Nigerian men will always commoditize love because it is damn up for sale?
blog visitor you may have hit the nail on the head but blame it on the society abeggy!
You are such a chauvinist,I cant deal!!!
RE: Wife Number 2 Loading For 44 Year Old Married Nigerian Man.
Stella,
thanks for posting my comment. the responses from you BVs were quiet intriguing. though i received more flak than praise, it’s important for women to know that men will always be polygamous.
It’s a man thing. men, OK i, am not emotional. and am sure out of every ten men you see nine are not emotional. in all honesty i married more out of security than love- at least hopefully my wife wont poison me. what is love? please? genny baby, omalicha, lady precious, sisi eko, i hate the hypocrisy of the Nigerian woman.
what is love? i ask again. Love is the most bastardised word in "Nigeria's" lexicon. you buy a Nigerian girl rose flowers she will blurt: "na love i go chop?" you buy her a jeep and the next, "i love you so much". Love in Nigeria is for the highest bidder. i say it with all boldness, in Nigeria money can buy true love. i mean TRUE LOVE. the Nigerian woman does not love, she only loves comfort and money. please ask omalicha and co if they could ever date or marry a man who is struggling, while a rich politician is wooing them. indeed the only thing ALL NIGERIANS love is money and whoever possesses it.
indeed olowo laiye mo. and for your safety and security, you give your wife all she needs materially. that is the trade-off. the billionaire that bought his wife a custom made ride knows that his wife will NEVER betray him. SIMPLE!!
just realise one thing Nigerian men will always commoditize love because it is damn up for sale.
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PUPPY WANTED
Hello Stella,
I am one of your biggest fans and I just started commenting on your blog with the name 'Tolaly'. I know this is a strange request but I will like you to confirm from other BVs if anyone has a puppy (pregnant dog) to give out.
I am one of your biggest fans and I just started commenting on your blog with the name 'Tolaly'. I know this is a strange request but I will like you to confirm from other BVs if anyone has a puppy (pregnant dog) to give out.
My baby sister is leaving home for NYSC next month and my parents are getting really worried and lonely. They are very loving people who likes to pamper a lot. We have a cat at home at the moment but they've been talking about getting a dog. The last dog we had was bought from our street and it kept on running home. When the dog gave birth, she killed all her puppies with the mother's help. So we had to free the dog.
We have tried several house helps in the past but they were becoming more of a curse than a blessing. We brought in family children at different times. The first one attempted to rape a six year old girl that stays three houses from ours while the last one tormented everyone at home that my mum spent almost 3 months at the hospital as a result.
My siblings and I have decided on an help that comes on Saturday to do basic cleaning and market shopping. My parents are both retired and really caring people and they reside in Ado-Ekiti.
Pls, pls and pls, I need a good puppy to serve as a companion. I promise to update BVs and you too as the puppy matures.
Thanks so much Stella and keep up the good work.
*Where is that blog visitor that sells dogs?This one is for you!
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LOVE PORTION FOR MENDear Madam,
I hear very much about your love portion for women to attract men, what of the one men can use to make their women go crazy for them.
Please Reply.
Thanks.
*Dear blog visitor i am not mama Dolphin and i do not understand what your mail wants oh...Are you trying to say men also do love charms for women?how and why?#okbye!
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RECHARGE CARD BONANZA LATER THIS EVENING.
I have four MTN of N1,500 each
airtel of 1k each x four
glo of 1k each x four
etisalat of 1k each x four
I will send them out later when most of you are alseep or tired,i no get power send to anybody email so it will be open for fastest fingers.
I am sorry that most of you are disappointed that i do not have anything to
give away on this blog,make i go thief for una?LMAO.
Those people who dropped comment cussing me out yesterday,abeg make una free me,i am still growing on this blog and i am open to more blessings.if i have i give in private,i do not announce it.everybody has their own style.leave me with mine and enjoy the giveaway where ever it is being given...hating on me is welcome and it is free...Some people might come here and call this statement hater/jelous comment but i try to say my mind and it is what it is..some people are more blessed than others alright.....
Between i soaked garri and suya last night..LMAO!
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The robot thing that most of you see is from google oh,i have nothing to do with it,my blog was receiving too many spamm comment and i guess they fixed it cos since then it has stopped and i have not gotten even one.I guess you know the blogger can be shut down if it is being spammed?...If it is asking you to prove you are not a robot,maybe you are,LMAO.
As for those claiming i chop their comments,my pot of comments is full and i have stopped chopping comments for now but please be nice with your comments nah,the way some of you cuss out is scary,like it is more than what is seen...take it easy my darlings..lol
I am off to buy school books and will be posting but might not be able to moderate comments immediately but i should be done in two hours una hear?please bear with me,motherhood no easy.Thank you.
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BLOG VISITOR MRS D RANTING ON TUESDAY MORNING
''I have had a bad start this morning..... I feel so bad.....no matter how much you are being paid at your place of work, it's frustrating when your efforts aren't being appreciated. I can't believe the picture my boss painted of me. This is the same company I have been sacrificing for. I can't even tell my husband because he has said I should leave several times. I actually locked myself in the ladies and cried. I don't know if I can wait till the end of the year before I leave. I'm so unhappy here. It's so difficult getting another job and I really don't wanna sit at home and do nothing, I'm not that kind of person. I'm tired, really fed up. I don't think I want to wake up when I'm 40 and realize I hv been in a job that makes me sad most of my life. My husband thinks it's because of the money, but it really isn't. It's because I can't be dependent on him........ Sorry guys, I just wanted to talk.....''
I know you dropped this in the comment section Mrs D but i brought it here to let you know that you are not the only one.you are loved babe.
Which kind nonsense dat 44 years old man dey spill so? My dear if u don't believe dat love do exist dat is u don't refer it to everybody. I am a Nigeria lady and I love to be love not for material things! Madam stellina y u even post dis trash sef? Mr man divorce ur wife and let her go find peace somewhere else, stingy man u don't love her y not let her go b4 u wife ur number 2? Love do not exist my hairy yansh.
