I did a happy new year post HERE and i said that 2014 is a time to forgive and release yourself and he read it and became confused because everyone who commented was forgiving and letting go..he is confused and needs us to help him.
Please after reading this mail,forgive this person and advise him...this is an opportunity to minister to this broken person,something has hurt him so bad and he is trapped inside pain and bitterness.
even the money he boasts of having is also hurting him....This is the most shocking mail i have ever received.The person who sent it in is the most good looking man i have ever seen and i am shocked at his pain...shocked and shocked and really shocked.
Please read this shocking mail.
Stella,
Your New Year message got me thinking about my life. Am a 34 year old man and I have been fortunate financially. but I do not forgive and I do not forget. I am full of anger and resentment against people that have offended me even up to 30 years ago. You won’t believe that someone close offended me close to thirty years ago and each day all I reminisce is hurting him and killing his children. Seriously… my thoughts are filled with venom to the extent that I day dream of slaughtering his three children just to destroy him…And funny enough I heard he lost his job and is now working in a church. do you know that all I do with my spare time is to read about mass murderers: Saloth Sar, Paul Tibbets, Alli Soili, Bob Denard, Hitler, Ivan the Terrible, Atilla, Macias Nguema, Mobutu, Idi Amin, Maximilien Robespierre, the Impaler…
I read about them with so much admiration for the destruction they caused mankind. Each time I read about them and I have peace in my soul… I spend time on you tube watching live wars Syria.. live executions, hanging, murders and violence captured by CCTV anything that involves bloodshed… that’s the only thing that give me peace… but i hate serial killers like Ted Bundy, Jack The Ripper and Charles Manson because I think they are cowards.
I have never had a relationship with a lady because I have always paid for sex and I have sex with a different woman every other night. some of them are married women. I have always paid for sex since my university days. the only difference now is that the price has increased. Last Christmas I asked a married woman for her account number and dropped 80k there. the next day she kept calling calling and calling. I have paid ridiculous amounts for sex as much as 150 k but I don’t care.
Each woman is just a commodity to me. I live a solitary life I have always lived alone and don’t have friends…. I feel no remorse, shame or guilt for anything I do. I once had a clash with a neighbor who just shouted that this man has no conscience.. I never apologize. I am trying purchase a lion to put in a cage in my house.
I don’t understand forgiveness.
From Blog visitor.
*Dear ''L''
This is from me to you.........
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Poster needs to see a shrink!
ReplyDeleteHe's 34 and someone offended him 30 years ago, that means he was 4yrs old then. Isn't it strange?
DeleteOne thing is having a problem,another is admitting to it.
DeleteYou know you are bad and no one would want to be associated with your kind yet u aren't remorseful.
No one can teach u to b good except you've decided to change within your heart.
Poster do urself justice by first acknowledging God as ur lord n personal saviour n every other thing wld b added unto u.
Dear poster, sorry u are goin tru dis ooooooo...but u have to seat down and tink abt the effect of not forgiving someones on u... I guess u have frnds who have conscience, sit dem down and ask questions about ur way of life... Wat they tink u do dat is wrong and ones u do right.... It will help u grow ur life around pple... Hapi New Year ....#alinko
DeleteOh my! Stanley, i'm beginning to admire u.
DeleteHmm... Jeez u hv become a prayer point 4rm dis minute. Ur case is beyond man. Its only God. Wif utmost humility I shall pray daily 4 ur deliverance.
DeleteOk Stanley nice one. So u ve removed #sisterF**ker in ur name. Dancing Skelewu. This 2014 will 4 sure be a wonderful year. And like i said, i ve unveiled. No more Anonymous!!! Will put a picture 2 my new name as we progress. To poster, how did u possibly remember what happened 2 u 34yr ago. Pardon me plz. Am kinda confused. Cos counting 4m ur age now u were 4 than. Well, with that said, i will go with Stanley on this. Advice urself.
DeleteDear poster, I can relate with what you are saying and I ve people dta hurt me so bad dat am shocked, but I learned to let go, its like dropping off a very heavy baggage. Wish I can explain further but if u are a christian read 1st corinthians 13 1-d end. I belive you are ready to let go and dats y you have this post up, just learn to love pure love helps one to forgive and forget. You can also pray abt this issue and am sure wen u start loving purely you won't be having just casual sex as u ll ve a wife and make sweet love to her, trust me there is a big diff btw those two. I pray the Lord ll heal ur broken heart and d seed of love ll begin to grow
DeleteThis poster needs Jesus asap. Only you filled with so much venom? My dear, life is so much fun with forgiveness.
