had your mindset.

She was so desperate that she started having sex with her boyfriend thinking he doesn't want to propose because of no sex. Guess what?

She got pregnant few months after her 29th birthday. Bobo refused to be trapped, he accepted and left her. Today, she's 34 and a single mother.

Just live your life well and have fun. The right man will find you.

Anonymous said...

Stella please do an anonymous post on ladies and the spiritual houses they have gone for prayers

Anonymous said...

Fan there are times you need to use wisdom and keep quiet. Somethings are beyond human comprehension but you wont know dt. Not all umarried ladies are gwengs by their action. And married women do become widows too.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Omase!!!

Anonymous said...

Nothing wrong with having specification . People make it seem like a woman is doing everything wrong having a spec. Abeg.
Have you heard of guys specs some fairy tale shit. Ever heard of a guy that has no good looking female in his family mother included but once a girl that's 9/10 shiorrrrr why your mama no born am. And most times when they don't get thier spec they go for the next available but that's still not without doing their SWAT analysis to make sure such union favours them in the end. Selfish you ask me. So why then should a girl be less picky, is it your beans? Okay no, so face front.

Anonymous said...

Yes! Like me. It's not for me I have zero interest and I can stay without fornication thank God.

But with her, if it is her desire and it's according to Gods will he will grant her if she is focused on him.


Fan Emmanuel said...

Timaro I love you too..
Anonymous anugom ife ikwuru but I'm not the one who invented the language gwegz. Na here I learn am ooo

Anonymous said...

I need advice my lovely people. my husband will be joining me in feb/mar 2018. last we saw was feb this year.
we said while waiting on him to finalize his paperworks and all, maybe we shloud take vacation. The plan had been in effect. But my landlord said he would be increasing my rent from jan 2018, I thought, you know what, let me go look for another place. I have always had the dream of owning a home which I discussed with him when we were dating and he's been on board with it. so I have been saving from the little I get. I know he doesn't earn much back home, but he is hoping that once he gets here and starts working then he too would start saving. we had projected getting a place of our own end of next year. He had been trying to sell a few things to get ticket money for the vacation which he was able to come up with. so when this issue came up since Monday, I thought that we should just cancel the vacation and put the money he's been able to raise towards the savings while we can always take vacation when he's here. but he seems to really want this vacation, while I am looking at the bigger picture. I wanted the vacation too, but I want us to have a place of our own more esp since he hasn't even contributed to the savings at all. so please am I being selfish. He has said yes, but I know he's not happy, he just wants to please me.

Anonymous said...

So right chikito

Esther Mgbolu said...

Really lipsticklley???It is very spirituall and more

Anonymous said...

See this going out does not work like that. I have a colleague she's 32 this year she's always always going out because she's that desperate she said her 30 mustn't meet her single 2 years later still single and desperately searching even she's lost weight, still no husband.

Esther Mgbolu said...

Fan for your mind,so it's only those that didn't sleep with peoples husband that are married?hian the way you think attimes is baffling

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

@Chike i see @dressing.... vain man πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

@XOXO tainz mami πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹ oya you too write small nau 😁😁

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

I don't even want to smell food in my dream abeg. Not to talk of eating. Eating ke? If I even see myself on the dining table na deliverance straight

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Oh @ desperation. I see. Small small oh you hear?

Anonymous said...

Hey the lifted,

Pls abstain from sex like you've been told. if your boyf is that into you, yes it's hard but he will understand eventually and he will still stay by you. At the moment, I can not 100 percent guarantee you that he is even faithful while on your LDR but I doubt he is.
It isn't easy o it is hard very very hard and its only the grace of God that makes one overcome the urge not to fornicate. But I tell you, if you and your bf stop and walk this journey of denial together your union should it happen, will be blessed, be stronger and should trials and tribulations come, as they will you two will come out of it, because you have God as your foundation.

Esther Mgbolu said...

Please tell them ooo...i have said it here somany times that when you eat in the dream,you dont move forward financially,inshort any money you are expecting or bizness that will bring money that period you won't see shishi.Most especially,it's when you are expecting something big you start eating the food in the dream

Anonymous said...

Blessed one, do you go to prayer mountains? That's awesome . Where are you based? Looking for friends who can encourage each other In living a righteous life.

Chinny said...

Put God first
Not because you are seeking a spouse as reward, but because God is Good
He will renew your mind and understanding so much that your thoughts will align with his
And he will teach you a lot about love & marriage you desire
And will bless you with one if it is in his will for you
Do NOT be afraid of anything in this world, for this world is passing away
Do not be afraid of age, or of society, or of the enemy, or of being single
whether you eat in dream or not- the evil one has no power over you
But if they perceive desperation, they will send the wrong man your way
IF anything, pursue a career or hobby to help your esteem and confidence
This is what it means that Christ came to SET US FREE
See the bondage of fear, desperation, anxiety that the world puts on us
That pushes many to sin and despair

Just listen to these beautiful words Matthew11
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

So, put God first, above your desire for a spouse, and he will take away those heavy burdens the society has placed on you and you will be really FREE. Whether you marry or not will be for his glory.

sholetoga said...

