This email really broke my heart..She sent the mail with her phone number and details and i have taken them off and decided not to use her picture as part of this post.
I have posted her unedited mail which is really the plight of most women nowadays and i am sure she is one voice out of a million crying out,please be gentle with your advise as she visits this blog regularly and even says the husband reads this blog as well.
I asked if making this post will not cause more problems for her and she said her situation is already bad enough and kept begging and crying ......I am making this post hoping that someone out there who reads this will put out info that will help her or send me a private mail asking for her phone number to assist her in whichever way they can-.
Note that she stated that she does not want cash but someone that will help her.
''My name is Oby Okoli,I was born on Nov 28 1976.I from umudim nnewi. I married to chuka okoli from oba idemili. I was married at tender age of 17 as a virgin,hoping to bear children for my hubby bt thing s didn't work out d way I think. After some years I could not conceive, I went to hospital to check myself,Doctor told me that my tubes are OK, Am ovulating, no fibroid and still I could not conceive for 17yrs. My Hubby is about to throw me out of the house. I don't have any where to go.Am orphan. Am calling on Nigerians and any doctor who can to save my marriage by taking me to any hospital Where I will do IVF because I can't afford it. Please I love my husband too much and I don't want to loose him.Please anybody out there should help me''
I pray that God meets this young woman at the point of her needs,i don't know what to else to do or say.
The problem here is not going for an IVF. First things first, if the doctor says you are ok have they declared Mr Okoli ok?
ReplyDeleteSecondly, whats next if your IVF fails?
Nothing pass GOD my sister
If the doctor says you are ok what about MR OKOLI?
ReplyDeleteSecondly what if an IVF or ICSI is successfully done but fails after transplant?
Pls seek God cos He is a last minute God who is ready to fetch water in a basket to disgrace a bucket.
God help ur daughter
ReplyDeleteHmmm..She got married too early and she is not financially independent! Women work hard and be earn your own MONEY!
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of man is dat..my dear if dat man trows u out dat means he doesn't Luv u...God will give u ur hart desire.Amen
ReplyDeleteYour husband must be sterile!Let him go do test!You will be shocked that if you get money for ivf the man go run cos dem go catch am say he dey shoot blanks from time imo~river!I wish you Goodluck without jonathan cos I no fit advise you. na for u to leave dey my mind but I no fit talk am out!signed:wide eyed!
ReplyDeleteAmennnnnn ooooo@ur prayer stella. A favourer will stand up for u IJN. Very sad buh I know d God we serve will fight ur battle. I use all mothers as point of contact to all barren women to receive their miracles from diff angles today IJN..... Amen
ReplyDeleteHas the husband gone for treatment? Is he fertile? If the man doesn't want her again, she should move on with her life. Get a business and keep busy. A child won't restore the peace in her home. Its just bringing a child into a DV situation.
ReplyDeletePLAIN AND SIMPLE..GO TO TB JOSHUA.( or any other genuine man of God)
ReplyDeleteFake man of God! My uncle went there and died of same sickness after appearing on TV and staying in that church for months!!! Abeg let her cry to God in prayers and the God of orphans will answer her prayers! If u are certified ok medically and ur hubby still wants to throw u out? Check ur hubby nnem! I dey prayfor u. Its well.
DeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteHe is impotent...not u.. He should check himself
DeleteI feel your pain.. I would advice you to get ready for the worst, because Nigerian men think they are perfect so even if its his fault, its automatically yours.. So please my sister tell him to get checked first..#just my opinion #
DeleteThe worst can only happen if she allows it. I've always said that Africans do not do marriage well. White people understand the meaning of love and the true value of marriage. That's why they divorce at a higher rate and most of the time amicably. Joining your life with another should benefit you. Once it doesn't white people end the marriage. They understand that it should be a mutually beneficial contract. Getting married as a virgin, a whore, at 17 or at 57 are not in any way intergral to the success of a marriage. In a white marriage, your husband's house is your home. He can't "throw you out". That's babaric. And should be illegal. African culture is not progressive in any way. We are backward in education, technology, standard of living, marriage and family values.
DeleteOby, you know how some Nnewi men love to feel like in their homes they are kings in their castles. You must also stand your ground as queen of your castle. You've been playing the victim. STOP! Don't go begging his family because they'll never be real with you. Nnewi people can be big hypocrites when it comes to marriage. They only respect wives from other places. But they treat ibo wives like slaves. That is your home. If he dares throw any of your property out, you start throwing his out too. Stay strong.
