Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WHEN YOUR LIBIDO RISES FOR ''HIM''

I think I need help.

Stellatica, wish I could hail you better but i am seriously disturbed. 

Confused.com right now, can't think straight.......

Okay, I'm married to a wonderful man (though with hitches) and blessed with 2 lovely kids. I met my DH 2001 and got married 2009. Lost my virginity to DH (before marriage), got raped by a friend due to my stupidity. 

During our days of courtship(DH and I), I met a guy (cool, shy, gentle...), all I wished was for him to ask me out which he never did. A year later, it was announced that he was getting married (felt so sad). We later became friends (married with 2 lovely kids now) and that was all.

Fast forward to last year November.

We got chatting a particular day and he told me about his intentions to ask me out then but he was halted by another fellow that I was engaged so he had to nurture a broken heart all alone and fell back on his previous girlfriend now his wife.

I also told him about my fantasies then. Gengen, and now we are both in love.  A day didn't pass without we communicating, which we later found out was affecting our spouses. We blocked each other from our social media, phones but later connected back and stronger.

Few weeks ago, I visited him in his office and guess what, I kissed him after I hugged him. It was like an attraction.

Anytime I close my eyes now, all I see is me kissing him. When DH makes love to me, I'm always cautious so I don't call his name. Whenever I take a step forward to help myself, I fall ten steps backward. 

I'm seriously in a confused state and I really want to help myself out of this mess.

Should I report myself to DH, maybe he can help out.

I don't want a situation where he now uses it against me later.

I don't want to loose my family but I'm loosing my senses here.

All I need is good advice, abeg don't cuss me out o.

Did you say in love?I laugh!!!

Honey dont do it.!!!!

You need to cut off all communication with this guy oooh

What you both have together is Chemistry but you will get burnt and probably end up with an STD

that has no cure.lol

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
HOW DOES ONE END A FRIENDSHIP?

Hi Stella my love  

I Am married and I have just 1 child .I have this lady close to my house she is kind of a close friend and she is a single mum , though she is my senior she is about 39 while i am 27, (that does not matter sha). 

She comes to visit me and stays with me even when hubby is around. She comes to watch TV with us and even eat. At times she and her daughter‎. Fast forward to the main ish yesterday being 30th of march I went out and left my daughter at home with my house help and she came to my house, carried my daughter and then asked my house help to go and boil rice for her .

She always does that and she said that she does not cook becos she has a budget. she has turned my house to her restaurant. She would just drop her daughter at my house and go visit her boyfriend and beg me to feed her,ok no wahala. I  feed her but this time she went too far ,my hubby came back to the House and met her lying down in His sitting room and he was very angry and told me that he does not want to see her in His house a‎gain and i am tired of the friendship cos I just didn't know how i managed to let her into my life and it got so deep .
My problem now is  how do I tell her that i am tired of the whole friendship? please you guys should tell me what to do please before I loose my mind, I don't want to be her friend any more . 

LMAO....I feel bad for the other lady,i am sure she means you no harm,you made her feel TOO COMFORTABLE in your home that is why she is abusing the privilege.Please look for away to tell her nicely so as not to cause bad blood between you too.Just tell her that your hubby is not comfortable with her presence ....

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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
CONFUSED.COM

Hi Stella and everyone on this blog, my name is Blessing and am an SDK

blog addict, not a day goes by without me going through this blog.

Please BV's I need advice and help, earlier last year, my boyfriend of

about 2 years broke up with me because his mother doesn't approve of

my tribe (I am a calabar girl and he is an Edo guy.) his mom said that

as the first son of the family, he has to marry from his side and at

first he was willing to fight for me and even told me that he found a

way to convince them but 2 days after my birthday in January,  he

broke up with me. 

I cried for days and could not eat sef, I didn't believe it was the same guy who fought so hard to date me,could dump me like that.

okay,so fast forward to some months after, I met this calabar guy, his

name is Victor, he is tall, handsome, God fearing and he is doing

okay,he works with an oil company in Lagos.what I like about him

is that he isn't into womanising despite the fact that he is rich, he

doesn't have bad friends and he respects me alot, but because of my

last relationship, I told him I need time to heal and love him for

the right reasons. my friends,just about a month after,I met

another guy,his name is ifeanyi, we met at my friends wedding, he

was a groomsman and I was a bridesmaid, he is into real estate and he

is also doing really well, he is equally tall,handsome and God

fearing , in fact he just finished building his house in Imo state

and has started building one in Ajah, Lagos State.  
He indicated interest in me and we became friends.

now i am moving back to lagos from abuja  because I got a better offer

in lagos and the 2 guys stay in lagos.They both want a serious

relationship with me . Ifeanyi has already told me his plans, he said

after completing his house in Ajah later this year, he would like to

marry me and settle down while victor said he wants to settle down in

about 3 years because of some things at hand, I like them both,

although I like victor a little more but i am confused on who to date.

I  am 25 years and I haven't slept with anyone yet. I told some

friends here in Abuja and they said I should sleep with the 2 of them

then I'l choose who is better. ..loool. please give me your own advice.



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