Its black..
Yeah yeah yeah!!!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CONFUSING FAITH.....
Hello Stella,i got married when I was in the University as a Christian to a muslim but during courtship he assured me that he won't bother me to convert.But surprisingly a year after marriage his parents kept pressuring him that he should make sure i convert (He is a grown man who still fears his parents). For peace to reign i just pretend to cover up when we go to visit them and i join him during ramadan but still pray in the Christian way.The main reason am asking for advice is that 2 years ago he had some spiritual issues that made him down so his friend introduced him to his pastor who prayed for him,gave him scriptures to read and fast too.
Glory be to God things became normal and he personally started asking me questions about Jesus.He reads the bible on his phone listens to gospel songs and kneels down by the bed to pray morning and night even though he tries not to be audible. Am really confused about the whole thing because we neither go to church or mosque but we pray and fast together. I want people to advise me if it is right to confront him to tell me which religion we are practising now because my daughter is even confused and I don't know what to tell her anymore. At the same time i don't want him to feel embarrassed so he stops praying the way he wishes. Please i don't mean to insult any religion,am just looking for answers. Thank you.
Ah!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHITE VERSUS BLACK BOYFRIEND ISH
This my story… My first naija bf has showed me pepper. I usually date white guys so I said let me give my naija men a chance after 7 years in the UK. so here it goes...
Started seeing this guy in 2013. As usual he was a saint at the beginning within 6 weeks of the relationship I burrowed him £600 because he didn’t have enough for his rent. In my head I was supporting my bf because we were dating. A month later he was kicked out of his apartment because the guy staying in his apartment tried using someone’s card to pay the rent. So as a good GF I offered my bf to move into mine. Did I mention I noticed my bf wasn’t working and he was into 419 and smokes weed like 8 times a day.
Sha the relationship was still very new and I was busy making excuses for his behaviuor. So before I new it he moved into mine and about a month later he asked me for another £600, which I gave him because he promised to pay back. So I got a summer job. Sometimes I work 7 days a week. My so called bf then wasn’t working I talked him into going back to his old job which he did and only worked for 1 day when he came back he kept complaining of the cold and depression of his job because he works in a hospital. I was like ok o.
Sha I left him to do as he pleases. I would leave work to come and make my so-called bf lunch when I can. This guy would just be chilling all he does all day is sleep and smoke weed. After sometime I started getting frustrated so I started asking him for money for food at least let him contribute in something. Every time I ask him for money he would be angry. I would tell him go and find a job he would tell me to go and find him a job. I was like shuooo. Sometimes after much arguing he would give me whatever he feels like. I would take it.
After sometime my flat mate got angry saying she wasn’t comfortable with my bf living with us so I decided to move out into a 2 bed 2 bath apartment. Of course the bf moved in with me that was when I realized the bf was serious about not getting a job or helping towards any bill. He told me he hasn’t got money but he had the money to fix his car and he always had money to buy weed. I was so frustrated then boom the worse happened I found out I was pregnant. I told the bf did I mention he had a kid already with a white girl. So Sha I told him at first he was like he doesn’t mind me having the baby. Then he woke up one day and told me if am keeping the baby I should be ready to do everything by myself and look after the baby alone.
I decided to keep the baby also out of frustration Sha I went to visit my ex fling when I was pregnant. NOTHING HAPPENED I DID NOT EVEN HUG THE GUY. The bf found out about it I explained and he didn’t say anything, on the first of July last year he went for a surgery me i was just happy to see him leave the house because I was tired of him at home 24/7. Sha i didn’t go to see him at the hospital. He came back home was angry so he beat me up. I called the cops and they kicked him out of my apartment.
We didn’t speak for about 2 months the bf came back begging and apologizing. Did i mention he was now jumping from one woman’s house to another. When ever he comes to mine and wants to stay for too long i chase him away. Sha I found out he was staying with a Kenyan girl. His mum called me talking about going to pay my dowry at the end of the year, this was after i had given birth i was like ok as the right thing to do. So when i found out he was staying with this kenyan girl i called his mum and reported him to her.
My dad was so angry he called my bf’s mum to caution her son and that her son needs financial help and they should send him money. The mum called him and started shouting at him and the bf then told the mum all sorts about me. The mum has never called me again and has said it can never work between I and her son. Sha i don’t know how the bf or ex now managed to get a house o. Sha he denied ever sleeping with the Kenyan girl but he was staying with her and she was cooking and cleaning for him. He was sleeping with me and other girls when I was pregnant. He got a house now don’t know how so I went and begged him for the sake of my daughter to make peace and lets try again he agreed less than 2 weeks into trying again the same day i left his house he was seen in town playing love with another girl.
I asked him and of course he denied and abused me saying i gossip too much. At this point i can’t even cry anymore as I feel like i have seen it all. so we broke up he still comes around mine to see his daughter nothing intimate has happened between us. Then he turned 30 and that night I don’t know what entered his head me I was trying to sleep and he was just trying to fill me up and all. I was like pls leave me alone o. The girls you are carrying are they not enough for you. Thankfully i was on my period so nothing happened.
Stella I am tired I am not going to lie i care a lot about this guy. The feelings have tripled since I had my daughter.
This guy is always calling girls, he doesn’t call them in front of me but he makes sure am aware he is texting girls smiling stupidly and all. for the past 5 days he has being staying at mine cos he rented off his apartment. we sleep on the same bed. We haven’t had sex but we cuddle and all. Even I don’t think he knows what he wants. How do i cut him 100% away from my life like I know i need to move on but he keeps using my daughter to come to mine and look for my trouble and confuse me emotionally. He would go fuck girls then come back to mine to stay. I don’t know what he is thinking or what he sees me as now. He barely gives me money for our daughter.
According to him i didn’t treat him well when he was staying at mine and I was wicked. I have played the past a million times in my head to see how I was wicked but can’t see how i was. This guy stayed in my house for a year and never contributed £1 towards the rent or bills in my apartment. his excuse was he wasn’t making money anymore from his 419 business. I am NOT A UGLY GIRL. I left a working doctor for this guy. but still no appreciation. I am now 26 home 24/7 looking after our 6 months old daughter alone.
Please biko how do I move on from this mess and this guy. Its embarrassing when people ask who is the father of my child because this guy is well known and is always seen carrying a new chick everyday. He has told me not to wait for him and i can go and fuck whoever i want but when he comes to mine i catch him going through my stuffs to see whether i am seeing another man.. like am confused.. what does he want????PLEASE I Need your advice…..
White men rock,thats all i have to say and i dont care who disagrees with these.
was waiting for narratives lemme read
ReplyDelete@poster2, Just hear ursef, ain't u ashamed ? Where re ur morals? It's better to b a single mom than raise a child wit dat baby daddy of yours, I'm irritated.
DeleteReceive sense in Jesus name.
DeleteStart going to church, wen u get back alway gist him of everything. He will join u one day.
DeleteN2 is the lamest narrative yet.
DeletePoster 1 askin about religion stat shuldnt be a prob jur. Ask him after havin sex or sumtin wen hes in a good mood. Poster 2: yu knw hes not good for u, just have dat in mind everytime u see him. And try to date someone else
DeletePoster 2, you have a child, he's irresponsible!! Move on, use kondo to slap his head when next he searches your things. He's a doucebag who just wants to live off girls. A dog is a dog, he won't change. Move on, you'll tell you daughter who her dad is when she us old enough. Get a job which you will and forget him. Simple, there's nothing to think about
DeleteStellla, i respect ur opinion by a million percent but when you say white men rock then thats an individual bias that can induce prejudice towards the pple of colour.
