Former governor of Imo State Ikedi Ohakim's daughter who is currently breastfeeding her baby,had this to share on her IG.
They can only look and frown but they cant whip your boobs back inside.....And then some of these people do not know these things because it is not their culture..Teach them....
If they look too much,smile at them and tell them ''this is how babies eat where i come from''!
Attention seeking twins have reached this blogs..... abeg make them go sitdown. They want to be stars by force by fire
ReplyDeleteWhy dont they Spend their time helping EFCC refund what their father took
See painment.
DeletePlease look for honey & lick to cool your hot temp..Lol.
Don't mind them. They won't let sum1 rest with their yeye vlog
DeleteThey are so annoying......
DeleteYou guys stfu.. Did she beg Stella to feature her.. She only aired her opinion and u are here killing yourselves being hateful..
DeleteLmao.... e go better
DeleteIf you like, stare well well. In fact, I breast fed my baby in front of the priest! Na me get my boobs and pikin. I no go Form Oyinbo sotey pikin go dey hungry
DeleteChai the hate is so real, why do you go visit their vlogs in the first instance Hian, jealousy jealousy , leave them and their fans Biko
DeleteAwwwwww...
ReplyDeleteThis is beautiful!...
It's only good mothers that would understand this...
Yes I did it during my time and I will still do it over and over again!...
That's what I used in soothing them when we are out!....
Wow!! @ Queen so there's element of softness in you?????? Wow!!!! I'm over impressed. Ife Adi ka nwaa ooo! I so agree with you on this!
DeleteTeam exclusive
DeleteI breastfeed my baby anywhere anyday and anytime
Sorry but when I become a mum there's absolutely nowhere I cannot breastfeed my baby.
ReplyDeleteI think what some people frown at is the way some women do it irritatingly.
Whatever...just fill your child's tummy. You can also use a kerchief to cover the upper part of your breast if you feel like. Dazall!
ReplyDeleteDid it too but wen in church or some functions ,hubby always want me to go to d car or cover wt handkerchief
DeleteGbam!
DeleteProudly
ReplyDeleteIt's a normal thing
DeleteAbeg e don do! So much of a social media freak isn't good ! Mtchew!
DeleteI like d other twin !
#mindset not hate !
Only perverts get disturbed by a breastfeeding mum in public, if d boobs turn u on, get out n respect urself. Or get her a BF cover.
ReplyDeletespot on.i remember one day i went to the mkt wit my baby on my back,couldnt leave her in the car alone,she started crying seriously and d mkt women were justing looking at me,i just entered one woman's shed and feed my baby jare.no time.anybody dat wants to die should go and jump from d bridge
DeleteOk o,#bringoutyourboobs
DeleteMy own question is ds.Is it very good good to just whip out d breast n give to a baby just like that? I rem my mum telling me that no matter where a woman is or how hungry the baby is she should always "wash" the breast before giving to the child;to mk the nipple clean for sucking and to cool down the temperature of the breast milk.
ReplyDeleteIn addition she said that wn a child sucks,d first milk DT comes out for something is literally water n so a baby should be allowed to suck one breast for a relatively long time dt its because of this that women say that babies on exclusive breastfeeding are not always full.
Also said DT no matter how heavy the other breast is,let the child empty one before giving him the other
Lol. U go wash tire. Every mother asks u to wash, but do they even adhere to that? And the kids don't fall ill wash or not
DeleteLWKM
DeleteNne, Ishi nnini?
D Gurl ur mom is right.
DeleteBut where I can't use water,say in church or in a moving vehicle,I use a small flannel,dab it with water and clean off before the baby sucks.
D gurl, a child can NEVER b able to empty a breast o
DeleteJust allow d child suck d first well b4 given him d other
@ D Gurl, lol! Your mom is very very very correct but my dear when and if you become a mom, you will hardly have time to wash boobs before baby suckle. No time @all. Me I give my baby boobs on demand Ooo wherever we dey! I just use handkerchief to cover the exposed part if I'm not wearing my nursing bra.
DeleteAbegi. How many men use kerchief to cover their 'somtin' when they want to pee anywhere anyhow? Abeg free our pikins o jare
DeleteShe seems to be gifted in terms of ....
