Are you one of those who say always ''Jesus fix it''?
JESUS FIXED IT AFTER THE HEART BREAK
As a single Christian woman who desires marriage, I can say hands down that nothing was more frustrating to me than getting bad advice from people who didn’t understand my situation. “Stop wanting marriage and it will come to you”. “Just be happy God gave you the gift of singleness”He would also bring marriage towards you ..
JESUS FIXED IT AFTER THE HEART BREAK
As a single Christian woman who desires marriage, I can say hands down that nothing was more frustrating to me than getting bad advice from people who didn’t understand my situation. “Stop wanting marriage and it will come to you”. “Just be happy God gave you the gift of singleness”He would also bring marriage towards you ..
Well i am an ardent Bv,I hope this chronicles helps soothen the heart.....
I met my man (x) via Facebook 3years ago,we became friends and I was in a relationship then,so I went to see my ex(ose)on my birthday only to find a sex tape he had with this lady he called his P.A on his phone while he was Sleeping,I did snoop lol,was devasted and thought life was over ,cause I loved him so much....
So this Mr(x) of mine called as usual,because we were just friends then,so I told him the way I felt after the incident,he comforted me severely with series of phone calls and sms.
Then we saw while in came back to Nigeria,we had a lot of time together,and he kept telling me to get closer to God and asked me out,I reluctantly accepted,I never knew God had his plans,so after several meetings on his arrival to Nigeria,he engaged me and also has done my papers to go stay with him in UK after our wedding preparations by the Grace of God in October.
(those who would ask if I did a proper investigation because he's abroad,yes I did,including my uncle's in the UK and male friends who called in to say"seems like your guy is a pastor because his always in church or at work)
He encourages me a lot in my prayer life,and he has always been a father figure in my life,I just want those ladies scared and troubled not to worry,as long as you trust and base your foundation of your relationship on Christ,Everything would work out perfectly for your good...
Praise God!
I met my man (x) via Facebook 3years ago,we became friends and I was in a relationship then,so I went to see my ex(ose)on my birthday only to find a sex tape he had with this lady he called his P.A on his phone while he was Sleeping,I did snoop lol,was devasted and thought life was over ,cause I loved him so much....
So this Mr(x) of mine called as usual,because we were just friends then,so I told him the way I felt after the incident,he comforted me severely with series of phone calls and sms.
Then we saw while in came back to Nigeria,we had a lot of time together,and he kept telling me to get closer to God and asked me out,I reluctantly accepted,I never knew God had his plans,so after several meetings on his arrival to Nigeria,he engaged me and also has done my papers to go stay with him in UK after our wedding preparations by the Grace of God in October.
(those who would ask if I did a proper investigation because he's abroad,yes I did,including my uncle's in the UK and male friends who called in to say"seems like your guy is a pastor because his always in church or at work)
He encourages me a lot in my prayer life,and he has always been a father figure in my life,I just want those ladies scared and troubled not to worry,as long as you trust and base your foundation of your relationship on Christ,Everything would work out perfectly for your good...
Praise God!
I don't understand
ReplyDeleteMy dear...the struggle to send in chronicle is real
DeleteLmao @ praise God!
DeletePoster, more details of how the heartbreak playes out would have made this an interesting read than this!
Congrats on ur upcoming wedding
Hmmmmm
DeleteThis one no suppose follow 4 chronicle of hope abeg!
Chronicle of hope should have 2 do with hopeless situation that God turned around!
Stella, is like your chronicle of hope inbox is empty!
Happy 4 u shall
Me neither
DeleteGod bless you dear poster, your testimony is very encouraging. Drawing closer to God is the surest answer always.
DeleteLa Katie, you normally don't understand things like this, so it's really not surprising
As in eh....I kept hoping to see where it'll finally make sense but for where?
DeleteI also dont understand. Is she trying to say that being single is a hopeless situation cos I dont see anything in this advice that people were giving her. ( stop wanting marriage and it will come to you”. “Just be happy God gave you the gift of singleness”He would also bring marriage towards you ..). Forgive me but your aversion to that statement makes you seem desperate.