DeleteWhat i believe is this: Our home and society plays a major role in shaping us and the whites have a more modern and less hateful society so they tend to be a lot more sincere than pple of our race.
I'll rephrase it to Men who are properly groomed, rock!!!
All that reeks from this narrative is a female who has issues with making the right choices/decisions. Our decisions make us, mar us, bend us or shape us.....and swthrt, you need to work on urself and learn how to make optimal decisions regardless of whose ox is gored, regardless of the impact of your environment....Just be at your best and develop your self esteem. What else did u expect from a man who smokes pot(weed) 8 times a day.....I lived in the UK and i know how terrible some dudes can be when they are addicted to weed as it automatically impairs their judgement and induces maximum laziness....so what else did u expect ??
U need to work on ur esteem dear, if u need a shrink, pls do get one but try and build urself cos at the moment you sound so down and believe me the solution to this lies within, so you don't need to run the mountains searchn for a solution. Work on yourself and you would be fine; take good care of ur daughter and build ur defences against this guy, he needs help and yu can't change him cos u are also in need of serious evaluation.
Above all, call on God to be with you and direct you as you walk through this path. Cheers mate.
Stella, I'm with you on this. White men rock. Always tell my Bff that I'll get married to a white guy and I'm sure I will
DeleteWelcome home Ifeoma
DeleteStella, I agree with you on poster 2. My white man rocks... I will be the one to upset him, he will be the one begging..makes me love him so much. I am allergic to black guys oo.. Abeg.
DeleteLol@poster 2. Can't deal mehn
DeletePoster 2, in your heart, u know what to do. It's just that u sha prefer talking than thinking. From the look of things, u are sha a hard working girl but like so many Nigerian women, UK or US...u can't live without a man. Open your eyes and your brain! Your daughter will be an exact replica of whatever you exude or what you teach her, so make sure you're doing the right thing...
DeletePOSTER 1: show interest quietly, tell your daughter to join him during those prayer moments, let her just hug him and kneel beside him, this will warm him. He woill look forward to praying with her. From there, u will join them and find out all you need to. So far he's a good man and he's not forcing anything, just pray diligently for peace in your home #whew!
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DeletePoster 2, LMAO! U re not serious one bit. Just Listen to yourself. Ok, Here's my advice to u , read dis narrativ to urself as tho' it wasn't ur story or better still while reading out loud, record ur voice n play it afterwards then advice yourself. Lol
DeleteN2, Keep praying, God will direct you
@freya, wat kind of advice is 'so far he is a gud man' did u read all her narration? She said dis dude beat her up wen she was pregnant, smokes weed 8times a day, kept borrowing without paying back, abuses her, cheats... Haba! It's my by force to give advice if u can't be realistic urself. Pls p2, u know dis is a dead end, u r still very young o! Use ur life do beta tin. Don't be afraid to move on, get a job, n embrace God. The right man will come n u wil know cos he wil treat u like a princess. Kill d feelings u have. If u go carry anoda belle, na u sabi.
DeleteIf white men rocked as you said, why did she leave her many whites to date a fellow African?? If they were too good to her she wouldn't have needed a black boy friend , at least no one changes a winning team. If her first white bf treated her well , she wouldn't have needed a second bf.
DeleteN2, am more confused than u are. Lastborn
DeleteP1, your husband is private man, obviously indecisive at the moment.. if u ask me, I would advise u don't talk religion matters with him in a serious and verbal manner.. he is a work in progress. Allow the holy spirit work on him.. I see him working for Christ in the nearest future.. as for his parent, be wise as a serpent but gentle as a dove.. P2 let me know when u would be needing my advice.. and yes we had mad fun yesterday which is all tht matters to us... long live SDK's abj chapter..
DeleteChy okoli...my darling I see u judged me quite early. I'm actually young but matured enough to read first before typing, what u referred to was in reference to poster 1. The Muslim guy. The person who smokes weed, abuses and collects money is the UK guy. The "so far he's a good man" comment I repeat was in reference to the Muslim /xtian post. Kindly read again, then read my comment. Try not to be rude next time
DeleteBest Regards
Freya
But why all the epistle because stella said white men rock? I second her on that opinion even though my man is a black guy now but I used to only date white guys and never thought I could ever end up with a nigerian guy due to so many things I had seen friends aunties, neighbours etc go through e.g. women being seen/treated as 2nd class citizens in a relationship/marriage, expected to cook, clean take care of kids, worship the husband/inlaws, MIL controls everything including the husband, expected to take crap from guys and be pushed around "just to show that she's marriage material", expected to accept a guy back after he messes up just because he said he's sorry (even if he really isn't), expected to show more love to a cheating guy so that other women won't "snatch" him etc.. The list goes on. My man also was dating a white girl and didn't see himself with a Naija girl too but I guess we both found in ourselves the positives we saw in other races. Stella is married to a white man, did you guys expect her to be putting white guys down and praising far-away guys? And with all these chronicles we read about everyday, it's not too hard to understand where some of us are coming from (if we're all being honest here). Not all nigerian guys are like that but let's all be honest with ourselves, their percentage is in the all-time high and the brainwashed mentalities/attitudes of people are not helping. Nigerian women need to wake up and start demanding better or opting for better options, it's not by force to settle with someone from your country, contrary to popular belief. For the person who said why did poster 2 date a black guy if her other boyfriend was good? A lot of the time, Nigerian women are made to feel like they're doing something bad or are letting their culture down by dating/marrying another race but when a man does, it's fine. A lot of females buckle under that kinda pressure. Some Nigerian parents know how to emotionally blackmail their kids in situations like this until they succumb and marry other Nigerians they don't even love (I've seen it happen several times and seen miserable marriages after). Thank God it's changing these days sha and thank God for Stella becsuse at least closed minded people can look at you and say, maybe it's not such a big deal because Srella is not married to a nigerian, and she's fine and she's even touching people's lives through what she does. With all said and done, no single race is better all-round, there's good band bad in all (although the Nigerian society's way of rating/treating women is a complete put/off for me) but it didn't prevent me from seeing the individual I'm with instead of the culture. Apparently, Naija females have 'attitude' and they could be testy and frustrating at times (even though I always tell people it's the guys that made them become that way) but my man also didn't get his judgment clouded by that stereotype either, he got to know the real me to find out I have everything he wants. So any race you decide to be with, do yourself a favour and make sure he's one of the best of that race, be it African or Caucasian. Do not sell yourself short...... Just Saying
DeleteMy brain is on sabbatical leave.
ReplyDeletePostet 2 sha ( as u like saying) i dont know what u want us to say to u. Sha u know what to do. Sha pls dont waste our time sha with such silly narratives. Sha. Except u r sayibg u r a fool sha
DeleteI KMT loudly reading narrator two. Didn't even finish. Please get yourself out of this nonsense.
Delete@Anon 15:44 thank u jor! Wat rubbish is dis? Poster 2 just wasted someone else's space! He did this, he did that, I got pregnant, I kept it, I begged him, he moved in with me again! Hissssssssssss!!!!! Idiot!