All these TB Joshua advocates are always here.
ReplyDeleteStella, jare, why dont you ask for the husband's number and call him. Or visit them at home. There might be more to it.
Lol. Una no go kii person with advice. Make Stella go visit them for house. Na wa o. Ngwanu Stella, try go dia house go find out howfa then report back to us biko.
DeleteFrom Europe abi?
DeleteSorry about that. But did your husband check himself too? Is he fertile? If someone is ready to sponser your ivf rounds how will you get your husband to follow you to the hospital? What if he's one with the problem?
ReplyDeleteMy dear pls be very prayerful right now. Tell God your situation. He won't forsake you.
TB JOSHUA... ASAP
ReplyDeletePlease don't mind this one,I'm sure ure looking for a child and not an evil spirit!
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Lmao! Fearless I love ur reply. No be only evil spirit na familiar spirits sef she go see if she make mistake enter that church.
DeleteMr. Okoli plz b patient. Na both of u dey d marriage na!
ReplyDeleteIf a woman cannot concieve, its a two way tin, its eida the fault is from her, and she says sh has being cleared or, from you(which we don't even know)!
I hope u read ur wife's post, n understand dat it tks desperation n boldness to com out openly and give full names!
I JUST HATE 'THE BLACK MAN's MENTALITY' ehn! Blaming everytin on a wman,cos she carries out d final product!
Nne am sorry for pain you ve been through. Being childless is enough agony and the very man who took your virginity has absolutely no right to terrorize you more. Honestly is not in your place to search for money for ivf,it should rather be a joint effort if he cant sponsor it. What you need most is self discovering and is not too late to add value to your life eg academically or get a job. Dont waist your entire life only loving a man that cares less about your pain despite knowing your an orphan.
ReplyDeleteI love this comment
DeleteI forgot to add dat u can adopt beautiful children too!
ReplyDeleteDon't wait any longer, oga try and make ur marriage work!
As d igbo's say NDIDI-AMAKA meaning patience is profitable.
Go to TB JOSHUA,s church also if you go to your church often and close to your pastors,take your pastors to your house to talk to him,please,go through men of God and go to TB JOSHUA,s church too
ReplyDeleteAre u for real!
DeleteWhat's with this tb joshua sef!
Are u ok?!
I have posted her unedited mail which is really the plight of most women nowadays and i am sure she is one voice out of www.mmogoing.com a million crying out,please be gentle with your advise as she visits this blog regularly and even says the husband reads this blog as well.
ReplyDeleteDear Mrs Okoli,
ReplyDeleteI really feel for you but I know God has not made you barren, you will bring forth children in Jesus name.
First and foremeost, you need to visit the hospital together with you husband so that you both can be medically certified ok.
you might be fine medically, what bout him?
If that is done and it is clear that both of you are fine, you both can visit St. Ives Hospital in Ikeja, Lagos
I know someone that couldn't conceive after 8years of marriage, that was where she had her IVF.
(In this case, it was your same story until they later found out the husband had low sperm count meanwhile he had been blaming the wife all through these years. he refused a check-up as well. It took the grace of God and apologies from her inlaws to salvage the marriage. thank God they have twin boys now)
Now again, please note that the chances of IVF are 50-50. should you opt for it, you might need serious bed rest and less worry.
I wish you well and I have you in my prayers.
PS: I am quite disappointed in your husband though... thank God he met you a virgin otherwise maybe he would have called you all sorts of unprintable names.
Again, much as I know that a child-less marriage can be frustrating, Does this man really really love you???? Am asking because he is about to throw you out for a no just cause. Please let him be checked.
If he refuses a test, and still insists on you packing out, my dear let him go...(the ways of God is not the way of man...maybe this is a sign sef that he is not the right man for you. *jus saying*)
Dear Bloglord, Thank you for this comment, to think I used to beef you before for your insensitive comments. God bless you o jare
DeleteGood point. Are you sure this man loves you? The Bible says perfect love has no fear. I know right now you can't think of anything else but how to salvage your marriage but have you considered that this man is not for you? Yes, I know you've invested time in the marriage but if he is planning to do something like physically removing you from your home, disrespecting your status, thereby deleting you from his life - he does not love you. Love is patient and kind. He is not being either of these things. Why are you considering IVF? To save your marriage? Oby, only your Father in heaven can do that. Try not to focus your energies and prayers on concieving and making a man happy. Ask God for direction. Seek Him. Maybe you're trying to force open a door that He on His divine wisdom has closed. I am praying for you, my sister.
