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Saturday, August 15, 2015

Chronicle Of HOPE - 27


Well well well......She was saved and this should inspire those of you that think it all begins and ends with one person!








SINGLE AND HAPPY.

I'm thinking this is more of a Chronicle of hope but heck it is a Chronicle. So I was analyzing my previous broken relationship to see what went wrong and stuff and decided to share it with y'all. Enjoy.
The relationship I had with *Fidi was a funny one. I'm not sure  if I ever loved him but I'm darn sure I was madly attracted to him and I almost gave it my 50% which I don't entirely regret. We dated for just a year but it was a long one. I don't believe in flings so when I date a guy it's because I believe I could marry you.


I really liked Fidi but my spider sense kept on tingling throughout the relationship.

Listed below are some alarming sirens I couldn't ignore:
One. There was a time he cried because we had a little quarrel. I can almost swear those tears weren't genuine and I kept on thinking 'why would these guy shed fake tears? '

Two. He once flippantly asked me how much I had in my bank account. Well, I didn't answer him, even though I barely had up to 50k as at that time.
Three. He was way too eager to get introduced to my mum.

Four. There was a time he kept on whining he was broke. As a good and prayerful girlfriend *adjusts halo*, I prayed for him and encouraged him it would be fine. Some days later, he complained about me not doing anything about his broke status and said 'I'm not used to that'. In all my years of dating no guy had ever asked me for money. In fact, the one I tried helping literally shoved my money into my throat and that was my fellow year mate in college oh, how much more a grown ass adult.


Five. Once in the heat of passion(just making out *re adjusts halo*), he asked if he could pierce the hole in between my cheeks and no, not the ones on my face!
Six. Just within a year of dating his calls and messages dropped drastically. That made me wonder what then would happen after five years.

Seven. He cheated.

Well, irrespective of all these tomato pepper red flags I stayed put in the relationship, until he took a walk himself. I felt it was just my 'if I were an American I would have been a detective' in me being extra paranoid and then sdk bv chronicles were not exactly watering the fire. 


However, if Fidi didn't leave I might still have been in the relationship. And probably married him.

So this is me saying you might not be as lucky as I was for the bf to leave himself, grow some balls take a walk. I'm happy I avoided a future depressing BV Chronicle from me. 

I'm happily single and facing more pressing matters, Job hunting!

Regards






88 comments:

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    1. I don't understand.

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    2. I like the story but I don't think it should be here

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    3. Chronicles of narrative we know,chronicles of hope we know..what with this chronicles of stupidity?

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    4. Lol....chronicle of stupidity kwa?

      That's harsh!

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    5. Everyone wants to be heard!

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    6. So funny, but I love it. Thank God for you babe.

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    7. Can somebody please explain this I don't think I understand what the poster is trying to say

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    8. All these guys sha, that's how one was telling me that any time he talks abt food I don't ans me.......Hello ...... did I come to this world to cook fr men! Like he even gave 10 Kobo fr me to cook. He expects me to use my money to cook fr him. Irresponsible men every where

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    9. OK, so I missed d msg in this; what did she try to say again?

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    10. Ahahahah Bitchplis o u cray.....lmao!!!

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  2. What the hell is this bull crap...how does this scream hope...u must be a nut case...stella I guess your chronicle inbox is empty for you to post this crap

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    1. LMAOO!!!
      I don't even know why I'm laaughing
      Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
      I just cannot help it
      Yeeehhh!!! ori iya mi ooooo
      Kikikikikikikikikikiki

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    2. Chronicles of narratives we know,chronicles of hope we know...what's with this chrinicles of stupidity?

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    3. You don't get, there are so many people on this blog that needs encouragement like this. It's better to take a walk while in a relationship than in marriage, cos marriage is more complex...so 2 d singles in abusive, destructive, etc better have courage and take a walk b4 it's too late.

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    4. Doppelwitch how was your orgasm you got from masturbating under my comment....there is no hope in this narrative. The nigger dumped you. Yet you are sending narrative of hope. Pick your self esteem up from the floor and get busy...

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    5. I think you are the only one who got her Msg. Better to be single and happy than to be married and be miserable

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  3. U just loved that wallpaper up there and the 'Re adjusts halo' thingy.

    Happily single!!!!

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    1. @olivia silk....yeahhhhhhh! Happily single & extremly happy.
      Hi-Five Babes! Loved d 'halo' thingy too...hehehe

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    1. Dump your bf before he dumps you.