ReplyDeleteOh well!!!! I m shocked. Just speechless. I think u need a cool headed friend u can lean on. I feel sorry for u cos u re alone. Re u a christian? If yes,always talk to God in ur heart. Don't stop askin him to dwell in u. Mix wt pple. People dat will influence ur life. Personally,m an extreme introvert n I knw hw pple complain so I can imagine what neighbours will say abt u. Learn to forgive. It cld take time bt first,u hv to love urself so u can love pple arnd u. U cld start wt a smile. From thr,ur smile will draw pple to u n u learn t accept them so it will b easy t let go n forgive them when they hurt u.
DeleteHe is a Scorpio like u na! Shey una no dey forgive
DeleteI pity whoever falls into d trap of loving this person. God forbid. He ll never change sha.
DeleteAm scorpio too and we r great
DeleteNa wa o. I'm even speechless on this. See a counsellor immediately. A Christian counsellor. God be with u
DeleteWow, I really don't know wht to say tht Stella has not said , other than that, let God melt your heart cos its only him that weilds such power.on your own,u can't do it.May God touch your heart and heal your soul
ReplyDeleteI doubt the Authenticity of dis story. Well just in case its true u need serious medical attention
DeleteStop insulting him ooo its not easy for him I guess.....poster I may not be able to help you buh my mum can try...help with prayers and counselling....its forr your own good...you need it....email me vickyemasealu@yahoo.com
Deletei have no one in mind @ all
ReplyDeleteDear poster....forgive and let go,,,,doing that,,u will have ''peace''
@Galore
Poster sry to sai buh u ar severely n ravishingly possessed by d devil,yes! U ar a demon.wrds n advs won't wrk stella,he nds intense deliverance n prayers,he nds Jesus.sry f I cnt be subtle buh u nd an aggressive n spiritual slap bck to humanity
DeleteWow! Is this a joke? For the first time I am speechless. Daydreaming about killing someone's kids? Mass murderers are your role models? This is wayyyy past mere forgiveness. I am sorry I gotta say this man but there's some evil in you. You need serious help before your day dreams become reality.
ReplyDeleteAbi oh. My prayer is that no one in my family ever meets this man in Jesus Name. Poster, you might be a psychopath and not even know it. Just don't let your evil thoughts come to fruition.
DeleteThat's all I will say cos fear dey catch me sef
I was also wondering why Stella and some people are talking to him about forgiveness.
DeleteDude is talking about having peace only after watching/reading terribly violent stuff. He has severe mental issues and needs urgent medical attention. I will be so surprised if he really hasn't killed any of his prostitutes
You are a serial Killer!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou hate Ted Bundy and co but you watch executions and have fantasies on killing people? Common you're extremely sick upstairs and you deserve to be hanged!
Why not do us a favour, watch live suicides videos or betterstil get how to kill yourself on the Internet, so you can leave this world fast.
You're not fit to live with humans. I mean anyone who has the kind of thoughts that you have ought to be 6 feet below and should not be allowed to be amongst humans. Why? Because you're not human but evil!
The devil has occupied your soul and heart, and Only God can heal you of your delusions and madness. My brother you're MAD!!! And it's too late to have you delivered, I pray God never let the opportunity arise that will make you murder your friend's kids and any other person.
Get a life and know God! But the day you ever decide to carry out any of your thoughts, I pray God touches your heart and if your heart is too cold to be touched, then may he strike you dead faster than the speed of sound before you do whatever evil is in you. Lucifer got you dude. Give your life to Jesus!
Slow down dear, you don't know what the poster is going through. Just advice him ok.
DeletePoster want to learn how to forgive....dont tell him to go hand himself.
Delete@ Poster all you need is Christ Jesus, He alone can teach you how to first love yourself and how to love other people....if you can't create; why take? I pray that God will touch you soul before devil destroy it. Seek the kingdom of GOD first and every other thing will be added to you, says the Lord of Host. Invite Jesus, ask Him to rescue you from the camp of satan ASAP!!!
May the Blood of the Lamb that break every shackles release you in Jesus name.
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DeleteThis is really serious. Don't even knw wat to advice. All I can say is U need serious deliverance
ReplyDelete#BeautifulBella
These are the kinda men me love! Dear poster, when u meet me u won't pay with money. You will beg to pay with ur life and be slave to my ecstasy for ever. Hehehehehe....
ReplyDeleteYour matter no hard, continue in ur ways if it gives u pleasure. When the time comes, u'll change. If God could arrest saul, then who are you? Just ensure u make something meaningful outta your life now, so u won't spend ur old age on regrets . forgive and be happy, or dont forgive and remain in bondage just like re living now, the choice is urs#Remember thy creator in the days of thy youth and also know that the air you breath isn't urs#
Damn, he has gradually become a psycho, he needs therapy !!
ReplyDelete^__^
ReplyDeleteAh ah my prince u no dey talk again? All I see from you now is one sentence or picture. Please start talking but be more respectful of people's feelings ok.