DeleteUna get bad mouth sha
DeleteWhat else do u want to read?
She is in a better relationship heading to marriage soon
Congrats dear,God will perfect everything
Congratulations to you Pastor Mrs to be, may God answer all our heart requests too.
ReplyDeleteHappy sunday Blog family.
*Larry was here*
Torr!!
ReplyDeleteWe bless the Lord.
Amin!
ReplyDeleteTo those that say "Jesus fix it" => EMJAY lol.
ReplyDeleteMay ur blessing be permanent ! Amen..
*smiling* I love LOVE stories. Dear poster, may d Lord perfect all dt concerns u n leboo. Amen.
ReplyDeleteCongrats.
ReplyDeleteSo happy for you
ReplyDeleteOK. Noted.
ReplyDeleteI thank God you mentioned having Christ as the foundation of your relationship. You almost confused me when you said you 'spent a lot of time with him'. May God keep your home safe from every attacks of the enemy, Amen.
ReplyDeleteOk
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmm..... wishing you the very best my dear.
ReplyDeleteHML in advance
Hmmmmmm,wish I had more to comment
ReplyDeleteThank God for you. i tap into your blessings and so shall God give me testimony soon. Amen
ReplyDeleteYou don't know if this guy is a psycho you are tapping
DeleteYea I tap into this blessing nd testimony, soon God will certain wipe away all my tears nd bless me with a man that will adore me. Amen.
ReplyDeleteGet busy eh Nne. Singlehood is not a disease.
DeleteIs chronicle of hope all abt MARRIAGE alone?
ReplyDeleteIs 'man' d only struggle in dis life.
Is dia no oda problems ppl av to deal with besides a Nigerian man.
After dis marriage do u av oda goals?
Cant chronicles of hope be abt
Overcoming addictions?
Success stories?
Finding fulfilment?
Etc.
Madam Stella, try and be balancing dese tins na.
STFU
DeleteChop kiss for this comment
Deletesend your own shebi she posts whst she gets abi I dey painnn you goor. take a chill pill and be hopeful nne
DeleteI thought I was the only one whose opinion about this is slightly different. We now see peaceful marriages as chronicles of hope as if marriage originally wasn't designed by God to be peaceful and beautiful. Life struggles are way more than that.
DeleteShebi it is what they send in she will post. I also get tired of the many man marriage stories, but then again, have you ever sent yours in? Remember that of yesterday was neither man nor marriage.
DeleteI tire. Just imagine what I just read. Everything na chronicle for this blog.. mscheeew
DeleteWell, to parts of your question, we've once read a Chronicle of Hope that was about how someone was healed miraculously. So to the rest of your questions, I gat no answer to them.
Delete*Larry was here*
Guess u haven't been reading well!
DeleteIf am correct, there was one a successful surgery yesterday or last week. Go check!
Funny enough, the one with man matter na him swt women pass cos it's their major headache
Thank you for this comment
DeleteIBO boi, tell that to ur biological mother.
DeleteLA effizy, I Neva marry, n wen I do, it won't enter any chronicle IJN lol.
My dear...as if you read my mind. her entire blog is just about marriage and relationships. I get she's married with kids and allz but she shud stop feeding us with all dese marriage talks. There's more to life than being MARRIED!!!
DeleteNaija women do not generally aspire to anything else but Mrs so you won't see them sending in other things.
DeleteThank God for you!!!!
ReplyDeleteAmen! God never fail! Just trust him
ReplyDeleteSweet and short! God bless your marriage in advance.
ReplyDeleteThis one too follow for hope chronicles???
ReplyDeleteThank God for u.
Una fit kill me if una want.
Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki
DeleteI have checked my mail, but it's not there. Pls try re-sending again, you can also send to my yahoo mail, with d same name. Tanx
DeleteNne eh...This kain chronicle of hope just tire me bike. adongerit
DeleteNonsensical chronicles.