ReplyDeleteUncle 44yrs, go n sit down jare. See u changing mouth, like u re talking to kids right? Abeg carry ds yeye n stupid story of urs outta here jare. Yesterday ur excuse for wanting to marry a 22yr old was cos of sex n that ur wife does not arose u sexually as much as u would have loved to. After getting serious bashing from bv's, u now come here like d agbaya u re to call certain names out like they were the only ones that cussed u out. U were properly lashed at by both males n females n u mentioning names. Agbaya is what u re and I pity that woman who settled down to marry u from d onset. Stella has said it all, u re a chauvist. What has women being materialistic got to do with ur story? u have now taken ur story to another dimension. Yesterday it was all about sex, today u re spewing thrash. In 2014, should u marry someone n take her to d village b4 without taking care of her? Should she ride in a bicycle n not a car. So if ur woman ask u for basic necessities like a car, she is materialistic? Yes, I call a car a basic necessity in ds age cos it's 2014 n if a husband has d means of getting his wife a car n other things u see as luxury ( cos u re a broke ass) by all means should she ask for it. Am only against a woman who knows her husband can't afford certain things for her presently but go ahead to frustrate him for it or get it from another man, that is d only thing I detest. Or girls that are of marriageable age/ dating age refusing to marry or date a man cos he can't afford certain things from d start n think it will continue that way n they lost such men to other women n in few years time, d man makes it she is like had I known? Apart from ds, a woman should very well be materialistic if her hubby/bf can give her luxury, why not? She be mumu???? Bros, go n sit down jare, ur story no hold single water, u ought to be ashamed of urself. Guys like u don't have good money n not physically fine men, but na una type show body pass.......boda AGBAYA. Mtchewwwww.
Delete@ d 44yr old eya sorry ehn. 4m your write-up, u av neva been genuinely lud dats d reason for your outburst. U can neva give wot u don't av, u know. Marry your sisi 22 na, dats if she'll accept your ring o. U tink u are dorohusband material to her abi? Abeg park well jor. @ mrs d, I can imagine hw u feel. I'v in dat situation b4 so I can feel u. I used to av a very rude,annoying, insensitive and unappreciative boss.he'l talk down at u in front of customers in d banking hall. He'll just make u feel as if u are not bringin result to d table. Wot I did was to ignore him. I neva let anytin he says get to me at all. Tho somtimes I felt like stranglin him. D good thing is his attitude made me stronger. I now believe dat if I can work under such boss, then I can work under any boss no matter how bad u are.
DeleteUncle 44! U need Jesus. UR mentality needs deliverance! What a way to reason. With such level of reasoning u r far from peace n stability. Please go ahead n do whatever u please o. No bring ur situation come here again o. U can't even make heaven reasoning like this.
DeleteHello Stella of Life and fellow BVs.
DeleteThis comment is particularly for BV who wants puppy.
My friend's DOG is pregnant and in two months or less, we will have the babies.
This is not just a dog but 'abotty'. You know what I mean?!
I could send Stella and the BV in person the beautiful pictures of the DOG.
For bookings, hit my name and write to me please!
David (dave_gino)
Uncle 44 years old boy is full of gibberish and should STFU!
DeleteHian. Oga 44, my comment vex u Shey? Well sorry that was my opinion according to what you made available. I tried to make sense of your rejoinder, and I realized that you asked leading questions about what the Nigerian folks define love to be.
DeleteBut sir, you forgot to tell us your own definition of love. Perhaps you live by the definition the society make of 'love' ... forgetting that your own innermost definition, if u have one at all, surpasses that of the society you find yourself. If you are able to define what you see love to be, then I can respond appropriately. Ok sir
I couldn't even get over your sentence stella "because it is damn up for sale" the hell kinda English is this :-/
DeleteAnon 3:38. Let me borrow Stella's phrase, where do I send your kiss? If I had settled down to read comments earlier on before I responded to this man.. cos I saw he called us out so me I just reverted sharp sharp, wouldn't have passed any comment at all cos u said it ALL. Apt analysis of a confused man. End of!!
Deletemama Dolphin tinz
ReplyDeleteErrmm,
DeleteI have been so so busy today that I couldn't even open my favourite blog.
Now that I'm a bit free,I quickly came here and excitedly rushed to the in house news, and what did I see...
The 44 years old halfman with a wandering dick (a dick he can't even use to satisfy his poor wife btw) calling me and some other honorable BVs out and asking us the silliest question.
That's not even my problem.
My only annoyance is that he didn't have the decency of starting my name with a capital "G"
**drags his ears**
Oga dick, take your time oh!
Ina anu???
I'm warning you now!
Don't ever start my name with a small "g" again.
You can start your doctor f**kmate's name with a small letter but please when it comes to mine, do the right thing!
#FartsOnYourFace
Lmaoo. Na so me sef shock o. Shebi he asked our opinion here sef, so why call us hypocrites na? If u don't agree with some people you become their enemies. Ta. OK o.
DeleteUncle 2nd wife have you heard now, ehen next time it's Genny baby with a capital G. Let it not be said that you have not been warned. Hahaha well said Genny
Deletehmmmm
ReplyDeleteHi Stella. Btw means by the way! Not between. Kisses
Deletehmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteOga 44 years, sorry to say, ur mentality and orientation is twisted. Jeeeeez! Can u hear urself?
ReplyDeletePls go ahead and marry ur Sisi and leave us alone na! Your mind is made up and u have this twisted way of thinking, why then are u disturbing us??? U obviously came to be cheered abi? Sorry. Wrong blog. I really pity ur wife. And u really think she cannot poison u? Kai! Wicked people everywhr!
I'm tempted to ask Whr u live, Whr u grew up, ur experiences in life etc. All these must have contributed to ur conclusion abt love and women. Which is wrong.
I just tire for u abeg. Won't waste my energy any further. Let those that have mouth attend to u. U are obviously unrepentant. I only pray for ur wife.
Mr 44 years old, you sound extremely empty and unfocused for your age.
DeleteYou can't even afford to buy your quack doctor gf a ticket which indicates you are poor or just struggling, how much are you worth?
It is sad you do not have a clue as to what your priorities should be at 44! What investments have you put in place? have you secured your future and that of your kids? If you drop dead today God forbid will your kids still have a good life or it is all about you? Selfish!
You want us to pop champagne for you or perhaps give you a standing ovation since you are able to have an erection and you want to take a second wife which must be your vision, mission and purpose in life,i make bold to say that you have lost it.
Ah ah Whirlwind has poured kerosene on the matter o. Oga u for no even raise this matter again. Chai. Lol
Delete1. Since you know all these and more, why exactly did you write to Stella?
ReplyDeletePlease go and marry your stupid whore of a doctor, who you give 20k. And when you are 50 marry a lawyer who you will be giving 10k and maybe later add an engineer. You and the Doc gal are both shameless and full of evil.
Biko gerrout!
2. Stella is just soo lenient that you people will just wake up and send her rubbish. So now she don turn Mama Dolphin?
Go eat a rattlesnake with sweet corn and girls will fall over themselves for you.
Awwwwwww, I like Mrs D. Nne ndo o.. If you are that unhappy maybe you should just leave the job nah.
As for the ones cussing Stella out for not dashing us money, make una keep calm and give her three years!
Some people are more blessed than others!!!!
Buhahahaha @Rattlesnake.
DeleteOliviasilk has kee me oh.
Mrs D dearie, I'm so sorry. I understand how you feel. Have worked under such a mean boss before. Try and ignore him as much as you can and don't take all he says to heart.
He's just a frustrated fellow.
Quietly strat looking for another job you hear? You need your peace.
Cheer up darling.