DeleteShe is a big fool anon dear. Pls don't try to be nice to her tell her what she is, a big fool ! I cannot believe she would bring a child into this world to experience such rubbish and then the child grows up with a myopic view to relationships except God intervenes. Poster two the guy dey fuck you well Abi? That na why you turn Mario on top jobless guy wey dey do 429 and you even fit talk am. You went from dating a doctor( wey me I go jump on if person dash me) in this UK! Doctor to a low life 419 scum? Come dear ,please accept this my e-slap with love and come back for more if your head no reset finish. Walahi, if I set my eyes on you I go too beat you. What were you bloody thinking????? The sex was too good you couldn't let go? This is too messy , chai Jesu gbami ke? You are on benefits right?! Which is why you can be spending and renting house or doing as you like. If you were bloody hustling to catch a bus to work in the morning or even standing in the train especially the jubilee line sandwiched between Indian guy with garlic breath smell and pretty city babe rolling her eyes at you for daring to let your hair flip against her face your brain for work well . You for appreciate yourself worth and give your self more brain and class. How very tasteless.
Delete,Just negodu, sha
DeletePoster 2,like how old are you?
DeleteWhy did I even read chronicles today?
See am, i don dey vex.
My tut exactly wht a stupid girl or woman self. Wht do u wnt us to say? Stupid foolish girl. Ur story is so fucked up! Sha park make we see road! Stella pls is not all narrative u post!
DeleteLol poster 2 with her 'sha sha' mantra. My darling u sound very unserious yourself. In fact I was hoping to read that u didn't have the baby or whatever... hey, don't get it twisted, not that I wish u bad... but I just cannot seem to merge the persona behind the write up with that of a mother. In that u and your man are enough joke, as it were.
DeleteAnyway the baby is here and it's show time. Please tell me, what ever happened to the £1,200 that u loaned him??? He's a yahoo boy and he makes stipends but doesn't give u a dime.. yet u afford him all the luxury, a comfortable home and a warm punanny to bang in the winter. You do well
Even if he decides to marry you, he won't be around for long because he'll end up in freaking JAIL. One would have thought that ur priority would be to have him straighten up to get a real job and life, but u seem ok with his pattern of life as a FRAUDster and a junkie.
Not once did I read where u genuinely wanted him to stop being a THIEF, rather, you were/are more concerned about the proceeds from his THIEVERY
And u didn't also complain about his weed habit....could it be that it's because u benefit from the after effect of his smokes, as per u get better sex when he's high? Correct? And with all these, u expect to make of him a serious husband and father to ur kid? Joker is what u are darling.
You didn't help him from the start. You accommodated his lazy behind even before he moved in to yours. You didn't complain cos u were happy to have him all to yourself, for as long as he wasn't with another woman, and because he warmed ur bed every night, that was fine. A blunder that brought about your blessing...your daughter. Yea u said u complained and got tired of having him home all day, but I dont believe u jare.. you weren't stern enough.
So now what? You want to do away with him? Errmm...sure u can...but not until you take YOURSELF seriously, only then can you make a headway to being a responsible mother to ur girl. However, u cannot stop him from seeing his child, in the same breath, ur child shouldn't grow up to see an idle father who smokes all day....so if you won't be selfish, for the sake of your daughter arrange a visitation order and get yourself back on ground. Truth is u cannot be freed totally from him because of your child.
Only if u apply discipline can u surmount the pressure from his idle sexual advances towards u. Then u can be cordial and strictly maintain a father mother relationship. Abeg I don tire.
Poster one,abeg ask him.
ReplyDeleteAbi you both are now free thinkers?
Poster two,all I can say is that you are a sucker for punishment. Imagine!
This 'Sha' that you use to start your sentences though.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Poster 2, just hear yourself..
DeleteVery interesting
ReplyDeletePoster1: Nawaoo.You need to talk to him to ascertain what's on his mind..
DeletePoster2: Sha this your story eehn,be like akuko umuazi,you've got be a joker! Like are you ok,you sound like a child.Don't goan move on,be pitying a lowlife that won't let you move on and prosper in life, Sha till u get preggy again for him,your eye go clear!
Poster 2, ur post come across like u are one of dem 'init' girls. Please leave the randy animal alone, it's not love u feel for him, you can't love someone who keeps hurting u intentionally. Face ur daughter n ur job as soon u get back to work!
DeleteA good man will locate u soon
Hmmmmmm!!! Long story!! Anybody home! Am new here
ReplyDeleteYea we are here 4u
DeleteWelcom 2 d family
Poster two this is what happens when you enter a relationship with desperation, how dare you house and feed a full grown man with out any assistance from him a a whole year. You better tell that loser of a man to get the hell out of your house, he should look for a job to assist you and the baby
DeleteSo? Make we do standing oviation or what?
DeleteOviation??????
Delete1: does it matter? How is your daughter confused? Does she control you?
ReplyDelete2: ask Rachel Dolezal, she has the answer
Her daughter is confused bcos she doesn't know if she's a Christian or Muslim. Is it dat hard to comprehend? U must not comment u know?
DeleteYou need to read deeper into questions !! Can she not lie to save unnecessary back and forths with her hubby? Since when did children demand the actual truth?
DeleteYucee open your brain before commenting
Ur advice to her is dat she shld lie. Not every child is born as dumb as u are so u r saying she is lying about her daughter been confused abt their religion. U love lies a lot. U can't even tell urself d truth. Accept dat u didn't make any sense. It won't kill u.
DeleteLols! Nice response Yucee. Some nigerians amaze me with their mode of thinking o. Just negodu!
DeletePoster 1 : invite him to Winner Chapel
ReplyDeleteTrue.....
DeleteAbi o, let him goan serve God, Serving God pays
DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteAsk him nau,is he not your husband??...
Hian!!!...
Poster 2,
Which kain nonsense narrative is this?...
This poster sound like my 8 years old son....
Carry your cross biko...make I go sleep..
Today's chronicle no sweet...
@poster number 2..wahalai u need serious beating..
ReplyDeleteKini gbogbo jagba jagba yi.. Infact a no fit read all the story finish sef...
Said Abu Alimran
As in ehn! I'm so irritated. Come,u no get friends abi family wey go konk sense(in Waffi speak) enter dat ur mushy brain???? Mtscheewwww!
DeleteSherry's Daughter
Poster 1- isn't it obvious your husband is trying to convert to christianity?
ReplyDeleteHe hhasn't come outright to say so for fear of his parents and prolly them starting a fight with you for converting their son instead of the other way round.
Relax!
Poster 2- common sense not common at all.
You deserve to be flogged! Seriously!
Just negodu iberibe....
ReplyDeleteNaijamen too dey fall hand shaa... Imagine jumping from chick to chick... Maje ayidas of this generation
Poster 2, I couldn't even make head or tail from your narrative. Btw, what's the SHA?
Deleteposter 1...sit ur hubby down and talk to him in a respectable manner.
ReplyDeletepoater 2...im sorry but u sound like a retard. dont know what to say to ur stupidity.
Retard! The one word that describes poster 2.
DeleteGbam! No need to add or subtract,retard is d word. I just dey vex anyhow.
DeleteSherry's Daughter
Narrative 1: pls allow him b. Soon he'll say to u let's go 2 church then u go know d religion. Don't ask, don't push just watch as God's miracle unfolds.
ReplyDeleteN2: I didn't finish ur story. Stopped half way cos ur stupidity n plent use of d word "sha" got me angry.
Lmaooo.