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    2. Helloooo. The so called bf dumped her silly ass. Very irrelevant story

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    3. You are one crazy girl. @ Nicole

      Hahahahaha

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  5. Yes oh. Singleness is not a crime. Enjoy it. There no passage or book in the Bible that said you must be married to make heaven. Besides most married people are just bearing am married for mouth but deep inside they wish they remained single.

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  6. All the best babes ,
    Life is too sweet to be held up with one jackass

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  7. It should have ended with a "praise the Lord " isorit.

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    1. Hey! Where av u been? And no, you wouldn't know me, been an anonymous for a long tym buh enjoyed ur silly comments!..

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  8. Ok, what more can I say to this
    In your next r/ship don't have premarital sex, its unhealthy for ur spirit, soul and body.
    Single girls please stop having premarital sex, it depreciates you and your body is worth more than that. Jesus loves you

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  9. But you were not the one that called off the relationship,he left you.what if he didn't take a walk?would u have left him?

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  10. Wow! Happy for u! Congratulations and I wish you all the best in your job hunt. This sounds so much like what is going on in my relationship. I almost thought someone wrote this for me. I'm also on the verge of saying I'm out, just need more courage to do so.

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  11. LOL sannu. Waiting for a chronicle from a man. Men in this blog you people are too quiet. Please do the needful for this lady, she is single and a goody two shoes.

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  12. Pls I don't understand this chronicle at all, Stella wetin be dis

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    1. Honestly I didn't know what to comprehend from it. In short, I'm happy for her as she's happy for herself.



      *Larry was here*

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    2. Lol my dear exactly! How is this any way hopeful? What is the moral of the story? The guy broke up with you so if he hadn't you probably would've stuck with him. Stick to finding a job pls

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    3. Larry and anos15:02, I don't get it at all, chronicle of hope, na for pple way done suffer well well and miracle came from no where, that is what I want to be reading, I don't want bf and gf palaver in chronicle of hope abeg

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  13. Wow! Happy for u! Congratulations and I wish you all the best in your job hunt. This sounds so much like what is going on in my relationship. I almost thought someone wrote this for me. I'm also on the verge of saying I'm out, just need more courage to do so.

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  14. Hahaha @ hole inbw ur cheeks. Good on u miss

    Anyhu I really don't see how this story is connected to chronicle of hope

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  15. Pls let's job hunt together
    Lol
    Cry cry men

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  16. Good for you! That guy planned to milk you dry so I'm glad you didn't give him a penny. I'm also glad you've learned your lesson so the next time you see those red flags, put on your running shoes . Don't let the relationship drag on until you get dumped.

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  17. Can't remember the last time I dated a guy and honestly it's depressing sometimes but I can't eat stone because I need a chew.... am waiting patientlyyyyy and even though it's difficult am willing to wait it out because mechanics no dey allow person know mad men again. God of the booless

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  18. I don't get this are you looking for another bf now because this does not inspire me

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    1. Uniben ISD Bushmon, u don't finally subscribe welcome oh

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  19. Its always good to know when to jump ship and walk away. You did right. Hang on a little your man will arrive soon

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  20. So long you're at peace with your decision, its alright.

    Its another Saturday and someone somewhere is wearing a white gown/a tuxedo, smiling and excited with people around singing her/his praises. She/he laughs gleefully like a child on Christmas morning, she/he looks at the mirror and cannot recognize her/his own reflection.........

    Kindly click

    Reasons Why You Shouldn't Get Married.

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  21. Who wrote this message to me .??!!

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  22. U are not happy being single,say the truth so that men will come your way. Single and happy indeed. Sharap!

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  23. Oh God ! What's happening here ? Is it for lack of stories to tell that u come here to yarn dust

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    1. I like the story only hate the part where she sleeps with lots of men, can she deal with being an outlaw. Sleeping around. Illicit life. Well its all good! Anyway her husband does lots of work for her. That's sick to me. That's not happiness. "Your creator will be your husband."

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  24. I don't get it...it woulda been COH if you walked away yourself after garnering strength to,while struggling with a part of you that wanted to stay put, but no the dude did the walking out. Nne ifea wu COBVNarratives...you even admit if he didn't walk away you must probably woulda remained in the situationship. Sha we ThankGod for you..