#hugs
Oga 44 years, sorry to say, ur mentality and orientation is twisted. Jeeeeez! Can u hear urself?
ReplyDeletePls go ahead and marry ur Sisi and leave us alone na! Your mind is made up and u have this twisted way of thinking, why then are u disturbing us??? U obviously came to be cheered abi? Sorry. Wrong blog. I really pity ur wife. And u really think she cannot poison u? Kai! Wicked people everywhr!
I'm tempted to ask Whr u live, Whr u grew up, ur experiences in life etc. All these must have contributed to ur conclusion abt love and women. Which is wrong.
I just tire for u abeg. Won't waste my energy any further. Let those that have mouth attend to u. U are obviously unrepentant. I only pray for ur wife.
I just love ur comment so much @beauitiful n gifted. Don't mind ds yeye man tryna justify his stupid attitude. If u re ds convinced about women, then what exactly do u want from this blog???? Oga 44yrs, u re not ok o aswear, u re not well at all. U need that your doc small girl to properly check u up, u re mentally unfit aswear. Ur post lacks substance, @44yrs, u re sending in a post like a 17yr old teenager? I pity that ur wife, I really do. #smh....
DeleteStella biko be ur humble sef, and i blv God will make you bigger too.
ReplyDeleteStella is on fire today! Posts left, right and center, lol.
ReplyDeleteN1: Didn't read the original post. I agree relationships are very "money-based" in Nigeria but that's not enough to generalize and say ALL NIGERIANS love money, haba. Oga speak for yourself and those you know rather than speaking for All Nigerians *rme
Mrs D, I really do pray for you. I have been in a similar situation and know how unhappy a horrible boss / work environment can make one. I pray you find somewhere good soon. Just keep looking out no matter how long it takes.
Baba 44, your last post you claimed you were in love and your 22 year old doctor loves you too, now you're saying there is no love in Nigerian women? You were clearly thinking with your dick, confused fellow. Abeg go one corner go think about your life. At 44 you clearly are a fool and as Queen put it, you're a fool for...
ReplyDeleteYou don't have love in your life neither do you have any go give, your only aim is to have sex...continue! You've choose to live a miserable life, don't drag your innocent wife and kids along.
Oga looking for love portion, hian! I catch afraid for you!
BV looking for puppy, na wa oh. I have nothing to say except na wa oh.
Stella don't explain yourself to anybody, giving is not by force. No loyalty should be bought.
I wonder how people prostitute around blogs, being on SDK daily is tasking not to mention jumping from one blog to another. They must be really jobless/hopeless looking for freebies on blogs. What happened to their hands, can't they hustle for their own money instead of begging? And they will shamelessly go Anon to type BS. Proud beggars! I fear una.
Seconded, giving ain't mandatory and i think you should slow down on it except it is absolutely necessary eg Omonigho; the pregnant widow who birthed twins and cases like that.
DeleteIt appears able bodied individuals now hop from one blog to another looking for freebies like it is their birth right and are beginning to take you for granted.
Babe, post vacancies where available let those interested apply for jobs, if any blog visitor is willing to train bvs on cake making, beads etc cool, stop encouraging people to come here and beg, if this blog didn't exist exist, no one will die.
Mrs D, hang on and be searching for another job, it is well with you hun.
Sure man, Nigerian women love for the money and nothing else. If you don't have money in Nigeria don't preach love to your girl friend otherwise "she go slap you" with money be sure of 200% love from her even when she catches you with another woman, she would mutter"all men cheat" but "if you no get money and you dey cheat ontop", the woman go show you pepper. Money surely answereth all things.
ReplyDeleteSame way naija men love sex. If u wan fuck, go find money n stop yanning balls here.
DeleteYou see why you're an anonymous? Useless fellow
DeleteWell inasmuch as Baba 44 (lol),as some pple have tagged him is diverting from the real argument dat put him on the spot to an entirely different and unrelated topic,he has a strong point:lately its money love' dat is trending.but I refuse to agree only d females are guilty,a higher percentage of d culprits are even men!when we were undergraduates years back,a lot of young,single men come to campus to look for decent undergraduates to wife,but now it hardly happens,cos men want a working class lady,hence less responsibility!so truely Baba 44 is right,d word love is up for sale,but unfortunately it was put up for sale by d male folks!
DeleteTank u
@post 2...Puppy wanted. I have several Caucasian Shepherd puppies. They are 7weeks old. brenda4myself@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteMr 44 years, your problem no be here. Truth is ...you are in capable of loving. You married out of frustration...yes! Ur peopke kept troubling you till you hooked the nearest lady. Na d lady sef i dey pity. Now u wan to hook a low life doctor who pays her flight bill jst to cone and have sex with you. ....kai, that doctor sefis stupid...im sorry to say that. The same wife that has stuck with you....and can't even understand the monster she married (in ur own words). In fact,marry the doctor. ...no waste time o....but jst buy ur coffin at the same time cos that veejay she was giving u will be given to the next
Deleteavaliable guy. Wish u what you wish yourself.
Oga, my love is not for sale biko. Stop justifying your wickedness. Goan marry a second wife already! But that young doctor will be the biggest fool to end with an egocentric bigot like you .
ReplyDeleteMrs D, the thing is tiring honestly. And some people will carry it on their heads like gala sellers. To some people, your best can never be enough. The worst part is that the people complaining are those that cannot do half of what you do, my boss for instance, and no be em papa company oh.
I don't allow all those things get to me jare, life is too short.
Oga 44 pls go ahead and marry...ur funeral...how I wish d yeye doctor is reading all these comments!
Delete!!omu Iya dun!!
De man na wa ooh
DeleteMadam stellina I dey inside flight now coming to Germany keep my suya ooooo we for don land but d hold up no b hear chai!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahaha.
DeleteHeheheheheheeehh
DeleteU r a Clown.
DeleteMrs D..i know that feeling. Sorry dear.
ReplyDeleteLol @poster; 'true love can be bought with money'. Go ahead and suit urself, leave the epistle.
I need someone to go shop me some food stuffs, I hate going to the market but ooh...I love cooking.
If there's any chauvinist here, it's you Stella. You always blast guys when they speak the truth about Naija babes but support the ladies when they come with their stories. It's really annoying when you do that. Tell me if this guy has told any lie(s) abt Naija babes.
ReplyDeleteTo the poster, you may have all sorts of things against Naija ladies but don't hurt a woman that has stood by you all along. If I remember well you said u "don't have a lot" and still you wife is still by your side. That shows she's different from the average Naija babe you just described. As far as I am concerned, you are bored in your marriage and I can tell it's only a matter of time before you get bored with this your young Dr because the only this you like about her is how she makes u "feel like a man". I must be frank with you, you need to grow up. At 44 you don't sound mature (i'm pretty sure someone must have told you this before)....you should know it's a must to get old but optional to grow up. Stop basking in the euphoria of being "a beast" and devourer of women and respect and love that woman that has been by your side when "you don't have much". Do not call the forest the shelters you a jungle.