Poster...prayer is the only solution. It's well with her

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

@chinny *clears throat* My elder sis has a friend. She married last in their clique (at 34) infact she was so embarrassed that she did a quiet parlour wedding even though her dad didn't like it cos he wanted to paint the town red. 5 years later, out of all their husbands hers is the wealthiest. He was even almost 40 when he married sef. Whoever laughed at them that they were too late would hold mouth. Nigerians..... They say 'no competition' 'wait for your time' when they see someone struggling financially, not getting a job, doing business or even admission to uni. But when it's marriage, those same people (friends, parents, relatives) forget that there's no competition and everyone needs to wait for their time. It suddenly becomes a problem. Me i believe if you face fundamemtal issues in life everything else would align. If there's a spiritual probelm deal with it first, before you talk about marriage or no marriage.

Anonymous said...

If there is one thing the devil capitalises on, it is fear. Why will you think that eating in the dream brings bad luck. Why? Your mindset is everything.

Peter was fed in his dream though he rejected it because and called it common, God corrected him and told him not to call what he created common Acts 10: 10-15.

Some of you fast and you are fed in your dream, what makes you think it is not God that is feeding you so your strength can be renewed. If you are a Christian and you are alone, you feel a presence, why must you think just an evil presence. You pray for the angels to be on guard over you, the angel is guarding you and you are still thinking it is a demon.

There is something called wet dream and horniness. It's a natural phenomenal in a human being whether you are celibate or a virgin. If you think you are always having sex in your dream, rebuke it immediately but also differentiate between your body responding to its natural composition by making you horny sometimes.

You want to be married, start confessing it immediately. If you want to attract good suitors, talk to God about it. Not everyone will marry an already made man. There are women who are destined to marry a man who looks common and immediately after marriage, you experience good success.

It's not by hanging out all the time. God knows you, he knows the introvert and the extrovert, as an introvert, he has the ability to make you to meet your spouse just down the street when you are buying akara on a day you are wearing no makeup and with hairnet on your head.

He is God. Won't he do it, same God that makes a way in the wilderness and rivers in the dessert knows your need and will grant you good success. Trust God. Renew your mind and confess positively to yourself.

KING XOXO MYSTERY

Anonymous said...

Good evening sisters, please poster tell your cousin to visit MFM camp ASAP! I always have sex in dream before I went for deliverance... Today am totally free.. Am 28 and trusting GOD I will settle down this year Infact when you go make a vow on the alter.. And watch GOD act..

Stella Igbokei said...

Anony 18:52 hmmm I just have a chill reading ur comment

Anonymous said...

Go to MFM for deliverance and after you do, don't go back to your old life doing the same things you use to do. Submit to God totally n stay away from sexual sins. It's not normal to experience lateness in marriage but if you put your trust in God and make sure you handle all spiritual hinderances by seeking God, God will definitely answer. Yes everything has its time but don't be fooled. Go get deliverance.

SUGAR. said...

I owe you one bottle of dry gin.

Anonymous said...

Thank u King.

Olive Oyl said...

Men can smell desperation a mile off

Anonymous said...

Aunty 18:52 the presence of God gives peace and liberty.the presence around you is evil. Please do you know Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal saviour. If you don't you go do all kinds of deliverance with no result. Accept Christ,abstain from sin,study the bible regularly also pray/fast on your own or with a prayer partner.it is well with you

Mr D said...

Chikito Chikito! Wen your BOO? Ms GwenZamora πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ don't mind me ooo.
One loveπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Chickyclassy Mee said...

Nice comment,I am an introvert and someone introduced my guy to me, I was not desperate, men smell desperation easily,most ladies over do things

Anonymous said...

Majority of guys these days are mentally lazy..they can't stand an intelligent lady, they believe they won't be submissive or condone their adulterous acts..if u check most married men that run after working-class ladies, there is something they see in them that is missing at home. So late marriages is not always spiritual cases.. ladies just try and be the best version of you and eventually a man with a good head on his shoulders will make u his queen. Save up money, go on vacation, enjoy ur life, stay away from married men too, they have made their choices and should be allowed to live with it..Gods gat your back..by d way I'm 36,and single, if feeling lonely at night was a big issue, trust me some married pple still feel lonely too even with their spouses lying beside them..but they won't divorce because of that, why would I marry someone I don't love as well just to cure loneliness..marry for the right pls

Anonymous said...

Thank u,so many lady I come in contact have a very bad character. It pises me off as a Lady take more as a man. Ladies please work on your characters

Anonymous said...

What if the relationship doesn't work? What decision will pay you more? Take that decision. It's too early in the relationship to let him control your finances. The house takes precedence over vacation anytime anyday so ignore him. And be sure he's not with you for the abroad thing. Naija men are desperate esp the ones not doing well at home

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