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Monday, February 05, 2018

Obasanjo’s Son Reportedly Abandons Matrimonial Home After His Controversial Wedding And Mums Doomsday Prophecy

Mrs Taiwo Obasanjo does not mince words at all...This interview is a must read!!!





Mrs. Taiwo Obasanjo who prophesied her son Olajuwon should not get married on June 1st last year has in an interview with Sunday Sun spoken on the latest happening in her son’s marriage, why he left his matrimonial home and other sundry issues...



Is it true that your son’s marriage has broken down and you are in the middle of it all?



My son’s marriage didn’t break down and what do you mean that I was in the middle of it all?


Well, the last time they were getting married you made it publicly known to everyone that you were not in support the marriage?



I think you are getting some things wrong, if you had gone through my stand on this you will realize that, I never said that I wasn’t in support of the marriage. The only problem I had was the date and all I was after was that the date should be changed.



But the date wasn’t changed, they disobeyed you and you were unhappy?


You see the date change had been going on in the family before I went public. I was in support of the wedding. But do you have the time for me to give you a breakdown of what actually transpired? Before this girl came into the scene, I was told that when he is getting married that there should be no noise. That was the instruction given to me but when this girl came I told them, let them just do this wedding quietly. Instead, they shouted me down and were asking that how can two big families come together and they won’t have a big wedding. I am the biological mother of the groom, I gave birth to him and I am not holding on to him to be my handbag. If you go through the Bible, instructions were given to mothers about their children. For instance, Samson’s mother was given instruction about him but Samson defied the instruction and he ended up being killed by Delilah. Do you understand me? I know what I suffered to have this boy. When the wedding proper came I told them not to pick a particular date and that he should only do a big wedding after his 34th birthday. On my own, I went to the mother of the bride Rose Mary Dacosta because I thought she was a mother, but she refused. They insisted on having the wedding in April. I told the girl too but she was adamant. Unfortunately, people are thinking that I was against the wedding. I wasn’t against my son’s wedding because I love him.



Are you the one hiding your son?



How can I hide him? Everyone has been phoning me and asking for his whereabouts. They want to kill me and this is another means for them. How can I hide a man who is 34 years old? What do I want to do with him? And I can never be his wife. I am praying for him to be productive and I am praying for him to be fruitful. From the first day of the wedding, the mother of the girl said she wanted to go on honeymoon with my son and his wife, which I have never heard of in my whole life. Whether I am lying my son can testify about that. The mother insisted that she must go on a honeymoon. I wasn’t there, but I heard that later. My son defied my advice and the advice of the living God because I didn’t go soliciting for prophecy for him. The one about the wedding came on its own. I never went to anybody to kneel down and asked to be prayed for. This message came voluntarily. For spiritual messages you don’t go soliciting, that means there are powerful truths behind it.




Do you think it was the spiritual message you received that was responsible for the breakdown of the marriage?




I don’t know whether the marriage has broken down or not because the young man lives with his father in Abeokuta while I live in Lagos. So, I think you should direct that question to my son’s father and his wife. I am asking them both where my son is? That was why I went to the police to make reports last year. I saw my son once before the wedding when he came to tell me that, ‘Mummy I am going ahead whether you support me or not’. He defied my orders and that was why I didn’t attend the wedding. Everyone said they were above the almighty God who gave the message and I am nothing because they are the ones controlling things.



Are you saying the marriage has not broken down?



I don’t know whether the marriage has broken down and I said I don’t live with them. The only time I went there was last year after the wedding. Daddy OBJ called me after the wedding, I didn’t even want to pick his call but later I did and he said he wanted to reconcile us all. Then I went and he was asking me why I didn’t come for my son’s wedding. My two children apologized to me and we made peace that time. I also saw him when I went for a programme, which my Uncle Professor Sunbo Martins had, which was a book launch. That was last year. From that time to this time, I haven’t seen my son. He doesn’t pick my call and how did I know about this? It was even his wife that called because each time he runs from his matrimonial house, his wife will now phone me and start asking about him. Every time this happens, she calls and this one happened since November last year, till now I don’t know where my son is. That was why I went to the police. People might say whatever they want to say, I don’t care, but I am a mother and I care about my son’s welfare. They say I am interfering but is it interference to ask if your son is okay. I called daddy OBJ and he didn’t pick my call. Daddy OBJ was picking my call before now and we were speaking. We talk, we chat and I see him but since that matter happened, now I called and he didn’t pick. So, I went to see Daddy Adebutu with my family because it was very surprising to me because from November the woman said she had not seen my son. I even went to Tope Adebutu’s house where she lives with her mother.



Are you saying that she has also moved out of her matrimonial home?




