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Let today remind every troublemaker logged into your life or into this blog that their actions are not invisible. You don’t need to explain yourself or defend your name to anyone.(This is for that BV that contacted me about something) God knows the truth, and He knows your heart. Continue into Monday with peace and power...
Shout out to all the people who have put a smile on someone face today...YOU ROCK!!!
Hugs.......
I am off to shop for foodstuff now.......make una join me cos i love to shop totally....
I am still looking at una headlines. Most are funny but from tomorrow watch out if i use yours and count 10k for one and 15k for 2
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
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ATTENTION TO ANY LAWYER READING THIS
Please if you are Lawyer reading this, contact me.I have some unfinished thing i wanted to be completed...My late Lawyer friend did not finish it up before he passed…….
Please if you dont have a sense of humour dont contact me oh .....
Looking forward to working with you long term.....
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COMPLAINTS ABOUT FRIDAY NIGHT POST
Una dey complain say i go post sleep off? I am sorry that this happens oh, i dont actually sleep off but nah my husband dey carry gisting and cappuccino and some friends come meet me as nah Friday......make una no vexs, i don warn am..
I will be enabling the comments every 30mins from this Friday.....
What other complaints are there? Any other post?
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REDUCED COMMENTS ON BLOG
This is to bring una attention to the fact that an anonymous has been happy that the comments on the blog has reduced and i wonder what the person is trying to make me feel like..like i am losing? like a failure? I GOT A THIRD CALSS DEGREE FROM UNIVERSITY AND I TURNED IT INTO ORANGE JUICE.....
We have low comment periods but i really dont care about comments at all...I care about the mental health of the person coming here to count comments...Are you OK= Do you need help? Is there any YABA LEFT OFFICIAL HERE????? Please get help cos this obsession about Stella and her blog will hurt you badly..dont say that i did not warn you....
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
I entered a tricycle last week, and the driver took me halfway to my destination before suddenly saying he could no longer continue because it didn’t make sense for him to use that much fuel to carry just one passenger.
I reminded him that he was the one who had picked me up in the first place. He then asked me to get down, pay him half of the fare, and use the remaining balance to continue my journey with another tricycle.
I explained to him that the balance might not be enough to get me to my destination. I suggested that he flag down another tricycle, explain the situation to the driver, negotiate the fare, and pay the new driver from the total fare.
He refused.
Eventually, I had no choice but to give him half of the fare. When I flagged down another tricycle, the remaining money was indeed not enough to take me to my destination, so I had to add extra cash.
I was so frustrated that I cursed the first driver out and honestly wished I had insisted that he take me all the way to my destination from the beginning. Looking back, I feel I should have stood my ground instead of agreeing to his arrangement.
The decision you took to leave was the best...many people die trying to prove a point…...I pray God blesses you with a car soon….
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD 2
My house is full right now and I am enjoying it. We have my in-laws, siblings and my plus child in the house and I am loving it. Its exciting to me.
The noise, the loud laughter, the large cooking portion, the sitting up late into the night gisting, just the goofiness and all brings me joy.
My street is mainly filled with retirees, and can be very quiet that I am sometimes bothered that my kids are disturbing them but this holiday period almost all their houses are filled with grandchildren and all.
The loud noises and crashing sound that has been filling my street up, makes me chuckle every time I hear them, the shouts of stop it!, don’t go there!!, don’t do this and that!!! Has me in stitches. My bunch are not the only loud ones now.
Also my kids are not so attached to me like before, I can nap and sleep in, they are excitedly running around other people and less in my hair.
Next week, two cousins their age group should be around and I am excitedly looking forward to the chaos.
How much I am loving this chaos is cementing my resolve to foster other kids as my kids grow older. All my friends that were empty nesters are
glowing with excitement too because they have people around this period .
Awwwwwwww, i remember these kinds of coming over to stay in Naija oooooo…..I have beautiful memories from my childhood and sometimes i wish i can be a child again…..
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
I entered a tricycle last week, and the driver took me halfway to my destination before suddenly saying he could no longer continue because it didn’t make sense for him to use that much fuel to carry just one passenger.
I reminded him that he was the one who had picked me up in the first place. He then asked me to get down, pay him half of the fare, and use the remaining balance to continue my journey with another tricycle.