Exactly. This man has to be told that marriage is mostly about taking responsibilities. It isn't about the fairy tales we dream about or the romance we read in books.
DeleteSo he's tryna let us know that his whorish' doc is above the average Nigerian woman who doesn't care about money but just loves to be with him? How about the woman that married him and gave him 3 sons, does she care about money also? And also, you say 90% of Naija men are emotionless, you inclusive, does that mean that we can conclude that all Naija men make life-changing decisions from their dicks?
Dear poster, did you have marriage counseling classes before you got married? What kindha family experiences did you have growing up, what are your friends and association like? I ask all these cuz you seem like a kid in a grown up body.
And lastly have you heard this adage "Love the one you marry, and don't marry the one you love"
okbye
Badtguy, I understand you think Stella bashes men but you have to see how we bash her when she gives some advice that we think is so unnecessarily pro men. On to the rest of your post, you are right. However, as men you are attracted to the physical while women love security. Plain and simple. A woman in Naija does not have opportunities to get her own unless she is a lucky graduate and , unfortunately a lot of the women have been programmed to think a high achiever will chase suitors away so our women do not strive for much, instead they look to men(na una cause am). I am glad I do not have that mentality, cause depending on men is what will cause a man like this 44 yr old to treat you anyhow.
DeleteKai datbadguy are you married? Your comment is so mature. I am winking if single. @ stellalicios madam keep up the work am feeling you
DeleteSexy F
Are you alright ni?
Delete@dtbadtguy U jst got Urself an admirer best comment ever...Admire folks dt r capable of deductive reasoning n full of Wisdom..u seem lik a vry wise fellow..kip it up. As fr d poster wit Wandering Dick as a single may I neva meet a man like you ever in my life IJN..its nt enof dt u av a wanderin dick u r equally vry Stupid n I dnt mean. Dt as an insult cos believe me u r..i pray God helps dt poor woman u marry n give her a man more deservn of her.
DeleteAha Stella, mine isn't the robot ish alone oo. I can't comment with my google ID anymore n I hate it. Always telling me google is currently having problems temporarily since two weeks ago. Mtchewwwww
ReplyDeleteLol...no vex ni, jst bear wit dem 4 som tym
Delete@ the 44year old man,pls dont generalize and stop defending what isnt.U shld av saved d poor woman from all these by not marrying her in the first place and dont tell me about being pressurized, blame no one but yu, im very sure no one pointed a gun at you and forced you to marry someone yu were not in love with.So,stop trying to justify your stupid actions by sending more stupid mails to stella.Its one man to one wife and you just have to deal with,what happened to "till death do us part"???men like you disgust me!
ReplyDeleteAnd I hate commenting with this Name/URL stuff, makes me feel like anonymous.
ReplyDeleteLmao as if aint anony
DeleteYes some guys do love portion too. I once experienced it. When I was in the polytechnic around year 2001 things were so difficult financially that I started to date a lorry driver because he was showering me with money #1,000 everyday as feeding money that's asides money for other things. One day I went to his house, met his absence and I decided to wait because I know where he put his keys. Inside I decided to look for a pen in his drawer to write down a note for him then I saw a list that he got from a herbalist. it has my name, my mothers name also he was asked to get my hair too, I couldn't believe it. Through further search inside the drawer I saw something tied together like a thread white with another thing about me marrying him. I took it and showed it to my mum and we burnt it with prayer. That same day he called that what happened when I came to his house because it was usual for me not to take any money he left for me and I told him what I saw in his drawer. He started to cry that it was his friend that lead him to it that I might not marry him because he wasn't educated. After that I tried to forgive him but I became suspitious of all his moves so I stopped seeing him and changed number. I had to do three days dry fasting to break other unseen sturves. Jesus is lord
ReplyDeleteChai things dey happen for dat obodo naija ooo... dear I thank God for ur life ooo....
DeleteLorry drivers can do juju for Africa...
DeleteDirty people..
@queen, as in eh...... I don't know why most lorry drivers can't do without jazz. #OneLove#
DeleteNa wa oooo. I thank God for your life so it's not only rich big men that are guilty of jazz even lorry driver sef follow.
Delete44 years old poster that wants to marry her daughter,please go ahead...
ReplyDeleteTypical yoruba man that can't stay in a marriage...worst men to marry from in Nigeria...most of the sob stories we read here about marriage are from your women..
Nonsense...
Sorry to say,I love yoruba people but majority of their men don't make good husband..
If yoruba men are bad, wetin u go talk about mba mmiri ppl + ikwerre ppl fia kwa. a'na nugbu nwanyi.
DeleteLinda biko kwa, stop this tribalism. You want to start ok, the biggest abusers in Naija are usually Igbo men. The controlling men are usually Igbo. My father no gree me marry from una side, too much issues. Are they better off than the yoruba. I am a proper Calabar chic and I know our men too can have kleg. So please stop generalizing. The man spoke small yoruba and you already judged. Ah ah
DeleteSeriously you are right. Forget about being tribalistic. Yoruba men don't make good husbands.very promiscuous, goshhhh I don't even know how to explain it.
DeleteYou right. Am a married yoruba woman. What I have seen since we moved to Lagos is alarming. Almost all DH childhood yoruba friends are stinking cheats. I dislike men who don't respect their wives. So sad!
Delete@anony calabar chick SHUP UP yes evry tribe has deir shortcomns bt dey r certain tribes. Dt av a reputation regardn certain issues...Atimes u av 2 say d truth dt dsnt mak u a tribalist...As fr ur Dad stoppn u frm marryn ibos...hahah.i laff fr obvious reasons..Calabar dey reject ibo..nne if u see ibo jst tnk ur God ok
Delete*SHUT UP*
DeleteMrs D,please start looking out for another job now and leave when you get it. Don't stay where you aren't happy. Fulfilment is the order of the day.. I love my place of work. I am been treated nice,they love my input and I am very pleased. My boss is a kind hearted soul too. People say foreigners are mean but my boss is super nice. With him,your ears must adjust . These Americans speak damn fast. And above all,I am well paid.. Chukwu dalu
ReplyDeletePoster with the sex issue.. Go and marry your 22yrs gal friend already.. Get the fuxk outta here. Why are you still talking? Women,please make sure a man is in love with you before you settle down with him,that way,you know what you dealing with.. Love,communication,patience and tolerance helps in marriage. Marry the gal and see if your still have sex for 10mins again. Your wife has been bearing the fact that you don't please her in bed all these years and now you have the guts to say rubbish. I can't wait for your boys to grow, they will throw her and her kids out of the house when you are no more.