ReplyDeleteJames James James!!!!!?
DeleteHmmmmmm!!!!.
As in,she jus want make we notice d tin
DeleteGbam..... Support! !
ReplyDeleteMy child .... my breast
Lol....@This how we do it where I come from
Lol @ This is how babies eat where I come from.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha Stella.
DeleteI tell you that line made me laugh.
Though I've not had any reason to breastfeed in public yet; I will sha try as much as possible to hide small oo.
I'm shy like that.
If she likes she can display the whole breasts for all to see. These days you carry a shawl or pashmina or something, throwit over your shoulders and kapish. A lot of women do it like that. Or maybe she can go to church and sit in front of the pastor and defend the reason why you gotta bring it all out to give your pikin food. Even some churches now have a section for nursing mothers.
ReplyDeleteGbam...,, I also breast feed in public but I just cover my boobs with a shawl or light material. U don't need to expose everything for u to breast feed. U can cover u a little,or u go to a corner in d auditorium and privately feed ur baby. Breastfeeding is a special time btw mothers and babies.
DeleteSuddenly everyone has an opinion. Even these ones kwa.
ReplyDeleteSpot on Ada.
ReplyDelete#mybreastmybaby.
Lmao! @this is how babies eat where I come from...hahaha
ReplyDeleteIf you're comfortable breastfeeding in public,go ahead, if you're not,don't.
I wouldn't feel comfortable breastfeeding in a public place. So, it's all about you.
Lol, who cares abeg do what u are comfortable with.
ReplyDeleteNot a mum. But i know when your baby is hungry,you can't leave him to starve. But this girl is glowing.more beautiful than when she was single. Motherhood really rocks!!
ReplyDeleteWhen feeding your baby, if you are shy, cover yourself. If you are bold no need to cover just bring it out. But our women nowadays are shy to breastfeed their babies in public.
ReplyDeleteSo Ada next time, cover up and dont show the world your breast.
I was on a public transport with this lady with a baby of 4/5 months old.
ReplyDeleteWe were traveling from Lagos to Ekiti.
The child was all cranky and uneasy. She tried feeding him with a feeder. But the child would have none of that. He kept dragging her shirt and eventually started crying and on top of his voice too.
Which kind wahala be this? All attention was drawn to them. Everyone was concern for her and her child. She kept forcing the bottle on the poor child before one matron-looking woman voiced out in anger, see gbege! "what is wrong with you children of nowadays, eh. You don't have milk in your breast abi? Are you the mother of this child?" she yelled.
She shamefully brought out her breast to feed her child and people started murmuring and cursing..."So you can bring out your breast eventually...na gold? mtchwwww. Oniranu oshi, awon omo abi ipabe"
I just dey laugh for my seat...
Hahahahaha! Her 'bress' na gold?
DeleteHaaahaaahaaahaaa!!! I can so relate to this. Funny
DeleteLol.
DeleteThe Era of Zoom is out! Yasss! Now that's how u end a Season finale... #The Flash
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
Why are you always off point dear?
DeleteI got discourage at season 1, episode 20. I'm regretting why I stopped. R u sure it's interesting. Give me a glimpse of what happened plz. Did it end just like the paper predicted?
DeleteJasmine! Paper? Wow lol pls continue, its worth every mb, and no Dat paper didn't follow he eventually killed reverse flash through Iris' bf who's his ancestor,but Zoom was a bigger and badder 'bozz'lol, so my dear continue and be wowed!
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
Really? I got tired of it after flash saw the future in the 'paper'. But Iris married him abi?
DeleteWell not really but eventually she fell in love with him but now he needs to find inner peace so he left her the story is long sha
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
As long as it makes you happy Ada ride on.
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong about this but a little, neat handkerchief should at least be used to cover the upper part of the breast.
ReplyDeleteall join, its not their thing so what do u expect, if dem look you too much , just smile back at them . you people should not be givin Nigerians name everywhere you go like MTN
ReplyDeleteWhatever that rocks her boat.
ReplyDeleteI alwaz cover my boobs with a towel whenever breastfeeding. I'll never be caught showing my something to the public view. Never, even at home when I have visitors.
