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Monday, 9 October 2017

When A Relationship Crashes...

It's time to talk about this and that......









Letting go is the hardest,especially when one partner is still in love and one is already moving on...

I know how much i held unto my first love Nndi until i decided to let go and start over somewhere else......*SMH at myself*



41 comments:

ummie Hajra said...

Letting go is harder epsecially if the bond between u two is strong but moving on is not easy either. But wih prayers (yes prayers) and friends to keep u company u gradually move on. All broken hearts will be healed in Sha Allah.

Miss Ess said...

Starting a new one is it for me. I will find it really hard to trust or love again

Akuchinyere nwata 1 said...

Letting go for me is the hardest because that is the beginning of moving on.

Anonymous said...

Letting go mehn...
Relationship sucks,cnt get over him...4yrs.
Really what to let go,to enable me move on and starting over.

A girl has no name said...

Personally and as a psychology, letting go is the hardest, you just don't want to believe that you guys are no more, especially if the other person has already moved on, you have to let go, face it, give yourself some pep talk and look up to the future for a better tomorrow. Though is not easy, but you have to trust yourself and believe in your strenght to do it

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Not easy letting go most especially when you gave them 100% of your love.

Now love should be 10% women, 90% men.

Men should love more than women

supremeflow said...

letting go is harder mbok.. i love hard

Anonymous said...

Stellastic!!! We sef go decode this 'Nndi' no be only you go dey do aproko for people matter.

Dberrys said...

Starting over cos ure use to the preeq and the medemede that follows it

Blackberry said...

It's hard letting go wen u make that person the centre of your world.
When u love that person more than yourself.
When you adore and worship that person!
It makes you clingy n you lose focus n time...!
I'm so selfish that I love myself more than anything in this world.
Can't let u hurt me mehn!

LUCIFER said...

Letting go is the hardest.

love aloh said...

Let go is d hardest. Who love epp me hb grown a thick skin now.

kikki said...

I always had a fall back on guy even when I was single and dating. Once a relationship starts being too much work, I do a total cut off_ no contact whatsoever! While I cruise with d fall back on guy until I meet a better catch. I never solely dated 1 person at a time until my Trad after which I destroyed my SIM and closed all avenue of exs being able to reach me. Thankfully, I'm at a very good place now and I no longer need an assistant boyfriend. Wetin I dey talk sef? Maybe I no understand your topic Stella.

Love.Eating.Pussy said...

I think the hardest part when a relationship crashes is LETTING GO

Especially if you are the spouse that is still mentally into your EX

Everything reminds you of them and it's worse when you know you can never get them in your life again.

One can only move on when they have been able to mentally sack the Ex from their hearts.

I have held on for too long and this person has moved on.

I hate the sad feeling of that comes with holding on for too long and not wanting to move on.

Stella this your post feels like a wake up call for me to MOVE ON

Picking up the pieces and moving on is hard as fcuk, I dnt even know where to start.

LEP😕

Shirley said...

If you can let go it won't be difficult to start all over again
So letting go is difficult

DON™ said...

I can easily do any of the above mentioned.

nkiruka ikwueme said...

Never been heart broken before so can't relate

DON™ said...

What's with prayer here? Praying for what to happen? Wetin concern God with your heartbreak

Anonymous said...

Girls that opened their legs are the ones that find it difficult to move on
For those that did not open their legs, the hurt is not deep.
They forget the other and retain their dignity as soon as he is out of sight

Anonymous said...

When a girl has spent more than one year in a relationship
Opened her legs and collected babies, sti, perhaps aborted
And the boy dumps her or gives her cold shoulder
It is most painful
there is no pain greater than that.
Do not talk about moving on because she won't be able to
When a girl did not give sex and received none of the above
She is hurt if she is dumped
But she is upbeat if she is the kind that knows her worth!

Lipstickalley said...

Loooooooooool BB, narcissist like you.

Blackberry said...

Why is it that 98% of women find it difficult to move on?
Can't u think like a man?
I'm tired mehn...
Before a man dumps u, dump him faster than he imagined, the signs are always there.

Welcome to my World said...

Letting go is the hardest for me,especially if the breakup was not mutual, you can't just stop loving someone you invested your time and emotions.