DeleteI love you PJ :-)
DeleteSpeechless
ReplyDeleteMy God!!! This guy needs help ASAP!U shouldn't be living amongst human beings,bcos ur not one!u are evil
ReplyDeleteYou need Jesus
ReplyDeleteThe poster needs God in his life,he can help u out.
ReplyDelete***ADJERHO***
U either visit tb joshua or cele church.... ur own dey middle of Atlantic ocean!!!! Jesus !!!!
ReplyDeleteWow! The devil has really done a number on him.... But it's never too late, Poster. You need Jesus to remove that blackness in your soul before it destroys you. Please turn to Him.
ReplyDeletePoster you need christ only him can touch your soul and that your stone hrt pls pray and read the bible,tell God to come into your life pls before you destroy yourself
ReplyDeletePoster, dis is d time to go back to God and make amend. It's well wit ur soul.
ReplyDeleteThis is not real...maybe he's a novelist.
ReplyDeleteThis is deep. He absolutely needs help and fast for that matter.
ReplyDeleteHe has sadly been made to view life from a very awkward view point.
Dear poster have you ever heard of the man named Jesus?
ReplyDeleteYou need him in your life ASAP.
You need to be born again and to encounter Jesus,it is only He that can teach forgiveness.
I do think You're suffering from a form of anti social personality disorder, and I fear it is turning you into a psychopath or sociopath .
I advise that you talk to someone, one on one about this issues plaguing you, what we are going to write here is not enough.
I will advise a pastor/a priest and also a psychiatrist.
I agree with you,poster be born again;be sanctified,be holy & thirst after Gods words;you will see your head,your thoughts will take a new live;God bless you.
DeleteThis bros needs to forgive himself and let go of the pains inside of him!
ReplyDeleteWow!!!
ReplyDeletePoster really needs help, this is a tough situation you are in.
I will suggest you see a Reverend father (irrespective of your faith). They are good listeners. You need to pour out your heart totally and express all your anger, bitterness, hate inside you.
They won't judge or condemn you. But i guarantee you will be a better person after such encounter because they will guide and teach you how to forgive and love.
It is well.
Dear poster,
ReplyDeleteFirst and foremost, are you religious? I ask because truly knowing God is the beginning of the solution to your problem. The saying 'the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom' solely applies to you.
You can't do all this alone. You need someone to help you and the only one who can is God. Find a church to go to or mosque.... Speak to the head there. Let them know that you're carrying a burden that needs to be offloaded. You're not in this journey alone, God's with you
Am telling u @ Amaka Hundeyin. Lolz! Not just a shrink(psychologist) he needs 2 ask God 4 Mercy,Go 4 heavy & serious deliverance in RCCG or Winners Chapel. Jeeeezzzzzzzzzz
ReplyDeleteThere's anger inside him, he should see a shrink and get the anger out
ReplyDeletePoster you need Jesus! Accept him and let him heal and remould you. You must 1st understand that nothing on earth can change what is wrong with you only God. Give the potter a chance to remould you.
ReplyDeleteI think d poster is a sick person!
ReplyDeleteI pray God delivers u! U need Christ!
Seriously poster. Its hard to forgive but you have to! When you forgive all these your problems will gradually fade away..because you have welcomed peace into ur soul. All these your acts are not normal. And to show you that revenge is of the Lord..the man lost his job! That's enough sign that he is being punished! Forgive him and forget him like he doesn't exist..it will be easier..not like you will go back and ask him for things or such.if he does..be glad help him..forgive and move on. Try and open up ur heart..settle down with a woman,,eventhough right now..u may think every lady you meet wants your money..its difficult but you must pray to God about it everyday! I have never been in your shoes but I know God can help losen up your heart.
ReplyDeleteJust like my uncle that has being carrying and saying bad things about my Dad since I was born...sebi just last year December he called our umunna and started begging for forgiveness. This is a man that will move from house to house telling people my dad uses charm, that he killed his elder sister! And blocked his wife's womb. What nonsense..this man is even my dads Nephew..just imagine. Then some people will be giving you one kind of attitude..as a result of what he says! If someone has accident its my Dad.. To enter our house sef na war because of the thought alone.! We hardly go home for xmas. So chill..even before he asked for forgiveness we had already forgiven him..if u seee him now..poverty is better than him. Let it Go, and let God fight for you.
Did you read the post? Forgiveness is the least of his problems. Use your head and stop following Stella to shout 'forgiveness"
DeleteDear Poster...
ReplyDeleteAll u need is LOVE, above all JESUS!
Let Him into your heart n u will be FREE
Srzly he needs love
DeleteI don't think he had love growing up
Cus if you had brothers or sisters and they have kids you would nt think of hurting some1s kids
You have to forgive yourself of your thoughts or whatever you went tru
Let it go
Stella forgiveness isn't his problem but love
And you also need God too like most importantly
I would like to connect with the poster...