ReplyDeleteOur little Angels can be impatient atimes. Motherhood rocks. I breastfeed in the church atimes but codedly.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them Ada.
Does your breast stop being private just because you want to feed your baby? Use an hanky next time
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIf you can eat gala or biscuits on the street without feeling shy
ReplyDeleteThen please, let babies eat their meals in public without guilt,
Haba!
Abegiii it's okay.
ReplyDeleteWe've heard this before, Gisele Bunchen has done dis type of rant before.
You are not the 1st woman to give birth and breast feed in public.
Instead of making people stare, I use to use Nursing cloth that you tie around ur neck like pinafore, ur baby in underneath. No one needs to see ur boobs. Dis is 2016 abeg.
You live in Europe, go get one. Even mother care shops in Lagos sells.
Gbam!!!!!
DeleteShe kuku nor bring the tori come here na our people go bring the gist come
DeleteDo what makes you happy Ada, there is nothing wrong with it at all.
ReplyDeleteYou look good with your child.
Every mallam with him kettle. Do what is comfortable for u and ur baby.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I don't know if I would be able to whip out my sumptuous boobs to breastfeed my baby in public.
ReplyDeleteWell, I don't have a child yet so I don't know yet.
But then again, if you are comfortable doing it, then do it.
If it would stop your child from screaming, please hurriedly whip out that ara.
I remember these girls back in school. FGGC Owerri. I was like in Jss2, they were in SS3. Black beauties.
I was like u before Motherhood set it.
DeleteBut believe me baby,when that time comes,you wil understand. And in understanding comes the "whipping out of them bobbies" 😂😂😂
Lol.
DeleteMy dear, what do I know.
I won't even have to "whip" out sef cuz my boobies are small biko. Na to just raise shirt. Lol.
When the baby starts crying in public and u are confused, say the baby is tied to ur back, u won't know when you'll just fling the breast back over ur shoulder for baby to suck. "Motherhood with Ibe". Ehehe
DeleteSome people just get uneasy with moms nursing their babies in public. I saw this video on Youtube a few weeks ago and a guy totally went off on a mom nursing her baby on the train, the guy just thought it was the wrong thing to do even though the lady used one of those covers.
ReplyDeleteLeft to me, I'll say do it in a private area.
LOL
ReplyDeleteI am LOLing cos I remember my biggest Breast-feeding shaming.
My baby was about 5 months old and I had gone with Some Fam and Friends to this Restaurant,Harverster's or something like that around Enfield.
My baby as usual was loose on my bobbies and wouldn't let up.I had gone like 4 times to the Baby Room to breastfeed her.I wasn't enjoying the food and d flowing gists and after a while ,I just said "abeg let me feed her here" LOL
Like ur baby,mine doesn't like breastfeeding covers as well.So I proceeded to breastfeed her and a white grumpy white woman asked me "Is that a Pacifier" She was referring to my Bobby. I was stunned! Shocked!den embarrassment set in. But I maintained my cool. But I quickly got support from the people around me and I vowed no one would ever make me feel bad about something beautiful. Never again!
As a new Mom,u wil get a dose of this,may even get worse treatment on bD days.Though I doubt it,as awareness is bn created about breastfeeding in public places and people are becoming more accomodating. But hey! If it gets worse,don't sweat it dear! Learn to ignore the stares and d cold looks. And judging by ur body language up there,u are doing just fine. LOL
So back to the story,when I had my first baby some 8 years ago,I was prepared for breast feeding,I had my breastfeeding covers,my flannels and all. I wore clothes that made breastfeeding easy and comfy.You see,as a single lady, I didn't really dig Brestfeeding in public so I got ready. But my baby,all my babies sha weren't ready. LOL.They wanted their milk and they wanted it there and then! My first daughter,though a pure joy,was a very demanding baby when it comes to Food and her breast milk.she just doesn't joke with food.And one would think she only survived on breast milk.NO! She was eating all the food we adults eat. She loved her Heinz Cereals and she loved her Okro soup with plenty smoked fish. She wants Breastmilk,she wants it NOW! People around wondered how I will wean her off Breastmilk! We all tot it wasn't possible!When she was nearly 2 years,I decided to wean her and my Mom had to come just for that. But suprisingly she didn't put up much fight.She just cried that night and d next and dat was it.