DeleteGood point. Are you sure this man loves you? The Bible says perfect love has no fear. I know right now you can't think of anything else but how to salvage your marriage but have you considered that this man is not for you? Yes, I know you've invested time in the marriage but if he is planning to do something like physically removing you from your home, disrespecting your status, thereby deleting you from his life - he does not love you. Love is patient and kind. He is not being either of these things. Why are you considering IVF? To save your marriage? Oby, only your Father in heaven can do that. Try not to focus your energies and prayers on concieving and making a man happy. Ask God for direction. Seek Him. Maybe you're trying to force open a door that He on His divine wisdom has closed. I am praying for you, my sister.
DeleteHmmn....i realy felt like cryin 4 mrs okoli...coz i know hw it is 4 a woman dat cant conciev.bt all of u shoutin love love,is love realy enough??witout children??
ReplyDeleteGod wil surely make a way o cos many women dey 4 dis kin situation.tank God anytime i see ma chiboy eeh??ma heart dey sweet die!b4 d okija man go cum trow me out.....yinkus
Yeah love should be enough right ? Or is it the mentality that children complete the family. It has to be love love first.
Delete@Bloglord, aside from the woman's pathetic story, ur story is also challenging and convincing....waoh you just gave her hope and confidence, people like you who make reasonable comments are scarce, advice giving is d essence of blogging, stella thk u for bringing dis story up, and be happy cos God has given u best blog readers all of their comments are on point...meanwhile madam You are too much to b barren, receive ur miraculous baby IJN...Pls Take timeout and visit my blog for juicy antertainment gist HERE
ReplyDeleteWe will not visit your blog. Hian! Is it by force?
DeleteLol...
DeleteI agree with bloglord, open your heart, I know of someone that was driven out and became pregnant immediately for her new husband. Try n be financially independent . Pray God does hear prayer.
ReplyDeleteBloglord, said it all
ReplyDeleteMrs okoli,am nt married buh I understand u perfectly,fortunately I worked wit save a life diagnostic center,mopol 19 gra portharcourt,its a fertility center nd its affilated 2 an india hospital,they undergo extensive checkups,from infection 2 hormonal balance,2 scans,xrays nd tubal blockage etc.den after treatment den u can opt 4 eida iui or ivf,but d doctor won't b able 2 handle ur case properly witout ur husband's co-operation.I have seen a lot of miracle conception dere.
ReplyDeleteYou are advertising save a life did u nt see that she is not financially strong, abi u want to pay for her, madam pls avoid there they are very expensive n its 50/50. I spent 1.65m there for icsi that failed not counting the 350k we spent test n treatment before the icsi. Pls don't go to save a life oh at the end I went to dr jude's gynaescope and I paid 850k now I have twin boys. Pls don't mind ebi.
DeleteNa wa o. See money. Poor person with fertility issues would die barren na. Shuo! 1.65m. 850k. Jesus Christ! It is well o
DeleteNa wa o. See money. Poor person with fertility issues would die barren na. Shuo! 1.65m. 850k. Jesus Christ! It is well o
Delete@ Anon 4:31 plz wats dis jude's gynaescope address.
Delete@anon 4:31, why not let those need have the good dr jude's contacts?
Delete@anon 4:31, why not let those need have the good dr jude's contacts?
DeleteIf you are in portharcourt this is gynescope address no 1 mini Ezeku Street,
DeleteRumuogba, Port Harcourt.you can reach Dr Jude on 08037275377
Thanks Bloglord, You said it all. I pray she stumbles on your comment, cos she's gonna find it really Helpful.
ReplyDeleteDear Mrs Okoli,
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad about your situation and I just want you to know that sometimes we as humans hold on to what God wants us to let go!
My humble advise,do not listen to the tb joshua people!there are a lot of "men of god" these days that will add to your problem. God Almighty is not deaf or blind,pray to HIM by yourself,take this desperation to Him and see him work wonders.
Ask the Lord for what you want but remember to surrender to His will.
If ure not close to God,no problem,there is no particular pattern or language HE does not understand,just seclude yourself and pour out your heart,most importantly have faith!
As for Mr Okoli,I hope he has done tests to confirm he is not the problem&i pray God softens his heart.
God Bless you and I will pray for you and your home from today.
