Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

Gbege!!!
I am lost for words.

STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

WHEN SHE WANTS DIVORCE.....

Dear Stella,

Keep up the good work you are doing. May the good Lord continually bless the fruits of your labour. Amen.

Please pardon my spellings and punctuations in the write up below.

I got married about 11 months ago. Wifey and I are blessed with good jobs with reputable institutions in Nigeria. Presently, we work in different states (But we have till December this year for either of us to be transferred to the other's state as we have both gotten commitments/approval from our Executive Managements for relocation). Furthermore, God just blessed us with a cute little baby.

Before the arrival of the baby, we only see ourselves at least 2 weekends every month. My wife belongs to the team snoop camp and does that anytime we are together (of which I have nothing against as I freely share my fone and social media password/passcodes with her) . She had on many occasion accused me of cheating on her with some contacts on my fone which wasn't true.

Sometimes ago, my wife had called my Sister who is abroad to report to her that she suspects that am cheating on her. My Sister then alerted my mum back home on the same issue and plead with her to find a way of investigating the accusation leveled against me. My mother knowing fully well that I'll co-operate whenever God is involved had arranged with a pastor from her local church to interrogate me. During the debrief session, I confessed to the Man of God that have cheated twice on my wife and they were during my many official assignments outside my state of residence.

 I explained to him that on both occasions I had gone clubbing with my other colleagues and ended up with some club girl in my hotel room. It was more of a fling events as I never exchange contacts with any of the ladies involved. After the confession, I felt terribly disappointed with myself and I promised never to indulge in such habit anymore. 

The pastor encouraged me to open up to my wife and ask for her forgiveness not on the fone but in person. By the following weekend, I acted in accordance with the advice from the Man of God. Confessed everything to my wife explaining to her that I have never cheated with any of the lady she'd suspected but rather had some flings (protected sex) with some club girls that i don't even have their contacts.

 It was after all these that my wife revealed to me how she had instigated the whole thing that happened and that she knew that something was wrong somewhere. I felt embarrassed and at the same time betrayed by my own family members. (the reason being, I know the type of person my wife is. She is the type that finds it difficult to take things out of her memory).

As I speak, my wife had returned her wedding ring back to me citing my infidelity has reasons for her action. She said, my confessions were not genuine but rather born out of coercion. That I would not have confessed if I had not being caught. (But come to think of it, was i really caught?). She reminded me of an event that happened while we were dating. How she had cheated on me once with her Ex and how she confessed everything to me without being caught or coerced to do so. 

To make matter worse, She called her boss in my presence to cancel her relocation to the state where I work and she does not tell me stuff anymore. In fact, she now expend her time and energy in the care of our baby. We just returned from some maternity tourism abroad, and my wife has left my place to her parents' place to take care of our baby until she will resume work in January, 2016.

Stella and Bv's,please what can I do to win back her trust and Love?

*Deep sigh*

For the first time,I am tongue tied on what to say concerning a narrative.

Maybe you should give her some time and involve your family since she used them to nail you.

I am lost for words.....

Let me send you a hug first...