Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: TTC Stories -Part 4

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Friday, 29 September 2017

TTC Stories -Part 4

Trying to conceive?Don't ever stop trying again and again despite repeated Negative results.....and mostly importantly?Don't stop living!







I pray that God will hear the cry of women TTC in Jesus name Amen!


I got married in 2014, we were not really actively trying to conceive but by d middle of 2015 and yet nothing, we decided to go for some tests. Abdominal ultrasound showed I had large cysts on both my ovaries and I was diagnosed of endometriosis. 


I was not really surprised by the diagnosis cos my periods has always been so painful. Kosi wahala, what is the way forward, they said surgery has to be done to remove the cysts. Late 2015 the surgery was done and in my mind everything is now ok. Little did I know that we are just starting.. Lol


By the middle of 2016 and yet nothing, we went for HSG to check d potency of the tubes(that it was painful was an understatement, I thought I was going to die). That was how we knew that the endometriosis has affected both my tubes so they are no longer patent.


We started planning for IVF, it took all our savings and more ( anything to have kids right). I had to inject myself twice in a day and I took them in good fate, in fact I was happy during that period cos I was so sure it ll work. After the whole follicular tracking, egg retrieval and transfer (3 embryos were transferred) , the 2wks wait started. The wait was even worse than the injection period. On the day I was meant to test, I woke by 12am and it was negative. 



I called my doctor that night abi na morning, he told me to go for blood test that urine test is not reliable. Na so I carry my left legs go lab dey wait for them to open, it came out negative. Stella ee, I cried for 1week straight, even in the middle of the night, I was inconsolable even at work , DH was confused on wat to do wt me.. Lol. Take me out oo, I ll stay there and be crying lol. Anyways I decided to live my life to the fullest, have fun, slay and improve myself. I'm due for another cycle of IVF next month, I pray it works. 


Having a supportive partner and in-laws made it a lot easier for me ( DH is the best) though that doesn't make it easier when the society and friends decide to treat u like sm1 who is about to die, I just can't with the pity gazing and comments.
I pray for every woman TTC like me, God will do it for us, remember not to loose your self, still live your life as u r TTC.
Sorry for the long read and wrong grammar
Thank you Stella for this medium


27 comments:

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Baby dust to all Amen

Anonymous said...

Married in 2014, had myomectomy, miscarriage and second cycle of clomid......the issue now is that I am 3days late, negative urine test, apart from slight cramping and very mild breast pain when I wear a bra, no other symptoms of pregnancy.
keeping my fingers crossed! Lord I am all yours! Hallelujah with me.

Dietitian Nezz! said...

These stories make me feel bad 😐
God show them mercy and put a smile on their faces,Amen

SheriKoko said...

I pray wt the child in my womb as a point of contact to call forth ur own babies in Jesus. Keep ur faith strong. He's a miracle-working God

HAPI said...

Waoh! am inspired...
I have almost gave up but for this I will continue trying...
I know it will end in praise in Jesus Name. Amen.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

Awwww I had same issue. Very large mighty cysts. As big as a baby o. I cry in pain when it starts. I sleep in hospital and was told I need surgery. We were 3women that goes for prep talk. So I traveled to Ghana and missed d surgery. While in Ghana I took one root like that, never knew it helps correct menses and I told God I don't want dis cyst. God answered me o after talking the roots I bled thick blood for like 5days. Black cloted blood o. So when I got back for d surgery I went for scan they will use for d procedure. Gbam no more cyst. I mean nothing at all.
As am typing this am pregnant again after having my first last year and am having dis one this year too. No waiting on. I took the root Dec 2015. The Lord answers prayers.

Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate said...

God will prefect that which concerns you in Jesus name

jelly said...

Congrats dear, baby dust on all you waiting on the lord

Anonymous said...

You are pregnant already. Make sure u send ur testimony to this blog. Give urslf a week and do the test again. Gooduck. God is ur strength

Anonymous said...

This brought tears to my eyes. Recently diagnosed of ovarian cysts in both my ovaries. Same endometriosis.I'm to go for cyst removal one of these days. I pray my tubes are patent. Got married as a virgin. May God help us all. God pls don't make me a laughing stalk, a substance of ridicule. Help me dear Lord

Miss Ess said...

God will do a new thing

Anonymous said...

Pls tell us the name of the root u took. If it will also help those of us with ovarian cysts

God Over Everything said...

My dear, kindly tell us the root you took. Do you have anyone traveling to Ghana soon who can get it for us. Kindly help your sisters. God bless you.

Bibire said...

Kindly share the name of the roots you took so women with same problem can use it too.

Sharon Aminu said...

I just want to tell that none shall be barren
And we must win this battle in Jesus name Amen

Omasiri said...

You should have dropped the name of the root. So many women with the issue of cyst and child bearing.

Tesso said...

Sharon and all of us here, the Lord sees and knows. Sometimes Cyst resolves on their own if it is not too big.

Anonymous said...

I swear I don't know the name.. After mixing with the drink I took it cos it's gonna make me high and forget . But was told that the drink helps to correct menses. I have the root at home but don't know the name.. And it's not enough to go round. Will call Ghana to ask. Baby dust to all of us

Anonymous said...

My dear 13.42, pls don't have a surgery for removal of cyst. It can be removed via ultrasound with a needle. I wish I can drop my number. You can drop you contact, I'll be back to check

sholetoga said...

Thank God for you dear sister

Red Wine said...

We all are holding onto God, if he cannot do it for us who will do it for us? Father I look onto you, my eyes, hope and faith is onto you. Remember us all all GTC

Anonymous said...

God will perfect in for you

nnukwunwanyi said...

Amen

Ani Innocent mum said...

Those of us who had it easy don't know wat God has done of us even after several ...... Hmmmm God indeed shows mercy to whom he chooses. To all those searching the Lord is ur strength hold on n don't give up

Anonymous said...

have fun dear. God will do it and it will be the perfect time.
they always tell people the success rate before the whole procedure. tears and all will only increase your stress level. You need to be relaxed and at ease and at peace when you do it again.
May the odds always be in your favour.

Anonymous said...

All is well,

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