DeleteSha, me and my household dey go church sha Now.
ReplyDelete!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Delete!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteNarr2) dis ur chronicle make me vex walahi. U know he was a weed smoker,419and a lazy man den u got yourself pregnant for him, now u don turn d guy to baby daddy na now u wan cut yourself away from him? Who wan come carry am? Hey u better stay with him forever. I thought everything was by mistake jot until I read d part she dat she still care about Him........ E blike say I go soon stop to det blame men oooo shuooo
ReplyDeleteLol, Stella don learn "Negodu"....
ReplyDeletePoster one: I'm typing dis for the sake of ur daughter that's eagerly lookn up2u for answers, the term "catch them young" plays a huge role in Religion & young mind, they grasp any thg & stick to it at that age, being it true or false, u better confront ur DH and decide which faith ur daughter follows b4 an outsider chooses for her.
Poster 2 shaa
ReplyDeleteU be mumu sha
Prolly ugly with low self esteem sha
Spending on an irresponsible broke ass nut-case just to answer who get man sha
U went on to report him to his mum as who nah?
Anyway sha,keep d Pikin sha
For uk Pikin no be burden Na huge blessing as more freebies from govt
All these uk hoes sha
Me sef follow
I tire sha
I get owambe to attend sha
Lmao...abeg don't disappear again
DeleteLol....my baby is here.....
DeleteI kinda sorta missed M-amie sha.
DeleteWeyre girl
DeleteMamie sha, where have you been sha, I have missed you sha, please don't do that "disappearance in our before" again sha. Welcome back sha!
DeleteWelc back Mamie
DeleteN she's back sha.
DeleteLololol, Mamie the werey is back! As in sha. She is on benefits that is why she is not feeling the pain.
Deletelol poster 2 is a child. That's all I have to say SHA
ReplyDeleteP2 ur self esteem is zero over zero.
ReplyDeleteDid any white guy treat u like this?
Abeg stop confusing urself n dump d black trash!
Hahahahaa
White men rock!! Over rock sef only say dem dem get small preek.
Hv u sat to ask urself if its ur toto that's too wide???
DeleteLmaoooo. Anony it's either u have a small dick or u dating a finger batteried guy.
DeleteLol. This Brackbelly sef
DeleteYour pussy I is too wide hoe
DeleteAbeg ask her, think her pussy is over wide....white guys rock sha....shout out to all the whitey wife's hehehe .....
DeleteJeez! Why all the insults? I hav a white patient. I touched his skin and couldn't help admiring the pliability of his skin...in fact, I had to continue touching it...lol. I jokingly told a friend of mine that I must marry a white man cos I so love that man's skin. He in a bid to convince me to do otherwise, told me dt they normally have small penis, so if I marry one, he may not be able to satisfy me, while I told him that its not true, cos there re also black men wt tiny tools. Why am tellin this long story is that what Blackberry said is the misconception that many Nigerians have, so pls, enough of the insults
DeleteWho has the low self esteem now? Feeling fly because you are dating a white man? Smh
DeletePoster 2, what's with all the "sha"?
ReplyDeleteAccording to you, you are not ugly...why do you guys that send your stories always emphasize on this? You also stated that you left a Medical Doctor for this your boyfriend. Honey, stop telling people your story because it portrays you in a very bad light and this is me trying not to use a foul language to describe you.
Pick up your self esteem from wherever you flung it. Your Chronicle is pathetic and way too annoying.
Poster 1, since ur husband has started praying in the Christian way, face ur Christian way too and don't interrupt him. Take your daughter to church if he doesn't disagree, whenever he asks questions about Christ, preach to him. I ve seen families that practice different religion and there's no ish, so deal with urs too.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: na wa for u oh, u left a working doctor for a patient, it's u who doesn't kn Wat she wants, u can't control ur emotions and dis guy doesn't care about u. Face ur daughter and leave ' boy frnd alone' he's a lazy man and not ready for family building
Lolxx she left a doctor for a patient
DeleteWhite men rock also with black men. White men smoke weed do 419 and also do drugs too, there are also white lazylazy men .... D truth is we Africa ladies don't know wat we want, and d pressure from our family make us jump into any man's hand without proper checking........ #teamdarkstrongdick.
ReplyDeleteChick felix
Deleteu kno say na mi for marry you buh anyao,i love ur coment u no be like dat mumu stella wey dey disrepect herself for with man anyway a no blame her as she be fucking big nose fake oyinbo
white men wey no dey brush teeth even to clean hand after using da toilet na purnishment for dem
am very sure say na 1 month sef stella dey take change her pant n bra
ahhh stella dey smell
Lmaoooo!!!!
Poster 2... you are SHA confused! Pick up your self esteem where you left them and move ahead with your life. Being a single mum isn't a life sentence.
ReplyDeleteBtw, you saw all these and went ahead to get preggie for him? Just negodu
dumb people everywhere. poster 2 I just couldn't go on reading your narrative. skimmed thru it. He smokes weed n does 419 n u knew m u still went ahead to get pregnant? who does that? What advice do u want me to give u now? How old are you? cos u come across as juvenile. gosh! u knew he was that way n now ure coming to cry foul. gerrarahere pls. I can't deal!
ReplyDeletePoster2...forget about the dude,or guys no dey uk again to date..why are you so confused,he is not good for you,he sleeps around,has no job,into fraud.
ReplyDeleteSo u hv a daughter for him,so what!!! Since he doesn't pay her bills,what's he checking on her for.
Love yourself babes
Hun poster one,all of us na one God we dey worship abeg!
ReplyDeleteAm from a Muslim home too but my husband is a staunch st Mary's catholic!!!
My,mother and father in law don talk tire for me to become catholic but na OYO Dem dey ooo, cos neither me nor my kids will be a catholic...........sometimes my husband goes to his church and I go my own way too with my kids!
Lol correct place in hell waiting for you. I wonder how people create problems for themselves.
DeleteOkija,don't worry. Papa Chiboy will relocate to PH soon n you'll join us in Catholic church
DeleteNo wonder you are a married bitter whore.
DeleteAlways cussing..kpele o.
Delete@lol oloshi,keep changing Ur blog name, na you go tire!
DeleteMe nor dey tire o, o remi tiii
@irene, if I hear!!
@anonymous 16:04,you and all your oloriburuku haters generations go rot in hell, bastard!!!
Okija razz smelly gal no wonda e realy show na ur bodi say u no get home training at all ,Abeg tell us ao many times u don beat ur fada n mama?talk true oo b4 thurnder faya ur loose pussy.
DeleteWhy would she go to hell? Because she refused to be Catholic or what? I don't like okija wife but being not a Catholic will not take ANYBODY to hell! Myopic bigots!
DeleteStella biko this second narrative is nauseating. Poster pls go n pick ur senses wherever u left them. Mtchew!
ReplyDeleteI tell u
DeleteSha she left her sense in the trash and unfortunately can't find it
I can't believe anyone can be this stupid and dumb!
I hope ur girl won't take after u
Eish!!!
Anyways typical of london boys
Jobless and many baby mamas and sugar mummies to collect money from
Except very very few responsble ones
Single gals
Make una shine una eyes
Man no dey fine ooh
Na him pocket matter pas
Leave all this "fine boy no pimple" alone,
They re osho free
Poster 2,wat advice do u want.y'all r birds of same feather.u date a weed smoker who lives off u and now u r asking questions....ladies! self esteem plssssss!!!!@1 watsup wth all this religion ish.why look for issue where theres none.sanctimonious pple will come here now and poison ur home.explain to ur child,dad is a muslim,mum is a christian,we are all one..we nigerians and religion wahala.and na we be hypocrite pass.what matters is d fear of God!!!!. Peace.
