PREGNANCY DISCHARGE?
Good day Stella, today is my one year anniversary and as I type this, I am in tears because my period started this morning after 12 months of trying. All my life, I have been a good girl. In fact, my husband married me a virgin. We have gone for all tests and check-ups but they keep saying the same thing - nothing is wrong, just keep trying- I am tired of trying, tired of taking drugs and tired of crying.
Why can't I just get pregnant?
I married an amazing man and getting pregnant is the only thing I can do for him but I can't. Recently, I have been have serious vaginal discharge as in, it pours oo...no smell or itching. I googled and saw that it was a sign of pregnancy so I was relieved but today, the story has changed.
The devil is just a bastard, I know... but what I don't know is if the discharge can prevent pregnancy or if there is any chance I have an infection...thank you and keep being you...I love you...
Why can't I just get pregnant?
I married an amazing man and getting pregnant is the only thing I can do for him but I can't. Recently, I have been have serious vaginal discharge as in, it pours oo...no smell or itching. I googled and saw that it was a sign of pregnancy so I was relieved but today, the story has changed.
The devil is just a bastard, I know... but what I don't know is if the discharge can prevent pregnancy or if there is any chance I have an infection...thank you and keep being you...I love you...
Gods time is the best my dear,cry no more!!!
ReplyDeleteYou will carry your baby in Jesus name
DeleteSome women menstruate when pregnant. Cool down and be patient. You're getting pregnant this year
DeleteI understand ur pain dear....its normal to be anxious but my advice to u as a dr n a friend is to relax.....free ur mind.....pray....enjoy ur marriage.....mk love at least 3 days a wk thru out d month(dont be so particular abt mkin lov on jus ur ovulatn days).....dn for d discharge, pls go for a hvs m/c/s so as to be sure u don't hv any infectn.....in all,be hopeful,happy n prayerful.....ur goodnews will come.....cheers....*hugs*
DeleteDid I hear you say one year anniversary??? My dear calm down. It's just a year. Most times anxiety even adds to the problem. Enjoy your sex life...have fun with your hubby. Your babies will come by God's grace. Just be patient. All the best dear
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Poster,this is the time to pray!!!....
ReplyDeletePray against discharge??
DeleteGod has patience oooo...our quack doctors are def missing something.
Try taking TREVO...its a wonderful diet supplement, it will balance ur hormones n giv ur body evrythng it needs to fight irregularities.
I used to hav discharge, bad ones...n I had treated but dey kept comin back, I took trevo n in less than a week, it dried up, I started seeing normal discharge that doeant stain my undies or smell.
It all boils down to nature, cure to all sicknesses n stuff is in the leaves n fruits we eat.
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It is well with U Dear. D Lord is your strength. U will get pregnant just trust God
ReplyDeleteChai see pipo complaining. Me if I walk past sperm sef I'll get pregnant . Chai this life . Can someone find it in their heart to reveal contact details of the ijaw women they might help her .
ReplyDeleteSame with me dear. I dey fear sperm now sef, cos if e just look me for eye na belle I go carry. May God help this woman in Jesus name
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DeleteFunny anons
Married a Virgin again mtcheeeeew
ReplyDeleteBeing married as a virgin doesnt necessarily make one a goodgirl. Just needed to point that out!
DeleteGo see your doctor abt the discharge n stop waiting for discharge to confirm pregnancy. I am sure you know what "clear blue" and other pregnancy kits r there for. You will be fine, its only the first year of marriage. Remember Sarah had her child at age 90, if God can do it for Sarah n Elizabeth, your case na akara n akamu. Stay blessed!!
I wonder y ppl dnt do a home pregnancy urine test nd see if they are pregnant first bfor screaming am I pregnant
DeleteSamira, I think she meant good girl in d sense that she's never had sex so never had an abortion. At least that's what I think as it relates to d post.
DeleteNo hating please
DeleteVirginity requires some level of self control
So enjoy being one/marrying as one and don't let others who are not rain on your parade
Its well oh, God would sure do it
ReplyDeleteLol@ tayan, discharge is a sign of pregnancy
DeleteGod does his things in his own way. Just be patience bae. U will be surprised
ReplyDeletePlease madam, go and see a gynaecologist. Let him or her check what is wrong with you. Besides, have you done hormone profile test? Better run some tests together with your hubby as infertility is better treated with both couple. Avoid all these traditionalists and their concoctions. All the best.
