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Monday, January 25, 2016

Bad Parenting....





























When did you really,honestly love your child last?Oh dont get me wrong,I am working on being a better parent as well....God helps us all!



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89 comments:

  1. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:02

    This is an eye opener

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    1. The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog25 January 2016 at 12:14

      Yesooo eye opener. I learnt a lot

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    2. Cynhams Cakes, Abuja. Home delivery 0703479494725 January 2016 at 12:15

      Nice one Stella. I really want my kids to see me as their friend, not just their mummy.
      Thanks for sharing.

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    3. Audrey25 January 2016 at 12:47

      Really an eye opener. One thing I never liked growing up is being compared to others, it breaks one. I pray to be a good mum/parent some day.

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    4. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 13:03

      This is all bullocks! So all Nigerian parents are bad? Make oyibo go siddon with their spoilt selfish brats!

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    5. Unknown25 January 2016 at 13:15

      Great

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    6. Mosiwomeka25 January 2016 at 13:28

      God help us o

      I pray we be the best we can be, scold them when they need to be scolded, hug them when the need arises, spank them when the need arises, correct them when due, support them when needed and all.
      God help me be the best mum to my kids. Amen.
      It's going to be well.

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  2. One trillion25 January 2016 at 12:03

    End time parenting

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  3. Emjay25 January 2016 at 12:06

    Some na lie joor, nice1 all d same.

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    1. young FOREVER25 January 2016 at 12:15

      None is a lie Emjay,

      No 9 nd 10 though,I van see a bit of myself there.God,help me esp wt my teenage children

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    2. mk25 January 2016 at 13:07

      I totally love this..... Learnt a lot. God bless stella

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    3. Tessbaby25 January 2016 at 16:38

      Yes Emjay ure right. Some nor just join.

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  4. POSH Baby25 January 2016 at 12:08

    Wow ... Nice one!

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    1. Unknown25 January 2016 at 15:10

      Wowww!thanks Stella,i love this..May God help me to be the best mum to my daughter and more to come...

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  5. The General's Wife25 January 2016 at 12:08

    Very informative!Very enlightening!
    Picked up a few.

    All hail Mothers in the house!
    God is our strength!

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    1. Lillysimple25 January 2016 at 12:42

      I know the General isn't flogging the children cos me know say Officers can be so discipline

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    2. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:55

      Fathers nko

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    3. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 13:18

      This one will die before The General finishes the flogging.

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    4. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 25 January 2016 at 13:36

      @ lily simple, who still flogs children?

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  6. STARRY LARRY25 January 2016 at 12:08

    Waooo I love this




    *Larry was here*

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  7. Mrs Kennedy25 January 2016 at 12:09

    I'm so guilty of no4,may God help me.

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  8. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:09

    Nice one Stella, learnt new things. Tnx

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  9. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 12:10

    una never hear say video vixen don deliver baby number two for wizkid abi? ....off to IG

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    1. Mrs Kennedy25 January 2016 at 12:57

      I just saw it oo!! Chei wizzy wit him globetrotting blokos..

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    2. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 13:20

      Natalie Nunn's friend did name her half-Nigerian baby Ayodeji Balogun Jnr. You are current.Shame to Tania Omotayo her boo has a boo.

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    3. ZIONA25 January 2016 at 13:26

      Really, spill abeg.I luv amebo served fresh hot

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    4. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 21:25

      Leave people life alone...amebo wetin tania do u??
      What about u?how your life be.
      Na to dey stalk people up and down

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  10. Suzie25 January 2016 at 12:12

    Noted! tnks
    its not easy .....but with God it is

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  11. SWAG LAFRESH 25 January 2016 at 12:13

    Most of them are true

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  12. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:15

    Nice one. Allow a child to make the necessary mistake as every other child out there. Don't do them the disservice of correcting everything.. that dragging on the ear gives me chill anytime I see an adult or parent doing that to any child. I know I will be a good parent insha Allah.

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  13. Caseysparx25 January 2016 at 12:15

    This is Parenting according to Americans

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    1. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 13:18

      Gbam!
      Rubbish talk!
      Children lie sometimes because they don't want to be punished or scolded. Does that mean we should not rebuke them for doing wrong? So, if you want to scold a child, you do it secretly or in privacy, because you don't want others to hear, how then will other children learn to avoid the same error?

      Don't compare? Then how did role models come about? Don't we want our kids to Emulate good character and achievers?

