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Wednesday, 20 September 2017

Romantic Ideas To Make Him Come Home -ALL THE TIME!

This post (sent in by a BV who is tired of negative reports concerning marriages) is gonna blow you away!





If you're hubby is very good to you, and does extremely nice things for you Or even otherwise , In return, and out of respect, you should to do nice things for him too and also stop fighting him back and calling him names!
Have you ever heard someone say,

"Be the wife your husband can’t wait to come home to at night"?



No? Yes? I’ve heard it a million times, and I always try to keep advice in my head. As I would hope my husband would think the visa versa. Right?

So I began to think,

What are some things that he would love, to really make him feel special, different from the regular "favorite dish/drinks bla bla?

.........And this post was born.

No people, I’m not saying rewind 60 years and be a Stepford Wife. I’m just saying what I like to do for my husband to show my appreciation, and I would very well expect respect in return. Right?

Plz all the bullies should not hate on this post. If not....sorry.


This is something that works well in my marriage, and I hope it can give someone else great ideas too! If not, I’d LOVE to hear what works in your marriage. Every marriage is different




It may be a husband who is in the military, and is coming home after a year stay overseas, a husband that has only been gone for 3 days, or a husband that is coming home after a long day at work.

(P.S. You gals that have husbands gone for a super long time, I COMPLETELY adore your strength.)


Here's my two cents though
No matter what happens before he left home, while he's away "I send him sweet messages"
#facebeatbyme#photographybyme#Decorbyme

70 comments:

Miss Ess said...

Lovely! But people differ though

Nonye baby said...

Nice to wake up to some positivity on the Blog. Its always good to give it our best, in everything, life, relationships, career. You never can tell, even if you don't get rewarded instanta, the person would realise your worth when you are gone.

Anonymous said...

Just sent the message to my husband and the reply? Honey are you alright? Is your phone stolen....Msthewwwwww so much for spicing up my marraige...Am back to sweetie pleae come back early so you camn buy Nicks baby food and pampers before the supermarket closes (lol). I HAVE SPOKEN

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Nice one bv. It surprises me when people think a healthy relationship is all about sex when their are a thousand and one thing to do to spice up your love life. If you don't know, try do some research and not sit like one yokozona while your love life fades away. I like hearing him say baby I love you so much and still don't know why in fact I love everything about you aaarh I'm really going crazy for you each new day...... I didn't knack any pigeon ooh but my acts are intact

CHI EXOTIC said...

So I'm supposed to do all these for a man to come home....all the time?
No Sis
I'm not about to baby a grown ass man just because I want him to come home

If he doesn't want to "come home"
He can stay out.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Will be back

Lipstickalley said...

I'll sit this one out.

Hot P!nk Lips said...

Nice..Would love to hear more comments from the Married Folks..

GreatCleoPatra said...

Nice.. Variety is the spice of life

Olivia Silk said...

Lmao!
The day I don't do it, dude will start tripping.

Okay.
I am still loling at "stay out"

Chi Baby, be nice.

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster I did not see the message...
Is it the bed picture or the part your wrote about love messages?
You just climb the pitch and never land to the point...
Sorry to say this, your message is empty..
Or perhaps I did not read well...
Let me go back and read to know if I will get your message... πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

FIRST LADY said...

Hehehe, most Nigerian men ain't romantic na,infact dey won't even appreciate it. Wah works for u might not work for another,but all d same...nice one.

Till when I marry😩

Olivia Silk said...

Hmmmm.
You actually went out of your way to decoratethe bed.
Who will clean that mess up after??

Oriegwu.
Lounging on pant and bra when he comes home is enough "come home" for him.
So he comes back home and next thing is sex??? Hian! Ogbeni, how much did you make today?

SANDY YO said...

*Stifles laff*
Exotic lala!

Kamikaze said...

Such a pretty face.

Beautiful pictures.

Queen_Bee said...

This is Lovely

Cinnamon Apple said...

Treat your hubby like your first child

SANDY YO said...
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SANDY YO said...

Share d acts too na!πŸ˜‰πŸ˜’πŸ˜

Kay Bee said...

And what does the man need to do to make me come home?. He's got to work for it too; it doesn't always have to be me doing the work. Infant I spice up 40%, the rest is on Oga!!. I cannot come and dieπŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

Eka Joy said...

I'm not sure we are supposed to do it all the time, just from time to time and if he's a good husband, he will reciprocate in his own way.

I'm thinking of sending that text in the first meme to my bf but I'm wondering, 'is it not too cheesy?'

Barr. Oma said...

Nice and romantic but a man that loves and respect you don't need ceremony to come home. This is an occasional romantic stuff not necessary to bring a man home

SheriKoko said...