Diesel at your doorstep. ...order for your offices, hotels and residential use

Anonymous said...

letting go is the hardest and when u see each other almost everyday. it become crazy, your heart breaks every time you see. it hurt that you still care and wish to be part of his life. can't stop crying, omg it hurt like a deep cut everyday by day. moving on is also difficult cos you are over careful not to make the same mistake, i need to let go. i hate uuuuuuu bu , my heart is broken and i hate the fact that i made such mistake.

Olaide Davies said...

Letting go is the hardest. That is why I have decided never to love again. If I don't love you, you can't hurt me.

Anonymous said...

Chai Letting go is hard hard hard stellz!!!i held on for about 4yrs oh after he already told me he doesnt love me like i love him.Stella did i cry?i wailed each time i rem dose lines.still hoping A man will come along and make me happy .

SUGAR. said...

I'm sorry Sir. I'm sorry Ma. Heheheheee but I don't know what's so difficult in letting go.

Anonymous said...

Letting go is not easy. I met a guy 2014, then we were on and off in 2015. The guy blows hot and cold, he can call this week then be silent for the next month. In 2015, told him I couldn't continue with the dance. The unbelievable part was that the thing hit me hard, I didn't even like him. I couldn't imagine being with him but I was ready to marry anyone. I was that desperate and from October 2015 till mid last year I was heartbroken. I didn't like the guy or anything about him, and still I was waiting for him to call and ask us to start over. He has not called till today. Sometimes last year I just realized I wasn't aching for him or thinking of him anymore. Anytime I remember him now, I just smile that dull ache is gone. I'm still single but I think I'm too emotional for relationships, if that could happen with someone I didn't like; didn't sleep with and didn't invest in what will happen if i meet someone I like or even love and we break up. God help me, I'm 28. I never dated in secondary school or university I regret my decision now. I'm ashamed to say I've never had a relationship at 28.

Miss D.E said...

Anyone I date knows I can easily take a walk once we feel like it,

peeps say I am heartless,
HELL NO,
I simply love with my brain to the extent you know that when we go our separate ways,
I aint goon sulk for so long.


I honestly have no strength to build castles in the air for anyone.


In essence, I move on easily but find it difficult to get into new relationships.

GOOGLE SAYS IT'S COS I AM A SCORPIO..

I DUNNO

Anonymous said...

I'm saggitarius but i'm like that too. I take a walk when the need arises no time. But i can stay for 2years or more without another relationship

Anonymous said...

Ntoiii... When dey tell u to have many boyfriend u say no

The First Lady said...

The secret to avoiding Heartbreak is this..
Never make anyone the center of your world,yes it's okay to fall in Love but always put yourself and your happiness first and pls have a spare tyre.
Don't invest your time and emotions on just one person cos when they leave you it'll be like your whole world is over.
Always have a Plan B,I'm not saying you should sleep around or cheat but have someone on standby who will be more than willing to be with you when the time comes.
Especially for the Ladies cos time waits for no woman.

sholetoga said...

I think for me its easier to move on......because I don't do too much lovey lovey in the first place....

Anonymous said...

I met my first love as a teenager. All I knew was dt he was the only man I could love. He left me when I was 26 and was not man enough to tell me what I did. I didn't go stalking him but I never stopped loving him. He moved on, had his family and I'm still here hurting. Kai, love is wicked.

Phenomenal woman said...

Sweedy, you don't need a man to make you happy. U must learn to find genuine happiness within yourself.

Waterfall said...

Letting go is really the hardest. I'm still stuck here cos I didn't know when he walked out of the relationship while I am still very much in love with him. The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained. It hurts really badly. I pray I'm able to get over this and face the future.

Anonymous said...

Yes dear I know how you feel.
I'm still here praying and hoping for the bastard to beg me for a second chance(even when I know that's not going to happen) cos he has moved on.
May God punish you C.V.O for breaking my heart and making me afraid of loving again.
You will never keep a stable relationship until u apologize to me for cheating even when i was loyal and faithful to you.
May you date delilahs who will treat you like scum and shatter your heart the way you did mine.

Anonymous said...

All of the above

Red Wine said...

Just passing.

Nkem Helen said...

Am also still stuck too in a 3yr relationship even though he has moved on

bravitudegal said...

Hmmmm letting goo for me is the hardest I dated someone who never loved me yet I showed him all my love. He's walked away and moved on and here I am still stucked I can't let go. I don't even want to love again ifeoluwa has shown me how wicked men can be and how a lady can get it difficult to find true love

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