ReplyDeleteSorry stella, you can't help this guy. only the presence of Jesus Christ in his life will change him. He is a psychopath.
ReplyDeletePoster u need jesus as ur lord n personal saviour. Start with dat all oda tins will follow.
ReplyDeleteAbeg dis guy is not being truthful. I hope all d violence filled films n novels he read have nt really messed up his mind. Hw can he say he is 34 n some1 offended him 30 yrs ago. Don't buy did story.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds like something from a novel. It actually made me laugh. Stella the guy hasn't asked for advice so what do you want us to do. Please dear poster, if you choose to live and die the way you are right now, it's your own business/prerogative/problem. Just don't do something stupid like kill someone. When you accept that you need help then that's when I'll spend my precious time typing a meaningful comment.
ReplyDeletewww.thelmathinks.blogspot.com
Dude wrote it for shock effect . He is probably reading the responses and laughing out loud.
DeleteWow!
ReplyDeleteThis is a big problem. This guy is a sociopath. Stella if u don't expose this guy and allow him to harm innocent people, you will never forgive yourself. these are signs of a will be 'serial killer'. how can u love to kill? God have mercy on your soul.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry but this has nothing to do with forgives or not. This man is obviously psychologically disturbed and needs to see a shrink. His thought process is not normal at all and it's this kind of people that kill others just to see how it feels. His unforgiving nature is just a by product of his mental illness and not the main issue here. Mr poster, go get yourself do e help before you end up taking lives.
ReplyDeleteI think the first thing you need is to accept Christ as your Lord and personal Saviour,
ReplyDeleteOh well!!!! I m shocked. Just speechless. I think u need a cool headed friend u can lean on. I feel sorry for u cos u re alone. Re u a christian? If yes,always talk to God in ur heart. Don't stop askin him to dwell in u. Mix wt pple. People dat will influence ur life. Personally,m an extreme introvert n I knw hw pple complain so I can imagine what neighbours will say abt u. Learn to forgive. It cld take time bt first,u hv to love urself so u can love pple arnd u. U cld start wt a smile. From thr,ur smile will draw pple to u n u learn t accept them so it will b easy t let go n forgive them when they hurt u.
ReplyDeleteI psychoanalyzed you in seconds. Go and read about psychopaths cos you are obviously one. Ppl like you have no conscience and are unapologetic. They turn out to be mass murderers and derive immense pleasure from their sadistic violent tendencies. This is an Antisocial Personality disorder.
ReplyDeleteU need a psychiatrist asap...n prayers too. ted bundy n jeffrey dahmer r my favourite serial killers(enjoyed readin about em)
ReplyDeletePoster,this is not just about forgiveness....it is far more grievious than that. You need help asap...and I pray you get one soon. God help you!
ReplyDeleteYou need God, and a therapist asap
ReplyDeleteHe's a LIAR..reads too much novels
ReplyDeleteI very much doubt such a damaged guy can function normally. Usually, people with such sick desires would have carried out their killing fantasies.
ReplyDeleteL, obviously, you aren't remorseful and have no desire to change your ways. If you ever become willing to deviate from your sick path, please travel to the UK or US and see a highly qualified psychiatrist. You are very very sick. I wonder for how long you can continue like this before you become dangerous.
YOU ARE A VERY SICK MAN!
ReplyDeleteAm sorry TB joshua can't help u.
Try yaba left( jokes apart).
I don't forgive easily too
But I no dey wish to slaughter person pikin.
I enjoy war movies(war of sorbibor).
But I don't tk pleasure in pain.
Mr. Man, it might be ur upbringin
Dis az notin to do wit deliverance oo
U need a psychatrist.
He's either a psychopath or a sociopath or both.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, the "cowards" you refer to are people who commit crimes in stealth against innocent people which, obviously, you've frowned at. Your desire for mass calamity is as a result of you been probably bullied and deprived in your childhood and no adequate revenge on the culprit to sooth your injured spirit. You have desired the most painful and heinous way to carry out your revenge so much you have indulged in watching these things. Unfortunately that has led you to the state you are right now: including your careless desire for women, which is dangerous to your spirit and body.
ReplyDeleteIf I tell you to pray, you might say "heard that a million times", so start by not watching foreign news channels; CNN, FOX, BBC, etc. If you must know what's happening around you, duel on headlines and local news channels. Watch sitcoms and animal planet stations. Don't watch violent movies too. As for women, delete all correspondence from your devices that have to do with them. When you have that sexual urge (because it must surely come once in a while) get your mind busy on serene things; buy inspirational books and read, or do some office work or house chore. Mingle more with people, and try to compose yourself if offended, because people will surely offend you unfortunately. Nothing is removed from your personality when that happens too, so no fear.