Av been away from my husband for almost 2months now... I spoke w8th him last night and realised how much av missed me... love is a very beautiful thing. He makes me feel 16again. Can't wait to see u again... Chi Exotic u won't understand, when u truly in love with someone u would gladly want to do more than these mentioned here just to see him smile. I feel like am not doing enof for ds man that would move d world for me...and yet ask for little or nothing in return... cupids got me this timeπŸ˜™πŸ˜

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Funny you

Nemerem said...

Stop it! I don laugh tire.
Your hubby is very funny. "is your phone stole"πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

A pig is a pig no matter how you treated him. Is good to do your best but some men never get satisfied irrespective of what their partner did. You can just give him the best srx of his life and the next minute he stepped out pouncing on another girl

Anonymous said...

A pig is a pig no matter how you treated him. Is good to do your best but some men never get satisfied irrespective of what their partner did. You can just give him the best srx of his life and the next minute he stepped out pouncing on another girl

slimqueen said...

The day you don't do it there will be problem. But chi chi please don't let him stay out. Vampires are out there oo

slimqueen said...

Doesn't work all the time. Some men will not even acknowledge your effort but still, it helps.

slimqueen said...

Doesn't work all the time. Some men will not even acknowledge your effort but still, it helps.

Anonymous said...

what da hell is you're husband???? Proof read next time please. Wht will he do 4me in return, since we both hv jobs? *raisedbrow*

Anonymous said...

The only reason I like him to come home is to help switch on the smaller gen if the other one that I can switch on is faulty. nothing else. This can't work in my marriage, the thing wey don die on arrival. Nothing can revive it again and I am happy like that. I wasn't desperate, thank God
I still bear my single name, didn't do change of name, so it's easier to work out. Did 7yrs family planning after our daughter, so I can walk away easily if he doesn't change . Someone should give me zobo and groundnut. I know beautiful marriages are out there unlike mine. Mcheeew

Anonymous said...

The only reason I like him to come home is to help switch on the smaller gen if the other one that I can switch on is faulty. nothing else. This can't work in my marriage, the thing wey don die on arrival. Nothing can revive it again and I am happy like that. I wasn't desperate, thank God
I still bear my single name, didn't do change of name, so it's easier to work out. Did 7yrs family planning after our daughter, so I can walk away easily if he doesn't change . Someone should give me zobo and groundnut. I know beautiful marriages are out there unlike mine. Mcheeew

Enigma G said...

Bullshit, rubbish. It's all about "women making efforts for the men". A man that wants to cheat, will cheat even if your home is heaven. Our mothers taught us how to be "perfect" wives but they didn't teach their sons how to be good husbands. I love and respect my husband but I cannot come and go and kee myself with all this so called tips on how to be a good wife. Shior

Welcome to my World said...

Observing

The General's Wife said...

Hahahahahah🀣
Pls poster forgive My girl Chi cos she knows what she is saying. Some things she says,I just smile and whisper to myself "Time wil tell"
And I wil be here to laugh at her when she comes gushing about how wonderful her hubby is and all the mushy stuff. Time wil tell baby girlπŸ‘Œ

Now to the business of the day,LolπŸ˜‚

Point is this:When you are in love,you OUTDO yourself! Juts cos making him happy makes u happy! Simple! It's not a case of someone asking U to do something for him. Or u Bn pressured to do anything. At least I speak for myself and many other women I know.

Infact when u don't love someone,the person simply greeting u in the morning bites u like ants all over the body.

Love makes u do crazy things😍
And when the man loves u in return and lavishly pampers you and takes care of you,treats u super-right,Omg! Believe u me,those won't be roses on that bed. They wil be raw gold! And no I ain't kidding!

I am still looking forward to the day I wil take the General into an exotic car dealership,kneel and say "Pick any ride u want my lord!😍

#TeamPamperedWife
#VeryPamperedWife

sexy Daddy said...

Awwwww that's so lovely.

SDK single sisters please read and comprehen!Thank you.

Anonymous said...

The general wife's I love your comments. Chi you sound so bitter and cold about guys, the way you speak makes me think you have lost hope in true love. Chi if you don't try as much as possible to reciprocate a man's love for you then you are must likely to have a messed up marriage.

Anonymous said...

And a bi5ch is a bi5ch any day.
And you won't bat an eyelid to marry any "pig" that shows interest.
And if the "pig" doesn't come to marry you, you send chronicles?

Fab Mum said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜€@ who will clean that mess up.

jumiakindipe said...

Awww that is so true. I am happy that general treats you kindly.

Anonymous said...

Wetin concern us with your face beat? Or wait o, do you think its fine??? Lmaoooo

Anonymous said...

Hian! Madam where do you want us to see this flower to buy? And how much e dey give ne wey i go still go squeeze flower money from

Anonymous said...

Wow so you mean you and your husband sleeps on that tiny bed?

Anonymous said...

I trust my husband...if he walks into that kind of room he'll be like 'you see why i said you should stop watching this your zee world'?

amanda favour said...