ReplyDeleteU obviously came running to comment without properly reading her narratives
DeleteHow did it affect you? Monitoring spirit l
DeleteSorry darling ....please see a doctor .....and don't forget your God comes first always .....his perfect inning is important ..........Stella u must enjoy
ReplyDeletePlease go to the hospital to see a gynaecologist, so you will know for sure what the discharge is. Just relax your mind God will definitely bless you with children. Its in his hands.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, put yourself together jor! Been married for a year too and every month Aunty Flo comes and says hi. This cycle I was so sure aunty Flo no go show cos I was peeing like a water tank. Next thing I knew, aunty just showed on the expected day. The thing don pepper me. But by the next day, I noticed this wasnt the normal aunty Flo, by evening, she was gone, very unusual. Aunty Flo usually hangs out with me at least five days. My sysmptoms have increased too, you know the works so I wont list them. I have been continuously sleepy for two days now too. And although all the strip tests I've done have said neg and I've never been preggo before, I just know this is it.
ReplyDeleteKeeping my fingers crossed for you. You'll be fine darling.
Sounds very much like you are pregnant and that was implantation bleeding. I hope this is your lucky month. Please keepbus updated with the good news. And try taking a blood test or a better strip test like clear blue or first response.
DeleteYou shall not be disappointed in Jesus name. You shall not see aunty flo for the next 9 months and the next time she comes a beautiful baby shall be in your hands
DeleteGo and do a blood test.
DeleteAm sure you are preggy.
The witches in ur village have fried akara with ur womb... Run to Jesus
ReplyDeleteNot funny idiot
DeleteU ar mad o if u don't hav anytin to say just get lost idiot
DeletePoster wipe your tears, God is in control, visit a different hospital for another test and another thing is this, has anybody told you that With OVER THINKING, you will not get pregnant, my dear I am a living witness , Please stop THINKING ok, eat well, rest as much as you can and believe God before this year runs out, you will come and testify that you are pregnant,
ReplyDeleteWill remember you in my prayers, hug you,
***stella I love you***
Awwww
ReplyDeleteHugs poster.
Please cheer up.
One year is too early to get worked up like this ok?
Since you have been medically certified fit.
Maybe it's time your husband goes for a thorough check up too.
Who knows, the problem might be from him.
I pray there is no problem tho,Amen.
I wish you all the best dear and I pray that you take in sooner than you can imagine, Amen.
Please stop worrying.
Anxiety delays conception too.
Try to be cheerful always.
Give praise to God always, sing joyful, smile, laugh,make sweet love with your hubby, esp around your ovulation period, relax.
God will wipe your tears soon in Jesus name, Amen.
This too shall pass Aiit?
D vaginal discharge u have is ur cervical mucus....it help create a save environment for sperm to swim and all dt...keep praying...keep trying...ur bundle of joy will come soon in sha Allah
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ReplyDeleteMadam, go to a doctor. Discharge could be anything.Infection/pregnancy. Blog viistors can only advice as they google.
ReplyDeleteBabe don't wori all will b well God is in control ...plz go for Hvs test........so dat is dere is an infection it can b cured...cuz infection can hinder pregnancy.......### where do u reside# @ poster
ReplyDeleteSmtcheeeeerwwww....just one year ND u are crying??? Abegee go ND sleep under abo of prik joopr!! ND make we hear word about been virgin virgin taaaaaa!!!
ReplyDeleteDon't be silly...try and be reasonable aiit.
DeleteThe fact that it's barely a year and as such she shouldn't be bothered yet!!!we all know that but that doesn't give you a reason to be cynical
Bahahahaha @okija wife you wicked ooo LMAO
DeleteThis Elena still commented under Okija wife's post? Monitoring spirit on parade
DeleteLol @samira, as Dem no want make we hear word again nko?? Virgin my foot!!!