Now, when you've tried all these and making some progress, the devil comes in, because the idiot is loving your present status quo. Time to go to GOD in prayer. That's the ultimate task. And guess what? HE WILL NEVER FORSAKE YOU...NEVER. Go to HIM in confidence, and you'll have the personality you desire deep down in your heart, including your ability to forgive those who have wronged you. Be Blessed.
I love memphis. Pls be my romeo
DeleteWell said Memphis...EEE!!!
DeleteThis one Na boko haram!
ReplyDeleteYou are a wizard!full stop.you started bearing grudges at age 4?please ask your mum some questions about your paternity.
ReplyDeleteThe alex
Heeya its a pity. Ds poster really needs Jesus in his life. When u dnt forgive others, u hurt ursef d most cos d person dat hurt u might nt even knw u r hurting... Life is too short t spend it hating others.
ReplyDeleteAll of you should leave him pls. You think its easy to forgive someone like that? It takes the GRACE of GOD and he's clearly lacking it.
ReplyDeleteWaoh!That's too much burden you're carrying about & it will definitely be telling on your health. You seriously need to let go & also need therapy,what's happening to you is too deep/extreme.
ReplyDeleteI believe you must have had a traumatising childhood or something similar & you've allowed it to consume your adult life,loosen up youngman cos to err is HUMAN & to forgive is DIVINE,moreover life is too short to be miserable all through.
Though it takes a lot of will to forgive sometimes, but its more dangerous scheming a revenge,just bear in mind that humans ll fail you when least expected, because that's life.
Write out those things that hurt you so bad & burn them.you can cry over it,it ll reduce the hurt/pain.most importantly go for therapy-you need to talk about it please.
On a lighter note, I pray God grant you the bone of your bone(wife) soonest who ll teach & show you love,Stellicious Stella ll like to read about that soon.
this is my first time to comment here. i mostly read and pass but i can't do that with this..so here goes.
ReplyDeletethe writer seriously and urgently needs Jesus Christ. he needs a visit from the holy spirit. he needs the peace of God that passes all understanding. all these inspirational words won't do it.
He needs God!!! and fast!.
i encourage all of us blog readers to take a min from our self indulged prayers and ask the holy spirit to pay him a visit. let's ask the holy spirit to come with his light to rid the darkness, his fire to burn away all that is of the devil, and his touch to heal his heart and soul and finally to fill him with his anointing that he may experience him in every way. In Jesus Christ name, i have asked. AMEN!!!!..
God heal you poster. open up your heart and receive him.
Awwww...I feel for him!!!I tink I undastnd dis man!but d hurt will continue if u don't let go!u gotta let go and forgive Hun...
ReplyDeleteAH!!! This man has very serious problems! My dear writer i always say forgiveness is freedom. I forgive easily not because of the person that offended me but for my own good! Please try and change, the mistake most people make is that they think forgiving the person who have wronged you means allowing them into your life, no my dear you don't have to even go close to them apart from hello how are you doing. You are thinking of killing some one's child or children???!! I just wish i can see you and really talk to you right now, MAY GOD HELP YOU.
ReplyDeleteDeliverance!!!!......But you must want it Poster,sincerely want...what you have is not a life o,love is the most beautiful thing that can be given and received it,until you experience that you are just existing and not living....choose to live today,give love and watch all hatred flow out of your life,then only then can you start living..cheers
ReplyDelete150k for sex and you are screaming.....no be your mate dey drop 50k$....Poster,park one place biko....hope say you dey use condom....
ReplyDeleteClap for urslf. I swear u r too stupid to be married. I pity ur kids.
DeleteHow many people have you killed so far? I guess none! Because if you have, your problem would have been over now. At least you go manage life imprisonment-That solves the problem.
ReplyDeleteOh wow! @ poster Look dear you are on the path of destruction and death and for you to tell aunty stella about it means that you know that there is something missing.
ReplyDeleteHere is the thing. Jesus loves you and he can mend that hurt and bitterness growing in you but you have to seek him. You have to tell him. Pour our your heart to him.
Please seek God. The devil wants to destroy your life and he is slowly doing that. Stop having sex with random women...it isn't helping matters because some are not spiritually clean and as a matter of fact, neither are you. And please stop watching those crap you watch please. Please stop.
Do you know about a man called Jesus who died to set you free, Yes you and in HIM you can be found. Despite all you have said and done he still loves you. There is nothing God cannot cleanse and purify. Please seek Christ before the devil totally destroys your life.
Seek Jesus Christ. Just hand your life over to him. Please dear. Please. Your soul is important to God. He died just for your very soul.