ReplyDeleteCommon sense seems scarce these days..
ReplyDelete#justnegoduthisbabe
Stella why white man nor gho rock,cos urs rock,some mumulistic
ReplyDelete*********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS********
Omg!!
ReplyDeletePoster two are you truly a Nigerian girl?
Osi "sha I let him come back,sha I come back from my break to cook for him"
Why do you hate yourself like this?
What did your folks do to deserve all these nne?
Please for the sake of your daughter(chai,innocent girl) leave that good for nothing loafer!!!
Which bride price are you waiting for?
You should be grateful that you are not married!! Stay away from that boy please...
I don't want to hear that a young Nigerian girl was shot by her aggrieved,drugged out boyfriend..
Remember to get a restraining order when you dump his ass... you are better than this!!!!
I feel sorry for your folks..they will be weeping silently.. smh
Poster two.
When you were courting him,didn't you ask these questions? Like which religion your kids will practice?
I really don't understand what you want from us..but sister,God is doing something gradually in the life of your husband...
Don't use silly questions to quench it..
Rather,continue to show him scriptures,gradually introduce night prayers...slowly but surely,you will get him converted.
Immediately you start aggressively putting it to him that you people must choose one religion(not like you minded over the years), you might scare him off.
Easy does it.
I didn't even finish reading Story 2.
DeleteIphie shut up.oversabi
DeletePoster 2....you saw all the signs. ...smh....i cannot stand lazy men
ReplyDeletePoster 2 how stupid nd dumb can u b?
ReplyDeleteU v decided to waste ur life energy nd resources on a good 4 nothing lazy ass all in d name love. Kick d bastard out of ur life nd b strong for ur daughter he is just black mailing u with ur daughter nd he knws u still feel somtin 4 him.
If love na this type I reject am tufiakwa
U better leave the idot,and concentrate on ur daughter.
ReplyDeleteReligion eh, religion go make u see road finish, yet u go de waka inside bush with pride, only religion fit do u that thg.... See all ths muslims blowing up their brains for virgins, wat do u think is the root motivator? Islamic religion ofcourse.... Have u for once asked urself if u were born into a muslim family, hw u'dbe today? Ofcus u'd be all covered n hijab n praying 5* daily, or born in the eastern world (china), u'd be a buddhist for sure... That goes to show ur religion isn't divinely inspired.. Its pure geographical.
ReplyDeleteReligion has done more harm than good in this world, these ISIS them Olori ppl, wat do u think influence their babaric actions if not religion, me too jst tire.
DeleteI agree with you. We don't choose which religion we are born into, as we don't choose which family we are born into. As we grow older and have the freedom of choice, we can decide which religion to believe in.
DeleteYour own na ur own, either white or black .
ReplyDelete'Sha' I don't know wot to advice u cos he doesn't come to 'mine' sha if he comes to mine I go vex sha. Oriegwu! Some gals re dumb. Tufiakwa.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. That's a conversation you should have soon. In bed. Just the both of you. Ask him what's his stance on religion and what's the best way to bring up your daughter. Try and make it more about him and your daughter so it doesn't get messy. Whatever he decides, you as a wife, follow. Christian or Muslim, they're both beautiful religions.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. You are the biggest fool on earth. DID YOU HAVE TO GET PREGNANT?! Now you're asking for advice. Get out from here! You had 600£ to be loaning out that's why. After you noticed all these things you still stayed and he's still staying with you as we speak. On your own is your baptismal name. Mscheeeeeew.
Poster 1- why wud you marry a muslim when you don't wanna change 2 his religion?
ReplyDeletePoster 2- What's with the "sha"? No punctuation mark, don't even understand.
@ 1st poster: either you are hot or cold, you dont play kurukere moves with God. Choose one religion and abide by its rules and quit deceiving yourselves. People stop the deception that when one religion meets another that there wont be conflict of interest along the way. Your hubby isnt man enough to stand for his faith so let him settle his issue before God, the owner of his soul not his parents and stop confusing your daughter before shes turns into what you regret.
ReplyDelete@ poster 2; That's the chronicle of a woman who has low self esteem and doesnt know her worth, being emotionally abused by an irresponsible man Pregnancy hasnt been trapping men long time Imo river so all this baby maamas beware. pick up the pieces of your life and train your daughter well before she gets it wrong too. Note not all sperm donors make good fathers
Sharumi
Confused women...real just negodu in aunty gwegwes voice
ReplyDeletePoster 2: pls re.read what you sent in, just tje way SDK posted it and make your decision.... Some pipo will be on fire and be asking whether to burn????
ReplyDeleteP 1: as you both entered d marriage without thinking abt d religion aspect, u shd continue. Talking now will push u in one direction, with @ least 1 or more unhappy person.
P1, your husband is confused at this point. He has tasted the two religions and has seen that christianity is better in many ways. I bet you that the only thing keeping him from converting fully to christianity is the thought of what his muslims folks will say. I think you have to approach this issue with tact cos its very sensitive. Are you rooted in Christ? Do me a favour. Go through your bible, esp the new testament, get some inspiring quotations and use them to talk to him. Make him understand that converting to christianity is the best thing that can ever happen to him. Christ says that if you acknowlege him publicly, He wil acknowlege you before his Father in heaven, John Chp 10:10, John Chp 15, Jesus the Real Vine comes to mind and Vs 18...talking about the world's hatred for christians. You dont even have to start out trying to convert him outrightly. Just study the scriptures with him and ask his opinions. You can also involve his pastor. Just be gentle with him. He wil com around in no time.
ReplyDeleteP2, pele. Its wat desperation can cause. Now, you're a baby mama. Your worth has reduced by 50%. What can you do? Cut him off from your life. I kno its not easy but do it and you'll get positive results. Don't ever call him again. Hold your heart. Dress to kill. Fix plenty Toke-like weavon. Don't let him visit your daughter again unless an agreement is reached which must include him contributing a substantial amount to your daughter's upkeep. Above all, stop sleeping with him!!! Kai, I just feel lik slapping self esteem into your head. Let him work for your attention and you'll even see that at the end wen you've gotten him back, you'll realize you can do better than him. You sound responsible. Get up dear. Brush yourself. Love yourself and your daughter. Peace!
Her worth has not reduced. It is you people who advice these girls wrongly. Your worth is 100 percent dear. Don't listen to these backward people. She can bounce back from this
DeleteWhat type of stupid advice is that lyndy? Does her worth found in material things? Toke-like weavon? Yet maje pregnanted another lady? Mschewww
DeleteI didn't mean to be harsh in anyway. By saying her worth has reduced, I mean that its gonna take a lot for an eligible Nigerian bachelor to wife her wt her child, hence the advise to build her self esteem. I tried to paint words sef, considering she brought this on herself
DeleteAnon 23:09, a man that wants to cheat wil cheat. Does that mean that ladies should stop dressing well? Do you know you can intimidate a man that thought you're worth nothing by dressing well? Do you know you re addressed as you dress? A lady that wants to be respected should invest in her dressing, not just for the man in your life but for your self esteem and the general public. Btw, thanks for calling me stupid
You left a working doctor for this broke ass dude, is he worth it,is his D that sweet, you know what to do and you alone can help yourself and trust me the guy u described here will molest your daughter if care is not taken, to think you know he sleeps around yet you allow him to sleep with you, you deserve better...HIV is really cut that lazy tout lose and focus on bringing up ur daughter alone,like he said hes not ready to take care of the child if u decide to give birth and yea yea u kept the baby and y r taking care of her, why do u still go to beg the idiot.You Deserve Better Dear....think am well
ReplyDeleteNa wah ohh
ReplyDeleteWetin person no go read for this blog.