I kno of a couple dat came for treatment,d wife has undergone sumtin we call HSG lyk 3tyms,dis hsg is crazily painful but she has endured it,d husband refuse 2 do any checkup claiming he is capable,so one day he came 2 d hospital nd meet me dat he wants 2 do his own checkup,so I asked him if I shld put d result in deir family folder nd dis guy screamed dat I shldnt try it o,I was shocked so I said ok I carried out d tests nd lo nd behold d guys semen was so empty dat u can mistake it 4 pap,I was so shocked I had 2 call a doctor 2 tlk 2 him abt it,in d process of tlkn he said he doesn't wnt his wife 2 kno dat he is @fault if nt she wld disrespect him nd al dat,den d doctor spoke seriously abt wat d wife has bin pasn tru al along tinkn she is d cause,so my dear I tink ur husband knos wat he is doin nd God is wrkn in ur life,if u ask him 2 join u 2 d hospital nd he refuse,jus dnt border him go nd do ur own tin nd b sure,den if he throws u out dust ur self nd start agn,cos ur miracle is on d way.
ReplyDeleteMrs okoli,am nt married buh I understand u perfectly,fortunately I worked wit save a life diagnostic center,mopol 19 gra portharcourt,its a fertility center nd its affilated 2 an india hospital,they undergo extensive checkups,from infection 2 hormonal balance,2 scans,xrays nd tubal blockage etc.den after treatment den u can opt 4 eida iui or ivf,but d doctor won't b able 2 handle ur case properly witout ur husband's co-operation.I have seen a lot of miracle conception dere.
ReplyDeletewell my advise to her is dat she shud be prayerful and i seconded d anon dat said she shud empower herself .One of my uncles married for almost 19yrs without issue and separated, got married to another woman likewise d lady , but today they have kids in their new marriages. If yr husband want to throw u out, pls take it as a blessing in disguise. 19yrs of marriage witout issue is not easy, who knows d torment u av been thru to d extent of speaking out. Like wat my sister said dat na make u comot for d house na wetin dey her mind, i support dat one. Pls think well b4 d man go turn to dat fake pastor for london wey frustrate hin wife even on her hospital bed until she gave up d ghost.
ReplyDeleteFearless wats ur problem with Prophet TB Joshua, he can help her family, they need him, and u fearless need him too, nut of course the evil spirit dat uses u to condemn God's prophet will tell u not to go, go for deliverance fearless u need it. Shey you've how d pple dat condemns Prophet TB Joshua ends up, i dont think u'll like to end up like dat. Word of advice.
ReplyDeleteBella Ragazz...
If he is a true man of god (small case intentional ☺) what happens to the people that don't agree with him spiritually?
DeleteMy dear,ure d one in need of serious deliverance!
I know my stand with God!
If ure not in Bondage,why didn't u say run to God? Why did u put his name? Is he your God?
How many people have come here to say "run to Adeboye"?
When u idolise a mere mortal,there is big problem!
A word is enough for the wise.
And for ur info, I won't end up anyhow,I'm the child of the Most High, nothing will happen to me! ☺
Gbamest!! Scheeew, Bella Ragaz idol worshipper, u don hear? We are children of the Most High. He is our fortress and our saviour.
Delete@ AnonymousJune 23, 2013 at 3:14 AM
DeleteHugs!
Fearless!
Fearless wats ur problem with Prophet TB Joshua, he can help her family, they need him, and u fearless need him too, nut of course the evil spirit dat uses u to condemn God's prophet will tell u not to go, go for deliverance fearless u need it. Shey you've how d pple dat condemns Prophet TB Joshua ends up, i dont think u'll like to end up like dat. Word of advice.
ReplyDeleteBella Ragazz...
Fearless wats ur problem with Prophet TB Joshua, he can help her family, they need him, and u fearless need him too, nut of course the evil spirit dat uses u to condemn God's prophet will tell u not to go, go for deliverance fearless u need it. Shey you've how d pple dat condemns Prophet TB Joshua ends up, i dont think u'll like to end up like dat. Word of advice. Plus Blog Lord said it all. Mrs Okoli may d peace of the Lord ve with u.
ReplyDeleteBella Ragazz...
Fearless wats ur problem with Prophet TB Joshua, he can help her family, they need him, and u fearless need him too, nut of course the evil spirit dat uses u to condemn God's prophet will tell u not to go, go for deliverance fearless u need it. Shey you've how d pple dat condemns Prophet TB Joshua ends up, i dont think u'll like to end up like dat. Word of advice. Plus Blog Lord said it all. Mrs Okoli may d peace of the Lord ve with u.
ReplyDeleteBella Ragazz...