I don’t know oh! When I was asking she was the one that told me that she is in Ikoyi with her mother so I went there to see her. She told me she has not seen my son since November so I started asking people about this. If I don’t know the whereabouts of my son, should I just fold my arms and watch? Does that make me a responsible mother? I don’t stay close to them. Moreover, Abeokuta to Lagos is not one-minute drive and since they got married I have never interfered and I don’t go there. So the young man has gone into hiding and this is not the first time this is happening. He has been running away from this girl, he would disappear and then when they settle the matter he will come back home. Now everybody said they are tired because every time they are always quarrelling.



You mentioned earlier that you called daddy Obasanjo but he has not been picking your calls. Does it mean that he held you responsible for the problem in the marriage?




He is the one that should be held responsible for whatever problem now because I heard that this young man has been reporting this matter to his father. This girl has been threatening his life, and many times he will run away from her. This even happened two weeks before the wedding. When daddy OBJ called, I told him, go and look for my son because this game you are playing I don’t understand. How can a former head of state say that he doesn’t know where my son is? I said please nothing must happen to my son and I am going to cry out to the whole world to hear about it. I didn’t understand why he was phoning me and my son’s wife too called me. Right now they don’t know where my son is and that was why I went to the police. My son has become a fugitive hiding and daddy OBJ is insisting he stays married to this girl. There must be a reason and I don’t know the reason because he doesn’t come to me or visit me and he doesn’t tell me anything. He has never told me he had a problem with this girl and so I became scared when I heard.




Have you asked around from his friends?




I have been asking and nobody knows where he is and I won’t keep quiet. He picked my call one time and after that, he has not picked again. What kind of life is this? Why should my son be intimidated to submit to his wife? Is it not the wife that should submit to her husband? They said the girl has been maltreating my son so much and his father his aware. He reports this girl and his father is insisting that he stays married to the girl. He has been inflicting a lot of humiliation on the young man. There are occasions when she slapped him. Can you imagine a woman slapping her husband? She disgraces him, pulls his shirt and threatens him. She tells him that she would ruin him and all manner of humiliation. She said she didn’t know that she married a 419, that it was only the name that the Obasanjo’s family have, that they don’t have money. She is just a carbon copy of her mother. His mother joins in cursing and thretening him which his wife also does to him at home. He has been seriously battered and that is why he is running away from his wife. How can a man be running away from his wife and they are insisting he stays with this jewel of destruction? And daddy OBJ does not deem it fit… All he cares about is that he should stay married to her.



Why do you think he is insisting that they stay together despite their problems?



That is what I don’t know but I think it is because they are both from big families and if the marriage should break up it will become a scandal. But I am afraid for my son because we are in an era now where wives kill their husbands. So my son should stay in an unhappy marriage and whereas he has refused to make up with his first wife? He said he will never make up with her and he said he can never submit to her, that he is the head of the family. So why should he be insisting that my son should submit to his wife?



What steps have you taken to reconcile them?




Thank you for asking me that question. I have visited daddy Adebutu and I even went with my family so that they won’t think it’s his mother that is causing it all. Like I told you earlier, my son doesn’t call me, he doesn’t visit me. The two of them didn’t acknowledge me as a mother. She only does that when her husband runs away from the house and she will talk to me as if I am her maid too. Asking me questions like, where is he? When last did you see him? So I went to see daddy Adebutu who is a very good man. The problem of this marriage, which they are trying to heap on me is from that girl, her mother Rosemary Dacosta and daddy OBJ. Tope is like a masquerade she will be crying when you are talking to her but she insults everybody in the family, even the Obasanjo’s family, she rubbishes everybody. she told the boy she wants hundred thousand naira as allowance. I told her, this boy doesn’t have money. He works for his father, he is a graduate and he studied International Relations. My son is not idiotic he is just a complete gentleman, very respectful and peaceful. But this girl is trying to change him. My son is humble and he keeps to himself.



Let’s talk about other issues now. How is your party getting ready for the next elections?



On your question about our political party, we have not registered it because God told me that the solutions to the myriads of problems in our land will not come from a political party or many parties. The Almighty God told me that the solutions to the myriads of problems in our land will come from Him and just one good, selfless leader who we all can jointly support to provide servant leadership of humility, respect for all and that is not tribalistic or nepotic, that will listen to the people and be accessible. That is a national father figure that would unite us all and provide for all. That is my reason for not forging ahead to register the party.



What are your thoughts about Chief Obasanjo’s Coalition for Nigeria Movement?