I don't like pets.. Cats,dogs,monkeys.. I don't like them at all. They are so messy. And I hate my environment to be messy. Dogs and cats are a no no for me that been said,poster, are you sure your parents can look after the dog well? I mean,you said they are both retired and wouldn't have any maid living with them...hmmm
I feel like ranting today. My kids are just all over the place. They make motherhood so hard. I mean I come back so tired and I still have to deal with their excesses.. They are too active,I don't know if they are supposed to be that active. Then they came back from vacation and became more stubborn. I don't know if its because I left them over there and came back to resume my job because of the whole Ebola thing. How do mothers cope? Especially mothers with twins? They funny part is when I call one,the other would come and pretend to be him? Like i cant tell them apart? Lmao . Who gives them this kind of idea? They are still small. They things they do baffles me and when I tell people,they just give me the speech "boys will be boys"..
Yes o @Quiet boys will always be boys. My daughter nko? At times I feel like putting her inside a box Loooolz, really it's not easy but motherhood sure rocks. Cos when she notices am so mad at her she will come over and kiss my face awwwwu my heart will just melt.
DeletePoster 1 my love is not for sell biko.
Mrs D, E hugs. I can understand how u feel. Just save up and b ur own boss or get another job b4 u leave. Ur happiness is very important o. Take care. Stella giving is never by force. Always do u dear.
Lmao!! Sowi #Qutie. Motherhood no easy o, dat reminds me of my twin nieces too identical to a fault. Their teacher then asked one to barb hair while d other remained wit hair na so them two go house go barb hair together! Lol. If they gv one punishment wen she gets tired d other wil go and nd mk a switch. Na so dem papa even use am to his adv in d hospital too. I so love twins... its their age, they are just active its nt a problem. Blow me ksses to them biko.
DeleteLMAO @ Wen u call one,d other appears...Hahahahaha
DeleteGod will help us take care of them .... It is very challenging especially when you are abroad with no help from anyone ... My boy and twin girls run me and madam ragged and we both work ooo ... It's no joke even sef tinuke dey on its way and thats full stop no more commas
DeleteLol u have a very good problem that many are praying to have. Enjoy it
Delete@qutie,am loving your boys already.cant wait to have mine.so good having Lil one around.
DeleteGod please answer my prayers
44 yrs man with wife no2 loading, all this epistle just to justify your reason for going for a 2nd wife? Smh...btw true love does exist in my relationship with soon to be hubby (hustling together right from uni days)...
ReplyDeleteBV in need of a puppy, theres so much mischief and mystery going on in that house...hope nothing will happen to the puppy if given??? just asking
Stellz well done u hear, no mind ndi obi akpo(jealousy pple)...
Mr I'm 44 and I'm old. Seems unfortunately wisdom has eluded you completely. Talking like you are a child. Can't deal. My little brother has more sense in his pinkie finger than you ever would. Rock your "old" age and stop coming here to spew nonsense.
ReplyDeletehmmmm having a really dull day.... my man was introduced to me by my very close friend/(a guy) ...we have been friends for several years nd i am use to talking to him abt everything.... now...i still cant hold back concerning my relationship with his friend nd its causing a lil bit of hiccups between them... pls bvs i need advice on how to handle this friendship nd relationship at d same time.... my friend already said he wants to stay out of our relationship...he told my bf too...but i just feel he is taking it too far... #confusedmuch!
ReplyDeleteAbeg respect yourself and give yourself brain,must you tell your friend about your relationship?(and he go they listen*mscheww) my mother thought me never to talk to any1 about my relationship, keep it to yourself or pray to your God!!
DeleteNne stop creating problems for urself. Guys have ego n u r bruising d ego of ur bf by opening up to his friend abt evrytin that goes on in ur relationship. When una fcuk, do u also tell ur friend how ur bf do it? Just asking o!
DeleteThe relationship should be between you and your guy naa. Three is a crowd biko. I don't even talk about my relationships at all, the thing no dey gree me... 'and I said, he did, he called...' mba biko
DeleteWe are hypocrites, just because we advised you not to marry that woman. You want us to tell you to go ahead...please go ahead.
ReplyDeleteMrs D...hugs.it is well.
You want puppy that will grow into big dog that will bite off someones children's head...abi?
Tell your parents to adopt a child.
You need charms for a woman to love you...even the ugliest man both physically and character wise is loved by a woman somewhere(ask kelvin happiness to tell you his story). If you need charms,that means you are up to no good, you need another man's wife.
MEMO to Kelvin happiness, I actually defended you on that post that you weren't the "fargin" that was "disfargined"
I told them the writer didn't use fried "yam" and "ham" in the story.Even if your square head is opened and night school is inserted into it, you will still not tell the difference between "Yam" and "Ham". I loff you the way you are...you are so "special".
The writer just got admission into the university...definitely not you. You and i know that you just wrote your 10th jamb this year and the reason you failed yet again was totally not your fault, Jamb officials used your answer sheet to buy akara from mama orobo's place.
Kelvin my boo, can you see i defended you?
Somewhere in Benin, kelvin happiness is sweating profusely,hands shaking vigorously just to type his reply to me, watch him bastardize this simple English language.
*pours yesterday's ice on him*
Calm your shrunken balls.
XOXO MYSTERY
Sdk bouncer be looking for trouble you hear. Agbaya
DeleteKwaaaaaaaks this is d Xoxo I loved.
DeleteWhere you for see Sdk bouncer? This must be obsession!
DeleteHahahahahhahahhaahhahahhahahahahahahahaahha.....Character dey for dis world oooo Xoxo am officially in Rov wit you#Nohomo oo
DeleteHahahahahaaaa chimooooo! Omlg! Xoxo I love u wit all my heart asweee...by d moon n d stars in d sky hehehehe all 4 1! U r a case makachi.
DeleteAnon 3:12, nkakwu tabie gi nti . Say amen!
LOL@whirlwind
DeleteReal obsession indeed!
Kisses Boo........and no, not 4u anon but my hunay whirlwind#Smiles
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Hahahhahahhahahah@CharisMatic Diva
DeleteChoi....you senior me wella for writing igbo oooooooooo, kai! I actually spent minutes bfr i'd decipher what you wrote....biko i say Amen on behalf of the anon3:12pm
Kisses Sugar!
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Nothing to say...Just really happy I can finally comment with my iphone :) ...and to the lady that needs puppy, head over to the palms at lekki and you'll see many cute ones for sale just before driving into the mall.
ReplyDeleteMrs D I assure you that you aren't alone, it's actually crazy the things that happen in a lot of offices these days, but unfortunately the last thing I will ever advice any woman is to be dependent on her husband! That's even worse than enduring the stress and hardship in the office. Just take it easy and keep looking for something better either a business or a job you like, it will all work out in the end. God is your strength. #OneLove#
ReplyDelete44 year old looking for marriage because of sex......paddle your canoe o! ur mind is made up, keep your justification.