Its really sad Mrs Okoli buh there is nothing impossible for God almighty,I pray you find financial help from all quarters IJN. And like Bloglord said,pls make sure ur hubby goes for the test with you,you both have to do it together pls. DIV hospital in Abuja does IVF for women whom d world have concluded barren,women whom the barren had also labelled barren,and to the glory of God,out of 100 per cent cases only one per cent fails out of his IVF. He was driven to specialise on that because his wife n him didn't give birth on time and they delivered their three kids through IVF,his doctors are sent out of the country to learn first hand any new fertility treatment so right now he's one of the best in Nigeria. So whichever way,you can also try his hospital if you consider IVF,evrything is in God's hands and may ur heart desires be granted IJN.plenty hugs.
ReplyDeleteDIV in full n address pls a frd will need this she complaint that NISA Premium Hospital is too expensive 4m for IVF.
Deletei don,t know what else to say,peeps have said it all and bloglord summarised in a nutshell.Do the one you can and live the rest to God.visit www.africaintels.com
ReplyDeletet b Joshua is a fake o! please don't push her into more problems! go to redemption camp dear, I wish you all the best
ReplyDeletePls who can help with stella's email I have a burning problem to share
ReplyDeleteThanks all.
ReplyDeleteI really hope my piece helps her.
It is well with her in Jesus name!
There is nothing God cannot do!
#hugs
Ok, i will give u d 'ghetto solution' to ur problem.
ReplyDeleteFind a young, fit, fertile man and get busy with him at least 3 days a week for a month. If nothing happens then Mr Okoli may be absolved of my conviction that he is infertile.
TB Joshua; that's a demon in disguise. Go there at your peril and your troubles will only start. Fearless and I have the same views about that principality.
ReplyDeleteThank you jare,beta person!
DeletePeople really need the spirit of discernment so they won't go from frypan to fire!
My heart bleeds for mrs okoli because am in the same situation thou not up to 17 yrs. I know exactly what she is passing through. I have done a lot of tests, lots of painful fertility procedures including surgery. They all kept failing. Mind you I live in Europe, I use the best doctors who are all professors. I have been there, I have seen 99 remaining 100.
ReplyDelete@ETHAN had to google the hospital,ve gat someone dt talks abt dem passionately and how she's seen various women get deir kids there,I jes hear her say DIV,neva knew it was DIFF =))º°˚˚˚°ÂºÐ½aĦaнaº°˚˚˚°Âº=)) well google is my friend had to google dere info,hope ur friend finds it useful.
ReplyDelete"The idea to begin DIFF Hospital was conceived on the 26th of February, 2001 following the birth of a set of triplets to the family of the Medical Director, Dr. John Idahosa. This miracle happened after nine long years of infertility, patience, and determined faith to believe God’s Promises.
The Medical Director decided on that day to create an enabling and sustainable medical environment that will give fulfilment to the hopes and aspirations of many Nigerians suffering from infertility and other gynaecology ailments.
This Dream was eventually given birth to on the 1st of June, 2004 with the commencement of clinical services.
Origin of Hospital Name
The hospital is named after the triplets of Dr. John Idahosa. Their names are Divine, Favour & Faith. The acronym created from the letters of their names is DIFF.
Our Rapid Growth
Due to the quality of our Gynaecology and Obstetric services in addition to pressure from several corporate and international clients, we decided to expand the scope of our clinical services to accommodate other specialties.
Our rapid growth also necessitated the need to move to our present location at 6, Udi Hills Close, Aso Drive, Maitama, Abuja on the 26th of February 2006" I hope this info wud be useful. Thank you.
Anonymous47----please
ReplyDeletewhere is dr jude's gynaescope based
Is 850k the total cost or any extra cost
How long did the process take(so we can both plan our annual leave)
can you please post dr jude's gynaescope website.....
....am 45 years and desperate
Mrs Okoli and every other mother in waiting, may the good Lord make you Fruitful mothers of Children. You shall bring forth your own Isaacs in Jesus Name. I'm just moved to say this prayer for you cus at the end if the say, it's still God. My uncle and wife have been married for 25 years, they are rich and have done everything possible, yet nothing has worked for them and they are not the kind that believe God can do it, I have a strong conviction that if only they believe and have Faith, their case will be different.