I am not in support of it at all. The reason is Chief Obasanjo is providing medicine after death for this nation. I will tell you how. President Buhari is a son to Chief Obasanjo and he is 80+ years old on earth and he has spent all his years in public service and God gave him the privilege of getting to the pinnacle thrice as President of Nigeria. He got two terms as civilian president and as military head of state. Who has Obasanjo mentored? President Buhari wants to contest again in 2019, when 95% of Nigerians are groaning in pain, lack and terrible hardships and we say we want a new person to take over. APC says it must be Buhari at all cost. Ex-president Obasanjo started it all when he said he wanted third term and it was God that aborted his unholy and sacrilegious agenda for our nation. On the coalition he has gone into, it is a serious aberration and a strong indictment of the quality of the leadership he has provided all these years and his fatherly role. Moses in the Bible mentored Joshua, did you read that Moses fought Joshua, Elijah mentored Elisha, did Elijah raise up coalition against Elisha? King David mentored Solomon, did the old King raise up coalition against Solomon? But Solomon later transgressed, which was a trait he inherited from his late father -King David. Still on this coalition, what ex-president Obasanjo must do first with this coalition is to return Nigeria back to God and to lead us first in a genuine coalition of humility, attitude of repentance and remorse, asking God for forgiveness and pardon and mercy as in Luke 18:10.


*Wow,this woman seems to be well versed.

46 comments:

  1. When him mama warn am..he no gree listen...now,Dem don use their wedding do Babaijebu betting.




    @ANONYMOUS ORUBEBE

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    1. You don kolo I swearπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…@BabaIjebu

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    2. Haha.Baba ijebu betting,se Na 2sure or 4sure? This guy don enter am.na by fire by force o.πŸ˜‚

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    3. EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS HONOR YOUR MOTHER

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    4. Anonymous 12:41 complete it. He honored his father against his mother. If you were in his shoes, what would you have done?

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    5. It's 100% obvious this woman is domineering and has issues. Everyone is trying hard to avoid her and she seems not to get it.
      Mama get over your sons wife, hes married her already, leave them alone. You got married years ago or maybe you just had children for OBJ: your relationship FAILED so leave the new couple alone. We all know marriage is not easy, let them walk through it together and stop granting interviews on their behalf as them no send you message mama.
      The son might not even be missing, maybe they said so to make this woman let them be.
      Haba!!!

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    6. It's 100% obvious this woman is domineering and has issues. Everyone is trying hard to avoid her and she seems not to get it.
      Mama get over your sons wife, hes married her already, leave them alone. You got married years ago or maybe you just had children for OBJ: your relationship FAILED so leave the new couple alone. We all know marriage is not easy, let them walk through it together and stop granting interviews on their behalf as them no send you message mama.
      The son might not even be missing, maybe they said so to make this woman let them be.
      Haba!!!

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  2. we just heard something that sounded like a bomb blast here in Lafia, Let me go and do small amebo, i will keep you guys posted

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  3. All of them are to be blamed. They all use their juju to kaput the wedding. See them with native okuko sense

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    2. This is a serious matter. What a fam! Nawaaa

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  4. How can they be happily married when he can't afford an allowance of #100,000..Cheap skate

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    1. As in, na that was me shock me fa. 100k? This woman is wicked.... I knew that marriage can never work. Yoruba mothers and wrecking marriages are like 5&6... and oh, before anybody be comes for me, I am Yoruba and proud but the truth must be sad.

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  5. I feel for this woman. The son should have listened to her. Whether the prophesy was true or not, it won't cost them anything to wait till June. I pray she finds her son.

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    1. Gbam. Just a month between April and June. What would have happened? Certain times we need to stand our ground but at other times, we need to listen and try to adjust. Hope he's alright. His wife, if she's clean, should get a statement out too cos we can't just believe a story that's one-sided

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  6. I actually hope this stuff isn't true. Marriage not up to a year.
    Anybody who knows Tope from way back, in conjunction with her mother would have seen this coming.
    I really pity the guy in all this, wife is not okay, mother in-law even worse. Then their combination. They would probably be beating the boy up if care is not taken. He now has a mother who has her own brain touch also.
    I don't know if I believe all this woman is saying, but the part Tope and her mother are maltreating him till he runs for his dear life is very believable.
    Men/women before you marry a woman/man take your time to ask questions properly, go as far back as asking those who have known the person right from school, find out about the family you want to marry into.
    This girl and her mother have a reputation for causing trouble. Everybody knows this, wonder how this guy didn't know.

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  7. This is what happens when someone has a strong hardhearted father.

    How will a lady slap a man? In marriage kwa?

    The man went into the marriage under duress because of the income he gets from his dad, his dad controls him, he submits to his dad. Anything OBJ says he follows.
    He fills so entitled to him.

    Then OBJ because of family connection and power wants the son to by force stay in the marriage which is not possible.