DeleteIf the Facebook guy worked ur 'papers' to stay with him in his village, would u term it chronicle of hope?
To her, she hit jackpot na. D peak of her achievement. Did you not read that she is going abroad? Praise da Lord!!
DeleteTank God for you, cos it's not of he that runneth or willet but the Lord that shows mercy.
ReplyDeleteHalleluyah
ReplyDeleteThis one follow for chronicles of hope?
ReplyDeleteLike say u dey my mind. Hehehe. Same thing I said.
DeleteHehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
DeleteWetin u know
DeleteHmmmmm, ok o.. hope you dint accept to marry him because he is abroad? Nne shine your eyes o. Your uncle and male friends cant discover things you would from snooping... sleeping in church no mean anything these days. the so called pastors and brothers are worse now. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteSad fellow
DeleteCongrats dear happy for you. When one door closes another open. Never think is over Cos is just the beginning
ReplyDeleteI don't understand this story oo..
ReplyDeleteDo you ever understand anything at all? Do you even understand your name ?
DeleteMe too..im lost
DeleteYou won't understand bcos u were expecting to hear vain things.....
DeleteSame with me. Don't get hope in this chronicle.
DeleteHallelujah
ReplyDeleteTtttt
ReplyDeleteThe potter fixed iT
ReplyDeleteSeen
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you! All the best, may God be with you! In other news, my God has been faithful to me. Yes he has blessed me with my biggest heart desire . Thank you Jesus
ReplyDeleteHallelujah somebody!!!
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ReplyDeletePls. Leave that guy. Don't start what you can't finish. He's a fake ass niga! If you marry him, he'll suffer you both financially and sexually.
DeleteSo you was in a relationship. It ended. You got into another relationship. You are now engaged and hoping to move to the UK.
ReplyDeleteOkay. Cool.
I don't understand your need to write in!? I'm sure many women have been in a relationship that ended and got into another one. Isn't that how it goes!? This isn't hope. This is just normal regular life. It happens all over the world.
Hope we get hope.....Haaaaaa, Eko oni baje. kilode as in whatta gwam. PH pioneered, was classy and trim, Abuja followed with outdoor potluck and peeps condenmed. Eko hyped hyped and even over hyped kpa kpa,,,,their dance fitness was on point but the parry.... e bi like torri get K leg from the pixs delay to the supposed unofficial magnum cruise pics and the tone nwunye korkus take post am. Nyem nti... its like grapevine said all is not well even in the well. Lagos na waaaaa I Swear!!!!
ReplyDeleteBtw, I don't even understand this particular chronicle... scratches head.
ReplyDeletePls,marry him first, and send chronicle after like five years of marriage, this is way too soon abeg,from ur write up,both of u haven't spend enuf time with each other. I call this premature chronicle
ReplyDeleteHallelujah Jesus fixed you singleness!!!!!! Ok noted
ReplyDeleteCan someone explain in a slow manner.
ReplyDeleteBefore one overzealous person will volunteer...I read it okay.
Just don't get it.
XOXO MYSTERY
YOU.... U U... ARE...RRRR.... SLLLLOW....
DeleteGod blessed her with abroad husband.
Deleteok naa. your trap caught better fish. enjoy
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm, anyway happy married life dear. So people still meet through social media in Naija...?
ReplyDeleteThis one is called chronicle of dating
ReplyDeleteStella Sugar! I'll soon send my chronicle of hope to you. I can't wait to share it.
ReplyDeleteMs cheese What nonsense did I just read abeg? Stella, carry time o...hian
ReplyDeleteCongrat
ReplyDeleteLet somebody shout Halleluuuuuyah. Convention begins tomorrow @ Redemption camp.
ReplyDeletei tap into the blessing...."living happily ever after"
ReplyDeleteThank God fr u dear.
ReplyDeleteI tap into the blessing. Awaiting my miracle too.
ReplyDeleteJust be happy, and don't think much of mariage, it will definitely come when you put God first.
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