ReplyDeleteIf you are in portharcourt this is gynescope address no 1 mini Ezeku Street,
ReplyDeleteRumuogba, Port Harcourt.you can reach Dr Jude on 08037275377.God has heard your cries and he will grant your heart desires in Jesus name. Ndah
http://www.gynescopesh.com/
ReplyDelete@Fearest, so you mean TB Joshua is a demon right? Well, if you can give us the name of the church where you worship and believe to be a place of God, then I will show you videos of the pastors and members from your church that was delivered of various ailments and dilemmas by same TB Joshua you refer as demon.
ReplyDeleteThat’s after they have gone through all kinds of prayers and fasting from your GO and other pastors they believe to be true servant of God but to all abortive, and then when their situation resulted no more hope was when they decided to try TB Joshua lo and behold God turn the situation around, and gave them testimonies to glorify his name.
@ chibuzor!
DeleteIts Fearless!
Read well,I didn't call him a demon,I just don't agree with him spiritually!
I really don't want to join issues with you but I will just mention that the fact that someone performs "miracles" does not mean he is of God! Be enlightened in matters of God,read your Bible and build a personal relationship with God. If you don't have an opinion,in this case,about the true God,anybody can sell anything to you.
That said,every mallam with him kettle!
I just pray that God shows u who is God.
Fearless Smiles!
My dear sister Oby, I know in a case like this you must have tried everything humanly possible of both medically, churches of different kinds of prayer houses, herbalist and native doctors for in search of solutions, in which I can say that all the efforts hitherto seems nothing before you summoned courage to cry out publicly.
ReplyDeleteNever lose hope my dear, God is in control and also aware of the pains you must have been through for all I know. He is a merciful God and ready to turn all the impossibilities in your life into possible, remember, the case of Hanna after many years of barren she later became mother of miracle by name prophet Samuel whose popularity in Israel became greater than those with more than one child.
So, I just want you to believe that God is working out the answer and don’t give up in prayers thinking that God has forgotten you, not at all, only that the way and manner in which God works in our lives are differ. look Oby, it’s possible for Satan to tempt us but he has no authority to change God promises in our lives which must surely come to pass in Gods appointed time, so you need not to be afraid of anything and even seeking human help may possibly fail you as well, but only Jesus can provide everlasting solution and also deal with the root cause of your problem despite where it’s coming from either spiritual or physical.
And I also pray that Jesus will direct you to a place of permanent solution at this stage so that Satan will be put to shame and for the name of our lord and savior Jesus Christ to be glorify. We are serving a living God who is good all the time and remains the same from generation to generation as he has no beginning or end and can never fail not even in your own case whether the enemies likes it or not, because God has been doing it for others which I can testify and I believes him to do it again and again in the life of Oby Okoli in Jesus name.
Finally, If medically and all other efforts has failed, I can assure you that there’s one way out for you to overcome, which is seeking the face of Jesus Christ in true direction. There’re churches everywhere and they are all preaching Jesus, but one thing I know for sure and strongly believe is that faith without action is like body without spirit which is as good as death. Read your bible from genesis to revelation and you can see how strong the power of God works in the lives of his true servants upon all persecutions of the advisories they went through yet God is always at their defense, so if any man of God tells you that believing in Jesus name can do all things but fail to provide evidence of what he/she preaches when the need call for. In the same way, faith by itself, if it does not prove itself with actions, is dead. (James 2:17)
I want to leave you here in good faith also do not be deceive by the credence of the demon possessed enemies of truth rather I urge you to watch the links to see cases similar and even worse than yours and how power of God takes control. I pray that God almighty in his infinite mercy will put smiles on your face whether devil likes it or not, so don’t be afraid of any threat as I will be remembering you in my prayers until God gives us testimony, meanwhile you can watch the links below:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsO7OwQ9sh8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKssVQkM4sg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ew3ToTSRy1Q
And if in case you need someone that can talk to your husband then you can count on me, I wouldn’t mind to call and speak with him as well, though I’m not in nigeria but I believe he needs moral advice that can bring his tension down. Actually, am in my early thirties and still single but I’ve met with many married couples in a case like this and how the men handle their home till they overcome.
ReplyDeleteMen needs to understand that their women are the ones that suffering the worst pains in tricky situation like this, as in time of trouble that everyone in your family can possibly turn their backs on your wife, don’t forget that you marry her for better and worst till death apart, so that will be the time she needs your support, love and caring because throwing your wife out of the house means you are challenging God almighty and the worst of it all, do you know whether you will have worse experience with the one you intent to marry next, but many of us doesn’t know that.