Poster 1 - The Lord is your strength.
Poster 2 - Your story is very annoying. You dated a man, moved him into your house, he come dey fuck you free of charge without condom and to make matters even worst you have been paying the bills.
Since you have been looking after him from the onset of your relationship, you now want him miraculously change.
Why are girls so damm desperate biko?
Stupid girls like you is why UK Nigerian guys feel they can come to my house and eat or vice versa as a first/second/third date.
Which kind advice you dey find for here.... your case is pathetic. Train your daughter well, so her self esteem will not be non existence as yours.
Your baby daddy is a waste of space... that you already know.
Poster1.just be your self and keep going to church with your daughter . Poster 2.you are just scared if you dump him you might not fine another guy soon,his a broke ass nigger. To be sincere white men are caring and their women,if they like you that's it
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Am not sure you are for real. Your case is serious oh. Please just come back and get admitted into yaba left.
ReplyDeleteJust Negodu poster 2...you left white men to get bele for a Nigerian man.
DeleteN2, u re a very stupid, confused and an illiterate. Negodu anya! Can u imagine? Go back n read dis ur chronicle and see how unreasonably u sounded. N1, keep ur christian faith up n teach ur daughter d christian way except if ur DH disagrees bc it's obvious he is scared of admitting to be practicing christian now.
ReplyDeletePoster two is your name Sharon ?
ReplyDeleteLol ...the sha right?
DeletePoster 2 is definitely yoruba! Na them dey use "Sha" like this in the UK. Plus she's a big goat. U deserve everything he did to u sha. Sha keep cuddling him. Ezi Bida!
ReplyDeleteposter 2 is just making me agry..didnt finish d story cos of anger..how can someone be this foolish this time n age.. poster 1 talk to ur husband
DeletePlease what has being Yoruba or Ibo got to do with this flat nosed razzoid?
DeleteHmmmm, stella biko don't say that black guys rocks too. I live in Uk and met my hubby in scandanavia, we have been married for 10 yrs and he is the best. I know some brothers out here are not royal likewise some Oyibos.
ReplyDeletePoster, please free that guy biko before you get pregnant again.. He isn't gonna be faithful to you. He is a lazy guy and want to keep u by the side in case he is homeless. You need to be firm with him about not wanting any relationship with him.
He can never change. I know his type.
Poster 1, ask him na. Are you married to a tyrant. Poster 2, your story no get leg. Orisirisi things. The guy is a liability and you don't know what to do to get him off your life, what other reasons do you need. Why are we ladies so gullible. You knew he was a 419 n jobless man before getting pregnant. You got what you deserve. Putting an innocent child in the middle of your mistakes. What other reason do you need to get him off your life really. Face your Job n focus on raising your daughter alone. Give yourself sometime off men. Don't give him access to your home without your permission. Call it out and let him know you need him no more. I have a feeling you still want to continue with him though.
ReplyDeleteJust yesterday, my white friend broke up with her white bf, cos he has three other gf's. Girl, it has nothing to do with u dating a black or white person...U chose to date a lazy man..Period...It probably just me, but loads of blacks with whites have inferioty complex...Work on your self esteem...Forget black or white..Bad person na bad person..
ReplyDeleteTrue.
DeletePoster 2's story is a classic Yorubas in London tale. Useless 19 boy mooching off hardworking but desperate girls. You sounded smart at the beginning but it nosedived from there. The answer you're looking for is in front of your but obviuosly post partum hormones and probably memories of the Bomb dicking have refused to let you see road. Stay there. When it's time to finally receive sense you will know
ReplyDeletePoster 2 is your head correct at all, smelling story
ReplyDeletePoster 2, receive common sense IJN. You are breastfeeding and taking care of two kids, your boyfriend and your daughter. And what's that nonsense story up there? Pick up what's left of your self esteem. You can do bad all by yourself, you don't need that idiot.
ReplyDeleteYada yada yada. Poster 1, maybe chrislam
ReplyDeletePoster 2 your story is too long, wish you luck.
Poster 2: admit it, dude gives you good sex. It has to be the sex. Nothing else. Do you by any chance live in Bedfordhsire?? Your story sounds like one I know too well.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you are such a ginormous fool - I wish I had a better adjective to describe how much of a great fool you are
ReplyDeleteI was even angry I stopped reading the story
You gave your 419 weed smoking jobless bum of a boyfriend £600, moved him into your flat that you were living with someone and you have the guts to be looking for help?!
I don't even know what to say...if you were my friend I would have slapped you
But then again, I would have started disapproving once I met this bum of a boyfriend
Ladies, please stay single its not by force ti be with a boyfriend and then end up with such a scumbag like this
Poster1,there is no need asking ur hubby which religion y'all are practicing cos it will only make him recoil into his shell back to his religion.let it be!but keep teaching ur kids in d christian way,read d bible to them always,tell them they are follwers of Jesus,take them to church secretly or whenever their father is not around(dats d fallout of inter religious marriage my dear,u have to deal with it,everything has to be secret esp to his family) !
ReplyDeleteThis is d only way out,cos he comes from a religion that they take things so personal if their wards convert to another',infact they can kill and disown u if u change religion!he can never come out and tell u he believes in Jesus,but deep inside he knows d truth but fear of d unknown won't let him.just leave that man alone!one day maybe as he prays to Jesus,he will gain boldness to express himself.
Poster2,u sound like a dumb desperate gal!e be like say this ur weed smoker baby daddy get nice dick abi?dats what's pushing u to stay!#eyelashes#cos I don't get it?if ur daughter is d only reason he comes to ur home,how come he ends up in ur bed again? Are u ok?u might not be ugly,but being foolish and lacking self esteem is worst off being ugly.u are asking us how to break off huh?smh!u are not ready yet I know,cos when u are ready,u know what to do.but now no amt of advise can make u leave the jobless lazy man!Stella pls enuf of all these chronicles from lost low self esteem inflicted women,cos even if u advise them,they will never listen or act on it,as they are too weak willed to dare!
Some of these chronicles dey make person vex. Poster 2: shey you were not born with common sense? Some people will just see irresponsible men and still want to die there.
ReplyDeletePoster One:
ReplyDeleteI feel like you need to know yourself first before you can help him.
Find your faith. Are you truly a Christian? Do you truly believe in God? In Jesus Christ? How do you practice your faith? Are you just sitting on the fence?
These are the questions you need to ask yourself and you need to know the answer.
I'm in a mixed 'denominational' marriage but I know who and what I am.
Finally, PRAY. God alone can convert and change a soul.
STORIES @ ALIFEDIARY
Poster 2, the fact that you use the word "Sha" in nearly every sentence says a lot about how immature you are! Very annoying chronicle. A man is not married to you, but has lived off you rent free and to make matters worse, got you pregnant, and you are actually asking what you should do??????