ReplyDeleteposter looking for a pregnant dog, I don't understand the correlation of your story
Mrs D, awww......you gotta be strong. I have been in your shoes before..i actually took a walk, stayed home for a while( though it was depressing cos I am more of an office person) but here I am today..with a better job where I am so appreciated and the job offers me more time and so flexible for me.
I will advice you to start searching for another job now
rather than stay on a job that makes you feel sad every morning
OR just put in your resignation and walk away...afterall its not like you won't feed or dress well without a job(for now). am sure you will get an enjoyable job soon.
u need to be happy. don't let any mudda fucking company or staff steal your joy
I shake my head! The man is even justifying his stand. I pity you sir. Keep upholding the "men are polygamous in nature" belief. On judgement day, don't forget to tell the ultimate judge that, inugo?
ReplyDeleteWasn't Joseph a man like you? Why wasn't he polygamous? I see you as an undisciplined man. An undisciplined man will ALWAYS find reasons to justify his waywardness.
A man without focus is what you are. I only pity the woman who said yes to marry you.
To the BV who needs a puppy, goodluck and pleasure ensure to take the dog for regular check up to avoid stories that touch!
To Mrs D, a big hug to you. I really don't know what to say to cheer you up. No matter what, just don't give up on yourself.
Turned 34 today but I'm so sad n annoyingly hung up on my ex 2 bloody years later. This sucks big time...
ReplyDeleteAnon 1:36 hold on dear. God will never give up on u. It's well. 34 is just a number. All will be well again. E hugs.
DeleteHBD Dear,its well....Hold d faith
DeletePlease thank God for the gift of life and good health,, your husband will locate you soonest in Jesus Name, HBD.
DeleteE hugs dear...Hold On 2 him it shall b well wit us all....havn a kinda similar situation too. bt I av made up my mind I will neva giv up on God no mata wot I see....Na me n him oo
DeleteYeah Mrs D u r loved......ok liked. *big hug*
ReplyDeleteBorin todai jare nd watz dat naija He-goat sayin abt luv...abegi
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
poster no1....cudnt deduce anything meaningful from what u said...as i dey read am na bndbgkihgfhkhvgffrgfrki I jus dey see.
ReplyDeleteMadam puppy wanted.. I dey see poster for my Estate wey dem write rotweiler fr sale but i live in Abuja so dunno how u can transport it to ado.
@love portion for men?..no need.jus buy her a car worth 24million naira only..she will fall inlove with u immediately
@Mrs D...it is well.why not start up ur own business? I cant imagine myself being married and doing Sir,Sir up n down,its the fear of the unknown that make people stick to a particular job even when they know they aint needed or appreciated.Resign and start up a business for ursef...Take a bold step.
Lol@bndbgblabla lol
DeleteOrikwanma!!
ReplyDeleteTo Whom it May Consain:
ReplyDeleteBack in the days, BTW used to mean 'between'.
These days, in online communities, it means 'By The Way'.
Gorrit? Thank you.
Overwhelming news I must say, baba 44 please give it a rest and leave us alone...Lady you want a puppy for your retired parents?*Ndi ocha* That's like giving them a new born baby to take care of, ok o.... Mrs D,the lord is your strength,you can wait till year end it's just 2months more.....
ReplyDeleteOMALICHA is here mr 2ND WIFE. if you know the disadvantage of having two wives at this century you will think back. back in those days two wives was seen as a trophy for men or for show but these days most men will tell you they wont have tried it had they known what they know now. well i wish you all the best in your new to be marriage. we sure will be here waiting nd i pray you get all you wish and deserve. Its your life so go on and enjoy it to the fullest biko count me out of it. we just gave you an advice, its either you adhere or ignore straight forward.
ReplyDeleteOga 44, na u know o. True love exists o! With my husband its True love. I won't go into details! You don't deserve the knowledge. Go and marry your Dr and let us be! Ah ah!
ReplyDeleteMRs D, e kpele. Just start searching 4 a new job b4 u quit. If u can't take it again just resign n rest small. I can just imagine! Abegg they no dey die put.
Biko giv me details abeg...bin vry discouragd frm loving by circumstances beyond our control will lik 2 hear stories of Dos dt were sucessfull
DeleteLinda Eze I agree with you, Yoruba men make THE WORST husbands in Nigeria. I should know, I am miserably married to one. Yoruba men are so greedy, promiscuous and selfish and then on top of that you have to deal with their crazy family.
ReplyDeleteIs this my cousin?
DeleteNot good to generalize though but I always knew I wont date a yoruba man. Too promiscuous
DeleteYes@his crazy family;they re very mean and envious of the wife.i can't deal
DeleteU'd feel Stupid when it dawn on u dah I no. Ham is vernacular and a slang introduced by ur agbero ancestors
ReplyDeleteAnd yam was their favorite food they were using to eat oil. No wonder dey were referd to as homosapiens" half humans meaning u inherited half brain.@ xo xo mystery
44yrs pls do wht is right don't marry a second wife!work on ur marriage!poster that needs a puppy,pele abt all d wahala!!!!!!!sdk princess
ReplyDeleteLol this man sha no wan gree,you wanna justify your actions by all means. Pls stop committing fallacy in all of this.dont use your actions to generalize everyone...
ReplyDelete@the man that needs puppy lol you will find one but Ado is farrrr I hope someone hears you and get in touch
@stella you don't want us to sleep tonight oooo na serious vigil...Don't mind those talking about giveaway,whatever you give is not too small,it is the love behind it that matters. They should also give out to people abi?our hands are open to gift biko....
BTW am having a stressful day!U need to see me carrying cartons on my head in idumota today chai I just be like pepper seller. Man must survive....Thank God for my life oooo,As I was typing this message now,the tyre of the bus I entered busted just few minutes after we passed 3rd mainland bridge.It was just God
@woman ranting about her job,You ain't the only one and it happens like that to some of us but since you don't have another job yet pls endure and find something to encourage you..(ake heart
@ sure someone wit a puppy wit drop an email but y dont u adopt a child for them?
ReplyDelete@ Mrs D! *kisses* it is well honey
@44 year old man, you are simply looking for an excuse to justify your action!
ReplyDelete@44 year old man, you are simply looking for an excuse to justify your action!
ReplyDeleteThe poster that needs a puppy reach me on paultuyi@yahoo.com.
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteasap d work issue its everywhere wen u r finking of leaving another is wait to receive d same insult nd stay.... we r now leaving in a confused state
ReplyDeleteMrs D please sack your boss,I once worked with a horrible boss, he always talk me down, made feel like am being managed and I was multi tasking so i kept adding value, improving myself and training myself to work under pressure then a friend told me to read 'Art of Seduction' and book is my boss' perfect description, I got to know all his skills and we started having problems, if i write a proposal he'll say it's not good enough but we can manage it like, I'll insist on him making corrections and he will find nothing to correct, I eventually sack him and he refuse to collect the letter, he begged me that the company needs me and all, i left after one month and he called me to help train his staff I told him i couldn't cos i was busy running my company too, i heard he lost some millions of naira after then because somethings were not done as at when due and I told him to get someone I can coach on the job before my exit rather he was promising me official car and increase in salary.