    Nma's Blog 

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  26. I have taken a walk myself...told him I need space. He knows what ladies want to hear and how to act. You can't help but trust him. His many baggages??
    One..he said he just wanted to use me when we just met
    Two.. he made me have unprotected sex with him. Later told me he has had over a hundred sexual partners. He lied he never had sex without protection.. he talks too much and I found out he was even having unprotected sex with a runs babe less than 2months back. That was the deal breaker! I don't joke with my life
    Three.. he lied about how he lives( he had neighbors and I crave privacy) and he smokes. Promised me he' d stop but #yimu
    Four..he lied about his age
    Five..he talks with pride about ladies that give guys money and talks down ladies that ask their guys for money..asked me how much I had in my account and told me to 'dash' him 10k. Later asked for extra 5 telling me he'd pay me back. Guy took my account number and paid in exactly 5k!! Never gave me a dime since then.
    Six..he claimed to love me so much and needs me to be having sex with him whenever he asks for it so that he won't look outside so that he would train himself to be a 'better' guy. And we'd get married. He doesn't even have a good job,he smokes and needs to support his siblings. Last time I told him I was broke, he picked my phone and went through my bank records....telling me am not broke. That if everyone says they are broke...I can't do same....wtf!
    I asked and begged him on several occasions to visit this blog but he refused. Maybe he does now. I hope he reads this. I dunno why I stayed this long... 10months.... but I finally got the strength to leave. Most bv's have good relationships and I need one too. Say NO to toxic relationships

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    1. Stewie Gilligan Griffin15 August 2015 at 17:48

      Why would you give anyone access to your bank information? I hope you won't turn into the type that give their paychecks to their husband or tell him how much you have in your account? Sheesh.

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    2. I applaud you. Courage sister God bless. Not everyone has the courage to leave

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  27. I agree you were saved, in that you were not prepared to jump ship, inspite of your perceived redflags. The bobo pursued himself. It is good to see also that you are tuned in to your intuitive self and not get too carried away not to notice red flags. Where you may need to work on is learning to jump ship on time, so you can leave a slot for the right guy to fit in. Take care.

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  28. Please close your legs tightly in your next relationship, it will help you more and there won't be any chronicles.

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  29. Chronicles of hope,ke?


    Haloed lady,i'm sure that if he didn't take a walk, you would have stayed put, even after playing American detective.

    This is a Chronicle of luck, in my opinion.


    #WhiteDiamondOut

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  30. I have told ladies,women hussle well,work hard,be diligent and make your money even @ age 25,with that u can command any ass hole man 2 turn stone 2 bread and he will do it.

    When u make ur money...u will never give a fuck abt a man's feelings rather they will do it for u.
    He loves me but I know he is totally there cos of the money...he washes my inner wears,he cooks ekpang very well,scrubs the bathroom floor perfectly and so on dayuuum!

    He can't even cheat cos he knows my gangs will deal with him.
    Ladies have the money...with that u can spin his brain 360.

    You can't enjoy singleness if u dnt have MoNEY baby.

    Bv Money Makes U Fuck Lots Of Men.

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  31. Biko, how does this inspire? Ehn? How is it even a chronicle of hope? Na wa oo

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  32. Chronicles of hope?????????? who dis help naaa ????

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  33. Buhahahahahahaha..Lord hv mercy..since u started chronicle of Hope..Stella..dis is d first time I will say..WHAT D HELL is dis?....

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    1. @lady J, ure so so so so so so so STUPID, clueless e-diot, dat can't understand a single article full of Hope. Shez trying to tell ladies in toxin relationship to get out when they can...Badbelle I guess the 'lady J' means 'Lady Jealousy' gerrahere Bitch!!!

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  34. Mschew hw ds one take folo for chronicles of hope, inukwa? If u r single n happy? Is it anoda person's single? *rme* I don't gerrit! Na by force t send in chronicles? Stella na by force t publish chronicle of hope on a weekend? Mschew. Dnt make me waste my mb on ds kind of post next time. As f u poster, Trust me u hv nt learnt ur lessons yet cos I dint c any tips or points dt u shared wt us, am afraid u definitely will sleep wt d next guy dt comes ur way! Re evaluate ursef.

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    1. Personally I admire single women who are happy. But these days when happiness is a crime people would find excuses to keep you sad, even marriage and dating. Forget all that Jare. I admire the lady, you can never find the right man because he is up in the tower locked away... However "your creator will be your husband" how often do you pray! Happiness comes from God!

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    2. Personally I admire single women who are happy. But these days when happiness is a crime people would find excuses to keep you sad, even marriage and dating. Forget all that Jare. I admire the lady, you can never find the right man because he is up in the tower locked away... However "your creator will be your husband" how often do you pray! Happiness comes from God!

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  35. Dear poster, please forget those that are insulting you. I actually needed that because my relationship just ended not so peacefully though but I just realised that I ignored the warning signs.....sigh of relief

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  36. Thanks for giving hope to the hopeless... *winks*
    We all need hope!

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  37. Thanks for giving hope to the hopeless... *winks*
    We all need hope!

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