ReplyDeleteMoney makes you do all sorts, where are you when we need you? This girl needs a brain reset. Let me tell you a brief story. My husband doesn't earn as much as I earn and I pay most of the bills. I live in the UK too. But when he made lots of money, I benefitted immensely. So now that the tables have turned, I'm not giving him too much grief. Note that I said "too much", I still give him grief, but in a gentler way, because I know he tries. The operative word here is "tries". Your yeye baby daddy is not trying at all!!!! Smoking weed all day long??? My goodness! Left you to fend for your child yourself? Doesn't contribute financially, and is unable to help out practically? Doesn't cook, clean, take out the trash, bathe the baby, nothing? Go and read this book, "Act like a lady, think like a man". There's a chapter that is focused solely on what you need to look out for in a man. A man that doesn't have money is supposed to be easier to deal with (not in all cases, I know), but men are generally more sober when they are broke.
This one is an unrepentant broke ass and he is treating you like this?? And you are asking what to do???, No offence, but where are your parents????
Narative 2,
ReplyDeleteU just spoilt my mood.
Is stupidity now a common thing amongst 'Beautiful' girls?
Wat advice do u nid? U sound like a mentally retarded girl.
Please run to Jesus,ur level of stupidity requires Holy Ghost koboko to cure.
Even the white people get sense pass u,why are u disgracing we Nigerian Beautiful sensible girls? I cnt use that ur adopted 'sha' word because it really pissed me.
Who am I to judge? Some people may say,but this ur stupidity is unbearable for the house(sdk house)
Stella,I love chronicles of blog visitors. Really funny sometimes when you get to read the thrash people go through with their eyes open,I'm referring to poster 2.
ReplyDeleteSister receive sense in jesus name and I'm saying this nicely coz its sunday.
Character is not based on skin colour. Now in a society where women are given the upper hand by the Law, men will naturally behave. That is the story of white men... and we are all grateful for that law and looking forward to having it in Africa.
ReplyDeleteNow about your issue, you saw all these negativity and hung around... or permitted him to hang around for so long because???
Stop with the 'sha, sha, sha' and decide what you want for your child and yourself and if you want a White man, go for him. But there are good, REALLY good black men around, you can find those if you got your priorities right.
The choice is yours.
STORIES @ ALIFEDIARY
Poster 2 is like you forgot your brain in naija when u went to the UK. Tf did i just read. U know what to do. Just do it n stop letting yourself be played for a fool.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 have a conversation with your husband and together choose a religion.
Poster 1: it's okay for you to talk to him about it but don't make him choose chtistianity or islam on the spot. Religion is a sensitive issue. It is important for one to be fully convinved before converting religions. i use to be a muslim.. Then i was confused at some point. It took me a while(about a year) to truly understand and believe and convert to christianity. So be patient with him, and at the same time encourage him, but dont put pressure on him. God will see you through
ReplyDeletePoster 2 the boy must be yoruba. No offence to yoruba boys i love you all but most off you live off women. Like 70percent! You better reset your brain. Av been in your shoes, yahoo boy, fresh and fine but useless i was still loving up. No kid tho. The day the scales fell of my eyes eh i was so ashamed. Two years wasted. They have nothing to offer yet they womanize. Girl you better sef yourselve straight. Move on.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 -- ask him
ReplyDeletePoster2 -- I stopped reading after the first paragraph
@poster1, so happy for you, ur husband's heart is open and only needs the push in d right direction to bcom a xtain; him asking abt Jesus and reading the bible tells you where his interest is. I'll advice that you request of him to go to church with u (RCCGS are everywia) and you too, pray that God wins his soul over. Trust me, it would be wonderful if your husband bcoms a xtain, it would really benefit your family as a whole. I pray that the Lord would send the right words to him in Jesus name (amen). Jesus is the way, the truth and the light; out of Him flows rivers of living waters, no one takes this water and ever thirts again. Pls pray for your husband, that's a man of God in the making, don't miss this opportunity pls...
ReplyDeletePoster two,ur stupidity is out of this world,
ReplyDeleteAm beautiful,that's why am finding it hard to believe that stupidity is common amongst 'beautiful girls'
Is it that all beautiful girls are getting too desperate and hell bent on bearing the title 'mrs' because they have all lost their self esteem?
U are dating a mad man that ought to be in the psychiatric and u come here to talk rubbish with ur irritating 'sha' all over the place.
I am so pissed with ur write-up.
Poster two,hmmmm,'shld I ask him?' Should we ask him for u? Hmmmm
Sori,I dey vex.
So only ugly girls are allowed to be stupid? Smh
DeletePoster 2.... Every order word is Sha, sha, sha!! You like suffering... Your story is too long... He is taking you for a ride and you're allowing Him
ReplyDeleteOde! Be there cuddling. You can be okponu for Africa sha. Very dumb poster and an even dumber poster
ReplyDeleteThe kind of annoying chronicles I read here these days can keep someone in a permanent angry mood.
ReplyDeleteHaba!whats wrong with women of my generation,we are gradually losing it.
P2 You would rather hang with a no good man just to have a man. Since you refuse to hav3 sense...what about your child. She will grow up to think this is life? Please stop thinking like a child. Cut this man off, the minute you stop cuddling with him, he will leave. Honestly, your daughter does not need a weed smoking father in her life. He will put her in harm's way. Please look in the mirror and demand better from yourself. You are not a good example to your daughter right now and you must direct this your energy to making better choices. Get a job or move back to Nigeria and please dear grow up. Don't get pregnant for anyone else until you get married please.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: You need seek the face of God. Ur narrative is trash. You are in the same category with ur man, his a weed smoker and a fraudster, while u are a street hoe. But I see light in you. You need dust yourself and move on, start up a business, while u take care of ur child, forget that ur man, but don't deny him access to his child. Work on yourself, draw close to God, turn a new leaf, leave prick for now and focus. I see light in you. You are great!
ReplyDeleteStella i agree a 100% Never dated a black guy.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 just negodu (in stella 'so voice). You need to realize that you have a responsibility to your daughter and leave the man alone. Cut off entirely from him. Take care of your self and your daughter. You deserve better than this biko.
ReplyDeleteJust negodu @ poster 2!! I'm not here to judge you, but please didn't you feel stupid sending all these in? Please no words for you cos you know what to do, but uve decided to play foolish.
ReplyDeleteStella darling white men rock!!! Nigerian guys in Melbourne can lie from here to zamfara!! God forbid. *enough said*
Poster 2 : my mouth is still hanging oooo , what the hell !!!! . This is the height of desperation , how could you do this to yourself , how could you , haba is it his dick or what , which kain person your mama offend wey them take this kain thing punish unna , this definately ain't ordinary .
ReplyDeleteAaaabeg continue to allow him stay , even help him invite the girls , next thing he'd be poking your daughter .
But who do you this kain thing do you bad , this na real aaapere ajase nothing more , you are asking what to do next , are you for real , am pained on your behalf , cause you are just a waste of hard earned money , omo toohyi ko gbon , omo ode !!!!!!!!!!, you passed through school , it sure didn't pass through you , after you'd be forming London babe , wey ajegunle girls get more sense .
Just negodu akuko iberibe @p2
ReplyDeleteReal akuko Iberibe......hehehe
DeleteWelc back mamie
ReplyDeleteP1, you need to navigate your way back to God; have a spiritual backbone/ background if for nothing else, for your daughter's sake. If you were fervent spiritually, you won't be confused. All the best.