      O! Please, there are many obstacles you have to remove from your children always ! You don't give a child hot yam on his palm without blowing it to cool first because you want to let them know how 'hot' life is! If that obstacle will cause a long life lasting effect, I will demolish it patapata!

      Those rules up there will only end up producing one hell of a spoilt brat!

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    2. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 14:16

      One million likes for this comment.

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    3. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 15:48

      Thank you anon 13:18. No wonder one whitey will just wake up and go on a killing spree,cos is mum gave him cereal for breakfast instead of toast. Smh

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    4. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 19:51

      Ignorance is bliss Jesus Christ never compared. Comparison breed envy in the Cain and Abel saga. If you don't understand shame never solves a problem. Correct in love like you wanted. Firm statement and you lower yourself to their height. Later on discuss with them y you punished them.
      Go to an office and c how an ethnic minority trains another ethnic minority. Change your ways

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    5. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 19:51

      Ignorance is bliss Jesus Christ never compared. Comparison breed envy in the Cain and Abel saga. If you don't understand shame never solves a problem. Correct in love like you wanted. Firm statement and you lower yourself to their height. Later on discuss with them y you punished them.
      Go to an office and c how an ethnic minority trains another ethnic minority. Change your ways

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  14. The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog25 January 2016 at 12:15

    Nice one to be a mother is not a day job although am enjoying it but walahi its nt easy at all.

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  15. Linda ikeji25 January 2016 at 12:17

    Good to know

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  16. Iphie dearie25 January 2016 at 12:21

    There are a few I do not agree with.

    Got some tips the first time I saw this.. We are a work in progress.

    Not easy.

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  17. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:22

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    Niceone... Learnt something new today though no doubt.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  18. original glow,maintenance,lightening,whitening and correcting cream from Switzerland.0812037480725 January 2016 at 12:23

    Some are cool

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  19. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:27

    Nice

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  20. Yori Yori Princess25 January 2016 at 12:31

    All these are for oyibo children. Nija children are better

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  21. Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady25 January 2016 at 12:32

    Not a parent yet but some of dem wud definitely help wen d time comes.

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  22. Ice Queen25 January 2016 at 12:35

    Okay I will keep that mind

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  23. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 12:36

    nice One

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  24. KRAZY MAMA.....25 January 2016 at 12:41

    I'm happy that I can proudly say I'm my children's best friend! We learn everyday, God please make us better parents to our children.

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  25. Unknown25 January 2016 at 12:44

    True..nice..but i don't agree with one Dou..punish ur child in front of siblings so they learn from it but not in,front of strangers as they will laugh at him or mock him afterwards..

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  26. Lillysimple25 January 2016 at 12:45

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    1. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 12:50

      JESUS HAVE MERCY. you are a graduate? Chimoooooooo!

      Nne please go back to your Secondary school and sue your teachers.

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    2. Dika25 January 2016 at 13:54

      Yepa!!What is this one writing?
      Anon don't mind her,she really needs to go for a refund of her school fees.

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    3. Unknown25 January 2016 at 14:32

      Why evils? Anonymous! Lol

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    4. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 14:50

      He no go better for your lecturers

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    5. Lillysimple25 January 2016 at 15:52

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    6. Lillysimple25 January 2016 at 16:41

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    7. Quiksilver25 January 2016 at 17:08

      Kikikikiki...Lilly, this no be proof-reading matter o, hahahaha
      OMG

      Hahahahahahaha

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    8. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 18:39

      Even after proof reading, your comment still has mistakes. Like the anon said, go back to secondary school and sue your teachers. Graduate oshi!

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    9. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 21:28

      Haha haha prof lily simple.
      U are the type of fool that would remain a fool fever be coz u are not ready to learn.

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    10. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 21:28

      A fool forever*

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    11. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 21:29

      It is preview @lily.
      Leave blog alone and get an education the one u got is fake I tell u they deceived u.

      U know u jobless...u can't even write an application with the way u write except someone copied it for u.

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    12. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 21:30

      Hahaha abeg Stella this must make Saturday laughs abeg.

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    13. Anonymous26 January 2016 at 11:55

      Madam,so you mean primary through secondary school punctuation was never taught?

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    14. Anonymous26 January 2016 at 12:02

      Nde lots of work to do.2016 just started,my sister take advice now.