ReplyDeleteTO God be the glory, i run the same kind of business and I went from salary of 60k to 4 or 5 million on a monthly basis and it will keep getting better,lol.
Just believe in yourself and don't be afraid to step out but make sure have a plan.
Sky is the beginning!
Wow, that's a great one....
DeleteMister 44 please enought already! I actually thot u are a sensible person who's in a sad marriage because of pressure but with this nonsenses u just sent it, I say; you are a chauvinist and u're lost!
ReplyDeleteDon't come here and judge women and their love, true love do exist and doesn't invlove material things! Abeg I can't even waste my energy to to say more to you.
BV that wants dog; abeg I don't understand your story.
Mrs D: don't be sad,*big hug* happinness is very important in life, don't deprive yourself from being happy just because you wonder wht next to do, if u don't like your job pls kindly leave it and stay home to get your bearing afterall God makes away when all is lost and HE knows u aren't lazy and have intentions to work so HE will give u a fulfilling one. Pls choose to be happy.
@ dtbadtguy...YOUR COMMENT MADE SO MUCH SENSE!!! I AM APPAULDING YOUR COMMENT ALL THE WAY FROM HERE. KUDOS TO YOUR PRECISE ANALYSIS OF THIS ISSUE.
ReplyDeleteExactly @Dtbadtguy was jst d Answer n d best comment
DeleteAww, Stella, I never thought you'd make this a post. I just felt bad that it's the first thing he said to me, plus, he has a loud voice and everyone heard him.
ReplyDeleteCoco, u r so right. It's the fear of the unknown that is keeping me here, I just know I'm not a business kind of lady. I'm an office person.
Kiks, I like, no, love you too.
Ruby, tnx hun.
Bloglord, I am going to gather up courage and leave, but I was hoping to bear everything till the year ends. I pray my plans work out.
Xoxo, keep looking for Kelvins trouble, lol, hugs.
Koolblend, tnx dea....I will definitely get myself busy,no matter the amount coming in.
Quite, you aren't lucky, you are blessed. The bible says, "I'll show mercy upon whom I choose ". God's mercy is definitely with you in that aspect of your life. I pray he remembers me too.
Viva, lots of people are in this situation and it's not fair but the condition in Nigeria doesn't make matters easy.
Ephi, may God answer your prayers ijn. Tnx dea
Anon 12:59, you are so right. Most of them don't even know what you are working on. God De sha.
ChyAdaJesus, E-hugs.
Thank you everyone. E-hugs.
Let me run back to my seat, I'm out for lunch, before he walks past my seat, finds my seat empty and continues from where he stopped. I know I'm going to be a better boss when I get to that position.
May God grant you your heart desires.Amen@Mrs D
DeleteStellastica just dry vex me anyhow. Are you saying you don't agree that most Nigerian women are motivated by money and not love? It has become so bad that whenever I talk about love to my guys they look at my like a naive fool. Love has ceased to exist for "a lot" of women. They will see a guy that loves them to heaven and back and still follow the one with the money who has 6 other girlfriends and they are just one of his options!
ReplyDeleteAnd I disagree with your premise that it is due to the condition of things in the country. Thats a lie from the pits of hell. A lot of these girls are from average homes. They are not suffering. They're just full of greed and covetousness. Everyone wan carry designer bag and take exotic vacations. Unfortunately men are not fools. They see through it. Thats why a lot of them come here with their sob stories after marriage. The man knew you married him because of what you could get from him. Why won't he treat you like property?? Why won't he have affairs? If more women married the man that genuinely loves them not the one that "spoils" them with money maybe there will be less miserably married women and more happy homes.
Women love money and are materialistic, how is this assertion relevant to the topic of discuss?
DeletePoster says he wants to marry a 2nd wife yada yada yada ? Erection and hot sex are his reasons. Was he even rich when his wife married him? if he goes broke today will she leave him? A lot of women support the home financially ,some are even the breadwinners ! What are you saying and what do you know? A lot of women married their husbands when these men had nothing and were struggling.
If all women are materialistic why does he want to marry the 22 year old? is she a man? Mstchew!
No disrespect intended but it seems logic is missing here.
Gbam!! Anoda On point comment
DeletePoster are you sure the dog is for your parents? Just asking o . Or is it for private use?!!
ReplyDeleteStella is vexing today,oga 44yr old go and marry your 22yr old e go soon clear for your eye *Long hiss*
ReplyDeleteBut na was for some men o
ReplyDeleteStella, Don't spoil your blog by approving useless comments. Have noticed what Linda Eze typed? what sort of nonsense is that? I know more than 11 ibos guys in Island that divorced their wives. The man said he married @ 36 and who doesn't know that ibos are the ones marrying late? Most probably, after living and selling drugs in Europe?
ReplyDeleteOr beating their wives senseless. No mind Naija people and tribalism.
DeleteMechie gi onu biko....e maro ife e ga ekwu jee rahu ura mtshewwwwwwwww
DeleteStella, Don't spoil your blog by approving useless comments. Have noticed what Linda Eze typed? what sort of nonsense is that? I know more than 11 ibos guys in Island that divorced their wives. The man said he married @ 36 and who doesn't know that ibos are the ones marrying late? Most probably, after living and selling drugs in Europe?
ReplyDeleteStella should start by not approving ur own useless comment. How is ur comment better than Linda Eze's own? Coming here to yan rubbish. Its common knowledge that yoruba ppl are promiscuous if u can't deal with the truth, gbue owegi.
DeleteMr 44 or wat ever you are, you are the biggest fool ever, Stella please stop posting his mails
ReplyDeleteThe married 44 years old that wrote us in SDK, dear BVs, una THANK YOU! The FOOL has been thought a lesson by BVs! Keep up the good job dear BVs. Mr FOOL at 44 GO AWAY!!!!! You are a small man, listen, i won't be supprised if one young man is giving it to your wife real good lol. A lazy man that can't last more than 5 minutes take him wife dey make shakara? OLODO OSHI! Mr dog, sorry, man YOU ARE A DOG! FOOL!
ReplyDeleteMr 44, marry ur whore already n get dis over wit! Jeez!! Why bore us wit a recycled version of same lame ass story when u already know wat to do? Wat a dip stick?! Giving a dog a bad name.....
ReplyDeleteU r so selfish dude! U was busy doing a "dip n fall back" wit ur ding-a-ling, while ur mates were busy getting married n making babies sotay na mama remind u say 12 don knack tey tey, n bam, u leaped witout looking . Still not ready to take responsibility for ur action.......
Fuckouttahere! I know ur type......hope u not coming back wit " I'm acloset gay" version
Hissss!