I explained to him that the balance might not be enough to get me to my destination. I suggested that he flag down another tricycle, explain the situation to the driver, negotiate the fare, and pay the new driver from the total fare.
He refused.
Eventually, I had no choice but to give him half of the fare. When I flagged down another tricycle, the remaining money was indeed not enough to take me to my destination, so I had to add extra cash.
I was so frustrated that I cursed the first driver out and honestly wished I had insisted that he take me all the way to my destination from the beginning. Looking back, I feel I should have stood my ground instead of agreeing to his arrangement.
The decision you took to leave was the best...many people die trying to prove a point…...I pray God blesses you with a car soon….
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD 2
My house is full right now and I am enjoying it. We have my in-laws, siblings and my plus child in the house and I am loving it. Its exciting to me.
The noise, the loud laughter, the large cooking portion, the sitting up late into the night gisting, just the goofiness and all brings me joy.
My street is mainly filled with retirees, and can be very quiet that I am sometimes bothered that my kids are disturbing them but this holiday period almost all their houses are filled with grandchildren and all.
The loud noises and crashing sound that has been filling my street up, makes me chuckle every time I hear them, the shouts of stop it!, don’t go there!!, don’t do this and that!!! Has me in stitches. My bunch are not the only loud ones now.
Also my kids are not so attached to me like before, I can nap and sleep in, they are excitedly running around other people and less in my hair.
Next week, two cousins their age group should be around and I am excitedly looking forward to the chaos.
How much I am loving this chaos is cementing my resolve to foster other kids as my kids grow older. All my friends that were empty nesters are
glowing with excitement too because they have people around this period .
Awwwwwwww, i remember these kinds of coming over to stay in Naija oooooo…..I have beautiful memories from my childhood and sometimes i wish i can be a child again…..
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10 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER RUSH IN LIFE
1.Marriage.
2.Major financial decisions.
3.Choosing business partners.
4.Trusting strangers.
5.Responding while angry.
6.Quitting something important.
7.Making permanent decisions during temporary emotions.
8.Choosing your closest friends.
9.Giving someone another chance.
10.Deciding what kind of person you want to become.
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MALE WEAKNESS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
It’s not money.
It’s not s3x.
It’s not beauty.
The real weakness most men have is emotional safety.
Men are raised to be strong, silent, and self-contained.
So when a man meets a woman who doesn’t judge his fears, rush his growth, or mock his vulnerability, something shifts inside him.
He becomes attached to the space, not just the woman.
A man’s guard drops when he feels respected even when he’s imperfect.
When his effort is noticed, not just his results.
When he isn’t constantly tested or pressured to perform.
This doesn’t mean tolerating nonsense.
It means understanding that a calm, emotionally stable woman is rare.
Men open up where they feel safe.
They commit where they feel understood.
They stay where their masculinity isn’t attacked, but refined.
And here’s the truth many people won’t say:
A man will walk away from beauty. He will walk away from attention. But he struggles to walk away from peace
Not because he’s weak, but because peace is the one thing the world rarely gives him.
Understand this, and you stop chasing men. You start choosing wisely.
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A MEMO TO SOME YOUNG MEN
Dear young man, learn to clean up after yourself and cook for yourself while single. Be a functional adult first before trying to marry.
Know how to wash your clothes, arrange your space, feed yourself, manage your emotions and survive without turning every woman you date into your mother.
Marriage is not an adult daycare center.
And dear young lady, start earning money first, no matter how small, before trying to marry.
It is dignifying when you are able to at least meet some of your own needs. Even if the money is small, let your hands touch responsibility. Let your brain understand effort, sacrifice and value.
In today’s digital world, there is really very little excuse for not becoming very good at something and monetizing it. I always say that women who take their craft seriously and put themselves out here on social media have a very good chance of doing extremely well, even more than their male counterparts.
You need to earn not because marriage is a competition or because a man should not provide, but because dependency can blind people.
A lot of people entered marriages they should never have entered because they were desperate to escape suffering, loneliness, bills or responsibility.
When hunger, desperation, laziness or survival is controlling your decisions, you will ignore things you should have seen clearly.
You will call manipulation love.
You will call control care.
You will call red flags “nobody is perfect.”