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    15. Lillysimple31 January 2016 at 09:43

      Hehehehehehhehehehh Stell, why didn't u post this on Saturday laughs, today is Sunday, Oya sharp sharp
      that's d reason, for the gbagbaun
      Heheheheheh laughing with my friend here
      Now I have Dika, k _ oval k _ and Quiksilver to watch, this 2016
      Heheheheheh yash opening
      Ghuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

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  27. Bravitudenaturals25 January 2016 at 12:46

    Naija mothers sabi shout ehn yet you have no choice than to come out strong.

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  28. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 25 January 2016 at 12:48

    Parents in the house, I hail una!
    Not easy being a parent, most esp a mom.
    I hail all single mums in the house too..carrying the responsibilities meant for two on one shoulders.

    Just being around my lil cousin for the past one month, my patience is already running thin..lol

    We'll cross that bridge when we get there..

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  29. Omonigho25 January 2016 at 12:52

    Hmmmmmm...
    Very educating.
    Keeping dem in my archive, to be used when the time comes. *SooninJesusnameAmen*

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  30. Miss Ess25 January 2016 at 12:54

    Not all o, ehen

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  31. Cynthia Iyede25 January 2016 at 13:02

    I'm so enlightened. *Kneels down, praying please Lord I also want my own kids too in a good union* I love kidsssss. They are the 'koko' achievement in marriage. MO abeg.

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  32. somebody25 January 2016 at 13:08

    thanks for the information

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  33. vicky j25 January 2016 at 13:11

    hmm, this is deep. Thanks Stella, we are all learning everyday. This post is really an eye opener for me. Thanks.

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  34. sholly pizzle25 January 2016 at 13:24

    This is one of the reasons I love ds blog...stella thanks,blogs sudnt be only for gossips,i learn new things from and am grateful to God that am alive and not ignorant of things that will be useful for me and my twin boys...

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  35. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 13:46

    My daughter is the most (should I say playful or rascal) baby I have seen in my life! She is 18months old. She laughs a lot but the way she smacks her mates in creche sure needs attention.
    I noticed also the number 6 up there was something she had and I gave her a different hand. My husband thinks she is just being a baby!how dare you release air from that part of ur body. The way she will say "hmmmmm", haba! *covers face* guess she learnt that from me. I used to do it anytime I am changing her diapers.
    I wouldn't talk about how many broken wares, spoilt phones or is it all my sockets I had to cover with tapes, my Bible, my good clothes she turned to rags, I would look away one min and she already poured water she refused me to give her and then any cloth close by turns to rag.
    One time, she made me walk to the altar in church to go get her back! She wanted to walk and run round the church screaming!... hey! Did my mother go thru these?. I am a very quiet woman. Enough of the long gist. She has done more. Still my love forever!

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    1. Iphie dearie25 January 2016 at 15:08

      Quite the feisty one.

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    2. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 16:34

      Pls dear dnt eva use dat word up dia (rascal to describe ur dota) if nt she'l grow up blvn she z one. N u won't kno hw bad d word z until sm1 uses it to describe her, n dey'l only do so coz u use d word on her. She z jst being a normal healthy child wt excess energy.

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    3. Tetrina25 January 2016 at 18:32

      Hahahahah...my son loves to run to the altar too and just stands there smiling! The ushers keep bringing him back to me.
      He's also 18months and has your girl's kind of energy. He knows how to turn on the washing machine, sticks one sock in, turns it on and walks away feeling like he has achieved something. He says the ABC to Z and recognises the alphabets.1 to 10 is his daily chant...lol
      Leave your daughter, she's only an active child and also unfortunately heading to the terrible two's but I can assure you, she is going to be one confident young lady!
      It's frustrating to see a timid child so, let her explore, correct her in love and watch her confidence soar!

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    4. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 21:34

      Spare the rod And Spoil The Child Is What I Can Tel U. U don't seems like u smack her at all.

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  36. Funmi O.25 January 2016 at 14:00

    God help me. I want to be a friend to my son.

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  37. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 14:00

    Stella, thanks for these

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  38. Yummy Mummy25 January 2016 at 15:06

    Very very informative stella...i love your blog

    I am a great mommy
    People tell me that all the time
    My children are so well mannered
    I added some to my knowledge
    We all learn everyday
    Love you stella...muahhhh

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  39. Anonymous25 January 2016 at 20:00

    In my family they like to compare. I was just thinking about it. Coz God has ministered to me abt a few of them. So am trying to focus on my correction. But how will I tell my family the list above. To cime to this blog they will never. I leave all to God. Thanks Stella for sharing.

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