We may be in,say Church and she wants it,she gives u small sign at first and u are trying to pacify her with coos and giggling and all. Then She does her usual " hee hee" and before u know it,she is screaming and screaming. And I quickly leave the church or a function, wherever it is with my baby screaming and tugging at my clothes.And all eyes will be on me. Kai!
I run safely to the car(which by the way isn't packed near)or a "private" place and feed her.
I had said I wouldn't breast feed in public.But u see,dat was a young single woman talking.
Motherhood thrusts u into stuff u never envisaged. You end up making adjustments,changes and alterations.
So that was how I found myself breastfeeding everywhere! Church,Parties,On d beach.I have Breastfed her while standing on the queue! But what I did was this,I found a way to Breasfeed without whipping out the whole Bobby. LOL
I mastered the act of bringing it out in such a way that per chance there is a spectator,she only sees the tiniest part of my Bobby. LOL
And I focus on my Brestfeeding with all smiles.Oblivious to the stares and the looks.Seriously, I don't care about the stares.Not anymore. They don't bother me in the least. I just focus on my bAby.Touching her hair or her ears.Just Happy and proud I am feeding her.
So Chill! We got this game tight dear. Lol
So what u r saying in Essence is Dat ur titties are rily that of Cathedral Bells? Wow *smackslips* 😍😚
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
All these epistle on top breastfeeding? Na wa .
DeleteNne, you tried o. Inukwa on the queue? Lol.
DeleteI am always embarrassed looking at a woman breast feeding so I wonder why people would be staring!
Mothers rock jare!
Kelvin,shebi you saw a single girl that celebrated her birthday today and refused to smack nada. You only sma...
DeleteHmmmm
Oh boy@TGW,i read everything and you nailed it menn.
What we say on our way to the market is not the same while coming back ooh.
#MotherhoodLessons
I don't even remember what my breastfeeding days were like, as my babies didn't really suck for long and weren't keen on it. After 6 months they are done. Abeg I wan "born again" oh. Eheh
DeleteOK bye
@ TGW I read every till the end and I am a guy but so proud of you @ big realities as no joy leave am
DeleteI don't understand this oyibo people o! They applaud nudists and shame mothers for breastfeeding their babies?? I can't wrap my head around it..
ReplyDeleteHahahaha@Ollie
ReplyDeleteThe way those sumptuous boobs williii come out ehn.
No one hoards boobs like me..but nne,by the time these children showed me "shege" I quickly started respecting myself and whipping it out.
I went and bought me those colourful Muslins so I can cover my boobs stylishly in public...
It seemed my Son likes Mommy's boobs in the open to be able to enjoy himself.
He will raise one leg up,use one hand to yank the Muslin. Chai you see me dragging the cloth with him...
He watches me place it back nicely,and he yanks again. I gave up jare.
Hahahhaahhaha don't mind Ollie baby! Shebi we dey. And when dat time comes Ollie,whenever u whip out ur Bobby, u wil think of TGW 😂😂😂😂
DeleteLol @ raise one leg up, use one hand to yank the muslin.
DeleteGuy na bad guy! Lol.
Come to think of, Men actually suck breasts their entire lives?
Lmao
Copy copy cat!!!.. they want to go viral by force.
ReplyDeleteBut why cant you just use a bfeeding cover? I bfed my son exclusively for 6 mths and thereafter and there was no where o could not bfeed, i just put my cover on and thats it. Very convenient
ReplyDeleteDoesn't work for everyone
DeleteBreastfeeding is a beautiful and wonderful thing but if you are in Rome, try to behave like the Romans. Most of these European countries are not open to seeing women breastfeed in public. It's normal in African countries and nigeria where we come from but on the other hand it's not a norm in many other societies. It makes perfect sense to just be polite enough to follow societal rules especially in a place such as a restaurant where people are eating and could possibly lose their appetites from just seeing your breast exposed. Nobody is saying what she did is a crime but it would have been more appropriate if she had pumped milk and had it handy in a bottle for her baby since she knew they would be heading out to eat
ReplyDeleteStory - my baby refuses bottle! So do u mean she won't eat becos of societal norm
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