DeleteEhn.....bia...eleran majesty, shuooo take ur time o••am still angry!!
DeleteIt breaks my heart to see women go through all these.....poster, I want you to know that God is not dead. he will do what he says he will do. please don't cry. we love you.
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Hey lady calm down, u are not God. You suppose to be happy dat d doc said nothing is wrong with you.......All u need to do is wait for God time.....
ReplyDeleteWait ooooo Na people wey no marry as a Virgin na suppose dey face dis problem?? my dear Virgin no b free ticket to heaven oooo hian!
You de mind the poster lol.. Backward mentality
DeleteThe way all these hoes are blabbing is quite alarming. .she obviously stated that she married a virgin so as to rule out std and abortion gone wrong period!
DeleteAnon 14:08, yo mama was n is a hoe. Hoerism was first established by your mama. Idiot!!
DeleteIt's well
ReplyDeleteyour husband should also go for a test
Some women menstruate even during pregnancy, so pls go 4 a checkup
ReplyDeleteGive it some moretime. YYou might still be pregnant. That's always a huge sign for me.
ReplyDeleteYour anxiety might be the cause, it's only one year today and you have been crying even before now. You need to relax and free your mind and it will happen. Remind God of his promise in exodus 23:26. Take your folic acid , track your fertile period and have as much sex as possible. Enjoy this time with ur hubby doing things that you won't be able to once the baby comes. You are stealing precious moments by constantly fretting. Discharge is normal for women once it's odourless,that's why there are panty liners. It's only when it smells bad/funny that there's cause for alarm.
ReplyDeleteGo to a good hospital and let a good doctor examine the discharge then you'll know wats wrong ehn biko. As per the pregnancy issh, just rest your mind, pamper ur hubby to a fault and pray dear your children will come in God's time. Kisses
ReplyDeleteMy dear,free ur mind from every worries n anxiety,cos they only drive away beautiful gifts like babies. Go to the hospital also to be very sure it's not an infection.
ReplyDeleteIn all you are in my prayers.
Please go and see a gynecologist! Anxiety can be a cause, relax Ur mind, exercise, eat, etc. when U least expect. Infertility is best treated as a couple, more so God is always on time!
ReplyDeleteSorry
ReplyDeleteWhy are all the posters always good girls??? Married a virgin crap!! Lies joor, wats d definition of bad girl, abeg find seat joor. The people u 'married virgins' tag 'bad girls' dey born like say tomorrow no dey. Abeg go and check. Stella no dey believe these craps.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you are worrying yourself too much. Anxiety on its own would make you not get pregnant. Just relax and continue having pleasurable sex with your hubby. With all things being equal (since you are medically okay), pregnancy would come unexpectedly. As regards the vaginal discharge, if it's not foul smelling, non-copious or brownish with no itching then there's no problem.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile keep up appointments with your gynaecologist...
All these women that marry today wants pregnancy tomorrow. Are you God...
ReplyDeletewhy dont you wait on the ripe time that God will give to you.
you people should just stop mocking God all the time.
if you are tired of waiting for God, go to babalawo.
Wait on God's time and stop putting much pressure on yourself. you will get pregnant.
You're too anxious that's why! Forget you're TTC and just keep doing the do. It will come when you least expect it.
ReplyDelete@Poster pls relax your mind and rest joor. Worry much, you prolong your blessing but when you put your trust in God, He will do it fiam.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand how virginity relates tho. Why does everyone with fertility problem feel the need to say they married a virgin. Does multiple prick cause infertility ? Nawa
ReplyDeleteDon't mind Dem!!! Virgin for Toto...unvirgin for ass hole!!!
DeleteMaybe, to let us know they've not been exposed to STIs or at risk for it( since no sexual partner/s before marriage) with its supposed complication of infertility if not well treated.
DeleteBahahahaha @okija wife, i don die from laughter hahaha
DeleteLol @samira.....
DeletePlease ooo, I have tried coitus interuptus,it gave me 2 kids,condom nko? No way,now I have on the implant and the way I'm bloating is not funny,has anyone tried any other contraceptives that work and will not make me bloat?? Thanks...*side eyes*
ReplyDeleteTry the mirena coil IUD
DeleteA friend of mine has it and she bled continuously for 6 months poo. ..