A friend told me his own experience and how his wife uses to weep indoor day and night. Upon that his family also wanted him to divorce her for another lady they arranged to him. And because he is a God fearing and loves his wife so much then he rather told all his family members to stay away on issues concerns him and his wife which he said that reduced the pressures and also helped him to remain faithful to his wife till God turn their tears into joy and bless them with three lovely kids after nine good years of sterility.
So I can imagine what you are going through right now plus been orphan.
As for me, am nt here to argue with anyone.. Cos we all r nt of dd same spiritual level neitther r do we share d same undrstanding capacity.. Dear sister.. Jesus does rili lovee U̶̲̥̅̊..bliv totally in d power of hIs blood.. Don't rely on self-rightousness efforts or rights.. Lean on d cross..blive U̶̲̥̅̊ r rightcous thrU d finished work of christ on d cross of calvary..ther is no condemnation to those dat r in christ Jesus, cos his blood have set U̶̲̥̅̊ free, from d laws of sin n dealth.. His grace is sufficient for U̶̲̥̅̊. U̶̲̥̅̊ r nt a kid.. U̶̲̥̅̊ have tried all effort yet thers nothing to prov.. Try Jesus d Doctor of doctors..He hasnt given up on ur case.. Ur case doesn't nt embarass Jesus, cos he has a solution for U̶̲̥̅̊.. Ur issue is highly spiritual..convince ur husband tO follow U̶̲̥̅̊ to SCOAN..n be delivered.. His grace is sufficent for U̶̲̥̅̊, it is more than ur problems..I await ur testimony..Emmanuel..
Delete@fearless&co why do u people look before u leap ,d aspersions u people are pouring on an innocent Man prophet tb joshua is unwarranted,if u like use small letters to address his God it does not change d fact dat his is gifted wit powers from above.Emmanueltv ,changing lives ,changing nations ,changing d world 4 real
ReplyDelete@fearless&co why do u people look before u leap ,d aspersions u people are pouring on an innocent Man prophet tb joshua is unwarranted,if u like use small letters to address his God it does not change d fact dat his is gifted wit powers from above.Emmanueltv ,changing lives ,changing nations ,changing d world 4 real
ReplyDelete@ oge, please leave me alone abeg!
DeleteSearch yourself,if ure convinced about ur pastor,abeg free me, talk is cheap!
Fearless!
I'm truly tired of all these tb joshua people!
ReplyDeleteRead your Bible,ok!
May the true God help us all!
Fearless!
@Fearless or whatever name you called yourself, it’s apparent you are the one that needs to read your bible that is if atall you have one. You do not agree in miracle but you believe God makes impossibilities to become possible. Since you do not believe in miracle then what is the need of praying to God in time of needs, and when you pray what you expect, then that is miracle.
ReplyDeleteGood example, do you think the lady that cries out for help here has not been praying since over the years she been in this ordeal? Ask and she will tell you the places she has been to in search of solutions and amount of prayers and fasting she has undergone so far. While the cause of her trouble can be very common which can only takes a genuine power, grace and anointed man of God to discover and deal with perpetually, and if God eventually grant her heart desire, then that is miracle.
The Gods creation of this world was by Miracle and that Moses divided red sea was done by Miracle, upon that they persecuted and denied him stepping into the Promised Land by the same people he fought for. Elijah command fire come down from heaven was done by miracle yet the people then never believed he is servant of most high God. Jesus in all his good works and miracle was persecuted and called all sorts of evil names and was killed. Peter and Paul with the mighty miracles they did to proof the goodness of God almighty, the people then never believe in them which they were persecuted and called evil names and killed agonizingly.
In our own generation the same God of the prophets and apostles of old also gave us his humble servant TB Joshua, and he can raise superior to every condition through the strength that Christ gives. And not being weak in faith, he did not consider his own body, he did not waver at the promise of God through unbelief, but was strengthened in faith, giving glory to God, and being fully convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform (Romans 4:19–21)
Jesus came and established miracles for restoring God promises and for salvation of man, and by his name we can do all things. I can do all things through Christ which strengthened me. (Philippians 4:13)
Oge and Chibuzor; sheeple. Continue staying blind. Way to go Fearless.