Before marriage, become a functional human being first.
Marriage should be two complete adults coming together to build life together, not two broken people looking for who will carry them on their head.
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10 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER RUSH IN LIFE
1.Marriage.
2.Major financial decisions.
3.Choosing business partners.
4.Trusting strangers.
5.Responding while angry.
6.Quitting something important.
7.Making permanent decisions during temporary emotions.
8.Choosing your closest friends.
9.Giving someone another chance.
10.Deciding what kind of person you want to become.
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MALE WEAKNESS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
It’s not money.
It’s not s3x.
It’s not beauty.
The real weakness most men have is emotional safety.
Men are raised to be strong, silent, and self-contained.
So when a man meets a woman who doesn’t judge his fears, rush his growth, or mock his vulnerability, something shifts inside him.
He becomes attached to the space, not just the woman.
A man’s guard drops when he feels respected even when he’s imperfect.
When his effort is noticed, not just his results.
When he isn’t constantly tested or pressured to perform.
This doesn’t mean tolerating nonsense.
It means understanding that a calm, emotionally stable woman is rare.
Men open up where they feel safe.
They commit where they feel understood.
They stay where their masculinity isn’t attacked, but refined.
And here’s the truth many people won’t say:
A man will walk away from beauty. He will walk away from attention. But he struggles to walk away from peace
Not because he’s weak, but because peace is the one thing the world rarely gives him.
Understand this, and you stop chasing men. You start choosing wisely.
*copied*
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A MEMO TO SOME YOUNG MEN
Dear young man, learn to clean up after yourself and cook for yourself while single. Be a functional adult first before trying to marry.
Know how to wash your clothes, arrange your space, feed yourself, manage your emotions and survive without turning every woman you date into your mother.
Marriage is not an adult daycare center.
And dear young lady, start earning money first, no matter how small, before trying to marry.
It is dignifying when you are able to at least meet some of your own needs. Even if the money is small, let your hands touch responsibility. Let your brain understand effort, sacrifice and value.
In today’s digital world, there is really very little excuse for not becoming very good at something and monetizing it. I always say that women who take their craft seriously and put themselves out here on social media have a very good chance of doing extremely well, even more than their male counterparts.
You need to earn not because marriage is a competition or because a man should not provide, but because dependency can blind people.
A lot of people entered marriages they should never have entered because they were desperate to escape suffering, loneliness, bills or responsibility.
When hunger, desperation, laziness or survival is controlling your decisions, you will ignore things you should have seen clearly.
You will call manipulation love.
You will call control care.
You will call red flags “nobody is perfect.”
Before marriage, become a functional human being first.
Marriage should be two complete adults coming together to build life together, not two broken people looking for who will carry them on their head.
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Hi beautiful people.
ReplyDeleteHola babe ๐ how’s your day going?
DeleteBabygirl ๐ How have you been?
Delete10 things you should never rush in life is very correct ๐ฏ
My Paris,I am doing very good,thank you my love.
DeleteAdunni My babes,I love you.
Good afternoon Ndioma
ReplyDeleteWe welcome IHN
Hiya Missy ๐งก
DeleteWho else watches all these fruits Ai videos on IG? Im so fixated on some of them, so funny ๐คฃ๐คฃ you see some cheating, some so wicked by killing their partners, while some farts and it turns to gold or diamond ๐๐ Ai be going cray
Mee!@ paris ๐๐๐
DeleteOmo forget Davido our inlaw na pure vibes, with Chief Priests, the 2 of them light up Vintage birthday party.
ReplyDeleteI want to let you guys know that am back from Vintage Interior birthday party in Lagos and I don come back village.
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Chief "priest", not "priests". Are they two in number?
DeleteAlso, it's "I'm" not "am"
Hahaha ๐๐ hope you enjoyed yourself at the party.
DeleteItibolibo
DeleteGreetings Nwokem ๐ฉถ akwabaa ๐๐ hope you enjoyed yourself?
DeleteThat party was lit mehn. Hope you had massive fun? ๐ฅณ
DeleteAnons, free this guy nah. Haba! ๐
DeleteWellcome Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
ReplyDeleteI Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello iya Boys
Chika baby ๐ฅฐ How you dey?