ReplyDeleteP2, 'sha' I don't understand you. Only you baby mama, 419er, weed smoker, and you keep giving excuses.. . ..
#just negodu
ReplyDeletePoster 2 pls get a life.even with all you said he did to you,you still agreed for them to go and pay ur bride price.and if u had eventually gotten married what you would hav been writing about now is "how do u get out of this loveless,frustrating marriage to a man who has no respect for you"? Then you would say because you have a child you don't have anywhere to go *sigh* people be seeing the truth staring them in the face and choose to ignore it!
ReplyDeletePoster 2 sha, I don't know what to say to you sha. Grow up sha. Your age and your brains don't fall in line sha.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls don't pressure your husband it may confuse him. Pray for him. Tell your daughter you are a Christian and teach her the ways of the Lord. Tell your daughter the real situation about daddy the and way she will understand, you and her can pray for him. If your hubby doesn't mind you going to church then why not but don't push it. Pray more talk less and observe more.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you are not serious at all. You need to get away from that guy he is only using you. When your daughter grows she will look for him. But as for now get yourself together.
Poster 2, you have alot of growing up to do. When I saw your "I'M NOT UGLY" in caps laughed. Do you think being beautiful qualifies you as a mature girl? How can you allow a jobless, weed-smoking, promiscuous and irresponsible fellow to ruin your life??? Stand on your own without him and move on! Oh and he's even a woman beater! Receive sense IJN!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 do you know you would have saved yourself this stress if you didn't cross breed. Can snakes marry rats? It won't work. See what your action making an innocent child go through and also the family of the man. If he goes to church now he I going to have problems with his family. What were you thinking? What you just commited and is making your husband commit is apostasy.
ReplyDeleteOdiegwu!!!. Pls pick the book " Act Like A Lady, think Like A Man" up and read..secondly, you need a mentor, an elderly person who can have meanigful discussion with you at all times and help you navigate the course of your life. Emotional naivity and porous intelligence is your major challenge. Dont die in silence.
ReplyDeletePoster 1.
ReplyDeleteCommenting is usually not my forte, especially when it comes to religion given that it's a sensitive topic. However, I felt compelled to say something today.
Mam', I understand how you feel but will also like to point out the fact that you do not need to be confused!
Are we not serving the same God? Does it matter which religion he is claiming and if so why is it important for you to corner him into a box?
Your husband's action is that of a cautious man and full of wisdom if you ask me! There is too much at stakes that can even break your home if you can't read between the lines, thus warranting his actions.
Rejoice in the fact that he has accepted your religion through his actions, though not through his words.
By asking him which religion to worship is pushing him against the wall and thereby insinuating that he must choose 1 side...Please don't do that to your union. If he chooses to practice both religions, as long as it is not endangering your life or that of anyone in your home, why the fuss?
Not everything in life must be black or white, YES EVEN WITH RELIGION!
My point is that one can value and even go to the extent of practicing multiple religions...
I could go on and on but I think you get my drift thus far!
Stay blessed and KEEP YOUR HUSBAND'S BEHAVIOR WITGHIN THE FOUR WALLS OF YOUR HOME!
1 pick d bull by d horn.
ReplyDelete2 seriously, u need to borrow some balls. a word of prayer for u.
Just negodu. hehehehehe
ReplyDeletePoster 1 - please listen to me carefully, do not not under any circumstance pressurise your husband to go to any church or demand that he tell you which religion he is practicing. As already advised by some BVs, continue to pray for him and let him be the one to say - let us go to church. It has to be his decision, so that when his family asks him about it, your name will not be mentioned.
ReplyDeleteAlso, my dear you are not the Holy Spirit, leave Him to do the good work in and on your husband. Only thing God needs you to do is pray and have faith. Leave the rest to Him.
All the best.
Poster 2 - are you a learner?
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I wud suggest u let ur hubby b, give him time to adjust to wat he is trying to adjust to. Its not an easy decision converting from one religion to anoda. He needs time evn if it takes a year still giv him. If he allows u to go to church giv him all d time he needs n pray for God's intervention. It was not easy for me to change to pentecostal from catholic, even up til nw I still find it diff, bcus I still feel like going back to catholic.
ReplyDeleteBut wen I remba my sad experience in d catholic faith n wat pentecostal churches are doing dis days I just decided to sit at home n pray to God. And am praying for God's directions.
Ah WHITE MEN ROCK OH...stella I follow you gree for that one. BV's talking about small prick if person no sabi e no sabi, my white bae is the most satisfying I've ever had and make I no lie I no be small pikin oh. I love my white men and they love me too..lol
ReplyDeleteI no deh house
ReplyDeleteChronicle one, take one day @ a time. Teach your child to pray the xtain way. Later when you see how serious he is with his prayer life, you can bring up the topic with him.
ReplyDeleteChronicle two, the insults I have in my mind to dish out to you, will make you develop hpb! Everyday, we discuss this same matter here; girls should wise up, you feed and house a man and common sense did not tell you to use CD? Are you freaking kidding me? What do you want to hear from us? Mschewww.
The irony I see is that all these people sending in their chronicles would have advised others here while they have their own ISH! Most cussing her out are either in the same situation or worst! Smh. Ladies! Learn to follow your intuition.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls dont try to do the work of the HOLY SPIRIT!! Your husband is already praying and reading the bible, which is a very good start. pls do not think that going to Church guarantees that someone is a Christian. Jus keep being the good and wonderful wife that you are and pls be prayerful. Stand in d gap for ur husband( if u can buy this book, POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE by STORMIE OMARTIAN, it will help) bcos he has some persecution ahead of him wen his folks find out. all is well.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, u need deliverance
Eeyah una all kpele ooo see as most blacks girl here are useless n despirate,una say white men rocks bah? i pity papa wey born una
Deletestella wey marry oyinbo na becos she too ugly n no black man wan marry monster for house eeyah
olosho's keep consoulin una sef una hear ?fraustrated girl wan marry smely oyinbo ahhhhh isoryt
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#1 - Talk to him about it but pray and always pray for him, your faith alone will convince him.
ReplyDelete#2 Madam Shaa, carry your wahala alone sha
Do you know that you're SICK shaa
Chai negodu nonsense shaa.
For your mind you want to marry, you better give your life to JESUS and stop messing around with that guy. All these years what did you gain from you? A child, which you alone will cater for. Its never late to surrender to JESUS.
don't get it twisted...we do not worship the same God....the Allah the Muslims worship is not the same as Jehovah God....read the bible and compare to Christianity they are not the same...while I do not discriminate Muslims cos I have them in my family.... except a man is born again he will not enter the kingdom of God....speak to Muslims who have converted to Christianity and they will tell you the new hope the have for life and eternity.....for your husband, please don't push the subject...encourage him to go to church but don't nag him....God has begun a work in him and with your prayers and encouragement he will see the true light...
ReplyDeleteposter 2;;;;only you can speak to yourself....and I hope its not a tragic situation that will make you see the light....that guy is immature, does not love you and not responsible enough to be a husband or a father.....don't waste your life....a word is enough for the wise
anonymous 7:42 you are a total idiot....so in your retarded mind blacks are better than whites abi? white or black if you meet a responsible man why not....its your type that stick with useless black guys cos u want to please the world....local idiot
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