DeleteYou should read Moses Obroku: 9 Assumptions People Go Into Marriage featured on Bella Naija:
ReplyDeleteYou went to the marriage with wrong mentality..Child bearing is good but when your sole motive is to have kids and they arent coming,then there is a problem...
Marry mainly to bear children
If this is the strongest reason for wanting to get married, you may want to have a re-think. We all go into marriage with the assumption that we will bear children when we want to and in our desired sex distribution. Then life happens, and we realize that those matters are much deeper and more mysterious than the intimacy and that we have very little control of our ability to procreate in a marriage. Sad to say, I have seen couples tear each other and their marriages apart in accusations and counter accusations due to the childlessness of the moment.
Pls pls pls, there's an original Abenaa here already take up another name biko!!!
DeleteI do not understand why most women who married as virgins believe that "oh i married as a virgin i should get pregnant the first time i have sex with my husband" "oh i married a virgin and that girl didn't she has three kids and i keep having miscarriages" "oh i married as a virgin why should my husband yell at me" "oh i married a virgin i shouldn't have headaches"
ReplyDeleteMadam you will get pregnant. Its just 12 months, that's the time you should be enjoying the newly married life not banging your head. Doctor said you are fine, God says all is well. You will get pregnant. Remember you married as a virgin!☺
Lol , please help me ask them o.
DeletePoster, just relax..... Your anxiety to get a baby might be the reason you are not getting pregnant because the anxiety hormones are doing some things sha. I know its not easy but just relax and chill.... You'll have babies dear. Its fine dear.
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Its better to have no one, than to have someone who is half there, or doesnt even want to be there.
@Mosi_Tash_Jazzy
Babes just be patient, in His right time HE will do something new
ReplyDeletePoster i feel for you na only God DEY DO AM if you no mind i can make appointment for you give you adress of a church (Apostolic)oo if you are in lagos just buy ur own water from house go meet the old woman Pastor Mrs
ReplyDeletewo b4 u know it beta pikin don full ur house break your Tv finish u go born u go taya
and your worries will just be over IJN AND MINE TOO OO AMEN.
God will do it for u.. Take anxiety out of ur mind.. My cousin married as a virgin too,she didn't get pregnant until d fourth year.. Now she is a proud mama..
ReplyDeleteI advise you see a fertility expert, not just any doctor. Am sure there are still a few tests that can be performed. Medical innovation has made it impossible for any woman to be barren
ReplyDeleteDont be too anxious.
ReplyDeleteYou were a virgin when you got married,not so?.Was your hubby a virgin too?
Pls tell him to drop the toga of bro- Fellowship and do his duties well. I know whyy i am saying this. If in three months you dont take in,drag your hubby and yourself to the clinic.
Unnecessary discharge are signs of infection
ReplyDeletebabe, it hurts to hear of virgins who get married to men who have fucked the nation or made countless chics abort pregnancies for them. I'm not accusing your husband but thats the sad case most times.
ReplyDeleteHas it ever occured to you that you may not be the cause of your problems? Take your husband to a clinic and have them check him for infections and his sperm count. He can be nice but be a coded player. Sometimes it's nemesis and curses from scorned babes they have had in the past that puts innocent ladies like you at risk
You cannot blame virgins for drumming their virginity in our ears cos any issues with fertility or stds you start seeing insults of how they were sleeping around....they feel they have had only one partner so they should nit have problems with fertility....fact of the matter is there are so many factors that cause infertility which might not even be the case here.....you will be an amased that a lot of women have no knowledge about their bodies thus cannot tell when they ovulate etc...
ReplyDeletePoster it is too early to give yourself a cardiac over getting pregnant. calm down and go back to the hospital and do a proper check up...I don't care how old you are, what pressure you are under but from my 9 year wait for the fruit of the womb, worry and panic never helped anyone....I can't even begin to narrate all I went through but to the glory of
God I have twins..no situation is hard for God, all the best.
Yes some women have some discharge during pregnancy but it's nothing heavy, but using panty liners help...but if it smells then mist likely an infection...
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