ReplyDeleteChibuzor, dont ever forget that people that go to babalawo also get results so 'miracles' really dont qualify as proof of God's presence or validation that the power came from him. It is disturbing that everything you have to say is tied to these miracles and that obviously leaves u open to every wind of 'miraclous' doctrine. You need a bit of sustance to carry on an informed conversation like this. That being said, im not a fan of your church, your pastor may be fake or real - God knows all, but think about what your fighting for and the source of this ur passion. U actually have the guts to say pple that failed with G.O have come to Joshua,...is that rily how basic ur religion is? My pastor strong pass ur pastor?...get a Bible dear
ReplyDeleteGod help the Cry of this young woman IJMN
ReplyDeleteGO as General Overseer, I didn’t mentioned anybodies name for goodness sake because I can see your reaction is based on that, by the way, you can defend your GO right? While is nice to call others fake and all sorts of evil names. That being say, judge not anointed only when matter concerns your GO and for others it turn out to be the bible say to test every spirit.
ReplyDeleteSo, have you tested the spirits for proper confirmation from God before pass judgment on TB Joshua or you depend on what you hear? That’s what I mean by if your GO and pastors can affirmed to you that TB Joshua is not of God but satanic agent and still run to seek Gods solution from him when worst comes into their lives, it means their initial confirmation and condemnation was not from God but to deceive people like you for the reason of membership and not those who are safe for the glory of God. This is why they instructed you not to watch Emmanuel Tv so that you may not see the truth from what they lied to you. I believe you can understand my stand now.
For further explanation in case you need, watch a video confession of a Pastor from MOUNTAIN OF FIRE who crusade that TB Joshua is of Satan, and how his mentor whose wife suffered cancer brought her to Synagogue after so many efforts failed, lo and behold she got healed through the same God of TB Joshua he initially preached to be fake and occultist. Now what are we fighting for? Watch his confession with the link below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzkM7C2Mw9Y
My dear, by God's grace ur hubby won't throw u out IJN.....Amen! Like some other ppl hv suggested, pls talk ur hubby into going 4 a check as well cos i knw a couple who were our nxt door neighbours wen i was very young but dey had serious problems cos dey were childless. The man kept hitting n tormenting the woman call her a man till my mom adviced d man to see a doc as well, he accepted n my mom took them 2 a hospital, lo n behold d man had low sperm count! He was treated n in a few months she became pregnant n had other kids after that.
ReplyDeleteStella, don't knw hw to get ur email so i can send d name n addy of 1 of d best gyneacologist in nigeria n also a God fearing man, i had all my 4 kids @ his hspt, he also has been my mom's doc b4 me am sure he can help n pls Mrs okoli don't relent in prayers cos God is able 2 do all things. Stay blessed!
Pls u people should stop all this nonsense and advice this woman right. No church advice pls.
ReplyDeleteMy dear sister, it's unfortunate u are passing through this rather common predicament. From d post, u r now about 37years and therefore time is fast running out. Unfortunately, u can't be treated alone as your husband equally needs to offer u both physical and psychological support as it "takes two to tango". My advice is u obviously need to pray fervently for God's favour, u should also see if u can get a compassionate gynecologist who will be willing to directly call your husband and discuss one on one with him and possibly find out what his fears are. U will be surprised how this will help, especially with the chance of ur husband to get proper information and help. Finally, I know Dr Jude very well as he managed my wife successfully, he seems very humble but I am not sure he would be happy to have his number splashed on the internet.
ReplyDeleteThis isn't a blog to defend GOs and prophets please.....but that said.....Chibuzor in addition to reading ur bible, also read a dictionary b4 u come loading us here with toxic grammar and spellings. U double d trouble of reading. Unsubstantiated argument plus poor spelling and diction is a terrible combination for the eyes and soul......
ReplyDeleteLet's not forget the sole reason we're speaking here.
Mrs Okoli, please seek God's face directly and strive to be close to Him-He alone can give u ur desired miracle and restore peace in ur home. Seek God 1st and ALL other things will be added to u. Trust in God with ALL ur heart.....and He will direct u to the right hospital or church (u can both pray and seek medical help as ur faith carries) Prov 3:5-8
I wish u d very best. B strong
This isn't a blog to defend GOs and prophets please.....but that said.....Chibuzor in addition to reading ur bible, also read a dictionary b4 u come loading us here with toxic grammar and spellings. U double d trouble of reading. Unsubstantiated argument plus poor spelling and diction is a terrible combination for the eyes and soul......
ReplyDeleteLet's not forget the sole reason we're speaking here.
Mrs Okoli, please seek God's face directly and strive to be close to Him-He alone can give u ur desired miracle and restore peace in ur home. Seek God 1st and ALL other things will be added to u. Trust in God with ALL ur heart.....and He will direct u to the right hospital or church (u can both pray and seek medical help as ur faith carries) Prov 3:5-8
I wish u d very best. B strong