DeleteI'm Cool Baby Girl ๐ฅฐ
DeleteMonday IHN is filled with lots of love
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteOmo, like this now, we are entering Ember month tomorrow. Thank you God for you you have done and will continue doing for me. Dalu nna
Babygirl ๐ฅฐ na ember months we dey enter so o ๐
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Over billing can truly turn your husband or boyfriend to be unromantic!!
This up ๐ here na trueee ladies....
I Don notice say anytime a lady
Call me" baby" I dey always get debit alert from banks........
If you like call me baby from Sunday to Sunday.... I no go answer you again.....
Kindly Call me by my government names henceforth:
Urugi Jeremiah kurumiiiiii
Babimm ๐
DeleteJeremiah wetin? Na that baby sweet pass jor ๐
DeleteLol ๐
DeleteSleeping on duty..much needed that nap.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
Good afternoon SDK and BVs.
ReplyDeleteSeptember, how many times I call you? Sebi you see how your mate August do?
ReplyDeleteUnboxing from 1st to 31st.
Nuclear missile morning, noon and night. Everywhere ๐ฅ hot hot๐ฅ hot hot๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฅ
Ehen, this baton wey August wan give you so, no be to use catch rat o.
August no sleep.
September you sef no go sleep.
Scatter everywhere you here?
I say scatter everywhere.
This one wey August don do, I wan make e be say na warm up, na small pikin tinz...you hear?
September go forth and do what only you can do.
I don buy extra data down, na you go be my Netflix o, no fall my hand.
๐ถ๐ผ♀️
Amen, Anon.
DeleteThis your mindset is so odd.
DeleteLOL, amebonawork.
DeleteLol ๐ Anon you be case aswear but you are right about August,it came with full package and extra too. It was back to back drama that it was even difficult to keep up.
DeleteSeptember oya o leggo๐๐
Lol, Funny Annon
DeleteLol, Funny Anony
DeleteChei, you too like amebo ๐
DeleteHahahahaha ๐๐๐๐ August came loaded. Abeg, make September give us break abeg.
Delete๐ ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
DeleteGood afternoon house
ReplyDeleteHelen
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Beautiful people ๐
ReplyDeleteI pressed on. No depression is allowed.
ReplyDeleteMotherhood poster, my house is full too. God help us. The large cooking is draining though ๐ฉ๐คฆ.
My
Amen ๐. God help us
DeleteIt seems we’ll be having the September break this year instead of the usual August break. It’s been sunny all through yesterday and today. A good one, I must say.
ReplyDeleteI just lost something and it hurt so much, but I’ve moved on from it now. Such is life, though. We don’t win all the time.
©️ TEEJAY
Oh boy!! ๐คฆ♀️
DeleteMtcheww
DeleteMtcheww
DeleteTeejay hopefully you will bounce back. The rainy season is almost coming to an end.
DeleteIt is well!
DeleteThanks Anon 17:24, that's kind of you.
Delete@Baci, yea it is. All is gonna be well pretty soon.
©️ TEEJAY
๐๐๐"10k for one, 15k for two"... typical Naija way of haggling over a price
ReplyDeleteAs in ehn
DeleteLol
This Ibadan ehn..na something else.
ReplyDeleteImagine, a guy impregnated seven different women and they all went to stay with the mother of the useless guy..
Wahala wa oooo
Like seriously? What are they on about?
DeleteNa wah for the 7 of them..
DeleteThey lack sense..
Just imagine that
Wahala promax๐คฃ๐คฃ
DeleteFuji house of commotion.
Wait Pinky, as in Seven Women ? Jesus Christ. Hmmm
DeleteAnd the mother accepted all of them? Wahala.
DeleteThe mama should chase them out abeg. They want to kpai the woman? ๐ก
DeleteThis is funny and not funny.
DeleteGood afternoon,it's a blessful kinda in house and may the Good Lord give us a fulfilling end of August gift.
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteNFJ ❤️ my dear, as painful and frustrating as the situation was, remember that leaving that tricycle might have been a blessing in disguise. You may never know what was ahead on that journey, but God sees what we cannot see. Perhaps what felt like an inconvenience was actually his way of protecting you from an unseen danger. ❤️Thank God for bringing you safely through it. Sometimes, God’s protection comes in ways we do not understand. The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord. (Psalm 37:23 )
ReplyDeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY ๐น
Thanks Big Momma.