The devil wants to destroy the plans God has for you, don't let him. Find a good church to attend. Let me suggest deeper life. Please see a pastor to pray for you. You are on the pathway of destruction. The devil is beside you right now! He wants to waste your soul! He is evil and wicked..please fight for your life.
Hmmmm! This is serious,Dear poster, you need help ASAP before this bitterness consumes you! Please learn to let go...whatever it is he did to you, don't let it consume you. Free yourself from hate and bitterness. Accept Jesus, only him can give you inner peace.
ReplyDeleteRemember life has no duplicate, so why spend they only chance you have to live in hate and bitternes. Please stop watching and reading all those things that you feel gives you peace, that is the devil manipulating you and if you don't take care, he will eventually destroy you. Rather read spiritual and motivational books. Watch comedy movies and you will see that there is a lot to laugh about. Stop punishing yourself by allowing what happened decades ago determine how you live your life now. You can still be a better person if you work on yourself.
Leave vengeance for God. Try to mix up with people,stop being a loner. Reach out to people, show love to people,help the less privileged,make good friends who will impact positively on you. Please accept Christ into your life NOW, he will wash away your bitterness and fill you with joy, peace of mind and laughter. God bless you and give you the grace to move on, Amen.
Very touching post....
ReplyDeleteUnforgiveness is like putting yourself in bondage.
You have been carrying these burdens(loads) of unforgiveness for about 30 years.
You have allowed the Devil to put you in this bondage for this long.
It's never too late ....
Yes people might have hurt you badly but try forgiveness.
Instead of hating them show them love and you will enjoy the Peace that comes from Christ.
Yes you need Jesus Christ
Instead of using your spare time to read about mass murderers why not for a change read articles on forgiveness . I recommend you read and listen to Joyce Meyer's teaching on forgiveness. You will find them online and on you tube.
All the best.
I would like to meet with this blogvistor, we have something in common. Forgiveness can be tough atimes
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteRevenge is the desire to get even when someone
does you wrong. It’s natural to feel angry, to say “I’m
not going to let that **** get away with this,”
whatever “this” is. However, revenge reduces you to
your worst self, puts you on the same level with
those spiteful people you claim to abhor.
Forgiveness is a paradigm-shifting solution for
transforming anger. It liberates you from the trap of
endless revenge so that you can experience more joy
and connection. Forgiveness does more for you than
anyone else because it liberates you from negativity
and lets you move forward. Forgiving might not
make anger totally dissolve but it will give you the
freedom of knowing you are so much more.
Remember, God loves you and only He can change your heart. Why not ask Him to help you so you can find lasting peace. Don't wait till the dawn of eternity to be harshly judged the way you judge and condemn others in your heart. May the peace and love of God find you wherever you are. Amen
At poster.
ReplyDeleteListen to this song "never been unloved" by Micheal W smith. I mean just seat down quietly, turn off your tv, your lights.... and listen to every word , every lyrics with attention. It will change your life.
It's not about Jesus here.
ReplyDeleteHe needs to see a shrink.
He was probably raised in a violence-filled area.
Kai Stella this is the the kind of DEVIL on earth that we all have to watch our back from. He is the goon that will have AIDS and spread it to every man or woman he meets. Something really BAD must have happened in his life to make him the ANIMAL he is today. Now he wants to buy a LION. Pls add a Cheetah, Leopard, Lynx! Hyena etc to your intended ZOO. Talking about forgiveness, please chain or cage not any of these animals so that when they bite off your JUWA aka Penis in Tiv language you will definitely learn how to FORGIVE!
ReplyDeleteThe poster is very sick. He is a time bomb waiting to explode. It's just a matter of time before something triggers him to start carrying out those thoughts. He needs both psychiatric and spiritual help asap. Dear poster, please seek help before it's too late. See a shrink fast.
ReplyDeleteThe devil itself will marvel and flee after reading your mail whaaaatttt!!!! You are absolutely depressed and the 30yr old burden you are carrying has mentally derailed you. Only Jesus can save you o! No human advise fit! Accept Jesus today *runs away*
ReplyDeleteToo bad, u have never experienced love and u don't want to even experience love. And by love, I mean the love of God. I hate to say this, but I think u hate yourself. U are full if so much hate for yourself. One day u'll just sleep and die and end up in hell. Or worse off, get very sick wit no1 to care for you and love u. Why wouldn't u, after all the hate and venom u av inside u? U are possessed with a very wicked spirit and you need God to melt your heart. It's either that or you are very sick mentally! My God! What happened to u in your childhood, who hurt you this bad? Please get help! How would u even get help when u clearly enjoy the evil that possess you or at least pretend to. I pray God ministers to your heart soon and you come back to share your testimony. And as for girls that take money for sex, and next thing without even knowing him, u open your legs, see this type of man, One day u may meet him and he will slaughter you like an animal for the fun of it.