    Marriage where the woman feels and breaths like a man.

    Abeg, the marriage is long gone like a dust in a windy desert.

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  8. Eniawifun, Oba je ogbo
    Everything is so twisted
    May God help them

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  9. A mother's positive word is the second most powerful word on earth after God's word .How do you expect to go against your mum and be successful. I can vividly recall this woman's warning prior to the wedding, but they refuse to listen to her.All these occultic fathers that won't allow their children to ve a say in their own lives.😠😠😠oya make una carry rope tie the two children together nah...mtcheew.

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  10. This interview is very expository oo.
    I am shook.
    Did they swear for OBJ son's? Haaaaaaa. No peace in their marriages.

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  11. All I can see is Daddy OBJ.

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  12. My own is how would a Mother want to go on honeymoon trip with her child

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  13. How is coming to social media helping? When her grown ass son is ready to talk to her, he will. This is the worst thing she can do for her son's marriage. Are most of these stories from first hand experience or from hearsay and over the phone? Na wa ooo! Any marriage with third party input is doomed

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    1. I hope u didn't support Amara calling out her brother in law on social media

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  14. Adam and Eve caused the pain that the whole world is suffering today because of Disobedience, but thank God for Jesus that came to rescue us from the bondage of Sin. Obedience is better than Sacrifice and Prophecy demands Obedience!!!

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  15. Is a pity. This is a family trend. They should consult a man of God to break the yoke of family wahala.

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  16. I sense that there is a whole lot more to come. 2018 is off to a hot gistful start.

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  17. Olu or so, if u're a BV & happen to browse thru ds Blog, Congrats! Thank GOD there's no issue yet in d union that would have bound u guys forever. U lost nothing, just run for ur life bcos u're not even safe. They're not done with u, if uve not left already, leave ds country now or never. Good luck.

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  18. How would a mother want to go on honeymoon with her daughter. Does she want to offer threesome ni?
    Na wa o, let this boy not die of depression and husband battery o. The 100k allowance is it daily, weekly or monthly ?

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    1. Maybe she wants to hold camera for them..
      Pucknosers

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    2. Or maybe she wants to shine touch to the thing..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Like hold it n direct it.
      "Oh no, not there, not there, shift, shift, yes there, not there, yes there, perfect.."πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

      Oswor

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  19. Stella dear,we should do a post on narcissistic personality disorder, and intimate partner abuse.There are soo many damaged humans ,looking for vulnerable partners as supply.we should talk about gaslighting,triangulation, control and manipulation. So that people experiencing this can recognize their situations and leave ooo,

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    1. Absolutely true. Working as a mental health nurse opened my eyes to a lot of traits Africans overlook.
      Most mothers or father's are toxic and narcissistic. The poor kids will be born into such negative environment, hence the cycle continues from generation to generation.

      Whether you like it or not, your environment influences you.
      Now it takes personal determination to be different from other toxic family members.
      First you must accept indeed its toxic, then take several counseling and prayers

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  20. Perhaps the 100k allowance is daily or weekly if not then its small o for someone married to OBJ family

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  21. This is what happens when you force a guy to Marry a lady just because of political connections.

    I remember this woman trying to stop the wedding because of the prophesy she got and everyone called her crazy,Now who is the crazy one.

    I pray the guy comes to his senses to realize that he was used as a pun by his dad for political reasons and he should get back to his mothers side.
    She has his best interest at heart.

    LEPπŸ˜›

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  22. Have you ever heard there are different sides to a story?

    Is this Interview not enough to show you that this woman is a domineering woman that needs a doormat for a daughter in law but unfortunately she didn't get it. She is cooking up stories and trying to make it seem like the daughter in law is the problem obviously this woman is.

    I wonder where and where she must have gone to ruin this marriage. Obviously she had an issue with the girl and not the date. And for all mothers, their sons are always saint. Some of these women have smothered their sons to the point of no return.

    Is it not the same Obasanjo that the son married a nobody and Obasanjo danced at the wedding. Whatever she is doing is for her personal reasons and the dislike she has for the bride and family. Let her better undo what she did .

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. Forgot all that,yes his mother may be overbearing. But he married a bad wife.
      I have never heard anything good about that girl. She has zero character. Even her fathers wife that was bearing same name as her went and changed her name. So people won't be mixing them up.
      If this boy wants long life,let him stay away from that girl and her mother. If not he may end up like Maryam Sanda's case.

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    2. Yeye dey smell. Which father’s wife. I know these people oh. The one that uses Kofo and Tope interchangeable or the one enjoying the man’s money. Mschewwwww!!!!

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  23. This marriage is not even up to a year....I tire for marriage breaking up every now and then.

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  24. Different strokes for different folks

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