THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings....

THURSDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute you all in JESUS name!!!

Today is holiday here and everyone is really enjoying the day but this my i too know bambino went for his coaching Job.....My boy used to play Junior football so while he was playing , he went to coaching school and just as he was entering the University, he switched from player to coach and coaches on particular days of the week and gets paid......Nice one huh?

My Bambinos and I discuss girls, sxx, friends and anything you can think of...I am amazed at how free my kids are to talk, their papa says they got it from me....Please if you are parent, there is nothing like being shy, make sure that your kid can talk to you without holding back oh......Its very important.....

I wan gein find wife for my boys and i jut realised that i will not want my kids to have a Nigerian mother in law or Nigerians as in laws cos of the entitlement mentality and expectations...It is sad but it is the truth........

Let God take control ooh....

I am thinking about facebook live instead of Instagram......let me see..maybe today maybe not but i am still planning and its themed Amebo Na Work.....make i dey think am.......

Enjoy your day where ever you are and i pray that God sends help to those of you that need it....

You eeediot? Yes you......I am a happy and blessed child of God, you cannot kill my flow..continue roaming the comment section like a dog with rabbies...Nah you do me wrong and nah you dey shout for eke market...Nonsense! Jealousy kee you there!!!.Ikwakawakwakwakwakwkawkawkawa

Shootergal is back? Sweetie your fans here missed you......LOL

Teejay will be back soon, he told me he need some time off to hustle, he may be reading , I dunno but he will be when he is settled.......He sent in his column until month end...I miss him sha ........it is what it is....

We are going out for Dinner and its on me!!!...#nocookingday #wifenotcook #mamanotcook #sidechicnotcook 

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IF YOU ARE A MAN PLEASE READ THIS

Most Women No Longer Love the Men They’re With...
(They’ve Just Made Peace With Being Unhappy)
Let’s rip the bandage off:

She doesn’t love you.
She loves the idea of you.
She loves the benefits of you.
But you, as a man?

She stopped desiring you a long time ago.
Let me paint you the not so fine picture:

1. SHE’S NOT IN LOVE. SHE’S IN A ROUTINE.

She cooks. She cuddles. She shows up at family functions
But it’s all autopilot.

* She kisses you like she’s clocking in.
* She laughs at your jokes like a reflex.
* She moans just enough to boost your ego—then turns to the wall.
She’s not staying because she’s happy.
She’s staying because leaving is inconvenient.

2. HER LOVE DIDN’T FADE. IT WAS REPLACED.

By what?
* Resentment.
* Bitt£rness.
* Quiet disâppointment.
You stopped leading.
You stopped improving.
You got comfortable… and she got cold.
Now she looks at you and sees a man she has to tolerâte, not one she’s proud of.

3. SHE FANTASIZES ABOUT OTHER M£N WHILE LYING NEXT TO YOU

You think she’s loyal because she doesn’t cheat?
Nah.
Her loyalty is in bođy, not in mind.
Mentally, she’s replaying:
* That guy at work who compliments her intellect.
* Her gym trainer who grabs her attention (and imagination).
* The ex who never bêgged for intimâcy.
You’re present—but you’re no longer *desired*.

4. SHE DOESN’T ARGUE ANYMORE — BECAUSE SHE DOESN’T CARE

The silence in your home?
That’s not peace.
That’s emotional abandonment.

She used to fîíght with you.
Now she just shrugs.
Because a woman who still cares ARGUES WITH YOU!
A woman who’s done?
She just lets you talk… and D!es a little inside.

5. SHE’S JUST WAITING FOR THE RIGHT EXIT

She’s not praying your relationship works anymore.
She’s praying her next opportunity comes.

The minute:
* Her finances are stable…
* Her side hustle takes off…
* A higher-value man shows consistent interest…
She’s gone.
And she won’t cry when she leaves.
She already did all her crying in your b£d months ago but you never paid attention.

6. SHE USED TO BE SOFT. NOW SHE’S JUST TIRED.

You brôke her FEMININ!ty.
* She doesn’t speak sweetly.
* She doesn’t dress up for you.
* She doesn’t plan date nights or send flirty texts.

Because deep down?
She sees you as a burden now. Not a man.
And she resents herself for settling.

FINAL WARN!NG:
You don’t have a woman in love.
You have a woman in limbo.
She’s not yours because she chooses you.
She’s yours because she hasn’t found better—yet.
And when she does?
You’ll realize…
You were never “the one.”
You were just the filler between h£artbreak and upgrade.

 Treat her better if you still love her. The little things makes the most difference. 
If this shook you, sit with it.
Then rise like a man who won’t be pitied.

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Theres a Nurse i helped pay school fees for when she was in Ibadan...She contacted me after she lost her Dad and her fathers friend wanted to sleep with her before he helped her...She was in class crying and someone who reads this Blog told her to call Stella and Stella will help......
She mailed me and after reading her, I asked her to send account, i didn't have my own money then so i devised ways to get the money from my hubby and others and i sent her....I saw her through school and she is a hustler, and got herself to the UK..I also helped her get ticket and we got her out just after covid.......
She is married with a son now...working and they live in their own home.........
This beautiful lady calls me everyday, its been years but she is the only one i know who does this....... if she doesn't call she sends a message.......I have never seen anything like this before and i recently realised that God blessed me with her......
I dont remember the details i narrated up there but she never lets me forget....If you know her you must know me cos she doesnt stop talking about and says i am the guidance angel her dad sent her...

If there is someone who keeps in touch with you to show they care and not becos of what you can give to them, please appreciate that person...thank you

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