Bwhahahhahahha@CD
DeleteTo think that vex made my babes "english" straight today...LOL
*But wait ooo, what small boys should be doing, that papa44 go carry for head? This goes to show he needs to be kept in a rehab until sanity returns!
At 44, my daddy's first child was already in first Year in the University, why others including my humble self in secondary school. And here you are, instead of looking for "speedometer" to make up for wasted years, you are busy and shamelessly struggling for osho free page on sdk blog to post nonsense.... You are so lucky sleep don dey romance me, if not i for write genny baby kinda epistle multiplied by my boy kelvin's own give you tonight then you can come back for your 3rd Chronicle of BV. Anuofia........
Idi jobless, odigodi confirm, biko get lost, make money and give those poor kids and wife of yours the best before death will carry you away....Yes, not wishing you Death, but history with those that have driven your path has it that 94% of them die untimely. so, prepare your WILL after reading this even tho i know you have got nothing to offer but just do that with faith.
Kai! CharisMatic Diva....adimu very weak ooooooooooooooo, still tempted to write more, but sleep don over power me oooooo..biko kachifo ada ada!
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Sdk bouncer tell am o! Come sdk dey yarn dust
Delete.....Mrs. D, it is well dearie! The Lord is ur muscle ......warmest E- hugs
ReplyDeleteOga44, e no go better for the person wey do u this. Having said that, I think your accusation runs both ways. Of late I've been hearing men saying they don't want to marry someone who will be a liability. I also know men who entered into marriage of convenience and also men dating older women just because of what they can get out of them.
ReplyDeleteThere is no woman who will leave a man who was nice to her unless that woman is a witch. Well you see them in all corners. If I'm dating you and you don't treat me well and a better person who is loaded comes along, I will follow him because there is no law that prohibits me from doing that.
So before you come here and start infecting people with your sadness I advice you to get your facts right. You sound biased. And I can smell it from afar that you are wicked and not a nice person.
Oga44, e no go better for the person wey do u this. Having said that, I think your accusation runs both ways. Of late I've been hearing men saying they don't want to marry someone who will be a liability. I also know men who entered into marriage of convenience and also men dating older women just because of what they can get out of them.
ReplyDeleteThere is no woman who will leave a man who was nice to her unless that woman is a witch. Well you see them in all corners. If I'm dating you and you don't treat me well and a better person who is loaded comes along, I will follow him because there is no law that prohibits me from doing that.
So before you come here and start infecting people with your sadness I advice you to get your facts right. You sound biased. And I can smell it from afar that you are wicked and not a nice person.
No mind them useless men coming here to blame women,that was how I dated one for five years went through thick and thin with him,immediately my family got financial probs he zoomed off, fast forward four years we become so bouyant again and I finally graduated,the idiot came ,telling me that he loves me so much after using me as a caricature,he was the one who took my virginity. waiting for 8years of his joblessness, he is waiting for jonathans appointment. Do menial job chaa,be an entrepreneur chaa,he want who go carry his lazy arse. The frying pan weh God go use roast I'm bottom still de fire,God punish devil.
ReplyDeletelol @ d frying wey God go use roast am still dey fire
DeleteHahahahhahahahahhahhah chaaiii SDK ur BVS r 1 of a kind I swear..
DeleteBia Mr 44years jiri ya nwayo! Talk for yourself biko. You are confusing sex for love and you want everyone to agree with you.
ReplyDeleteLemme ask you, if your 22 years old doki chikito tests HiV + or becomes gravely ill you go still wife am?
Lemme ask again, if it's the other way round do you think she will stay and continue fucking you?
Bros, open your eyes!! You guys are just fuck buddies, nothing like love there. And mind you, you n I know say the one wey dem they steal they sweet pass. Wife your doki (I.e if she gree o) n see her true nature ( forget the good christian you saw jare )
Get real and retrace your step, inugo?
Mrs D, big hug!!! I can almost guess your profession *whispers* is it banking?
ReplyDeleteDid that shit for 8 years. 8 years of nightmare. 8 years of almost destroying my marriage. I thank God am free now. I don't miss the money. The energy I used in working in the bank I transferred to my own business and my family and I ve never been happier.
God's grace, hun!
@Mrs D my sweety Boo.. One of my own very buddies in here.....the ball is on your court trust me..... I get your plight and love your being an independent woman... Now listen, never you accept defeat forgetting we have been giving power in JOB 22vs28 to always decree a word in our lives&see it come to past, Sote God come swear for Numbers 14vs28 that whatever he hears us ask him in prayers he will do it for us..... Please hunay wait no more, Get down on your knees, declare fasting n midnight atleast a month....6am-3pm or 6am-6pm...wrapped up with Novena Prayer to our Lady Mother of Perpetual Help(if you are a Catholic).....No one is worth crying for, Frustrate him who wanna frustrate you.... been in your kinda shoes, and believe me, this was my secret.. Till date even though i'm no longer with the company, but my Boss and i are still the best of friends.... Or Else is Gods own Way of taking you out there to a greater height cos most times God wanna Bless us, he gives us sign and if we don't understand and keeps delaying, he will indirectly through someone do that so we can get to where he has destined for us.. Take Joseph in the Bible as a case study.....his sufferings didn't end until it landed him where God wanted him to be...So my love, apply wisdom... While praying, try and give challenging alms for this purpose... You will be surprise how things will unravel for your sake....just like a tossed coin with two faces...... Your Boss either bows&Loves you like is juju or You leave there for the paradise God has prepared for you....
ReplyDeleteIt can only get better honey, this is only but a TEST warming up to become a TESTIMONY. Congrats in Advance#E-Hugs!
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ReplyDeleteOga abeg park one side. You just dey misyarn. Go and marry your dokita. But set your wife free from the monster abi beast she married. I'm sure you beat her up too. Yeye man
ReplyDelete@wife No 2, some of he things you said about our Nigeria women are true. Yes the love of money is the beginning of their problems that's reason why most of the married once come to SDK for advise because they made wrong choices due to family pressure to get married to a wrong rich guy or their greed for money while single ladies are frustrated, everyone want already MADE man. Thou we still have women who will love you for you and very contented with whatever you give them. Regarding your issues at home I think is best you leave that Dr of a girl,you need holiday travel out of your city or country just you alone and refresh your brain that will help you a lot because for now you are a confused man. When you return back, discuss with your wife on what bothers you the past years and how you need change in your marriage. You already have three kids and for you to say you do not love the woman you slept with the past years who gave you 3 wonderful kids is pure acceptable, you must have enjoyed the bagging to create those kids. Stay with your family and be a better dad, yes we as men are polygamous but is always good to respect the one you have at home and discipline yourself from waka about. By the way, none of the commentators asked you if you use condom with all this disease spreading round Nigeria please go for a test.
ReplyDeleteGood Luck as you enter the next phase in your life.
Viva Ciara you should try online shopping in the comfort of your home.
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