ReplyDeleteKai! I hope this is just somehow playing a silly prank on stella. Ahh ahn, but I know some people are this possessed and sick mentally sha.
Simple! This guy is not asking for advise, is he? Just search for how you can join Boko Haram, they need guys like you. You are the Nigerian version of the antichrist. We dont even need the likes of you on SDK not to talk of Nigeria or the world. "Go and Die". The world would be better without you. The only other option is to accept christ and be born again. The ball is in your court.
ReplyDeleteAs usual. linda spews her shallow comment. Yeye woman.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately I think it's a waste of time trying to reach such a person. He is either a sociopath, psychopath or a malignant personality. Either way, he is most likely totally unreachable,and will instead view all the advise he is being given with utter contempt. In his mind he has done no wrong, and change can ONLY come if he genuinely wants to change. End of.
ReplyDeleteStella you need to keep all his details on file, and if possible report him to the appropriate authorities- just in case. Especially for the safety of those children. The majority of such people do not go on to become killers or serial killers,but it's important to monitor the threat. The only reason he claims to view serial killers as cowards,is because he feels he is superior to them in some way and he thinks he can kill and get away with it more intelligently than them. SMH, I feel great pity for those who in some way are connected to you. Do humankind a favour and stay solitary.
Firstly the poster might need to see a pshycologist. And on the other hand unforgiving spirit is a very serious case that should be attended to, poster please I would want you to lay your hands on "The Lords Prayer" and digest it very well.you really have to work on yourself.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, wat u need d most now is a psychologist tho our society isn't well equipped to tackle ur situation but I know if u search well u'll find 1 or a centre where ur feelings can be tackled
ReplyDeleteHonestly and sincerely you're not normal! You're the type that they say many are mad but few are roaming, you for in the category but you're not roaming! Psychologist I doubt if that can help! And mind, human or whatever doctor can only help when you forgive your own self and ready to be a better man! Until then please make yourself comfortable.
ReplyDeleteu need jesus christ
ReplyDeleteu need jesus christ
ReplyDeleteI'm diagnosing you with anti-social behavior.
ReplyDeleteOne more thing, you need to be committed to a psych hospital and be closely monitored by a psychiatrist.
ReplyDeleteSdk nothing we no go see for ur blog
ReplyDeleteThis guy is really soaked he needs help asap. kai I don't knw what to say *shrugs* my lord and my God I cover my kids with the blood of jesus any neighbour that is eyeing my kids for evil. let the earth open N swallow them Let it take them to the bottomless pit in JESUS Name AMEN
Abegi jare, if you like pay 1m for sex who cares? U were unable to say what the man did and you fantasise bout killing his children?oh pulease, if I hear forgiveness? This one is a sadist and loves to see people in pain, psycho
ReplyDeleteSomething very terrible must have happened to him in his early years of life...which has made him deep and unforgiving.
ReplyDeleteHe needs procedural physcological sessions + God's intervention to prevent him from becoming a killer/rapist/.......
Oh noo I wonder what they did to him when he was a little boy. At age 4 he new what hate was. That's probably all he knws he needs serious help asap. Only God knws hw many people he has hurt
ReplyDeleteSdk nothing we no go see for ur blog
ReplyDeleteThis guy is really soaked he needs help asap. kai I don't knw what to say *shrugs* my lord and my God I cover my kids with the blood of jesus any neighbour that is eyeing my kids for evil. let the earth open N swallow them Let it take them to the bottomless pit in JESUS Name AMEN
Where are his parents?
ReplyDeleteIf a child turns out good, praise his parents. If he/she turns out bad, blame the parents.
What kind of home training did he have? Dint he grow up in a family where forgiveness was practiced? How can his parents see a 4yr old fight with his best friend and not settle the fight between them?
His teachers nko? None of them noticed? ?
Mr poster. Your problem is deep. You need someone you listen to. Share this with the person. Are you religious? You can talk with a pastor/imam and they will give you spiritual guidance as well.
There is nothing new under the sun. And where there is a will, there is a way. As long as you are ready to let go of the spirit of inforgiveness, you will be healed.
As you have accepted your have a problem with it, the next step is to make a conscious effort to forgive. Go out of your way to forgive. Remind yourself you have to forgive.
The same way you go online to read all those murder stories, read stories on forgiveness instead. Watch youtubr for random acts of forgiveness.
They say if you do something consistently for 21 days, it becomes an habit.
I'm sure you can do this. All the best.
-babe
@ poster u nid 2 b more closer to God, pray to him to giv u soft heart nd d heart to always 4give nd 4get...thou it mite luks so hard bt wit God alone u can find ur inner peace.