Na wah oh!
This is funny and sad as well!
Is it that bad?

Fierce of SDK blog said...

I wish I were a pampered wife. Time will tell indeed.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

For women who have good husbands who treat them right. As for me,I'm in my lane,on my terms. Ain't doing shi for a man who doesn't know my worth

deenity Sealord said...

@anonymous 13:53, can I stop laughing pls?lmao

deenity Sealord said...

Kay bee instead of u to sidon learn u de form itk... okay wen the time reach u go find person to teach u, but u no go fit cos u ain't used to it. Then it will appear u ar acting. I tell u,u Know gree#tellyperson

deenity Sealord said...

Slimqueen just learn to play ur part, humans are lik d@ male/female. Not everyone appreciate good things. Pray u get an appreciative partner

Rhoda Rex said...

LMAO

deenity Sealord said...

Quite unfortunate, it's obvious u are not having it smooth. I pray for joy in ur marriage Enigma

deenity Sealord said...

U gat work to do babe, you shd remind him of ur worth, cos I am sure he married u for that, abi u hook am wt belle ni?#bestofluck

Miss Candy said...

Anon 14:49 u want to kee me laugh abi??pls its afternoon oo and some of us dey work.. Jisos!!! I've just been laughing since oo... Na too much zee world dey cause am abi?na tru sef.. BTW, wen will a man post "things to do to make our wives smile all d time"??? Must it always be d wife doing all d time for d husband? Na wa oo! If d marriage fail,they'll blame d wife.if d house is not in order they'll blame d wife,if d kids don't behave properly they'll blame d wife.. Everything wife must do.. Pls u people should give women credit small,we no be robot or machine. Na born dem born us too.

Anonymous said...

My dear,all marriages are not the same.Your hubby may not pamper you but he may have his positives.Can you at least concentrate on those?Some may pamper their spouses but be tight fisted,some may be very generous yet be very unaffectionate .No husband is perfect and sometimes what keeps the relationship going is concentrating on the good side of the person.Each marriage has it's pros and cons.And forget about the sm gushing that some do,you never know what goes on behind closed doors.Some may brag about hubby doing that or that but you'll never know the real deal

BLESSED ONE said...

That means you guys have lost touch with romance. Please, don't stop! Continue. He will get used to it and look forward to your sweet words. Give him good reasons to miss you when you have little misunderstandings.

Enigma G said...

Deenity abi kilonpe u are mad and very stupid for ur comment. My marriage is a happy one, all I said is that enough of this message of how to please a man or spice ur marriage. Let the lectures be for men to spice up their marriages and also please their wives. Quite unfortunate kill u there. Anumpama

TaliaπŸ’…πŸ» said...

Lol

TaliaπŸ’…πŸ» said...

What if they do?
Continue deceiving urself

deenity Sealord said...

Enigma no vex na habba, I was expecting this anyway but still take chill pill ehhn, idonunderstandyounow. Be blessed

Anonymous said...

Thanks anon. A pig is really a pig. By the way why can't the guy do something to make me want to have him home??? Why always me????? Abi men think their wives don't get sick of them??

Anonymous said...

So funny πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

The goddess. said...

Yes he is surprise cos he hasn't seen you acted that way before. Enough of buy Nick's pampers, Nick clothes etc sometimes do the buying yourself. Let him come home and see you've bought some of those things he will earn you your respect trust me.
Limit the way you request him to do things in the house, and you as a wife also try and assist.
Ignite the romance don't lose hope.

The goddess. said...

Eka Joy no offense
But don't you think you should send that to your "fiancΓ©" and not a "bf" at this stage in ones life?

my2cent

Anonymous said...

Chi exotic aka Choima it is your type that will keep on applying for SnM till eternity when nobody shows up, you send in chronicles seeking for a man by fire by force,then when nobody ask you nne how market? you become do desperate and send Stellarch IHN soliciting the intetest on that same man you weren't interested on initially. Awon feminist. This is September 21st,2017 just incase you dont know,time is running sit down there and be forming feminist.
Mtchewww!

The goddess. said...

Anon 15:14
Permit me to say this, if he Pampers and yet he is tight fisted, generous but unaffectionate, the ball is in your court, that is why he is your spouse, know where he's mumu button is and keep that on hold. Nobody knows where it is but you so tingle that button of his.

And yes TGW is right, she's not just saying it, she's been saying this for quit a while atleast i seems to have seen her on this platform since 09/010.

The goddess. said...

Lol @deenity they no won learn.
They forgot that as a woman you duty is to always return to your husband's house after the close of work for the day except if you aren't married.

The goddess. said...

It is well
The Lord is your strength.

The goddess. said...

Yes they sleep on that tiny bed and see how she is glowing, then imagine when it's a bigger one.

She is giving you tips on how to work on yourself and your marriage, you are here comparing bed size.
Smh!

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