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LOVE AND LIES...

Dear Stella,

Good day and thanks for giving us this beautiful unique platform. 

I participated in s and m early last year, 

Added over 15 ladies, after presentation and sharing of pictures, 

I deleted 12 and kept 3, lets call them A, B, C.

A is 25, B is 30 and C is 30 and they are all working, good looking and free with me, 

A only calls or ping me when she needs help, ordinarily, she won't

B and C checks on me and have never asked for anything. 

After 2 months which was ard June 2015, I pulled a stunt that I was sick,

A called once and didn't again, after 4 days, I called her, and asked why she didn't check on me ,

She said she forgot that I was sick. I stopped calling her and after a week, she asked me for some cash, I told her no, she deleted me after 2 days.

B called severally and visited on the 3rd day, but she had body odour, I couldn't just control how I feel, I had to ask her if she knows, she said yes and I tried to know how far she has gone looking for help, but she was no longer free with me and after awhile she deleted and blocked my numbers.

C called through out the period but visited on Saturday morning because her job couldn't give her time. 

She is very beautiful more than in her pictures, brought food items, cooked a wonderful stew and very delicious okro soup.

I was smitten, I couldn't control it, one thing led to the other we made love till in the evening. 

Stella, this is the first time I felt wanted by someone, she gave me all I have been dreaming of.

I have to do all to please and keep her, on the 24 of December 2015, I proposed to her in front of my friends after xmas midnight service. She cried all through, collected the ring but whispered in my ears that she won't marry but she had to accept the ring to avoid embarrassing me.

Stella, you can imagine how I felt, broken, destabilized and confused, so I discharged friends and we left, it was silence all through, dropped her off and she indeed left the ring in my car.

I cried like a baby, I didn't come out until 29th December. 

I called her to meet me at a fast food joint. I asked her questions. 

Because nothing is making sense to me, I knew she loves me, wants me, enjoys sex with me, soo what is the problem? 

She wasn't talking, so I shouted , she was shocked and asked that we go home and talk.Stella, all she did at home was to cry, I had to steal her phone and dropped her off.

I checked all her mails and messages, I found out, she was divorced with 2kids, her best friend was advising her to tell me but she said, she won't because she knew the relationship will end there.

This broke my heart sincerely stella,

I saw the pictures of her kids, they are very cute. 

She had told me they are her sis kids but they are hers.

And yes, had it been, she told me, I won't date her.

But right now, she is my best, the world seems empty without her.

I am Still with her phone but Its off now and she has not called me to ask for her phone or checked on me.

Stella, I love this woman, she is very beautiful, nothing shows that she has been pregnant before, talk more 2 kids, she has a good heart, great cook but I don't know how my mum will about this according to what I found out, her ex was a very violent.

What do I do Stella, I'm 34, a Yoruba. 

She is 30, igbo.

Who has been through this before? 

I guess being rejected by men because of her status forced her to lie and now she is embarrassed by her lies.If you love her,please go to her and tell her it is okay.What has your mum got to do with this?Abeg forget her jor!

Go and get your woman and ask her to tell you the truth about everything,she has probably been telling one lie to cover another.Marrying a woman who has kids is cool and not a crime but one has to know what one is going into....

Babe if you are reading this,please stop the lies and let any man who wants you see you for who you truly are okay?

I wish you both the best!

In Other news,those of you whose Chronicles are pending should be patient,they will come up soon,just keep checking dears!