ReplyDeleteI dont know what to say, even if I know, dont know where to start from...... Hmmmmm. Dear poster.... First tin first, do yhu believe in God? Do yhu fear him? Do yhu know there is a day of accountability? Let go of anger. If yhu know sumtin is gonna get yhu angry, walk away from it fast. Then, STOP watching violent scenes, do yhu know I cant stand where they kill CHICKENS, yes chickens. Let go. Let go. Pray to God. When yhu are gud. Look for God-fearing lady to marry. Stop wasting your money, help your frnd. Tell him your mind..... He will apologise...... Pls. Pls. Pls let go. PLEASE.....we Will love hear back from yhu... Positively......
ReplyDeleteYou guyz should please take a sit, you all saying he needs help, do you know what it feels like to have someone so close to you hurt you so bad in ways u can't imagine, it take so much time to heal nd forget. U may forgive but u never forget.. this guy hasn't killed anyone he only has fantacies, I do too, I love reading and watching anything to do with serial killing, fiction or other wise, it thrills me endlessly.. it take your mind off the pain nd hurt for a while, it's like a massage u know. That what this does for him as well.. it just soothes him. He isn't gonna go on a mass killing.. so don't smother him with all these holier than thou attitude. It stinks. M
ReplyDeleteAt any giving chance whenever a nigerian is clueless he begins to talk about Jesus,how many of us can boost of a true relationship with jesus...
ReplyDeleteDear poster I know u ve done ur maths u ve seen the end of most of ur role models,it was damnation and u fear such end for urself,u lack love simply becos u don't have love(most of us don't love ourself so there is no way in hell we can love others)I know how u feel cos I remember the faces of those that hurt me when I was four or less and I wanna hurt them but the best why is to be happy and I am but ur not so that's the difference
You need to talk to an expert and I know u wanna change thank God u didn't tell stella other evil u do...
And to blog visitors most of u are breeding even more dangerous monsters yet ur here blabbing...
Jesus...what planet did u come from???.....pls seek God NOW before u get consumed by bitterness.....how do u sleep at nite with all these thoughts in u???....and u're even planning to buy a lion so that if anyone offends u in ur neighborhood,,,u can just send ur lion after him/her.......be careful so that u dont plan your own death......dont u think the lion could kill u too????........u have a big problem ooo....
ReplyDeleteAt any giving chance whenever a nigerian is clueless he begins to talk about Jesus,how many of us can boost of a true relationship with jesus...
ReplyDeleteDear poster I know u ve done ur maths u ve seen the end of most of ur role models,it was damnation and u fear such end for urself,u lack love simply becos u don't have love(most of us don't love ourself so there is no way in hell we can love others)I know how u feel cos I remember the faces of those that hurt me when I was four or less and I wanna hurt them but the best why is to be happy and I am but ur not so that's the difference
You need to talk to an expert and I know u wanna change thank God u didn't tell stella other evil u do...
And to blog visitors most of u are breeding even more dangerous monsters yet ur here blabbing...
At any giving chance whenever a nigerian is clueless he begins to talk about Jesus,how many of us can boost of a true relationship with jesus...
ReplyDeleteDear poster I know u ve done ur maths u ve seen the end of most of ur role models,it was damnation and u fear such end for urself,u lack love simply becos u don't have love(most of us don't love ourself so there is no way in hell we can love others)I know how u feel cos I remember the faces of those that hurt me when I was four or less and I wanna hurt them but the best why is to be happy and I am but ur not so that's the difference
You need to talk to an expert and I know u wanna change thank God u didn't tell stella other evil u do...
And to blog visitors most of u are breeding even more dangerous monsters yet ur here blabbing...
Dear L, pls contact me.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is one sick puppy.
ReplyDeleteOmg!! This sounds just like a verrryyyy handsome guy I (very briefly) dated. The guy was a complete sociopath! Hated n complained about everything n everyone, including his own mother. He was just too weird n I suggested visiting a shink a couple of times. Ofcourse he never listened to me. Na so I just pack my self run cos It was obvious he wasnt ok in the mind. His name is Lanre o! Please if this is you, please please Lanre get some help b4 it's too late. From Li....n
ReplyDeleteKindly supply his details..i would love to connect wit him
DeletePls ask Jesus to come help u out cos man cannot do that....many has passed through what u re going through but God saved them......u want real peace?, just kneel down and say a simple prayer of "Lord Jesus,pls come , forgive my sins,help me to forgive myself and others, deliver my spirit,soul and body from every bondage of d devil" nd u will see God in action...its well with your soul my brother.
ReplyDeletei believe something happened to you while growing up and changed your sense of reasoning, it is not normal that you feel this way, you need help and only the kinda help God alone can give, the first solution is you knowing and you are able to write and send this out, that is the first step to getting freedom, atleast you have not done any of these things you think about. I pray you will get help and be happy for the rest of your life..............it is well
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