Delete@NFJ
It's always a different atmosphere when all the nieces and nephews with their kids come around for holiday @Motherhood Poster, I used to love it but now, after one week I kinda get tired, I don't know why.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your shopping, Stella.
Good day fam๐
True dear, I don't really have stamina for relatives visiting..unless they come batch by batch ... I used to love it but now, it's draining ๐
DeleteHi Guys, please what is the best way to detangle matted hair? This my own hair not wig.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe how matted my hair is.
I put a little water and conditioner and I'm still struggling. Gosh.
Go to a professional please ๐
DeleteYou need a lot of water and a lot of conditioner then Comb from the ends to the roots.
DeleteUse a denman brush or a detailing brush. A ordinary wide tooth comb ll do as well.
Section your hair into small portions before combing
Try using a leave in Conditioner. Medianna Milk is fine or Auntie Jackie's Quench Leave in Conditioner then apply Argan or coconut oil to add a slip to the hair.
DeleteHey Foodie, Toots and Anon. Thank you so much. I'm almost 3/4 done. I added conditioner, castor oil and water.
DeleteLittle by little...
I have to do this myself because there is no salon that will be able to spend hours to untangle without cutting off my hair.
Initially, I actually contemplated cutting the hair off and starting again.
Sunny Day.
ReplyDeleteGod is good and his mercies endures forever.
Hello Everyone....
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHello Stella I have a question for you.
ReplyDeleteWhy do you always get so upset when someone says they don’t like you?
I hope you know you mustn’t be liked by everyone same way you don’t like some people too..just ignore when you see such cuz addressing it each time is actually fueling the trolls and they never stop ๐ learn to ignore them bikonu.
Honestly it's headache inducing and extremely childish.
DeleteLike some one still stuck in high school. Like grow tf up!
Anon 16:28, Are you Candy, Kelvin, Mr and Mrs, or one of her haters? Please stop it!
Deleteolosi UNA DON LAND?????? WHO GIVES A FCUK WHETHER YOU LIKE ME OR NOT===I DONT CARE BUT DONT TROLL ME ALONGSIDE IT; DONT BE OBSESSED WITH UR FREAKING HATE FOR ME; STAY OUT OF MY SIGHT AND STOP INCREASING MY HATRED FOR U....i know the stoopid things trolling me , i am not ready to drag them yet but one day i hope this space will be good enough to contain una
Deleteleave me the heck alone
16.28 come out with ur full ID.....jobless modafoka...u dont wanna comment again but una no dey fit log out here...walk away and forget about me, its not by froce please...
DeleteYou people should free these people. They are not the first, or the last to stop commenting. People come and go, allow them breathe. Not everyone must like you, na by force.
DeleteMay God guide and protect us all and ease our affairs
ReplyDeleteGood day Stella and everyone.Nice write ups.Have a blessed day.
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ReplyDeleteMay God continue to protect, provide and meet us at our point of need. Amen.
Good afternoon beautiful people. Happy new week
I didn't come to this world to be anybody's memory card gbammest ๐
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people
Happy new week Nd d last day of the month ๐คธ๐คธ๐คธ
Blessed day ahead
I pressed on๐
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone ๐ฅฐ
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHowz the go dey go
Good afternoon all? How is our day going? It's sunny today and I love it because the clothes that I washed will dry
ReplyDeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone ๐ฅณ
Happy Men Crush Monday to all the amazing men here ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
God is good๐ฅฐ
ReplyDeleteLolzz@Motherhood Poster, enjoy your Fuji house๐
ReplyDelete@NFJ truly some disappointments could be blessings in disguise o. Nor be every battle we suppose fight. God may have prevented or removed something you didnt know ahead.
The Sun is blazing hot today.
Aje awa ooo๐คฃ
Last meme on point ☝️
ReplyDeleteMana Eziokwu ✌️๐๐
Saving it
Hi guys!
ReplyDeleteDoes IR have mental health issues? I had my reservation about his mental health until yesterday on clap back post when I became certain that he is mentally ill with the spirit of ungratefulness following him wherever he goes to. It is Stella I pity.
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